Weldon! Hmm..this case is a very serious one.women should be up and doing.she was comfortable before and now things are not moving financially okay.she needs to work too. Anyways,I think with this I need your help Judge Funmi of #thejusticecourt but I'm in Abuja.chaii!!how does this work?
I watched from the beginning to the end of this episode...she shouldn't worry herself...Friday will come back begin and regretting...we men thinks when we meet new woman we have the world not till kama comes ,we come back begin ...I did it but today I'm the one begin to have her back and my daughter in my life ..she has forgiven me but she's a different person now ..the love she has for me has reduced am now the person working hard for her to love me again..which I know she do love me but as a human being she want to make it hard for me and for me to feel the hurt just the way she felt when i left her with a 6 months old baby but I wasn't irresponsible father to my daughter because me and her had the best father and daughter relationship till now ...I used to pick her up and spend 3 to 4 days with her ...I wasn't bad towards my daughter....that decision of leaving her mother was my biggest mistake and I regret it today and I only wish I never left her because I lost someone who loved me without nothing till i became something and invited the devil just like Friday did now ...let that woman be strong Friday will come back begin on with his knees...hurting people that loved you genuinely has a spiritual backfire...I hope he realised that on time ,because I lost everything I got when I was with her ...when I came back everything retorted back to normal...I packet my things in between my legs...lesson learn for me ...
Julianna has learnt her lesson the hard way. The man already made up his mind and no going back. This is the most complicated case I've seen on this channel. Weldone Judge Funmi...
He is going for double trouble. He is failed man...next grade woman gets more worse... better he stay to work things out..if you failed you should repeat his relationship studies with his woman
The judge is not fair to the woman, the woman also does have a job but the man has properties, he owns a house in lokoja, two cars and others. The woman suppose to get a car too.
After 11 years of marriage, husband met a new woman, he changed, became unkind and unrecognisable. My last baby was not 2 yet. Thank God I had a career.
I feel no matter what ur husband gives u .no matter the king of love ur husband is showing u,as a woman have something doing ..do something oh..very important…
If I were the woman, I don't have anything to bothered about, I did not loose, I have 3 kids for him which is enough, all I need is to get closer to God , pray to him to show me ways, to make me a strong woman, above all to give me wealth so I can train those children, take a very good care of them and my self. Life goes on.
@@oliverwalters8367 you mean to say watin Nigeria men don't know, because once Nigeria men don't know is all that glitters is not gold these what lack of Job is causing
@@esthergrantever7965 the man does not want the woman to reap from him at all. He has developed this intense hatred for her and the children are potentially suffering for it. And I don't understand this woman ,what is her contribution to the welfare of the children.
@@strides5806 so you’re supporting a lazy brat that a man sent to school, gives money for business, she squandered it. She puts the children in a school that pays 400k per year. And does nothing? The man should die while she sleeps at home everyday? Did he employ her as a maid? Married her for over 10 years and yet does nothing. She’s a lazy brat that has no business marrying she’s not just a liability she’s also a burden!
The cane wey dem take flog the first wife dey wait for the second wife. When the heat resulting from this court's decision begins to take its toll on man Friday, he'll begin to struggle financially, and then he'll start to have issues with his new woman who'll definitely have needs of her own no matter how financially independent she is. When this time comes, Friday will discover he sold his dog to buy a monkey.
Imagine this man trying to take the furnitures away not minding that the kids would be needing them! So painful!!! Lesson learnt is that always prepare for when life happens!!!!
This man is bittered. I feel so ashamed seeing how a man could be so bittered against his family. He is indirectly saying he doesn't give a damn about his children, even.
@@ericaameh6596 if the new Abuja lady has a human heart she should back off now because thesame broom that was used to sweep an old house will also be use to sweep a new house when it gets old.
The woman brought that on herself, she lost his respect... The woman no wan do anything... She was just folding her arms. The man gave her 250k for biz, she couldn't account for it, etc. Well, hope she learnt though (sorry for her) it's in a hard way.
Smart woman in the end sold the generator 😀. You should have sold the car and pack out of that dungeon. She should be compensated for cooking your food, washing your clothes and taking care of your children all these years. Justice for this woman please 🙏
@@christydapuliga7466This is false. Which Authority or Case Law in Ghana Legal System are you referring to? Except I was deaf in Law School, what you said isn’t correct please.
Finally! I hope Judge Funmi got a full pot of chicken with ice cream on the side after this case? I was stressed on her behalf. Ladies shine ya eyes!! See how there’s a thin line between love and hate? Make your own money!
Nigeria women needs to stop depending on men for everything. She was sent to school by the man for a reason. It gets overwhelming when you don't support your man. You are both parents to the kids.
Offcourse single women makes own man... mothers, breastfeeding, babysitting and keep their home as hotel for their men and feeding their men 24/7. When comes to work their need to discuss. Who to babysit when woman wife goes to work
Babysitting, breastfeeding children is another jobs. Only Africans luck justices for women and children. Africa to become super power needs justices for women and children...
Make me understand, are you saying it’s a wrong choice of word? What I think she meant was that the children came into this world not by themselves but by you they found as their parents. Did I miss something?
They aren't good parents. Parents give everything to their children, bad parents make them suffer. Don't have kids if you're not married or have a job.
The wording is wrong. We know what she meant but if you take it literally it makes it sound like the kids made a choice but you can't blame them for it.
The wording is wrong. We know what she meant but if you take it literally it makes it sound like the kids made a choice but you can't blame them for it.
I followed this case from beginning to the end and I must say, it's really lesson-packed. The man in question seems wicked, cunny, and very unstable. Ordinarily putting up with such a man with his kind of mentality towards family will definitely be very stressful. I hope this serves as a lesson to lots of ladies out there. Stop cohabiting with a man that is not your husband and stop birthing children especially when you have nothing tangible to do. Women should learn to hustle for their own money too. Get a job or start a business or learn a skill that can grow you financially, remember life can happen too. Thank you Judge Funmi for your wisdom always.
Weda you are married or not they will still do what they want.May weh marry Yul wetin dey happen now.make wuna stop to dey make marriage sound very important I begging.
Your only point I agree with here is women should look for something doing.like you said this man is very wicket he feels and thinks he is inlove.He is just a weak man to me.i won't sacrifice my three children for love.
Mothers and lone parents should be happy having a court like this in Nigeria, a very hopeless country for 'children in need,' and terrible fathers all over the place, even as such in the diaspora.
Terrible, father? How is he terrible ? He pays house rent, puts money down for food, and pays their school fees, but the mother who does nothing is the good woman ? The way you people think in Nigeria is amazing
And all these you mentioned is what you think children are raised by? Love, safety, emotional stability, security doesn't count??? Ignorant African men. Wickedness in high places
@@sol_4real are you even listening to the case? Whatever he is doing to the mother of his children also effects his children. A good father wouldn’t want to hurt the mother of his children. If he wants to leave, fine, but do it respectfully.
