Dr പറഞ്ഞതെല്ലാം വളരെ ശരിയാണ്. ഞാൻ 20 Years ആയി അനുഭവിക്കുന്നു. എത്ര പറഞ്ഞാലും നമ്മൾ പറയുന്നതിന് ഒരു വിലയും ഇല്ല . എപ്പോഴും ഞങ്ങളുടെ ജീവിതത്തിൽ പ്രശ്നമുണ്ടാക്കിക്കൊണ്ടിരിക്കും
Husband nodu namml home I’ll illathappol mammale patti kuttam paranju kodukkum. When we come back husband vazhakkundakkum. So we get tired always ingne akumbol. Pinne we start to hate husband. Itokke kanumbol madappalliyile yathartha rogi ullil santoshikkunnundavum. Itra simple aayi in laws vicharichal takarakkm nammude swapnagal
What you are saying is absolutely right ma'am..got seperated within 2 months after my marriage and later legally divourced too..now living happily with my career 🥰🙏
My in-laws and husband, all 3 of them are narcissists. He is a scapegoat victim. Me and my 12 yr old daughter are the supply for all 3. I wasn't even aware of narcissistic behaviour until recently but i had already started doing many of the things you have mentioned in your previous videos. To the husband i give silent treatment or when it goes beyond limit i talk back assertively. But to the in laws I cannot talk back hence staying away from them as much as possible. Talking to them and just listening takes away all my energy. They are very negative. I can't imagine living life long with them. Thank you for the videos they have helped me immensely
Thanks for giving a great insight to this topic. Married to a golden child I too suffered a lot in life. As you said being insensitive and ignoring these people and focussing on one's own strength is the only way. Thanks for your videos. It's a great initiative to educate people regarding this narcissist personalities.
My mother in law is a covert narcissist and my husband is a scapegoat....the church thing is soo true.....she used to say I am so close to God, if u ever hurt me or go against my wishes, God will instantly pay you back. So never ever raise a different opinion. She used to say she got revelations, and controlled everyone by acting as the spiritual head of the family
എന്റെ അവസ്ഥ ആണ്. 😢തോറ്റു. മരിച്ചാലോ എന്ന് വരെ വിചാരിക്കാറുണ്ട്. അത്ര ഒറ്റപ്പെടൽ ആണ്. എന്റെ Mother in Law ഭയങ്കര പ്രശ്നം ആണ്. ഭർത്താവിനേം തെറ്റിദ്ധരിപ്പിക്കും. അമ്മായിപ്പനേം തെറ്റിദ്ധരിപ്പിക്കും. അവരുടെ മോൻ അവരുടെ മാത്രം ആണ്. എന്നെ ആളു സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നത് കണ്ടൂടാ...😢😢😢😢
Jeevidathil nadanna, nadakunna karyangalku oru clarity varaanum, life il orupadu nalla changes varuthanum Ma'am orupadu sahiyichu... Orupadu thanks☺️🙏 All videos are really helpful to many. Expecting more videos 👌
Ys ...i escaped from being victim ....alhamdullillah...i gained it my self ...im not financially independent... But me never give up my personal needs ..or never become like before... i changed my appearance and i respect me ....and that person totally confused...and never involve in my personal space ...
my in laws treat the younger child n his wife as golden and the older son n wife as scape goat... They treat the golden child's wife in a special way like they are afraid of losing their son is that possible
Once this message reach to the keralites so many families will escape .please do an action mam,it is very necessary as they r following a narcissistic culture.specially should be awarded by the priests.,not to support the devils
Ma'am you didn't mention about the money behaviour of narcissistic in laws,In my case they (in laws) are handling husband's salary .My husband is SCAPEGOAT.
