No its the fact that when you need peop there the most especially family arent stepping up or so called friends im sorry but yall dont have kids so yall can speak on it. I just had mine 3 months ago its not just the postpartum depression is the fact that your whole life changes you need peop there for you and all of the sudden they dont ask how youre doing but before the baby theyre sure there for the baby shower gender reveal etc. Moms go through so much dealing with the recovery..the pain..the new routine the new baby adjusting to everything...youd wish someone woukd care enough to reach out to you and check how youre doing. You have to experience it to understand.
Dude everyone talks about lily’s transformation, BUT have any of you realized mandos!?? GREAT JOB MANDO! I went back to see some of y’all’s old vlogs with the squad since yall haven’t done much together && damn, you’ve put in some work dude!! Congrats to you both on the healthy lifestyle!
Es lo que me cae mal de Lili, que emprimara no es mamá nunca a estado en los zapatos de una mamá y piensa que todos tenemos la vida resuelta, solo tenia que opinar así como ella lo hace
Y si te cae mal que haces aquí🤷♀️🤷♀️ ella no dijo porque exageran con eso bien dijo yo no sé si es y luego dijo no sabía que era así. Y lo que ella siempre ha dicho ella como amiga no está pegada a ti en general!
I NEVER said it wasn’t a thing or that it wasn’t serious! I clearly said that I have totally witnessed it from multiple momies first hand & noticed how it affected our friendship & not because of anything I did (which they even admitted to me after the fact). I stated how I , as a friend, didn’t even notice it was happening at the beginning & that me not constantly reaching out & checking up on my friends had become a problem for them (when it wasn’t before hand) because of the ppd.. & now that I know the signs, I TOTALLY do my part and reach out more then usual just to check in and make sure they know I’m here… Hopefully writing it out makes more sense of what I was trying to say
@@Baez1011Same after my 2nd...Accept that I was also diagnosed with Cancer/Lupus...Pregnancy took a huge toll on my immune but I'm grateful overall...🙏
I don’t think it’s depression, when you become a mom for the first time you want the people you love to show up more or try. A woman goes through sooo much during and after the pregnancy so I feel they want just a little more presence from friends. It’ll just show us how much you care in a way
It’s sad, but not all friends adapt to each other’s different life stages. When you become a mother, priorities change & all we can hope is that our friends stick with us. I also think that we all have different expectations from our friendships. True deep friendships are those who are there for you when you’re struggling, not just when times are fun and easy. I’ve lost friends bc they didn’t understand my new chapter in life. I have also had the true ones adapt to my new life & try to be involved. Those are the real ones ❤️ I value them so much & return the love and appreciation 😊
@@jazminp6093 very well said 🥹 I’ve been through the same sadly I lost those who were only around for the fun times but it’s understandable. Some friends are for a season and others for a reason ❤️
Postpartum depression and anxiety is horrible i had it and it made it worst because my in law told me my babys are better with her then me because she grew up with her grandparents instead of her parents so my kids had to do the same. Since then i distance my self and my kids. Its a horrible experience nobody can feel until you actually go through it
I’m grateful for waking up this morning for being able to see my kids here for our health. I’m also thank for you guys lily and mando for being yourself
I’m grateful for God, my boyfriend, my 3 amazing kids, the roof over our head and the fact that we never go to bed hungry. God is amazing. Lily and mondo y’all are looking great, y’all motivate me to continue on my fitness journey.
Can u guys make a video about how yall been losing weight and being fit. What motivated u. And what ur doing please. 🙏🏻 im currently struggling with my health & staying motivated to push thru & how to eat healthy!
I’m grateful for sunshine this morning. It’s been raining all week. I think it’s not so much about wanting to isolate yourself from your friends and family. When you’re a new parent you’re trying to adapt to your new normal, almost over night. Some people have ppd but ppa also exists. It’s different for everyone and also depends on the baby (temperament, schedule, etc). Sometimes it takes longer to pack up and go than the amount of time you’re actually gone. Plus your other responsibilities are still there. It may all not seem like a big deal, but add your hormones to the mix and for some moms it’s la gota que derrama el vaso. I think we can just offer parents more grace during that period.
