Yeah a lot of people forget who haven’t seen dragonball is that piccolo is basically close to gohan’s age since he’s originally “piccolo jr.” from the end of dragonball. Especially to fans who haven’t seen the original show.
@@AJotasticGamer It's an weird one similar to the Clones in star wars. Jr is considered a separate entity to king piccolo but carries the same look, style, and goals at least at first. He's technically 4-5 years old in the tourney and like 10 during hte sayian saga. But mature and experience enough to fight like an adult, he IS an adult. Besides for all we know warrior clan nameks probably grow fast in order to defend the village.
Toriyamas writing genius is on full display with Gokus role as a father. He wrote Goku as an imperfect father since there's no such thing as a perfect father.
I think Goku is actually a lot like most fathers. A man who wants the best for their family but sometimes the way they go about it might not be the best way
Same could be said of anybody, mothers included. No one has THE absolute best way. Evidence in Chi Chi, her way was to coddle Gohan. Only with Goten did she become lax.
@@ReeceHoward06 Not even coddle Gohan, she wanted him to study 24/7 cause it's a play on asian parents and their obsession with grades and studies. Not saying Chi-Chi is a bad mother but she definitely wasn't coddling him, it was more about what he can do academically so he gets a good job. She was pushing Gohan even more that way than Goku ever did from the training side if you think about it.
Goku may not be the best father, but he is not a bad father. He cares about both of his sons Gohan and Goten, and has even died for Gohan twice. Not to mention that Goku has saved Gohan's life multiple times, even more than Piccolo did. Even the dragonball super anime had Goku get a rage boost over Goku Black killing Chichi and Goten, even if they were from an alternate timeline. The typical response of a good father is getting angry over the death of their child. This is what even led to Vegeta being a better father to Trunks. The "giving Cell a senzu bean" moment is somewhat a sign of Goku's faith in Gohan, but his real failure as a father is not understanding that Gohan doesn't want to be a fighter like Goku. I see this as Goku making a mistake as a father, but Goku tried to make up for this mistake by trying to get a senzu bean so that he could get back into the fight and save Gohan, even though Goku himself was not strong enough to defeat Cell. I don't even think that Goku leaving at the end of Z is a sign of him being a bad father. Gohan is an adult with a child of his own, while Goten is almost an adult. At that point, Gohan and Goten didn't need Goku around as much. Even though Goku left with Uub, he planned to visit while training Uub, and was going to come back when he was finished. Overall, I think Goku is a better father than people give him credit for.
The biggest thing people point to is the way Goku handled Cell but even that was a proud Sayain dad moment. When Vegeta fought Cell he knew Trunks could beat him, but he wanted that glory for himself. Even before Goku fought Cell he knew for a fact Gohan could win and basically gave Cell a Senzu bean as a way of saying:”Tough luck buddy cus even at full strength your still getting your ass whooped by my boy” And again, another thing people like bringing up is how Goku didn’t know Gohan hated fighting. But when would he have learned that? Every time he saw Gohan after he came back Gohan was constantly volunteering himself to save the day and get into these fights. He may not have been excited for the fight itself but he always wanted to help his friends save the world and protect them. The only reason Piccolo knew otherwise was because he saw Gohan build himself from the ground up as someone who hated fighting to someone who accepted it as something he had to do.
Piccolo was wrong, he was going on about gohan wondering about why goku isn't helping instead of his rage boost at the same time as gohan telling cell about his power when he gets angry.
So true. And I'm glad you brought up Gohan volunteering to help save the world and the universe at large. He might've been a child, but Gohan has clearly shown that he can speak for himself and make his own decisions, and let's face it. Gohan stepping up to the plate has often helped saved the day. We also have to remember that until the Cell games, everytime they were on the battlefield together, Goku makes sure to bench his son Gohan or send him away altogether to keep him safe, especially if he knows the villain of the week is too much for him. While I can totally get the argument that Goku was wrong and he had recklessly endangered his son Gohan, but he simply made a mistake with his son. And no parent is perfect. Besides he more than made up for said mistake with his heroic sacrifice and the fact that he allowed Gohan to be his own person, especially after he grew up. 😊
Goku being a bad father is one of the worst jokes to ever be taken seriously and has done some unnecessary damage to the character of Goku in certain people's eyes so I'm really glad this video came out
@@tavaedenton3338to be fair Piccolo does raise pan and has statements about him pretty much being pans grandpa instead of Goku tho I do remember that statement being a filler episodes
I think Goku was limited in the amount of times he could contact earth, I think Toriyama did that to make the reunion more heart warming, and the meeting between Goku and Goten more touching.
The reunion was actualy anime filler surprisingly, in the manga Goku just sees Goten and says ''Huh? you must be my son you are just like me" I have seen some people saying this as a example of Goku beign a bad father but i think Akira just didnt put much thought into it as their goodbye scene is also pretty heartwarming in the manga
@@kirbyfazendoummoonwalk9214 oh really, I read the Manga, but I cant remember that part. But if that's the case, it doesn't look great for Goku's case. I still dont think he's a bad father because the good he does really balances out the bad, you could say it outweighs the bad too.
@@the-1008-r4m Yeah, in the manga, Goku and Goten had no interaction, until later when he was teaching them Fusion. They did have that emotional hug, when he left for Otherworld though.
I'm glad you tackled this topic because it was really getting out of hand. I don't at all believe Goku was a bad dad. I didn't even have a real father figure for most of my life, but Goku definitely cares about and loves his son and Gohan loves his dad too.
Agreed i think most just over memed it but it was getting annoying seeing so many people slander goku yes he isn't perfect but like you said hes certainly not a bad dad.
Goku is not the perfect dad, he has his flaws. But he is not the terrible one the fandom has made him out to be for so long. The first thing we see of him as a dad is literally give his own life to save Gohan. He dies care about his sons. It's about time this gets put to rest.
Idk about Goku not being a terrible father. Dude literally tried to convince vegeta to skip out on his daughter birth because goku said it’s not that big of a deal
And like tfs says themselves, watch the original anime before the abridged. Goku as a whole is a better father than Vegeta. Goku isn't perfect by any means but he tries. That's all a father can do.
@@8-p335 wellllllll Goku still has the upper hand with how long he's actually fathered his kids and it took Vegeta till when he became Majin to finally realize he's been neglectful at times to his son and wife.
i was thinking if he was going to bring that up even though it's filler. At the same time he was justified as Gohan leaving would have accomplished nothing if he had went to fight cell. It's like the people will ignore the circumstances a lot of times when they bring up scenes
For Yardrat, an argument could be made that he wanted to learn IT because has nearly been too late to save Gohan twice at thay point and wanted to learn something to ensure he wouldn't be late for future fights
Goku landing on planet yardrat was a necessary accident, because he got to learn a technique with which he was able to save the world numerously, but also he would have died of a heart disease had he not landed there. I feel like most of the things he did [even in his own judgement] were entirely necessary
Not only that but look at it like this, goku got to yardrat after a death battle with a guy who killed his best friend and to his knowledge piccolo and that same guy was gonna go to earth and blow it up, goku BARELY survived against him and got lucky with super sayain. So its not far fetch goku stayed to learn these moves on yardrat BECAUSE he needed to up his arsenal of moves if he was to win against a stronger frieza. This isnt far fetched because goku stayed dead to stop the threats and goku let gotanks fight buu because he didnt want to keep saving earth because as he stated he wouldn't always be there to save the day and we see this in super hero.
@@silis4645 That's also why he went to train Uub at the end of Z. He wanted new guardians of Earth. People able to be there when he wasn't around. I mean, look at DBS Super Hero. This is the exact scenario he was referring to. Neither he nor Vegeta were there to save the day, but Piccolo, Gohan, Goten, and Trunks were able to handle it without massive repercussions. Even in GT, you see what kind of fighter Uub can be with Goku's training. I'm aware that GT is not part of the main continuity, but it does show that he would be an enormous asset to Earth's defense. Most especially after the reveal of Uub having God ki. That could create enormous potential for him if he's ever featured in a future arc.
@@Cloud-dt6xb No to mention that instant transmission is one of the most useful techniques he ever learned. Without it, Cell would have killed everyone on Earth with his bomb. He uses it more than that, but that's just one example of it saving everyone's lives. So, if that was the single, solitary time Goku used it, it has already proven worth learning. Plus, if no one was able to fix his ship, he could've used it to get home. There's just too many positives to him staying on Yardrat to make it sound like a bad decision.
@@FoxxyFire-HellFrost Yeah agreed and at the time Goku would've been sure things were fine on Earth ontop of it, enough that he could afford to make the most of his time on Yardrat.
The reason I feel like people don’t bring up the Goku not checking up on his family in the 7 years he was dead is because the people that say Goku is a bad father have only watched DBZA, looked at memes or just watched clips. They don’t know the actual story.
@@8-p335 u gotta understand that goku and vegeta are saiyans our interpretation of being a good father as humans has a completely different meaning than what a good father is to a saiyan.
I don't think he is. You can clearly tell he loves his family. He just does things different do to how he grew up/lived in the wild with and without Grandpa Gohan. One other thing I see Piccolo as more of an older brother since hes not much older than him.
@@najadamu2724 yup but a lot of these goku meat riders think that being a good person in some instances equates to being a good father. When in it doesn’t, and goku loves his family akin to close friends but it seems that it difficult for a lot to comprehend, then the slide the he grew up different cuz it’s anime but piccolo is a obviously grown adult but people don’t want apply that same logic when he’s a different race and the grow differently. Goku ain’t a great dad but people finna stay coping like they’re gonna lose sleep over that revelation or maybe they lack a father as great as they wank goku 💀
@@kingnaaaso beening there with your son for 11yrs dying two times for your son BTW is considered neglect bro their ain't no meat goku riders for simply defending a dude who got ruined of a stupid meme maybe get piccolos antennas out yo mouth and you might see goku is not a bad father🤷🏻♂
Bc krillin did not train him and give him huge character development.piccolo also watches gohans kid.piccolo is hard on him like a mentor or male roll model. Plenty mor reasons as whelk like when goku dies piccolo is the one training him and looking after him krillen barley even know gohan at that time,etc etc.
@@vanillamilk7575 Gohan and Krillin have been in plenty of life or death situations with each other. Also,as Gokus actual best friend,from a certain perspective you could say that Krillin is actually like Gohan's uncle
And you know what’s always been on my mind…How can you call someone a bad father after DYING to save his son. I know I know he died for others too but still lol
Goku is simply trying to make up for the Saiyan heritage Frieza stole from him. Vegeta is the opposite, although Frieza stole his father and a proper life, and after his death on Namek, Vegeta decided there was more to his life than being a Saiyan, despite proudly proclaiming his heritage. Look at the way Goku trained Gohan against Cell, as opposed to Vegeta. Vegeta never did that to Trunks.
