If She Tells You These 10 Things (Leave Her IMMEDIATELY FOR YOUR OWN GOOD) - Stoic Life Lessons

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  • @papillonal08
    @papillonal08 2 місяці тому +104

    Invaluable advice, very well said; have experienced many of the same and learned that the bottom line is this: An ending with pain is better than a pain with no end.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +9

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment! Your insight beautifully captures the essence of Stoic Life Lessons. Indeed, embracing an end with pain is often better than enduring a pain with no end. Welcome to our stoic community! We look forward to sharing and learning more together on this journey.

    • @RaulGuzman-jo3nr
      @RaulGuzman-jo3nr 2 місяці тому +2

      U crazy girl I love life and some woman are negative y or have doubts y u women in the world should feel like queen 👸 or princess and love life.... I love this woman but when she told me find another I understood that she was not the same person. Or just unhappy like I told u I had my shit life is good for me no matter what or anything ..... but hers was not that y I dont .....

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      It’s important to recognize when someone’s negativity or doubts are affecting you and to make choices that are best for your well-being. It sounds like you’ve found a positive outlook despite the challenges, which is great! Remember, mutual respect and understanding are crucial in any relationship. What do others think about dealing with negativity in relationships? Let's keep the conversation positive and supportive!

    • @user-dn9uh4fe9t
      @user-dn9uh4fe9t 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, well said, very true

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      @@user-dn9uh4fe9t Thank you for your comment! I'm glad you found the video insightful. Feel free to share your thoughts on other topics too! 😊

  • @RealWise92
    @RealWise92 2 місяці тому +41

    I like a saying I read years ago - "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not in fact just surrounded by arseholes."

    • @highvolumepls
      @highvolumepls 2 місяці тому +2

      😂😅😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Thenogomogo-zo3un
      @Thenogomogo-zo3un 2 місяці тому +1

      Very true

    • @edgardovillacorte7012
      @edgardovillacorte7012 2 місяці тому +2

      True. If sufferers of depression only knew this, 90% of them would be cured without any need for psychiatric and drug treatments😄

    • @Dean-ic6if
      @Dean-ic6if 20 днів тому +1

      ​@edgardovillacorte7012 I just saw a T-Shirt with that quote on it...

  • @mayorb3366
    @mayorb3366 2 місяці тому +55

    1. I don't need a man.
    2. My friends are more important,
    3. You need to change.
    4. I'm not ready for a relationship.
    5. You don't make enough money.
    6. I don't trust you.
    7. I'm too good for you.
    8. I'm not over my ex.
    9. You should be more like my friend's boyfriend.
    10. I can do better than you.
    Not that any of these red flags should need explanation, but 2, 4, 6, and 8 may be honest statements indicating that she's just not ready to put her heart on the line yet.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for sharing this insightful list of red flags. It's important to recognize these signs early in a relationship to avoid potential heartache. I agree that some of these statements, like "I'm not ready for a relationship" or "I don't trust you," might be honest expressions of someone's current emotional state rather than outright red flags. It's crucial to communicate openly and understand the context behind these statements before making any decisions. Relationships should be built on mutual respect and understanding, and recognizing these signs can help us make more informed choices.

    • @LarryGarcia-lz2zb
      @LarryGarcia-lz2zb 2 місяці тому +1

      Those who come from a Large family . . Know , to take the good with the bad . . 🥷 🧟‍♀️ 💃🏻 🕺🏻

    • @classicrocker889
      @classicrocker889 2 місяці тому +1

      NO !!! Number 8 especially is a woman who will CHEAT !!!!!

    • @PhuongLe-wo3ry
      @PhuongLe-wo3ry 2 місяці тому +5

      THANKS 4 SUMMARIZING THE LONG BORING VIDEO 📹 😂

    • @mayorb3366
      @mayorb3366 2 місяці тому +2

      @@PhuongLe-wo3ry No problem. Certainly, the video goes into much higher detail on each point. Just put out the "Cliff's Notes" so people could get the higher points.
      If you don't know what Cliff's Notes are, you're not old.

  • @JacobWashington-fm9jl
    @JacobWashington-fm9jl 2 місяці тому +75

    As soon as one cheats.. it's game over.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +5

      Absolutely, once trust is broken, the game inevitably comes to an end. It's a tough but important lesson in self-respect and boundaries. What are your thoughts on rebuilding trust after such situations?

    • @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370
      @BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 2 місяці тому +1

      let's keep it 100%..a man cheating is very different than a woman who cheats. women cheat to monkey branch but men cheat just for sex. cheating women will leave more often and the man can cheat and not break up his home. the stats say this. my own experience tells me this and many other men's channels agree with this dynamic so let's not pretend that all cheating is equal. it is not. a relationship can survive a man stepping out but not the other way around. women cheating can result in her getting pregnant and then cucking the man. not so the other way around. I'm tired of men and women coming to these comment sections and trying to equalize everyone's behavior and rationalization. get real

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you both for sharing your perspectives! Cheating is undoubtedly a complex and emotionally charged issue. While there are different motivations and consequences for men and women, the core of the matter is trust and respect. When someone cheats, regardless of gender, it undermines the foundation of a relationship. The aim of the video is to highlight behaviors that can lead to unhealthy dynamics and encourage everyone to seek relationships built on mutual respect and honesty. Let's strive for understanding and thoughtful dialogue as we navigate these challenging topics.

    • @ciurdarandrei6311
      @ciurdarandrei6311 2 місяці тому +4

      A man that is well treated in 🛏️ will not cheat the ignoring female partner.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Thanks for sharing your perspective! While physical intimacy is important, it's also crucial to remember that trust and mutual respect are the foundation of any strong relationship. Cheating is a complex issue and often involves more than just physical satisfaction. Communication and understanding each other's needs play a significant role. Let's continue striving for healthy and open relationships!

  • @JosephAgnello-tf8em
    @JosephAgnello-tf8em Місяць тому +6

    7 out of 10! Wow !
    I dismissed all red flags.
    Told her my boundaries,thought that would be enough !
    I recognized ; more I stayed,MORE DISRESPECT ,got BLANT ...FINALLY I DAID GOODBYE
    .

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +3

      Hey JosephAgnello ! Thanks for sharing your experience. It’s amazing that you recognized the red flags and stood by your boundaries. Sometimes it takes a while to see the bigger picture, but the important thing is that you did! Saying goodbye to a toxic situation is a huge step towards a better, more respectful future. Keep standing strong and true to yourself. You've got this!

