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at the first meeting you said to dress elegantly but we know that Vietnam is a very warm country, so my question for you, shirt, no jacket but short pants and sneakers or rather long and boots
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She only speak for women her age and with a western outlook, Your mistaking Vietnamese values with westerner values, All the things you’re saying should be common sense and are applied to all women. Women want someone fit, nice, funny, etc..Traditional Vietnamese women put their husband and family first. They don’t date for fun, they date to get married. Vietnamese relationships progress fast also, the next minute you’re meeting the parents. I love vietnam and its traditions. I wish you guys actually interview Vietnamese men and women and ask them instead.
am in my 60, look much younger, lookin for a compatible companion heard n read about your beautiful women wud it be ok to visit Vietnam to find someone, to know her and go forward?
I noticed that too. Vietnamese women seem to like transactional relationships, not relational, in my experience in Vn. What percentage of women are transactional in Vn?
Not my experience. I wasn't at all rich when I married my wife and she knew it. We lived in a trailer the first 4 years we were married. We are still together after 13 years, 2 kids.
@@FloutchBW Absolutely wrong. Try at least 90%. Courting a Westernized Viet women is worse than court any other women out there. All they expect is money. They are living the good life now and will never return to what they perceive as living in third world conditions.
One of the things I always come across, Vietnam (my second home) and other countries, is this: Every woman demands certain things from a man, some more than others. That's ok, we men are used to it. But what, pray tell does SHE bring to the table? The answer is simple: Nothing.....Nada....Zero. And if your wife/girlfriend has kids from another relationship you'll be lucky to be number 10 in her life. Women expect you to put them first in your life....the reverse is rarely true when there is family on her side. Despite the above I consider a Vietnamese woman to be the best there is, particularely if she is from the north. They are feminine and (mostly) loyal. So go for it and be happy!
I just started courting a Vietnamese women! I watch your videos often! Thank you! I am still trying to make sure that my girl is serious. There are so many Scammers out there. I appreciate your advice!
They expect you to pay for everything. That doesn’t work in the U.S. I found this out after one coffee date. It’s not cheap to force the man to pay for everything.
It's Interesting how women in the east, north and south on this earth think them different from the woman of the west. All women especially young women are the same in ideologies and thoughts when it comes to dating and what they are looking for in a man. We have to be funny, well off financially, handsome, strong, tall, provider, protector, kind, sexually capable etc. and religious too depending on the customs of the demographic location. But I've notice women don't say much of what they're bringing to the table, beside their pretty face and bodies.
I am 58 and just married a 18 year old Vietnam woman that just graduated school and is very intelligent and I am from u s They a pretty well to do in Vietnam I met her through a friend of mine who is a Vietnamese national that has a business in the US and it is her niece for being a Vietnamese woman this lady knows next to nothing about the Vietnamese culture she’s just trying to make money singing to the choir
BASICLY YOU SUGGEST RESPECT, TREAT OTHERS AS EQUALS & ACT RESPONSIBLY. I CANNOT SEE VIET WOMEN EXPECTING ANY MORE FROM A WESTERN MAN THAN DOES WESTERN WOMEN DO. YOUR LITTLE SPEECH SPENT A LOT OF TIME TALKING ABOUT MONEY. COUPLES IN THE WEST DISCUSS FINANCES. THERE ARE FEW DIFFERENCES OTHER THAN CULTURE. I DON'T KNOW WHERE / WHAT KNOWLEDGE YOU GAINED BUT IT SURE IS WAY OFF THE MARK. (IN VIETNAM FOR 32 YEARS)
it kind of sad to say it but many women love small unimportant stuff which gives them the "tingles" but make no difference to how long the relationship will last. Finding true love is mostly a game of chance especially with the divorce rate in western countries at 60-75%
That ambition thing is what makes me uneasy a bit. For now my ambition is to move to Vietnam and to teach English and have income. Can't really predict as of yet how the rest will go. Picking my life up is already a goal, and life offers unpredictable opportunities that can't always be planned. Hope this won't be a turn off in any way. Is there such a thing as "advancing a career" in teaching ? hah I guess positivity is key!
