Why A Lot Of Women Are Single

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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
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  • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
    @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  Рік тому +3186

    4:34 A lot of people in the comments are pointing out that Divina's poem was "inspired" by some Tyler the Creator lyrics from the song SEE YOU AGAIN. I don't listen to his music so I didn't know.
    So not only did Patrick pick the two worst girls but he also picked the only two girls who did not create their own poem. The other girls did original works and Tamara did an improv rap. Rufarito took her poem from Beyonce. Well at least Rafarmio actually changed the lyrics to her Beyonce parody. Divina just stole her song word for word. These are the quality of women you get when you sleep around.
    Also, Divina pronounced precision wrong. I kept thinking that every time I went by that clip.

    • @steveouk90126
      @steveouk90126 Рік тому +168

      It was scripted so that the worst gals made it to the final round; drama points to the end of the episode because a sane resolution would have ended in ten minutes.

    • @socksoff5th
      @socksoff5th Рік тому +87

      Also btw the second girl you showed from Courtney’s video said her dad is a rocket scientist at NASA, her mom owns a business and they live in a multimillion dollar home etc. So i can understand why her view is skewed. but that doesn’t excuse it imo.

    • @bleachdiet559
      @bleachdiet559 Рік тому +23

      ​@@steveouk90126 And who wrote that script? FDS subscribers, or maybe TwoXChromosomes' most most active members?

    • @RickyRicardoMJF
      @RickyRicardoMJF Рік тому +30

      Inspired? U mean copied directly 🤣

    • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
      @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  Рік тому +262

      @@socksoff5th Just because your parents are multi-millionaires doesn't mean you'll get one. I have a family friend whose parents have somewhere in the 9-10 figure range, she did not care, and married a guy with a regular income. I figured at least one of the girls in Courtney's video might have rich parents but even so, their lack of understanding how money works is ridiculous. Erica does not need 300k to live the lifestyle she wants. I mean she needs nowhere near that unless she has terrible spending habits.
      I think it's criminal for rich parents to not teach their kids skills that will allow them to survive at a regular income. It leads to entitlement or it leads to kids forever living off of mommy and daddy.

  • @neebhaa
    @neebhaa Рік тому +23284

    isnt it ironic the man who has put in all the hard work to be attractive, is not nearly as entitled as the girls present there.

    • @punanislayer
      @punanislayer Рік тому +119

      didi yaha kya kr rhi hoo

    • @neebhaa
      @neebhaa Рік тому +187

      @@punanislayer bhai kyunki content acha hai creator ka simple.

    • @jimbothegymbro7086
      @jimbothegymbro7086 Рік тому +1768

      almost like having to be attractive as a man is hard enough it humbles you

    • @neebhaa
      @neebhaa Рік тому +172

      @@jimbothegymbro7086 yeah.

    • @keonkla
      @keonkla Рік тому +1

      You see this in all the youtube short videos rating attractive men and men being asked how they feel about their attractiveness.
      Every girl tends to be a arrogant little prick that only has confidence on the fact they are a women and no other actual accomplishments.
      Most women in the U.S don't face any hardship lol. Just superficial whining and being less then human.

  • @trevordenver9877
    @trevordenver9877 Рік тому +8003

    "You have a nice smile"
    "So you think I'm ugly?"
    "I cant win this"
    None of us can brother

    • @lazylonewolf
      @lazylonewolf Рік тому +347

      OMG its actually real. I shudder to think of encountering this in real life.

    • @thegalhorowitz
      @thegalhorowitz Рік тому +37

      the like count is 666 and I wont be the one to change that. I verbally like this comment =D

    • @himitsugawa4226
      @himitsugawa4226 Рік тому +71

      Just answer like: "Visually no, psychically - yes."

    • @Ziggyhere57
      @Ziggyhere57 Рік тому +58

      He understands a black man's pain

    • @Ziggyhere57
      @Ziggyhere57 Рік тому +20

      @@himitsugawa4226 no don't say that they are the very aggressive best thing to do is walk away

  • @joejoejoejoejoejoe4391
    @joejoejoejoejoejoe4391 Рік тому +4703

    Women - " it's toxic that men earn more than women "
    Also women - " I need a man who earns at least ten times what I earn ".

    • @annatar6453
      @annatar6453 Рік тому +524

      Women literally like criminals over nice guys

    • @ivanasaric1565
      @ivanasaric1565 Рік тому

      @@annatar6453 I would never date a criminal over a nice and normal guy.Only crazy women do that.Risking my own life? No thanks

    • @IIIIIIIIIIllllllllIIIIII
      @IIIIIIIIIIllllllllIIIIII Рік тому +113

      @@annatar6453 jeremy meeks will inherit the earth

    • @mrdgenerate
      @mrdgenerate Рік тому +33

      Lol literally

    • @Beast-mode42897
      @Beast-mode42897 Рік тому +24

      🤷‍♂️.... no words 😤

  • @Th0rnvi0us
    @Th0rnvi0us 11 місяців тому +139

    The way Tamara was the only smiling and excited to see him was super cute

  • @Sketchy_2
    @Sketchy_2 Рік тому +8398

    If even attractive men are treated like this, imagine how these women treat average looking or ugly dudes.

    • @divin3kag3242
      @divin3kag3242 Рік тому +923

      Brutal

    • @RJT80
      @RJT80 Рік тому +2

      Why would any guy go near girls who look like this? Major red flags. Huge nails, huge hoop earrings, etc. If they look like they grew up in the Bronx you need to skip that. They're mindless consumers of pop culture. Personality has been scraped from our inner cities. Obnoxious, vapid consumers. Their entire existence is collecting status symbols. Not interested in experiences. Massive debt incoming. Will never be faithful and will die alone.
      I was just down in Austin Texas and all the college girls looked normal. None of the act or costume show these girls are putting on. It was actually very refreshing to see. They mostly looked like the girls I knew 20-25 years ago in High School, etc.

    • @halcyon6098
      @halcyon6098 Рік тому +938

      Only cuz he let her. I would have told her to stand up and get out.

    • @salty3069
      @salty3069 Рік тому +400

      He like a saint he'd tell em the fuck off if this was off camera I think

    • @pegeta
      @pegeta Рік тому

      He knew he was guarantee booty anyway

  • @sugar4177
    @sugar4177 Рік тому +2741

    Patrick: initiates Banter
    Davina: so you have a fetish
    🤦🏽‍♂️
    Patrick : gives a compliment
    Rufaro : so you think I'm ugly
    🤦🏽‍♂️God please help this world

    • @allthestarsthatshine
      @allthestarsthatshine Рік тому +131

      They would probably find some way to berate him with any response he gave.

    • @Malkolm52
      @Malkolm52 Рік тому

      You just want to punch her down to her level

    • @steveouk90126
      @steveouk90126 Рік тому +79

      "We're done here."

    • @Michael-r3d
      @Michael-r3d Рік тому +5

      God will make sure they get home safely and play with their right hand

    • @dougsmith6262
      @dougsmith6262 Рік тому +18

      What is it about women that they can't take a compliment?

  • @FalloutYakuza
    @FalloutYakuza Рік тому +4389

    Tamara was the not only the most attractive out of all the girls, but was also the most feminine and playful, and also liked yoga, dancing, and cooking. If I was Patrick, I would have eliminated everyone else immediately. The other girls were either extremely boring, rude, or narcasstic

    • @nestroit5010
      @nestroit5010 Рік тому +628

      yeah, being feminine, warm and sweet is everything a man is asking for. easy pick

    • @ATOMiiCChicken
      @ATOMiiCChicken Рік тому +211

      fucking right

    • @yukiko6137
      @yukiko6137 Рік тому

      He is a moron tho

    • @Blahsheep
      @Blahsheep Рік тому +454

      I can't believe he chose the only fans fake girl. But hey, saves the good one for the rest of us so I guess that's a plus.

    • @endisnear306
      @endisnear306 Рік тому

      Yeah but most men like hot bitches.. No wonder modern women are bitches to attract a hot guy

  • @jaffa3717
    @jaffa3717 10 місяців тому +251

    Seeing that girl so clearly being in love with him and yet still get rejected instead of some mentally ill witch is honestly really sad. She deserves better and I hope she found someone great for her

    • @zangetsu1597
      @zangetsu1597 7 місяців тому +39

      I know it's sad, but if the roles were swapped with a nervous sweet guy chatting with an attractive model woman, he would most likely get rejected also. People say they want shy girls/shy guys, but not really. Everyone REALLY wants confidence men/women. Be it real confidence or "fake-it-till-you-make-it confidence" doesn't matter. At the initial phase of dating, people can't really tell the difference.

    • @konstantinschreiner2122
      @konstantinschreiner2122 6 місяців тому +39

      ​@@zangetsu1597say what you want but I'd be over the moon if I got a shy girl.
      Just someone who's calm, cautious, thinks before she speaks
      maybe it starts to sound weird but just the opposite of the modern woman, someone who thinks about others not themselves
      that's the environment I look for my children.

    • @AK-qh6lr
      @AK-qh6lr 6 місяців тому +14

      Why is it always shitty people get paired with good people. I'm not trying to be a nice guy here, but this seems to happen so much, and it breaks my heart for these people

    • @random19911004
      @random19911004 6 місяців тому

      @@zangetsu1597
      lol what are you on about?
      I think most guys would love a shy girl vs a “confident” boss bitch that causes drama. I want a submissive feminine lady.

    • @I.G.S.A.N.A.G.M
      @I.G.S.A.N.A.G.M 5 місяців тому +3

      So I actuality it's how both genders remain single.

  • @truthhurtts
    @truthhurtts Рік тому +2200

    The entitlement is *IMMEASURABLE*
    The accountability is *NONEXISTENT*

  • @autarko
    @autarko Рік тому +2645

    The girls were rude because they knew they didn't have a chance with him. It's a way of protecting her feelings.

    • @asarishepard8171
      @asarishepard8171 Рік тому +265

      its a new way of thinking, even if i were insecure i wouldn't have acted like a complete jerk on a date when i was younger. maybe be more quiet, but id still respond nicer. these women are just whacked.

    • @JohnFKennedy420
      @JohnFKennedy420 Рік тому +79

      I think you’re 100% correct.

    • @Michael-r3d
      @Michael-r3d Рік тому +111

      ShoeOnHead has a video on it called "Fragile Femininity"

    • @crypt.y2k
      @crypt.y2k Рік тому +4

      are you a woman?

    • @prettyboyjeremy
      @prettyboyjeremy Рік тому +60

      I've been seeing this a lot.
      I started taking care of my skin, cologne, jewelry and a fresh haircut
      I got more actively and aggressively rejected than when I was looking like a lives with parents bum.
      Girls do not wanna be outshined at all.