Dr പറഞ്ഞത് എത്ര സത്യം....മരുമകൾ ഇങ്ങനെയാണ്....കുട്ടിയെ അടക്കിപിടിച്ച് വളർത്തി വളരെ ഉപദ്രവിച്ചാണ് എന്നിൽ നിന്ന്മാറ്റിനിർത്തുന്നത്....സങ്കടം സഹിക്കാൻവിഷമമാണ്
എന്റെ husbantinte victims ആണ് ഞങ്ങൾ. എനിക്ക് ആരിൽ നിന്നും ഹെല്പ് ഇല്ല. എന്റെ മകൻ 11 yrs മോൾ 7 yrs അവരെ. ഇനി ഞാൻ എങ്ങനെ ഗൈഡ് ചെയ്യണമെന്ന് അറിയില്ല. ഒരു വീഡിയോ ഇടാമോ ഡീറ്റൈൽ ആയി. ഒരുപാടു നന്ദി ഡോക്ടർ ഞങ്ങളെപോലെയുള്ളവർക്ക് ee അറിവുകൾ നൽകുന്നതിനു
Chila daughter in laws are such that they want to get rid of parents… They need only husband.. No need of any other person in that relationship..they need privacy… so they want to take son out of house even he is the only son and even he doesn't want to..Parents should even talk to their son..There are situations like this too..
Mam... You are absolutely right. My inlaws are narcisistic nature. My husband is a scapegoat. Now Iam in this situation. He supported me but he didn't say any word against in laws. And the inlaws says harsh words towards my mother also. How to manage I didn't know. I said to husband divorce is better..
Hi Krishna, If your husband is a scapegoat and suffering, please try to help him too. help him consult a therapist if he is willing, so that he can come out of his scapegoated state. You both can then lead a better life together.
My husband was a scapegoat child n ma'am paranjathellam njan mil l ninn anubhawikkunnu..but ippo hus m narcissist aanennarinjappo ellattinem koode sahikkendaannorth mil ne block cheythu vaykkum..hus l ninn engine rekshapedum ennu chinthikkunnu.. ma'am you are my eyeopener🙏🙏
Ente mother in law aann ente lyf thakarthath. Husband ne enth paranjitann vashathakkunnathennareela. Hus ne oru mummy puppet aakki avar. Ipo 2aaleyum 2 vazhikk aakiyapol avarkk samadanam aayikkanum
Same my mother in law is so much possessive of her son . And she also convince all other family against me . And both sister in law and mother in law group up together and always isolate me . Father in law also he always appreciates his wife and daugjter Sister in law is another poison she can do whater she wants to do in that house she can roar like a lion bt i cant what a difficult mrg . I am staying here only bcz of my husband n mu family
Correct Ma'am, such people are very good in the society, all blames will be on the other person, how can we depict the actual them to the society and relatives, please upload a video about handling such Mother in laws without husband suppot, because of my in law's image she is utilising neighbours and relatives to brain wash my husband. She wants to give money to such people those who are supporting from my husband's pocket and giving as her and her daughter's contribution. As she is giving money she is getting value from every one and noone is even talking with me. My husband cannot support me as he is getting advice from the MILs people, MIL is always telling opposite to others
Ente parents cheyyunadh onnum ente in laws nu ishtamalla. My hus is from Tamilnadu and im from Kerala. Avarude rituals anusarich kaaryangal nadakanam nnu vaashi pidikum. My parents avarude reethiyil cheythal athu kuttapeduthum. Ennod deshyapedum. Ithanu enik ulla main problem. How to deal with them?
Maam alpha grandiose father in-law.covert mother in-law.scapegoat husband.oru value illa anikki antea vtl nnu amma Bannuavaroduchothichappam avaru ammayodu mindiyilla.. anikki ottum pattunnilla maam.😭.how to handle.full silent il poyaalum kaaryamilla..
My father in law does not express any love, does not speak much to me. I think he was trying to avoid fights with my mother in law. Hey both always fight, but rareiy before me.