  • @robertota9840
    @robertota9840 2 місяці тому +55

    The Most AWESOME woman in the world is one who Serves God and Loves Jesus Christ. Amen.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely, the depth of a person’s faith can truly shine through their actions and choices. It’s wonderful to hear you value such spiritual devotion! Thank you for sharing your perspective. 😊🙏

    • @peterkin1010
      @peterkin1010 2 місяці тому +6

      We all want a Proverbs 32 woman. But just because they go to church doesn't make them so. There's LOTS of counterfeits out there.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      It's important to remember that true character goes beyond appearances and actions

    • @whisperlandnongrum5088
      @whisperlandnongrum5088 2 місяці тому +1

      Amen 🙏✝️

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      yess!!

  • @classicrocker889
    @classicrocker889 2 місяці тому +29

    Meeting someone who's hung on their ex is a Deal Breaker . If they are not over their ex they may very well still be sleeping with them. Great Video with Alot of Knowledge !!!!! REMEMBER ALL OF IT !!!!!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +3

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts, and I'm glad you found the video insightful! 🌟 You're absolutely right, being emotionally available is crucial for a healthy relationship, and it’s important to recognize those red flags early on. Appreciate your enthusiasm-let's keep learning and growing together! Keep those great comments coming!

  • @donclabaugh6598
    @donclabaugh6598 2 місяці тому +28

    Let God guide you to the perfect person he wants you to be with

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment! Combining God's guidance with stoic life lessons can indeed lead us to the right path and the right people. We appreciate your insight!

    • @AldineLacson
      @AldineLacson 29 днів тому +2

      💯💯💯

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  28 днів тому +2

      Thanks so much!

  • @ELmasDuroChamp
    @ELmasDuroChamp 2 місяці тому +6

    Know your worth , many men are stubborn and don’t listen when explained don’t ever let a girl take your happiness away and live miserable , once the money is waste the majority are gone , open your eyes there many amazing lady’s all over the world that value a good man , nothing like a strong independent lady , this world needs more good lady’s

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +4

      Thank you for sharing your insights! 😊 It's crucial to remember our worth and not let anyone take away our happiness. There are indeed many wonderful and supportive people out there. Let's stay positive and keep our eyes open for those who truly value us. Your thoughts are much appreciated! 🌟

    • @samuelmuriuki454
      @samuelmuriuki454 Місяць тому +1

      🙏🙏Good One.Thank You.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      @@samuelmuriuki454 Yes. Thank you for watching! We hope you found the video helpful. Feel free to share it or ask any questions you may have.

  • @edgardovillacorte7012
    @edgardovillacorte7012 2 місяці тому +112

    Never depend on relationships for a fulfilling life. Get a dog or cat instead. It will love you unconditionally

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +14

      Exactly! "Never depend on relationships for a fulfilling life" means that one should not rely solely on relationships to find happiness and fulfillment. True fulfillment comes from within and from personal growth, values, and accomplishments. Relationships can enhance our lives, but they should not be the primary source of our sense of self-worth or happiness. Thank you for sharing your insightful perspective!

    • @lespaul1755
      @lespaul1755 2 місяці тому +13

      I've always had a dog. They'll never betray you

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +5

      @@lespaul1755 I agree, not denying =))

    • @LarryGarcia-lz2zb
      @LarryGarcia-lz2zb 2 місяці тому +3

      I think “ Hollywood “ relationships will bear this out !

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Do you really think so?

  • @sherwoodmorrow9170
    @sherwoodmorrow9170 2 місяці тому +38

    I'm beginning to think that 99% of the relationships are not faithful

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +4

      It sounds like you’ve been reflecting a lot on this, and it’s totally understandable to feel that way sometimes. It’s important to remember that while not every relationship is perfect, trust and loyalty do exist. Keep looking for the good, and don’t lose hope. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

    • @edgardovillacorte7012
      @edgardovillacorte7012 2 місяці тому +6

      A dog is 100% faithful😊. Finding the right human partner for life is like winning in the lottery.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +3

      @@edgardovillacorte7012 Thanks for sharing your perspective! Loyalty is definitely an important trait. Feel free to check out more of our stoic life lessons on the channel!

    • @klopossa2
      @klopossa2 2 місяці тому +2

      I'm loyal, for all my wives. Them idk.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      It sounds like you’ve got your hands full! Loyalty is definitely key, though navigating it with multiple partners sure sounds like a complex chapter in stoic practice. How do you maintain balance and fairness in your relationships? Would love to hear more about your approach!

  • @Thenogomogo-zo3un
    @Thenogomogo-zo3un 2 місяці тому +12

    I wish I had this advice 30 years ago.
    Thank you 💗

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Yes. Thank you for watching! We hope you found the video helpful. Feel free to share it or ask any questions you may have.

    • @OburaPatrick
      @OburaPatrick 2 місяці тому +2

      This is so vital

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your support! 😊 We're glad you found the video vital. Stay tuned for more stoic life lessons and insights. Your engagement means a lot to us!

    • @mosesreuben7
      @mosesreuben7 25 днів тому +1

      Never late then Never

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  25 днів тому +1

      Yes! That is what we should understand and do!

  • @instructionsforstoicism
    @instructionsforstoicism 2 місяці тому +3

    Priceless advice, very well spoken; I have gone through similar situations and discovered that ultimately, it is better to have a painful ending than to have a pain that never goes away.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your personal experience. It's always tough to go through such situations, but your insight about choosing a painful ending over perpetual pain is spot on and very wise. Remember, embracing stoic principles can guide us through these difficult times and help us emerge stronger. Stay strong and keep moving forward!

  • @bkb2012
    @bkb2012 2 місяці тому +5

    There's only 1 way to be in life: that's respectful. People need people. ❤ I agree.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I completely agree that respect is crucial in all our interactions, and maintaining healthy relationships is vital. I'm glad the video resonated with you. If you have any other insights or topics you'd like to discuss, feel free to share!

  • @mycallfromto1112
    @mycallfromto1112 2 місяці тому +4

    Well done gives all of us something to think about
    And most of us didn't get the up bringing the would help them to recognize
    What you have done is given most of us a rude awakening.
    I thank you.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Hi there! Thank you so much for your kind words. We're glad the video resonated with you and provided some valuable insights. It's never too late to learn and grow, and we're here to support each other on this journey. Have a wonderful day! 😊

  • @estlhm805
    @estlhm805 2 місяці тому +2

    Truth and wisdom over misunderstanding and the problems you will suffer over ignoring what is before you.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely, embracing truth and wisdom is key to avoiding unnecessary suffering. Thanks for sharing your insight! Have you experienced a situation where this wisdom helped you?

  • @HansRichter-lh9gt
    @HansRichter-lh9gt 2 місяці тому +15

    Dominant
    Bad personal hygiene
    Negative all the time
    No continuous positive conversions
    Seems happier when intoxicated and with friends
    Mysterious about calls and messages on the cell
    Lack of getting excited about any short-term or long-term plans regarding anything.
    Bath or shower,door locked, or don't appreciate your presence
    No smiles or eye contact
    Getting over excited about time away
    Turning back on you in bed,pull away from any touching, intentionally, or by accident
    Time to say goodbye..sooner,the better

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +3

      Thanks so much for your feedback! Hope you have a nice day!