  • @protoman1214
    @protoman1214 Рік тому +7232

    My ex was a modern feminist.
    Let me break down the events of the day we broke up.
    We usually shared responsibilities in the household but she was having a tough time at work as of late so I tried taking on more than usual to help her out.
    Coming home from work, I drove way out of my way, about 35 minutes to pick up her favorite pizza for dinner. On the way back I picked up her favorite wine. I got to her place, took out the dog for a walk, took out the trash, washed the dishes, put away the laundry then served her the pizza on a plate with a glass of wine.
    We were eating and she got up to the fridge to re-fill her wine, I never got myself a drink and kindly asked “babe, mind grabbing me a glass of water?”
    She blows up, “ha! Where the fuck do you think you are!”. She walks back to the couch and sits down. “I told you not to bring that Latino mysoginist/chauvinist bullshit into my house, you can get your own glass of fucking water”
    It was such a wild departure from the mood, everything was literally fine seconds before. I was so confused, I legit thought she must be messing around with me. She said she was “dead serious “.
    She got upset over a glass of water after all the shit I did for her. That’s how modern feminism rots away a woman’s brain. Its fucking ridiculous. I can’t state how strongly you need to run away from any woman calling herself a feminist

    • @thethrashyone
      @thethrashyone Рік тому +1315

      I'd have turned that remark about "Latino misogynist/chauvinist bullshit" around on her and made her out to be an enormous racist. That's the kind of game you have to play with these "intersectional" weirdos, get them caught up in their own BS rhetoric. But, it'd be best not to associate with (much less date) these kind of people in the first place.

    • @RLV_Edits
      @RLV_Edits Рік тому +549

      That’s terrifying as hell man. How did she take the break up?

    • @amylee6038
      @amylee6038 Рік тому +309

      Sounds like you needed my husband's break-up kit. A shovel and two bags of lime.

    • @protoman1214
      @protoman1214 Рік тому +6

      @@thethrashyone well she was half white/latina and intersectional feminism isn’t exactly what most people talk about when they get to know each other. Her political ideologies were kept really close to her heart until months into our relationship. I think she knew how undesirable she would come off so she kept it largely to herself.

    • @JaxnFaw
      @JaxnFaw Рік тому

      That’s messed up bro, let her rot away… you seem like you’ve missed a bullet here.

  • @TubaDooter
    @TubaDooter Рік тому +46

    This is insane. My "dream house" and "dream car" is "a house I own that isn't falling apart" and "a fuel efficient car that requires little maintenance at low mileage". These are feasible goals that could be achieved with reasonable effort in 5-10 years of a moderate-income level.

  • @deathdog1392
    @deathdog1392 Рік тому +4377

    "So you have a choice between a girl who thinks your a misogynist, and a girl who thinks your a racist!" ⬅️ literally sums up all of modern dating right here.

    • @slayeroffurries1115
      @slayeroffurries1115 Рік тому +172

      @@sincronot based

    • @T37-y6m
      @T37-y6m Рік тому +6

      what

    • @kirimvt
      @kirimvt Рік тому +89

      @@sincronot Jokes on you, I'm both and a nationalist.

    • @bigsmall246
      @bigsmall246 Рік тому +8

      You can just move on to the next one by leaving after going to the toilet

    • @xxtrypurpzxxp4456
      @xxtrypurpzxxp4456 Рік тому +41

      @@kirimvtjokes on you I’m all of the above and a colonist

  • @LeeEverett1
    @LeeEverett1 Рік тому +1934

    You know, just last Saturday I went on a date with this girl. Things were going well but I could tell she had this masculine vibe to her. I asked her whats something she values about herself and she said "being independent". I asked what she meant by that and she said "well I have a job, make my own money, and I don't need a man". I responded with "doesn't that just make you an adult?" and she got mad lol.
    I was immediately turned off by that and ended the date prematurely like right there. She later messaged me and said I was "insecure" and "intimidated" by a career woman 🤣
    They just don't get it man 🤦

    • @ReinertZerker
      @ReinertZerker Рік тому +348

      Don't need a man yet she wants you to pay for the date, I just can't take it anymore. They're so unself aware that they make AI seem more genuine and intelligent. Once we get robots replacing these garden tools, I'm getting one. No matter how much it costs, it still is cheaper than them.

    • @LeeEverett1
      @LeeEverett1 Рік тому +155

      @@ReinertZerker Don't lose hope brother, there are still decent ones out there. It's like dumpster diving at this point but don't get discouraged from trying.

    • @alitafullarmor5957
      @alitafullarmor5957 Рік тому +87

      Lol, what a good comeback. Hahaha
      But seriously though you might have dodged a bullet with that one.

    • @simpbeforeusleep
      @simpbeforeusleep Рік тому +61

      @@LeeEverett1 I think it’s a much better use of time and energy to just get a decent robot to be honest. I’ll let everyone else fight for the stinky scraps

    • @jimiquin3412
      @jimiquin3412 Рік тому +85

      I had a date where she said she had 2 ex boyfriend’s that were in the military. I said, so you like men that take orders then? She gave me a look like I kicked her cat and knew she wasn’t going to be able to tell me what to do ( which was her type) and her pooneyti went dry 🤣

  • @Corywinget81
    @Corywinget81 Рік тому +981

    I had a date with a girl that started just acting rude and weird. I was like "uh is everything okay?" And she said "I'm not going home with you and I'm not sleeping with you."
    THEN she starts talking to the guy next to us at the bar so I paid the tab and walked out. She texted 2 or 3 times she needed a ride and I just ignored them.
    Saw her about 2 months later and she came up and tried to talk to me. I acted like I didn't even recognize her or remember the date. She was SEEETHING mad

  • @tetraxis3011
    @tetraxis3011 11 місяців тому +325

    Man Patrick really chose the ones that takled bad about him and not the girl that shoed visible exitement when first meeting him. Cmon Patrick.

    • @RobertOfStAlbans_
      @RobertOfStAlbans_ 5 місяців тому

      Groomed simps are still simps.

    • @___-000
      @___-000 5 місяців тому +25

      He was only choosing a girl for a single date, not for long term relationship

    • @MiggyBiggy
      @MiggyBiggy 4 місяці тому +37

      @@___-000that still makes it completely illogical, why would you pick the most insufferable women for a first date? Waste of time and money

    • @___-000
      @___-000 4 місяці тому +4

      @@MiggyBiggy Because she is pretty

    • @MiggyBiggy
      @MiggyBiggy 3 місяці тому +18

      @@___-000 so was the girl that wanted him?

  • @AKITM
    @AKITM Рік тому +2221

    "Don't mess with the girl you like, mess with the girl who likes you."
    Tamara was S+ tier.

    • @SavoryBaby
      @SavoryBaby Рік тому +115

      So he could use her and turn her into a divina? Nah

    • @AKITM
      @AKITM Рік тому

      @@SavoryBaby Patrick is all looks and no brains. But you're right, Tamara is lucky she wasn't chosen.

    • @Justmonika6969
      @Justmonika6969 Рік тому

      He was too busy picking out the fake ass Filipina girl who had a horrible attitude only because she was the most attractive.
      So yeah, he didn't deserve her. She was the only real classic woman left on the show based on her show of femininity. His own looks played a part in his downfall, because it made him unable to see that this "adoring fan" is the only one who had a personality.
      Can't say I'm surprised seeing how he's an ardent leftist, the kind of people who got us into this identity politics shitshow.

    • @AKITM
      @AKITM Рік тому +202

      @@Justmonika6969 I figured he only claimed to be a leftist because he mentioned it was "the correct answer".

    • @bnashtay2278
      @bnashtay2278 Рік тому +16

      Oh I thought her name was Tomorrow

  • @lifting_weab
    @lifting_weab Рік тому +3908

    This video doesn't just explain why women are single, but why men are staying single as well.

    • @ATOMiiCChicken
      @ATOMiiCChicken Рік тому

      yeah that's what I thought, instead of dating the girl who was actually interested he just chose nasty girls with their tits out.

    • @T0NYMANUEL
      @T0NYMANUEL Рік тому

      Women are staying single because they don't get men....men stay single to stay away from women like these

    • @Racko.
      @Racko. Рік тому +503

      The dating culture will collapse one day. It’ll be beautiful to watch until people open their eyes

    • @ProductOfCookCounty7963
      @ProductOfCookCounty7963 Рік тому +175

      @@Racko. I cannot wait for it to happen

    • @Bullet-Tooth-Tony-
      @Bullet-Tooth-Tony- Рік тому +256

      @@Racko. Gonna be a lot of cat ladies in the west 😂

  • @himarei
    @himarei Рік тому +1598

    Women: popular culture makes us want unattainable body shapes.
    Also women: I need a man like those depicted in popular culture.

    • @wrongthinker843
      @wrongthinker843 Рік тому +169

      Fun fact: men have to work a lot harder for it. Women just need to be fit. Men have to be ripped.

    • @mikelarry2602
      @mikelarry2602 Рік тому +18

      Like Rambo.

    • @thefirsttrillionaire2925
      @thefirsttrillionaire2925 Рік тому +18

      @@mikelarry2602I instantly pictured him running away from that grenade 😂😂

    • @biosvideo
      @biosvideo Рік тому +12

      Women just need to put down the spatula once in a while. FTFY

    • @toothgrinder2760
      @toothgrinder2760 Рік тому +6

      That guy is in a room full of grenades. I’m not the only one seeing this right?

  • @angelica429
    @angelica429 5 місяців тому +15

    devina literally just used the lyrics of see you again in her "poetry", how creative.

  • @SirYeetus
    @SirYeetus Рік тому +2103

    Modern women believe they can get a "Prince Charming", yet they forget that he has countless options to choose from! 😂

    • @cloak679
      @cloak679 Рік тому +40

      I do agree with your statement

    • @teamtx1578
      @teamtx1578 Рік тому +145

      Right? Every single time I hear about a woman "saving herself" for her ideal boyfriend, all I can say is "assuming this perfect guy actually exists, why would he choose to go out with YOU of all people?" You can tell these types of women don't put any thought into what THEY bring to the table in a relationship.

    • @henoktadese7583
      @henoktadese7583 Рік тому +8

      Yeet, yeet

    • @Racko.
      @Racko. Рік тому +14

      Dont worry, They said theyre strong and independent and dont need no man, wait for them to come back when they hit the wall 😂😂😂

    • @loafofbakedbread
      @loafofbakedbread Рік тому +15

      @@teamtx1578 saving oneself instead of being a 304 isn't a bad thing bruv, but yeah the delusion isn't healthy

  • @rosetintedrage1246
    @rosetintedrage1246 Рік тому +1501

    I audibly gasped when she accused him of having jungle fever. Like, girl, you're out here fetishizing yourSELF.

    • @6lake.
      @6lake. 8 місяців тому

      Keep in mind that it's only "straight white men" who are accused of having fetishes when they date outside their race. For white women, it's "love is love".

    • @JustTryingToGetAYTPlayButton
      @JustTryingToGetAYTPlayButton 8 місяців тому +1

      ⁠@@6lake.make that just straight men

    • @willyb7353
      @willyb7353 6 місяців тому +6

      So vain!!

    • @nickcox1408
      @nickcox1408 6 місяців тому +4

      What's jungle fever?

    • @willyb7353
      @willyb7353 6 місяців тому +10

      @@nickcox1408
      Isn't it kinda self explanatory?

  • @michaelalan6459
    @michaelalan6459 Рік тому +4907

    It's difficult to watch these and not be black pilled. These people are disgusting. I'm glad I'm married.

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +841

      This dude is a top 20% and he gets treated like this. Imagine how much disrespect an average guy gets.

    • @v3rzify840
      @v3rzify840 Рік тому +155

      Had me in the first half

    • @My.Name.Is.Chris.
      @My.Name.Is.Chris. Рік тому +275

      @@brianwaller7383 bottom 20% aren’t noticed at all.