My situations are different After my MIL death situations are changed Covid situation ayathu kondu MIl death chadangil il ente parents after pankeduthilla. After one year anu avar poyathu . because my parents sick anu achanu cancer stroke oke vannathu kondu amma pedicgu poyilla. Njan avarodu parayum poku pokunennu but avar pedicbu poyilla Pinne entha nadanne ennu eniku oru pidiyum illa husband brother enne vilichu ente achanem ammem okke chhetha paranju.enne ente husband kalayanam kazichthu thanne nanakedu anenu paranju.adinu support koduth brother's wife pinne husband sister and husband .ente 13 vayasulla maklodu polum aa veruppu avr kanichu.house warming unadyitu polum avar saharichilla.ippol ente FIL marichu adil paperil name kodukkumobol avar ente name ozivakki koduthu Ee parena brother and wife school teachers anu ennathanu albhutham Kudumbathile pala kuttangalum paranjappol nammal support koduthathanu avarkku ippol njanum husbandum avarkku kandukkode Husband mathram anu ente eka ashwasam .entha cheyende ennu enikirila manasu vallathe avunnu Karanam njan karanam husband veetil oru karayam problem indavaruthu ennu njan vijarichirunnu.but can't Kure undu karyangal njan churikki paranjathani
Da ellayidathum issues und oro tharathil. Avide husband enkilum support undalo. Athpolum ellatha ethrayo veedukal undano. My mother in law always harrass me emotionaly. Enth cheyana veetenu erangi poyit parayum njan erakki vittunu. Epolum njangalkidayil problem undakkum
Ignore them before they ignore you. You will feel comfortable. Live your life happily. Don't think about what society will discuss. They will get another topic after a while 👍
Ente sister in law ( ente kalynam kazhnj next day thott parayukayanu mother in lawyod sammadam vangichitee ella divasum njagde bedroomil kayaran padullu ennoke ,pine allatheyum ellla karyngalilum control cheyyan varum) ith narcissistic behaviour ano😢
A scapegoat child feels that way. Seek help and get out of that situation. you can live in happiness and progress. Investing in building your life is the best ever investment you can make.
Search for a therapist in Ekm itself. Ningal emotionally abused aakunna relationshipsum, sahacharyangalum, ningale abuse cheyyunna aalkaarem okke upekshichu try to start over. Upekshikkaan pattillel minimize contact. Try to empower yourself & build a life away from them.
Apply logic in your thinking, be assertive when faced with emotional situations. Love yourself more than anything. First listen to self before listen to others. Be genuine, honest and trustworthy. Be empathetic in the emological way - with the right blend of logic and emotions. Be a critical thinker when faced with confrontations. Be clear about your YES and NOs and say them confidently.
@@DrSusanKoruthu thank you You are such a good person thr you care about every comment we viewers post Thank you for your reply and your help May god bless you Aameen
Dr പറഞ്ഞതെല്ലാം വളരെ ശരിയാണ്. ഞാൻ 20 Years ആയി അനുഭവിക്കുന്നു. എത്ര പറഞ്ഞാലും നമ്മൾ പറയുന്നതിന് ഒരു വിലയും ഇല്ല . എപ്പോഴും ഞങ്ങളുടെ ജീവിതത്തിൽ പ്രശ്നമുണ്ടാക്കിക്കൊണ്ടിരിക്കും
Husband nodu namml home I’ll illathappol mammale patti kuttam paranju kodukkum. When we come back husband vazhakkundakkum. So we get tired always ingne akumbol. Pinne we start to hate husband. Itokke kanumbol madappalliyile yathartha rogi ullil santoshikkunnundavum. Itra simple aayi in laws vicharichal takarakkm nammude swapnagal
Exactly completely agreeing with you
True. I am also a victim
Same experience
Same.but what to do??😢
😢
What you are saying is absolutely right ma'am..got seperated within 2 months after my marriage and later legally divourced too..now living happily with my career 🥰🙏
I am hearing 100% true about the narcissists in my marriage. Thanks Dr Susan for bringing light to reality, that most people on the outside don't know
എന്റെ അമ്മായിമ്മ എല്ലാ കുറ്റങ്ങളും ചെയ്തു എന്റെ തലേൽ ഇടും.😢 എന്റെ ദൈവമേ.... എന്റെ അമ്മായിമ്മ ടെ full സ്വഭാവം ആണല്ലോ പറയുന്നത്
My in-laws and husband, all 3 of them are narcissists. He is a scapegoat victim. Me and my 12 yr old daughter are the supply for all 3. I wasn't even aware of narcissistic behaviour until recently but i had already started doing many of the things you have mentioned in your previous videos.
To the husband i give silent treatment or when it goes beyond limit i talk back assertively. But to the in laws I cannot talk back hence staying away from them as much as possible. Talking to them and just listening takes away all my energy. They are very negative. I can't imagine living life long with them.
Thank you for the videos they have helped me immensely
Same things are happening in my life
Thanks for giving a great insight to this topic. Married to a golden child I too suffered a lot in life. As you said being insensitive and ignoring these people and focussing on one's own strength is the only way. Thanks for your videos. It's a great initiative to educate people regarding this narcissist personalities.