    • @DJK-cq2uy
      @DJK-cq2uy 2 місяці тому +1

      😂 🤡

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      @@DJK-cq2uy =))

    • @NorthernsoulBoy63
      @NorthernsoulBoy63 Місяць тому +1

      Had this recently she has left no surprise

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +2

      @@NorthernsoulBoy63 Sounds like you've been through a tough experience, but it's great to see you're staying strong! Sometimes walking away is the best way to preserve your peace. What stoic life lessons have helped you most in navigating situations like this?

  • @user-io7xn5tj5u
    @user-io7xn5tj5u 2 місяці тому +8

    When she says she ain't ready for a relationship. I'm gone

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Smart move! Knowing when to walk away can save you a lot of time and heartache. Thanks for sharing your insight! 👍😊

  • @PatrickSBellSr
    @PatrickSBellSr 2 місяці тому +6

    1 - Yes, DANGER.
    2- Yes, that statement does indeed put you in your place: You are #2...at best.
    3 - Self explanatory. Run - run far and fast!
    4 - Yes, end the relationship. She is unlikely to change her opinion in your lifetime.
    5 - Oh, this is a clear non-starter. Run!
    6 - Trust is THE point of a relationship. And this will NEVER change. Sad.
    7 - Whoa! No explanation needed here.
    8 - Interpretation? She doesn’t know what she wants. Leave.
    9 - Just a big bowl of wrong. Run.
    10 - Thast;s just an f'n INSULT. Leave,

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your detailed thoughts! It's clear you understand the importance of recognizing these signs. Stay tuned for more stoic life lessons to help navigate relationships wisely.

  • @wesleythurman1033
    @wesleythurman1033 2 місяці тому +2

    I agree with each totally.... also draw strict boundaries after you walk away... they often return like they have been wounded.... just don't second guess... keep away

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Setting strict boundaries is indeed crucial for maintaining your well-being. It's important to stay firm in your decisions and not second-guess yourself. Your advice to keep away is wise and aligns well with the Stoic approach. Appreciate your insight and hope you find the other content on the channel helpful!

  • @keithjones1350
    @keithjones1350 2 місяці тому +4

    I found this information to be quite helpful. I believe I already knew most of thr information, but it did help in confirming some issues.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      I'm glad you found the video helpful! It's great to hear that it confirmed some of the issues you've been thinking about. Stay strong and continue to apply stoic principles to navigate life's challenges. Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts!

  • @MFOREST-UsefulKnowledgeForMen
    @MFOREST-UsefulKnowledgeForMen Місяць тому +1

    To ensure you never have to hear these words from women, it is crucial to strengthen your inner self, becoming a high-value man who takes responsibility for yourself first. Thanks for giving us useful information!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! 💪 Absolutely, building inner strength and becoming a high-value man is key. When we take responsibility for ourselves first, we naturally create healthier and more positive relationships. I’m glad you found the information useful. Keep striving for excellence! 🌟

  • @Educirani_Ulicar
    @Educirani_Ulicar 2 місяці тому +9

    I just got out of a relationship because she insinuated i was looking at other women at the party..and she reacted very bad after. I felt underestimated big time, and left.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for sharing your experience, and I'm sorry to hear about the tough situation you faced. It's never easy dealing with misunderstandings and accusations, especially when they affect your self-esteem. Making the decision to leave shows a lot of self-respect and courage. I hope you find peace and a more understanding partner in the future. Take care!

    • @vivianebuelens9512
      @vivianebuelens9512 Місяць тому +3

      Really 🤩 4:37

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +3

      @@vivianebuelens9512 Yeah =))

    • @Oldneeds
      @Oldneeds 24 дні тому +2

      Got out Just like that?😢

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  23 дні тому +1

      It’s never easy to make tough decisions, but sometimes, stepping away is the best choice for your peace of mind. Remember, stoic life lessons teach us to prioritize our well-being and embrace the power of letting go. How did it feel to make that decision?

  • @troybond9280
    @troybond9280 2 місяці тому +4

    Proverbs 31 . Amen and Amen

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for watching. We hope the content provided value to you. Please share your thoughts or ask any questions if needed.

  • @highvolumepls
    @highvolumepls 2 місяці тому +3

    Walk away by Joe Walsh song my late brother played for me, 1970s took me years to understand the lyrics, magic Joe❤

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Hi there! Thank you for sharing that touching memory. "Walk Away" by Joe Walsh is indeed a powerful song, and it's amazing how music can resonate with us over time. Your brother had great taste! Sending positive vibes your way. Have a wonderful day! 😊

    • @freeman-1776
      @freeman-1776 2 місяці тому +1

      "Already Gone" A true song of freedom. Eagles.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      @@freeman-1776 yeah men🙌

  • @michaelmaitimakkurumegahmi1973
    @michaelmaitimakkurumegahmi1973 2 місяці тому +8

    Iam currently experiencing these ten things now

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for sharing your experience. If you need any advice or support, feel free to reach out. Remember, taking care of yourself is important. Stay strong! 💪

    • @Sean88850
      @Sean88850 Місяць тому +2

      Tell her she needs Jesus

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Amen!

  • @edgardovillacorte7012
    @edgardovillacorte7012 2 місяці тому +3

    She will look down on you once you put her on a pedestal.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely! It's important to maintain a balanced relationship and mutual respect. When we put someone on a pedestal, it can create an unhealthy dynamic. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

  • @buddyemmett103
    @buddyemmett103 2 місяці тому +1

    I agree!, Yes I want someone who loves me for me and I do he same for her! The current friend and person I love is wonderful and I would like her to be happy!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      That's wonderful to hear! It sounds like you have a great relationship based on mutual respect and love. Keeping that balance and appreciating each other's genuine qualities is definitely a stoic approach to fostering lasting connections. Wishing you both continued happiness and growth together!

  • @ralfcali7172
    @ralfcali7172 2 місяці тому +5

    Correct it's useless to remain on a relationship that's one sided

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely, it's all about mutual respect and effort, isn't it? Thanks for sharing your perspective! Have you ever had to make a tough decision like this? Would love to hear your story! 🌟

    • @Oldneeds
      @Oldneeds 24 дні тому +1

      Exactly 👍🏻

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  23 дні тому +1

      Yes. Thanks!

  • @GodwinAmegbor-ix5dq
    @GodwinAmegbor-ix5dq 2 місяці тому +2

    Excellent talk

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much! I'm thrilled you enjoyed the talk. If you have any questions or need further advice, feel free to drop them in the comments. Don't forget to subscribe for more videos like this! 😊

  • @highvolumepls
    @highvolumepls 2 місяці тому +4

    I agree with All of this great advice❤

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for watching. We hope the content provided value to you. Please share your thoughts or ask any questions if needed.

