😂 He gave her all the signs she needed at the outset with his wandering eyes , flirting , and lack of respect. He doesn’t really care about her drinking. They drink together. If he really Loved her , he wouldn’t be drinking around her knowing she can’t hold her liquor. She’s basically his good for now girl until someone better comes along. He wants marriage and kids just NOT with her lol 🎯
Anytime you tell someone how their behavior impacts you and they don't stop, they don't care enough about you to stop. If I tell you, I don't like you flirting with other women and you continue to do it, it's a problem.
I don't know I usually stop talking to him anyways, anyone that does that has NO RESPECT for you at all especially to do that in your face I would of left them at the table to themselves.
@@mosesmartin588 I agree. The difference is, drinking is actually considered an addiction. So it's harder to change then flirting with other ppl. It's something the drinker has to do for themself.
THIS DUDE IS NOT SINCERELY CONCERNED ABOUT HER DRINKING. He's the type that like to use a person's flaw against them to make that person look bad in order to make himself look more superior. There's noooo way Judge Toler would've let him get away with that lying. She would've read him like a book and called him trifling. The flirting.... 😳 if a dude flirts like that in my face that's a wrap because the level of disrespect it would show he has for me would be on display. He flirted so much until the girl got comfortable with him once the gf excused herself to the bathroom. He plays mind games too much too. Hope she mustered up the strength to leave him.
He comes off as a master manipulator and borderline sociopath. He projected and deflected the entire episode! I’m sad that the judge didn’t see through him. If she was such a drunk, leave her! Why drink with her? Why stay? They’re not in love. They need to break up. Dating a person with a personality disorder will make you drink. She needs to seek help and therapy.
I think she heard “drinking” and that was it. I got worried too, in fact it’s your comment and others that made me realise how much he changed the whole narrative without taking any accountability of the issues she brought forward 😢
It's entirely possible she drinks too much. It's also possible that he drinks with her and enables her as a means of control. Given the fact he lied about something so major like having kids, she should have left a long time ago.
Are we going to ignore his flirtation issue? Because it was never addressed. He deflected the entire time and never claimed his part in their toxic relationship. Plus lying about children. She could stop drinking and it would never change.
@@andersonlowe5332 it does not matter it’s disrespectful to her and he does this in her face. Why be in a monogamous relationship if you cannot respect your partner.
He definitely changed the narrative. He sounds like a narcissist. He lied about wanting to have children. These two need to go their separate ways. Don’t waste any more time Roth him. Run
Lying about not wanting children is a deal breaker. Guys who control and manipulate will poke holes and highlight your flaws as a way to minimize and deflect from their toxic behaviors. Meaning, I can flirt, not have any children with you, and control you because YOU have a drinking problem. The "drinking problem" is his leverage. People like him will also keep you around because you've fallen for the okey doke.
Okay, from what I'm hearing it sounds like she does have an alcohol consumption issue. Also, her concerns about his overly flirtatious interactions with other women are valid. Red flag number one: He never wanted to have children from the start so... either he gave her false hope or she just didn't want to accept the fact he never wants children. With taking all of this into consideration, permanent separation is the solution.
This was a weird one. You on TV talking about 'That's private." She drinks to calm her insecurities around a man with no boundaries with other women and who lied from jump about a deal breaker. No no no no.
so it's okay for him to flirt with other women but he gets angry and jealous when it's her? and the way he deflected the whole situation instead of disrespect, control and manipulation to her drinking is mind-blowing ! and he drinks with her too SMH, she needs to run🤦♀
Yes!!This woman very eloquently pointed out what he is doing,which is what everyone else can see but.Star is stuck on her 'something tells me'..hear the woman!
Baby, we ain't got to fight about it, struggle, live miserably, or go on DIVORCE COURT, when we know the answers...it's giving MISMATCH, and it's time to 🗣 BREAK UP!🗣👀🙄🥴😑😒😑😑😑
He was gaslighting on the children issue. He said she lied about wanting children then tried to blame her behavior as to why he “changed his mind” he never wanted children it was a lie.
even if im on a first date wit a woman, no way in hell im flirting wit the waitress or even asking her to sit down, let alone out with my girlfriend, this is definitely childish highschool behavior
Jaquoby obviously is using Tatiana as a starter career to be ready for his next woman. Too bad she has low self esteem and can't see him manipulating her.