@@floridaruttles3984 I'm pleased to say I am here now! I don't have a degree but I got a TEFL certificate, volunteering here and there to catch some needed experience, it's gonna be tough but it'll work out. Starting at the bottom of the ladder though, up it the way to go! Thanks for commenting, it helps me see where I was at 9 months ago, and actually being here now! Have a good one!
I am in relationship with vietnamese woman about 2 years. My Problem is she whant marry but i dont whant because its to early for me and i dont like marry. What you think?
@@o.c.g.m9426I noticed Vn women are transactional. I have experienced the hell too. Hoping for change but they are not Christian nor relational. No intamacy etc. I have noticed high Narcissist Personality Disorder in Vn women.
This makes me want to move to Vietnam even more...especially being a western guy from the United states, just learning about the culture, the people, and especially the women....thank you for letting us know more about dating women there..😁
I have a big crush on my vietnamese coworker. I always make her laugh and i want to know her better, but i have no idea if she is interested in me at all
Well it looks like I'm screwed. My grandparents were raised in "the great depression" and raised me to be conservative. If a woman just cares about money, she is not a good woman. The Thai women I have been friends with for years are hard workers and save up and pay cash for their University and do not take out debt. That is the same culture as my families in the U.S.A.
Money is important if you want good life since it's expensive to have home, children, good healthcare, retirement and ability to take care of family. It's also a sign of an intelligent person with high ambition wants best for themselves and family and, shows that you are a leader. Western men want feminine submissive women but are too lazy to do anything to earn it and then whine which isn't manly or attractive even as someone to be friends with. I could never be into women who have low standards and also have low personal ambition and education. It is bad precedent to set for children too. Thailand culture is not Confucian like China, Japan, Korea and Vietnam, all of which stress education, high achieving life, men being the leading breadwinner and family. Thais are more free spirited and require less to be content so if you are not a high achiever, they are a better fit for you.
@@mylifethaidiy7045 That's fine. Everyone is different. I personally could never be satisfied with a simple life. I am happy when I constantly strive to be the best I can be and surround myself with others who feel the same. It is a value I want to instill in my children as well which is why Asian women from China, Japan, Korea and Vietnam are good matches for me culturally. I hope you find what you are looking for.
@@xOmniCloudxHave you ever seen Vn women in Vn are transactional in their relationships rather than relational including Narcissist Personality Disorders?
@@bsraeder Yes I have seen it all throughout Asia in fact. I still much prefer this approach as it fits my personal lifestyle and values and want any daughter I would have to operate similarly. If it's not for you then that's fine but not everyone is the same.
If you guy as the gentlemen , who would love to share your bill equally in the first date with the Vietnamese girl , a number of them might think about her man with possibility of being so very good at math as very measuring professionals . As the result , they might be worrying and asking themselves about : " He's such a pro...👍, am I educationally deserved and good enough for him ? " .
Be careful. I noticed Vn women are transactional. I have experienced the hell too. Hoping for change but they are not Christian nor relational. No intamacy etc
Phong pushes her tiny daughter. It is very important that I can be a good father. But tiny Yen is easy to love. 11 year old Yen is a comedian, very funny. Phong the woman seems sad. I want to make both happy.
Yen is very happy with the Nikes I bought her, and the iPad. But Phong still has an air of sadness. I want future wife to be more happy. But maybe the fact Phong wants to video chat me every day is a good sign. "Honey you awake yet?
I have subscribed after watching your channel all night. Very helpful and wise information. Thankyou! On the topic of 'ambition' I would just add my own perspective. As an older man who has worked hard for almost 40 years I now look toward retiring and resting after my years of work. Can I ask, do Vietnamese women expect their partners to continue to be busy and ambitious? Or are they ok with their older man relaxing more, as long as he continues to look after himself, stay active, and care for her?
No worries. What women want is not necessarily what they would normally get anyway. There is a huge number Vietnamese men in Vietnam just hang out at coffee shops and do nothing and still got married without issue. Many even beat their wives, as it is still socially acceptable there, and remain married.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL!!!