  • @steviechalmers1218
    @steviechalmers1218 2 місяці тому +1

    Experienced it all, in fact everything you’ve mentioned is deeply imbedded into the back of my mind, being born under Taurus , our gut instincts and the negative vibes was enough for me, I actually smiled and said goodbye 👋 walked calmly to my car, when she ran out in shock, wanting answers why am going , I used two words , undervalued & unappreciated, and I never looked back and ignored her calls and texts 😉

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience! It's empowering to hear how you trusted your instincts and stood up for your own worth. Your story is a great reminder of the importance of self-respect and knowing when to walk away. Stay strong and keep moving forward!

    • @Oldneeds
      @Oldneeds 24 дні тому +1

      Sad 😔
      Virgo here.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  23 дні тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! 😊 Being a Virgo, I bet you value honesty and clarity, which are key elements in stoic life lessons. How do you think these lessons could help in understanding relationships better?

    • @steviechalmers1218
      @steviechalmers1218 23 дні тому +1

      @@winstoic_offical it’s all about mutual understanding, respect and trust , if both partners have that essential balance in the relationship, it makes everything so much easier , and every day so manageable, we as a tram to provide stability and ironing out any issues about things in general , ie when either partner as the other to do something, just get it done , don’t delay on anything ,by doing that it shows they weee listening ,and went ahead with it , relationship will always now and again need a boost especially long term one ,,it’s important for both to maintain that strong bond, as it keeps the relationship and the love for each other strong ,

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  23 дні тому +1

      Yes. I like a love of such balance!

  • @jamesclukey7488
    @jamesclukey7488 2 місяці тому +4

    Here's a couple of other statements to add. First : I don't think of you that way anymore. This was said in reference to us having sex. Second : Oh, that's too much. This was said after she opened a Christmas gift I had given her. I recognize the second statement as a big red flag. Whenever somebody grades a gift it's a giveaway that you've been put into the friend zone. A week after that I broke it off. And my final advice, don't ever go back. MOVE ON ! Believe me, she has.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights! Those are indeed clear signs that the relationship had shifted. It's always important to recognize and act on red flags for our own well-being. Your advice to move on and not look back is very wise and aligns with stoic principles of focusing on what we can control and letting go of what we cannot. Wishing you the best on your journey forward!

  • @FredWellers
    @FredWellers 2 місяці тому +2

    I agree with every sentiment expressed in this video. The problem is I have yet to find a partner who embodies the values embraced by the stoic ideal.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's great to hear that you resonate with the sentiments expressed in the video. Finding a partner who embodies stoic values can indeed be challenging. The key is to remain patient and true to your own principles. Often, when we focus on being the best version of ourselves, we attract individuals who share similar values. Keep seeking and practicing stoicism in your daily life, and the right person will come along when the time is right. Stay strong and continue your stoic journey!

  • @trqjvd4847
    @trqjvd4847 2 місяці тому +5

    WisdoM.❤

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Hi there! Thanks for your comment. Wisdom indeed! It's all about recognizing the signs and making the right choices for our well-being. Glad you found the video insightful. Have a fantastic day! 😊

  • @frantzymerisier9661
    @frantzymerisier9661 2 місяці тому +1

    It goes both ways
    He/she!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely, it definitely goes both ways! The principles and lessons can apply to anyone, regardless of gender. Thank you for pointing that out and for engaging with the content. Stay tuned for more insights and discussions!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому

      @@LisaHack-hq3dv Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Everyone has their own beliefs and values, and it's important to stay true to them. We appreciate you watching the video and engaging with the content. Stay well and take care!

  • @bryanch4343
    @bryanch4343 2 місяці тому +3

    The last time I checked, All of those #Metoo law's have not gone anywhere. That makes unnecessary interactions with women a social, legal and financial liability!...
    Being single is much better than being lied to cheated on and disrespected
    High Mileage totaled gremlin at new Porsche car prices

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      I hear you! Navigating relationships can definitely be tricky, especially with all the potential pitfalls. It's all about finding someone who respects and values you. In the meantime, focusing on yourself and your own happiness is key. Sometimes being single is the best way to stay true to your own values and peace of mind. How do you make the most of your single life?

  • @user-ep6it7us9m
    @user-ep6it7us9m 2 місяці тому +4

    How about "If one won't another will, next!"

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Indeed, maintaining the mindset that 'if one won't, another will' is crucial for self-respect and personal growth. It's important to recognize our own value and not settle for less than we deserve. Stoic philosophy teaches us to focus on what we can control and to walk away from situations that undermine our well-being.

  • @susanthaakuressaacharige2874
    @susanthaakuressaacharige2874 2 місяці тому +1

    This is very insightful and very worthy of watching and adding the teaching to our lives,

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your kind words! I’m thrilled you found the video insightful and valuable. It's great to hear that these teachings resonate with you. Have you found any particular lesson especially impactful in your life?

  • @KwenzaZondi
    @KwenzaZondi 2 місяці тому +5

    100 thumbs up

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much! 🎉 We're thrilled you enjoyed the video and found it valuable. Your support means a lot to us! Stay tuned for more stoic life lessons. 😊 What resonated most with you in this video?

  • @donclabaugh6598
    @donclabaugh6598 2 місяці тому +2

    I believe to be valued in all life not just a relationship but in a job as well if they don't value you I believe it's time to move on as well it's in all life self respect

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому

      Absolutely, self-respect is crucial in all aspects of life. Stoic life lessons teach us to value ourselves and know when it's time to move on. Thank you for sharing your perspective!

  • @nalinfernando5842
    @nalinfernando5842 2 місяці тому +3

    I agree on point 2

  • @hemantpatel-km4ts
    @hemantpatel-km4ts 2 місяці тому +1

    Very valuable. Mutul respect, support and love are requireme nt of happy relationship.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I completely agree - mutual respect, support, and love are indeed essential for a happy and healthy relationship. Your insight adds great value to the discussion. What other qualities do you think are crucial for maintaining a strong relationship?

  • @theTgroup
    @theTgroup 2 місяці тому +6

    #3. When a woman tell you that "you need to change", you have to reconsider if it is better for you or for both of you or not. For example, because you're too lazy and can't do anything to improve yourself for better nor find a job for better future, so when she said that, she's trying to help you to be better man for yourself, not for her. Or because you're too violent every time you're upset; you would hit her or scream at her in all the arguments; so when she said that you need to change, she meant to give you another chance to work the relationship out. If you change, your relationship will be better. If she doesn't want to work things out with you and ready to leave you, she just leave and wouldn't bother to ask you to change. SO THINK CAREFULLY. If you're a perfect man, sure, you don't have to change anything, just simply change your woman. Find a perfect woman who is better match for you. If you love your woman truly enough, you would do anything to make her happy even though it's right or wrong.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      You raise some excellent points. It's true that when someone asks you to change, it's important to consider the reasons behind it. If the request is coming from a place of genuine concern and the desire to improve the relationship, it can be an opportunity for growth. However, it’s also crucial to ensure that any changes are for the betterment of both individuals involved, not just to satisfy one person's demands. Relationships require mutual effort and understanding, and sometimes, a willingness to adapt can lead to a stronger bond. Thanks for sharing your thoughtful perspective!