@@DreJ912 His fault bruh? What was? The creation of Cell? Was he supposed to not destroy the Red Ribbon Army? Gohan's birth? Who would've killed Cell then? Gohan being thrown into battle? See previous. Cell turning into a bomb? Goku literally told Gohan to kill Cell way before that.
@@SpammytheHedgehogok and first off he spent most of those training years with gohan and they bonded 2 for the first 11 years of hogans life before he died against cell he was present for 9 pf them woulda been 10 had radius’s not killed him
Yeah, at least its not like he went to buy milk and never came home. He’s absente because he is dead. He’s dead because he sacrificed himself. Not much he can do about that, nor is it a bad decision.
@wyndellleethespammer4497 no. I know its a dba joke, but he only spends 1 year dead and 1 year on yardrat. So he spent 7/8 of Gohans 9/10 years with Gohan +1yr in the Time chamber
hes not a great father in terms of the traditional parent role but he encourages his kids, are fine with there life choices, spends quality time( yes even training is especially for sayains good bonding) whenever hes around, has and will sacrifice himself for them, and most important i think is gohan and goten and even pan in gt look up and want to be like him in a lot of ways so is goku the best dad? no is a he a good though? absolutely
That’s true, he may not be a good father in terms of how we all usually see a good father, but he’s done a lot of things that doesn’t qualify him to be the “absolute worst” since there’s a lot of circumstances that happens throughout the series.
Goku is not a bad father he is just unorthodox compared to a realife one..remember he is a hyper powerful alien from a race that were warriors that were not that close to there own individual families much because of separation on planetary missions....If anything Gokus ways as a father compared to the other sayians make Goku look like a stand up man lol.
I wouldn't even go that far. It's only by today's softened standards is he considered bad. It's a spit in the face of all the fathers who've went to combat to protect their land, all the father's who've passed down their knowledge and skills to the best of their ability, to all the father's who spent all of the time they realistically could with their children while in pursuit of their own betterment(which the entire universe benefits from in Goku's case)... I just cant see what standard is being used here besides this modern fantastical one.
I just finished watching and this was a very good and important video and Im glad people now have a much needed explanation of this highly "debated" topic. I too find it crazy at times that people think Goku is a bad father because the majority who think that way know nothing of his character's journey in Dragon Ball; a significant influence on Goku's character is his Grandfather, from whom he inherited his kindness from and learned his foundations as a martial artist. And along the way, we see Goku as a fundamental Good person who also likes to train and fights for self-improvement or to avenge his fallen friends. This upbringing made Gohan the well-spoken man he is, along with Chi Chi, who let him find his interests which led him to a path as a scholar. Goku always believed in his son and knew he had alot of potential which is why when the idea of training in the room of spirit and time came he clearly states that he will train as hard as he can, fight cell and if that doesnt work hed give up because this was the time he started planning on getting Gohan to train and be his trump card incase his hypothetical scynario came to fruition which is why he had his confidence on Gohan in the cell games where everyone at that point looked at Gohan as a whimp so to speak and knew he couldn't get it done for example Gohan's cowardly ness against Nappa while Piccolo and Kurirn performed their combo attack which Gohan failed to finish and Vegeta was there and later on in the frieza saga he was less of a whimp and was much stromger but his power wasnt enough and now cell at his perfect form who was way ahead of even Goku was something everyone looked at as a very stupid idea to send a kid to fight someone they themselves couldn't beat let alone Goku who trained WITH Gohan. But Goku didn't care, and when he gave Cell the Senzu, he was showing his sort of good sportsmen ship to Cell and gave him a Senzu so that he'd not have an excuse later on. Unfortunately, people will never want to understand why Goku did what he did when laying the groundwork for his comrades and the audience to see why he had this confidence level in Gohan. As a martial artist, this was his big debut fighting a villain at their peak from start to finish without anyone's aid like Goku did when fighting Frieza. The only difference here is that back as a kid, when Goku trained under Roshi, he explained the concepts of Budō and why as a Taoist martial artist, one must train for self-improvement, not to show off and to finish off a great evil with one mighty blow instead of making them suffer. Goku perfectly executed this, but Gohan got arrogant and saw his father get caught up in the crossfire.
It's like saying the father who has to be away for travels as a soldier is a bad father, or if he has to spend his time away from home to make money for food on the table, even despite how good they are with each other when he IS around. Goku did the best he could with what he had under very unreasonable circumstances, and places a tremendous amount of faith in his family. Although one could make an argument that he wants to go away to Beerus's planet too often now, just 'cause that's his form of fun. Goku since he was a child has always been a crazy moron, but he has also been supremely empathetic and compassionate towards the plight of others, it's not just about fighting but about defending the weak and innocent with him, and of course that would extend to his own children
@@8-p335 Gtfoh. The dub only made his lines slightly different. He still had a heroic personality in all versions of Z and Dragonball. Had he cared only about a good fight, he wouldn't have trained Gohan to reach the potential necessary to save the world.
@@8-p335 Does the original Japanese version completely change the scenes of Goku going totally out of his way to save Suno and her town, and Upa's father, who feels responsible for getting killed? Android 8? Making sure to fight Majin Vegeta away from the martial arts tournament spectators? Sparing Vegeta? Sparing even Frieza? Giving up the thrill of battle and training to work with his former enemy and sacrifice himself to take out Raditz one way or another? These are the moments I'm thinking of, I don't know what you're thinking. Anytime innocent life is lost, that is what really sets Goku off and it's no longer play time
A lot of people also misunderstood the whole senzu beam thing during the cell saga. Gohan even states himself that he understood why his dad chose him to fight, Gohan knowing himself realize that whenever he gets angry he can tap into his hidden potential which is why cell really started beating on Gohan.
The whole thing ended with Gohan getting stronger and it only costs Andriod 16 and Goku’s life. The former was fixable with the dragon balls (although it still hasn’t happened yet) and the latter was technically Gohan’s fault for not finishing off Cell. I generally hate how people ignore all of this just to continue the meme of Goku being a bad father.
Toriyama once joked that he quit the manga because he lost his favorite pen... pretty sure he was joking with the father statement. What counts as a good father is a culturally subjective anyway. What I am more interested in is vegeta's final explosion being treated as a big deal.... he literally traumatized his kid, while goku's supposedly perma-death was cause by Gohan's arrogance. The fandom leaning towards vegeta confuses me. Vegeta is toxic af.
As a father of three boys myself and the son of a present, good father. The quantity of time goku got with his boys wasnt a lot but the quality of time spent was immense. Memories are only saved in our brain with some kind of emotional stimulation attached to them. Which saves them in the long term memory bank. All his time with his boys he spent teaching them lessons and how to protect people they love. Also he saved earth multivle times. Hell goku is all our daddys at that point
Proud parent here myself. A lot of people truly don't understand this. He really did do all that a father SHOULD do with the time he was giving to them.
I think at the end, in regards to Goku not checking in on his family, I think that was intentional. He knew he had to make a choice not to return, and didn’t want to feel compelled to go back on his decision. He truly thought staying dead would have kept the earth, and his family, safe. I think to be honest, the best dads are the ones that do screw up, but because they care too much. Nobody is given a infallible guidebook to parenting when they become a dad, they have to wing it. As long as they don’t abuse or selfishly abandon their family and try to keep his family’s best interests in mind, a dad is doing his job.
Oh, hot topic question. Well, I think we have to take everything into consideration that happened in the Room Of Spirit And Time. During the Cell arc. I think, that period showed most and best of what a loving and caring father Goku is at least for Gohan....
Bro you’re capping Goku spent a full year with his son and still didn’t he learn that his kid doesn’t even like fighting until piccolo sunned him about it
@@8-p335 No, sure. Gohan didn't like fighting at all. He just wanted to keep fighting that one time, right before he reached Super Saiyan for the very first time, even though Goku was COMPLETELY exhausted. Sure, that's the spirit of someone who doesn't like to fight........ Or.... Maybe, you're misinterpreting things. There was a lot more nuance to Gohan and Goku than you give them credit for, which is why I kinda don't even wanna argue with you. I just have to find a way to explain to you how stupid your argument was. You just brought up one very specific point and put it into the wrong context to fit your argument. That's kind of what we call "strawmanning". Those are NOT strong arguments and you should not rely on those. Sure Gohan likes to fight. He's half Saiyan and beat Cell after all. He just doesn't enjoy it as much as his father. But you call that a point to claim that Goku is a bad father? That he has some differences to his son? Dude, you don't have to make your kids be EXACTLY like yourself. Have you had kids? Every kid is different. And that's GOOD. They're allowed to have differences and nuances. And you don't always have to respect all of that as a parent. Doesn't automatically make you a "bad" parent, when you don't know everything about your kid and fulfil their every wish and so on. I hope you understand that....
@@chanceneck8072 lol wow could’ve condensed that comment a little couldn’t you like a lot of your sentences are saying “ not every kid has to be like your parent”. Lol when did I ever say that in my OG comment
You know there was a part of me that always thought Raditz coming to earth and kidnapping Gohan and Goku not being able to stop him or save him (prior to him and piccolo winning) really triggered something in him (almost traumatizing him) I feel like once this happened it flipped a switch as to where Goku would never let that happen again and where Goku now trains to the ridiculous extent he does. Yes I know it’s always been part of his character and his sayain dna but I also think in some part of himself he wants to be sure he’ll always be ready and prepared to protect his loved ones and pushes himself to achieve this as well. Just my thoughts though
One more thing in Super when Goku black tells Goku how he kill Chichi and Goten that make Goku furious. Goku may not be there all the time but he's out there making the world a safer place.
I don't think Goku gave Cell the senzu to "prove a point", I think he legitimately thought Gohan would not be able to defeat Cell unless he unlocked his full potential, and that that wouldn't happen unless Cell was an overwhelming threat to him. He was putting Gohan in danger as a means of breaking his limits, which was the exact thing he did to get Gohan to unlock ssj in the first place. He just misread gohan's character and didn't realize he freezes up just as much as he breaks his limits.
I dont think Goku could check on Goten because he was dead, i dont really remember why baba brough him to Earth, but i do remember her stating that ´´you have a day, and im gonna do this only this time because you helped us`` or whatever im pretty sure she mentioned something like that. there was a reason as to why he couldnt just show up and say hi to goten. so Goku being able to even show up on the tournament was a special occurrence. i think even in the bojeck movie (i know it isnt cannon) Goku wanted to help Gohan and the kai was like ´´You cant help him`` or whatever. Even Vegeta going against super buu was because they needed his help to beat him. So there is a special rule that dont allow dead people coming back to the living world My point is. there is a rule that Goku cant simply go to the living world.
@@sdm47 King Kai, IS a god...im pretty sure he has better things to do than stalking Gokus family, or you can Just blame King Kai for not telling anything to him.