Do you have any questions you want answers about relocate to Vietnam, dating or marrying a Vietnamese woman? Please feel free to ask them in the comments below..❤️
at the first meeting you said to dress elegantly but we know that Vietnam is a very warm country, so my question for you, shirt, no jacket but short pants and sneakers or rather long and boots
You always talk a lot in the beginning.
A month ago I started dating a Vietnamese woman and this channel has been very informative and insightful. Thank you
We are so glad to hear that. Thanks so much for sharing your story with us. Would you mind for us to set up an interview with you so we can share more insightful information with our viewers? Thanks in advance.
There is no emotional connection involved at all
All materialism
Great video. Great presenter. Very informative. 👍👍
Great Video's...Very Informative, Thank you!!
I dont try to impress anyone that doesn't know me.
No idea why I got recommended this, but will keep in mind.
what if my future plan is to meet a lady who makes a great dish of Phở?
She only speak for women her age and with a western outlook, Your mistaking Vietnamese values with westerner values, All the things you’re saying should be common sense and are applied to all women. Women want someone fit, nice, funny, etc..Traditional Vietnamese women put their husband and family first. They don’t date for fun, they date to get married. Vietnamese relationships progress fast also, the next minute you’re meeting the parents. I love vietnam and its traditions. I wish you guys actually interview Vietnamese men and women and ask them instead.
Have you ever seen Vn women in Vn are transactional in their relationships rather than relational including Narcissist Personality Disorders?
only problem is can't communicate only can communicate in room
Should the man be the 'master' and expect the woman to submit to him?
am in my 60, look much younger, lookin for a compatible companion
heard n read about your beautiful women
wud it be ok to visit Vietnam to find someone, to know her and go forward?
I disagree, VN women I have dated expect Everything to be paid for anz a.ways choose the expensive stuff, or order food that they dont even eat.
I noticed that too. Vietnamese women seem to like transactional relationships, not relational, in my experience in Vn. What percentage of women are transactional in Vn?
1-Not being rich
2-Not being rich
3-Not being rich
Based on my experiences and what I saw, I think this sums it up lol.
Not my experience. I wasn't at all rich when I married my wife and she knew it. We lived in a trailer the first 4 years we were married. We are still together after 13 years, 2 kids.
@@jerrybriardy yeah cool, but don't make a generality just because you found one who represents like 0,5% of them.
@@FloutchBW Absolutely wrong. Try at least 90%. Courting a Westernized Viet women is worse than court any other women out there. All they expect is money. They are living the good life now and will never return to what they perceive as living in third world conditions.
My experience with Vietnamese Women living in the U.S. is they only desire overweight men.
Nice impressive video
Sure it will help me to understand my beautiful naughty wife to be
Stay blessed 🎉🎉🎉
One of the things I always come across, Vietnam (my second home) and other countries, is this: Every woman demands certain things from a man, some more than others. That's ok, we men are used to it. But what, pray tell does SHE bring to the table? The answer is simple: Nothing.....Nada....Zero. And if your wife/girlfriend has kids from another relationship you'll be lucky to be number 10 in her life. Women expect you to put them first in your life....the reverse is rarely true when there is family on her side.
Despite the above I consider a Vietnamese woman to be the best there is, particularely if she is from the north. They are feminine and (mostly) loyal. So go for it and be happy!
I just started courting a Vietnamese women! I watch your videos often! Thank you! I am still trying to make sure that my girl is serious. There are so many Scammers out there. I appreciate your advice!
What happened? Are you married?
Yea how did it go
Red flags for Men that is a GOLDDIGGER!!!!
They expect you to pay for everything. That doesn’t work in the U.S. I found this out after one coffee date. It’s not cheap to force the man to pay for everything.