    • @T0NYMANUEL
      @T0NYMANUEL Рік тому +197

      @@brianwaller7383 i think he's top 10%

    • @endisnear306
      @endisnear306 Рік тому

      @@brianwaller7383 he chose those bitches..

  • @G4ZP3R
    @G4ZP3R 8 місяців тому +27

    Tamara is the only one really smiling

    • @denimchicken104
      @denimchicken104 2 місяці тому +1

      It’s crazy right? Like, why the hell do the rest of them look like they’re being held hostage?

  • @MixolydianMode
    @MixolydianMode Рік тому +555

    A woman coming at me that aggressive is an immediate turn off. A woman that wants me to show her her place is only trouble.

    • @joimumu
      @joimumu Рік тому +56

      Agree it’s like if the honeymoon stage is difficult when it’s the easiest part then the marriage is doom. The flirting stage is supposed to be easy and fun not on eggshells and short fuses

    • @Blox117
      @Blox117 Рік тому +1

      I would never tolerate BS like that guy. Immediately kick her out.

    • @albatross4920
      @albatross4920 Рік тому +31

      Obvious sign of trauma. Don't date struggls girls 😵☠️

    • @TheChallenger1000
      @TheChallenger1000 Рік тому +1

      Westernized women are a disaster. Westernized blk women are demonic. RUN!

    • @kevinleewilliams5119
      @kevinleewilliams5119 Рік тому

      They act like a man literally couldn't just grab them and put them in their place, you'll never hear about a women in the middle east begging to be "put in her place", shit they want the opposite! Lmao

  • @andrewnolastname2337
    @andrewnolastname2337 Рік тому +986

    Way back when I had a date that started doing this bizzare rude stuff halfway through our meal. I asked her if I'd done something to annoy her and she just said "no this is just who I am with men I'm not that interested in". I excused myself more politely than was necessary, paid for what I ate and drank and left. I got a text 10 mins later where she tried giving me shit for not paying for her meal. Still one of the most bizzare things that's ever happened to me.

    • @johndough8115
      @johndough8115 Рік тому +317

      If only you would have replied with "That just how I am, with woman that Im no longer Interested in".

    • @kevinleewilliams5119
      @kevinleewilliams5119 Рік тому +145

      She had balls to say that directly to you, most women are atleast smart enough to keep the I'm not interested in you part to themselves to get the free food lmao.

    • @pegeta
      @pegeta Рік тому +34

      Bold of you to even read the text message in the 1st place

    • @asarishepard8171
      @asarishepard8171 Рік тому +65

      Good on you for not paying for her. She was counting on a free meal.

    • @jth_printed_designs
      @jth_printed_designs Рік тому +117

      She didn’t even view you as human. In her mind, she is the main character and you are just some NPC to be used for whatever her needs are

  • @PakiBlinders
    @PakiBlinders 7 місяців тому +10

    "Philippino queen and a Zimbabwean goddess" the amount of entitlement in that fucking sentence alone pisses me off for some reason

  • @_Devil
    @_Devil Рік тому +2193

    The girl who was really excited and nervous to meet me would instantly be my first pick. Everyone else seemed like they had way too high of ego's, but she had the energy of wanting to give it her all and honestly I respect the hell out of her for that. We all need us a girl like her, someone who genuinely wants to get to know us instead of just being up their own ass all day.

    • @_Devil
      @_Devil Рік тому +219

      @Dimitri Vincheov Good point, but I don't care

    • @username8191
      @username8191 Рік тому

      @Dimitri Vincheov weak comment but understandable since you probably live in America whete only stupidity reigns.

    • @soogynoodle
      @soogynoodle Рік тому

      @Dimitri Vincheov bro why you such a downer, try a little harder and maybe you'll go somewhere

    • @almantuxas9248
      @almantuxas9248 Рік тому +126

      ​@@dimitrivincheov7022 hey man, maybe she wouldn't, but if i were in his place and saw a woman that excited about me, i would have chosen her and called off the entire show.

    • @SeniorSpunky
      @SeniorSpunky Рік тому +40

      Yea honestly she looked so wholesome, would love to meet someone like that.

  • @nathanacreman632
    @nathanacreman632 Рік тому +2029

    Tamara was the most wholesome AND the most attractive without looking like a street walker.

    • @raynevogel196
      @raynevogel196 Рік тому +37

      agreed

    • @NoBaconForYou
      @NoBaconForYou Рік тому +10

      Like ballet not "dancing"

    • @NoBaconForYou
      @NoBaconForYou Рік тому +6

      They have the natural aroma of roses, I tell you.

    • @NoBaconForYou
      @NoBaconForYou Рік тому

      Yes to sound like a creep indeed, I can smell her through the screen 👃

    • @NoBaconForYou
      @NoBaconForYou Рік тому

      Patrick is just another idiot leftist soyboy. A man would have chosen her and made a relationship instead of just trying to get laid. He submits to physicality because he is weak.

  • @bens7686
    @bens7686 Рік тому +2343

    Tamara radiates long term-monogamy-mother-of-your-kids wife energy. It’s actually painful to see her subjected to such a narcissistic group of people.

    • @thebirdsite
      @thebirdsite Рік тому +307

      Lets be honest, however... Problem is women like Tamara, unfortunately go for the top male tier like Patrick while passing on the good potential male spouse in your average man. They'll go on Tinder, or whatever, and just swipe right on the Patricks, completely oblivious to the fact that these men don't need or want monogamy. They think that they'll be able to change the men, and always end up getting used up and disregarded. After being throught the grinder a few times, they build this jaded attitude and then become indistinguishable from all the other women on the show. You have to be lucky AF and catch her in high school, or whenever, but before she goes out into the dating pool and gets exposed to the mass of options waiting for her out there.

    • @thebirdsite
      @thebirdsite Рік тому

      Also, looking at the video for a second time... She seems a little off craycray to me... It's hard to tell alone from this, but I would beware of her potentially having an attachment disorder. It could just be that she's low confidence or just really likes this one particular guy... But in my experience, this is the charm of a BPD person... She'll be soooooo into you at first and just make everything SO easy, but then will flip out and stab you in the leg for recieving a text from another female. I'm not saying she's BPD with certainty, but I would keep an eye out for it.

    • @ikaustralia
      @ikaustralia Рік тому

      @@thebirdsite she'll probably get married inside her jewish community... It's surprising she ended up in this cess pit

    • @Justmonika6969
      @Justmonika6969 Рік тому

      @@thebirdsite So what you're saying is, social media is ruining all these women? If so, how can we change that?
      I see a lot of "this is the problem" and not enough of "enough is enough...let's find a solution before our species goes extinct"

    • @TheDeadManSwitch
      @TheDeadManSwitch Рік тому +96

      Ikr? She seems like the only one that doesn't seem vapid (and also cares about her body composition).
      I wouldn't necessarily say it was a tragedy that she had to be around these other types but the real horror is that she stands out like solid gold among the rest of them and his dent head didn't even put her in the final two. He deserved exactly what he got.

  • @shadowsoulless6227
    @shadowsoulless6227 3 місяці тому +9

    What's funny is I had a job interview that went south and I could pinpoint the exact second I quit being considered for the job. What's funny is I later got hired at that same company for that same position a little while later and found out that apparently that specific manager just was very judgmental lol

  • @NathanEllis
    @NathanEllis Рік тому +1474

    As someone who is newly single, I've noticed the younger women I try to have conversations with are extremely hard to talk to and don't know how to carrry a conversation. Dating apps and the fake online universe has destroyed society.

    • @Dayxh8
      @Dayxh8 Рік тому +156

      Lol they’ve became complete weirdos . It’s like they don’t know the difference between online and reality

    • @justtrollinalong977
      @justtrollinalong977 Рік тому

      Saaaaame bro. Theyre also often copies of each other. Like I know guys are very "typical" as well....but holy hell its like 80% have nose rings, pronouns, that they're activists, and "vaccinated"...and sooo many are single moms that say "have kids, dont want more"
      And its I *know* I narrowed my fields to "women for a straight man" so like WTF are you trying to advertise ladies? Because its like they got NOTHING except following fads, a bunch of baggage, and this idea that they shouldnt be expected to do much for the new guy. Its like they wont have kids or if you do theres a high chance she'll take your kid in court and turn them into whatever they want and meanwhile think "men need to just accept me."

    • @junc2191
      @junc2191 Рік тому +8

      Maybe they don’t want to talk to you

    • @loredanaduca5121
      @loredanaduca5121 Рік тому +31

      when you say younger women, how young are they? and on the other side of the coin, how old are you? I am asking because there are way too many men out there who will hit on girls half their age and think it's an entirely normal thing to do. Then they will be like ''OmG wOmeN ArE SO immAturE in ThiS agE'' when they are literally talking to people whose brains aren't fully developed yet, with half the life experience and that probably feel uncomfortable talking to you. I say this as a 20yo woman myself.

    • @genericscout5408
      @genericscout5408 Рік тому

      I mean you can be totally inept, but still hold down a SO.

  • @funisanartform
    @funisanartform Рік тому +635

    As soon as that girl was so happy to be picked, I thought my guy was gonna go with her. Wild he didn't. Always go for people who are excited to be around you. These are schoolboy mistakes

    • @jessesimmons4503
      @jessesimmons4503 Рік тому +96

      Tamara was the only good looking woman on the list. Appreciating smiles and attitude go a long way in my opinion.

    • @kadimusbaratheon7352
      @kadimusbaratheon7352 Рік тому +23

      1000%

    • @love-ip7sz
      @love-ip7sz Рік тому +66

      Showing joy is a turn off in this nihilistic hell scape world.
      Yes I'm going through things.

    • @thegreengribbler
      @thegreengribbler Рік тому +34

      @@love-ip7sz but you have such a beautiful flower as your profile picture! keep your chin up bud

    • @Tenchi707
      @Tenchi707 Рік тому +23

      @@love-ip7sz create your own world in this madness, get married and have a family if you want, create your own sane beautiful world

  • @reap23
    @reap23 Рік тому +802

    First 20 seconds and that girl showed every reason why she will be 50, alone, never married, childless, with 14 felines. Men don't have to put up with an attitude like that, only now are people beginning to realize that.

    • @fatesi1486
      @fatesi1486 Рік тому +3

      Speaking truths

    • @bell191991
      @bell191991 Рік тому +34

      What's also funny is that she only showed that side of her personality once she was down to the final 2 women.
      A perfect demonstration of why some men don't want to get married. The woman's mask will come off, and you'll realise she's been faking her agreeable personality, and then you're legally trapped.

    • @peterbrooks1781
      @peterbrooks1781 Рік тому +8

      Plenty of schmucks out there with no self-respect unfortunately

    • @poindextersheelturn436
      @poindextersheelturn436 Рік тому +13

      Black Men had to deal with for over 50 years until they realized they didnt have to deal that

    • @jackbotman
      @jackbotman Рік тому +2

      She might find a simp, who knows, world's a weird place.

  • @311kratos
    @311kratos Рік тому +811

    Everyone knows Tamara is the real winner whether this guy chose her or not. It won't be too long before she meets a good man.