This one was a miss for me. I don’t understand how he straight out came out and said he lied about wanting kids but that was brushed over and the judge still somehow took his side. It seems like she more can’t handle her liquor but he was always with her in all of the stories it’s not like she’s drinking by herself he’s there with her and knows she gets like that but let’s her keep drinking… He seems like a liar and manipulator to me and I feel like the wife wasn’t being heard at all.
This guy is manipulative. He wants out the relationship. He wants kids. He just doesn’t want them with her. He’s gonna have children with the next girl. He wants out…
Yep! I said the same thing. He has been flirting with other women because he doesn't care about hurting her feelings. He only used her drinking as an excuse to shake the table.
I mean she smiles but that doesn’t mean it was out of guilt she seemed completely shocked that he accused her of being an alcoholic in the first place so she could been in disbelief that this conversation was even happening I mean he just admitted that he’d been lying to her for the past 5 years saying he wanted kids when in actuality he never wanted them and then when he got heat for it he changed it to well I don’t want them now because of this but that’s not what he said at first he said that he’d lied to her and that he never wanted kids
It's so obvious that they're not on the same page or even reading from the same book. I think they should part ways if neither is willing to compromise. 😂She was on him like a little Chihuahua after the show!
If you want children and he does not…….he’s not your guy. If he flirts and y’all have had that talk already and he keeps doin it…….he’s not you guy. It’s over, walk away.
He should have been upfront about not wanting kids. Waste of 7 years. He’s using drinking as the ultimate excuse but he never wanted kids in the first place. Leave lady. Work on yourself and growup.
I was with a drinker and they ALWAYS minimize their drinking until they hit rock bottom. It also effects the way they perceive things. I honestly think she has turned him all the off and he just won’t end it. I wouldn’t dare have children with a woman that has an addiction issue. That would be irresponsible. Judge Starr was correct in her assessment.
They are drinking together hes putting all the onus on her...he lied from the start he said he wanted kids then he actually admitted he lied..hes a manipulator hes a creepy lying 💩
He never wanted kids with her in the first place he lied….and he admitted that …and then he seen that got brushed off and made it seem like he didn’t want kids due to her drinking which is again a lie cus he never wanted em anyways
I didn't hear either one of them say they loved the other. Sounds like they don't really want to be together and they are at an impasse about having children. Part ways.
missed the mark here. her issues with his flirting is not based upon infidelity concerns, it undermines her and is an issue of a blatant lack of respect
I mean to be fair, there’s no way I would want my friend to have kids with a woman like that either. Next to life in jail that’s the second worst thing that could happen to you 😭💀
A minute in and she needs to leave him! Is women only have a certain amount of time to have children and she’s been with him for 7 years and lied to her about wanting kids?? She will resent him for the rest of her life if she stays and never has kids! Who would give up having a family for a man? That’s just ridiculous!
🤨 got a gun pulled on him because she was drunk running her mouth ... smh 😐Men losing their life to supposedly be protectors of women happens all the time... I recently saw a story with a guy intervening in an argument between a couple... The guy arguing with his woman shot / killed the guy who intervened and now his 3 children are fatherless because he was "protecting" some woman that he did not even know....... Fellas choose wisely who you are chivalrous to and ladies please be cautious not to put your man in situations that could end badly...Judge Star was on point with what she said in regards to that... "Some of these women will set you up for a fight and then walk away while it's happening..." - Sister Shahrazad Ali
To go into a relationship knowing she wants kids and he full stop doesn't tells me enough about him. He wanted to sleep with her and stayed because he got her. And you're not helping any alcoholism...if that truly what he feels by drinking and enabling her. I don't think he was honest. He deflected far too much.
Lovely dress. Purple, my favorite color. Lovely hairstyle. Once again, you are doing it Judge. And I know the cases you get are ridiculous. These men know exactly what they're doing.
She keep saying that her drinking is private but she bringing his flirting on national tv. She seems like she doesn’t take accountability for her actions. I think he is not in love with her.