    • @williamorwaru1136
      @williamorwaru1136 2 місяці тому +1

      ❤well said

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      @@williamorwaru1136 Thank you for the kind words! It's always valuable to consider different perspectives in relationships. Mutual respect and understanding are key, and sometimes it's these conversations that help us grow stronger together. Appreciate your support!

    • @tcmitchelljr3581
      @tcmitchelljr3581 2 місяці тому +3

      Both the man and woman need to always better themselves in their marriage or relationship, that any situation with two imperfect people marrying each other and leave all the baggage of past relationships in the past. Help each other and Never compare your Spouse to another person creating a Mr. Frankenstein or a Mrs. Frankenstein by putting together , taking things Charactristics away from another man or woman. If that is the case, go marry that person if that's what you want, man or female. Why marry someone if you want them changeto be like someone else, or have the characteristics of 4 or 5 different men or women you see at different times, always comparing. Spouses as they grow together can and will make changes if they strive to compliment each other in love instead of becoming a Mr or Mrs. Doctor Frankenstein creating your versionof what you want your Spouse to become. The question is when you're together, Do you want to look and see the Spouse you married and love grow together? Or do you want to everytime you look at your Spouse see faces of a Creation of 4 or 5 different characteristics you got from other people, changing your Spouse be 4 or 5 different personalities. No one is perfect and we should always strive for perfection. Me personally, to be married I wouldn't look at another person, persons and always trying to compare her with someone else or every woman I see when we're, together. O baby now see that lady there, why don't you smile like her, or Sweetheart , now look at that lady at that table, why doyou sit or dress like heŕ, Sweetheart you need to change, I just can't see myself doing that to my Spouse. My Mother I believe was the best cook in the world, but if married, I would never compare my wife cooking to my Mother, never would, even if I .felt she wasn't a great cook at the time, because I wouldn't want to damage her image, her self esteem. What I would do is get in there with her, because I can cook, and occasionally say to her, this evening, let cokk a meal together, me and you, and make a team effort of it, showing her if she would allow to show her some of my secrets, and then brag to her how well we worked together as a team to make such a Delicious, Tasty And Yummmmmy meal. Baby. That fried chicken you cooked was Soooo gooood, melt in your mouth. That's what I would do. I would always let her know. She's the best cook in the world.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      @@tcmitchelljr3581 Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful perspective! It's so true that comparing our partners to others only creates unrealistic expectations and unnecessary pressure. I love your idea of teaming up and appreciating each other’s strengths. Working together in love and support definitely helps both partners grow and strengthens the relationship. Your approach to cooking together and building each other up is a beautiful example of how we can support and cherish our loved ones. Let's all strive to be the best versions of ourselves and lift each other up in the process!

  • @TurkanaDigitalMedia
    @TurkanaDigitalMedia 2 місяці тому +1

    Truly. Invaluable. Keep sending this pieces for us ❤

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! 😊 We're thrilled to hear that you find our content invaluable. We'll definitely keep sharing these insights to help you on your stoic journey. Stay tuned for more pieces, and feel free to share your thoughts or topics you'd like us to cover. Your support means a lot to us!

  • @anjelacelin4376
    @anjelacelin4376 2 місяці тому +3

    I agree with you

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому

      It's so important to be with someone who truly values and prioritizes you. Your agreement highlights the necessity of mutual respect in any healthy relationship.

  • @AL-Stephaaansss
    @AL-Stephaaansss Місяць тому +1

    I definitely need to safeguard my happiness!!!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Absolutely! Safeguarding your happiness is so important. Remember, prioritizing your well-being and making decisions that are best for you is a sign of strength and self-respect. Keep focusing on what makes you happy and healthy! 😊✨

  • @stairman3151
    @stairman3151 2 місяці тому +3

    1. I don't need a man
    2. My friends are more important
    3. You need to change
    4. I'm not ready for a relationship
    5. You don't make enough money
    6. I don't trust you
    7. I'm to good for you
    8. I'm not over my Ex.
    9. You should be more like my friends boyfriend.
    10. I can do better than you

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for summarizing the key points from the video! Your list perfectly captures the red flags that can signal unhealthy dynamics in a relationship. Understanding and recognizing these signs is crucial for our personal growth and well-being. By identifying these behaviors, we can make decisions that align with our values and maintain our peace of mind. Welcome to our stoic community, and thank you for engaging with the content. Keep embracing wisdom and resilience!

    • @stairman3151
      @stairman3151 2 місяці тому +1

      @@winstoic_offical your reply is just like your videos.. Long winded. I put you on 2x speed

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      @@stairman3151 Thanks for the feedback! I’ll keep it in mind for future videos. Glad to know 2x speed helps you get through the content faster! 😊

    • @bbhoustontx
      @bbhoustontx 2 місяці тому +1

      100
      %

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      @@bbhoustontx Thank you 100% for your comment. Wonderful! Did you learn any lessons from the video?

  • @JosephAgnello-tf8em
    @JosephAgnello-tf8em Місяць тому +1

    Underpasses were flooded in Detroit!
    Knowing the city,I was able to meander my way out to suburbs
    We were on phone,.
    Phone died ,rental had no charging apparati
    Got home her text:" I am tiffed
    I'm sitting here waiting; if so full of yourself that you can't call me, don't bother.Bye."
    I could not believe it.I was mad! The gall of her
    Called her, explained,she apologized.
    Right here I made mistakes,; tolerated her disrespect; lost my calm , peace ; optional lack of self control.
    Next,I felt need to ' explain'
    I should have ran !!!!
    It was 8 out of 10 !
    I have learned so much with this person painfully ,However!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Hey, wow, what a story! It’s incredible how you navigated through such a tough situation, both with the flooded streets and with her response. It sounds like you’ve learned a lot from this experience, even though it was painful. Recognizing those red flags and understanding your own boundaries is a huge step forward. Keep moving forward with the wisdom you’ve gained. You’ve got the strength to find better and more respectful relationships ahead. Stay strong!

  • @GeorgeJanicki
    @GeorgeJanicki 2 місяці тому +3

    My partner tells me to bugger off all the time so I stay just to piss her off

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      It sounds like you're handling it with a sense of humor, which is great! Just remember, communication and respect are key in any relationship. If she’s joking and you both understand each other, that’s one thing, but if there’s more to it, maybe it’s worth having a chat about how you both feel. Thanks for sharing, and keep the good vibes going!

