Why Parents Don’t Support Pro-Wrestling as a Career (or Hobby)

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  • Опубліковано 28 гру 2024

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  • @TilWeMakeIt
    @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for watching - I hope you enjoyed it! 😄 Check out my Patreon @ www.patreon.com/tilwemakeit to support the creation of my UA-cam videos, and gain access to tons of exclusive new content.

  • @Dylosophy
    @Dylosophy 8 місяців тому +16

    Clicked this notification immediately lol

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +2

      What did you think of this one?

  • @RydenEden
    @RydenEden 8 місяців тому +11

    man im 35 and I didnt tell my parents a ANYTHING until the day I debuted.. and I didnt even tell them what it was.. i just told them I needed them to come to xyz at 7 pm lol...

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +3

      That's the easiest way to do it!

    • @spleaqz2766
      @spleaqz2766 8 місяців тому +1

      hey man was it worth it im 17 turning 18 in 2 months thinking about getting in have any advice?

    • @duganjulian5580
      @duganjulian5580 7 місяців тому

      ​@@spleaqz2766I started at 32. It's worth it, if you put in the effort

  • @drakebest8645
    @drakebest8645 8 місяців тому +2

    Mr. Quackenbush you have no idea the amount of motivation you gave me, I’ve been studying and paying close attention when I’m watching old school wrestling, because they used to be giants and I’m a whopping 5’3 🤣 but Ive been doing 500 pushups and 750 situps 5 days a week along with stretching and cardio workouts I learned while in the army to prepare for training next summer. I did reach out to the academy in St. Paul and I spoke to Mrs. Anderson, she’s very nice and understanding, I already feel welcomed. Thank you for taking your time and sharing your expertise with all of us who are extremely serious about earning their way through the business.

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +2

      I'm so glad to read this, Drake! Please give my regards to Ken when you see him, and best of luck in your training!

    • @drakebest8645
      @drakebest8645 8 місяців тому +1

      @@TilWeMakeIt absolutely, I already let them know you referred me to them! Seriously Mr. Quackenbush you make dreams feel like they’re in the realm of reality, hope you understand how much of a positive impact you have on people!

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +2

      @@drakebest8645 This means a lot, I really do appreciate you saying so. Thanks!

    • @spleaqz2766
      @spleaqz2766 8 місяців тому +1

      hey man do u have any socials im also tryna be a pro wrestler i need people i can talk about it with.

    • @drakebest8645
      @drakebest8645 8 місяців тому

      @@spleaqz2766 you asking me?

  • @StSteel14
    @StSteel14 8 місяців тому +1

    I'd say the biggest thing not mentioned in this video, although a little similar to the point about financial stability, is the fact that not only is this a career in sport, its not one that just anybody can do. Its very difficult to get anyone to believe a dream that you have, and being a professional athlete is one if the the dreams so many people have but just aren't taken seriously by those around them. Fortunately in many other sports, maybe football or basketball, people are aware of whether a player is good or not from watching them or hearing about the matches theyve played in. But since pro wrestling isn't something that just anyone can do, there won't be a history that they can base their belief off of. Anyone with the issue this video addresses is most likely someone who hasnt started training, so they have nothing they can show or do to prove their dream should be taken seriously by their parents. A huge chunk of them would just dismiss the idea as unrealistic because they find it hard to believe anyone they know getting to the point that theyre on national television. Usually for this type of problem, id talk about the fact that everyone that's made it in this business began by wanting to be a part of it. None of the top names got there by believing they wouldn't have a chance in wrestling. And this applies to every sport. To actually reach the point where its your career, you have to want that to be the case. I understand that now there's maybe a few more wrestlers who didn't get to their level by dreaming of it and eanting it for years, since wwe has their own system that im not too educated on where they look for athletes in other sports who they think have potential for wrestling, but the point is still absolutely valid.
    You must convince whoever doesn't believe you that unless someone comes from a family of wrestling, they pretty much all started with the same thought that's going through your head now and probably for a long time. If you can convince your parents of this fact, theres nobody else that's required to believe in you ajd support you.
    Im lucky that mine are supportive of my dream, and they're looking to find me a job so that i can fund my own training since its pretty expensive and I'd need to pay for travel as well, an amount of money that i personally don't feel comfortable with making them pay for themselves even if they would do it. The only thing i had to ensure them of was the fact that i wouldn't throw away my education for a career where much of my success isnt even determined by me, but the decisions of others. I've only recently turned 15 for anyone wondering, and want to begin training before im 16, since physically i can match lots of adults, and I've found a school where i can be trained properly at my age and not be lumped in with children who are only really at a wrestling school to have fun with promos. Again, this is my dream so i really want to do everything i can for it. That's why even if deep down the end goal for me is to make it to wrestlemania or something like that, i still want to go through the more traditional path for a career through the indies. I cant know for sure if I'll ever hit the professional level, but the independent scene is so interesting to me, because of the fact pretty much anyone can be anywhere. That alone makes it seem magical to me, so i want to make the most if my time in it
    Sorry that this was so long and almost a monologue of absolute contradictory nonsense because of just how much i wrote throwing me off topic, but also thanks for anyone that took the time to read this far. (And if i remember ill come back to this comment when i debut in a year or two and send whoever wants to from the replies to my first match)
    Good luck to anyone starting their journey!