She should run from him. He said she drank but left out they drink together throwing her under the bus He talks n flirts w women. But, if she does this wit men she is offending him He lied about wanting kids He is manipulative. She should run and thank God she didn’t get pregnant by him
Why the judge telling them to stay together and work on it, when he doesn't want kids? You can't make that work. She's always be resentful. As a woman myself who doesn't want kids, I'd never date a man who wants them. It'll never work
He said he would consider it if she got her drinking under control. Would you want to have a child with someone who drinking causes issues. Her drinking got a gun pulled on him. Her drinking In social settings and turning up is a issue. Yes he wrong for flirting but she can’t put all the issues on him.
@@enyonamagbemadzo8684 first off nobody a pick me. The whole point is she made it out to be he’s the only issue when she’s clearly the problem as well. She called him out on so much and when she got called out on her shit she wanted to act like he was trying to belittle her. SHES THE PROBLEM AS WELL. Had to caps all those since you clearly seemed to miss the whole point. Secondly…. What I need you to do is learn what “sayings” mean before you try to use them, cause nothing stated called out PICK ME! Maybe you missed that in elementary school. Have a good night ma’am
It ain’t that he doesn’t want to have children, he doesn’t want children with you babe. And him flirting was dismissed completely. Let my man flirt with man/woman/thing in front me.
I swear star was not on her A game today. You can see a mile away that this man was full of it. The moment he confesses to the biggest lie of their relationship should have been clean he was the problem and just using her drinking to to redirect the attention away from her issues with him. Star was fair when it came to listening and understanding her. Idk I couldn’t finish watching cause she didn’t handle this case well.
Ok… IF this episode is real, she should have been upset hearing him say he never wanted kids… they left the show with her being more concerned about them drinking… So my advice is this… if you find yourself in a 3+ year relationship (enhanced or otherwise) and children seem to be off the table because of your behaviors OR excessive flirting takes place in your presence, OR inebriation is excessive to the point where it could cost you or your loved life…. It’s time to leave that relationship… I think they possibly love each other, but don’t know how to let each other go. I think he would have kids with a woman, just not her. I think he would marry a woman, just not her. He wants her, but he wants her to be someone different. She wants him period and probably doesn’t want to “lose” the years she “invested” in him.
How you drinking with your woman them complaining about her drinking he should be the one to stop drinking with her drink outside my brother so can tell her to shop,
The gun story,a woman who really loves their man would never put their man in that situation, but a lot of women do this because women don't understand the threat of violence between 2 men.
He is a narcissist. He completely deflects everything she says and he doesn’t like for her to do the same things he does. He drinks with her and tries to make her feel bad because of it
I hate it when my spouse decides to compliment women in stores... He doesn't see the strange look on their faces indicating to me that they wish he'd leave them alone and allow them to go gack to shopping.
I would literally never talk to him again, so serious. You can tell he wanted to embarrass her and seek revenge by making her drinking an issue. For her to find out for the first time on national television that you have such great issue with her drinking is wild af. You can tell he's never told her in any serious manner before coming to court.
Her drinking had a GUN PULLED ON HIM, he saw kids with her until he realized he didn’t want her to mother his kids. Stop complaining and leave, accountability is the key 🔑
He wanted kids at first until he seen how unstable she was🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ I think he said he lied about not wanting kids because he didn't want to say " I want kids, just not with you".
Purple Royalty Judge Star ❤. I gotta say she fits into this role exceptionally well. Loved judge Mablean, judge Lynn, and now judge Star! IMO the young judge Faith didn’t have enough marriage experience for the job.
They look very good together. Seems like he was open to having children until he realized her drinking capacity. She's disturbed about his excessive flirting. She says that they drink together. They should probably go to Alcoholics Anonymous together or separately. They may not be compatible.
She ain’t do shit to help this case! He flirting and it’s disrespectful! He lied to her saying he wanted children….HE NEVER WANTED CHILDREN IN THE FIRST PLACE SO HE TRYING TO NOT MAKE HIMSELF LOOK BAD BY SAYING HE DONT WANT CHILDREN ALL OF SUDDEN CUS OF HER DRINKING! HES A LIAR AND SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE HIM HE GASLIGHTED HIS WAY THROUGH THIS WHOLE SITUATION AND THE JUDGE WASNT HEARING HER AT ALL 🙄🙄😒😒😒
i hate when it’s so obvious that one side is projecting things because they know they’re wrong, and yet the judge takes him seriously. why can she only sometimes tell the real issue? why sometimes does she give the fool so much leeway?
