I’m an Abusive Narcissist , Alcoholic, Addicted to Adult Videos

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  • @jaycee0208
    @jaycee0208 19 днів тому +113

    Chris stop wasting time dealing with Hollie. Keep doing what you need to do to stay focused on your future and goals. Take care , stay positive, and know your worth. Know that you have us, and I really enjoy your content. ❤

    • @thruErinseyes
      @thruErinseyes 15 днів тому +1

      @@jaycee0208 yes exactly….. KNOW YOUR WORTH!!!

  • @livincountry
    @livincountry 18 днів тому +61

    I knew when she came back and was being so nice to you she was up to something. The detectives need to look at Hollie’s history with men and how she has lost custody of other kids.

    • @BillStaton-sm4nw
      @BillStaton-sm4nw 12 днів тому

      There is no such thing as good and bad and especially sin in everyone's religion of humanistic and clinical scicology which denies that man has a soul or spirit and denies the fact of sin for which Jesus Christ came and died for. They were instituted into the western world to eventually make CHRISTIANITY illegal through hate crime laws .so even if they do what was considered wrong its not their fault. Its CHRISTIANITYs fault for.making people hate themselves by calling them sinners.

  • @kharris1972kh
    @kharris1972kh 19 днів тому +202

    It saddens me how men who actually want to be fathers are stripped of their rights so quickly. I hate when women poison their child's mind against the father. This is only going to mess Ellion up mentally. I'm praying for all of you, but especially for you and Little Lion. I've watched you before Eliion was born. I honestly had issues about her but never expressed them because I thought that I was being too harsh. As I watched more and more through the years, I saw through her manipulation and cons. I also noticed that if you're a viewer and don't send gifts, money, etc.. that you're of no importance to her. Karma will get her.

  • @pattyfarghaly1821
    @pattyfarghaly1821 19 днів тому +135

    I never thought I'd say this but I feel so sorry for you and the kiddo. She's caught on the show drinking too. You also have proof of all the items she took and how much better the place looks since she's gone. Good luck.

  • @WreathMaker
    @WreathMaker 19 днів тому +71

    Chris of course they are 2 sides to a story but I can say we all have eyes and can see that place looks so much better that she is gone.

  • @susaneaglin1252
    @susaneaglin1252 18 днів тому +95

    Thanks for venting,, we are your family. Dont ever be alone with her without filming. I never want to see a fake sun flower or mushroom again !!😂😂😂😂

  • @ginatelford3205
    @ginatelford3205 19 днів тому +110

    And don't.
    Worry as Elian gets older.He will see how his mother really is

    • @theresablanton233
      @theresablanton233 19 днів тому +27

      As does Melanie and her eldest son

    • @micheleleverett8575
      @micheleleverett8575 18 днів тому +5

      Yes, he will see, and he can choose to live with his dad when he gets just a little older.

    • @lauriesmith5008
      @lauriesmith5008 18 днів тому +2

      What about Chris’s kid. She doesn’t come around.

    • @theresablanton233
      @theresablanton233 18 днів тому +8

      @lauriesmith probably because she dislikes Hollie, maybe when the weather breaks....

    • @jennifersparks7611
      @jennifersparks7611 18 днів тому

      She has an older son?​@@theresablanton233

  • @anitagroves2731
    @anitagroves2731 19 днів тому +65

    Wow, I'm so sorry your going threw this. You needed to get some of this off your chest. It's too bad it came to this because now the one who suffers the most is your boy. This really sucks. All I can say is try your best to stay in the positive and do the right thing like you have been doing.when I first saw you posted a video I was excited because I haven't seen a video . Now I know why. You have alot of strength Chris, the day will come when you'll have peace. Stay strong. Much love. 😊 ❤

  • @HoneybadgerArmy-m2w
    @HoneybadgerArmy-m2w 19 днів тому +104

    Always protect yourself with the camera. Video every interaction with her.

    • @ShaylaB4
      @ShaylaB4 18 днів тому +24

      No offense to Chris, but she’s the brains of that pair. But in her case she’s not nearly as smart as she thinks she is. Kinda of a base low intelligence. Wily like a coyote. He on the other hand, imo, is too sweet natured and kind hearted while she always plotting to get the upper hand in every situation. Beware of encounters with her, Chris she will try to manipulate and outfox you every time. Be strong and hire a mouthpiece to go between and avoid being alone with her.

    • @jenniferdeleon8954
      @jenniferdeleon8954 18 днів тому +21

      He needs some trail cameras. He needs to get proof of the way she acts and for his protection

  • @robynforman1978
    @robynforman1978 19 днів тому +90

    Her behaviour seems psychotic.
    Your son needs you.
    Don't argue with her.
    Look after yourself Chris.

    • @charlenekociuba7396
      @charlenekociuba7396 19 днів тому +22

      No, he needs to fight for his son, custody and his sanity. The drama will destroy this boy. Chris is so much a good dad, patient and hardworking. That's what he needs to have in his life. Hollie needs therapy.

  • @dinodancer4874
    @dinodancer4874 19 днів тому +59

    It's so obvious you are being truthful, and she is still trying to control a narrative she wants everyone to believe. Praying especially for you and Ellion.