@@sol_4real He's a terrible man and a terrible father, do you wish this sort of man for your sister, niece or female friend? This same woman of his is the one responsible for taking care of the children he left behind [remember they still got a 1 year old child together] to do 'I go waka.com and catching fun with his life, hehn? If he's that good in your eyes, let him go and swoop lifestyle with the woman then. Why are some African people's way of thinking so narrow?
@@kalimbaayinde25 You're so right! This guy [Friday] would risk his children's lives by dropping them with one 'lost-uncle' to provide for his 3 children and their mother all together, how would anyone call him a loving-being? He's a VAMPIRE! IMO.
Young girls should learn a lot from this. Marriage is not your financial ticket. Strive to earn your own money,be something. Let nobody delay your financial growth in the name of marriage. Don't delay yourself neither. This man was improving himself in all aspects while the woman was there making a home.
There are other expenses not even added in that #40,000. Expenses like repairs, toilet tissues, pad,, soaps, detergent,creams, cooking gas/kerosene, etc, which at the end of the month is a huge cost.
That is unfair. The man sent her to school, worked her stay in Lagos for youth service, got her a container and gave her N250,000 to start a busy. She never started the business before she finished the money. He empowered her more than most men would have done. She decided to play house and hoped having children would tieehim down. I am a woman. My husband sent me to university. I took it from there, while having my children. She is just lazy. Who cohabits with a man for 13 years! Does she not have a family?
She is a graduate for Christ sake, how many men out there support their wife to go school? There are single mothers out there with more children no education but still doing their best.:.
Oga this is not Village Square Meeting o, this is Court. It doesn't work the way you think. My generator, my chair, my fridge Mba! They're for your family (your children). Imagine #10, 000 for 3 kids per month. Even if you're both to provide 50:50 that money is way too too small. If Lagos lifestyle is too expensive, why not move them to Lokoja? See him avoiding the question of having houses and landed properties in Lokoja! Madam while looking after your kids, even if it's cooking job, try to get busy and earn your own money!
Shes already putting more work into taking care of the kids they both own! The man should pay her for being a cook, a nanny, a cleaner for his kids instead of just contributing 10k! That's cheating! Why would men behave this way to a woman with your 3 kids!! #justiceforwomen
When a person shows you who they are first time believe them. We women have hearts bigger than our bodies. So sad. Judge Funmi my hats off to you. Thank you Ma.
I want to ask , in a situation whereby the man thinks that whatsoever a woman have in marriage is his nko? Where a man thinks that a woman can't own anything , what can be done about it ??
This is the most complicated case and very real to our today marriage .I am going to share this in all my platform as everywoman need to know Learn form this case: 1 . Mere cohabiting with a man is no marriage . At break up you lose all 2.Every woman should work to earn something to support your man ,he can only drop to your level and not lower if things go bad for him . 3. Its easy for men to abandon ship in hard times so build your your strength 4. Women ,mothers save save save 5. Be spiritual fortified as many cruel woman are out there to reck a good home 6.Give birth to the numbers of Children you can take care of ,don't just have then depending on a man 7. Be a strong woman to coup with everything. In all only God keeps a good marriage
Even if I am not supporting the man's attitude, the woman no try at all, this is what I keep preaching to ladies, he trained you in school till you graduated, after graduation you came back home and sit down doing nothing until this man was sack from his place of work and became frustrated. Where is the help woman should be to a man. A beg let us be open minded in our examination.
So true!!! She should have gotten herself a job and bring home some income too, maybe just maybe if she was helping too that man would have understood. Women should never put themselves in a position to be a liability.
@@TutuLolaAboh You're talking rubbish! Have you ever been a mother of 3 kids!? How can you say she's doing nothing! Can she even afford a nanny to cater for the home and kids while she goes about job hunting? Don't you have enough sense to know that being a home maker with 3 kids is more than enough job!! She's supposed to be paid for that!
She has a one-year-old child. Men, stop climbing trees. This Friday guy 👦 is so wicked like men I know who keep bringing babies into this world and running away from woman to woman. He found a different woman so he abandoned her and the children. Shame unto you Friday!
Don't have more than one child for a man that is not ready to marry you in every wise. This man has already calculated his moves and of not that the woman is proactive and smart enough to bring him to court, he would have taken the children and left her high and very dry. Thank God for the judge and her unbiased sense of judgement. I pray so many people learn from this and learn from people's experiences.
Big lesson here is for young ladies to improve themselves rather than depending on Oga. Furthermore it is so sad that a woman will comfortably stay with a man she’s not married to and bear him kids, the man can walk out just like Friday and start another relationship but the woman cannot because motherhood usually takes a toll on many women.
I don’t know why y’all are feeling bad for the lady, this man is trying in all aspects. He put her through school and still gave her money to start up a business and there was nothing to show for it. The lady is just lazy because I see no reason why a graduate will not want to work. The man is a little bit at fault for making her soo comfortable with him providing everything including salt (100 naira). Women should learn not to go into marriage without having an income source!!!
This man called Friday , is incapable of genuinely loving any woman. His heart is desperately wicked! The woman that he is currently cohabiting with in Abuja will eventually suffer the same fate ! He will eventually dump that woman and move on. Women should never assume that cohabitating with a man and having children with the man is an assurance that they will become his wife. Unfortunately, the woman hasn’t offended him , he simply wants to move on ! Not only does he want to move on , he wants to leave her empty without considering his children. You can’t force a man who once loved you to continue loving you , and it is even harder when the man never truly loved you just like this man called Friday. Watching from London, England
I think he wanted to take all the kids from the woman and leave her dry !!! That was why he suggested the oldest stays within his uncle, I can foresee he will go take him from his uncle and the other two at some point. Wicked man he is!!!! The woman in Abuja should better pick to her heels ASAP!
Hmmm,13 good years and you just want to leave her with almost nothing. Women!!! Love is not enough ooo,secure yourself and that of your children. Don't be too relaxed in your husband's house. Be wise! It is wrong to say a woman does nothing just because she is not on a paycheck. Can you pay for all her services to the home? Cooking, cleaning, taking the children to school and bringing them home,moral upbringing, spiritual growth, and the entirety of the child, helping with homework, emotional stability,washing? I beg, women work more yet they are still insulted saying they are not contributing financially. Every woman must be wise. Enough of all this maltreatment.
@@progressijigba7297 God bless you for this comment! Very sensible! Women do the hardest work and don't get paid for it! Yet you call her lazy and say she has nothing doing??? Taking care of kids and a home!! What nonsense!