If a man wants to MARRY or have children with you, He will! If he is unsure then the answer is NO! She should move on!
Quick and in a hurry!
😂 He gave her all the signs she needed at the outset with his wandering eyes , flirting , and lack of respect. He doesn’t really care about her drinking. They drink together. If he really Loved her , he wouldn’t be drinking around her knowing she can’t hold her liquor. She’s basically his good for now girl until someone better comes along. He wants marriage and kids just NOT with her lol 🎯
@@drapertraci7 facts!!!! 💯
@@sjohnson4285 Exactly.... the math was not mathin 😂😂😂
@@Singlehood2Marriage Right... 🤣🤣🤣
Anytime you tell someone how their behavior impacts you and they don't stop, they don't care enough about you to stop. If I tell you, I don't like you flirting with other women and you continue to do it, it's a problem.
I don't know I usually stop talking to him anyways, anyone that does that has NO RESPECT for you at all especially to do that in your face I would of left them at the table to themselves.
@@gracie4200 agreed. If you don't care how I feel, you don't care about me. I really dislike when ppl continue to accept disrespect
I agree. It cuts both ways. The same with the drinking.
@@mosesmartin588 I agree. The difference is, drinking is actually considered an addiction. So it's harder to change then flirting with other ppl. It's something the drinker has to do for themself.
Your boss does whatever but you hang around for the pay check, life is like that, sometimes you have to ignore the small stuff, for your own sanity
Why on earth is it so hard for women to give up on guys like THIS , SMH
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my thoughts exactly!
I'm wondering about that myself
Some females are looking for love in all the wrong places.
Cuz many of them don't know what real love is or looks like. They usually come from broken or violent homes. It's sad.
Lack of father figure in our lives
THIS DUDE IS NOT SINCERELY CONCERNED ABOUT HER DRINKING. He's the type that like to use a person's flaw against them to make that person look bad in order to make himself look more superior. There's noooo way Judge Toler would've let him get away with that lying. She would've read him like a book and called him trifling. The flirting.... 😳 if a dude flirts like that in my face that's a wrap because the level of disrespect it would show he has for me would be on display. He flirted so much until the girl got comfortable with him once the gf excused herself to the bathroom. He plays mind games too much too. Hope she mustered up the strength to leave him.
Amen to that! Judge Toler would have seen right through his manipulation
He comes off as a master manipulator and borderline sociopath. He projected and deflected the entire episode! I’m sad that the judge didn’t see through him. If she was such a drunk, leave her! Why drink with her? Why stay? They’re not in love. They need to break up. Dating a person with a personality disorder will make you drink. She needs to seek help and therapy.
I think she heard “drinking” and that was it. I got worried too, in fact it’s your comment and others that made me realise how much he changed the whole narrative without taking any accountability of the issues she brought forward 😢
It's entirely possible she drinks too much. It's also possible that he drinks with her and enables her as a means of control. Given the fact he lied about something so major like having kids, she should have left a long time ago.
I agree with you.
Very I swear you took the words out my mouth
NARCISSIST
Are we going to ignore his flirtation issue? Because it was never addressed. He deflected the entire time and never claimed his part in their toxic relationship. Plus lying about children. She could stop drinking and it would never change.
He absolutely is gaslighting her
I didn't hear cheating, give it a rest sister...
@@andersonlowe5332 it does not matter it’s disrespectful to her and he does this in her face. Why be in a monogamous relationship if you cannot respect your partner.
@@anneagena8236 Life is never perfect and you can't fight/win every battle, sometimes you just have to pick a struggle..
@@anneagena8236 Sometimes you have to make a choice, flirting in front you vs fcking behind you..
He is definitely a master manipulator. He knew the moment he brought up alcohol, the judge would immediately be shook and look at her funny.
He definitely changed the narrative. He sounds like a narcissist. He lied about wanting to have children. These two need to go their separate ways. Don’t waste any more time Roth him. Run
@@bee12355
True I agree
so he was never supposed to say anything about her drinking like that or her behavior causing a gun to get pulled on him. got it.