  • @shellyhurd1571
    @shellyhurd1571 19 днів тому +152

    Chris, I wish I could reach through my phone and give you a much needed hug. You have been through hell and back for years. You may not like or approve of it, but I went on her last post and told her exactly what I thought of her. I got one snarky comment (that I put a laughing emoji on) and then got out of that group. I am sick and tired of her making it seem like she's the victim. You need to put aside trying to get along with her because it only causes you trouble and heartache. You should press charges on her for taking your phone and for defamation of character. Sometimes, people don't learn without consequences. Put yourself first and protect yourself. You also need to get a restraining order against her and go after rights to see Ellion. Please DO NOT EVER TAKE HER BACK. She drags you down and brings negativity. Move on with your life and be happy. One day, a good woman will come along that treats you right and has your vision. I wish you the best, Chris, and I will pray for you and Ellion. I just want to see you happy and doing your thing. ❤

    • @ShaylaB4
      @ShaylaB4 18 днів тому

      @@shellyhurd1571 👍🏻 🎯 👍🏻

    • @karenearly-horne8210
      @karenearly-horne8210 18 днів тому +14

      I totally agree

    • @carolinemitchell3620
      @carolinemitchell3620 18 днів тому +12

      Exactly he deserves the best and she is not it 🎉

    • @pammenou1799
      @pammenou1799 18 днів тому +7

      Chris don't let her bring you down,know that you are awesome and keep on doing what is good for you and your son. I support you 💯. The Good Lord will see you through all of this mess.

    • @cindywooldridge3837
      @cindywooldridge3837 18 днів тому +6

      I don’t comment much usually. But hopefully everything works out for you. Keep up with your positivity. Women can be horrible. Some not all. Hopefully she realizes and cares what’s best for elion. He needs his dad. Once getting involved with courts makes things a big mess. Just be careful and trust yourself only right now. Get this behind you. But don’t go backward. Forward and don’t look back.

  • @leewillers4621
    @leewillers4621 17 днів тому +41

    Hollie does not want to work and expects a free ride on other’s shoulders, she’s a beggar, deceiver and opportunist. Look at her face and analyze it. I saw her face in the last video, very, very smug. My sister calls her a showboat and dirty person in cleanliness and mind. SHE is the narcissist, not you! I’ll shut up now…. Stay strong Chris. You are brilliant and creative,, don’t give up hope.

  • @conniekirkland4425
    @conniekirkland4425 18 днів тому +73

    Your assessment of Hollie is right on,even though I don’t personally know her, just watching her for years I thought she was spoiled and lazy unless she wants something!Move on Chris you will be better off! I hated when she says she needed something knowing paper lady would send it she took advantage of her for sure!

  • @thisandthatadventures
    @thisandthatadventures 18 днів тому +15

    Chris YOU were the reason I watched you guys all these years. You have always been a positive person. Holly was always more show. Don’t worry about what she’s saying to everyone. Most are not buying it. You hang in there. She can’t stand seeing you moving on with your channel and doing well.
    We love watching YOUR content! Keep doing it and we will be here to support you!
    Praying everything works out for you🙏❤️ you got this!! 🤙

  • @penny-n-kentucky447
    @penny-n-kentucky447 19 днів тому +80

    I’m sorry, Chris. A lot of us saw this happening years ago and even tried warning you. We saw her hatefulness and we weren’t even living with her but anytime anyone said anything, we would get ganged up on in the comments with hatefulness. In fact, I am blown away by the comments I’m reading now. Everyone defended Hollie before as if she was their family. I’m glad to see that people are supporting you and Ellion. I truly hope that the judge sees through her lies. You’re the best thing for that boy. Keep God in your heart. ❤️ She and Ellion posed with you for the thumbnail on their last video so I don’t understand how she was able to use that against you but such is life.

    • @SallyHagar
      @SallyHagar 18 днів тому +3

      @@penny-n-kentucky447 I've been watching them for probably a couple of years I don't know how does UA-cam demonetize your stuff if I was one of those big rich people that have been donating and stuff to him I probably pay off the land and make sure it was in his name only the behavior that's been going on is not cool

    • @charlenekociuba7396
      @charlenekociuba7396 18 днів тому +1

      @@SallyHagar Negative, upsetting content is how Hollie got demonitized. The content has to be entertaining, not an awful tear down. Obviously Chris is upset, insulted and missing his son. But he is caught between a brick and a hard place, he can't go after what he wants, which is Ellion, so he is rationalizing. But soon as he rebounds, he needs to go after and claim his son, protect him from all this emotional abuse, pitting against his dad.

    • @SharonMadlen
      @SharonMadlen 18 днів тому +9

      Hollie is the narcissist! I could see it for several years now, but it was most apparent the other day. She was snarky and condescending! Kudos to you, Chris, for recording her!

    • @LoriLynn-m1c
      @LoriLynn-m1c 17 днів тому +1

      @@SharonMadlen sad situation

    • @charlenekociuba7396
      @charlenekociuba7396 17 днів тому +1

      @@SallyHagar Only a matter of time Hollie turns on Chris. Now Chris needs to get custody before she abandons him running away from accountability, like with the homeschooling paperwork and compliance with State and Federal rules. It's not that he was not doing schoolwork, it's that they avoided the paperwork and rules. Ellion was doing phonics and skills on the computer.

  • @lindamcconnell4808
    @lindamcconnell4808 18 днів тому +75

    Hollie is an abuser and user. All she had to do was ask for something and paperlady and other user would jump to get it for her. Praying for you Chris hope someday you will be happy. I’ll always continue to pray for you

    • @commentater4448
      @commentater4448 18 днів тому +10

      And she felt it was owed to her.

    • @jennifersparks7611
      @jennifersparks7611 18 днів тому +18

      Yeah she was constantly dropping hints about what she needed and wanted. And her fake laugh

    • @Nova.1
      @Nova.1 18 днів тому +17

      ​@jennifersparks7611 that laugh was so fake and annoying

    • @lisaspores2613
      @lisaspores2613 16 днів тому +2

      She knew all she had to do was say I want or need something and it would show up. I always wondered about her. I’ve unfollowed Circle of Friends.

    • @teepeeX
      @teepeeX 9 днів тому +2

      She used GODS NAME to have religious people , who are very giving pay for all

  • @Terry-j8h
    @Terry-j8h 18 днів тому +41

    The worst part is its going to hurt El'lion the most.

