Hey everyone sorry it’s been a while I been super lazy lol but here’s a prerecorded video for you. I have other videos that I posted so please check these out as well.. check my channel for all recent videos. Thank you always for watching!!! IG: vaniityaffaiir
Time heals all wounds. I've there too hun, the minute a man lies/cheats you know it in your spirit, its female intuition. I promise you though, you will look back one day be like "what did I ever see in this fool".
Aww that's sad I hope you move on fr fr hes not a good man you deserve better . I been single for 16 years I gaved on woman and I'm serious done.i got Baptist in 2016 but I got to get out of back sliding. But done go back or pick another man he do you like him . Different but same pattern .
He seems very toxic just by him not even acknowledging the fact that he did something wrong. God was truly working with you love.You worth more than he can ever give you trust and believe. That man was not meant for you and he needs some kinda metal help yes. Just the fact that you came from church with plans for a future with him, God was like oh no sis,wrong man... let me show you what you need to see💯💯❤ Much love my beautiful sister.
Woe haven’t seen you in a min!! Welcome back. Ik that’s hard. Just remember his cheating isn’t anythjng that should be absorbed by u. Don’t internalize and absorb his actions into your own esteem.
I found your channel because of the post office video you posted. I'm enjoying your content and what your saying here is resonating with me right now and bring back all kinds of feelings. I was cheated on after 7 years of marriage and three kids. And the same excuse was given to me “I thought you were cheating on me”. And never apologized, in fact, doubled down on blaming me for causing it to happen. Keep your head up queen, you'll meet the right one and it'll be worth the wait.
Hey sis! I’m so glad to see another video from you. I am so sorry to hear about that situation, if I was in your shoes I would not be able to get past him not protecting me either :( ugh! But you know, you probably just made the way for your true love to come to you by leaving the situation. You deserve the best! Thank you for sharing your story, I know a lot of women will gain strength knowing you left and if they are in the same situation, they can move on if they feel that’s the right thing to do, even if it hurts ❤️
Wow, please take care of yourself and stay strong. continue reach out to others that can help you heal at this time. Let God guide your path and he will restore your strength. You were there for me when I DEADASS couldn’t speak to anyone..I dmed u back in 2015 (or 2016)..I was in grade 9 at the time..and you helped me get through my hardships...I have to be honest I haven’t been a active supporter although I’ve been watching your videos for YEARSSSS... since the team mindless days! But now that will all change. You are absolutely beautiful inside and out!!💕 I pray your process will not only help you grow as a person but also be a testimony for other women. God bless you 💞💞💞
Wow, to see you hurt to this level is so painful. I pray that you find someone that loves and appreciates you the way you deserve. Unfortunately, I have been cheated on too, and this is traumatizing and causes mistrust in your life. Hopefully you will be stronger and wiser from this.
So much better is on the way , I’ve felt that pain before and you will heal . It’s okay to cry , it’s okay to feel anger . It’s okay to allow yourself to feel something from this but don’t let this change who you are and your perspective on others . Sometimes we have those inner feelings to guide us away from toxic people . You will come out of this stronger and you will regain your strength back and get the love that is meant for you .
Sorry that this happened to u! Thankfully u listened to ur intuition!! Sending love and light💫 He was displaying narcassistic behavior, making u feel like u did him something when he was clearly in the wrong U deserve better, Queen👑
I’ve never been cheated on but I have been broken up with and it’s a very strange feeling especially when you both leave on different terms and listening to your story. It sounded like you were the side chick” And the girl that he was caring about was his main girl because of the way he was acting that through you off that’s crazy that’s what I’m getting from what you’re telling. But all in all I hope you get better honestly no one deserves to be cheated on there’s a lot of pain involved with that there’s lotta trauma there’s a lot of mental struggle and you’re going through a lot hope you’re OK
FatmanDD1 righhhhtttt I’m like hold up I’m missing something here!! How you not worried about me?! My feelings like what the hell. But never again!! This will never happen to me again.
shayshaycabana If you spent a long time with this person the hurt will happen again because situations like this you never wanna come back from and you never want a relationship to reach this type of situation letting someone in and trusting him is the hardest part after this
shayshaycabana But let me tell you this you will find that love love is found within yourself and then found with someone else who doesn’t care about you but care about what their building and then care about each other equal relationships for all the time I just got out of a six-year relationship I should know always keep pursuing for better in life better in yourself and better than others don’t let this get you down and don’t go back to him because they’re hurt will happen again and again.