Piccolo has always been more like a fatherly uncle. An uncle can be a father figure, just as much as the actual father. My brother, for example, is my nephew's second father figure. He took him to sleep as a kid and spent a lot time playing with him as a kid and and teaching him a LOT of wisdom and giving him a lot of advice.
On the Yardrat thing: Goku had just come out of a life-and-death battle against enemies far beyond any before. He knew Earth's warriors had a lot of catching up to do. And in the end, he was right.
I think Goku’s biggest weakness as a father has been emotional availability, but even with that he’s shown the capacity for it like in the room of spirit and time.
A much more understanding father than Vegeta, that's for sure, and yet nobody ever seems to have so much to say about Vegeta's hilarious awfulness in the fatherhood department. I would even say Trunks had the same sort of anger potential Gohan did, it's just that Vegeta's training/parenting methods sent Trunks in the wrong direction to fully tap into his potential, wasting it all on super saiyan grade 3. Vegeta's method has always been overexertion and tryhard stubbornness and need to dominate and stay #1, while Goku has always had strength in his flexibility and compassion for the weak and WANTS others to be stronger than him
if people analysed all the events that lead to son goku's death, you can definitely see that he is not a bad father. he always died trying to save the humanity - which includes his own family! there was one scene where vegeta critised his decision to save mr.satan and the dog over their children, but that was due to his children being far away and he didn't have enough time to get them after saving mr.satan. and goku was obviously very sad that upset that his sons were sacrificed initially if you look at his facial expressions, and the fact that he does not come up with a single excuse when vegeta confronts him. for someone who was raised alone or without any parents for majority of his childhood, he tries to keep his son and wife happy. remember, he tries. he is someone who wants to just train all day, but he farms and stays at home so that chi chi won't be upset. he doesn't push his son to pursue martial arts minus the times that his power was needed, and is happy for his son becoming a scholar. remember during cell saga that he even promised his son to spend some time fishing after all of this mess is gone? sure, he made mistakes here and there but i have seen real life father won't don't even do half as good as he does. remember that he comes from a race of aliens that does not take parenting as seriously as earthlings do.
Also the whole Gokuu not coming home right away after Namek explodes and staying on Yardrat, I always assumed that it was also partially because he had just transformed into a Super Saiyan for the first time and wanted to get that under control before coming home in so he doesn’t accidentally lose his shit at home, transform and hurt somebody. He says to Gohan right after he transforms the first time that Gohan needs to leave while he still has a “shred of reason left”, so it makes sense that he’d want to get a handle on that before potentially putting his friends and family in danger because he can’t control his new powers yet. Gokuu tells Trunks it took him some time to get it under control, so it makes sense. Sure the manga doesn’t spell it out and this is my own head canon here, but it’s actually logical for Gokuu’s character (especially because he stays dead in the Cell arc for very similar reasons, to protect his friends and family).
0:38 They say in the Late Pleistocene era, H. Luzonensis argued amongst one another as to whether Goku was, indeed, a bad father. One would then ask what a Goku is.
Additionally in the time period that Dragonball Super takes place, Goku had time to bond with his youngest child. Especially, as a grandfather he learned from his oldest son and piccolo on how to better show some care for his grandchild. Other things to note he knows he wouldn't win tho would be any argument with chichi about training Goten when Chi-Chi wants Goten to have an education, but we all know likely he wants Goten to have some balance especially if Goten loves to fight like his father.
Goku has always cared for his Family, from prior to the Saiyan Saga he has been living a Happy Life and just started becoming a protective Father towards Gohan, even at the time Raditz showed up and Died trying to protect him, not to mention that you have to keep in Mind that it was Piccolo's Idea of turnning Gohan into a Fighter, so that's why he literally kidnapped Gohan by leaving him alone and was forced to survive in the Wilderness, so that is why Gohan's whole Childhood was Sacrificed, Piccolo at the Time was still under the Evil Influence of his Father Demon King Piccolo (before he merged back with Kami), In the Namek Saga where Goku 1st transforms into a Super Saiyan when facing off against Frieza, he immediately tells Gohan to leave along with Piccolo to go to his Ship safely and escape the Planet that's about to Explode, Goku may have done a Bold Move on giving Cell a Senzu Bean but he did that to push Gohan further to transform him into reaching Super Saiyan 2, if only he should've finished off Cell if he hadn't let his Pride get the hold of him, In Conclusion, Goku is not a Terrible Father, he has always cared for his 2 Children like a Good Father he really is.
6:16 I always looked at that moment in a different light. When I saw the expression on Gohan's face, when his eyes widened up seeing Piccolo get hurt, I never saw it as him getting completely and soley angry and unlocking Beast. When I looked at Gohan's face, I saw a *father* who got confirmation that his world was about to end, because the only thing that he thought was strong enough to protect it, just got blasted out of the sky. Thinking that if he didn't step up, his actual family was going to die. He would have to let them down and watch them die, and explain to his loved ones that they are all dead because he couldn't make the cut. More of a fear and anxiety kind of reaction, instead of an anger thing. Anxiety and fear breed anger, and the anger was a byproduct of some sort of PTSD. And if you look at it in that light, the writing becomes a lot better. People have to understand that the love and compassion you feel as a father is different than as a friend, many married couples who give birth often describe the love that they feel for their child and family as a different kind of love than others. People have to understand that Gohan is now a grown-ass man, and a father, and a protector of his home and friends. He's not a kid anymore, and he's not a warrior, he's a dad. I think the writing in the movie is fine for a character like present-day Gohan.
Goku isn't a bad father. He just had a lot faith in his son and to a point over thought things in that instance. I don't King Kai or anyone told him thinking that if they did he would want to return home and they as well was trying to keep the earth safe, so that part falls not on Goku, but the powers that was in control
I think why Goku didn't contact anyone when he was dead after the cell game, must been because he was what everyone was thought permanently dead and the people who is dead should probably have none connecting to the living world at all. It only was okay for the first time because they knew Goku would be revived in one year, or a special case for one day with help of Uranai Baba.
Geekdom!!!!!!! As a father by myself, I feel, in my opinion, it’s his subconscious militant mindset. Some of us have it, he has an abundance. Some of us are more enthusiastic with it, he just gets it done. I’m sorry if I didn’t explain it properly, but that’s my take on it.
He doesn’t?? Then why tf he went to save gohan from raditz and why did he go bonkers on zamasu and goku black over that daydream about black killing chi chi and goten ???
Goku is an good father and a husband. He loves his family to give his life for them. He is not spending all his time with them, but in a world od Dragom ball people depend on him to save them when everybody else can not.
Goku has always been best dad in the entire series for me personally! I absolutely love and adore how much he cares for his family, also Goku and Goten relationship is something I only wish Bardock and Goku had 😌
As previously mentioned, Goku doesn't really grow up-- at least not mentally. Because he is still so young seeming and immature, he does come off a little shortsighted. And because of this, many viewers think he's too dumb to be a good dad. At one point in Dragon Ball Super, Goku even alludes to not knowing what a kiss is. This is extremely suspicious and concerning as he has children. The "Goku is too stupid" argument isn't necessarily wrong, but it does feel a little mean. His level of intelligence isn't really related to how good of a dad he is, or how much he loves his sons. For most of these points, whether Goku is an adequate father or not will come down to interpretation. On one hand, he does seem incredibly absent and doesn't spend much typical bonding time with his children, and he is very childish himself. On the other, he's also a very dedicated person and puts everything on the line so his family is safe.
Tbh before Super I don’t think there was really that much evidence that Goku didn’t develop mentally. He definitely continues to be playful, lighthearted, and somewhat naive, but Goku in the Cell and Buu sagas is way more mature than he was as a child. Of course, Super is kind of cannon (I say kind of because the anime and manga continuities differ), I’m just saying that up until that point Goku clearly matured linearly.
Goku absolutely developed as a character bruh dbs is the reason ppl thinks like that compare goku from day one in DB to cell saga saga goku where he was arguably at his peak as a character there's no comparison
Goku definitely grew up. He’s just a laid back and carefree person. I think Ignorant is a better word. He wasn’t taught things traditionally like we were. And bro was Absent cause he was dead which isn’t fair to judge him off of.
My theory of why Goku didn't know about Goten and never found out about it, was because Goku and King Kai believed that Goku was dead for good. And thus didn't have the same privileges of communication like he did prior when he was knowingly going back to Earth and needed to know the situations to help. And it was just stuck obeying the rules of the other world. Obviously that changed, but that's my belief. Same reason with Goku in other world in the future trunks timeline. He was in heaven and abiding by the laws of heaven and couldn't communicate like you used to for that reason.
As much I enjoyed DBZ Abridged as it happened over time it's aged poorly for me In part cause there are several gags in it that fans have come to think are actually cannon to the actual series, the Goku being a bad dad thing ties into it
"Goku is a bad father" and "Piccolo is Gohan's real dad" are some of the funniest parts of DBZA IMO, whether or not they are true to the original series. The reason why they caught on as fan theories is because there is some truth to it; Goku does some things that you wouldn't want your own dad doing to you e.g. sending you to fight a killer biomechanical monster, and Piccolo is a mentor and an uncle-figure to Gohan. People just like to take theories too far, and it helps that a lot of people don't like Goku and like Piccolo. TFS didn't make those theories up, they just exaggerated them in the show for comedy
To your point about Goku checking up on Chi Chi, Gohan and Goten from the after life, I feel like we have to add a shred of realism to this situation. He wasn’t supposed to be coming back. Maintaining contact and establishing a relationship with a son you may never meet is kinda…dark. Realistically, him saying he wasn’t coming back meant it was time to let go. For good.
@@StareachValcin Ik goku is a good father to gohan but Piccolo taught Gohan better. Only goku taught gohan to battle cell. Piccolo taught gohan pretty much everything. Piccolo's always there for gohan when the latter's in peril. For example: Piccolo sacrificed by saving Gohan's life.
I had a debate with someone on if Dragon Ball had a plot or not, and it somehow lead to if Goku was a good father or not, and they deadass brought up how he was a bad father because when Frieza destroyed Earth he didn't Instant Transmission to grab Goten and bring him with Whis in space🤦♂️
Yes Dude literally went MIA for years just to train a kid he barely knew Didn't talk to his childhood friends, his wife, his children NOTHING, for years Even making the argument he saved the universe multiple times, that does not mean anything in his neglect of his family, not even vegeta does this
@Mr nobody Returns that also isn't valid because after he found out what it meant he still accepted He could have easily said no even if he "gave his word before" 2 sons that barely know him and probably any information they have of him is from chichi and friends, goten went years without knowing his father in a universe were reviving is just another Tuesday
"Because he wanted to spend time with you, his father! Who spends half of his life training... and the other half dead! Sometimes, both!" *- Abridged Piccolo*
Goku is a good father for three reasons. 1. He accepted that Gohan was not a fighter realising that he is and always will be a scholar. 2. He sacrificed his life to let his brother die so that Gohan wouldn't be kidnapped by his brother 3. During the training in the time chamber he made sure Gohan had the best balanced training not over pushing him but giving him enough training even easing his anxiety so that he could have enough power to beat cell.