  • @AngieResells
    @AngieResells 18 днів тому +62

    If your property is worth $14,000 and you still owe $11,000 on loans, your equity is only $3,000. If you buy her out, you would take on the debt of $11,000 and SHE would only be entitled to $1,500 (half of the equity). Don't give her $7,000, that's crazy!

    • @RebGma
      @RebGma 18 днів тому +10

      YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAS! Was gonna write it but you did perfectly and I see Chris responded so hopefully you understand Chris she’s taking you there anyway- so ya know they’ll allow visits with his dad period- tell her to sign a document stating she’s responsible for half of what you owe( or if you have) ask her if she’d like you to put her 1,500$ towards her share of the debt?

    • @JenniferHayesJVG
      @JenniferHayesJVG 18 днів тому +4

      @Angie Resells funny seeing you here lol ❤😘 and your absolutely right.

    • @martinlitzner9750
      @martinlitzner9750 16 днів тому +3

      What did they use the go fund me for a home for Ellion money on? Why would they need a loan?

  • @gaildenton2807
    @gaildenton2807 19 днів тому +73

    This child is not in a healthy place in his life. No parent should talk about another. He’s really a sad little boy. Shame on you Holly.

    • @mjhonold8530
      @mjhonold8530 18 днів тому

      She calls herself a Christian but a true Christian doesn't act the way she does!!

  • @jenniferdeleon8954
    @jenniferdeleon8954 19 днів тому +51

    I’m sorry you are going through this! No parent should ever put the child in the middle. That shows her true character right there. Keep your head up move forward ❤

  • @glendaheggen7119
    @glendaheggen7119 18 днів тому +60

    I'm glad YOE brought up her lack of house keeping, I have wanted to so many times but didn't.

    • @Blueskathy
      @Blueskathy 17 днів тому +7

      @@glendaheggen7119 I would cringe because it appeared E wasn't being corrected with throwing wrappers, etc on the ground or wherever

    • @user-s6_3-
      @user-s6_3- 14 днів тому

      Yeah she made it look like she was such a clean person I learned that she wasn't when she scrubbed on that oven that time, geeze

  • @jackieadkins918
    @jackieadkins918 16 днів тому +18

    PLEASE RETHINK THE AMOUT HOLLIE GETS FROM THE LAND SHE IS SHAFTING YOU ON THE AMOUT SHE ONLY GETS HALF OF THE EQUITY PLEASE LOOK INTO THAT

  • @thruErinseyes
    @thruErinseyes 18 днів тому +35

    Chris I’m so sorry. I hate women who do this. There is nothing worse than using a child like she is. And it will come back around to her but Ellion will already be damaged. Just stay straight and be that soft place for Ellion when he can make his own choices. Man this has me so upset for Ellion. We all watched we know who the good person is. Just keep doing your work and your channel. Also please protect yourself I don’t care if she offers you a night of love don’t do it. Record any and all calls and interactions with her. She can’t be trusted and she will send you to jail just to get more free stuff from people. I know what I’m talking about. Record record record.

  • @cbsdaigle
    @cbsdaigle 19 днів тому +47

    Dude, do your best to not let her be your anti-christ. Turn the other cheek and just do your best to ignore her actions. Take the higher road (of course, all easy for me to say sitting so far away). You're on the right path. You've got skills & potential. You've got a lot of people rooting & praying for you. Keep your focus on The Most High. ❤

  • @mskarenpie
    @mskarenpie 18 днів тому +22

    Hey Chris! Stay calm and document. Hollie didn't want her other children and soon Ellion will be just like her other children "motherless" when she abandons him. Be strong and be there for him. Things will get better. I actually just resubscribed since she left. Keep up the good work Chris, the place is coming together.

  • @davec1704
    @davec1704 18 днів тому +35

    Stay Strong Brother,Most High and your Subs got ya back,Your Channel will grow and grow .

  • @JASMINEBOSCOSKIPPY
    @JASMINEBOSCOSKIPPY 16 днів тому +21

    Chris i for one support you in your quest for your son. For him to be in the sole custody of hollie is a terrible thing. She's already lost 2 kids. If she has sole custody she probably will lose ellion too. Please get your son with you full time. You are the better parent and i stand by that.

  • @bskeen4594
    @bskeen4594 18 днів тому +35

    Chris, Hollie drank plenty of that beer with you.Not only that she made most of the mess around you.She never taught Ellison to pick up after himself.She is the reason Ellison was not homeschooled. While you were. working.She should be ashamed of herself.She has never been one to own her own shit! She was always running her mouth against others.She has always been trouble!

  • @juliepetty4062
    @juliepetty4062 16 днів тому +24

    How does she know you laughed at her if she was unconscience.

  • @marywszolek5962
    @marywszolek5962 17 днів тому +18

    I remember the videos of Melanie cleaning the trailor all the time sweeping inches of garbage off the floor. Ugh. Shes a bad penny Chris....get her out of your pocket and carry on with your drama free life.

  • @amyadams4123
    @amyadams4123 19 днів тому +42

    To me it sounds like she's jealous of what you have made for yourself since she left. Just continue to work on yourself and live life to the fullest. Elion will see the truth one day and he will come back to the one who respects him and loves him and his well being. Stay safe and warm from the weather. He'll move in the cabin and really enjoy your land. Love watching your videos and all your positive outlook on life.

  • @Trust3
    @Trust3 16 днів тому +12

    Ive seen you work hard and great looking stuff you made buddy and you were always good natured and your love for your son always surfaced! Prayers for you and your situation Chris🙏

  • @kirkniles4184
    @kirkniles4184 18 днів тому +14

    Mr scrappity pointed me to watch your new channel
    I used to watch the old channel but exited stage left because of the whole squatting thing
    I’ll resubscribe now that you are trying to make it work

  • @maryannevarre1542
    @maryannevarre1542 19 днів тому +105

    She’s poisoning your son against you.