    • @iyanubanks100
      @iyanubanks100 Рік тому +65

      Aww I feel bad that Tamara was not chosen🥺

    • @dojocho1894
      @dojocho1894 Рік тому +69

      tamara is the prize gentleman

    • @zeekio_OG
      @zeekio_OG Рік тому +23

      I saw the lineup and I instantly knew she’s the best among them

    • @Canalbiruta
      @Canalbiruta Рік тому +10

      That little jump when he chose her would be instant points on my book. She's cute, wholesome and actually tried to make the date flow well.

    • @alZiiHardstylez
      @alZiiHardstylez Рік тому +1

      My unending sense of doubt towards the world has made me bitter, I feel that it's put on but even if it is, the effort is endearing.

  • @emmahannah6420
    @emmahannah6420 Рік тому +542

    I thought it was funny when the girl described the “unrealistic” wife as someone who cooks, cleans and picks up the kids from school but didn’t really think it unrealistic to obtain this millionaire dream man 😂

    • @ReinertZerker
      @ReinertZerker Рік тому +33

      She's bricked once companion bots become a thing, nothing she'll offer would even pale in comparison.

    • @ZeroNumerous
      @ZeroNumerous Рік тому +58

      It's especially funny that her "unrealistic" wife ideals is LITERALLY one of the girl's she competing against.

    • @dankmemes8254
      @dankmemes8254 Рік тому +54

      "unrealistic" is apparently just being a good mother figure apparently

    • @emmahannah6420
      @emmahannah6420 Рік тому +9

      @@dankmemes8254 exactly!

    • @ASRMN27
      @ASRMN27 Рік тому

      They want to be professional parasites, how dare men expect anything of them?

  • @gnomie2.0
    @gnomie2.0 Рік тому +1327

    This guy was the most chill I’ve ever seen someone be in the face of such blatant disrespect/entitlement. He tried to lighten the mood with humor in an awkward situation but they took themselves too seriously for that. I trust that he has higher standards when it comes to actual relationships.

    • @Ken-no5ip
      @Ken-no5ip Рік тому +61

      He needs some self respect

    • @efe75623
      @efe75623 Рік тому +64

      He's before camera, obviously he's going to protect his already high status by bending over to what is currently popular in our society.

    • @Arshveerk
      @Arshveerk Рік тому +6

      @@efe75623 he’s shown his face tho… he said it other videos he has and his lives (first one) have his face in the intro atleast

    • @TheThing4444
      @TheThing4444 Рік тому +16

      He seems socially adequate and he's obviously good looking. I trust he knew what was happening.

    • @bigsmall246
      @bigsmall246 Рік тому +2

      It's highly likely that the choices were not made by him

  • @Krypto1201
    @Krypto1201 Рік тому +507

    I asked a girl out a while ago, she flaked out on the date at the last moment and told me “relationships drain my motivation in life” yet I saw her repeatedly posting about needing a bf💀. Some women are literally meant to be single

    • @v3rzify840
      @v3rzify840 Рік тому +126

      She just didn't want you.

    • @isvaraov
      @isvaraov Рік тому +57

      You dont need a gf, you need some purpose, make money and dont spend it all, hit the gym, ignore women and dont let anybody bully you.

    • @xenxander
      @xenxander Рік тому

      She wants the attention, not the c mmitment.

    • @Blox117
      @Blox117 Рік тому +7

      *all

    • @love-ip7sz
      @love-ip7sz Рік тому +19

      @@isvaraov I see that you've also watched every fitniss video ever lately lol

  • @horvathbenedek3596
    @horvathbenedek3596 Рік тому +1113

    I love how she goes "I'm gonna be like Zendaya", when literally the defining character trait of Zendaya is that she's VERY likable, non-confrontational, and fun, while her first move is shitting all over Patrick.

    • @vanhuvanhuvese2738
      @vanhuvanhuvese2738 Рік тому +71

      and in shape too

    • @Testingthisname
      @Testingthisname Рік тому

      You're super wrong on all fronts. Zendaya is actually a huge POS

    • @horvathbenedek3596
      @horvathbenedek3596 Рік тому

      @@Testingthisname How come?

    • @Testingthisname
      @Testingthisname Рік тому +2

      @@horvathbenedek3596 I don't know why she's like that you'd have to ask her

    • @horvathbenedek3596
      @horvathbenedek3596 Рік тому +1

      @@Testingthisname Like what? I'm not doubting you, it's just not my perception of this person, and I want to understand your perspective.

  • @vdevernaculo5574
    @vdevernaculo5574 Рік тому +941

    The "I can't win this" moment was when he noticed how he screwed up on his choice.
    Meanwhile Tamara, stuttering when first talking to him, always smiling, and giving off so enthusiasm to be around him... Patrick just let a golden gal pass, and they are going extinct.

    • @aliensoup2420
      @aliensoup2420 Рік тому +262

      Maybe he did her a favor by rejecting her. He chose the arrogant/arm-candy which indicates his values and intentions. She deserves better than him.

    • @SaanWukong
      @SaanWukong Рік тому +38

      @@aliensoup2420 well on the brighter side, he clearly learned his lesson

    • @australium7374
      @australium7374 Рік тому +13

      I don’t think he has a lot of experience on who to look for he made some rookie mistakes I guess when it came to red flags. Some people fall in there

    • @FrederikEngelmand
      @FrederikEngelmand Рік тому +8

      Come on... None of them were good looking enough to be his gf/future wife. They are 6 at best

    • @RainInTheSummer
      @RainInTheSummer Рік тому

      That’s a good way of putting it

  • @Juj_______jj
    @Juj_______jj 11 місяців тому +27

    4:45 thats literally a from tyler the creator (see you again)

  • @패자입니다
    @패자입니다 Рік тому +1259

    As a woman, I am shocked at how entitled most of these girls are! I'm all for knowing you're worth so you don't end up with a bad person, but don't hold yourself to impossibly high standards when you're a bottom of the barrel type girl who lacks morals and humility. Good luck to these ladies

    • @alexanderchen1049
      @alexanderchen1049 Рік тому

      This bullshit feminist crap is making its way into South Korea as fucking well.

    • @jpisback
      @jpisback Рік тому +27

      Most of these women come from pretty wealthy families and therefore run in those circles. They are only reflecting the society they live and will likely marry into.

    • @Pavewy
      @Pavewy Рік тому +32

      They think they know their worth, the problem is, they're valuing themselves far too highly. They've been showered with golden fleece and told over and over again that they're perfect, when the reality is that they may be a beautiful apple outwardly, there's just a rotten core at the center.

    • @Selrisitai
      @Selrisitai Рік тому +6

      They aren't entitled. They may feel entitled, but they ain't.

    • @패자입니다
      @패자입니다 Рік тому +32

      @@Selrisitai they ain't 💩

  • @CoolPapaJMagik
    @CoolPapaJMagik Рік тому +137

    But she’s black and he’s white so she’s “allowed to say whatever she wants to him and treat him as badly as she wants.” This is out of hand

    • @bluecoin3771
      @bluecoin3771 Рік тому +12

      No one wants to end up like Prince Harry.

    • @johnserosanguineous1886
      @johnserosanguineous1886 Рік тому +9

      Its actually rare that Felicia treats whitey like that. Jamal gets that treatment daily.

    • @samuraijosh1595
      @samuraijosh1595 Рік тому +1

      @@johnserosanguineous1886 Felicia = black woman
      Jamal = black man? 🤣🤣

    • @johnserosanguineous1886
      @johnserosanguineous1886 Рік тому +2

      @@samuraijosh1595 Aqualanteisha and Tremaviontavius if you prefer.

  • @mars.x
    @mars.x Рік тому +412

    There was a group of women at my work yesterday just like those two girls. So narcissistic, so rude,walked around like they were the shit. It was so off putting. They were beautiful girls, but their attitudes were vile. We have an inflated ego because of social media. It’s sad.

    • @Jinjin-lc6cv
      @Jinjin-lc6cv Рік тому +33

      Usually it’s a front for women who suffer from extreme insecurity

    • @godkingoftoxicity7037
      @godkingoftoxicity7037 Рік тому +12

      I love approaching those types 😂 “Quick question how did you get your shoulders so big I gotta know because I’ve been trying to do the same”

    • @thepoisonkid2483
      @thepoisonkid2483 Рік тому

      Honestly, when I see the type of women you described, I just ask them "Shall we shag tonight?" And then I just enjoy the show :D Fuck them and everything they stand for!

    • @gameseeker6307
      @gameseeker6307 Рік тому

      @@godkingoftoxicity7037 shoulders?

    • @arjunratnadev
      @arjunratnadev Рік тому

      makes me wanna KECK!

  • @Ibnalsafir1
    @Ibnalsafir1 2 місяці тому +4

    I love how you understand social situations sooo well like man I wish I can learn it.
    Don't know where to start.

  • @iamkAIden
    @iamkAIden Рік тому +450

    When even Chad is getting treated like garbage by 5,6 and 7s you know the end of modern society as we know it is over.

    • @1erickf50
      @1erickf50 Рік тому +51

      Most of those were 5 at best, Tamara looked like a 7 yet her genuine and supportive behavior jumped her into a solid 9

    • @tommyserrato6485
      @tommyserrato6485 6 місяців тому +2

      I think it’s because they were given a platform if it was in person they probably would be posting thirsty comments on his page or sending him pics or flirting online but they probably thought it was cute to stereotype his profession into making him out to be a playboy.

    • @ambrotose
      @ambrotose 6 місяців тому

      Good, let the thing burn. Its pretty fucking clear the only age/demographics that are having a good time are women in their early 20's and rich men / "Chads"

    • @Keloot
      @Keloot 6 місяців тому +8

      where ware the 7 at?? saw a bunch of 3s and 2

    • @Kiran37369
      @Kiran37369 6 місяців тому

      Modern society is over because you people have zero media literacy. These people purposely choose dxm women.

  • @KoriMasho
    @KoriMasho Рік тому +320

    As a woman and mother...this physically hurt to watch. These girls were failed by their parents.

    • @skinnysnorlax1876
      @skinnysnorlax1876 Рік тому +28

      Nailed it right on the head. We are failing our kids.

    • @makima1960
      @makima1960 Рік тому

      Agree, if I were a man (well I’m also bi heavily lean to women but that’s not the point) I’d not pick any of these women. They all suck by personality. 😭😭😭

    • @TheGlovener1985
      @TheGlovener1985 Рік тому

      Born with silver spoons in their mouths. They are spoiled. Parents obviously let them do what they wanted.

    • @Hans_von_Kreit
      @Hans_von_Kreit Рік тому +6

      and media

    • @turdguyyt7616
      @turdguyyt7616 Рік тому +3

      nah their poor parents had to raise these "humans"

  • @jeffstrohman6282
    @jeffstrohman6282 8 місяців тому +7

    HIS NAME IS PATRICK

    • @R3ktCunnyz69
      @R3ktCunnyz69 8 місяців тому +1

      My name's Brad. How do you think I feel?

    • @polyaro2504
      @polyaro2504 Місяць тому

      @@R3ktCunnyz69BRAD OMG YOU DIDNT DIE FROM THE SHOT IN NORTH YANKTON NO WAY

    • @R3ktCunnyz69
      @R3ktCunnyz69 Місяць тому

      @@polyaro2504 We R scooter brothers! SCOOOOOOOTEEEER BROTHERS!!!!