Thank God for Judge Funmi and courts like this. This man talks like a little child with no sense. Men from generation to generation have got away with this in the past in Nigeria and most parts of Africa. You want to remove the comfort your children are used to because you are separating. Later when those children become something in society, they will come begging for forgiveness.
I hope the other lady watches this and learns. I’m really praying for all women, because I know what heartbreak feels like and I only wish it on my ‘enemies’, if I have any. She should see what this man has done to this woman and his own children. God please
I realize that some women want to seat and only eat from the man, and this kind of attitude back fires. No man will value you if you are only a consumer. Some woman are only happy if you keep giving to them.
She was really used all because of her negligence and enjoyment of comfort... women should learn to just try to be empowered no matter how small it is...let her move on and pick herself up...when there is life there is hope! LEARN YOUR LESSON!
When children are not given enough attention & care cos the woman is always out there to make money, it affects them negatively & the society suffers from this. Friday should bear at least 90% of the financial needs. Even #40k/month is cheap to maintain a home. There are other things needed at home like body creams, cooking gas/kerosene, fuel, repairs, drinking water,detergents, toilet tissues, pads for teenage girls,bath soaps, toothpaste & other daily/weekly expenditures. They amount to a lot of money monthly. There are days when the woman will be off work cos a child is sick, school runs, etc. Judgement should be done in such a way the woman should have time to be there for the kids.
This is such a beautiful programme. Thanks for putting this together. It gives hope to the poor man that he can be heard. The judge is so good in her handling of the proceedings. I have indeed learnt a lot from all the cases I have seen . Thanks plenty.
Biggest lessons to be learned from this so called toxic relationship, women watch the man very well before you have a children for the man, it is really unfortunate and pathetic.
In as much as I agree that Friday is wicked. Something happened. He was not like this initially because he sent this woman to school. This woman is too laid back and that’s very bad. Why will she not be financially empowered? Now look at it. The man is walking out on her and she is stranded. As far as I’m concerned she as not adding value to this man. “She buys clothes for her children when she’s able”. Women empower yourselves financially. These men can change anytime.
The woman no wan do anything... She was just folding her arms. The man gave her 250k for biz, she couldn't account for it, etc. Well, hope she learnt though (sorry for her) it's in a hard way.
We always blame women in this kind of issues. Nobody ask who took care of the children. We mother's know is not always easy to bring up children. Getting job in naija no be beans. What I except and hope is for God to provide for the woman so she can be financially stable. The ma should forget forgiveness when his eyes open and keep moving on.
This case is really a simple one filled with intricacies of the ills of the relationship between both partners. There is so much critical communication they both failed to have before the whole issue boomerang. None of the parties can be satisfied with the judgment, you just have to be bold and prayerful before you make certain life decisions. The case is tough, but so many things are still left uncleared. Kudos to Justice Court😊
This is the longest case in these 97 cases and a big lesson women should learn, please let the man give you that honour by paying that bride price, it is small we know but let him pay, let your family drink that cheap bottle of coke on your head. Just see how he decided to move on, Judge Funmi is so patient.
He is not a man he want to take food out his family mouth to go give to stranger she seems to be very humble ladies this is not a man look at him and run from him
I swear. All those bashing the woman calling her lazy and all, who ever told you that this woman has not tried to get a job or the 250k biz was not a deal gone wrong? It's just disheartening what this man did. No woman deserves this. Being a stay at home Mum is no child's play
You forget that event in the future can happen that can prevent a spouse from doing the needful. The key thing is to sure you or your spouse can have some sort of income to do the needful should there be a situation where one can’t
@@MrCollins2000 the needful I mean is for the women to insist on the man going to pay for their head in marriage instead of cohabiting and procreating.
@@okoronkwochibuzor28 The most needful is for the woman to be independent, having her own sources of income not just being a baby making machine lazy ass.. she would have been well gone before now if she has something meaningful doing for the sake of her own health and for the safety of the kids.
@@TruthIsBitter9ja I'm not saying that the woman shouldn't work but she should have insisted on the man going to her village to pay for her because the man said it in the previous episode that he didn't marry her. They were just cohabiting and she's now on the loosing side
It's sad that I believe the man has more that is bothering him that he is not saying. Everyone is seeing him as evil but I believe that there's more to what transpired that the man may not be willing to say
this man is crazy... so he has a car and cannot start uber or some other taxi services? i was feel sorry for him till i found out he has a car and he claims he has been looking for a job?? madness...
Whilst I agreed that Mr. Friday might have reasons to be angry with this woman, I expected him to be less ignominious than he's displayed in this court. This is simply bitterness taken too far. He should know that children don't forget, especially with the technological advancement that could make it possible for proceedings of this court to be viewable decades from now, he will surely regret his action because those children will not forgive him. No matter how rich he is now, those children have better chance than him, he'll sureky need them especially if God granted him long life, then he would know the importance of children at old age. Beside, karma is real! The new woman he's leaving the mother of his children to might even be watching the proceedings of this court as well, so he shouldn't believe that he would be as lucky to repeat same thing with her too. I could see a dog destined to lost in him, unfortunately, ignoring the whistle of the hunter. Pls note "NEVER SLAM-HARD DOOR OF FRIENDSHIP, YOU MAY NEED IT TO OPEN IN FUTURE" Kudos to Honorable judge Funmi Asaolu, i wish you more divine wisdom ma.
This man it's been unreasonable but let's think out of this box, he loves her, he saw the feature in her, but while doing all this he made the pretty and respectful lady lazy thinking he can provide everything, the lady saw him as everything beloved husband and respectful husband, but this man lose his job and the money wasn't coming as he is supposed to, then he start seeing her as a mistake, seeing the woman as a reliability which he made her to be, and he decided to put blame on her and thinking if she had work and help the family he would have been better, now sure he forgot taking Care of the kids at home won't give her chance to work even if she want to, he is just frustrated and little money he should have save to keep and help the family growing, he is using it to have another person he sees the perfection in,ready to be happy believing the kids will always be fine,well every man needs happiness and so the ladies that's the reason ladies should always think and plan with their partner about kids and job, so the sweet love won't end up becoming a mistake. This man think he has more advantage than the lady because he made her so, now she need to learn how to work feed and do a lot of things all by her self it will really be hard for her but it was both mistake and she is suffering the more.... I pray she should get used to it and become more successful Amen
This is why marriage is not for everyone! You fit drink garri if you no get money but when a woman and maybe children are involved, omo na thief dem wan make you thief?? Finally if you still thief and dem kill you, she go marry another man
I follow this from part one to this part. Always pray for you and more power of God you ma Auntie funmi. And God will settle those other breaking homes. Will need to learn in thing we are doing going to .
This is a lesson to everyone out there, either man or woman should learn how to be responsible for their children and their personal life without totally depending on the other spouse
Many lessons to be learned from this case. I hope young people and especially young ladies paid attention. I pray this mother will find good employment or begin a business that prospers. So she can take care of her children properly.