    • @Ms.Marie20
      @Ms.Marie20 19 днів тому +21

      But Ellion will eventually find out the truth

    • @Sunnysideup08
      @Sunnysideup08 19 днів тому +28

      Yes, it is called alienation and very detrimental to the child 😔 😢

    • @georgiecampbell5949
      @georgiecampbell5949 19 днів тому +18

      I agree with this.

    • @sharonsue441
      @sharonsue441 18 днів тому +17

      The very WORSE thing a parent can do to their child is degrade the other parent…..many of us have been through divorce with children and as much as I did not love their father…HE WAS STILL THEIR FATHER and I never cut him down ….[only in my head] Chris WANTS TO BE IN CONTACT WITH HIS SON. ,,,AND DOESNT NEED HOLLIE KNOCKING CHRIS DOWN …..at Ellions age,,it is still mommy,,,,however around 12 the boys start to relate more to dad!!!!!!! (Just so you know)

    • @Sunnysideup08
      @Sunnysideup08 18 днів тому +9

      @sharonsue441 ABSOLUTELY 💯

  • @christinesimmons7262
    @christinesimmons7262 18 днів тому +20

    Hollie seems to burn her bridges where ever she goes ,people wake up to her after a while and she plays the victim. She’s only happy when she’s getting free stuff from people. Chris run and never look back you’re better off without her.

  • @braelynsbargains7457
    @braelynsbargains7457 19 днів тому +52

    I always thought she was the one that begged people for everything and always wondered why everything was a mess while you worked so hard..Now if youve been this bad why did she stay so long..Tell them about her moving into a house that she did not own,that slows alot of her character,Ellion is being raised exactly how she as a mother has chosen him to be,I mean no harm by this but he is a precious little boy but she takes no pride in him,no hair cut,no hair comb,clothes just whatever he finds,she needs to take care of him and leave your narcissist ass alone,if you are that bad...She walked away so were suppose babysit and dust her belongings until she decided to come strolling back...There is just something about her,she drank and smoked too..She is no better than you..Again i have always felt this way about her

    • @daisywhite4678
      @daisywhite4678 19 днів тому +16

      On a Psychological view, I think she needs to make you out to be the bad one, to make herself feel better. On a legal point of view, make sure you document everything

  • @braelynsbargains7457
    @braelynsbargains7457 19 днів тому +110

    She set you up!!!!

    • @Snowfall337
      @Snowfall337 19 днів тому +1

      @@braelynsbargains7457 exactly why she came back

    • @Bob42000
      @Bob42000 19 днів тому +18

      100%

    • @mjhonold8530
      @mjhonold8530 18 днів тому +7

      Yes, she did!!!!

    • @jenniferdeleon8954
      @jenniferdeleon8954 18 днів тому +7

      She sure did

    • @JenniferHayesJVG
      @JenniferHayesJVG 18 днів тому +10

      Yep had a feeling something was gonna go down when I seen her back last video. Just the way she was acting.

  • @sweetmx100
    @sweetmx100 18 днів тому +19

    So sorry you have to go through all of this. You seem to be a very hard working talented man who was really trying to make a home for your family. I've watched your videos for about 3 years now and I always thought that she was trouble. She seems to be a master manipulator like she is good at being manipulative. You don't want people talking about her because your a good guy. I pray life starts to get better for you. I know you want to see Ellion but, I think you should just go through the courts, you do have right as his father and you will get 50 50 visitation and she won't have a choice but to bring your son to you on your days. Get on the ball Chris because she is already going to the authorities about you. Protect yourself please. I will say a prayer for you.

  • @rhondag8128
    @rhondag8128 18 днів тому +17

    I’m so sorry Chris that you are going through this, just know that you have a lot of great people out here that care about you and wish you all the best. You have worked so hard to take care of Ellion and his mom, we have all seen the craziness that you put up with over the years. Get a restraining order on her to protect yourself from anymore unannounced visits and the stress that her harassment causes. We have all witnessed her drama with everyone that has tried to help her in the past. Please just take care of yourself.

  • @loriingle7576
    @loriingle7576 19 днів тому +52

    I’m am so sorry you’re going through this. Watching this is a shocker. The way hollie is acting and turning your own son against you. I believe you! I hope you get through this mess! I don’t think getting back together would be a good idea. The lady is a wolf in sheep’s clothing. I’ll pray for you. And your son. Good luck Chris’s.

  • @sherrymorency5266
    @sherrymorency5266 18 днів тому +36

    Shame on Hollie. She lost her other kids for a reason. She never spoke about her son Logan.

    • @JenniferHayesJVG
      @JenniferHayesJVG 18 днів тому +5

      I didn't even know she had another son ...

    • @sherrymorency5266
      @sherrymorency5266 17 днів тому +9

      @@JenniferHayesJVG Yes she never gave that kid the time of day. The boy is blessed not to have her in his life. I feel bad for Ellion if the state is smart they will take him out of her custody.

    • @margaretdora9127
      @margaretdora9127 17 днів тому

      @@sherrymorency5266 I remember some videos that she had two young adult sons and her daughter and Ellion. She wasn’t in touch with them or they chose not to be in touch.

    • @TheWarriorInc
      @TheWarriorInc 17 днів тому +6

      @@JenniferHayesJVG Logan is in his 20s and has nothing to do with her. Looks like Melanie made a lil family too. Hollie's kids are smart and wonderful, but hollie deserves a jail cell.

    • @thruErinseyes
      @thruErinseyes 15 днів тому

      @@TheWarriorInc what is Melanie’s channel. I think UA-cam unsubbed me from hers. ??

  • @bonniedelys
    @bonniedelys 18 днів тому +32

    The good news is that the restraining order will protect you and your property now. Get a burner phone and call the cops when she shows up. She can't initiate contact either. They will allow you visitation no matter what. The child will learn the truth. They always do! Your happiness is right around the corner.