  • @namelessfire
    @namelessfire Рік тому +280

    Being married right now feels a lot like I caught the last copter out of 'Nam. I'm so thankful for my wife and the fact I don't have to wade through this godforsaken dating pool.

    • @itstroy4145
      @itstroy4145 Рік тому

      Until your wife gets caught up and brainwashed by the modern women mindset lol then your marriage becomes a statistic. (50% of marriages end in divorce, 80% are filed by women, average marriage lifespan being 7-8 years) you’ll lose everything and be back in the godforsaken dating pool.
      But we can all hope for the best and your marriage stands the test of time 👏🏽

    • @bigbird4481
      @bigbird4481 Рік тому +58

      Pray for the younger generation bro, we're stuck in Nam lol

    • @spencethegreat38
      @spencethegreat38 Рік тому +18

      Golden comment my dude. Perfect way of explaining it lol

    • @MC-ze8wj
      @MC-ze8wj Рік тому +7

      Or like you just ran out of a burning building seconds before it collapsed? Me too. We met in 2010, that seems to have been just about last call for normal dating.

    • @arsenal4444
      @arsenal4444 Рік тому +1

      @@bigbird4481 fr man wtf is this BS, can't catch a break, flanked on all fronts, no evac and radios down, we're doomed

  • @societopathyobserved9785
    @societopathyobserved9785 Рік тому +1187

    Tamara is adorable, how did he not choose her? Her facial expression when she introduced herself was really endearing. The others were so pompous, she had a good vibe.

    • @faisal5367
      @faisal5367 11 місяців тому +16

      which one is tamara? could you please point me the minute timing

    • @Dak1549
      @Dak1549 11 місяців тому

      Because she is wife material and he was clearly confined to the fuccboi stage.

    • @znxtrick
      @znxtrick 11 місяців тому +2

      @@faisal536715:02

    • @faisal5367
      @faisal5367 11 місяців тому

      thank you bro @@znxtrick

    • @Axrover
      @Axrover 11 місяців тому +68

      Agreed. That was a win for me from the get go. Didn't need any finalists.

  • @RingTailedLoser
    @RingTailedLoser Рік тому +222

    Do these chicks not realize how much a quarter of a mil dollars a year is?? My husband and I make $70k a year combined, and we’re living comfortably with our son.

    • @Mr.Eminem
      @Mr.Eminem Рік тому +20

      Imagination got no boundaries

    • @roeital5504
      @roeital5504 6 місяців тому

      just by looking at them you can tell their head is full with their ego, brain however, is none existant

    • @kindasomeviews
      @kindasomeviews 6 місяців тому +6

      you dont even need that really, I made 9k last year and doing much better now with on-and-off 2nd jobs

    • @sbwlearning1372
      @sbwlearning1372 5 місяців тому +7

      Princesses have no grasp of reality just endless bottomless spending desires.
      Women should actually marry ATMs. That is real love.

    • @ObservationofLimits
      @ObservationofLimits 5 місяців тому

      They don't because they've never been held accountable or to reality. This is how you get NPC and wimmin

  • @bluespectrum1348
    @bluespectrum1348 5 місяців тому +5

    I'm a lesbian and not nearly as good looking as homeboy but i would be friends with him he seems chill af, women can be so annoying these days 💀

  • @JamesTaylor-je6es
    @JamesTaylor-je6es Рік тому +495

    I could instantly tell Tamara would be a pleasure to be around. Supportive and potentially a great mother also. It took 5 seconds to pick her.

    • @Neucher
      @Neucher Рік тому +1

      If you think she acts like near normal guys you are beyond delusional 😂

    • @JohnSmith13334
      @JohnSmith13334 Рік тому +33

      Exactly her smile had so much warmth

    • @anthonyfletcher8053
      @anthonyfletcher8053 Рік тому +69

      True but the guy probably just wants to mess around. Especially considering who he is and who he picked.
      He did her a favor by not picking her and breaking her heart.

    • @akira8393
      @akira8393 Рік тому +16

      Dude that smile says it all, It outshines the other bitches, i wish her to be with some one good for her

  • @Captainaceguy00
    @Captainaceguy00 Рік тому +1006

    Anytime I think my girlfriend is being a toxic maniac, I watch women like these and realize that she’s not that bad

    • @fiercecoffee1634
      @fiercecoffee1634 Рік тому +40

      Lol my husband is in the same boat poor man - but we can blame it on our newborn baby

    • @Islamphobe
      @Islamphobe Рік тому +81

      @@fiercecoffee1634No problem adding a little spice to his life and annoying him a bit as long as you aren’t legitimately toxic.

    • @randomhololivesimp4188
      @randomhololivesimp4188 Рік тому +23

      @@Islamphobehey I ain’t gonna lie, babies are very stressful for both parents tbh.

    • @Islamphobe
      @Islamphobe Рік тому +18

      @@randomhololivesimp4188 yeah I’d imagine but it’s also a stress I strongly desire lol

    • @randomhololivesimp4188
      @randomhololivesimp4188 Рік тому +14

      @@Islamphobe lol, I get you man. I wish to have a family too but damn is the dating scene hard to get into.

  • @punanislayer
    @punanislayer Рік тому +666

    accountability is women's kryptonite - someone said it and its 100% true

  • @PriorLib74
    @PriorLib74 8 місяців тому +7

    My name is Shelene so I can relate to the unusual name issue, and at this point I don’t even correct most people. There’s a lady at work that calls me “Joanne” whenever I speak to her on the phone. It just makes me laugh 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @im_actually_an_ai8667
    @im_actually_an_ai8667 Рік тому +2140

    I feel so bad for Tamara. She does look like wife material and I do hope she meets someone who values her and I hope she maintains her sanity in this messed up world. With how she introduced herself, there was really no other competition.

    • @teslafreak
      @teslafreak Рік тому +230

      Agreed. She's a very obvious choice if you wanted to actually find someone for any semblance of long term, but of course, that isn't what this sort of thing is about. Irritating people drive clicks sadly.

    • @iSOBigD
      @iSOBigD Рік тому +125

      I think she won't have any problems by just being a decent, likeable person. I would think her risk is being taken advantage of or being naive and easily attached, but I'm just guessing.

    • @pinkemoslayer6337
      @pinkemoslayer6337 Рік тому +107

      If she's such good wife material then why is she on this weird show? I think there is something more to the story, just saying.

    • @52down
      @52down Рік тому +169

      Patrick was there for FUN only, he has abundance of pooneetee. He did right rejecting her instead of hooking up and pump'n'dump her

    • @teslafreak
      @teslafreak Рік тому +47

      @@52down Fair point.

  • @spookypaladin4667
    @spookypaladin4667 Рік тому +619

    Tamara seemed so sweet, wholesome and genuine, on top of all the great things she has going for her. Picking the women he picked says a lot about him and I just can't feel bad for the shit he'll get himself into.

    • @wpizdets2640
      @wpizdets2640 Рік тому

      Tamara isn't hot enough to land a chad. Unfortunately if she wants love she will jave to settle closer to her proper standards

    • @MrFreeman0179
      @MrFreeman0179 Рік тому +88

      @@wpizdets2640 Tamara seemed lovely, kind-hearted and had the most feminine energy of all.

    • @wpizdets2640
      @wpizdets2640 Рік тому

      @@MrFreeman0179 yea but all the females were average af competing for a literal male model.vvomen need to get back in their lanes

    • @davidbarnes7155
      @davidbarnes7155 Рік тому

      Well the guy is on the left, they are not known for making logical decisions.

    • @natryan8547
      @natryan8547 Рік тому +39

      Bro I keep seeing a bunch of you miss this. Yall keep misreading Patrick's intentions with doing this date thing. He literally picked the worst/toxic out of the bunch so he could expose them 🤦 quit playing checkers on the chess board.

  • @nomad9584
    @nomad9584 Рік тому +1409

    The fact that Patrick chose Divina, who insults him and belittles him and makes his every attempt at socialisation a waste of time, is mind-blowingly sad. She couldn't have made it clearer that she is a narcissistic, entitled brat and the two lacked any semblance of chemistry throughout the entire interaction. It goes to show that even the most toxic modern woman can simply just be slim and show some cleavage (if that) and get away with piss poor behaviour. Patrick is purely shallow for making such a major mistake and their future relationship would be doomed from the start. At least it's nice to know that good girls like Tamara exist, and she deserves someone far better than Patrick.

    • @OrtonHeadXIV
      @OrtonHeadXIV Рік тому +269

      Guy is looking for a casual hookup, not a relationship.

    • @Deimonos85
      @Deimonos85 Рік тому

      couldnt he just walk away? or better yet, tell her to leave?
      man will be man.. not only trying to smash the hoe but also take abuse just for pussy
      I still remember that clip of a speed dating clip.. think it was Russian. girl saying no to all the guys for dumb reasons, then comes a dude and X her saying she is narcissistic

    • @paigelovette8156
      @paigelovette8156 Рік тому

      Its painfully obvious to everyone but you that he clearly only wanted to have sex.

    • @neonlighter75
      @neonlighter75 Рік тому +112

      The original video kinda sends women the message that they don't need to develop their character and improve themselves. They just need to be hot. I've noticed that average looking women with integrity and character are never first choice.
      Edit: typos

    • @blackmarala
      @blackmarala Рік тому +1

      It's the mans fault too for choosing a trashy woman instead of the humble and good one. Even are obsessed with looks these days anyway. It's all that porn they keep watching and girl who look flawless only.

  • @disadadi8958
    @disadadi8958 2 місяці тому +2

    38:30 when cooking and cleaning and doing laundry as a stay-at-home mom or wife or whatever is an unrealistic expectation, there's really nothing to say anymore.

  • @KunjaBihariKrishna
    @KunjaBihariKrishna Рік тому +256

    It's hillarious how someone is obsessed with attractiveness to the point of getting breast implants, but then directly judges men for noticing it

    • @matturner6890
      @matturner6890 8 місяців тому

      😂 what an idiot

    • @icu3869
      @icu3869 7 місяців тому

      If a girl had been modest and non-provocative , and Then he asked about her chest, THAT would be inappropriate. But THIS girl? She’s clearly flaunting her curves -( the curves she paid a fortune for -so guys would look and pay for the view.) sheesh.

  • @veracityhunter7777
    @veracityhunter7777 Рік тому +1206

    My jaw dropped. I cannot believe that she started name calling him. As a woman in her 40s; I'm often baffled and blown away as what I see coming from young women. They're a disaster. I can't even stand working with them. I even have to look at my peers and ask them, what the hell they were thinking when raising these girls? A lot of things are making sense to me now. This is sad, tragic, and I see why a lot of young men are just opting out of dating and marriage completely. These young women are insufferable. I don't know what the options are for young men now. I was kind of confused and scratching my head, as to why so many young men were trying to bark up my tree. It's not reasonable, or fair for either party. But now I see; young women of today are rude, crass, lewd, lascivious, and actually work hard to be as unattractive and unfeminine as possible. Yikes.