  • @shakabrown3721
    @shakabrown3721 8 місяців тому +4

    There’s no need to argue, parents just don’t understand

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +3

      I am the right age to see what you did there.

  • @doitwthflair
    @doitwthflair 7 місяців тому

    Im trying to get stronger so they know i have good potential, but im not sure which sport to use for high school.
    Thanks man this helped👍 Starting even though my parents dont support.

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  7 місяців тому +2

      If your school offers any kind of weight-lifting program, sign up!

  • @owenhartguy7953
    @owenhartguy7953 5 місяців тому

    What do people suggest doing for a backup plan or to make enough money to pay for training?

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  5 місяців тому +2

      I’m an Owen Hart guy myself. When I was starting out, I juggled multiple part-time jobs that had flexible enough schedules that I could take weekend bookings but still earn money to stay afloat.

    • @owenhartguy7953
      @owenhartguy7953 5 місяців тому

      @@TilWeMakeIt Thank you for your answer sir! I'm 19 years old so Owen passed before my time but I used to watch old VHS tapes and DVDs of his and the Network being created has given me more access. I'm looking for a day job through the week to pay for my training at evenings. Thank you sir

    • @owenhartguy7953
      @owenhartguy7953 5 місяців тому

      @@TilWeMakeIt I'm also a big fan of your channel and your work as a wrestler

  • @TheeJPH
    @TheeJPH 8 місяців тому +1

    Are there any tips you can give to someone who is 5’7 to increase chances of success

    • @TheeJPH
      @TheeJPH 8 місяців тому +1

      Going back to one of your points, my parents keep telling me that im too small to be a wrestler and that i should give up

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +4

      Yes. Cultivate a superhuman physique for yourself, even if it takes a few years. Get boots with lifts if you think your height is an issue. Keep in mind, you tower over Rey Mysterio.

    • @TheeJPH
      @TheeJPH 8 місяців тому +1

      @@TilWeMakeIt appreciate the advice, I’ve been working hard in the gym the last year and a half. I’ll make sure to aim for that crazy physique 💪

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +2

      @@TheeJPH That look will open doors for you!

  • @CharadeTV
    @CharadeTV 8 місяців тому +1

    Keep doing the wrestling god's work Mike

  • @danielfindley94
    @danielfindley94 Місяць тому

    I have been trying to explain to them most of mine life and they never really understood it besides my dad was a big fan of hogan and savage that what it is growing in a strict religion family and i always had a massive obsession with it since I was a teenager and the internet got me more exposure to it and addicted to things I never heard of or watched in mine life

  • @ActualPsyop
    @ActualPsyop 8 місяців тому +3

    I’m still doing it though.

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +2

      Awesome!

    • @ActualPsyop
      @ActualPsyop 8 місяців тому

      @@TilWeMakeIt I Appreciate it, getting most of my information from you so I can avoid career complications, I’m going into this business with a humble, realistic and open mind, It’s what I can offer the business, not what the business can offer me. (btw my bad if the profile pic shocked you in anyway lmao)

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +2

      @@ActualPsyop I'm glad to be of help! You might find some of these upcoming classes I'm teaching to be of interest: www.thewrestlefactory.com/may-seminars

  • @MikeeTompkins
    @MikeeTompkins 6 місяців тому

    I was 14 and told by my parents shut up, it's just a pipe dream and to get a real job. I regret listening to them and not pursuing my dream. It haunts me to this day..

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  6 місяців тому +1

      It's never too late to start!

  • @damianelford1774
    @damianelford1774 8 місяців тому +2

    My parents are ok with me doing it I just need to be safe

  • @marwanmaroc5491
    @marwanmaroc5491 8 місяців тому +2

    Can a Moroccan join WWE?

    • @TilWeMakeIt
      @TilWeMakeIt  8 місяців тому +3

      Yep! Any nationality can!

  • @jayrajshelar3243
    @jayrajshelar3243 8 місяців тому

    Why didn't you put out this video about 14 years ago?

  • @johnkase6285
    @johnkase6285 8 місяців тому +2

    Lapse Catholicism . . . same my brother, same !

  • @unusedsub3003
    @unusedsub3003 8 місяців тому +1

    Doesn’t really seem any different to professional football in the UK. The players you see on tv are just the tip of the iceberg. The vast majority of players make chicken feed, they usually have day jobs on building sites, nursing homes, supermarkets, warehouses, factories etc. Players careers rarely last longer than mid 30s. The lower down the football pyramid you go, the more physical and dangerous it is, thus injuries are frequent. So you’ll need an understanding boss in your day job if you’re on crutches. Basically, unless you’re lucky, being a professional player is a 💩 deal.

    • @northleedspoppa
      @northleedspoppa 8 місяців тому

      TBF the top 5 leagues all are professional paying far far more than average national wage

    • @unusedsub3003
      @unusedsub3003 8 місяців тому

      @@northleedspoppa Yeah and below that……..💀💀💀💀