  • @KrissCapen
    @KrissCapen 18 днів тому +28

    It’ll be a long time before she stops tormenting you, and gets on with her own life. She’ll be after you more and more as your channel becomes bigger and bigger. Jealousy is food for her kind.

  • @donitamcclintic2390
    @donitamcclintic2390 19 днів тому +43

    Im here for you! Everyone please remember to like, comment, and share the video. It really does help him out! ❤

    • @Blueskathy
      @Blueskathy 18 днів тому +1

      And let the ads rollllll

  • @beverlywhitaker2816
    @beverlywhitaker2816 19 днів тому +25

    Hey Chris. I'm a long time viewer and I'm sorry to see this has happened. To me, you have always presented yourself as who you are. I have always been impressed with the man that you are and the good care you take of your family.
    Tell those who say you should get a job that she needs to pay you for half your rig because you were self-employed and sold the rig to take care of your family. I have respected your request to not bad mouth Hollie, it made me respect you more. That's maturity. Wasn't it your idea to start a UA-cam channel? Wasn't it your idea to dumpster dive? I remember the video you made saying you were staying home because Ellion cried all the time. The one thing you did say is true and that she is spoiled. You have contributed to that spoiling. You took such good care of your family, they forgot to think of you. I know you should never belittle or criticize your man in front of the world nor should you go behind their back and talk about them as you invite the negative into your relationship. I saw your pride in your son and the strength you gave to him. Stay strong. Stay prayed up because Ellion needs you. She cannot teach him to be a man and you don't want a girly man. Peace and blessings.

  • @user-rb2
    @user-rb2 18 днів тому +24

    How about a job and work on property on days off until being more financially sound?

    • @BoomerRob
      @BoomerRob 17 днів тому

      I don’t think that will ever happen. Too many freebies coming his way.

  • @LexusIs250-j8b
    @LexusIs250-j8b 18 днів тому +13

    So glad you spoke up about your feelings 😢 I couldn’t agree to vent this is the best time to vent . Let it out this is your day 💪😊

  • @danalacy2555
    @danalacy2555 18 днів тому +22

    Her past is so bad where all of her other kids have been taken away can be proved easily and with her character she doesnt have a leg to stand on legally. If she goes for child support make her prove he is yours she will fight you on that because she knows the truth will come out!

  • @normadupree7934
    @normadupree7934 18 днів тому +74

    LET HER GO CHRIS I AM 80 YEARS OLD AND SHE HAS SOME SERIOUS MENTAL PROBALEMS JUST TRY TO GET YOIR SON AND RAISE NIM WITHOUT ALL HER DRAMA ANYWAY WITH 80 YEARS EXPERIANCE SHE WILL DEFINATELY SCREW YOU OVER AND YOUR SON TO IF YOU LET HER I HAVE ALWAYS WATCHED YOU FOR ALL THE AMAZEING THINGS YOU DO WITH WOOD GOD BLESS YOU

  • @thelma1846
    @thelma1846 19 днів тому +54

    I always wondered why Holly’s face has so much wrinkles for a young woman when I started watching years ago, now that you explained that she frowns a lot I understand the wrinkles 😮😮.

  • @Mary-fe2fz
    @Mary-fe2fz 18 днів тому +21

    I have to really laugh about her trying to file for custody of that child! She has NEVER been a good mother! She's already lost custody of three children. I still can remember all those times when that child was always in wet and dirty diapers. Staying in the car seat hours upon hours without eating or moving out of that seat. Let's not forget about all the videos out there showing how many times Hollie has been drunk! Her house was always absolutely filthy! Filled with roaches and rats!!! And, the school situation, she has never once taught that child anything about schooling. She's a lazy human being and wants everything for nothing! She's been toxic since the beginning. And, you know that she's poisoning that child's mind against you! Remember the word you two used a lot in your show? KARMA!

  • @donitamcclintic2390
    @donitamcclintic2390 18 днів тому +23

    I wish I lived closer to give you a big fat hug!! You just try to keep your head up friend and talk to the most high like I've been doing here lately 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @terriann3031
    @terriann3031 17 днів тому +22

    Neither one of you are good people. You two have shown your son a life of grifters and beggars, which is pitiful. I dont feel sorry for either of you. DO you think Elion wont see this some day? Use your damn head for once. Your son is the only victim here. He deserves a normal life and an education. Neither of you should have him in my opinion.

  • @Maria-ul2wn
    @Maria-ul2wn 18 днів тому +16

    I never liked Hollie she's very much me me me and i dont know about anyone else but when chris's daughter would come round you could see she didn't want her around

  • @margaretwinfrey402
    @margaretwinfrey402 19 днів тому +47

    Chris don't let her take you down this road . Stay positive and build your dream . I know in my heart that your a good person . Don't let her take that away from you . Ellion will in time see what she is doing . Just let time be on your side Hun . Read your Bible and let the word of God show you the way . Hugs and Love .

  • @karenhayes2446
    @karenhayes2446 18 днів тому +26

    I always see you doing all the work I see you doing a lot with your son you doing most of the work around there I can't believe Holly is acting like she is my heart goes out for you I hope you get time with your son I think you're a great dad and you do a lot with him watching you never see me violent at all my prayers are with you

  • @AdamNewton-qf4vz
    @AdamNewton-qf4vz 19 днів тому +31

    Prayers Brother keep your faith in God and keep positive.Pray for Her that God will wake her up.Just keep believing God will come through because He will move mountains for you buddy.God Bless

  • @Myfatherskeeper777
    @Myfatherskeeper777 19 днів тому +48

    If it's her land too, where's her monthly payments towards it?!? (Document and keep receipts for ALL of your payments) Hold her feet to the fire, Chris! Enough is enough! Time for her to grow TF up and be an adult AND a RESPONSIBLE mother! It's not her world and she doesn't rule it!