My mother in law is a covert narcissist and my husband is a scapegoat....the church thing is soo true.....she used to say I am so close to God, if u ever hurt me or go against my wishes, God will instantly pay you back. So never ever raise a different opinion. She used to say she got revelations, and controlled everyone by acting as the spiritual head of the family
She will do black magic, and may say this is God's plan.
Same condition of mine
ente innlaws inganeyaanu...hus aanel avar nth paranjalum kelkum...3 months kazhinjapo divorcd aayii....nthina veruthe kuttikal oke aayi ivarude idayil jeevitham nashiikunath...
now find anothr partnr and im happy
Oh my God, did you ever lived with my in laws for some time….You are saying exactly what they are ….including the church case
എന്റെ അവസ്ഥ ആണ്. 😢തോറ്റു. മരിച്ചാലോ എന്ന് വരെ വിചാരിക്കാറുണ്ട്. അത്ര ഒറ്റപ്പെടൽ ആണ്. എന്റെ Mother in Law ഭയങ്കര പ്രശ്നം ആണ്. ഭർത്താവിനേം തെറ്റിദ്ധരിപ്പിക്കും. അമ്മായിപ്പനേം തെറ്റിദ്ധരിപ്പിക്കും. അവരുടെ മോൻ അവരുടെ മാത്രം ആണ്. എന്നെ ആളു സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നത് കണ്ടൂടാ...😢😢😢😢
Rakshapetollu.njanum ithe avasthayilayirunnu.ipo vere veedu vechu.sughayi jeevikunnu.
Narscisst aytulla aalukal aadyam nammale shekikkunna pole thonnym... Namude details ellam collect cheyyum... Pinneed kuthvakkum kuttam parachilum kond veshamippikkum.. Kazhhivatgum avarumaay akalam paalikkanam...namukk cheyyan pattunna karyangalil engaged aakuka... Ath padikkunnatho.... Oru paad vishamichu...narcisst aan kude jeevikkunne enn manasilaakkanum accept cheyyanum... Narcisstukalk avarod mathrame sneham kanu. ie selflove.. Ithokke njan maminte classil kude ente life compare cheyth manasilakkiyathaan...
Thanks 😍
Thankyou mam
Jeevidathil nadanna, nadakunna karyangalku oru clarity varaanum, life il orupadu nalla changes varuthanum Ma'am orupadu sahiyichu... Orupadu thanks☺️🙏 All videos are really helpful to many. Expecting more videos 👌
Ys ...i escaped from being victim
....alhamdullillah...i gained it my self ...im not financially independent...
But me never give up my personal needs ..or never become like before... i changed my appearance and i respect me ....and that person totally confused...and never involve in my personal space ...
my in laws treat the younger child n his wife as golden and the older son n wife as scape goat... They treat the golden child's wife in a special way like they are afraid of losing their son is that possible
Once this message reach to the keralites so many families will escape .please do an action mam,it is very necessary as they r following a narcissistic culture.specially should be awarded by the priests.,not to support the devils
Ma'am you didn't mention about the money behaviour of narcissistic in laws,In my case they (in laws) are handling husband's salary .My husband is SCAPEGOAT.
You are awesome Dr! God’s hand in you… Thanks for guiding helpless victims and spreading happiness 🙏
Dr പറഞ്ഞത് എത്ര സത്യം....മരുമകൾ ഇങ്ങനെയാണ്....കുട്ടിയെ അടക്കിപിടിച്ച് വളർത്തി വളരെ ഉപദ്രവിച്ചാണ് എന്നിൽ നിന്ന്മാറ്റിനിർത്തുന്നത്....സങ്കടം സഹിക്കാൻവിഷമമാണ്
Very correct 'bhakti karyam'
Correct anu medam
Please talk about siblings of a narcissist from the husbands family who constantly controls and keeps contact only with him .
I will
Pls do
Pls do
My mother in law and sister-in-law are stalkers..i have heard all these things Mam. I am unable to come out of hatred properly. I wish they were dead.