First off friend I’m sorry you got cheated on and that you experienced that. I’m a firm believer in if it’s not working out talk to your partner about what’s the problem or let them know hey I don’t want to be in a relationship with you no more because I’m 1000% against cheating. There was a part in the video that I did have to disagree on and I only disagree because of my experience of being cheated on. The girl I was with at the time we talked about all the things you and your ex talked about and it turned out she was cheating the whole time. Then tried to make it seem as if I was the one cheating because she said she heard things and I had to tell her I don’t know what you’re talking about I literally go to school ( college at the time ) and church so who am I messing with. It was always something with that then later on I found out she was cheating. Entertaining other dudes and then questioning if I was secure with her being friends with other guys. It felt manipulative but I was blinded and couldn’t really see what it was because I was so in love and we started off friends first then bffs then a relationship so I didn’t think she would do me like that but it happened and I had to let go and that I wanna say was 6 years ago and I just got over and feel like my heart healed sometime last year. Because I wouldn’t even look at another woman or consider a relationship with a woman because of this. I literally felt like I lived Omarion song ice box but I’m good today and I learned from it
I never cheated on him I guess the fact that I was going out more and hanging out with my guy friends made him insecure and I understand that but I always reinsured I’m he was the person I wanted to be with but I guess that wasn’t enough.
shayshaycabana yeah that possibly made him insecure did he know those guy friends because I know for me when my ex had guy friends I knew none of them But I was determined not to be insecure about them but then I noticed she would do stuff with them that she wouldn’t do me and it made me feel a way and she reinsured me as well that I was the only one but I wasn’t . I didn’t find out til later. Now this is just my experience this isn’t to question how you were in that relationship during that time. That’s why I kind of didn’t agree with the one part but I do get where you’re coming from.
Hey everyone sorry it’s been a while I been super lazy lol but here’s a prerecorded video for you. I have other videos that I posted so please check these out as well.. check my channel for all recent videos. Thank you always for watching!!! IG: vaniityaffaiir
Time heals all wounds. I've there too hun, the minute a man lies/cheats you know it in your spirit, its female intuition. I promise you though, you will look back one day be like "what did I ever see in this fool".
Aww that's sad I hope you move on fr fr hes not a good man you deserve better . I been single for 16 years I gaved on woman and I'm serious done.i got Baptist in 2016 but I got to get out of back sliding. But done go back or pick another man he do you like him . Different but same pattern .
He seems very toxic just by him not even acknowledging the fact that he did something wrong. God was truly working with you love.You worth more than he can ever give you trust and believe. That man was not meant for you and he needs some kinda metal help yes. Just the fact that you came from church with plans for a future with him, God was like oh no sis,wrong man... let me show you what you need to see💯💯❤ Much love my beautiful sister.
Beyonce Durham righttttttt!!!! I’m like yo GOD really be looking ouuuuut ❤️🙏🏽
Aw man. I’m sorry sis. You deserve better. I’ve been cheated on before and it’s not a good feeling.
It’s so traumatizing!!
You are not damaged sis. You will go on to be a better woman for someone else. Keep your head up and fix your crown queen. Love and light hunnii 💕
Luv Tae Love amen! Thank you Queen.
Woe haven’t seen you in a min!! Welcome back. Ik that’s hard. Just remember his cheating isn’t anythjng that should be absorbed by u. Don’t internalize and absorb his actions into your own esteem.
newnimprovesT3 thank you!! I appreciate you
Girl he’s trash. 🤦🏾♀️ shoot. He act like you was the side piece and she was the main. 😩 Whew Chile.
yourriderdie VERY! I have a new story time coming up about this.
shayshaycabana yasss sis!!! Can’t wait ❤️👏🏾
You shouldn’t have gave him the name Michael because Michael Michael would never do that!❤️🌸🥺
I found your channel because of the post office video you posted. I'm enjoying your content and what your saying here is resonating with me right now and bring back all kinds of feelings. I was cheated on after 7 years of marriage and three kids. And the same excuse was given to me “I thought you were cheating on me”. And never apologized, in fact, doubled down on blaming me for causing it to happen. Keep your head up queen, you'll meet the right one and it'll be worth the wait.
Hey sis! I’m so glad to see another video from you. I am so sorry to hear about that situation, if I was in your shoes I would not be able to get past him not protecting me either :( ugh! But you know, you probably just made the way for your true love to come to you by leaving the situation. You deserve the best! Thank you for sharing your story, I know a lot of women will gain strength knowing you left and if they are in the same situation, they can move on if they feel that’s the right thing to do, even if it hurts ❤️
MJFANGIRL TV I am just happy it’s over and I have the strength to walk away and not go back!!!!
You’re still the coolest even after all these years
I needed to see this,thanks for sharing.
Happy Wednesday beautiful goddess! Wow! I'm sorry that you went through that. Hope you and your son are staying safe over there
Damar Fulmore thank you so much!! We’re doing well how are you?
@@shayshaycabana You're welcome! I'm hanging in there! Frustrated but still living. Thank you for asking beautiful goddess
Bruh. I have been here before. I know exactly how hurt you feel, and how small you feel.