    • @Snowfall337
      @Snowfall337 19 днів тому +8

      @@Myfatherskeeper777 AMEN

    • @AmyBethB
      @AmyBethB 18 днів тому +5

      That is what I was wondering? And wow what a great price too.

    • @lyndal3899
      @lyndal3899 18 днів тому +5

      Preach it!!!!

    • @Cthomas5678
      @Cthomas5678 18 днів тому +3

      That’s true

  • @patrishiajarvis9846
    @patrishiajarvis9846 18 днів тому +13

    I am going to keep this short. I just wanted to say that I will be praying for you. I was hoping things were going to work out between you and Holly for Ellion sake. But it doesn't look like it's the best thing for either of you . I will continue praying for you, and I love watching you. And we'll continue watching you.

  • @karensaelzer2828
    @karensaelzer2828 18 днів тому +25

    Hey Chris...I'm sorry u r going thru all this BUT you also seem to have faith in our higher power, which is a good thing! Know that he is always watching over you and protecting you. You mentioned that you enjoy being alone and living life the way you want to...there's not a dang thing wrong with that. But now and then u should go into town and mingle and talk to people. Having friends is a blessing hon!! Keep being you and keep your faith!!! ❤❤🙏🙏

  • @MickiD255
    @MickiD255 19 днів тому +38

    Good morning Chris, I've been wondering where you have been. The Prosecutor will see the Videos and see who is in the wrong. Who cares about adult videos, that's private. She is in the wrong by teaching your son how to lie. Hang in there Chris, you're doing a great job building. I knew she had something up her sleeve when I saw her back but it was great seeing Ellion. God bless you Chris 🙏🙏🙏

    • @americawaters4257
      @americawaters4257 18 днів тому

      God cares. Another name for adult videos is fornication.

  • @Josie-h7l
    @Josie-h7l 19 днів тому +39

    Keep your head up Chris we got your back

  • @jacquicarfi7693
    @jacquicarfi7693 17 днів тому +7

    Chris.... been watching you since the beginning. Kept my opinions and thoughts to myself so as not to be negative, BUT, just know that your friends "see" through. We know, after all these years, who to trust. Praying for you and Ellion to continue a good relationship; and that Hollie wakes up and realizes the harm she's caused/causing. Blessings, hugs and love sent your way. Stay strong in faith. 😊

  • @margaretdora9127
    @margaretdora9127 18 днів тому +30

    Chris, take this as an opportunity to clean up your property and your life. One door closes, another opens.

    • @craftycrafter1960
      @craftycrafter1960 18 днів тому +2

      The property looks good these days.

    • @LoriLynn-m1c
      @LoriLynn-m1c 11 днів тому +1

      @@margaretdora9127 agree I feel so bad but he is tormented, like enough PTSD is a real thing

  • @sandrathomson1084
    @sandrathomson1084 18 днів тому +13

    Wow is right Chris, just Wow🤯. My prayers are for all of us 🙏🏻🙏🏻. When I watched the last video I knew something was wrong, it was in your eyes. My gut tells me a lot, I listen to it and hoped it was not this bad. Was not expecting this video but glad you shared with us. Confirms my suspicions to my gut feeling. My heart goes out to you, Ellion and Hollie too. Mental health is the priority for us all and unfortunately we are all challenged one way or another. I am like you and keep to myself, and despise drama. Life throws us curve balls and we just need to keep swinging with positivity to fight off the negativity one day at a time Brother. Keep the Faith Brother. Keep your eyes, ears and heart open to Our Heavenly Father and keep doing your best and pray for the rest. I will keep praying for everyone ♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻. Sending Hugs, Positive Vibes and Prayers 🤗👍🏻👍🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @sharonsue441
    @sharonsue441 19 днів тому +35

    Chris,,,I was a divorced mom with 3 sons and a daughter…..When my boys were around 12 I noticed how much they needed to be with their dad…I do think Ellion will want to be closer to his dad when he reaches 12-13….Just continue doing what keeps you busy ,,,there is a lot on your plate right now,,,BUT IT WONT LAST FOREVER…….THINGS WILL ALL TURN OUT OK…JUST HANG ON….I will continue to follow you…👍🏼👍🏼

    • @Sandramce60
      @Sandramce60 18 днів тому +6

      What goes around comes around

  • @beckygrice2000
    @beckygrice2000 18 днів тому +23

    Chris it’s time to get an attorney to help you fight this battle. You need to have your parental rights protected as well as Hollie.

    • @brandystl
      @brandystl 17 днів тому

      definitely. he is talking WAY too much and has an attitude that everything will come out all right. everything he is saying is just making things worse.

  • @Ms.Marie20
    @Ms.Marie20 19 днів тому +132

    I knew from the start and I’ve been watching y’all since Hollie was pregnant. She’s trouble! I always saw right through her. Don’t let her come back. She’ll destroy you

    • @theresablanton233
      @theresablanton233 19 днів тому +22

      Yeah she's jealous Dang Right is doing well👍

    • @bobbiemassard4814
      @bobbiemassard4814 18 днів тому +21

      Me to when they was on the island is when I seen who she really was

    • @ellenkimphipps2470
      @ellenkimphipps2470 18 днів тому +8

      @@bobbiemassard4814 you right thats when i really saw what kind of person she was.

    • @ChristopherZ1169
      @ChristopherZ1169 18 днів тому +6

      There’s always 3 sides to a story..his side, her side and then there’s the truth..a couple hundred YT family therapists giving advice isn’t going to help..time is what’s going to solve their issues.

    • @mellsym6353
      @mellsym6353 18 днів тому +6

      Yup same. Have been watching since they were in that trailer expecting Ellion. Always knew she was bad news.