THESE YOUNG LADIES AREN'T GOING TO WATCH THIS UNTIL THEY FALL PREY TO THE SAME TRAP, EVEN THE WOMAN HE'S RUNNING TO CO-HABITING WITH NOW NEEDS TO WATCH THIS BEFORE HER OWN MERIT, AS IT WERE, IS SERVED!
This man has a house in Lokoja!!!!! He is a big fraud. I am happy she recouped some funds by selling his generators. He played Mr. innocent well. REALLY!!!!
In fact I was touched by the behaviour of this man towards the lady. Since I've been following the justice court, I e never been moved as this to the extent I was thinking of given the woman and the children some rental and financial support. But when I thought round it again, the man is capable of supporting the family, he is just trying to play on the judge intelligence by trying to be smart, I decided to allow the court to compell him to live up to his responsibility to teach other a lesson. The good Lord will continue to be with the woman and her children. The kammer is around the corner for anyone that deserve it.
This is a lesson to women staying at home without doing anything for a living. Imagine the way this man is speaking. If she had something doing there will be no problem
So it’s a law for the woman to be a lazy brat and the man work till death? For 13 years? Sent her to school, gave her money for biz but she squandered it? Let the man stay home for 1 year taking care of the children and let the woman go work and provide and see if their marriage will last that long. Mtcheew
@ Stella Obi- Ngene . He’s a from another planet. To impregnate her is an act of God but to marry her she supposed to know when he didn’t do it after the first child . 👀.
An eye opener! The man has prevented this woman from been herself all in the name of taking care of her, she didn't see this coming at all, he cripple her wings totally. , imagine him calling her "madam", Judge Funmi has said it all...move on with your life, shake off the mud, get lighter and run your own race. The likes of this men doesn't stay long in realizing this kind of mistake. Help yourself first and God will set in for you. I wish you all the best.
This lady was already an adult when she chose to cohabit with the man. the man spent on her education, what she got was the result of her decision. she should have been wise enough to insist on the man seeing her parents. in fact the lady seems to me like someone that stubbornly left her parents and chose to cohabit with another man.
Somehow this Friday is a nice man but circumstances has turned him into a beast. I just pray that God will touch his heart to make a U turn before it is too late.
Woman empower yourself and be calculative in love. Standing is better than falling. Imagine falling in love for 13yrs and the lover boy left you in coma. Chai! I wish I have a platform where I can share this 3episodes for all ladies.
Great lesson for Women for learn. Having a child of children for a man doesn’t guarantee Marriage. Always know that your pride is your pride and please don’t try to force yourself in a present that has no future...... Some men needs to repent
Ladies who normally say, I want a ready made man, and yet they (ladies) have forgotten to make themselves ready made, should get ready to face such a ready made problem in future. We ladies always believe, a man should be 💯responsible for all of their responsibilities. WOMEN EMPOWER YOURSELVES. NO MAN IS AN ATM MACHINE. Even ATM MACHINE sometimes fail to dispense cash. Be wise
This should be a big lesson for young ladies out there please do the proper thing before moving in with a man do not allow desperation cloud your reasoning. Haba Juliana After 1,2,3 kids she didn't make any effort to secure her marriage, bringing Friday Ogwuche to this court was the best thing she did for herself this man was ready to show her pepper. LADIES HAVE FINANCIAL FREEDOM!!! Kudos to Judge Funmi👍👍
Jesus Christ this is a very big lesson to we young ladies and again if any man want to buy you something that’s very huge, make sure your name is on the receipt.
There should be a provision in Nigeria law that should give some percentage of property or money to co habit partner like this. She too contributed to the man's achievement
My guy that can not opein nigeria because America that do it today Guy do not want to marry again all u see na is babymama am euros today dis said things here too men are gay in Europe and America
Lessons learnt. I pray God gives this woman a strong heart to pick up her cross and to be financially stable. This man will regret his actions in the nearest future.
@@godspowerisaac9951 in America, whether you marry the woman or not, you must pay for child support. So that is not the reason they are not getting married, they just don’t carry the marriage on the head like a do or die like Africa.
Judge says he cannot sell the generators cos his children are there. But mother already sold same generators despite the children and its suddenly not an issue?. what a world. Is she aware what some policemen and civil servants earn?
This Man is been Difficult on this Case,I can say it loud nd bold that He's capable but he just want to be Wicked cox He's done with the Woman..... Women please this is a Great lesson to learn From
@@nobleidowu4919 YES, YOU'RE RIGHT! NOT 3 BUT 4 CHILDREN AND HOW HE CAN PAY HER BACK IS TO WALK OUT OF HER TO THE HAND OF ANOTHER WOMAN? HAA, SOME MEN ARE EVIL, TBS.
Good judgment and I hope the woman brace up and get something doing because of herself and her children and dont just relax and wait for that man to bring money .LADIES OUT THERE DO NOT LET YOUR GUARDS DOWN LOVE IS SWEET BUT BE WISE OO.
Women should try harder , I don’t understand how you lived with a man for years and he was busy improving financially and you are just comfortable being at the receiving all because you are his wife ..... She learnt it the hard way , this man will do more , I believe he’s hiding alot.
As for me, I blame the woman at some point.Firstly the man raised her by sending her to university. She didn’t make attempts to improve herself by working.... that’s by the way. What if this man dies, how does she want to continue with life?. Am never in support for the man decisions.... but he tried to some point. For the woman, her thinking faculty is zero despite been educated. Lots of woman that didn’t experience to this point have empowered their self and the man will be short of ideas. She is just sitting waiting for someone that is long gone with his decision. Okay while they were still leaving together, she received 200k from her husband to establish her self and she couldn’t account on how she spent it.... that one is over the bar. But what if the man dies, where does she want to start from? The man property at lokoja, what if they don’t exist anymore?. I noticed the body language of our judge, not wanting to point out her big mistakes so the man won’t capitalise on it. This is a lesson too everyone watching this including me. For marriage too move on,both parties needs to contribute side by side.
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This woman how can you live with a man for over 13 years and you can’t secure a job
This case is the nicest 👌👌. I really love this show
Weldon! Hmm..this case is a very serious one.women should be up and doing.she was comfortable before and now things are not moving financially okay.she needs to work too.
Anyways,I think with this I need your help Judge Funmi of #thejusticecourt but I'm in Abuja.chaii!!how does this work?