He was drinking with her..he was putting all the onus on her..hes a back stabbing creep
Oh... So he's just wasting her time?? Girl... get up out of there!
Lying about not wanting children is a deal breaker. Guys who control and manipulate will poke holes and highlight your flaws as a way to minimize and deflect from their toxic behaviors. Meaning, I can flirt, not have any children with you, and control you because YOU have a drinking problem. The "drinking problem" is his leverage. People like him will also keep you around because you've fallen for the okey doke.
Exactly. He never wanted kids period.
So who is better, man that doesnt want children or the one that leaves you after you wanted them?
@@andersonlowe5332 boy be quiet u been under every comment not making sense and making my head hurt 🙄
*BINGO*
Okay, from what I'm hearing it sounds like she does have an alcohol consumption issue. Also, her concerns about his overly flirtatious interactions with other women are valid. Red flag number one: He never wanted to have children from the start so... either he gave her false hope or she just didn't want to accept the fact he never wants children. With taking all of this into consideration, permanent separation is the solution.
This was a weird one. You on TV talking about 'That's private." She drinks to calm her insecurities around a man with no boundaries with other women and who lied from jump about a deal breaker. No no no no.
Exactly! I was like, what the heck she talking bout “private”😂😂
I still miss Judge Lynn Toler!!!
Same!!!!!!!! Even Judge Faith could tell it like it is sometimes
so it's okay for him to flirt with other women but he gets angry and jealous when it's her? and the way he deflected the whole situation instead of disrespect, control and manipulation to her drinking is mind-blowing ! and he drinks with her too SMH, she needs to run🤦♀
she almost got him killed idc how bad he is
@@Music-tf1yn typical BM deflecting onto Women instead of taking accountability, y’all are embarrassing 🙄
@@enyonamagbemadzo8684 in 2030 50% women in the U.S. will be single because of women like you. Men are going overseas enjoy being single for life
So he an ahole so you become one too? How does that make sense?
I miss Judge Lynn. She would've read him like a book!
whew child, don't no one read like judge toler!!
i was about to leave the same comment ! Judge Star wasn't hard enough on him
Yes!!This woman very eloquently pointed out what he is doing,which is what everyone else can see but.Star is stuck on her 'something tells me'..hear the woman!
@@putitinder4595 I read this in Rolling Ray's voice, Judge TOE-LER!!🤣🤣🤣
Judge tolerrrrrrrrrrr
They definitely don't need to bring innocent children, into this dysfunctional, alcohol fueled toxic relationship 😒
He knows he wants kids. He just doesn't want them with her.. after all these years he doesn't see her in the same way anymore
7 years is really long to still have problems n it's still not resolved. They should move on n find people that they r compatible too.
Baby, we ain't got to fight about it, struggle, live miserably, or go on DIVORCE COURT, when we know the answers...it's giving MISMATCH, and it's time to 🗣 BREAK UP!🗣👀🙄🥴😑😒😑😑😑
It should be that simple but due to ppl gaslighting each other they sometimes nd outside opinions to give them the answers they already jnow
He was gaslighting on the children issue. He said she lied about wanting children then tried to blame her behavior as to why he “changed his mind” he never wanted children it was a lie.
even if im on a first date wit a woman, no way in hell im flirting wit the waitress or even asking her to sit down, let alone out with my girlfriend, this is definitely childish highschool behavior
Jaquoby obviously is using Tatiana as a starter career to be ready for his next woman. Too bad she has low self esteem and can't see him manipulating her.
This one was a miss for me. I don’t understand how he straight out came out and said he lied about wanting kids but that was brushed over and the judge still somehow took his side. It seems like she more can’t handle her liquor but he was always with her in all of the stories it’s not like she’s drinking by herself he’s there with her and knows she gets like that but let’s her keep drinking… He seems like a liar and manipulator to me and I feel like the wife wasn’t being heard at all.
He sounds like a narcissist
This guy is manipulative. He wants out the relationship. He wants kids. He just doesn’t want them with her. He’s gonna have children with the next girl. He wants out…
Yep! I said the same thing. He has been flirting with other women because he doesn't care about hurting her feelings. He only used her drinking as an excuse to shake the table.