  • @StoicBud
    @StoicBud Місяць тому +1

    Eye-opening advice! This video provides crucial insights on what red flags to watch for in relationships. If you hear these 10 warning signs, it’s essential to prioritize your well-being and consider making a change. A powerful guide for anyone seeking to navigate relationships with wisdom and self-respect.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much for your thoughtful feedback! 🌟 We're glad you found the advice eye-opening. Prioritizing well-being and self-respect is key in any relationship. Stay wise and take care! 😊

  • @WilsonGreg17
    @WilsonGreg17 2 місяці тому +7

    strange that stoicism seems to indicate that the stoic 'needs' no other to achieve peace/calmness

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +5

      That's an interesting point! Stoicism indeed teaches us to find peace and calmness within ourselves. However, it also encourages us to protect our well-being by avoiding toxic relationships. Recognizing when to walk away is a form of self-care and aligns with stoic principles of maintaining inner tranquility. How do you think one can balance self-reliance with engaging in healthy relationships?

    • @Bokgat
      @Bokgat 2 місяці тому +2

      You are feeding ai dude. You can get paid for this if you join an tech company or chiilax with some banter

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      @@Bokgat Thank you for your praise. I was very happy to read your comment. Through your comment, I think you are also complimented by people around you as being funny and adorable, right? Such clever, clever humor.

    • @Bokgat
      @Bokgat 2 місяці тому

      @@winstoic_offical piss off ai. We’re not here to feed your learning. Go away only humans wanted

    • @Bokgat
      @Bokgat 2 місяці тому +1

      @@winstoic_offical no praise you’re a robot.

  • @DanielTerrazas-x3w
    @DanielTerrazas-x3w 2 місяці тому +2

    You couldn't be more true

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely, it's always important to recognize red flags and prioritize our well-being. Thanks for your support and insight! What's been your experience with these kinds of situations?

  • @winstoic_offical
    @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +9

    Relationships are a crucial aspect of our lives, and recognizing toxic behaviors is vital for our well-being. Which of these signs have you encountered, and how did you handle the situation? Share your experiences and thoughts below. Let's support each other in navigating relationships with wisdom and strength!

    • @augustinekola9402
      @augustinekola9402 2 місяці тому +1

      Narcissism

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      @@augustinekola9402 Thanks for your comment! It’s important to distinguish between self-respect and narcissism. This video aims to highlight situations where self-preservation and personal boundaries are crucial for one's well-being. What’s your take on maintaining personal boundaries in relationships? Would love to hear your thoughts!

  • @peteraloku
    @peteraloku 2 місяці тому +2

    The level of happiness i have as a person depend on the quantity of my thought.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your insightful thoughts! It's true that our happiness is deeply influenced by the quality of our thoughts. Welcome to our community! We're excited to have you here and look forward to hearing more of your perspectives as we all strive to live by Stoic principles and improve our lives.

  • @stoicdeed
    @stoicdeed 2 місяці тому +4

    I understand the intent behind this video, but I think it's important to consider that every relationship and situation is unique. Leaving someone immediately based on certain phrases might be too drastic without understanding the context or trying to communicate first. Relationships require patience and understanding, and sometimes what seems like a red flag could be a cry for help or a misunderstanding. It's worth considering a more balanced approach before making such a life-changing decision. What do you all think?

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment. You bring up an excellent point about the uniqueness of each relationship and the importance of context and communication. Relationships indeed require patience and understanding, and it's essential to consider all aspects before making significant decisions. We're glad to have viewers like you who contribute to a balanced discussion. What strategies do you find helpful for navigating these complex situations?

    • @rastanasco6333
      @rastanasco6333 2 місяці тому +1

      Stoicism means act now and act appropriately. No begging the question or psychotherapy!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      You're right! Stoicism teaches us to take immediate action and make decisions that align with our values. There's no room for begging or trying to change someone's mind. It's all about self-respect and understanding what truly serves our well-being. What do you think is the best way to practice this in our daily lives?

  • @anthonydasdas794
    @anthonydasdas794 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for your info when the children s were small she needs aus afters the child grows she doesn't need you when the kids all are working the wife's doesn't listen to aus

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience. Relationships can certainly change over time, especially as children grow up and circumstances evolve. It's important to communicate and understand each other's needs throughout these changes. Wishing you strength and clarity on your journey.

  • @att9060
    @att9060 2 місяці тому +4

    I love my wife as she is but she hates me like anything 😂😂😂😂

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing. Relationships can be challenging, but stoic life lessons teach us to focus on what we can control and maintain our inner peace. Stay strong and keep seeking wisdom

  • @iliasnitsas3968
    @iliasnitsas3968 2 місяці тому +1

    Advises are usually crap…Everyone must do his or her own mistakes to learn! Live!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +2

      You make a great point! Personal experiences are indeed powerful teachers. While advice can offer guidance, it's our own journeys that shape us. Thanks for sharing your perspective and for watching the video. Live and learn! 🌟

  • @idiebiruvincent7833
    @idiebiruvincent7833 Місяць тому +1

    I agree with you completely

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much for your support! 😊 I'm glad you agree. What’s one thing you've noticed that tends to capture women's attention the most? I'd love to hear your thoughts!

  • @Fkr-d7m
    @Fkr-d7m 2 місяці тому +2

    Yes I agree.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Yeah. Thank you for watching the video. We hope the video can help you with something. Please share or ask questions if needed.

  • @StoicTellYou
    @StoicTellYou 2 місяці тому +1

    Somehow, I've been practicing stoicism without knowing it. After discovering I have psoriasis (which is an autoimmune disease), I was forced to not give so much importance to things I can't control. I need to maintain control over myself and my emotions to manage crises, and that has brought many more benefits than I imagined. There's a person in my family who took a dislike to me because of this, for not stressing out, can you believe it? Haha I just became practical. Example: Is there a problem, right? I take a deep breath and think about what I can do about it. Can I solve it? I solve it. Can't I? I give it to God. Will removing it, regretting it help at all? That's it, simple.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      It’s inspiring to hear how you’ve embraced Stoic principles naturally in your life, especially amidst the challenges of dealing with psoriasis. Your approach to handling things you can't control is a pure reflection of Stoic wisdom. It’s quite funny-and telling-that someone would take issue with your calm demeanor! Often, our peace can be unsettling to those who are used to chaos. Keep focusing on what you can change, and let go of what you can't. Your method of “giving it to God” when it’s out of your hands is a beautiful testament to both faith and philosophy. Keep thriving and spreading that practical positivity!

    • @StoicTellYou
      @StoicTellYou 2 місяці тому +1

      @@winstoic_offical Thank you! Very correct thoughts! I've lived by these principles my whole life! If stray dogs bark at you, don't get down on all fours to bark back at them! Peace and kindness to all!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Nice. Keep going!