I watched from the beginning to the end of this episode...she shouldn't worry herself...Friday will come back begin and regretting...we men thinks when we meet new woman we have the world not till kama comes ,we come back begin ...I did it but today I'm the one begin to have her back and my daughter in my life ..she has forgiven me but she's a different person now ..the love she has for me has reduced am now the person working hard for her to love me again..which I know she do love me but as a human being she want to make it hard for me and for me to feel the hurt just the way she felt when i left her with a 6 months old baby but I wasn't irresponsible father to my daughter because me and her had the best father and daughter relationship till now ...I used to pick her up and spend 3 to 4 days with her ...I wasn't bad towards my daughter....that decision of leaving her mother was my biggest mistake and I regret it today and I only wish I never left her because I lost someone who loved me without nothing till i became something and invited the devil just like Friday did now ...let that woman be strong Friday will come back begin on with his knees...hurting people that loved you genuinely has a spiritual backfire...I hope he realised that on time ,because I lost everything I got when I was with her ...when I came back everything retorted back to normal...I packet my things in between my legs...lesson learn for me ...
Thanks for sharing part of your life. It is not easy.
Lols this pocketting aspect got me though.
I wish you luck
Thanks for sharing your story.Moral lesson for everyone.
Thanks for this acknowledgement.
You got it
Julianna has learnt her lesson the hard way. The man already made up his mind and no going back. This is the most complicated case I've seen on this channel. Weldone Judge Funmi...
Very complicated , you can say that again
He is going for double trouble. He is failed man...next grade woman gets more worse... better he stay to work things out..if you failed you should repeat his relationship studies with his woman
You've said it all.
My blame is on that woman.
My take.
The judge is not fair to the woman, the woman also does have a job but the man has properties, he owns a house in lokoja, two cars and others. The woman suppose to get a car too.
Hay this Case is going to much
After 11 years of marriage, husband met a new woman, he changed, became unkind and unrecognisable. My last baby was not 2 yet. Thank God I had a career.
This is a big lesson to all our female children out there.
Still they won't hear word! Women know your worth!
I don't have feel for any lady or women that put her self into this level bcos by now everybody should open up well
@@deolaade God bless you for this statement. It's a gold digger attitude. Lazy girls
@@tolapayne1651 which mumu worth, worth and you nor get work to contribute to the marriage, na craze.
I feel no matter what ur husband gives u .no matter the king of love ur husband is showing u,as a woman have something doing ..do something oh..very important…
If I were the woman, I don't have anything to bothered about, I did not loose, I have 3 kids for him which is enough, all I need is to get closer to God , pray to him to show me ways, to make me a strong woman, above all to give me wealth so I can train those children, take a very good care of them and my self. Life goes on.
I second that but let's not forget that every child needs a father figure..unfortunately not every child gets it.
@@BeatzByArpeggio watin Nigeria women nor know smh 🤦♂️
@@oliverwalters8367 you mean to say watin Nigeria men don't know, because once Nigeria men don't know is all that glitters is not gold these what lack of Job is causing
@@esthergrantever7965 the man does not want the woman to reap from him at all. He has developed this intense hatred for her and the children are potentially suffering for it. And I don't understand this woman ,what is her contribution to the welfare of the children.
@@strides5806 so you’re supporting a lazy brat that a man sent to school, gives money for business, she squandered it. She puts the children in a school that pays 400k per year. And does nothing? The man should die while she sleeps at home everyday? Did he employ her as a maid? Married her for over 10 years and yet does nothing. She’s a lazy brat that has no business marrying she’s not just a liability she’s also a burden!
The cane wey dem take flog the first wife dey wait for the second wife. When the heat resulting from this court's decision begins to take its toll on man Friday, he'll begin to struggle financially, and then he'll start to have issues with his new woman who'll definitely have needs of her own no matter how financially independent she is. When this time comes, Friday will discover he sold his dog to buy a monkey.
j: very true! the other woman is welcomed to this heartbroken, lust man, wait and see how long it lasts!
Imagine this man trying to take the furnitures away not minding that the kids would be needing them! So painful!!!
Lesson learnt is that always prepare for when life happens!!!!
I'm telling u left to me I won't give the car cus she needs it after 15 yrs men no me
He doesn’t want her or the children
A useless man indeed! I wish to see the furniture he was even talking about here, wow, where does he come from?
This man is bittered. I feel so ashamed seeing how a man could be so bittered against his family. He is indirectly saying he doesn't give a damn about his children, even.
Exactly he's a monster. Omg this is a woman u once loved 😢
True... Forgetting that what ever lady he has in Abuja now will get old soon..
@@ericaameh6596 this is the comment ❤️
@@ericaameh6596 if the new Abuja lady has a human heart she should back off now because thesame broom that was used to sweep an old house will also be use to sweep a new house when it gets old.
He's gonna regret what he put the woman through later.
The man is rude. He has no regards for the mother of his children. Calling her madam, as if he does not know her name.
Exactly! It's very obvious he hates the woman. If not for see finish, he is not even in the same class with her
It pissed me off too. How will you call your wife / partner 'madam'?
@@deolababes ...he is the one that sponsor her through her education
@@asimiyuismail2602 so what? You can't buy class.
The woman brought that on herself, she lost his respect... The woman no wan do anything... She was just folding her arms. The man gave her 250k for biz, she couldn't account for it, etc. Well, hope she learnt though (sorry for her) it's in a hard way.
Heartless man. Your wickedness awaits you wickedman. Thank you Judge Funmi for the hard work. No one can thank you enough except GOD
Smart woman in the end sold the generator 😀. You should have sold the car and pack out of that dungeon. She should be compensated for cooking your food, washing your clothes and taking care of your children all these years. Justice for this woman please 🙏
actually once she knows what a jerk this guy is she should've wised up
and got a business off the ground or get a job.
That's how the law in Ghana works truly. The man will have to pay / compensate her for cohabiting for at least 6 months, how much more 13yrs.
@@christydapuliga7466This is false. Which Authority or Case Law in Ghana Legal System are you referring to? Except I was deaf in Law School, what you said isn’t correct please.
Finally! I hope Judge Funmi got a full pot of chicken with ice cream on the side after this case? I was stressed on her behalf. Ladies shine ya eyes!! See how there’s a thin line between love and hate? Make your own money!
I couldn’t agree with you more! 😓
She being jobless and totally dependent is a No
Nigeria women needs to stop depending on men for everything. She was sent to school by the man for a reason. It gets overwhelming when you don't support your man. You are both parents to the kids.
Offcourse single women makes own man... mothers, breastfeeding, babysitting and keep their home as hotel for their men and feeding their men 24/7. When comes to work their need to discuss.
Who to babysit when woman wife goes to work
Babysitting, breastfeeding children is another jobs. Only Africans luck justices for women and children. Africa to become super power needs justices for women and children...
My heart skipped a beat when the Judge said it isn't the fault of the children that hey chose you as parents. Oh my goodness!
Same here
Make me understand, are you saying it’s a wrong choice of word? What I think she meant was that the children came into this world not by themselves but by you they found as their parents. Did I miss something?