  • @mnwhit1
    @mnwhit1 18 днів тому +10

    You venting on this video hopefully made you feel better by getting things off your chest. When I saw her on the last video I knew in my heart she was up to something. Even if she gets full custody you can still have visitation. My ex and I went with what the system set every other weekend a few hours on Wednesday Fathers Day his bday and a couple hours on the kids bday and 2 weeks in the summer. And whenever they wanted to see their dad and he and I were ok with it. Don’t give up you are doing great. But do video every time she visits put up cams around your property and I kept a journal and every correspondence we had. I have a whole tote full of paperwork. Make sure you keep track of money given to her and what you spend on the land. Chin up and keep on truckin’. God Bless

  • @victorianunez8525
    @victorianunez8525 19 днів тому +34

    Well Chris I guess the Lord is laying a new path for you. Somehow this is a lesson. I am 70 years old and have seen this happen to several people. Hollie is not going to change but with patience you can eventually come to a mutual understanding and agreement. My one bit of advice is that no matter how impossible it might seem, keep trying to maintain a relationship with your son. I have not seen my grandson in 21 years and it is basically the same scenario as you are facing now. We told ourselves that this would pass and that he would eventually see the truth, but because my son walked away, not because he didn't want to be in his son's life but because he did not want him to have to suffer or have to be constantly in the middle of the battle. Because Ellion is so young the memories of what is going on between you and Hollie will become muddled to him and he will only have the memory of Hollie's struggle and other influences in her life. He won't remember what you to had together. So never stop trying. From this old lady who has and abundance of faith in the Lord.

  • @jessicacollins9286
    @jessicacollins9286 18 днів тому +9

    Chris, just keep moving forward and keep your head up. Your a great father and Ellion knows that you have a special bond. Sending prayers everything will be okay.🙏

  • @sunshine-er7ny
    @sunshine-er7ny 19 днів тому +76

    She's not a good person. She's proven that more that once. She is poisoning your son against you. Please fight to get him. She's lost her other children

    • @pebb65UT
      @pebb65UT 18 днів тому +1

      Omg... I didn't know she had other children ...😮 I pray they are not damaged ...so sad.🙏🏾

    • @nocatfishnana1923
      @nocatfishnana1923 18 днів тому +3

      @@pebb65UTshe has a 21 year old Daughter and a Son that’s a little bit younger. The Daughter recently had a baby girl. She speaks to Hollie but not close to the Son. Her Daughter seems to be very happy and has a good relationship with the baby’s Father.

    • @annj7021
      @annj7021 18 днів тому

      Melanie she used to live with them she's been in a lot of the videos when Ellion was a baby ​@@pebb65UT

  • @laurapettit9045
    @laurapettit9045 18 днів тому +24

    You don't owe her $7000, she owns 1/2 of the outstanding debt. If you pay her 1/2 of what you have paid + 1/2 of appreciation on that amount. Then you take on the debt

  • @Jeandoesthings222
    @Jeandoesthings222 18 днів тому +10

    Chris my prayers are with you and ellion sorry for the way things are going love and prayers

  • @Shelly56431
    @Shelly56431 18 днів тому +17

    Hi Chris , I feel so bad for You and Ellion!!! You both deserve so so much better !! I saw her true colors along time ago. I have had lots of experience! My Son was in a relationship with someone exactly like her and we went through hell and back for years!!My advice to you is get a lawyer as soon as you can and get custody of Ellion! The madness will not stop till you do! I will be watching and cheering you on! Love to you and Ellion .❤❤

    • @cyndeecollings9461
      @cyndeecollings9461 18 днів тому +1

      CHRIS I JUST WENT THROUGH THIS WITH MY SON IT TOOK OVER A YEAR BUT HE GO THE CUSTODY OF HIS SON AND HE IS SO MUCH BETTER. DONT GIVE UP ON ELLION CHRIS I WILL TELL YOU WHAT I TOLD MY SON IF YOU REALLY WANT YOUR BOY THEN GO AFTER HIM. DO WHAT EVER THR COURT TELLS YOU THAT YOU NEED TO DO. MY SON DID THAT CHRIS AND HIS REWARD WAS HIS SON. THE FIRST THING THEY TOLD MY SON WAS HE HAD TO HAVE A JOB SO HE GOT ONE HE IS MAKING A VERY GOOD PAYCHECK. THE OTHER WAS HE HAD TO HAVE A STABLE HOME FOR HIM HE DID THAT TOO. IF YOU TRULY WANT EILLON THEN GO AFTER HIM CHRIS. WE WILL BE RIGHT HERE WE HAVE YOUR BACK. GOD BLESS YOU CHRIS IF YOU REALLY BELIEVE IN HIM THEN TURN YOUR LIFE OVER TO HIM AND FOLLOW HIM DONT FIGHT HIM.

  • @naturalwitch1359
    @naturalwitch1359 18 днів тому +8

    Her daughter left years ago and has nothing to do with her your son will figure it out too

  • @Cthomas5678
    @Cthomas5678 18 днів тому +50

    If she’s supposedly so afraid of you she wouldn’t even had come back there

    • @donnahicks4853
      @donnahicks4853 18 днів тому

      Exactly
      She just went back to set him up on false accusations.
      She’s evil

    • @JenniferHayesJVG
      @JenniferHayesJVG 18 днів тому +5

      Exactly 💯

    • @TheWarriorInc
      @TheWarriorInc 17 днів тому +2

      she came back to ruffle feathers. she is very vindictive.

  • @lindacoon1218
    @lindacoon1218 14 днів тому +3

    Your situation reminds me so much of my oldest son’s situation. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Stay strong & positive. Fight to stay in your son’s life no matter what. Hang in there. God don’t like ugly…He sees everything. The truth shall set you free. Never forget this.