My fiancé wants groomsmen a huevo & me (the soon to be bride), does not want any bridesmaids. We ain’t getting married anytime soon so I’m not trippin’ about it rn but once the time comes, it will be a difficult conversation lol. I’m looking forward to seeing how y’all handle it
Im the asshole. For the shot gun wedding. There is more to story. 😅 my fiancé family is always judging y we aren't married. I want to get married. And we they ask I can say whose to say we aren't married fyi we r married I want to shock their asses. I'm all giddy cuz u reading. PS. Proud to be the ass
I’m thankful for waking up this morning, being able to cook breakfast for my 3 kids and my husband. Having a roof over our heads, and our fridge full of food🙏🏼GRACIAS A DIOS🙏🏼
Im grateful for another day of health for me and my family. Im grateful to be able to feed them breakfast this morning and for having a roof over our heads ❤❤❤
IDEA!!! I wish you had longer podcast. You should have an all female episode and all male episode same topic for both and put them together for one full episode.
Grateful for waking up and being able to talk to my family 🙏🏻 missed yall last week 😅 Lily can you do a video with everything you’ve done regarding your weight loss journey. - Food - supplements - how you stay motivated to go to the gym. - did you go to the Dr regarding your thyroid Thanks 🎉 Happy Wednesday
Grupo firme concerts are the best! I agree with you mando
Make the off-roading shirt but with a CanAm 😩
Love u guys. Love all ur channels. Lily got me dying with the pobrecita y pobrecito word..😂 ❤❤❤❤❤
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No its the fact that when you need peop there the most especially family arent stepping up or so called friends im sorry but yall dont have kids so yall can speak on it. I just had mine 3 months ago its not just the postpartum depression is the fact that your whole life changes you need peop there for you and all of the sudden they dont ask how youre doing but before the baby theyre sure there for the baby shower gender reveal etc. Moms go through so much dealing with the recovery..the pain..the new routine the new baby adjusting to everything...youd wish someone woukd care enough to reach out to you and check how youre doing. You have to experience it to understand.
Dark humor de vez en cuando no hace daño 😅
50:20 LILY YOU ARE A MOOD ! Siempre turn it around to the guy lol
Dude everyone talks about lily’s transformation, BUT have any of you realized mandos!?? GREAT JOB MANDO! I went back to see some of y’all’s old vlogs with the squad since yall haven’t done much together && damn, you’ve put in some work dude!! Congrats to you both on the healthy lifestyle!
He’s doing amazing!! ❤❤❤
Ozempic ?
Postpartum depression is serious i dont think you can speak of it being that you have never experienced it
This!!! I got ppd with my 3rd baby, it was bad…
Es lo que me cae mal de Lili, que emprimara no es mamá nunca a estado en los zapatos de una mamá y piensa que todos tenemos la vida resuelta, solo tenia que opinar así como ella lo hace
Y si te cae mal que haces aquí🤷♀️🤷♀️ ella no dijo porque exageran con eso bien dijo yo no sé si es y luego dijo no sabía que era así. Y lo que ella siempre ha dicho ella como amiga no está pegada a ti en general!
I NEVER said it wasn’t a thing or that it wasn’t serious! I clearly said that I have totally witnessed it from multiple momies first hand & noticed how it affected our friendship & not because of anything I did (which they even admitted to me after the fact). I stated how I , as a friend, didn’t even notice it was happening at the beginning & that me not constantly reaching out & checking up on my friends had become a problem for them (when it wasn’t before hand) because of the ppd..
& now that I know the signs, I TOTALLY do my part and reach out more then usual just to check in and make sure they know I’m here…
Hopefully writing it out makes more sense of what I was trying to say
@@Baez1011Same after my 2nd...Accept that I was also diagnosed with Cancer/Lupus...Pregnancy took a huge toll on my immune but I'm grateful overall...🙏
Mando: “Imma be the asshole… I sometimes lowkey like when you don’t go” 30:07 😂😂😂
just ordered from you guys !! soooo excited 🎉😍
I hope you still have the shirts going on for when I get my next paycheck 🤞🏻😭
I don’t think it’s depression, when you become a mom for the first time you want the people you love to show up more or try. A woman goes through sooo much during and after the pregnancy so I feel they want just a little more presence from friends. It’ll just show us how much you care in a way
It’s sad, but not all friends adapt to each other’s different life stages. When you become a mother, priorities change & all we can hope is that our friends stick with us. I also think that we all have different expectations from our friendships. True deep friendships are those who are there for you when you’re struggling, not just when times are fun and easy. I’ve lost friends bc they didn’t understand my new chapter in life. I have also had the true ones adapt to my new life & try to be involved. Those are the real ones ❤️ I value them so much & return the love and appreciation 😊
@@jazminp6093 very well said 🥹 I’ve been through the same sadly I lost those who were only around for the fun times but it’s understandable. Some friends are for a season and others for a reason ❤️
Lily every podcast is looking slimmer and slimmer. Love that for her ❤
Postpartum depression and anxiety is horrible i had it and it made it worst because my in law told me my babys are better with her then me because she grew up with her grandparents instead of her parents so my kids had to do the same. Since then i distance my self and my kids. Its a horrible experience nobody can feel until you actually go through it
I’m grateful for waking up this morning for being able to see my kids here for our health. I’m also thank for you guys lily and mando for being yourself
I THANKS GOD TO BE HERE WITH YOU GUYS THANKS FOR ALL GOD BLESS YOU GUYS
I’m grateful for God, my boyfriend, my 3 amazing kids, the roof over our head and the fact that we never go to bed hungry. God is amazing.