They aren't good parents. Parents give everything to their children, bad parents make them suffer. Don't have kids if you're not married or have a job.
The wording is wrong. We know what she meant but if you take it literally it makes it sound like the kids made a choice but you can't blame them for it.
The wording is wrong. We know what she meant but if you take it literally it makes it sound like the kids made a choice but you can't blame them for it.
I followed this case from beginning to the end and I must say, it's really lesson-packed. The man in question seems wicked, cunny, and very unstable.
Ordinarily putting up with such a man with his kind of mentality towards family will definitely be very stressful.
I hope this serves as a lesson to lots of ladies out there. Stop cohabiting with a man that is not your husband and stop birthing children especially when you have nothing tangible to do.
Women should learn to hustle for their own money too. Get a job or start a business or learn a skill that can grow you financially, remember life can happen too.
Thank you Judge Funmi for your wisdom always.
The real question to ask is why did he change all of a sudden? There should be a root cause that was not discussed in their hearing.
This guy has another woman.
@@KehindeAdeoya he would have said it. It's another woman.
Weda you are married or not they will still do what they want.May weh marry Yul wetin dey happen now.make wuna stop to dey make marriage sound very important I begging.
Your only point I agree with here is women should look for something doing.like you said this man is very wicket he feels and thinks he is inlove.He is just a weak man to me.i won't sacrifice my three children for love.
The toughest case on the Justice Court so far. That man is a snake while the woman let her guard down.
God help us
My dear you have said it ooo
Mothers and lone parents should be happy having a court like this in Nigeria, a very hopeless country for 'children in need,' and terrible fathers all over the place, even as such in the diaspora.
Terrible, father? How is he terrible ? He pays house rent, puts money down for food, and pays their school fees, but the mother who does nothing is the good woman ? The way you people think in Nigeria is amazing
And all these you mentioned is what you think children are raised by? Love, safety, emotional stability, security doesn't count??? Ignorant African men. Wickedness in high places
@@sol_4real are you even listening to the case? Whatever he is doing to the mother of his children also effects his children. A good father wouldn’t want to hurt the mother of his children. If he wants to leave, fine, but do it respectfully.
@@sol_4real He's a terrible man and a terrible father, do you wish this sort of man for your sister, niece or female friend? This same woman of his is the one responsible for taking care of the children he left behind [remember they still got a 1 year old child together] to do 'I go waka.com and catching fun with his life, hehn? If he's that good in your eyes, let him go and swoop lifestyle with the woman then. Why are some African people's way of thinking so narrow?
@@kalimbaayinde25 You're so right! This guy [Friday] would risk his children's lives by dropping them with one 'lost-uncle' to provide for his 3 children and their mother all together, how would anyone call him a loving-being? He's a VAMPIRE! IMO.
Young girls should learn a lot from this. Marriage is not your financial ticket. Strive to earn your own money,be something. Let nobody delay your financial growth in the name of marriage. Don't delay yourself neither. This man was improving himself in all aspects while the woman was there making a home.
They are not even married
There are other expenses not even added in that #40,000. Expenses like repairs, toilet tissues, pad,, soaps, detergent,creams, cooking gas/kerosene, etc, which at the end of the month is a huge cost.
That's y is good for a lady to have something in doing
That is unfair. The man sent her to school, worked her stay in Lagos for youth service, got her a container and gave her N250,000 to start a busy. She never started the business before she finished the money. He empowered her more than most men would have done. She decided to play house and hoped having children would tieehim down. I am a woman. My husband sent me to university. I took it from there, while having my children. She is just lazy. Who cohabits with a man for 13 years! Does she not have a family?
That’s unfair to the man. See my post below.
She is a graduate for Christ sake, how many men out there support their wife to go school? There are single mothers out there with more children no education but still doing their best.:.
Oga this is not Village Square Meeting o, this is Court. It doesn't work the way you think. My generator, my chair, my fridge Mba! They're for your family (your children). Imagine #10, 000 for 3 kids per month. Even if you're both to provide 50:50 that money is way too too small. If Lagos lifestyle is too expensive, why not move them to Lokoja? See him avoiding the question of having houses and landed properties in Lokoja! Madam while looking after your kids, even if it's cooking job, try to get busy and earn your own money!
Shes already putting more work into taking care of the kids they both own! The man should pay her for being a cook, a nanny, a cleaner for his kids instead of just contributing 10k!
That's cheating!
Why would men behave this way to a woman with your 3 kids!!
#justiceforwomen
When a person shows you who they are first time believe them. We women have hearts bigger than our bodies. So sad. Judge Funmi my hats off to you. Thank you Ma.
So trueee
The earlier you start up something the better. Total dependence on anyone will land you in a messy situation.
I want to ask , in a situation whereby the man thinks that whatsoever a woman have in marriage is his nko?
Where a man thinks that a woman can't own anything , what can be done about it ??
@@maureenchy7187 run from that kind of man abeg...
Please we need more of this kind of courts all over Nigeria. God bless you real good Judge Funmi! I love you!
,we need just one in Cameroon my dear.
I luv u mummy...u re blessed in Jesus name 🙏
This is the most complicated case and very real to our today marriage .I am going to share this in all my platform as everywoman need to know
Learn form this case:
1 . Mere cohabiting with a man is no marriage . At break up you lose all
2.Every woman should work to earn something to support your man ,he can only drop to your level and not lower if things go bad for him .
3. Its easy for men to abandon ship in hard times so build your your strength
4. Women ,mothers save save save
5. Be spiritual fortified as many cruel woman are out there to reck a good home
6.Give birth to the numbers of Children you can take care of ,don't just have then depending on a man
7. Be a strong woman to coup with everything.
In all only God keeps a good marriage
I concur
You've said all in my mind
This same incident can also apply between married couples, so it isn't a case of cohabiting at all, let's call a spade a spade!
This man is somewhere killing himself for a new woman...he will soon realise that not all that glitters is gold.
This judge is very patient, tolerance and genuine.
How can a man abandon his 10 months old baby. Nawo oh. Life and lessons
Even if I am not supporting the man's attitude, the woman no try at all, this is what I keep preaching to ladies, he trained you in school till you graduated, after graduation you came back home and sit down doing nothing until this man was sack from his place of work and became frustrated. Where is the help woman should be to a man. A beg let us be open minded in our examination.
So.true,I have no pity for the woman, he sent you to school, useless women, the man is done,get a life woman
So true!!! She should have gotten herself a job and bring home some income too, maybe just maybe if she was helping too that man would have understood. Women should never put themselves in a position to be a liability.
Thank you jare ! Triple likes for this comment.