    • @oldscratch3535
      @oldscratch3535 Рік тому +172

      I'll be 34 in a few months. I haven't dated or had a g/f since 25 or 26. All of this behavior by women started around 10 years ago. They are truly insufferable to be around. All I ever hear from older people is why am I not married? Why don't I have children yet? Why don't I have a g/f? They really have no understanding of the current climate and what is expected of men from women in order to even be considered an option for anything other than casual sex. I even quit having sex with them b/c I just can't stand to be around them.
      I had a girl get up and leave after she found out I was a roofer. She was a college student who worked in a small boutique shop. I wasn't prestigious enough for her I suppose. She didn't even say bye. She just got up and left. The joke's on her. Now I work for one of the largest firearm manufacturers in the country. She's probably waiting tables somewhere with mounds of student loan debt.

    • @veracityhunter7777
      @veracityhunter7777 Рік тому +45

      @@oldscratch3535 also, good on you for making your way in the world. A lot of young women are going to have a lot of regrets in the future. Imagine how I feel being in my '40s, having men my age with one and two-year-old children trying to make me a stepmother because they had a kid with a woman who was 20 years or junior? It's disgusting and weird. Young women and older men are literally destroying things for us. It's true. But, I can't blame the young women entirely. There's a lot more nuance to why they are like this. Let me know if you want me to explain.

    • @ryanphillips5591
      @ryanphillips5591 Рік тому +29

      @@veracityhunter7777 Thanks for seeing where men are coming from.

    • @Conservative_carnivore
      @Conservative_carnivore Рік тому +42

      Most young women aren't like this. Social media mainly focuses on the bad apples for clicks. I know many young women raised by good families that are married and good partners.

    • @veracityhunter7777
      @veracityhunter7777 Рік тому +69

      @@Conservative_carnivore Yeah nobody said all young women were like this, but I'm even seeing it in my personal life; as I work with a lot of young women. If it doesn't apply, let it fly.

  • @PinkBroBlueRope
    @PinkBroBlueRope Рік тому +231

    If I was obscenely rich, the only girl I'd want to spoil would be one that wouldn't take it for granted and act like she deserved it by default

    • @mmm555m
      @mmm555m Рік тому +5

      What I don’t understand is this guy thinks it’s average to make like $30k a year, and that’s just not true. With a high school degree, about $50k is average. With a bachelors, like $80k is average. And that’s for the whole country.
      If you live in an expensive city with a high cost of living, making $50k is barely even livable. In Boston, AVERAGE salary is $91k. But in a small town in Kentucky, I’m sure that’d be considered super wealthy.
      It all just depends where you are.
      In my city, you can expect to be paid $25-30/hr just for entry level jobs.

    • @dy4710
      @dy4710 11 місяців тому

      @@mmm555m55-65,00 for bachelor degrees
      Try again

    • @ltsMotion
      @ltsMotion 11 місяців тому

      @@mmm555m40k is the average and actually it isn’t even enough so you know how taxes and food and not to mention bills are you dumb ?

    • @TheSpartacusTV
      @TheSpartacusTV 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@mmm555mIn America you get paid that much? In Italy it's already good if we manage to survive with 2000€ a month while young people my age just get 700€ a month if you're lucky 🤯

    • @mmm555m
      @mmm555m 10 місяців тому +3

      @@TheSpartacusTV Oh it REALLY depends on the state you live in, and even the city within that state. Honestly, cost of living can be SO high in some areas, even if you’re paid a high salary, you might still be “just scraping by”.

  • @RealEthanHaze
    @RealEthanHaze 10 місяців тому +14

    God damn, the way you frame/structure your transitions during your videos, is fucking hilarious. "This is quite possibly one of the most frustrating conversations I have ever watched, and I'm glad I wasn't a part of it. Let's see more!" Hahahaha, always insightful (especially your insight into trauma victims -> turned abusers/victim-players/ppl who should seek treatment but dont) and entertaining. Keep it up!

  • @astickem4428
    @astickem4428 Рік тому +235

    Even a male model has to deal with the ridiculous standards and interrogation-like conversations with women, especially average and below average women

    • @jeseAudio
      @jeseAudio Рік тому +34

      Nobody has to. Stop interacting with toxic people

    • @CarlosRodriguez-bh2ey
      @CarlosRodriguez-bh2ey Рік тому +16

      @@jeseAudio exactly. People only do what they can get away with. If we all collectively paid this type of people dust, they would have to change their strategy or stay single forever.

    • @Islamphobe
      @Islamphobe Рік тому +8

      @@jeseAudioeh not completely avoidable unless you’re looking to sacrifice a few things.

    • @casagrande8877
      @casagrande8877 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@@jeseAudioyour comment sounds a lot like "if u r homeless, just buy a house".

  • @Ibanezguy2007
    @Ibanezguy2007 Рік тому +324

    When women behave like this, call out their rudeness and then walk away. Don't text, call, or even acknowledge. They WILL come running to you.

    • @juliooquendo220
      @juliooquendo220 Рік тому +4

      Damm right

    • @aahzmandiaz2767
      @aahzmandiaz2767 Рік тому +26

      i thought about how my reactions would have been. My interviews would have been very short. One condescending reaction from them: "You're out, next!"
      The only girl left would have been the nice one that actually smiled after ROUND ONE!

    • @r7ahtesham885
      @r7ahtesham885 Рік тому

      @@somebody700 Not only the Simps, there are toxic hoes that encourages this kind of behaviour..
      Basically, the female version of Andrew Tate.. But unlike Andrew they actually spread toxicity and entitlement...

    • @kal69
      @kal69 Рік тому +13

      Nah, just walk away and hope that they don't come running after you!

    • @RJT80
      @RJT80 Рік тому +8

      Yeah you dont want them running after you. Playing hard to get is fine. Every woman has "pick me" DNA. But these women, aside from Tamara, are misery on two legs.

  • @sergeipohkerova7211
    @sergeipohkerova7211 Рік тому +66

    They have enormous demands while being utterly insufferable and bereft of anything of value to offer in return.

    • @TheGreySage0
      @TheGreySage0 Рік тому +4

      Devina acts as I would expect CIA interregator to act 😆

    • @RJT80
      @RJT80 Рік тому +1

      Perfectly put.

  • @OrangeLefty4
    @OrangeLefty4 9 місяців тому +16

    As a women, I do apologize for idiots like this. Hope it cheers you guys up a little bit to know that there are many of us out there that don’t unfairly hate all men. Seriously though, you can’t expect someone to remember your name when they’re thrown 14 names in a minute, that’s seriously unfair!

    • @jaffa3717
      @jaffa3717 8 місяців тому +3

      ?? Don't apologise for other people's faults lol

    • @R3ktCunnyz69
      @R3ktCunnyz69 8 місяців тому +1

      The only reason you're sorry is because you wished it caused us greater pain or inconvenience. Stop lying to yourself. You love it.

    • @Micah2terrific
      @Micah2terrific 2 місяці тому

      It’s alright I already quit trying anyways

  • @karma1119
    @karma1119 Рік тому +178

    I agree that those two girls are narcissistic and annoying af, but it also says a lot about the guy who picks those types of girls because he values appearance more than anything else. He didn't pick that girl who was into cooking and yoga and who really seemed like a nice and genuine person. So idk, shallow people get shallow people

    • @henrlima87
      @henrlima87 Рік тому

      You know what they say: until you meet the right girl, fuck the wrong one.

    • @MrDirigible
      @MrDirigible Рік тому +10

      Women gravitate to success, Men gravitate towards beauty. While internal beauty is extremely important, physical sexual attraction must be there for the man to have have attraction and does impact on the longevity of the relationship. When a man or woman loses sexual interest in their partner then the relationship is on life support.

    • @leaticiabalson5230
      @leaticiabalson5230 Рік тому +10

      @@MrDirigiblethat makes sense. Some comments above noted that he didn’t seem to be interested in a steady relationship but a hook up or something. But I think, at least from my perspective, that physical attraction isn’t the basis on which a relationship lives, though it is important. To that effect, I think he picked Davina because of the above and Tamara while beautiful seemed more peppy and girlfriend like.

    • @brainrich1358
      @brainrich1358 Рік тому +9

      I do agree. Most likely, he chose them cause he just wanted a hookup and not a relationship. I would have to say, I don't think it's a good idea looking for love on a dating show.

    • @JOHN----DOE
      @JOHN----DOE Рік тому +1

      yep

  • @TatsumiOga682
    @TatsumiOga682 Рік тому +466

    This guy Patrick has the patience of a saint. I would've roasted these women into a crisp if they talked to me like that 😂

    • @lethabozitha7692
      @lethabozitha7692 Рік тому +9

      Man fr 😂😂

    • @jimmckay2337
      @jimmckay2337 Рік тому +28

      Exactly. He held back.

    • @chootybeeks1088
      @chootybeeks1088 Рік тому +54

      He was 100% holding back lol

    • @pegeta
      @pegeta Рік тому +4

      I'm pretty sure the whole thing was scripted dude

    • @asarishepard8171
      @asarishepard8171 Рік тому +5

      Same here :) my opinion is they're being spoiled children and need to be talked at back into silence.

  • @AR7271
    @AR7271 Рік тому +426

    My parents asked me why I'm not married yet. I showed them this video and after watching just the first ten minutes they told me they're not going to ask me that question again...

    • @jerrybruckhart9134
      @jerrybruckhart9134 Рік тому +15

      😂😂😂😂

    • @bongwatercrocodile315
      @bongwatercrocodile315 Рік тому +74

      And did the whole bus stand up and clap?

    • @IamjustBruh
      @IamjustBruh Рік тому +7

      W

    • @milan90ful
      @milan90ful Рік тому +21

      Pro move brother, showed similar video to my dad as well and my step mother. They had exact reaction 😂

    • @balasaashti3146
      @balasaashti3146 Рік тому +9

      Shit I got to do that with my mother she keeps pestering me.

  • @kennethh2366
    @kennethh2366 Рік тому +471

    As an Australian, I’m so sorry that the entitled, narcissistic girls are good enough to be seen and heard. I’m so glad I’m out of the dating scene if this is what it’s like now. Poor Patrick. He puts time and effort into himself and the others besides one or two can’t be bothered

    • @jimiquin3412
      @jimiquin3412 Рік тому

      Australia, most entitled narcissistic women in the world.

    • @fritzdaddy-135mmgetstagger4
      @fritzdaddy-135mmgetstagger4 Рік тому +2

      Ya its how it is I guess ..holy shit

    • @soukenmarufwt5224
      @soukenmarufwt5224 Рік тому +20

      Lmao
      I dont take anyone from Australia seriously. Its one of the most woke countries on the planet next to America and UK.

    • @paulcarmi8130
      @paulcarmi8130 Рік тому +3

      @@soukenmarufwt5224 you hit it on the head. They gave up their pew pews and it shows LMAO

    • @crimsonhawk4912
      @crimsonhawk4912 Рік тому +2

      Who ever marries those women are doing the community around them a service.

  • @fatesi1486
    @fatesi1486 Рік тому +352

    It's a shame, we are seeing this more and more and eventually dating culture will collapse fully.

  • @Ghostdawg176
    @Ghostdawg176 Рік тому +117

    I used to think that it was me lacking something on dating apps when I’d get zero engagement when talking to girls on them. One word answers, no counter questions, no elaboration. Women really seem to think men are just monkeys made to dance for them.