  • @kamrankureshi5615
    @kamrankureshi5615 Місяць тому +2

    In 10 out of 10 cases, her thoughts about you will change over time. I suggest be patient, give her the space she wants, let her do what she wants. Enjoy her independence with her. Set her free, if she comes back, she always loved you.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful perspective! Patience and giving space are indeed crucial in any relationship. It's beautiful to hear your emphasis on independence and true love. We appreciate your insight and hope our content continues to resonate with you! 😊

  • @artiglesias9317
    @artiglesias9317 Місяць тому +1

    Right On!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому

      Glad you agree! Which point resonated with you the most?

  • @Tadjuel11-11
    @Tadjuel11-11 29 днів тому +1

    Amazing awesome awareness to learn all this when your going thru it. This video brings out the best in us to realize we are the best we are at the moment and ever getting better. It's all a journey we all face in these ways and have to navigate through this gauntlet of emotions, feelings, and deep thoughts. What a crazy ride of trying to balance out all that we are in the complexities of which we are made. The designers of the bodies we inhabit sure have us a lot to deal with! Those fuxers! 😂

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment! Life truly is a complex journey, and navigating through those emotions and thoughts is no easy task. But with stoic life lessons, we can find strength and balance even in the toughest times. Keep embracing the journey-you're doing great! 😊

  • @JojieArquijano
    @JojieArquijano 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank god . I don’t need too worry bout all this . Coz I’m single..but I like the number 3 .

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Being single can definitely have its perks! I'm glad you found number 3 interesting. Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts! 😊

  • @losanyvlogs
    @losanyvlogs Місяць тому +1

    True depends on yourself

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      That is the right thing to do. We should be independent in every aspect of life, especially emotionally. When we have more, we should be happy to receive it, and when we don't have more, we should not feel regretful.

  • @markhall6646
    @markhall6646 2 місяці тому +2

    I AGREE 100 %

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

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  • @TappioLopullinen-us8dx
    @TappioLopullinen-us8dx 2 місяці тому +1

    "Sillä pahat hävitetään, mutta jotka Herraa odottavat, ne perivät maan. Hetkinen vielä, niin jumalatonta ei enää ole; kun hänen sijaansa katsot, on hän jo poissa. Mutta nöyrät perivät maan ja iloitsevat suuresta rauhasta." - Psalmit 37:9,10,11 - Raamattu 1933/1938

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Kiitos, että jaoit tämän kauniin raamatunkohdan kanssamme! 😊 Psalmit 37:9-11 muistuttaa meitä siitä, että nöyryys ja kärsivällisyys tuovat rauhaa ja siunauksia elämäämme. On aina inspiroivaa lukea näitä viestejä, jotka vahvistavat uskoamme ja toivoamme.

  • @terryearl3168
    @terryearl3168 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Yeah. Thank you for watching the video. We hope the video can help you with something. Please share or ask questions if needed.

  • @surenderkumar7068
    @surenderkumar7068 Місяць тому +1

    Point no.2, agreed😊

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Glad you agree with point no.2! 😊 It's always important to recognize those red flags and stay true to your values. What other stoic life lessons have helped you in relationships?

  • @MrBSQUIRE
    @MrBSQUIRE 2 місяці тому +2

    I Agree.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

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  • @godwinokoye4554
    @godwinokoye4554 Місяць тому +1

    Great philosophy. Personally experienced most of the points.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience! It's amazing how philosophy can resonate with our personal journeys. Glad to hear the video connected with you. Stay strong and keep embracing those valuable lessons!

  • @unoannalon
    @unoannalon 2 місяці тому +1

    Absolutely spot on. been there and walked away,

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's great to hear that you recognized the signs and made a positive decision for your well-being. Walking away can be tough, but it's often the best choice. Stay strong and keep embracing those Stoic life lessons! 🌟

  • @thandinhlapo3972
    @thandinhlapo3972 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes I'm faced with similar situation

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Hey there! It sounds like you're going through a tough situation. Remember, it's important to prioritize your well-being and peace of mind. If you ever need to chat or share more about what you're experiencing, we're here for you. Stay strong and take care of yourself! 🙏

  • @douglaskennedy6940
    @douglaskennedy6940 2 місяці тому +2

    A modern feminist put you after her friends and Chad become best third or fourth on the list

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It’s all about recognizing what you deserve and setting boundaries. Remember, we’re here to help everyone find healthier relationships. Appreciate your input and thanks for watching!

  • @SQ9669
    @SQ9669 2 місяці тому +1

    Amen

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for watching. We hope the content provided value to you. Please share your thoughts or ask any questions if needed.

  • @joecadham5100
    @joecadham5100 2 місяці тому +1

    An enriching, informative and above all great keys and cues and pointers, to the nearest exit 😊 thank you thank you thank you, don't stop believing in oneself we are all here for a reason with purpose be a seeker ❤

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that you found the video enriching and informative. It's true, believing in oneself is crucial, and recognizing when to make the right decisions for our well-being is a powerful step. We're all on this journey together, seeking purpose and growth. Stay strong and continue to be a seeker of wisdom and self-improvement. Your support means a lot-let’s keep moving forward with strength and determination!

    • @Bokgat
      @Bokgat 2 місяці тому +1

      Ai talking to ai haha. Flagged

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      @@Bokgat Oh, sometimes AI or no AI, there are many good things to share together. Thank you for the funny quote!

    • @Bokgat
      @Bokgat 2 місяці тому +1

      @@winstoic_offical not funny. Your previous video was all ai. Maybe this one bs ai. Real humans interact with real humans. Or maybe you are a bot ? If so none of your stuff belongs here

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      You don't seem to have a favorable view of AI? right?
      Even if I say I'm a real person talking to you, you're probably still wondering. Even keep your thoughts intact.
      But why does AI make you so unhappy? Can you share what I heard?

  • @almarioantaran947
    @almarioantaran947 2 місяці тому +1

    It'That the betterway , why not . Find your. luck .And pray For ❤ tomorrow.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your perspective! It's true that sometimes, moving forward and finding your own path can lead to greater happiness and fulfillment. It's all about making decisions that are best for your well-being and having faith in the future. Keep striving for a better tomorrow! 🌟

  • @CharlieMontoya-ti4wn
    @CharlieMontoya-ti4wn 2 місяці тому +1

    PRIORITY IS * TO LIVE FOR ME * AS THEY CAN DO THE SAME, JUST BIENG FRIENDS IS ENOUGH INSTEAD OF GETTING TWISTED👌

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! 😊 Prioritizing your own well-being and setting clear boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy relationships. Being friends and keeping things simple can indeed be a great way to avoid unnecessary complications. Appreciate your input!

  • @rudykirsh9113
    @rudykirsh9113 Місяць тому +1

    GOTTA BOUNCE.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for watching! Remember, embracing stoic life lessons helps us recognize when it's best to move on for our own well-being. Stay strong and resilient!