I agree with the first one, even when gohan apologized for not being able to fight in the U7 vs U6 tournament, goku didn’t mind him focusing on his school and even wanted him to focus on that.
Bro what. Goku was a terrible father in the cell saga. Piccolo literally had to tell him he doesn’t like fighting even tho Goku just spent a full ass year with his son
@@andyvozzamusic doesn’t change the fact that Goku had a whole year to get to know his son and failed to know something that took piccolo days to weeks to figure out
@@andyvozzamusic plus Goku changed his mind when piccolo told him that he was being a piece of shit father who was just watching his son get hugged to death
I would say this. Goku may not be the BEST dad but he's not a bad one either. Even though he does go out and train to get stronger and all that, he still tries to protect his family at the same time, and he does care about them, otherwise, he wouldn't have snapped at Zamasu when he killed "FUTURE" Chi-Chi and "FUTURE" Goten, btw.
Gohan hating Goku is such an interesting take because IN the anime Goten asks him what Goku was like and he straight up says he’s the definition of an angel
If Goku was a bad father then why did he save Gohan as a kid during the cell games filler. And when he uses his instant transmission right before cell is about to blow up. Why did Gohan cries out for his father? That shows Gohan loves him and doesn't make Goku a bad father in my opinion
Some of these takes sound like people are confusing the tfs abridged series with the actual anime/source material. Saying gohan hates goku is wild asf…
It isn't FAIR to compare Goku to fathers by Earth standards since he's a FREAKING alien with Alien instincts (battle hungry) But I think he isn't the *worst* father, he's just dumb but a loving Father. He's definitely the best Saiyan Father (besides Vegeta, since Vegeta's more patient and protective, towards Bulla) Saiyans have pride, expect their children to be strong (if Tarble is canon it would further prove that the weak children are outcast) Fact that he's EXTREMELY patient and supportive, and even tough enough to say his child/children are (potentially) stronger than him says a lot (compare that towards how Vegeta treated Trunks in the Cell Saga, I would assume that's how Saiyans treat their children too)
Vegeta didn't come a great father to dbs people he never held or hug his son to his eight he once didn't care they live or die and the first 8 years of his life he spent all his time training at one point he punched his son in the gut just so he can fight an Android
Even before that he is different. When OG DB started out he was living basically as a feral child in the wilderness with only the brief time with a father figure (Grandpa Gohan) as a tie to the "civilized world" until he dies and he lives like a hunter/gatherer. The Saiyan aspect and space alien warrior nonsense was an add on to expand for future stories. He lived his most formative years living in the wild. He was so ignorant of what we consider common sense that he couldn't tell if someone wasn't male of female so he'd physically pat their crotch to figure out what was there. He isn't the traditional father because he only had a brief conceptualization of a father figure. The only other concept he has for a father figure is a martial arts master as his master which is still fairly different from traditional fathers.
@@williebelcher9303 He fathered them using his Saiyan instincts...? I guess? And DBS right after Whis made Bulma give birth to Bulla (before the tournament of power) when Trunks and Goten tried to carry Bulla he snapped at them and hesitated carrying her (episode 97??? Somewhere between 90 and 104, before Frieza was recruited) It's in the manga too but only in 1 quick panel This is a dumb comparison but it makes sense. Kratos (God of War) LOVED his daughter, Fathers (Should Ideally) love their daughters differently than their sons. Kratos treated Atrais/Loki tough, and it's explained he was always tough on him to Toughen him up. Spartans (Who are warriors LIKE SAIYANS) always made their SONS fight and survive. He treated his son just as he was treated. But he did this because he wanted Atrais/Loki to be able to fend for himself since Kratos (in God of War Ragnarok) admitted he was getting too old, he wants his son to be able to survive and know how to live on his own. Much like Vegeta did with Trunks (debatable but I mean tough love for sons so they aren't dependant and weak, sons eventually become men, and it's a Father's role to make their sons into Strong Men)
@@williebelcher9303. Yea the people who say goku is a bad father forgets that vegeta was a piece of shit father when future trunks just wanted to get to know him but people wanna say that goku is a bad father and that piccolo is a better
It’s funny how people keep bashing on Goku because he gave cell a senzu bean, when Vegeta did something similar, if not far worse, where’s his backlash huh 💀
True, vegeta’s done a lot of stuff that’s way worse. First he started off as a villain, then even as an anti-hero in the namek arc, he went out of his way to punch gohan to take the dragon ball he had, he barely showed love to bulma and wasn’t concerned for their safety when they were in danger, he didn’t take future trunk’s word into consideration when he tried to warn him about the androids/facing them alone (and punched him as well). While he did started to show some sort of care after future trunks died, he still wasn’t fully good, like how he never hugged his son from the present timeline, even as a baby, and even killed civilians just to get the battle with goku he desperately wanted. Ik there’s more that I may have missed, but I think we get the picture here.
The reason on why people think that Goku is a terrible father is because he does not care about Gohan studying which is wrong because we saw a scene where Goku tells Gohan to study and Goku also said that a good father would let his son go to bed AND HE ADIMTS IT GOKU IS A GOOD FATHER.
To defend Goku giving Cell the senzu, he could have also had the introspection that in order for Gohan to be pushed beyond his mental limitations, Cell would have needed to be a much larger threat at full power
Something I’d like to point out about Yardrat was that there were being attacked by the Ginyu force, it’s stated in the DBS manga, which mean that there could be made the point that Goku stayed in the planet to make sure that the people of Yardrat were safe and sound
I feel like DBZA has a hand in making people think hes a bad father and that Gohan hates him.
And people took the “Piccolo is Gohans real dad” joke too far
@@almightyprofessor I think even tfs feel the same way
@@walterwhite4398 Hell they regretted making that joke a long time ago
@@koffibentum7452 yep I don't blame them for it it's the fan's that need to calm down
They came out and apologized about that tbh. You’re spot on.
Everyone says that Piccolo is Gohan's dad, but thinking about Piccolo's age. I think he is more like Gohan's older brother.
Yeah a lot of people forget who haven’t seen dragonball is that piccolo is basically close to gohan’s age since he’s originally “piccolo jr.” from the end of dragonball. Especially to fans who haven’t seen the original show.
Piccolo literally calls Kid Gohan his first friend.
Calling Piccolo "Gohans dad" is such a strange statement since Piccolo is only a few years older than Gohan
Or uncle.
@@AJotasticGamer It's an weird one similar to the Clones in star wars. Jr is considered a separate entity to king piccolo but carries the same look, style, and goals at least at first. He's technically 4-5 years old in the tourney and like 10 during hte sayian saga. But mature and experience enough to fight like an adult, he IS an adult. Besides for all we know warrior clan nameks probably grow fast in order to defend the village.
Toriyamas writing genius is on full display with Gokus role as a father. He wrote Goku as an imperfect father since there's no such thing as a perfect father.
What do you mean no such thing? Cell is a Perfect father 😆
@@Mbrace818 didn't bro send his kids to get slaughtered by a blonde kid 💀
@@AJotasticGamer
He ain't no helicopter poppa🤷🏾♂️😂
Then Piccolo entered the room
Writing genius???? 😂😂
I think Goku is actually a lot like most fathers. A man who wants the best for their family but sometimes the way they go about it might not be the best way
Same could be said of anybody, mothers included. No one has THE absolute best way. Evidence in Chi Chi, her way was to coddle Gohan. Only with Goten did she become lax.
@@ReeceHoward06 Not even coddle Gohan, she wanted him to study 24/7 cause it's a play on asian parents and their obsession with grades and studies. Not saying Chi-Chi is a bad mother but she definitely wasn't coddling him, it was more about what he can do academically so he gets a good job. She was pushing Gohan even more that way than Goku ever did from the training side if you think about it.
@@ReeceHoward06gohan actually liked to study tho and wanted to be a professor since he was like 4 years old
@@8-p335 Do you have kids?
@@piccoloatburgerkingGoku trained Gohan hard sure, but he was also supportive of Gohan's desire to become a scholar if I'm not mistaken
Goku may not be the best father, but he is not a bad father. He cares about both of his sons Gohan and Goten, and has even died for Gohan twice. Not to mention that Goku has saved Gohan's life multiple times, even more than Piccolo did. Even the dragonball super anime had Goku get a rage boost over Goku Black killing Chichi and Goten, even if they were from an alternate timeline. The typical response of a good father is getting angry over the death of their child. This is what even led to Vegeta being a better father to Trunks. The "giving Cell a senzu bean" moment is somewhat a sign of Goku's faith in Gohan, but his real failure as a father is not understanding that Gohan doesn't want to be a fighter like Goku. I see this as Goku making a mistake as a father, but Goku tried to make up for this mistake by trying to get a senzu bean so that he could get back into the fight and save Gohan, even though Goku himself was not strong enough to defeat Cell. I don't even think that Goku leaving at the end of Z is a sign of him being a bad father. Gohan is an adult with a child of his own, while Goten is almost an adult. At that point, Gohan and Goten didn't need Goku around as much. Even though Goku left with Uub, he planned to visit while training Uub, and was going to come back when he was finished. Overall, I think Goku is a better father than people give him credit for.
Goku being a bad father is honestly just a overused bad joke in the db community
You spit nothin' but Pure, 100%, unadulterated Facts! 👊👊✊✊👏👏🙏🙏🔥🔥 I've argued these points and many others for several years.
@@silis4645 agreed.
@@UnexpectedWonder thanks.
@@silis4645 bro it's soo unfunny. Just say Piccolo is the dad or grandfather and you'll get thousands of likes
The biggest thing people point to is the way Goku handled Cell but even that was a proud Sayain dad moment.
When Vegeta fought Cell he knew Trunks could beat him, but he wanted that glory for himself.
Even before Goku fought Cell he knew for a fact Gohan could win and basically gave Cell a Senzu bean as a way of saying:”Tough luck buddy cus even at full strength your still getting your ass whooped by my boy”
And again, another thing people like bringing up is how Goku didn’t know Gohan hated fighting. But when would he have learned that? Every time he saw Gohan after he came back Gohan was constantly volunteering himself to save the day and get into these fights. He may not have been excited for the fight itself but he always wanted to help his friends save the world and protect them. The only reason Piccolo knew otherwise was because he saw Gohan build himself from the ground up as someone who hated fighting to someone who accepted it as something he had to do.
👏 👏 👏 Exactly this!!!!
Piccolo was wrong, he was going on about gohan wondering about why goku isn't helping instead of his rage boost at the same time as gohan telling cell about his power when he gets angry.