    • @johndough8115
      @johndough8115 Рік тому

      If +3000 woman were waiting in line to throw their Panties at you... how different do you think you would feel / react ? These woman have a constant barrage of men, banging on their Door. You are competing with thousands of men, and at levels that you likely cant even compare with. And thats not even talking about the possibility of many of those replies being "Bots", "Fishing Scammers", and or "Catfish". Unless you can stand out Immediately.. in a big way... and all of the Planets are Aligned, and or 10 Chads have canceled on her... then you are likely not getting a followup reply / depth of response (And even if you do, it might just be for her to get a free meal, and free drinks.. and nothing more).
      If you look at some of the chats captured by "Chads"... its the Woman whom are texting like crazy... and the Chads that are putting out one-word / simple answers. These woman will keep trying, in very clear "THIRST".
      These days, the best way to get a female... is either to Bulk up your muscles.. and or to Bulk up your Bank Account. Keeping a woman... thats a whole other story.
      (Shes not yours... Its just your turn)
      IMO, the best woman are scooped up early on. Or they continue to chase Chads / Bad boys... until they are nearing / past their 40s.

    • @ReinertZerker
      @ReinertZerker Рік тому +16

      They're not sentient I think.

    • @mizelle4096
      @mizelle4096 Рік тому +1

      my experience on dating apps as a woman is the same, one word answer, no counter questions, no elaboration, nothing. I think it has to do with the fact that people are messaging multiple people. it doesn't make any senes to me to spread oneself so thin. why not keep it to a small number to weed folks out? I keep my matches and conversations to just a few so I can see if we truly match or not.

    • @Ghostdawg176
      @Ghostdawg176 Рік тому

      @@mizelle4096 So mfs just don’t know how to socialize I guess 🤡💀. Humans are doomed.

    • @speckled_egg
      @speckled_egg Рік тому +7

      I think lots of people are just not great conversationalists, either because they're a bit self centered, or just honestly not very interesting. It's not just dating apps, try to strike up conversations with people in real life and most of them are duds, or at best are fine to talk to but just don't mesh well with you and conversation doesn't flow easily. Finding those gems who you just click with and talk to easily isn't an every day thing.

  • @annikak4330
    @annikak4330 Рік тому +399

    As a girl wanting to have a real relationship and family one day this makes me glad knowing how low the bar is

    • @annikak4330
      @annikak4330 Рік тому +59

      Tamara is great though and I’d want to be friends with her

    • @stevenshoemaker8326
      @stevenshoemaker8326 Рік тому +27

      @@annikak4330 the irony of women

    • @fendybendy6466
      @fendybendy6466 Рік тому +45

      fr lmao. altho i feel like the guys who choose obviously toxic women to be around probably have their own set of issues one wouldn't want to deal with.

    • @afreakingtree
      @afreakingtree Рік тому +9

      If its so low we have a chance too right?

    • @Johnathanbyers
      @Johnathanbyers Рік тому +4

      LMFAO

  • @JLili12
    @JLili12 Рік тому +713

    I agree those women suck, but so does the guy. He had the opportunity to choose Tamara, a girl who genuinely liked him and was enthusiastic about getting to know him, and he chooses the other girls because he noticed her “fake t!ts” and likes “darker-skinned” women. I mean, you went for solely looks and that’s all you got…accept it. If you’re going to be shallow, expect shallow back!

    • @xXRealXx
      @xXRealXx Рік тому +282

      The guy was looking for a hookup only, not a relationship. It's better for Tamara that he didn't pick her.

    • @dandereninja4750
      @dandereninja4750 Рік тому +38

      There is also the possibility that it was manipulated to get a desired end.

    • @moisesjimenez4391
      @moisesjimenez4391 Рік тому +105

      Yeah even the narrator mentioned that he possibly didn’t pick Tamara bc he didn’t want to hurt her her feelings bc he wasn’t looking for a relationship just a hookup.

    • @xXRealXx
      @xXRealXx Рік тому +19

      @@moisesjimenez4391 why was Tamara there then? I guess she didn't know that

    • @_Devil
      @_Devil Рік тому +45

      To be fair, you have a point. If you're gonna go off only looks then you should expect zero personality in return.

  • @KindredEmotions
    @KindredEmotions Рік тому +346

    I’m sad they gave Patrick one more chance to get back at Divina for her rude behavior by taking the $100 and leaving her behind and he STILL went through with the date. Her red flags were everywhere and I somehow doubt he’s making it to her bedroom from how entitled she acts.
    Also, Tamara is insanely adorable.

    • @mariapop747
      @mariapop747 Рік тому +72

      Patrick is not the sharpest tool in the shed

    • @LeeEverett1
      @LeeEverett1 Рік тому +73

      He just wanted to smash, Tamara was too good for him because she was genuinely looking for a relationship whereas Patrick just wants to bang.

    • @Justmonika6969
      @Justmonika6969 Рік тому +49

      @@mariapop747 He's left wing in the modern day. Completely clueless guy who skates by because he's attractive.

    • @GamingProspector84
      @GamingProspector84 Рік тому +19

      He said he was Left so that sums it up. If he were Right he would’ve picked Tamara more than likely.

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 Рік тому +2

      @@mariapop747 Yeah but i mean the two rude women were acting badly
      But in general this is how dating shows are
      Always full of cringe

  • @dr.supriyakini
    @dr.supriyakini 10 місяців тому +8

    I genuinely heard the name as refart everytime until it was spelt out on the screen 😂😂😂

  • @supayakamupercaya
    @supayakamupercaya Рік тому +269

    Even without seeing her face, I would easily pick Tamara based on her very obvious interested voice and the way she sells her best traits.

    • @dianaquill9969
      @dianaquill9969 Рік тому +24

      Yeah, I think he was looking for a casual hookup moreso than a long term relationship.

    • @Drgluee
      @Drgluee Рік тому +16

      @@dianaquill9969 I agree. He could have completely taken advantage of her, play the nice relationship type she wants, so he can hookup with her and then dump her when he is finished.. But he didn't.. So kudos to him.

    • @supayakamupercaya
      @supayakamupercaya Рік тому +1

      @@dianaquill9969 He probably is. But if he is looking to settle down, Tamara would be first in his list. So he saved the best for last, in a way

  • @vegitoblue2187
    @vegitoblue2187 Рік тому +256

    16:27 Note to self: This is the kind of woman to ask out.
    Seriously, that enthusiasm is adorable. I wish I met a woman who gave a reaction like this.

    • @unfunnydave5485
      @unfunnydave5485 7 місяців тому +22

      You can, just make sure you’re looking good and meeting new people. She’ll show herself eventually, but you have to make sure that you’re good enough. If she shows herself and you aren’t a good enough person physically or personality-wise she won’t get with you. I believe in you man.

    • @5_birds
      @5_birds 6 місяців тому +10

      I believe in you, you'll get her soon.

    • @IndellableHatesHandles
      @IndellableHatesHandles 5 місяців тому +3

      My thoughts exactly. My dude messed up

    • @Twiddle_things
      @Twiddle_things 2 місяці тому +3

      I'm like that!!!!!!!! I just wish I could meet a guy (in person) who's into that. So many of the guys so far have turned out to be crazy (not the good kind) or assholes T~T
      Hope you can meet your lady!!!! Stay strong, brother. She's out there! Just don't be too shy. Boy shyness is endearing only up to a fine point xD

    • @vegitoblue2187
      @vegitoblue2187 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Twiddle_things I am very confident talking to women in general.
      I tend to get shy around the ones I like. I just own the shyness instead of hiding it which they seem to like.
      I did meet someone who has this energy (slightly introverted) but she turned me down for being too young for her (I'm a couple of years younger). She never minds my occasional shyness.

  • @MyHam-os4bq
    @MyHam-os4bq Рік тому +148

    I really think that a huge part of the hostility coming from these girls is intimidation from the fact that they find the guy really attractive. They are scared of being rejected by him so they put up a front and try to find something wrong with him in everything he says in order to make him look as undesirable as they feel. “I reject you before you can reject me.” It’s low self-esteem in action

    • @charlesxchaves
      @charlesxchaves Рік тому +8

      Agreed

    • @tomasducci3795
      @tomasducci3795 8 місяців тому +5

      You can see that in Divina's behaviour. Besides what she says, you can see how she's clearly nervous and trying to hide it

    • @someone8323
      @someone8323 8 місяців тому +6

      Wow. Back when I was a fat ugly teenager I did the exact same thing to push away the attractive men in my life. “Make him look as undesirable as they feel” just hit the nail for me.

    • @MyHam-os4bq
      @MyHam-os4bq 8 місяців тому +1

      @@someone8323 immature and insecure teenagers tend to do that sometimes. It’s a cringey experience one (hopefully) grows out of and might even laugh about later on. It’s just strange and annoying to watch grown adults act like that

    • @handsomeX
      @handsomeX 8 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely spot on 🎯💯

  • @guts60
    @guts60 8 місяців тому +6

    The average salary in the US is only ~$30,000-$35,000 per year. Yet these women want men that earn up to *50x* that?! I mean, I’m only 18 so I don’t entirely understand finances yet, but even despite that I can safely tell you that common sense applies in this situation and it is letting me know that it is very unrealistic to ask for your man to solely provide $150,000 every single year.

  • @omstc2583
    @omstc2583 Рік тому +486

    as a filipina, we do not claim divina. our culture is very rich in family life and sharing everything, and her attitude is just absolutely disgusting honestly. I don’t understand who raised her but i feel bad because she’s been so misguided on what men want in their life, and in turn you can tell she’s miserable on the inside :(

    • @barbados3592
      @barbados3592 Рік тому +1

      she's a loser. she acts like that so high quality people wont feel bad when they finish with her and throw her to the curb. also she doesnt want the quality men to waste their time with her, bc she knows shes a jerk.

    • @bhfanaticosi
      @bhfanaticosi Рік тому +9

      Bless you, we need more woman like you! Marriage and life is about sharing wealth and experiences with your loved one and working hard together to achieve goals.

    • @ZhouAgito
      @ZhouAgito Рік тому +3

      Lol honestly I've dated a lot of different women but not a Filipina woman. That does not sound too bad. I gotta meet more Filipino folks

    • @X1ZR
      @X1ZR Рік тому

      @@bhfanaticosi Facts.

    • @greatestartist5905
      @greatestartist5905 Рік тому +8

      She doesn't even look like a Filipina.

  • @darkknightfanboy3185
    @darkknightfanboy3185 Рік тому +602

    I would have ended everything shortly after meeting Tamara. She's adorable and actually seems like a sweet REAL life person. She definitely was the best choice. You shouldn't mess with women like Divina. The reason why she got so upset over hom saying the wrong name is, because in her internet world she makes money, and gets attention from thousands of men, who worship her, so a man not even remembering her name cuts deep to someone like her.

    • @MohamedRamadan-qi4hl
      @MohamedRamadan-qi4hl Рік тому +19

      The only thing bad about her is that she gives clingy vibes

    • @tvbuu
      @tvbuu Рік тому +4

      yup

    • @barbados3592
      @barbados3592 Рік тому +36

      thats bc you want a life mate. He just wants a beer.

    • @raffiihzazuhairnawan2091
      @raffiihzazuhairnawan2091 Рік тому +18

      @@MohamedRamadan-qi4hl well, a portion number of people want to have a clingy partner, so it can be a plus to them

    • @anonimowelwiatko9811
      @anonimowelwiatko9811 Рік тому +13

      @@MohamedRamadan-qi4hl Nobody is perfect. She had cute smile, was young, femine and wanted relationship. I would date her tbh.