Ma’am , Give a talk on Triangulation by Narcissist
sure, I will
Wt happened if 2 narcissistic people married each other.... Hws their married life
എന്റെ husbantinte victims ആണ് ഞങ്ങൾ. എനിക്ക് ആരിൽ നിന്നും ഹെല്പ് ഇല്ല. എന്റെ മകൻ 11 yrs മോൾ 7 yrs അവരെ. ഇനി ഞാൻ എങ്ങനെ ഗൈഡ് ചെയ്യണമെന്ന് അറിയില്ല. ഒരു വീഡിയോ ഇടാമോ ഡീറ്റൈൽ ആയി. ഒരുപാടു നന്ദി ഡോക്ടർ ഞങ്ങളെപോലെയുള്ളവർക്ക് ee അറിവുകൾ നൽകുന്നതിനു
Chila daughter in laws are such that they want to get rid of parents… They need only husband.. No need of any other person in that relationship..they need privacy… so they want to take son out of house even he is the only son and even he doesn't want to..Parents should even talk to their son..There are situations like this too..
Mam... You are absolutely right. My inlaws are narcisistic nature. My husband is a scapegoat. Now Iam in this situation. He supported me but he didn't say any word against in laws. And the inlaws says harsh words towards my mother also. How to manage I didn't know. I said to husband divorce is better..
Hi Krishna, If your husband is a scapegoat and suffering, please try to help him too. help him consult a therapist if he is willing, so that he can come out of his scapegoated state. You both can then lead a better life together.
True... very informative Thankyou Doctor for sharing..
Ente father in law kalyanam kazhinj 2-3 month nte ullil ente brother nod paranju " Njangal njagale makane swarna kkarandiyil aanu valarthiyath"..!!!
My husband was a scapegoat child n ma'am paranjathellam njan mil l ninn anubhawikkunnu..but ippo hus m narcissist aanennarinjappo ellattinem koode sahikkendaannorth mil ne block cheythu vaykkum..hus l ninn engine rekshapedum ennu chinthikkunnu.. ma'am you are my eyeopener🙏🙏
9:18 മുതൽ👍
Thank you! You are doing a great effort!
undakya foodinekke eppoyum kuttam mathram...ith nammal kelke hurt aaaki parayum.....avar arinjukondaano ith
Ente inlaws ith pole thannan...mam paranja Ella karyangalum und.... boundary onnum set cheyyan polum pattilla....njn ariyaathe avar varakkne vareln maariya avar ente veetukaare vilich vazhakk parayum....avare mumpil enikk onnum paranj pidich nilkaan kazhiyinilla....enne avar cheyyne karyangalonnum enikk parayaan pattnilla....njn karanj pova
Well spoken ma’am 😇🙏👌and very well explained 😇👌
Ente mother in law aann ente lyf thakarthath. Husband ne enth paranjitann vashathakkunnathennareela. Hus ne oru mummy puppet aakki avar. Ipo 2aaleyum 2 vazhikk aakiyapol avarkk samadanam aayikkanum
Same situation
Swntham ammak sugamillangil polum swntham veetil pokan anuvadikila. Avar athinu athinekal valiya emergency create chyum
Same my mother in law is so much possessive of her son . And she also convince all other family against me . And both sister in law and mother in law group up together and always isolate me . Father in law also he always appreciates his wife and daugjter
Sister in law is another poison she can do whater she wants to do in that house she can roar like a lion bt i cant what a difficult mrg . I am staying here only bcz of my husband n mu family
Very smart advice
Ma'am, Please talk about COVERT NARCISSISTS & WAYS TO HANDLE THEM. It's very difficult to recognise & Last year I realised I'm a victim. 😐
Sure, I will
Great video madam👍🏼 reality is worse😢
ശരിക്കും pre-marriage course ന് ഇതൊക്കെ ആണ് പറഞ്ഞു കൊടുക്കേണ്ടത്
Correct Ma'am, such people are very good in the society, all blames will be on the other person, how can we depict the actual them to the society and relatives, please upload a video about handling such Mother in laws without husband suppot, because of my in law's image she is utilising neighbours and relatives to brain wash my husband. She wants to give money to such people those who are supporting from my husband's pocket and giving as her and her daughter's contribution. As she is giving money she is getting value from every one and noone is even talking with me. My husband cannot support me as he is getting advice from the MILs people, MIL is always telling opposite to others
Mam ithaan ente avastha...enikk ente husband enne manasilaaknilla ennorth sankadam varunnu😢
resoected mam...i m one of those..i feel happy noiw by seeing this video...u can help me....
Exactly said mam.👏👏😘
Yes....mon and mol privileged aan...they dont want to do anything...but she expects me to do work...