So true. And I'm glad you brought up Gohan volunteering to help save the world and the universe at large. He might've been a child, but Gohan has clearly shown that he can speak for himself and make his own decisions, and let's face it. Gohan stepping up to the plate has often helped saved the day. We also have to remember that until the Cell games, everytime they were on the battlefield together, Goku makes sure to bench his son Gohan or send him away altogether to keep him safe, especially if he knows the villain of the week is too much for him. While I can totally get the argument that Goku was wrong and he had recklessly endangered his son Gohan, but he simply made a mistake with his son. And no parent is perfect. Besides he more than made up for said mistake with his heroic sacrifice and the fact that he allowed Gohan to be his own person, especially after he grew up. 😊
Goku being a bad father is one of the worst jokes to ever be taken seriously and has done some unnecessary damage to the character of Goku in certain people's eyes so I'm really glad this video came out
@@vampir3sbl00dthe current db fandom are a bunch of npc's unable to do critical thinking
True. No disrespect to TeamFourStar, but I think that people listen to them too much and take their words as cannon way too often.
@@tavaedenton3338to be fair Piccolo does raise pan and has statements about him pretty much being pans grandpa instead of Goku tho I do remember that statement being a filler episodes
Same here it just crazy how people took this way to far.
He is a bad father but it's not on purpose and his family understands him
I think Goku was limited in the amount of times he could contact earth, I think Toriyama did that to make the reunion more heart warming, and the meeting between Goku and Goten more touching.
The reunion was actualy anime filler surprisingly, in the manga Goku just sees Goten and says ''Huh? you must be my son you are just like me"
I have seen some people saying this as a example of Goku beign a bad father but i think Akira just didnt put much thought into it as their goodbye scene is also pretty heartwarming in the manga
@@kirbyfazendoummoonwalk9214 oh really, I read the Manga, but I cant remember that part. But if that's the case, it doesn't look great for Goku's case. I still dont think he's a bad father because the good he does really balances out the bad, you could say it outweighs the bad too.
@@the-1008-r4m Yeah, in the manga, Goku and Goten had no interaction, until later when he was teaching them Fusion. They did have that emotional hug, when he left for Otherworld though.
@@j04370859 Yeah, but another point is that Goku looked more visibly worried about Gohan while he was fighting Cell in the Manga.
I'm glad you tackled this topic because it was really getting out of hand. I don't at all believe Goku was a bad dad. I didn't even have a real father figure for most of my life, but Goku definitely cares about and loves his son and Gohan loves his dad too.
Agreed i think most just over memed it but it was getting annoying seeing so many people slander goku yes he isn't perfect but like you said hes certainly not a bad dad.
It’s literally all TFS fault
@@jaccblikky8977 fax (yeah I know 1 year late)
Goku is not the perfect dad, he has his flaws. But he is not the terrible one the fandom has made him out to be for so long. The first thing we see of him as a dad is literally give his own life to save Gohan. He dies care about his sons. It's about time this gets put to rest.
Idk about Goku not being a terrible father. Dude literally tried to convince vegeta to skip out on his daughter birth because goku said it’s not that big of a deal
@@8-p335 Chalk that up to Super's subpar writing of Goku's character.
And like tfs says themselves, watch the original anime before the abridged. Goku as a whole is a better father than Vegeta. Goku isn't perfect by any means but he tries. That's all a father can do.
@@kingmusic3617 I wouldn’t say current Goku is a better father than current dbs vegeta
@@8-p335 wellllllll Goku still has the upper hand with how long he's actually fathered his kids and it took Vegeta till when he became Majin to finally realize he's been neglectful at times to his son and wife.
There was one episode when Goku punched Gohan to prevent him from getting killed. It’s from the Cell saga.
Yep, when Tien was fighting Cell I believe.
Justified
DB fans will only look at that punch and call him a bad father without knowing the context.
i was thinking if he was going to bring that up even though it's filler. At the same time he was justified as Gohan leaving would have accomplished nothing if he had went to fight cell. It's like the people will ignore the circumstances a lot of times when they bring up scenes
And another episode where piccolo threw gohan into a mountain
For Yardrat, an argument could be made that he wanted to learn IT because has nearly been too late to save Gohan twice at thay point and wanted to learn something to ensure he wouldn't be late for future fights
Goku landing on planet yardrat was a necessary accident, because he got to learn a technique with which he was able to save the world numerously, but also he would have died of a heart disease had he not landed there. I feel like most of the things he did [even in his own judgement] were entirely necessary
Not only that but look at it like this, goku got to yardrat after a death battle with a guy who killed his best friend and to his knowledge piccolo and that same guy was gonna go to earth and blow it up, goku BARELY survived against him and got lucky with super sayain. So its not far fetch goku stayed to learn these moves on yardrat BECAUSE he needed to up his arsenal of moves if he was to win against a stronger frieza. This isnt far fetched because goku stayed dead to stop the threats and goku let gotanks fight buu because he didnt want to keep saving earth because as he stated he wouldn't always be there to save the day and we see this in super hero.
@@silis4645 That's also why he went to train Uub at the end of Z. He wanted new guardians of Earth. People able to be there when he wasn't around. I mean, look at DBS Super Hero. This is the exact scenario he was referring to. Neither he nor Vegeta were there to save the day, but Piccolo, Gohan, Goten, and Trunks were able to handle it without massive repercussions. Even in GT, you see what kind of fighter Uub can be with Goku's training. I'm aware that GT is not part of the main continuity, but it does show that he would be an enormous asset to Earth's defense. Most especially after the reveal of Uub having God ki. That could create enormous potential for him if he's ever featured in a future arc.
He would also have wanted to be able to learn how to turn super sayian on command too and it's clear he figured it out by the time he comes back.
@@Cloud-dt6xb No to mention that instant transmission is one of the most useful techniques he ever learned. Without it, Cell would have killed everyone on Earth with his bomb. He uses it more than that, but that's just one example of it saving everyone's lives. So, if that was the single, solitary time Goku used it, it has already proven worth learning. Plus, if no one was able to fix his ship, he could've used it to get home. There's just too many positives to him staying on Yardrat to make it sound like a bad decision.
@@FoxxyFire-HellFrost Yeah agreed and at the time Goku would've been sure things were fine on Earth ontop of it, enough that he could afford to make the most of his time on Yardrat.
The reason I feel like people don’t bring up the Goku not checking up on his family in the 7 years he was dead is because the people that say Goku is a bad father have only watched DBZA, looked at memes or just watched clips. They don’t know the actual story.
Gokus a bad dad. Dude tried to convince vegeta to skip out on his daughters birth because Goku said it wasn’t that big of a deal to be there
@@8-p335 damn dude really spamming the same comment huh 💀
@@halberd-3291 seems pretty relevant when talking about if Goku is a good dad or not
@@8-p335 u gotta understand that goku and vegeta are saiyans our interpretation of being a good father as humans has a completely different meaning than what a good father is to a saiyan.
As hilarious as tfs is I hate that they created or helped popularize this "Goku is a bad dad" meme in the fandom.
I don't think he is. You can clearly tell he loves his family. He just does things different do to how he grew up/lived in the wild with and without Grandpa Gohan. One other thing I see Piccolo as more of an older brother since hes not much older than him.
A lot of bad fathers still love their children, but are still considered bad fathers due to neglect or not paying child support...
@@najadamu2724 yup but a lot of these goku meat riders think that being a good person in some instances equates to being a good father. When in it doesn’t, and goku loves his family akin to close friends but it seems that it difficult for a lot to comprehend, then the slide the he grew up different cuz it’s anime but piccolo is a obviously grown adult but people don’t want apply that same logic when he’s a different race and the grow differently. Goku ain’t a great dad but people finna stay coping like they’re gonna lose sleep over that revelation or maybe they lack a father as great as they wank goku 💀
I think uncle fits more with Piccolo than older brother that always the kinda vibe I get from their bond
@@kingnaaaso beening there with your son for 11yrs dying two times for your son BTW is considered neglect bro their ain't no meat goku riders for simply defending a dude who got ruined of a stupid meme maybe get piccolos antennas out yo mouth and you might see goku is not a bad father🤷🏻♂
Krillin has honestly spent almost as much time with Gohan as Piccolo,and yet you never see anyone say Krillin is Gohan's real dad😅
Bc krillin did not train him and give him huge character development.piccolo also watches gohans kid.piccolo is hard on him like a mentor or male roll model. Plenty mor reasons as whelk like when goku dies piccolo is the one training him and looking after him krillen barley even know gohan at that time,etc etc.
@@vanillamilk7575 Gohan and Krillin have been in plenty of life or death situations with each other. Also,as Gokus actual best friend,from a certain perspective you could say that Krillin is actually like Gohan's uncle
Piccolo in all honesty was abusive to Gohan in the Saiyan Saga.
@@jsmoothd654 true
Honestly, Piccolo is more like a elder brother to Gohan than a uncle. Their age gap aren't even that far away
And you know what’s always been on my mind…How can you call someone a bad father after DYING to save his son. I know I know he died for others too but still lol
Goku is simply trying to make up for the Saiyan heritage Frieza stole from him. Vegeta is the opposite, although Frieza stole his father and a proper life, and after his death on Namek, Vegeta decided there was more to his life than being a Saiyan, despite proudly proclaiming his heritage.
Look at the way Goku trained Gohan against Cell, as opposed to Vegeta. Vegeta never did that to Trunks.
It was LITERALLY HIS FAULT!! That’s like knocking over a glass of water, cleaning it up, and wanting praise for cleaning it up
@@DreJ912 it was gohans fault. He could’ve killed cell at any point in time. So what you just said is invalid lol.
@@DreJ912Bro is literally comparing dying to knocking over a glass of water
Truly the DB fan moment of all time
@@DreJ912 His fault bruh? What was? The creation of Cell? Was he supposed to not destroy the Red Ribbon Army? Gohan's birth? Who would've killed Cell then? Gohan being thrown into battle? See previous. Cell turning into a bomb? Goku literally told Gohan to kill Cell way before that.
He's a good person for sure. An absente father mostly but he truly loves his sons and is such a cute granpa to Pan
Goku spends half of Gohan's life training and the other half dead. Sometimes both!
@@SpammytheHedgehogok and first off he spent most of those training years with gohan and they bonded 2 for the first 11 years of hogans life before he died against cell he was present for 9 pf them woulda been 10 had radius’s not killed him
Yeah, at least its not like he went to buy milk and never came home. He’s absente because he is dead. He’s dead because he sacrificed himself. Not much he can do about that, nor is it a bad decision.
@wyndellleethespammer4497 no. I know its a dba joke, but he only spends 1 year dead and 1 year on yardrat. So he spent 7/8 of Gohans 9/10 years with Gohan +1yr in the Time chamber
@@SpammytheHedgehog
You do realize the reason why he died was for his son gohan right?