It's Interesting how women in the east, north and south on this earth think them different from the woman of the west. All women especially young women are the same in ideologies and thoughts when it comes to dating and what they are looking for in a man. We have to be funny, well off financially, handsome, strong, tall, provider, protector, kind, sexually capable etc. and religious too depending on the customs of the demographic location. But I've notice women don't say much of what they're bringing to the table, beside their pretty face and bodies.
I'd rather stay home and pet the dog 😂
It's true, men have much more to lose if the relationship doesn't work out.
@@dougbailey1521😂😂
Exactly right
I am 58 and just married a 18 year old Vietnam woman that just graduated school and is very intelligent and I am from u s They a pretty well to do in Vietnam I met her through a friend of mine who is a Vietnamese national that has a business in the US and it is her niece for being a Vietnamese woman this lady knows next to nothing about the Vietnamese culture she’s just trying to make money singing to the choir
58 and 18 is a big gap in age. It does works in some cases but a lot failed. Most of them looking for a green card but good luck to you.
BASICLY YOU SUGGEST RESPECT, TREAT OTHERS AS EQUALS & ACT RESPONSIBLY.
I CANNOT SEE VIET WOMEN EXPECTING ANY MORE FROM A WESTERN MAN THAN DOES WESTERN WOMEN DO.
YOUR LITTLE SPEECH SPENT A LOT OF TIME TALKING ABOUT MONEY. COUPLES IN THE WEST DISCUSS FINANCES.
THERE ARE FEW DIFFERENCES OTHER THAN CULTURE.
I DON'T KNOW WHERE / WHAT KNOWLEDGE YOU GAINED BUT IT SURE IS WAY OFF THE MARK.
(IN VIETNAM FOR 32 YEARS)
it kind of sad to say it but many women love small unimportant stuff which gives them the "tingles" but make no difference to how long the relationship will last.
Finding true love is mostly a game of chance especially with the divorce rate in western countries at 60-75%
That ambition thing is what makes me uneasy a bit. For now my ambition is to move to Vietnam and to teach English and have income. Can't really predict as of yet how the rest will go. Picking my life up is already a goal, and life offers unpredictable opportunities that can't always be planned.
Hope this won't be a turn off in any way. Is there such a thing as "advancing a career" in teaching ? hah I guess positivity is key!
Have you gone to VN yet ? If you have a degree in anything, you'll be fine.
@@floridaruttles3984 I'm pleased to say I am here now!
I don't have a degree but I got a TEFL certificate, volunteering here and there to catch some needed experience, it's gonna be tough but it'll work out. Starting at the bottom of the ladder though, up it the way to go!
Thanks for commenting, it helps me see where I was at 9 months ago, and actually being here now!
Have a good one!
Is true one dating one man
They dates several man at one time older woman
very informative! Thank you so much for helping me on journey to understanding Vietnamese culture.
Vietnamese women are very beautiful. Thank you for a more detailed description of them as well.
Very lovely people.
Is it OK if a person is just 'funny looking?'
Just wanted to say that you are beautiful love you videos
You talked about money, generosity, and keeping busy with a joking spirit. Thanks.
Xi chao 👋 But first 🥇st.
(That computer voice always makes me smile).
Happy New Year from USA ❤️
Happy new year!!
Where was the respect when she cheated on me Vietnamese???
You always talk a lot in the beginning.
I think man is better off staying single.
I am in relationship with vietnamese woman about 2 years. My Problem is she whant marry but i dont whant because its to early for me and i dont like marry. What you think?
your answer is very easy , don't marry ! - If you thinks is not the time ..is not the time !
I have also noticed tgat Vietnamese girls don't much like guys with long hair.
Thank you m have a wonderful Monday.
You too!
Summary money money money
No money no money and no money
Ive had 4 Vietnamese ex girlfriends and they were great humans
N what happened. Why did you guys go your separate ways ?
@@o.c.g.m9426I noticed Vn women are transactional. I have experienced the hell too. Hoping for change but they are not Christian nor relational. No intamacy etc. I have noticed high Narcissist Personality Disorder in Vn women.
have a working banana
American Vietnamese women are no longer authentic Vietnamese 🤣
Skip the first 3 mins...