Chooral kondu adi kittunnu, veettil ninnu. Njan 25 age Ulla boy aanu.Vettil chooral adi kittunnu.Silly mistakes nu polum chooral kondu adi tharum.
You are an adult, should be able to live your life independently.
😢 മോനേ, get a job and move out👍🏼
Ethreyum vegam enthenkilum joli oppichu veedu viduka. You're living in a very toxic environment.
Ente parents cheyyunadh onnum ente in laws nu ishtamalla. My hus is from Tamilnadu and im from Kerala. Avarude rituals anusarich kaaryangal nadakanam nnu vaashi pidikum. My parents avarude reethiyil cheythal athu kuttapeduthum. Ennod deshyapedum. Ithanu enik ulla main problem. How to deal with them?
Mam, Endey Husband um Mother in law um Narcissistic aanu . Njan endhu cheyyanam ennu ariyilla .
Ivar randu perum Ellavarudeyum munpil nalla Aalukal aanu.
Sathyathil Husband maathram inghane enghil thanne sahikaan pattilla , I can't, Many times suicide inu attempt cheythu, marriage kayinjittu 18years, Endhanu sambavikunnathu ennu enikku manasillavunathu ippolaanu, enikku maminodu samsaarikanam ennu und, plse help me
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Ningal pattumengil ethreyum vegam ayaale divorce cheythu swanthamaayi jeevikkuka, enthinaanu iniyum avarude koode jeevichu narakikkunnathu. Illel 'gray rock method' parisheelikkuka thalkaalam pidichu nilkaan. You deserve better than a narcissistic hell. ❤
Maam alpha grandiose father in-law.covert mother in-law.scapegoat husband.oru value illa anikki antea vtl nnu amma Bannuavaroduchothichappam avaru ammayodu mindiyilla.. anikki ottum pattunnilla maam.😭.how to handle.full silent il poyaalum kaaryamilla..
In laws anenna adyam karuthiyath lastanu manasilayath he is also the real Narssist
Ente mil and husinte bro & avante lover elarum koode enne vattaki. Luckily mon undaya odane nan vtlot odiponnu..bt ipolum enik ivarde oke mugham orthale heartbeat kooduva .nalla pedi pole oke..trauma ayonn nalla doubt ond Dr ..pls reply ..ente job kalayan avarellamkoode noki .nan monem noki avarede adima ayit jeevikanonna avark.
Medam, ur consultation എവടെ aanu
My father in law does not express any love, does not speak much to me. I think he was trying to avoid fights with my mother in law. Hey both always fight, but rareiy before me.
Yur f in law, had suffered more, then he fix the silent strategy.
My husband shows so much love towards me until when come to to narsissict mother in law he always blames me …I don’t know what to do
Thank you💚
I am a scapegoat .keti chenodthm angane akan nokumund...
Ma'am, hasbhad and അമ്മായിയമ്മ 2 പേർക്കും ഒരുപോലെ ഈ രീതിയിൽ ഉള്ള പെരുമാറ്റം ഉണ്ടാവുമോ?
Yes possible
മത്ത കുത്തിയാൽ കുമ്പളം മുളക്കില്ല 😢
💯💯💯💯correct. Now i am divorced
My situations are different
After my MIL death situations are changed
Covid situation ayathu kondu MIl death chadangil il ente parents after pankeduthilla. After one year anu avar poyathu . because my parents sick anu achanu cancer stroke oke vannathu kondu amma pedicgu poyilla.
Njan avarodu parayum poku pokunennu but avar pedicbu poyilla
Pinne entha nadanne ennu eniku oru pidiyum illa husband brother enne vilichu ente achanem ammem okke chhetha paranju.enne ente husband kalayanam kazichthu thanne nanakedu anenu paranju.adinu support koduth brother's wife pinne husband sister and husband .ente 13 vayasulla maklodu polum aa veruppu avr kanichu.house warming unadyitu polum avar saharichilla.ippol ente FIL marichu adil paperil name kodukkumobol avar ente name ozivakki koduthu
Ee parena brother and wife school teachers anu ennathanu albhutham
Kudumbathile pala kuttangalum paranjappol nammal support koduthathanu avarkku ippol njanum husbandum avarkku kandukkode
Husband mathram anu ente eka ashwasam .entha cheyende ennu enikirila manasu vallathe avunnu
Karanam njan karanam husband veetil oru karayam problem indavaruthu ennu njan vijarichirunnu.but can't
Kure undu karyangal njan churikki paranjathani
Da ellayidathum issues und oro tharathil. Avide husband enkilum support undalo. Athpolum ellatha ethrayo veedukal undano. My mother in law always harrass me emotionaly. Enth cheyana veetenu erangi poyit parayum njan erakki vittunu. Epolum njangalkidayil problem undakkum
make a strong bond between you and husband.