No parent is perfect. Goku made mistakes, but a bad father would not have learned from his mistakes. Goku does.
hes not a great father in terms of the traditional parent role but he encourages his kids, are fine with there life choices, spends quality time( yes even training is especially for sayains good bonding) whenever hes around, has and will sacrifice himself for them, and most important i think is gohan and goten and even pan in gt look up and want to be like him in a lot of ways so is goku the best dad? no is a he a good though? absolutely
That’s true, he may not be a good father in terms of how we all usually see a good father, but he’s done a lot of things that doesn’t qualify him to be the “absolute worst” since there’s a lot of circumstances that happens throughout the series.
Goku is not a bad father he is just unorthodox compared to a realife one..remember he is a hyper powerful alien from a race that were warriors that were not that close to there own individual families much because of separation on planetary missions....If anything Gokus ways as a father compared to the other sayians make Goku look like a stand up man lol.
I wouldn't even go that far. It's only by today's softened standards is he considered bad. It's a spit in the face of all the fathers who've went to combat to protect their land, all the father's who've passed down their knowledge and skills to the best of their ability, to all the father's who spent all of the time they realistically could with their children while in pursuit of their own betterment(which the entire universe benefits from in Goku's case)... I just cant see what standard is being used here besides this modern fantastical one.
Alot of people mention how Goku gave cell a sensu bean but no one mentions how vegeta beat the hell out of trunks to let cell become perfect😂😂
Evil Vegeta doesn't count.
@@JSmoothSoulVegeta didn't hug his son until he was 8 💀
@@Zeno1781 he came a long way, from killing people leveling planets to loving his family.
@@JSmoothSoul”Evil” Vegeta surely counts since he was STILL a father Before his development.
I just finished watching and this was a very good and important video and Im glad people now have a much needed explanation of this highly "debated" topic.
I too find it crazy at times that people think Goku is a bad father because the majority who think that way know nothing of his character's journey in Dragon Ball; a significant influence on Goku's character is his Grandfather, from whom he inherited his kindness from and learned his foundations as a martial artist.
And along the way, we see Goku as a fundamental Good person who also likes to train and fights for self-improvement or to avenge his fallen friends.
This upbringing made Gohan the well-spoken man he is, along with Chi Chi, who let him find his interests which led him to a path as a scholar.
Goku always believed in his son and knew he had alot of potential which is why when the idea of training in the room of spirit and time came he clearly states that he will train as hard as he can, fight cell and if that doesnt work hed give up because this was the time he started planning on getting Gohan to train and be his trump card incase his hypothetical scynario came to fruition which is why he had his confidence on Gohan in the cell games where everyone at that point looked at Gohan as a whimp so to speak and knew he couldn't get it done for example Gohan's cowardly ness against Nappa while Piccolo and Kurirn performed their combo attack which Gohan failed to finish and Vegeta was there and later on in the frieza saga he was less of a whimp and was much stromger but his power wasnt enough and now cell at his perfect form who was way ahead of even Goku was something everyone looked at as a very stupid idea to send a kid to fight someone they themselves couldn't beat let alone Goku who trained WITH Gohan.
But Goku didn't care, and when he gave Cell the Senzu, he was showing his sort of good sportsmen ship to Cell and gave him a Senzu so that he'd not have an excuse later on.
Unfortunately, people will never want to understand why Goku did what he did when laying the groundwork for his comrades and the audience to see why he had this confidence level in Gohan. As a martial artist, this was his big debut fighting a villain at their peak from start to finish without anyone's aid like Goku did when fighting Frieza.
The only difference here is that back as a kid, when Goku trained under Roshi, he explained the concepts of Budō and why as a Taoist martial artist, one must train for self-improvement, not to show off and to finish off a great evil with one mighty blow instead of making them suffer. Goku perfectly executed this, but Gohan got arrogant and saw his father get caught up in the crossfire.
It's like saying the father who has to be away for travels as a soldier is a bad father, or if he has to spend his time away from home to make money for food on the table, even despite how good they are with each other when he IS around. Goku did the best he could with what he had under very unreasonable circumstances, and places a tremendous amount of faith in his family. Although one could make an argument that he wants to go away to Beerus's planet too often now, just 'cause that's his form of fun. Goku since he was a child has always been a crazy moron, but he has also been supremely empathetic and compassionate towards the plight of others, it's not just about fighting but about defending the weak and innocent with him, and of course that would extend to his own children
Exactly this!
Bro you’ve watch the dub too much. Goku cares more about having a good fight then protecting the weak
@@8-p335 Gtfoh. The dub only made his lines slightly different. He still had a heroic personality in all versions of Z and Dragonball. Had he cared only about a good fight, he wouldn't have trained Gohan to reach the potential necessary to save the world.
@@8-p335 Does the original Japanese version completely change the scenes of Goku going totally out of his way to save Suno and her town, and Upa's father, who feels responsible for getting killed? Android 8? Making sure to fight Majin Vegeta away from the martial arts tournament spectators? Sparing Vegeta? Sparing even Frieza? Giving up the thrill of battle and training to work with his former enemy and sacrifice himself to take out Raditz one way or another? These are the moments I'm thinking of, I don't know what you're thinking. Anytime innocent life is lost, that is what really sets Goku off and it's no longer play time
He got killed protecting Gohan twice.. And came back. My dad never even came back from getting milk.
A lot of people also misunderstood the whole senzu beam thing during the cell saga. Gohan even states himself that he understood why his dad chose him to fight, Gohan knowing himself realize that whenever he gets angry he can tap into his hidden potential which is why cell really started beating on Gohan.
Doesn’t change the fact that Goku changed his mind when piccolo told him gohan doesn’t even like fighting
@8-p335 Not everyone is perfect bruh, Goku didn't know that. Also, Goku's decision ended up being the a good decision at the end
@@Its_KayBee It was Android 16 death that made Gohan snap, if it weren't for 16, Goku decision really would've failed.
The whole thing ended with Gohan getting stronger and it only costs Andriod 16 and Goku’s life. The former was fixable with the dragon balls (although it still hasn’t happened yet) and the latter was technically Gohan’s fault for not finishing off Cell.
I generally hate how people ignore all of this just to continue the meme of Goku being a bad father.
Toriyama once joked that he quit the manga because he lost his favorite pen... pretty sure he was joking with the father statement.
What counts as a good father is a culturally subjective anyway.
What I am more interested in is vegeta's final explosion being treated as a big deal.... he literally traumatized his kid, while goku's supposedly perma-death was cause by Gohan's arrogance. The fandom leaning towards vegeta confuses me. Vegeta is toxic af.
As a father of three boys myself and the son of a present, good father. The quantity of time goku got with his boys wasnt a lot but the quality of time spent was immense. Memories are only saved in our brain with some kind of emotional stimulation attached to them. Which saves them in the long term memory bank. All his time with his boys he spent teaching them lessons and how to protect people they love. Also he saved earth multivle times. Hell goku is all our daddys at that point
Proud parent here myself. A lot of people truly don't understand this. He really did do all that a father SHOULD do with the time he was giving to them.
old ass
Honestly those people watched tfs and considdered it canon
Yup
Vegeta used to be a deadbeat dad until Cell killed Future Trunks.
I think at the end, in regards to Goku not checking in on his family, I think that was intentional. He knew he had to make a choice not to return, and didn’t want to feel compelled to go back on his decision. He truly thought staying dead would have kept the earth, and his family, safe.
I think to be honest, the best dads are the ones that do screw up, but because they care too much. Nobody is given a infallible guidebook to parenting when they become a dad, they have to wing it. As long as they don’t abuse or selfishly abandon their family and try to keep his family’s best interests in mind, a dad is doing his job.
Goku is a good father
Oh, hot topic question.
Well, I think we have to take everything into consideration that happened in the Room Of Spirit And Time. During the Cell arc.
I think, that period showed most and best of what a loving and caring father Goku is at least for Gohan....
Bro you’re capping Goku spent a full year with his son and still didn’t he learn that his kid doesn’t even like fighting until piccolo sunned him about it
@@8-p335 No, sure. Gohan didn't like fighting at all. He just wanted to keep fighting that one time, right before he reached Super Saiyan for the very first time, even though Goku was COMPLETELY exhausted.
Sure, that's the spirit of someone who doesn't like to fight........
Or....
Maybe, you're misinterpreting things. There was a lot more nuance to Gohan and Goku than you give them credit for, which is why I kinda don't even wanna argue with you. I just have to find a way to explain to you how stupid your argument was. You just brought up one very specific point and put it into the wrong context to fit your argument. That's kind of what we call "strawmanning". Those are NOT strong arguments and you should not rely on those.
Sure Gohan likes to fight. He's half Saiyan and beat Cell after all. He just doesn't enjoy it as much as his father. But you call that a point to claim that Goku is a bad father? That he has some differences to his son? Dude, you don't have to make your kids be EXACTLY like yourself. Have you had kids? Every kid is different. And that's GOOD. They're allowed to have differences and nuances. And you don't always have to respect all of that as a parent. Doesn't automatically make you a "bad" parent, when you don't know everything about your kid and fulfil their every wish and so on. I hope you understand that....
@@8-p335 u didn’t watch the video lol 💀
@@chanceneck8072 lol wow could’ve condensed that comment a little couldn’t you like a lot of your sentences are saying “ not every kid has to be like your parent”. Lol when did I ever say that in my OG comment
@@chanceneck8072 Jesus most of comment is about kids being different from their dad. Did you not read my comment or something
You know there was a part of me that always thought Raditz coming to earth and kidnapping Gohan and Goku not being able to stop him or save him (prior to him and piccolo winning) really triggered something in him (almost traumatizing him) I feel like once this happened it flipped a switch as to where Goku would never let that happen again and where Goku now trains to the ridiculous extent he does. Yes I know it’s always been part of his character and his sayain dna but I also think in some part of himself he wants to be sure he’ll always be ready and prepared to protect his loved ones and pushes himself to achieve this as well. Just my thoughts though
I like in GT, Vegeta encouraging Goten and Trunks to go on an adventure with Kakarot to toughen up because they've grown soft in times of peace.
One more thing in Super when Goku black tells Goku how he kill Chichi and Goten that make Goku furious.
Goku may not be there all the time but he's out there making the world a safer place.
I don't think Goku gave Cell the senzu to "prove a point", I think he legitimately thought Gohan would not be able to defeat Cell unless he unlocked his full potential, and that that wouldn't happen unless Cell was an overwhelming threat to him.
He was putting Gohan in danger as a means of breaking his limits, which was the exact thing he did to get Gohan to unlock ssj in the first place. He just misread gohan's character and didn't realize he freezes up just as much as he breaks his limits.
I dont think Goku could check on Goten because he was dead, i dont really remember why baba brough him to Earth, but i do remember her stating that ´´you have a day, and im gonna do this only this time because you helped us`` or whatever im pretty sure she mentioned something like that. there was a reason as to why he couldnt just show up and say hi to goten. so Goku being able to even show up on the tournament was a special occurrence.
i think even in the bojeck movie (i know it isnt cannon) Goku wanted to help Gohan and the kai was like ´´You cant help him`` or whatever.