KittytheJackson 🥺
Been waiting on you to come back sis! Love your story times
random question, do you still talk to mb? i rm your old videos about them
Wow, please take care of yourself and stay strong. continue reach out to others that can help you heal at this time. Let God guide your path and he will restore your strength. You were there for me when I DEADASS couldn’t speak to anyone..I dmed u back in 2015 (or 2016)..I was in grade 9 at the time..and you helped me get through my hardships...I have to be honest I haven’t been a active supporter although I’ve been watching your videos for YEARSSSS... since the team mindless days! But now that will all change. You are absolutely beautiful inside and out!!💕 I pray your process will not only help you grow as a person but also be a testimony for other women. God bless you 💞💞💞
The sad part I understand what your talking about shay.. somedays I was happy not a care in the world other days I was ready to break down
Wow, to see you hurt to this level is so painful. I pray that you find someone that loves and appreciates you the way you deserve. Unfortunately, I have been cheated on too, and this is traumatizing and causes mistrust in your life. Hopefully you will be stronger and wiser from this.
Gadget Trish amen!! Me and you both!! We need some GOD fearing men.
You know your worth, so stop wasting it!!!
So much better is on the way , I’ve felt that pain before and you will heal . It’s okay to cry , it’s okay to feel anger . It’s okay to allow yourself to feel something from this but don’t let this change who you are and your perspective on others . Sometimes we have those inner feelings to guide us away from toxic people . You will come out of this stronger and you will regain your strength back and get the love that is meant for you .
SimplyNahzi ugh.. I am definitely going to overcome this!!
💖💖 luv ya .. you’ll get through this
Sorry that this happened to u! Thankfully u listened to ur intuition!! Sending love and light💫 He was displaying narcassistic behavior, making u feel like u did him something when he was clearly in the wrong
U deserve better, Queen👑
Tiffani Lawrence thank you so much I appreciate you
@@shayshaycabana ur welcome!💛
I’ve never been cheated on but I have been broken up with and it’s a very strange feeling especially when you both leave on different terms and listening to your story.
It sounded like you were the side chick”
And the girl that he was caring about was his main girl because of the way he was acting that through you off that’s crazy that’s what I’m getting from what you’re telling.
But all in all I hope you get better honestly no one deserves to be cheated on there’s a lot of pain involved with that there’s lotta trauma there’s a lot of mental struggle and you’re going through a lot hope you’re OK
FatmanDD1 righhhhtttt I’m like hold up I’m missing something here!! How you not worried about me?! My feelings like what the hell. But never again!! This will never happen to me again.
shayshaycabana If you spent a long time with this person the hurt will happen again because situations like this you never wanna come back from and you never want a relationship to reach this type of situation letting someone in and trusting him is the hardest part after this
shayshaycabana But let me tell you this you will find that love love is found within yourself and then found with someone else who doesn’t care about you but care about what their building and then care about each other equal relationships for all the time I just got out of a six-year relationship I should know always keep pursuing for better in life better in yourself and better than others don’t let this get you down and don’t go back to him because they’re hurt will happen again and again.
First off friend I’m sorry you got cheated on and that you experienced that. I’m a firm believer in if it’s not working out talk to your partner about what’s the problem or let them know hey I don’t want to be in a relationship with you no more because I’m 1000% against cheating. There was a part in the video that I did have to disagree on and I only disagree because of my experience of being cheated on. The girl I was with at the time we talked about all the things you and your ex talked about and it turned out she was cheating the whole time. Then tried to make it seem as if I was the one cheating because she said she heard things and I had to tell her I don’t know what you’re talking about I literally go to school ( college at the time ) and church so who am I messing with. It was always something with that then later on I found out she was cheating. Entertaining other dudes and then questioning if I was secure with her being friends with other guys. It felt manipulative but I was blinded and couldn’t really see what it was because I was so in love and we started off friends first then bffs then a relationship so I didn’t think she would do me like that but it happened and I had to let go and that I wanna say was 6 years ago and I just got over and feel like my heart healed sometime last year. Because I wouldn’t even look at another woman or consider a relationship with a woman because of this. I literally felt like I lived Omarion song ice box but I’m good today and I learned from it
I never cheated on him I guess the fact that I was going out more and hanging out with my guy friends made him insecure and I understand that but I always reinsured I’m he was the person I wanted to be with but I guess that wasn’t enough.
shayshaycabana yeah that possibly made him insecure did he know those guy friends because I know for me when my ex had guy friends I knew none of them But I was determined not to be insecure about them but then I noticed she would do stuff with them that she wouldn’t do me and it made me feel a way and she reinsured me as well that I was the only one but I wasn’t . I didn’t find out til later. Now this is just my experience this isn’t to question how you were in that relationship during that time. That’s why I kind of didn’t agree with the one part but I do get where you’re coming from.