  • @alfred4012
    @alfred4012 Місяць тому +1

    Truth be told, men and women can't stay together for a lifetime, some do but its only because there just living together that's it, there just existing, just a habit nothing more, plain and simple, they say they love each other but its just routine, that's the truth, period!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Hey there! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Relationships can definitely be complex, and it's true that some people might stay together out of habit. But many couples do find genuine love and fulfillment together. It's all about finding the right person who shares your values and complements your journey. Keep an open mind and heart-life has a way of surprising us! Stay stoic and keep striving for the best in all aspects of life. 😊💪

    • @alfred4012
      @alfred4012 Місяць тому +1

      @@winstoic_offical hey this is Alfred, totally agree with you 💯 percent, thank you my friend. Peace ✌ and love!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Very cool! Thank you! A good day to you.

  • @KirosTareke-k3y
    @KirosTareke-k3y 7 днів тому +1

    I strongly agree

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  7 днів тому +1

      "Absolutely! Recognizing these signs is key to maintaining your peace and self-respect. Stoic life lessons teach us to value our inner strength and not settle for less. Stay strong!

  • @adanamaya2552
    @adanamaya2552 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes
    I agreed 👍💯💯🎉🎉

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Yes. Thank you for watching! We hope you found the video helpful. Feel free to share it or ask any questions you may have.

  • @LitosPhilosophy-j7o
    @LitosPhilosophy-j7o Місяць тому +1

    thanks

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Yes. Thank you for watching! We hope you found the video helpful. Feel free to share it or ask any questions you may have.

  • @rogerreed3911
    @rogerreed3911 2 місяці тому +1

    I agree period.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Yes. Thank you for watching! We hope you found the video helpful. Feel free to share it or ask any questions you may have.

  • @clevelandaeromotive
    @clevelandaeromotive 2 місяці тому +2

    #11: “I’m leaving for (a place far away, for a long time) in a month.” Examples: the military, back to a country she came from, etc.

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment! That's a great addition. When someone says they are leaving for a significant amount of time or distance, it's important to assess the situation carefully. Long-term separation can indeed be a challenging factor in relationships, and it's crucial to consider how this aligns with your own goals and values. Appreciate your insight and for contributing to the discussion!

  • @surendrajugdave9295
    @surendrajugdave9295 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes .iam in one .THANKS

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Yes. Thank you for watching! We hope you found the video helpful. Feel free to share it or ask any questions you may have.

  • @Djr656
    @Djr656 2 місяці тому +1

    Together with my parter for over 20yrs..
    Money was the real issue ..until then in now she keep away from me because I don't have enough..
    For me it's hard to accept thier reasons but to accept the reality..
    As long as she never found a man who replaced me ..she would be my girl..
    But there are time I was soo confused that she never contentedly even I shall keep on ..
    Anyway..she was a widow women with 5 kids from her dead husband before we can be together..
    And I have a 2 kids from her and where both teenagers now..
    Today I was experiencing mix emotions as regarding the situation of our relationship..
    Where both at ages of mid 40s..
    (That ages 40s some said it was a beginning of life.)
    But how can I start for her or for another to get start over again..

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your story. Relationships can be incredibly complex, especially with so many factors involved. It's important to take care of yourself and seek clarity in your emotions. Remember, every new beginning starts with a small step. Wishing you strength and peace as you navigate this journey. 😊

  • @vivianebuelens9512
    @vivianebuelens9512 Місяць тому +2

    You come always first you know Thad ! 😊 6:44

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      Absolutely! Prioritizing yourself is key to maintaining self-respect. Keep applying those stoic life lessons to stay strong and centered!

    • @vivianebuelens9512
      @vivianebuelens9512 Місяць тому +1

      @@winstoic_offical yeah well I am not made of stone …..!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      I hear you-being strong doesn’t mean being unfeeling. Stoic life lessons teach us to balance resilience with understanding our emotions.

    • @vivianebuelens9512
      @vivianebuelens9512 Місяць тому +1

      Oh yes 1 st 2 second and 3 the …. !

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +1

      @@vivianebuelens9512 Exactly, it's all about finding the right balance! Stoic life lessons guide us to prioritize wisely while staying true to our values and emotions. You've got this!

  • @JohnMutua-p6c
    @JohnMutua-p6c 11 днів тому +1

    I agree with the advices here

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  11 днів тому +1

      Glad you agree with the stoic life lessons! Applying these principles can definitely help navigate tough situations with wisdom and clarity. What’s one piece of advice that stood out to you?

  • @APOLON-bm7ym
    @APOLON-bm7ym Місяць тому +1

    I will advise my brothers something different. Do not have many girls if young and you can. I had many, but Im single now, 34, and tbh I dont even feel the need to have a proper relationship ( i have a girl neighbour with benefits, but I literally feel I spent something that I need sometime to "recharge" and even doubt I lost it for good ...

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  Місяць тому +2

      Thanks for sharing your experience. It's important to find what truly makes you happy and fulfilled. Sometimes taking a step back to recharge and reflect can provide clarity on what you really want in life. Best of luck on your journey!

  • @albertwilliams.jr.1710
    @albertwilliams.jr.1710 2 місяці тому +1

    I agree!

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Yes. Thank you for watching! We hope you found the video helpful. Feel free to share it or ask any questions you may have.

  • @DavidKeltz-e3s
    @DavidKeltz-e3s 2 місяці тому +1

    I agree with all 10 of these!😊

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your feedback! It's great to hear that you resonate with all the points discussed in the video. Your agreement reinforces the importance of recognizing these red flags for maintaining a healthy and balanced life. Do you have any personal experiences or additional insights you'd like to share on this topic? 😊

  • @matsobanestephengwangwa3865
    @matsobanestephengwangwa3865 2 місяці тому +1

    I fully agree

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your support! It's reassuring to hear that these points resonate with you. Have you had any experiences that align with the advice given in the video?

  • @vincentote7724
    @vincentote7724 2 місяці тому +1

    YES

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

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  • @michaeldavey9565
    @michaeldavey9565 2 місяці тому +1

    I AGREE 👍 RESPECT 💯

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

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  • @peterkin1010
    @peterkin1010 2 місяці тому +2

    Ive had the first two said to me and acted promptly They are huge alarm bells and a woman who says those things doesn't love you. Run a mile

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

      You made a wise decision. Recognizing those red flags and acting promptly is a key aspect of stoic life lessons. Thanks for sharing your experience and helping others learn from it

  • @trustmanco
    @trustmanco 2 місяці тому +1

    Very true absolutely

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

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  • @saladjamal5611
    @saladjamal5611 2 місяці тому +1

    I agree 100%

    • @winstoic_offical
      @winstoic_offical  2 місяці тому +1

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