@@TutuLolaAboh
You're talking rubbish! Have you ever been a mother of 3 kids!? How can you say she's doing nothing! Can she even afford a nanny to cater for the home and kids while she goes about job hunting? Don't you have enough sense to know that being a home maker with 3 kids is more than enough job!! She's supposed to be paid for that!
She has a one-year-old child. Men, stop climbing trees.
This Friday guy 👦 is so wicked like men I know who keep bringing babies into this world and running away from woman to woman.
He found a different woman so he abandoned her and the children.
Shame unto you Friday!
Don't have more than one child for a man that is not ready to marry you in every wise. This man has already calculated his moves and of not that the woman is proactive and smart enough to bring him to court, he would have taken the children and left her high and very dry. Thank God for the judge and her unbiased sense of judgement. I pray so many people learn from this and learn from people's experiences.
This case proves judge Fumi's credibility, sooner or later, there is still hope for Nigeria I believe.
Big lesson here is for young ladies to improve themselves rather than depending on Oga. Furthermore it is so sad that a woman will comfortably stay with a man she’s not married to and bear him kids, the man can walk out just like Friday and start another relationship but the woman cannot because motherhood usually takes a toll on many women.
The part Judge Funmi said it’s not the children’s fault they chose them as their parents hit me….very very deep!!!!
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I don’t know why y’all are feeling bad for the lady, this man is trying in all aspects. He put her through school and still gave her money to start up a business and there was nothing to show for it.
The lady is just lazy because I see no reason why a graduate will not want to work.
The man is a little bit at fault for making her soo comfortable with him providing everything including salt (100 naira).
Women should learn not to go into marriage without having an income source!!!
This man called Friday , is incapable of genuinely loving any woman. His heart is desperately wicked! The woman that he is currently cohabiting with in Abuja will eventually suffer the same fate ! He will eventually dump that woman and move on.
Women should never assume that cohabitating with a man and having children with the man is an assurance that they will become his wife. Unfortunately, the woman hasn’t offended him , he simply wants to move on ! Not only does he want to move on , he wants to leave her empty without considering his children. You can’t force a man who once loved you to continue loving you , and it is even harder when the man never truly loved you just like this man called Friday. Watching from London, England
I think he wanted to take all the kids from the woman and leave her dry !!! That was why he suggested the oldest stays within his uncle, I can foresee he will go take him from his uncle and the other two at some point.
Wicked man he is!!!! The woman in Abuja should better pick to her heels ASAP!
@@TutuLolaAboh Well spoken !!!
Hmmm,13 good years and you just want to leave her with almost nothing.
Women!!!
Love is not enough ooo,secure yourself and that of your children.
Don't be too relaxed in your husband's house. Be wise!
It is wrong to say a woman does nothing just because she is not on a paycheck. Can you pay for all her services to the home?
Cooking, cleaning, taking the children to school and bringing them home,moral upbringing, spiritual growth, and the entirety of the child, helping with homework, emotional stability,washing?
I beg, women work more yet they are still insulted saying they are not contributing financially.
Every woman must be wise. Enough of all this maltreatment.
@@progressijigba7297 exactly woman works but never paid.i believe she will come up financially just for her children.
@@progressijigba7297 God bless you for this comment! Very sensible! Women do the hardest work and don't get paid for it! Yet you call her lazy and say she has nothing doing??? Taking care of kids and a home!! What nonsense!
Thank God for Judge Funmi and courts like this. This man talks like a little child with no sense. Men from generation to generation have got away with this in the past in Nigeria and most parts of Africa. You want to remove the comfort your children are used to because you are separating. Later when those children become something in society, they will come begging for forgiveness.
I hope the other lady watches this and learns. I’m really praying for all women, because I know what heartbreak feels like and I only wish it on my ‘enemies’, if I have any. She should see what this man has done to this woman and his own children. God please
D woman is lazy
@@victorfriday4869 very lazy
She’s a burden and a liability
I realize that some women want to seat and only eat from the man, and this kind of attitude back fires. No man will value you if you are only a consumer. Some woman are only happy if you keep giving to them.
She is truly lazy and this is the consequences of of her laziness.
She was really used all because of her negligence and enjoyment of comfort... women should learn to just try to be empowered no matter how small it is...let her move on and pick herself up...when there is life there is hope! LEARN YOUR LESSON!
When children are not given enough attention & care cos the woman is always out there to make money, it affects them negatively & the society suffers from this. Friday should bear at least 90% of the financial needs. Even #40k/month is cheap to maintain a home. There are other things needed at home like body creams, cooking gas/kerosene, fuel, repairs, drinking water,detergents, toilet tissues, pads for teenage girls,bath soaps, toothpaste & other daily/weekly expenditures. They amount to a lot of money monthly. There are days when the woman will be off work cos a child is sick, school runs, etc. Judgement should be done in such a way the woman should have time to be there for the kids.
May I give kudos to judge funmi for the way she settles the couple's case. She's absolutely blessed
This is such a beautiful programme. Thanks for putting this together. It gives hope to the poor man that he can be heard.
The judge is so good in her handling of the proceedings. I have indeed learnt a lot from all the cases I have seen . Thanks plenty.
He's a landlord 😱😱😱 Wait let's get back to that. He changed the topic real quick.
Biggest lessons to be learned from this so called toxic relationship, women watch the man very well before you have a children for the man, it is really unfortunate and pathetic.
I still feel with a better intervention they can reconcile ..
I believe so as well
Not so soon, not when the man is already seeing the woman as his curse of setback,
Why would you want to even suggest that she stays with someone who doesn't want her.
In as much as I agree that Friday is wicked. Something happened. He was not like this initially because he sent this woman to school. This woman is too laid back and that’s very bad. Why will she not be financially empowered? Now look at it. The man is walking out on her and she is stranded. As far as I’m concerned she as not adding value to this man. “She buys clothes for her children when she’s able”. Women empower yourselves financially. These men can change anytime.
The woman no wan do anything... She was just folding her arms. The man gave her 250k for biz, she couldn't account for it, etc. Well, hope she learnt though (sorry for her) it's in a hard way.
We always blame women in this kind of issues. Nobody ask who took care of the children. We mother's know is not always easy to bring up children. Getting job in naija no be beans. What I except and hope is for God to provide for the woman so she can be financially stable. The ma should forget forgiveness when his eyes open and keep moving on.
But he could important her a year ago ???? He planned to leave her, he is calculative and a sycho
@@eseogheneowolabi3616 is bringing up a child a business that will fetch u money, She's taking care of the children on the husbands account
She said she's selling clothes online
This case is really a simple one filled with intricacies of the ills of the relationship between both partners. There is so much critical communication they both failed to have before the whole issue boomerang. None of the parties can be satisfied with the judgment, you just have to be bold and prayerful before you make certain life decisions. The case is tough, but so many things are still left uncleared. Kudos to Justice Court😊
yusuf olawale: well said!