@@DrSusanKoruthu athumathram anu ente ashwasam.
Husband sister anu ellaathinum thudakkam ittathu ente husband parayathA karyam vare husband ethandu paranju koduthu .Aval annu namalde kudumbam ingNe akkiyathu
Ignore them before they ignore you. You will feel comfortable. Live your life happily. Don't think about what society will discuss. They will get another topic after a while 👍
npd ullavark vasvas undakumo...ivarude dhaiva bhayam engane aan
They generally show their power of prayer to scare or silence the victims.
Very true Madam.
Ente sister in law ( ente kalynam kazhnj next day thott parayukayanu mother in lawyod sammadam vangichitee ella divasum njagde bedroomil kayaran padullu ennoke ,pine allatheyum ellla karyngalilum control cheyyan varum) ith narcissistic behaviour ano😢
Sure
Correct Thank you
Omg.. Now i realise.. 😲😲
Maadam ,same situation. Very difficult to survive my life.
6:00 onwards
my life
Same here
Expected subject.
Inganeyulla swabhavangal cheruthatittenkilum mikkavarum yella mother in lawsinum und ivide
Madathinodu samsarikyan patto?
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Thanks doctor
Thank you
ente inlaws motham narcisssist aan
How to handle triangulation ennthine Patti detailed aayi parayaamo?
Sure I will
All correct.
Very good
I'm a scapegoat child
Im trapped
I'm always angry
And sad
A scapegoat child feels that way. Seek help and get out of that situation. you can live in happiness and progress. Investing in building your life is the best ever investment you can make.
Don’t be sad, love and help yourself , God will help you ! An experienced …
Maam, what about NPD brother and sister in laws,?
Can u do a video
I will
Correct!!
4.35 correct 💯
enik help venam.njan emotional abuse neridunna vyakthi aan.ente place ekm aan.njan aareyaan kaanendath.aarengilum onnu paranju tharaamo??
Hi Amal, Please try to consult a trauma or victim/survivor therapist.
Search for a therapist in Ekm itself. Ningal emotionally abused aakunna relationshipsum, sahacharyangalum, ningale abuse cheyyunna aalkaarem okke upekshichu try to start over. Upekshikkaan pattillel minimize contact. Try to empower yourself & build a life away from them.
When 2 narssistic person marry
ഒരു 25 വർഷം മുൻപ് ഇതൊക്കെ കേൾക്കാൻ പറ്റിയിരുന്നെങ്കിൽ
My husband is a church choir singer and is happy to butter priests his mother is also there in Women's legion..i hate these show off people.
Narcissistic mother golden child parayamo
There is a video on golden child.
How to become a supernova empath?
Apply logic in your thinking, be assertive when faced with emotional situations. Love yourself more than anything. First listen to self before listen to others. Be genuine, honest and trustworthy. Be empathetic in the emological way - with the right blend of logic and emotions. Be a critical thinker when faced with confrontations. Be clear about your YES and NOs and say them confidently.
@@DrSusanKoruthu thank you
You are such a good person thr you care about every comment we viewers post
Thank you for your reply and your help
May god bless you
Aameen
100%correct
Each time me amd my husband visit inlaws house...my mil says my son has become lean and you have gained weight.....always the same comment....
Pls add English subtitles too
I am sure there are many videos in English language available for those who are comfortable with that language.
Super
Waiting
💯 true
Madam ഇത്ര correct ആയിട്ട് എങ്ങനാ പറയുന്നേ ❤.കൂടെ ന്യൂട്രൽ ആയി നിൽക്കുന്ന husband ഉം കൂടെ ആവുമ്പോൾ ന്റമ്മോ 😢
💯 sariyanu…
100% correct ma'am. Mother in law ethupolae tanney aanuu...
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