Even Vegeta going against super buu was because they needed his help to beat him. So there is a special rule that dont allow dead people coming back to the living world
My point is. there is a rule that Goku cant simply go to the living world.
He can still rely on King Kai to have a look see
@@sdm47 keep in mind that King kai was mad at him for well... killing him. King Kai isn't his personal telephone from the afterlife....
@@sdm47 King Kai, IS a god...im pretty sure he has better things to do than stalking Gokus family, or you can Just blame King Kai for not telling anything to him.
Goku is nowhere near a bad father. Questionable decisions sometimes, sure but definitely not a bad father.
Piccolo has always been more like a fatherly uncle. An uncle can be a father figure, just as much as the actual father.
My brother, for example, is my nephew's second father figure. He took him to sleep as a kid and spent a lot time playing with him as a kid and and teaching him a LOT of wisdom and giving him a lot of advice.
On the Yardrat thing: Goku had just come out of a life-and-death battle against enemies far beyond any before. He knew Earth's warriors had a lot of catching up to do. And in the end, he was right.
I think Goku’s biggest weakness as a father has been emotional availability, but even with that he’s shown the capacity for it like in the room of spirit and time.
A much more understanding father than Vegeta, that's for sure, and yet nobody ever seems to have so much to say about Vegeta's hilarious awfulness in the fatherhood department. I would even say Trunks had the same sort of anger potential Gohan did, it's just that Vegeta's training/parenting methods sent Trunks in the wrong direction to fully tap into his potential, wasting it all on super saiyan grade 3. Vegeta's method has always been overexertion and tryhard stubbornness and need to dominate and stay #1, while Goku has always had strength in his flexibility and compassion for the weak and WANTS others to be stronger than him
Piccolo has custody over Gohan.
Roshi has custody over Goku.
Gohan's a grown ass man, he doesn't need custody. But you'll be wrong either way.
Goku's not a bad dad. He's not really a family person. Chi-Chi tricked him into starting a family.
Your right he's a dumb m f
Therefore he’s a bad father
She didn’t trick him he was just dumb
I do blame chi chi as well he though marriage was food and she still married him there both bad parents
Goku's not a bad dad, but Chichi didn't trick him. Goku chose to keep the promise he made to her, even though he didn't initially understand marriage.
if people analysed all the events that lead to son goku's death, you can definitely see that he is not a bad father.
he always died trying to save the humanity - which includes his own family!
there was one scene where vegeta critised his decision to save mr.satan and the dog over their children, but that was due to his children being far away and he didn't have enough time to get them after saving mr.satan. and goku was obviously very sad that upset that his sons were sacrificed initially if you look at his facial expressions, and the fact that he does not come up with a single excuse when vegeta confronts him.
for someone who was raised alone or without any parents for majority of his childhood, he tries to keep his son and wife happy. remember, he tries.
he is someone who wants to just train all day, but he farms and stays at home so that chi chi won't be upset.
he doesn't push his son to pursue martial arts minus the times that his power was needed, and is happy for his son becoming a scholar.
remember during cell saga that he even promised his son to spend some time fishing after all of this mess is gone?
sure, he made mistakes here and there but i have seen real life father won't don't even do half as good as he does. remember that he comes from a race of aliens that does not take parenting as seriously as earthlings do.
Its because dende was with mr satan
Bra cut the crap goku is a horrible father and husband....at the end of the see day his love for training and getting stronger comes before his family
Blame TeamFourTeam for over-popularizing the Goku is a bad dad/Piccolo is Gohan's dad meme.
I say the TFS fans cause abridged is a parody and parodies aren't meant to be taken seriously.
@@zeroxenoverse9251I agree it's a parody
Also the whole Gokuu not coming home right away after Namek explodes and staying on Yardrat, I always assumed that it was also partially because he had just transformed into a Super Saiyan for the first time and wanted to get that under control before coming home in so he doesn’t accidentally lose his shit at home, transform and hurt somebody. He says to Gohan right after he transforms the first time that Gohan needs to leave while he still has a “shred of reason left”, so it makes sense that he’d want to get a handle on that before potentially putting his friends and family in danger because he can’t control his new powers yet. Gokuu tells Trunks it took him some time to get it under control, so it makes sense.
Sure the manga doesn’t spell it out and this is my own head canon here, but it’s actually logical for Gokuu’s character (especially because he stays dead in the Cell arc for very similar reasons, to protect his friends and family).
0:38 They say in the Late Pleistocene era, H. Luzonensis argued amongst one another as to whether Goku was, indeed, a bad father.
One would then ask what a Goku is.
Additionally in the time period that Dragonball Super takes place, Goku had time to bond with his youngest child. Especially, as a grandfather he learned from his oldest son and piccolo on how to better show some care for his grandchild. Other things to note he knows he wouldn't win tho would be any argument with chichi about training Goten when Chi-Chi wants Goten to have an education, but we all know likely he wants Goten to have some balance especially if Goten loves to fight like his father.
9:49 Hey look 👀 it’s Ultra Instinct (low key… this is how effortless the design of new transformations have gotten)
Goku has always cared for his Family, from prior to the Saiyan Saga he has been living a Happy Life and just started becoming a protective Father towards Gohan, even at the time Raditz showed up and Died trying to protect him, not to mention that you have to keep in Mind that it was Piccolo's Idea of turnning Gohan into a Fighter, so that's why he literally kidnapped Gohan by leaving him alone and was forced to survive in the Wilderness, so that is why Gohan's whole Childhood was Sacrificed, Piccolo at the Time was still under the Evil Influence of his Father Demon King Piccolo (before he merged back with Kami),
In the Namek Saga where Goku 1st transforms into a Super Saiyan when facing off against Frieza, he immediately tells Gohan to leave along with Piccolo to go to his Ship safely and escape the Planet that's about to Explode,
Goku may have done a Bold Move on giving Cell a Senzu Bean but he did that to push Gohan further to transform him into reaching Super Saiyan 2, if only he should've finished off Cell if he hadn't let his Pride get the hold of him,
In Conclusion, Goku is not a Terrible Father, he has always cared for his 2 Children like a Good Father he really is.
6:16 I always looked at that moment in a different light. When I saw the expression on Gohan's face, when his eyes widened up seeing Piccolo get hurt, I never saw it as him getting completely and soley angry and unlocking Beast. When I looked at Gohan's face, I saw a *father* who got confirmation that his world was about to end, because the only thing that he thought was strong enough to protect it, just got blasted out of the sky. Thinking that if he didn't step up, his actual family was going to die. He would have to let them down and watch them die, and explain to his loved ones that they are all dead because he couldn't make the cut. More of a fear and anxiety kind of reaction, instead of an anger thing. Anxiety and fear breed anger, and the anger was a byproduct of some sort of PTSD. And if you look at it in that light, the writing becomes a lot better. People have to understand that the love and compassion you feel as a father is different than as a friend, many married couples who give birth often describe the love that they feel for their child and family as a different kind of love than others. People have to understand that Gohan is now a grown-ass man, and a father, and a protector of his home and friends. He's not a kid anymore, and he's not a warrior, he's a dad. I think the writing in the movie is fine for a character like present-day Gohan.
He's a bad father by human standards but a great father by Saiyan's standard.
He's not even a bad father by human standards.
He was there for gohan in human standards, spent time with him, trained him and saved his life
Goku is basically a kid that had a kid. He loves Gohan but has no idea how to be a dad and doesn't really want to, he just wants to go fight (play)
Goku isn't a bad father. He just had a lot faith in his son and to a point over thought things in that instance. I don't King Kai or anyone told him thinking that if they did he would want to return home and they as well was trying to keep the earth safe, so that part falls not on Goku, but the powers that was in control
Goku has Never Done Anything Bad To Gohan EVER
I think why Goku didn't contact anyone when he was dead after the cell game, must been because he was what everyone was thought permanently dead and the people who is dead should probably have none connecting to the living world at all. It only was okay for the first time because they knew Goku would be revived in one year, or a special case for one day with help of Uranai Baba.
Geekdom!!!!!!! As a father by myself, I feel, in my opinion, it’s his subconscious militant mindset. Some of us have it, he has an abundance. Some of us are more enthusiastic with it, he just gets it done. I’m sorry if I didn’t explain it properly, but that’s my take on it.
Goku is more neutral. He does care about his family.
He doesn’t?? Then why tf he went to save gohan from raditz and why did he go bonkers on zamasu and goku black over that daydream about black killing chi chi and goten ???
Dominik Mysterio to Goku: "You're a deadbeat dad." 😂😂😂
Goku is an good father and a husband. He loves his family to give his life for them. He is not spending all his time with them, but in a world od Dragom ball people depend on him to save them when everybody else can not.
Anybody that thinks any of Goku's sacrifices make him a bad doesn't know what a real dad/man is
They don't. It legitimately hurts to read these males define a father in a almost soft and unbalanced way.
When Goku fought Piccolo at the 23rd Tenkaichi Budokai Tournament, it was really a custody battle over Gohan.
Jajajajajaja
TFS Goku "Wow....Gohan sounds like he's had a rough time.....Piccolo should REALLY have a talk with him...."
Gohan didn't even exist yet, so as a joke, that really isn't funny.
And Goku won.
Happy Father’s Day
I love the acknowledgement of both sides of the argument! This is a true masterpiece of dragon ball analysis
If Gohan thought that Goku was a bad father he wouldn't let go to spend so much time with his daughter
Goku has always been best dad in the entire series for me personally! I absolutely love and adore how much he cares for his family, also Goku and Goten relationship is something I only wish Bardock and Goku had 😌
Goku literally died for his son TWICE, no way y’all think he’s a bad father
As previously mentioned, Goku doesn't really grow up-- at least not mentally. Because he is still so young seeming and immature, he does come off a little shortsighted. And because of this, many viewers think he's too dumb to be a good dad. At one point in Dragon Ball Super, Goku even alludes to not knowing what a kiss is. This is extremely suspicious and concerning as he has children.
The "Goku is too stupid" argument isn't necessarily wrong, but it does feel a little mean. His level of intelligence isn't really related to how good of a dad he is, or how much he loves his sons. For most of these points, whether Goku is an adequate father or not will come down to interpretation. On one hand, he does seem incredibly absent and doesn't spend much typical bonding time with his children, and he is very childish himself. On the other, he's also a very dedicated person and puts everything on the line so his family is safe.
Tbh before Super I don’t think there was really that much evidence that Goku didn’t develop mentally. He definitely continues to be playful, lighthearted, and somewhat naive, but Goku in the Cell and Buu sagas is way more mature than he was as a child.
Of course, Super is kind of cannon (I say kind of because the anime and manga continuities differ), I’m just saying that up until that point Goku clearly matured linearly.