Soon as she started smiling about the drinking story his was telling, I said she guilty 😭😂🤣
It didn’t seem like a smile to me. It looks like disbelief to me.
I mean she smiles but that doesn’t mean it was out of guilt she seemed completely shocked that he accused her of being an alcoholic in the first place so she could been in disbelief that this conversation was even happening I mean he just admitted that he’d been lying to her for the past 5 years saying he wanted kids when in actuality he never wanted them and then when he got heat for it he changed it to well I don’t want them now because of this but that’s not what he said at first he said that he’d lied to her and that he never wanted kids
He made the right decision about kids. No kid wants an alcoholic parent and no one wants to be married to one either.
Hi everybody I hope you're doing well wherever you are in the world
These two are definitely "NOT" compatible!
It's so obvious that they're not on the same page or even reading from the same book. I think they should part ways if neither is willing to compromise. 😂She was on him like a little Chihuahua after the show!
If you want children and he does not…….he’s not your guy.
If he flirts and y’all have had that talk already and he keeps doin it…….he’s not you guy. It’s over, walk away.
Amidst all the issues. I love how well spoken both are and particularly the lady's ability to express her feelings.
He should have been upfront about not wanting kids. Waste of 7 years. He’s using drinking as the ultimate excuse but he never wanted kids in the first place. Leave lady. Work on yourself and growup.
Exactly 💯
I like the simplicity of her beauty; she has a natural, intelligent, & classy look that's effortlessly attractive.
The fact he don’t want kids ends it
I was with a drinker and they ALWAYS minimize their drinking until they hit rock bottom. It also effects the way they perceive things. I honestly think she has turned him all the off and he just won’t end it. I wouldn’t dare have children with a woman that has an addiction issue. That would be irresponsible. Judge Starr was correct in her assessment.
I agree. I think she doesn’t know how her drinking affects him
They are drinking together hes putting all the onus on her...he lied from the start he said he wanted kids then he actually admitted he lied..hes a manipulator hes a creepy lying 💩
He never wanted kids with her in the first place he lied….and he admitted that …and then he seen that got brushed off and made it seem like he didn’t want kids due to her drinking which is again a lie cus he never wanted em anyways
Sweetheart you brought the man to court everything is out in the opening
She deflects every time the subject of her drinking comes up. She has a drinking problem!!
I didn't hear either one of them say they loved the other. Sounds like they don't really want to be together and they are at an impasse about having children. Part ways.
Im going to keep saying this ppl don't know how to break up anymore at least he's not trying to get her pregnant
missed the mark here. her issues with his flirting is not based upon infidelity concerns, it undermines her and is an issue of a blatant lack of respect
She’s fighting a losing battle, save yourself!!!
Smart man. Do not marry or have babies with a alcoholic. Run brother.
He is a drinker also?
He don’t want kids with her. He would probably most definitely have them with another woman.
I mean to be fair, there’s no way I would want my friend to have kids with a woman like that either. Next to life in jail that’s the second worst thing that could happen to you 😭💀
A minute in and she needs to leave him! Is women only have a certain amount of time to have children and she’s been with him for 7 years and lied to her about wanting kids?? She will resent him for the rest of her life if she stays and never has kids! Who would give up having a family for a man? That’s just ridiculous!
Judge Star's intros make me throw in the towel for them!
10 shots a day!?!?!?!?! Nah ain’t no way
🤨 got a gun pulled on him because she was drunk running her mouth ... smh
😐Men losing their life to supposedly be protectors of women happens all the time... I recently saw a story with a guy intervening in an argument between a couple... The guy arguing with his woman shot / killed the guy who intervened and now his 3 children are fatherless because he was "protecting" some woman that he did not even know.......
Fellas choose wisely who you are chivalrous to and ladies please be cautious not to put your man in situations that could end badly...Judge Star was on point with what she said in regards to that...
"Some of these women will set you up for a fight and then walk away while it's happening..."
- Sister Shahrazad Ali
I understand but also human is allowed to respond to disrespect. It’s not normal for people to pull guns on people that’s the real issue
He is gaslighting
HE'S NOT SERIOUS WITH HER, LET HER GO JO..