  • @fyoon4392
    @fyoon4392 11 місяців тому +8

    "I like my jeep" was sweet.

  • @TherealHK-47
    @TherealHK-47 Рік тому +243

    So to summarize, realistic relationship goals for men is a woman who cooks and knows what a good realistic income is, and good relationship expectations for women are a non-abusive guy who works hard and washes his ass right

    • @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT
      @ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT  Рік тому +141

      Especially the last part.

    • @TherealHK-47
      @TherealHK-47 Рік тому +13

      @@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT check, check, checkarooni ladies… lol

    • @MrManPrincess
      @MrManPrincess Рік тому +37

      Yes. Trust me. There are still girls out there that you describe, but the numbers are slim. I have been married to the woman you describe for 4 years.
      But my advice: When you're at home on offday, help her clean up and cook, it will lighten her face.
      My wife advice: When you both are in conflict, 1 must be water while the other is on fire. To cool each other off to think clearly for solutions.

    • @caralho5237
      @caralho5237 Рік тому +1

      Its like you havent watched the video
      Their expectations are way too high
      Nevermind i misread the comment

    • @themilkman8554
      @themilkman8554 Рік тому +7

      @@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT I'm not sure if you realized it, but the girl at 4:40 that was doing "poetry" was actually reciting/using song lyrics from Tyler the Creator, the song is "See you Again" so that was unoriginal asf.

  • @hv6936
    @hv6936 Рік тому +183

    I found my girl in Croatia. She’s polite, upstanding, mindful of her manners and someone I can trust. I am so happy I met her and glad I’ll move to Croatia where my potential children can be in a healthy environment

    • @Heymoe666
      @Heymoe666 Рік тому +1

      You've found the key - not moving your wife to the US where she will be poisoned by American women.

    • @hv6936
      @hv6936 Рік тому +1

      @@Heymoe666 absolutely, USA will definitely poison her mind and the kids will be brainwashed with Communist/neoliberal nonsense. Why the hell would I want to stay here lol

    • @dothex
      @dothex Рік тому +5

      How dare you make her mind her manners!!! (future comments)
      Lol. Salute sir, salute.

    • @hv6936
      @hv6936 Рік тому +5

      @@dothexoh I don’t even need too, before I was in her life she was well mannered. Show I showed the same back to her and we are good.

    • @hv6936
      @hv6936 Рік тому +7

      @@j99044 literally bro, I just need to finish college here and in a year I can dip out of this hellhole. Here’s your two options in the US. Stay in the city and have money but your life is so decadent and superficial and you hate most of the people around you for being shallow. Or live in a American small town where you are around semi right wing people but your options are hang out at McDonalds, Dennys or the 3 gas stations around so you just drink a bunch and watch football to drown out the boredom.

  • @kaptajnklo5341
    @kaptajnklo5341 9 місяців тому +7

    I'd instantly pick a woman like Tamara, if she looked as happy to see me as she looked at Patrick. That's really all I want. A woman who seems happy to see me.

  • @DementiaGaming69420
    @DementiaGaming69420 Рік тому +142

    He’s right, Tamara was the cutest and she seemed like she had the best personality.

    • @Neucher
      @Neucher Рік тому +1

      chadstruck = good personality ?

  • @Nonplussed
    @Nonplussed Рік тому +164

    Thanks for suffering though this so we don't have to. You're a real one.

    • @tyshaq9286
      @tyshaq9286 Рік тому

      forreal lol

    • @jackbotman
      @jackbotman Рік тому +1

      Even this video was too much D:

    • @SandraSine40
      @SandraSine40 Рік тому

      another cherry-picking by TBYS on some privileged and delusional Californian girls, making guys think all the girls in the world are putting themselves on a pedestal, giving nothing of value to an existing problem of loneliness, and just dumping black pills on his echo chamber. GET OFF THIS TOXIC CHANNEL

    • @johnstrife7
      @johnstrife7 Рік тому

      @@SandraSine40 cope clown 🤡

    • @SandraSine40
      @SandraSine40 Рік тому +1

      @@johnstrife7 and you came to the circus

  • @achintyapataskar8704
    @achintyapataskar8704 Рік тому +331

    I have an uncommon name, and ppl often applogize to me because they get it wrong.
    Instead of getting angry about it I have learned how to turn the whole situation lighter for everyone.
    I just jokingly say that “Its ok, even my mom gets my name wrong sometimes”…always makes them laugh and opens up them up for a much engaging conversation.

    • @ajsouza3720
      @ajsouza3720 Рік тому +28

      We had a Japanese exchange student whose name was Akane. We all pronounced it as A-Kayne. She was so amused by it she didn't correct us for three months until she introduced herself to someone from outside the school. We all apologized but like I said she was so amused by it.

    • @Lordbobomb
      @Lordbobomb Рік тому +5

      Yeah same here when it comes to my name.
      Been pretty much doing the same from either going "Eh it's fine" to outright joking / letting them joke around about my name.

    • @matejmotuz108
      @matejmotuz108 Рік тому +5

      Sound like something a normal human would do , unfortunatety , there are many who are not normal ...

    • @gretasstolendreams2154
      @gretasstolendreams2154 Рік тому +4

      And that’s how it’s done

    • @wherethetatosat
      @wherethetatosat Рік тому

      I always tell people with an uncommon name that I forget everybody's name 3-5 times (and usually prove it within an hour). But I tell them it's a good thing I find a new name, so that way in the future when I hear that name again, the next person won't feel so weird and be impressed that someone got their name right.

  • @pablo4yu
    @pablo4yu Рік тому +316

    The white girl with green shirt who got ABSOLUTELY EXCITED she got picked was BEAUTIFUL AND SO KINDHEARTED how tf did she not get picked?

    • @uglytruthist9914
      @uglytruthist9914 Рік тому

      Chad wanted to pump and dump the worst ho available.
      It's actually admirable, in a twisted sort of way.

    • @jarjarwalter1962
      @jarjarwalter1962 Рік тому +76

      His loss

    • @flapdance
      @flapdance Рік тому +17

      He is a model. Perhaps his choice was because of the exposure.

    • @KfcOwner
      @KfcOwner Рік тому +4

      @@jarjarwalter1962 bro could choose 12 girls bc u want 1 of them to be chosen doesnt mean he wants to

    • @jarjarwalter1962
      @jarjarwalter1962 Рік тому +17

      @@KfcOwner still his loss

  • @Thor-Orion
    @Thor-Orion Рік тому +115

    I’d date Tamara in a heartbeat. She’s totally my type, too. Long hair, petite, funny and sweet. And her voice is adorable. She’s clearly the winning choice here.

    • @markuchiha7737
      @markuchiha7737 8 місяців тому +2

      Agree 💯

    • @1stdebunker
      @1stdebunker 8 місяців тому +1

      Good Man. Praise Christ brother you'll have a sweetheart on you in a heartbeat

  • @carolinesa91
    @carolinesa91 Рік тому +203

    I feel sorry for Tamara, I hope she can find a man that wants a serious relationship too.

    • @cosmodrifter
      @cosmodrifter Рік тому +12

      Yeah I was thinking exactly that as well.

    • @autarko
      @autarko Рік тому +26

      I'd bet that once the show was over she went out with Patrick. The show is some type of liberal diversity nightmare.

    • @avoidx2571
      @avoidx2571 Рік тому +62

      She deserves someone better this guy is just looking for a hookup and not a relationship

    • @Bullet-Tooth-Tony-
      @Bullet-Tooth-Tony- Рік тому +32

      This guy is the typical chad, i bet if it was an average man on there he would have asked out Tamara

    • @ATOMiiCChicken
      @ATOMiiCChicken Рік тому +22

      same, especially when you look at when they're lined up, all the girls are frowning and she's the only one with a massive smile on her face. Instant win for me

  • @J.B.7.4
    @J.B.7.4 Рік тому +7

    This just further explains why I enjoy not dating anymore, the thought of inviting a woman into life just trying to and dismantle, judge, and be hypersensitive to how I live, just makes me glad to be single

  • @NoPantsBaby
    @NoPantsBaby Рік тому +206

    She's right though. How could he forget a name like Refarta? I'd be busting a gut laughing.

  • @JimLStone
    @JimLStone Рік тому +94

    Woman: "What was the first thing you noticed about me, be honest?"
    Man: *Is honest*
    Woman: *Shocked*

    • @alex56565
      @alex56565 Рік тому +12

      That girl is literally the physical embodiment of everything wrong with modern culture.

    • @fransengherre7098
      @fransengherre7098 Рік тому +1

      You can see straight away that this guy is solid, he works and is in the real world. He has a certain level of social skills, he seems humble and confident. Normally he would be top tier.
      They all treat him like shit and he doesn't give a shit.

    • @jerrybruckhart9134
      @jerrybruckhart9134 Рік тому

      How to piss off a man, tell him a lie, how to piss off a woman, tell her the truth.

  • @DynastyTrickDogs
    @DynastyTrickDogs Рік тому +635

    As a 23yo woman who did get the "rich guy", you don't just show up and play princess. Building a relationship with a quality man requires YOU to be a quality woman who continues to have their own aspirations, take care of their health & to be educated, smart and show up when it matters. You also don't need to be 10/10 hot, i'm sure not. Understand that money is not to shower you w gifts but to invest to earn more wealth over time.

    • @skinnysnorlax1876
      @skinnysnorlax1876 Рік тому +114

      You see, you became a *person* before you became a woman, lol. Lots of npcs (including men) don't do that.

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 Рік тому +8

      @@skinnysnorlax1876 True

    • @DynastyTrickDogs
      @DynastyTrickDogs Рік тому +51

      @SkinnySnorlax I understand. There's such a lack of development in people in my age group. The women in this video will never be in any great man's real personal life and I have no sympathy. Grow up and decide what you want and need, be valuable as your own, not a "queen".

    • @skinnysnorlax1876
      @skinnysnorlax1876 Рік тому +20

      @@DynastyTrickDogs yup. Tragically, we just stopped investing in kids, including discipline. Folks did away with discipline, encouragement, hell, even culture, all in the name of letting kids express themselves. But a ship has to be moving somewhere before it can turn, and kids are largely the same way.
      If you want to be unique and different, great. Do it after you have proven you can be a regular, priductive adult, who understands their culture and can add value to it. Kids these days are taught nothing of value, subconsciously know it and are terrified for the future, and want to be a unique person before they're a person at all.
      I could rant about this for hours tho, lol. Don't mind me, I will quit clogging up the comments

    • @jdhensley4523
      @jdhensley4523 Рік тому +7

      Be educated/smart, have your own aspirations that's not something guys are attracted to, infact guys couldn't care less about it, Fit, Feminine and are you gna be a good mother, meaning not a career demon and actually take care of your kids like nature intended.

  • @sea.imagineering
    @sea.imagineering 11 місяців тому +8

    So funny, when I was 23, I was living with my bf who was studying and working in the weekends, while I was working fulltime to pay for our bills. I earned maybe 800 euro a month. And he had a side job earning 300. We had a nice small house and went on holiday once or twice a year. We bought our first house when we were 26 and he started working while I started uni a bit late, but that was our deal.
    You really do not need alot of money to live, but more money is nice. 🎉