Goku absolutely developed as a character bruh dbs is the reason ppl thinks like that compare goku from day one in DB to cell saga saga goku where he was arguably at his peak as a character there's no comparison
Goku definitely grew up. He’s just a laid back and carefree person. I think Ignorant is a better word. He wasn’t taught things traditionally like we were. And bro was Absent cause he was dead which isn’t fair to judge him off of.
My theory of why Goku didn't know about Goten and never found out about it, was because Goku and King Kai believed that Goku was dead for good. And thus didn't have the same privileges of communication like he did prior when he was knowingly going back to Earth and needed to know the situations to help. And it was just stuck obeying the rules of the other world.
Obviously that changed, but that's my belief. Same reason with Goku in other world in the future trunks timeline. He was in heaven and abiding by the laws of heaven and couldn't communicate like you used to for that reason.
this. people forget this.
also even if Goku asked. i think King Kai was mad at him for basically killing him.
This video is masterpiece. I never thought Son Goku was a bad father at all. Does he have selfish yes, but he’s not a bad father.
Good is a flawed father. He tries his best even if he makes mistakes
As much I enjoyed DBZ Abridged as it happened over time it's aged poorly for me In part cause there are several gags in it that fans have come to think are actually cannon to the actual series, the Goku being a bad dad thing ties into it
"Goku is a bad father" and "Piccolo is Gohan's real dad" are some of the funniest parts of DBZA IMO, whether or not they are true to the original series.
The reason why they caught on as fan theories is because there is some truth to it; Goku does some things that you wouldn't want your own dad doing to you e.g. sending you to fight a killer biomechanical monster, and Piccolo is a mentor and an uncle-figure to Gohan. People just like to take theories too far, and it helps that a lot of people don't like Goku and like Piccolo. TFS didn't make those theories up, they just exaggerated them in the show for comedy
A bad father? No. An incompetent father? Kind of.
Vegeta is a more devoted family man than Goku.
Now he is. He wasn't always.
Yet vegeta didn’t give a shit about future trunks until cell killed him
To your point about Goku checking up on Chi Chi, Gohan and Goten from the after life, I feel like we have to add a shred of realism to this situation. He wasn’t supposed to be coming back. Maintaining contact and establishing a relationship with a son you may never meet is kinda…dark. Realistically, him saying he wasn’t coming back meant it was time to let go. For good.
Piccolo's a better father to Gohan than Goku.
I respectfully disagree. Goku is Gohan's real dad, and he was a good father to Gohan.
@@StareachValcin Ik goku is a good father to gohan but Piccolo taught Gohan better. Only goku taught gohan to battle cell. Piccolo taught gohan pretty much everything. Piccolo's always there for gohan when the latter's in peril. For example: Piccolo sacrificed by saving Gohan's life.
I had a debate with someone on if Dragon Ball had a plot or not, and it somehow lead to if Goku was a good father or not, and they deadass brought up how he was a bad father because when Frieza destroyed Earth he didn't Instant Transmission to grab Goten and bring him with Whis in space🤦♂️
My brain cells would be leaving my head en masse after hearing that shit.
This happened because Chi-Chi made Goku keep his promise in Dragon Ball.
Bro got trolled so hard, he made a video about it.
I mean most people still make use that joke and act like it’s true so it’s necessary for him to inform others/new people that see that passing around.
Yes
Dude literally went MIA for years just to train a kid he barely knew
Didn't talk to his childhood friends, his wife, his children NOTHING, for years
Even making the argument he saved the universe multiple times, that does not mean anything in his neglect of his family, not even vegeta does this
Been saying this for years
@Mr nobody Returns that also isn't valid because after he found out what it meant he still accepted
He could have easily said no even if he "gave his word before"
2 sons that barely know him and probably any information they have of him is from chichi and friends, goten went years without knowing his father in a universe were reviving is just another Tuesday
@Mr nobody Returns in real life people makes stabs at policemen who have families but choose work over them
Same thing with Goku
No matter what they say Goku is still Gohan's father. Like it or not. But still is..
Goku is a father figure for both of his kids
"Because he wanted to spend time with you, his father! Who spends half of his life training... and the other half dead! Sometimes, both!" *- Abridged Piccolo*
Oddly he's only died twice and both times it was for his son...basically
You finally made the video!!! I never thought this day would come!!!!!
Goku is a good father for three reasons.
1. He accepted that Gohan was not a fighter realising that he is and always will be a scholar.
2. He sacrificed his life to let his brother die so that Gohan wouldn't be kidnapped by his brother
3. During the training in the time chamber he made sure Gohan had the best balanced training not over pushing him but giving him enough training even easing his anxiety so that he could have enough power to beat cell.
I agree with the first one, even when gohan apologized for not being able to fight in the U7 vs U6 tournament, goku didn’t mind him focusing on his school and even wanted him to focus on that.
Weirdly, I miss Goku's parenthood in the Cell saga. I found his pride and confidence in Gohan somewhat wholesome
Bro what. Goku was a terrible father in the cell saga. Piccolo literally had to tell him he doesn’t like fighting even tho Goku just spent a full ass year with his son
@@8-p335 Goku would have fought himself if he knew he had a chance. There was too much at stake and Gohan was the only hope for the universe.
@@andyvozzamusic doesn’t change the fact that Goku had a whole year to get to know his son and failed to know something that took piccolo days to weeks to figure out
@@andyvozzamusic plus Goku changed his mind when piccolo told him that he was being a piece of shit father who was just watching his son get hugged to death
@@8-p335 and Piccolo changed his mind when Gohan started to toy with Cell
Fandoms are toxic minded.
I agree
Excellent intro 😂
I would say this. Goku may not be the BEST dad but he's not a bad one either. Even though he does go out and train to get stronger and all that, he still tries to protect his family at the same time, and he does care about them, otherwise, he wouldn't have snapped at Zamasu when he killed "FUTURE" Chi-Chi and "FUTURE" Goten, btw.
Gohan hating Goku is such an interesting take because IN the anime Goten asks him what Goku was like and he straight up says he’s the definition of an angel
If Goku was a bad father then why did he save Gohan as a kid during the cell games filler. And when he uses his instant transmission right before cell is about to blow up. Why did Gohan cries out for his father? That shows Gohan loves him and doesn't make Goku a bad father in my opinion
Remember in bojack movie , he teleports from afterlife to save Gohan .
@@kapayasiame3632 or how about the first episode of dragon ball z? When Goku goes to rescue Gohan from radditz
Some of these takes sound like people are confusing the tfs abridged series with the actual anime/source material.
Saying gohan hates goku is wild asf…
It isn't FAIR to compare Goku to fathers by Earth standards since he's a FREAKING alien with Alien instincts (battle hungry)
But I think he isn't the *worst* father, he's just dumb but a loving Father. He's definitely the best Saiyan Father (besides Vegeta, since Vegeta's more patient and protective, towards Bulla)
Saiyans have pride, expect their children to be strong (if Tarble is canon it would further prove that the weak children are outcast) Fact that he's EXTREMELY patient and supportive, and even tough enough to say his child/children are (potentially) stronger than him says a lot (compare that towards how Vegeta treated Trunks in the Cell Saga, I would assume that's how Saiyans treat their children too)
Vegeta didn't come a great father to dbs people he never held or hug his son to his eight he once didn't care they live or die and the first 8 years of his life he spent all his time training at one point he punched his son in the gut just so he can fight an Android
Even before that he is different. When OG DB started out he was living basically as a feral child in the wilderness with only the brief time with a father figure (Grandpa Gohan) as a tie to the "civilized world" until he dies and he lives like a hunter/gatherer. The Saiyan aspect and space alien warrior nonsense was an add on to expand for future stories.
He lived his most formative years living in the wild. He was so ignorant of what we consider common sense that he couldn't tell if someone wasn't male of female so he'd physically pat their crotch to figure out what was there.
He isn't the traditional father because he only had a brief conceptualization of a father figure. The only other concept he has for a father figure is a martial arts master as his master which is still fairly different from traditional fathers.
@@williebelcher9303 He fathered them using his Saiyan instincts...? I guess? And DBS right after Whis made Bulma give birth to Bulla (before the tournament of power) when Trunks and Goten tried to carry Bulla he snapped at them and hesitated carrying her (episode 97??? Somewhere between 90 and 104, before Frieza was recruited)
It's in the manga too but only in 1 quick panel
This is a dumb comparison but it makes sense. Kratos (God of War) LOVED his daughter, Fathers (Should Ideally) love their daughters differently than their sons. Kratos treated Atrais/Loki tough, and it's explained he was always tough on him to Toughen him up. Spartans (Who are warriors LIKE SAIYANS) always made their SONS fight and survive. He treated his son just as he was treated. But he did this because he wanted Atrais/Loki to be able to fend for himself since Kratos (in God of War Ragnarok) admitted he was getting too old, he wants his son to be able to survive and know how to live on his own. Much like Vegeta did with Trunks (debatable but I mean tough love for sons so they aren't dependant and weak, sons eventually become men, and it's a Father's role to make their sons into Strong Men)
@@williebelcher9303. Yea the people who say goku is a bad father forgets that vegeta was a piece of shit father when future trunks just wanted to get to know him but people wanna say that goku is a bad father and that piccolo is a better
It’s funny how people keep bashing on Goku because he gave cell a senzu bean, when Vegeta did something similar, if not far worse, where’s his backlash huh 💀
True, vegeta’s done a lot of stuff that’s way worse.
First he started off as a villain, then even as an anti-hero in the namek arc, he went out of his way to punch gohan to take the dragon ball he had, he barely showed love to bulma and wasn’t concerned for their safety when they were in danger, he didn’t take future trunk’s word into consideration when he tried to warn him about the androids/facing them alone (and punched him as well).
While he did started to show some sort of care after future trunks died, he still wasn’t fully good, like how he never hugged his son from the present timeline, even as a baby, and even killed civilians just to get the battle with goku he desperately wanted.
Ik there’s more that I may have missed, but I think we get the picture here.
i don't think Goku is a bad father but I would say he is a bad husband
The reason on why people think that Goku is a terrible father is because he does not care about Gohan studying which is wrong because we saw a scene where Goku tells Gohan to study and Goku also said that a good father would let his son go to bed AND HE ADIMTS IT GOKU IS A GOOD FATHER.
Gohan is a better father than his father.
To defend Goku giving Cell the senzu, he could have also had the introspection that in order for Gohan to be pushed beyond his mental limitations, Cell would have needed to be a much larger threat at full power
Goku died for his kid *twice*
I think he’s a good father not the best
But he’s not this demon the fandom paints him as.
Something I’d like to point out about Yardrat was that there were being attacked by the Ginyu force, it’s stated in the DBS manga, which mean that there could be made the point that Goku stayed in the planet to make sure that the people of Yardrat were safe and sound