Oooo, I hope they really do follow up.
I want follow ups on most of these cases from this season!!! 😂
Judge Starr's hair tho???????? Wow. Love it.
When he said he doesn't want kids, and she does.... LEAVE! stop wasting time
Idkkkk do we believe she really has a drinking problem… I almost feel gaslighted too
To go into a relationship knowing she wants kids and he full stop doesn't tells me enough about him. He wanted to sleep with her and stayed because he got her. And you're not helping any alcoholism...if that truly what he feels by drinking and enabling her. I don't think he was honest. He deflected far too much.
Facts, he was manipulative on so many levels
Lovely dress. Purple, my favorite color. Lovely hairstyle. Once again, you are doing it Judge. And I know the cases you get are ridiculous. These men know exactly what they're doing.
Yea they do
He does seem like he’s gaslighting her. It’s kind of Obvious to me.
She keep saying that her drinking is private but she bringing his flirting on national tv. She seems like she doesn’t take accountability for her actions. I think he is not in love with her.
Now you know sister, so keep on walking and find someone that’s for you. Good luck
She should run from him.
He said she drank but left out they drink together throwing her under the bus
He talks n flirts w women. But, if she does this wit men she is offending him
He lied about wanting kids
He is manipulative. She should run and thank God she didn’t get pregnant by him
He doesn't want her anymore. He's tired of their relationship. He wants to move on.
He doesn't want kids.. and she does... what else is there to discuss? Move along!!!!
Why the judge telling them to stay together and work on it, when he doesn't want kids? You can't make that work. She's always be resentful. As a woman myself who doesn't want kids, I'd never date a man who wants them. It'll never work
He said he would consider it if she got her drinking under control. Would you want to have a child with someone who drinking causes issues. Her drinking got a gun pulled on him. Her drinking In social settings and turning up is a issue. Yes he wrong for flirting but she can’t put all the issues on him.
@@crysamor6596 y’all Pick Mes are annoying, clearly he’s childish and has drinking issues as well. He’s not even marriage material.
@@enyonamagbemadzo8684 first off nobody a pick me. The whole point is she made it out to be he’s the only issue when she’s clearly the problem as well. She called him out on so much and when she got called out on her shit she wanted to act like he was trying to belittle her. SHES THE PROBLEM AS WELL. Had to caps all those since you clearly seemed to miss the whole point. Secondly…. What I need you to do is learn what “sayings” mean before you try to use them, cause nothing stated called out PICK ME! Maybe you missed that in elementary school. Have a good night ma’am
He got a whole GIRL FRIEND ON THE SIDE YOU BETTER RUN
I'm trying to figure out why they became engaged if these RedFlags were already there. Seven years??
IM CRYING WTF IS GOING ON 😭
It ain’t that he doesn’t want to have children, he doesn’t want children with you babe. And him flirting was dismissed completely. Let my man flirt with man/woman/thing in front me.
I swear star was not on her A game today. You can see a mile away that this man was full of it. The moment he confesses to the biggest lie of their relationship should have been clean he was the problem and just using her drinking to to redirect the attention away from her issues with him. Star was fair when it came to listening and understanding her. Idk I couldn’t finish watching cause she didn’t handle this case well.
U get a gun drawn on me… we done !!!!🥴
I hope she runs! And very fast. All he did was to manipulate the situation and make the drinking an issue of which I don't think is excessive.
This man need to RUN. She look at herself as being perfect and has no problems only HIM RUN MAN RUN
She just keep overlooking the situation that I'd very serious n dangerous
Ok… IF this episode is real, she should have been upset hearing him say he never wanted kids… they left the show with her being more concerned about them drinking…
So my advice is this… if you find yourself in a 3+ year relationship (enhanced or otherwise) and children seem to be off the table because of your behaviors OR excessive flirting takes place in your presence, OR inebriation is excessive to the point where it could cost you or your loved life…. It’s time to leave that relationship…
I think they possibly love each other, but don’t know how to let each other go. I think he would have kids with a woman, just not her. I think he would marry a woman, just not her. He wants her, but he wants her to be someone different. She wants him period and probably doesn’t want to “lose” the years she “invested” in him.
