My Other Long Term Relationship | The Bond and Near Breakups with My Manager

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • FOR A FREE TRIAL and 10% off your first Squarespace website or domain, go to www.squarespace... And when you’re ready to launch, you can also save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain by going through Squarespace.com...
    ----
    I have been managed by Adam Krasner since 2016, it is my second longest running and one of my most significant relationships since I moved to LA. I feel immensely lucky to have the relationship we share and in this video we discuss the highs and lows of our work relationship and the resilience of the friendship and mutual respect we have built. Whether you have a manager or are interested in developing a friendship with someone you work with, I hope this video provides some illuminating points for you.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 53

  • @SA-ex4ss
    @SA-ex4ss 4 дні тому +84

    Love this! I feel like you've been giving us different content, this was super interesting. Go Shan!

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  4 дні тому +32

      yes trying to do a mix of modelling intimate conversations and sharing theories/ information in more educational vids. Overall this year as a WHOLE has been a process of discovery and exploration and I'm INSANELY grateful for the year long partnership I had gotten with Squarespace that gives me the flexibility to try new things without having to obsess over views and the accountability to make things consistently. Thank you for noticing

    • @SA-ex4ss
      @SA-ex4ss 4 дні тому +4

      @@shanboody Totally get that, every creative needs the space to experiment and evolve. Looks like more people are noticing as well, 'cause I think your channel has been growing too ;)

    • @zan752000
      @zan752000 2 дні тому +1

      This is an excellent interview, I really like the exploration of a working relationship that incorporates mature friendship.

  • @shanboody
    @shanboody  4 дні тому +49

    Whether you have a manager or are interested in developing a friendship with someone you work with, I hope this video provides some thought and conversation starters for you

    • @ThinkwithSerena
      @ThinkwithSerena 4 дні тому +7

      Reeeaaaalllly interesting. Barely ever get insight into these really crucial relationships that others have. Excellent for biz and entrepreneurs.

    • @by_starrosales
      @by_starrosales 4 дні тому +1

      It does! There a a couple of thought starters that I got from this video. The first is the Issa Rae concept you introduced, "the power of parallel networking." That's always been scary for me because I tend to run into people that I teach more than I receive from. I'm thinking two thoughts: am i going into those relationships as teachable and how can i better position myself to meet people at my level? This is off the observation that you and Adam both come off on the same frequency in different tunes. The second thought starter is that the patterns of my life have shown me time and time again that I should be more public facing. I avoid it like the plague but it is a gift I've been given. I wonder what success I could have and if i could meet the demand for the impact my community wants from me if i positioned myself more public facing.. anyway, great video!

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 дні тому

      @@by_starrosaleslove these takeaways! And checkout more Isa content for inspo too

  • @mimim8758
    @mimim8758 4 дні тому +58

    Omg shan that hair is seriously working for you. And the jewellery is fire ! Also very important and insightful topic ❤❤

    • @toknow0
      @toknow0 4 дні тому +1

      i agreeee. beautiful!!

  • @shinesobrightforever4863
    @shinesobrightforever4863 3 дні тому +32

    Ok Shan, I actually LOVE this. Please keep going with this. Your manager is also very likeable.
    I am loving the non sexual content. I hope you start
    Exploring different things. I see something here.
    I wish this was longer !

  • @EdwardSanchezProductions
    @EdwardSanchezProductions 4 дні тому +11

    I love the relationship you have with your manager

  • @chariot5920
    @chariot5920 4 дні тому +11

    You are my favorite UA-camr and life educator! Best content

  • @yancychery9621
    @yancychery9621 3 дні тому +6

    This video answered questions I didn't even know I had about management and support, thanks for sharing this conversation with us 🧡

  • @L0VEisAmixtape
    @L0VEisAmixtape 4 дні тому +15

    Shan I didnt know you had a manager. I just started a business and didn't know I could hire someone to help me manage. I will have to look into that because I've been struggling with time management and productivity.

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 дні тому +3

      Congrats on starting something for you! Please feel free to share about it

  • @chloep4500
    @chloep4500 3 дні тому +2

    Haven't watched you in a little while and wow what a come back. Love both of your perspectives as a newly independent worker figuring things out

  • @LilTomatoBoi
    @LilTomatoBoi 4 дні тому +17

    Your growth has been so steady and stable(from my view). I look to the ways u navigate ur business and how u decide to move with ur own vision and not just what is expected of someone like u; i see it and i understand how thoughtful and dedicated u are to the things u do.
    Truly a role model of mine. Sending u continued growth and success. ❤️

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 дні тому +4

      What a heartfelt comment thank you

  • @elizabethehrlick839
    @elizabethehrlick839 3 дні тому +2

    Everything about this, is just so beautiful.