  • @dianat119
    @dianat119 19 днів тому +29

    Chris, I've watched you and Hollie since Ellion was a baby because I have so enjoyed your videos. Watching Ellion go from baby to seven year old boy was a privilege. He always seemed to be having so much fun. I don't like saying this but you've proved to me that you are a very hard working man, happy with the simple life. Hollie, on the other hand seemed to be more interested in material possessions provided by fans, especially Paper Lady and Country girl. who were so very generous. Was that a good thing? I'm not sure but knowing people could give her the things that you couldn't maybe it spoiled her. If she is turning Ellion against you, well that is so wrong. But I will pray for you both and especially for young Ellion who is the most important person in this relationship. I wish you good luck and happiness and may the Lord watch over you all and protect you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤❤

  • @KariOlsen-l9e
    @KariOlsen-l9e 14 днів тому +3

    Prayers are with you Chris, the Lord will see you threw these hard times. I see you are a Very positive person and a Very hard working man.

  • @karenfredericks3989
    @karenfredericks3989 18 днів тому +23

    Hang in there buddy. You still have alot of people who believe in you
    Much love from halifax Canada

    • @mjhonold8530
      @mjhonold8530 18 днів тому +2

      I will and always support Chris!!

  • @jenniejones9592
    @jenniejones9592 18 днів тому +17

    What it sounds like is she wants you out of the way I just hope you are able have a relationship with your son. I will be praying for you Chris we all will.

  • @Dee-wg1ni
    @Dee-wg1ni 18 днів тому +8

    Prayers are with you.
    1. Never go grocery shopping when you are starving.
    2. Never record when you are angry with others.
    Prayers are with you

  • @sweetmx100
    @sweetmx100 18 днів тому +12

    Thats because she willget child support awarded to her for Ellion. She is smart, very conniving she knows that if they award her child support and you dont pay it they will arrest you after it gets to a high amount. Just crazy so sorry for you man.

  • @RebekahHartung
    @RebekahHartung 19 днів тому +22

    Let her go and move on, don't let her hurt anymore

  • @terryedens9844
    @terryedens9844 18 днів тому +12

    Hang in there Chris God's got you and the right outcome will prevail.

  • @denisesummers3107
    @denisesummers3107 18 днів тому +9

    You need to have someone that can go and stay with you when she comes over. I do feel that it was a setup. I’ve watched y’all since she was pregnant with Ellion. You do need to watch her because I feel that she’s out to get you. My heart goes out to you

  • @pamelahaynes7081
    @pamelahaynes7081 18 днів тому +8

    Someone gave me some good advice one time she told me that there's a lot things worse than being alone.

  • @Blueskathy
    @Blueskathy 18 днів тому +17

    How did she know you may have laughed if she was supposedly knocked out ?

  • @brendademyers5093
    @brendademyers5093 19 днів тому +26

    You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Give it to God, leave it at the foot of the cross and let Him take care of it. He knows the truth and that is all that matters.

  • @AnnetteCarr-n1y
    @AnnetteCarr-n1y 18 днів тому +24

    Hollie probably doesn't have any money and is going after you for child support. That is why she is starting these proceedings. Watch your back. She always has her best interest in mind.

    • @brandystl
      @brandystl 17 днів тому

      that's why the prosecutor is asking about income. They can't make you pay what you don't have - my ex didn't work and lived off his grandma, so I got no child support. The family court judge expressed HEAVY dismay, LOL, but that's about all he did.

  • @lesleyjackson9110
    @lesleyjackson9110 18 днів тому +20

    Stay strong Chris sending love xxx

  • @debfisher7593
    @debfisher7593 18 днів тому +10

    Shes not spoilt chris mate..
    Shes definitely not spoilt... if she is spoilt she would get a job and get money for the stuff she wants...
    She leaves a wreck every where she goes...
    She needs medical treatment
    And I'm not being mean or anything like that.. she needs to see a dr and get diagnosed with bipolar...

  • @laurasmith843
    @laurasmith843 18 днів тому +42

    Everybody, like subscribe and share! Please help lift up this poor man! I believe he is good. I believe he deserves to be treated well , he needs friends and any form of support we can offer! First he needs a phone! Thank you!

  • @DianaWhitlock-p6f
    @DianaWhitlock-p6f 18 днів тому +14

    Hello from Texas 78” I am going to put this out there. The person who wrote stop the beer and cigarettes. If you go back and watch those videos Hollie also drank beer to . Don’t judge until you walk a mile in his shoes. I never ever saw him drunk. So if you don’t have any thing nice don’t say anything at all. Love you Chris you are the better person. Love Nana 78”❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @charlenekociuba7396
    @charlenekociuba7396 15 днів тому +3

    If she was directed to get Ellion into dance, that must be under Protective Services due to the neglect of educating Ellion. So she may not be able to get out of that monitoring unless she is going to family ( sister ). Otherwise she NOT be allowed to take Ellion out of Virginia's jurisdiction. It is understandable that Hollie wants to leave, she does not want to comply, follow rules and or protect Ellion. It's a move so she can get away from monitors. That's what s absolutely necessary for Ellion's sake. This is your time Chris to point out you want your son. Lapsed time, you'll miss out.

  • @MonaBurton-l4e
    @MonaBurton-l4e 16 днів тому +6

    This is so sad. I did not know that things were this bad/sad but in some of the videos, I did see some of her personality exactly the way you’re describing it. There was times that even felt that she was very self-centered and selfish.
    Stay strong it’s a good thing. They have your phone cause I got the videos and they have all the videos I’ve been posted on your other channel that demonetized.

  • @kevinhudson5570
    @kevinhudson5570 19 днів тому +53

    I thought that land was supposed to be paid for with the donations that your followers gave y’all if it wasn’t where did all that money go??? That’s Carzy

  • @laquita2627
    @laquita2627 19 днів тому +15

    Stay positive chris my son had a toxic relationship for 5 yrs we were so happy it's over he married for the first time at 46 lol. I love your videos and was shocked to see hollie there😮.