Lily and mondo y’all are looking great, y’all motivate me to continue on my fitness journey.
We need to know what shampoo you use lmao
Lily is just boring ...she just goes n be on her phone editing her pics
Im grateful for my hardworking husband
I’m grateful for my two beautiful kids❤
Can u guys make a video about how yall been losing weight and being fit. What motivated u. And what ur doing please. 🙏🏻 im currently struggling with my health & staying motivated to push thru & how to eat healthy!
nobody:
mando: AM I THE ASSHOE
I’m grateful for sunshine this morning. It’s been raining all week.
I think it’s not so much about wanting to isolate yourself from your friends and family. When you’re a new parent you’re trying to adapt to your new normal, almost over night. Some people have ppd but ppa also exists. It’s different for everyone and also depends on the baby (temperament, schedule, etc). Sometimes it takes longer to pack up and go than the amount of time you’re actually gone. Plus your other responsibilities are still there. It may all not seem like a big deal, but add your hormones to the mix and for some moms it’s la gota que derrama el vaso. I think we can just offer parents more grace during that period.
54:46 hahah mando be careful what you say the universe is listening 😂
About the cuñadas they be metiches sometimes for no good reason and some of them want to put shit in the brothers head to 🤦🏻♀️
Send the gift 😂😂😂 that made me crack up. You guys are awesome!
Can you do a vlog on how you guys have lost so much weight you guys look amazing.
This was a really good podcast! 💐
I’m grateful for the life I have …….
Amen ❤❤
Ditch the dad jokes and start with the dark humor 😂😂😂
I’m grateful for my baby and being able to still have all my family ❤
The fishing shirt should be a funny one with the caption “ yo no pescó nada “ like those ones hats that went viral lol just an idea 🤷♀️
My fiancé wants groomsmen a huevo & me (the soon to be bride), does not want any bridesmaids. We ain’t getting married anytime soon so I’m not trippin’ about it rn but once the time comes, it will be a difficult conversation lol. I’m looking forward to seeing how y’all handle it
I’m glad I’m not the only one ❤
Good morning love listening to the podcast 😊
My morning just got better!! Love ya'll! Saludos from Dallas!!
I am grateful for my health, my job, my family. Buenos dias!
Just in time heading to work and my favorite podcast just came through love you guys
Im the asshole. For the shot gun wedding. There is more to story. 😅 my fiancé family is always judging y we aren't married. I want to get married. And we they ask I can say whose to say we aren't married fyi we r married I want to shock their asses. I'm all giddy cuz u reading. PS. Proud to be the ass
Good morning Mando & Lily ☀️☀️☀️
Mando got so mad at the thirst trap that he couldn’t say cleavage lmaoo
I’m thankful for waking up this morning, being able to cook breakfast for my 3 kids and my husband. Having a roof over our heads, and our fridge full of food🙏🏼GRACIAS A DIOS🙏🏼
Send the gift 🎁
Whaat am i the asshole for wanting a gift ? hella funny😂😂😎
Grateful for another day, life, health & god!! Thank you for reminding us to be thankful ❤
You should make one que diga Que Padre mi Padre
Saludos desde Pensilvania 👋🏻 love seeing your podcast, always makes my week happier & better.
Im grateful for another day of health for me and my family. Im grateful to be able to feed them breakfast this morning and for having a roof over our heads ❤❤❤
Finally !!
Morning Mando and lily! Shoutout 👍🏻
The fisher would of been bad ass !
Put a dad and son fishing ( color of shirt dark green )
IDEA!!! I wish you had longer podcast. You should have an all female episode and all male episode same topic for both and put them together for one full episode.
What about for the soccer Dads⚽️???
First person that came to mind about the “friend” feeling left out after birth was Gabby 🥹
Good morning from Oregon
Lmao mando shot in every sentence
Grateful for waking up and being able to talk to my family 🙏🏻 missed yall last week 😅
Lily can you do a video with everything you’ve done regarding your weight loss journey.
- Food
- supplements
- how you stay motivated to go to the gym.
- did you go to the Dr regarding your thyroid
Thanks 🎉 Happy Wednesday