  • @calicosta
    @calicosta 4 дні тому +5

    Viewer Request: "HOME TOUR"
    Off Topic > But is it possible to get a "HOME TOUR" at least of this back yard area? I noticed that in some videos the doors are open? Was that custom made or did the home come like that? I would ❤💖🫀 to have an 'indoor-outdoor" area for my home. And I really think this layout would be nice to have. Also, it kinda looks like the home is facing a natural forest preserve or a Green belt (Im in Texas; so this is common). Also, was the home design done on an Application (that is downloadable) or through a specific company in the California area? 👀

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 дні тому +3

      I would LOVE to it's just that we moved into the house in October 2020 and Ryu came November so while we did lots of work on the house to make it functional in terms of interior design especially in our living space it's not together. But maybe for our work space! Jared just redid his office and is really proud of it

  • @musicneurons7807
    @musicneurons7807 3 дні тому +3

    Shan, you're a role model for me too And i'm trying to put it into words. Overall , I believe the "sky is the limit" when it comes to success. Achieving it involves quick choices that are f'ing frightening imo! B/c 1) i dont know WHAT i dont know. And 2) idk who is trustworthy. But Shan, you share examples of how the life experiences of black women abet success. As opposed to being a marker for my eventual failure. ❤

  • @christina9238
    @christina9238 3 дні тому +2

    the caucasity ! lolll I love it

  • @Charlotte-hv6ll
    @Charlotte-hv6ll 3 дні тому +1

    Leaving a comment for the algorithm

  • @YS-pt5qr
    @YS-pt5qr 3 дні тому +1

    Do this girl thinks that we normal people have managers? No delulu boo, WE ARE the managers , we spin 11 plates at the same time and are not sitting interviewing people we pay, for more views urghhh

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 дні тому +8

      no I don't think everyone does just like I don't think everyone is interested in Nipplegasms. However I DO THINK that there are many people who want to pursue this industry and having insight into what relationships help give you a strong foundation is helpful, I actually do a mentorship series with National Coalition for Sexual Health and I brought Adam in to talk to my mentees and they all really enjoyed it. And I also do think that showcasing conflict management in different kinds of intimate relationships (e.g. the friendship video I did a couple months back) can be valuable. But definitely not expecting this to go viral or "get me more views." TLDR sorry this didn't appeal to you, hopefully some other content I've been making does or will. Best

    • @NannyDiaries23
      @NannyDiaries23 3 дні тому +1

      You don’t have to watch

    • @sarahgates6947
      @sarahgates6947 2 дні тому +2

      This content is about relationships in your life. Also if you with other ppl, you have a manager.

    • @zahrawil
      @zahrawil 17 годин тому

      This is such a strange comment.

  • @syd6126
    @syd6126 3 дні тому +3

    25:00 the m. knight plot twist

  • @gutsygurugang
    @gutsygurugang 3 дні тому +13

    I’ve been loving the new content. Always loved your content but I feel like I’ve been growing into adulthood with you, & learning so much. Blessings to you ❤

  • @blackyogini
    @blackyogini 3 дні тому +5

    Shan you really have a gift for picking quality people and i never thought id be jealous of something like that! but like honestly so good and inspiring

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 дні тому +2

      Brittanyyyyyyyyyyy hello

  • @cariiinen
    @cariiinen 3 дні тому +4

    So interesting!
    Love a thoughtful, honest exchange

  • @charlenecharchar
    @charlenecharchar День тому +1

    Adam is a really, really good guy/human. Shan shared that he's got her ALL that she's worth. THAT is incredible to have in business. He's a total 💎💎💎💎.

  • @yolondagarrett7247
    @yolondagarrett7247 День тому +1

    Great discussion content and LOVE the hair!!!❤

  • @ashaatkins24
    @ashaatkins24 3 дні тому +1

    Love this interview..So valuable

  • @alvynikole9037
    @alvynikole9037 3 дні тому +1

    🩵💙👍🏾

  • @marieluise6907
    @marieluise6907 3 дні тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @stuff1784
    @stuff1784 3 дні тому +2

    What is this channel about? It seems like she shares a ton of personal info.

    • @A.xxx24
      @A.xxx24 3 дні тому

      She's a sex educator, personality, and intimacy expert.

    • @musicneurons7807
      @musicneurons7807 3 дні тому +1

      More relationships, and less dating.

    • @NannyDiaries23
      @NannyDiaries23 3 дні тому +2

      It’s about life and relationships

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps 3 дні тому +1

    Great watch 🫡

  • @alisonseymour2546
    @alisonseymour2546 День тому

    this was beautiful!

  • @NaturallyWit
    @NaturallyWit 4 дні тому +2

    This was a very insightful video! Makes me want to learn more about what talent managers do. I think my mom could definitely use one as she's also a UA-camr

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 дні тому +3

      Put your mom’s channel

    • @NaturallyWit
      @NaturallyWit 3 дні тому +2

      @@shanboody 😳🤯
      Halflifesistah

  • @LD-ky8bo
    @LD-ky8bo 2 дні тому +1