Bro I am asking the same question is this show real real divorce court ?
How you drinking with your woman them complaining about her drinking he should be the one to stop drinking with her drink outside my brother so can tell her to shop,
He’s abusing her because he can and there are no repercussions for his actions
I don't think she proved her case, and she needs to address her drinking problem.
Here we go again 😭😂🤣
The gun story,a woman who really loves their man would never put their man in that situation, but a lot of women do this because women don't understand the threat of violence between 2 men.
Both of them could've been killed. 🤬
She clearly has a drinking problem that she doesn’t want to address and he is dead ass wrong for lying to her about wanting kids.
He is a narcissist. He completely deflects everything she says and he doesn’t like for her to do the same things he does. He drinks with her and tries to make her feel bad because of it
I hate it when my spouse decides to compliment women in stores...
He doesn't see the strange look on their faces indicating to me that
they wish he'd leave them alone and allow them to go gack to shopping.
I would literally never talk to him again, so serious. You can tell he wanted to embarrass her and seek revenge by making her drinking an issue. For her to find out for the first time on national television that you have such great issue with her drinking is wild af. You can tell he's never told her in any serious manner before coming to court.
He's a Master Manipulator! Look how he deflates every question.
Her drinking had a GUN PULLED ON HIM, he saw kids with her until he realized he didn’t want her to mother his kids. Stop complaining and leave, accountability is the key 🔑
🎯💯 and her mouth
He needs to 🏃🏾🏃🏾♂️
He wanted kids at first until he seen how unstable she was🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ I think he said he lied about not wanting kids because he didn't want to say " I want kids, just not with you".
Bingo! I think you're Right!
He didn't want to hurt her feelings in such a manner.
Then he needs to leave because that doesn’t give him the right to take that away from her 🤷♀️
No he said he lied right at the start about not wanting kids so him lying again saying it was her drinking is total bull 💩
Purple Royalty Judge Star ❤. I gotta say she fits into this role exceptionally well. Loved judge Mablean, judge Lynn, and now judge Star!
IMO the young judge Faith didn’t have enough marriage experience for the job.
I wouldn't marry her. At all!
Dude thinks He's a Big Deal and He already knew He was WASTING that Young Lady's TIME
yes follow up on them
They look very good together. Seems like he was open to having children until he realized her drinking capacity. She's disturbed about his excessive flirting. She says that they drink together. They should probably go to Alcoholics Anonymous together or separately. They may not be compatible.
She ain’t do shit to help this case! He flirting and it’s disrespectful! He lied to her saying he wanted children….HE NEVER WANTED CHILDREN IN THE FIRST PLACE SO HE TRYING TO NOT MAKE HIMSELF LOOK BAD BY SAYING HE DONT WANT CHILDREN ALL OF SUDDEN CUS OF HER DRINKING! HES A LIAR AND SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE HIM HE GASLIGHTED HIS WAY THROUGH THIS WHOLE SITUATION AND THE JUDGE WASNT HEARING HER AT ALL 🙄🙄😒😒😒
He’s definitely narcissistic
Judge Star your fitting in just fine 👍🏾
Girl u can’t fool Star Jones
It’s not Cheers 😂😂
😊
He is lying! He has not been worried about her drinking until now.
He lied from the beginning. Never trust a known liar.
Girl u do have a drinking problem n I c why he don't want to bring kids into that environment.
🎯💯 and he needs to 🏃🏾🏃🏾♂️
I can see sista running off at the mouth. He's in for a rocky road. NOT A good match. They are not on the same page. HE'S READY TO JUMP SHIP!
I'm only half way in and know they need to split frfr
i hate when it’s so obvious that one side is projecting things because they know they’re wrong, and yet the judge takes him seriously. why can she only sometimes tell the real issue? why sometimes does she give the fool so much leeway?
Baby he lied to you. Move On And Go To Therapy for your drinking. You Are 31, your womb will not be very active for much longer.
He's in My Opinion As Narcissistic As they Come!!!! Run Young Lady Run!!!!!
She is crazy...
How u on TV in "Divorce Court" saying the Gun situation
is private!! She trying to mk tht man look soo bad by hiding her flaws
She wouldn't have said it was "Private" if it was him that caused the gun situation.