This makes me want to move to Vietnam even more...especially being a western guy from the United states, just learning about the culture, the people, and especially the women....thank you for letting us know more about dating women there..😁
I have a big crush on my vietnamese coworker. I always make her laugh and i want to know her better, but i have no idea if she is interested in me at all
Update: we are together now
Ayee
@@timxiix3864 KA-BOOM BABY, congrats
How did you make her your gf? Please walk us through
@@timxiix3864 please give some tips bro
Well it looks like I'm screwed. My grandparents were raised in "the great depression" and raised me to be conservative. If a woman just cares about money, she is not a good woman. The Thai women I have been friends with for years are hard workers and save up and pay cash for their University and do not take out debt. That is the same culture as my families in the U.S.A.
Money is important if you want good life since it's expensive to have home, children, good healthcare, retirement and ability to take care of family. It's also a sign of an intelligent person with high ambition wants best for themselves and family and, shows that you are a leader.
Western men want feminine submissive women but are too lazy to do anything to earn it and then whine which isn't manly or attractive even as someone to be friends with.
I could never be into women who have low standards and also have low personal ambition and education. It is bad precedent to set for children too.
Thailand culture is not Confucian like China, Japan, Korea and Vietnam, all of which stress education, high achieving life, men being the leading breadwinner and family.
Thais are more free spirited and require less to be content so if you are not a high achiever, they are a better fit for you.
@@xOmniCloudx That's good. I like a woman who likes a simple life. A simple life is a good life.
@@mylifethaidiy7045 That's fine. Everyone is different. I personally could never be satisfied with a simple life. I am happy when I constantly strive to be the best I can be and surround myself with others who feel the same.
It is a value I want to instill in my children as well which is why Asian women from China, Japan, Korea and Vietnam are good matches for me culturally.
I hope you find what you are looking for.
@@xOmniCloudxHave you ever seen Vn women in Vn are transactional in their relationships rather than relational including Narcissist Personality Disorders?
@@bsraeder Yes I have seen it all throughout Asia in fact. I still much prefer this approach as it fits my personal lifestyle and values and want any daughter I would have to operate similarly. If it's not for you then that's fine but not everyone is the same.
If you guy as the gentlemen , who would love to share your bill equally in the first date with the Vietnamese girl , a number of them might think about her man with possibility of being so very good at math as very measuring professionals . As the result , they might be worrying and asking themselves about : " He's such a pro...👍, am I educationally deserved and good enough for him ? " .
Hi not long ago till Christmas very best wishes for Christmas and all the best and New Year
Green card 👆 this is answer 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I am considering moving to Vietnam to retire there? How would I go about hopefully finding a possible mate
Be careful. I noticed Vn women are transactional. I have experienced the hell too. Hoping for change but they are not Christian nor relational. No intamacy etc
Tối yêu Việt Nam! 🇻🇳
Great video and informative
Same in any country..
Happy new year my beautiful Vietnamese queen
Do Vietmanese women love African men especially if he is from Ghana ??
No
Phong pushes her tiny daughter. It is very important that I can be a good father. But tiny Yen is easy to love. 11 year old Yen is a comedian, very funny. Phong the woman seems sad. I want to make both happy.
Yen is very happy with the Nikes I bought her, and the iPad. But Phong still has an air of sadness. I want future wife to be more happy. But maybe the fact Phong wants to video chat me every day is a good sign. "Honey you awake yet?
I have subscribed after watching your channel all night. Very helpful and wise information. Thankyou!
On the topic of 'ambition' I would just add my own perspective. As an older man who has worked hard for almost 40 years I now look toward retiring and resting after my years of work.
Can I ask, do Vietnamese women expect their partners to continue to be busy and ambitious? Or are they ok with their older man relaxing more, as long as he continues to look after himself, stay active, and care for her?
Crickets
No worries. What women want is not necessarily what they would normally get anyway. There is a huge number Vietnamese men in Vietnam just hang out at coffee shops and do nothing and still got married without issue. Many even beat their wives, as it is still socially acceptable there, and remain married.