This is the longest case in these 97 cases and a big lesson women should learn, please let the man give you that honour by paying that bride price, it is small we know but let him pay, let your family drink that cheap bottle of coke on your head. Just see how he decided to move on, Judge Funmi is so patient.
This is a lesson to some ladies who solely depends there life on men..be independent.
I have actually learnt so much from this video🤔 why take the car when you know the kids needs it? This man is evil in and out.
He is not a man he want to take food out his family mouth to go give to stranger she seems to be very humble ladies this is not a man look at him and run from him
and he has anothre one as well as a house with tenants. then hes complaining bout rent??
I swear.
All those bashing the woman calling her lazy and all, who ever told you that this woman has not tried to get a job or the 250k biz was not a deal gone wrong?
It's just disheartening what this man did. No woman deserves this. Being a stay at home Mum is no child's play
I really feel for this woman. Women should make sure the suppose spouse do the needful before giving birth for them.
You forget that event in the future can happen that can prevent a spouse from doing the needful. The key thing is to sure you or your spouse can have some sort of income to do the needful should there be a situation where one can’t
@@MrCollins2000 the needful I mean is for the women to insist on the man going to pay for their head in marriage instead of cohabiting and procreating.
@@okoronkwochibuzor28 The most needful is for the woman to be independent, having her own sources of income not just being a baby making machine lazy ass.. she would have been well gone before now if she has something meaningful doing for the sake of her own health and for the safety of the kids.
@@TruthIsBitter9ja I'm not saying that the woman shouldn't work but she should have insisted on the man going to her village to pay for her because the man said it in the previous episode that he didn't marry her. They were just cohabiting and she's now on the loosing side
@@TruthIsBitter9ja It is most important to ensure the man does the marital rites and marries her properly before making babies for him.
Everyone can blame this guy for all I care for, but this woman is a complete liability.
It's sad that I believe the man has more that is bothering him that he is not saying. Everyone is seeing him as evil but I believe that there's more to what transpired that the man may not be willing to say
Honestly!
this man is crazy... so he has a car and cannot start uber or some other taxi services? i was feel sorry for him till i found out he has a car and he claims he has been looking for a job?? madness...
Whilst I agreed that Mr. Friday might have reasons to be angry with this woman, I expected him to be less ignominious than he's displayed in this court. This is simply bitterness taken too far.
He should know that children don't forget, especially with the technological advancement that could make it possible for proceedings of this court to be viewable decades from now, he will surely regret his action because those children will not forgive him. No matter how rich he is now, those children have better chance than him, he'll sureky need them especially if God granted him long life, then he would know the importance of children at old age. Beside, karma is real! The new woman he's leaving the mother of his children to might even be watching the proceedings of this court as well, so he shouldn't believe that he would be as lucky to repeat same thing with her too.
I could see a dog destined to lost in him, unfortunately, ignoring the whistle of the hunter.
Pls note
"NEVER SLAM-HARD DOOR OF FRIENDSHIP, YOU MAY NEED IT TO OPEN IN FUTURE"
Kudos to Honorable judge Funmi Asaolu, i wish you more divine wisdom ma.
This man it's been unreasonable but let's think out of this box, he loves her, he saw the feature in her, but while doing all this he made the pretty and respectful lady lazy thinking he can provide everything, the lady saw him as everything beloved husband and respectful husband, but this man lose his job and the money wasn't coming as he is supposed to, then he start seeing her as a mistake, seeing the woman as a reliability which he made her to be, and he decided to put blame on her and thinking if she had work and help the family he would have been better, now sure he forgot taking Care of the kids at home won't give her chance to work even if she want to, he is just frustrated and little money he should have save to keep and help the family growing, he is using it to have another person he sees the perfection in,ready to be happy believing the kids will always be fine,well every man needs happiness and so the ladies that's the reason ladies should always think and plan with their partner about kids and job, so the sweet love won't end up becoming a mistake. This man think he has more advantage than the lady because he made her so, now she need to learn how to work feed and do a lot of things all by her self it will really be hard for her but it was both mistake and she is suffering the more.... I pray she should get used to it and become more successful Amen
I love the fact that ds comment is unbiased as it addressed d truth of both sides.
This is why marriage is not for everyone! You fit drink garri if you no get money but when a woman and maybe children are involved, omo na thief dem wan make you thief?? Finally if you still thief and dem kill you, she go marry another man
You will make a good writer
This man is a handful. I salute the wisdom of the judge. They really stressed her.
This is the wisest comment I've read here !
I follow this from part one to this part. Always pray for you and more power of God you ma Auntie funmi. And God will settle those other breaking homes. Will need to learn in thing we are doing going to .
After mentioning that he had a landed property, he immediately changed the topic real quick nd increased the offer to 30k to 40k. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Quite smart
If this man has a car, why can’t he use the car for Uber or any kind of transportation?? This man is very wicked 💯 %
This guy is throwing questions as if he is the Judge as if he is the one in charge of the court
The most difficult case Justin Court ever had, good judgement from Judi Funmi Asaolu. Keep the fire burning your honor.
Kai this man is so wicked! Even to his own kids 🤦🏽♂️
I love this judge. This guy is playing game with the court. He has a job , but didn’t want the court to know.
This is why women need to work. Make plans for yourself. See yourself as a man. I pity this woman
This is a lesson to everyone out there, either man or woman should learn how to be responsible for their children and their personal life without totally depending on the other spouse
Many lessons to be learned from this case. I hope young people and especially young ladies paid attention. I pray this mother will find good employment or begin a business that prospers. So she can take care of her children properly.
THESE YOUNG LADIES AREN'T GOING TO WATCH THIS UNTIL THEY FALL PREY TO THE SAME TRAP, EVEN THE WOMAN HE'S RUNNING TO CO-HABITING WITH NOW NEEDS TO WATCH THIS BEFORE HER OWN MERIT, AS IT WERE, IS SERVED!
The man should be blem
Amen to your prayer 🙏🏿
This man has a house in Lokoja!!!!! He is a big fraud. I am happy she recouped some funds by selling his generators. He played Mr. innocent well. REALLY!!!!
In fact I was touched by the behaviour of this man towards the lady. Since I've been following the justice court, I e never been moved as this to the extent I was thinking of given the woman and the children some rental and financial support. But when I thought round it again, the man is capable of supporting the family, he is just trying to play on the judge intelligence by trying to be smart, I decided to allow the court to compell him to live up to his responsibility to teach other a lesson. The good Lord will continue to be with the woman and her children. The kammer is around the corner for anyone that deserve it.
This is a lesson to women staying at home without doing anything for a living. Imagine the way this man is speaking. If she had something doing there will be no problem
So it’s a law for the woman to be a lazy brat and the man work till death? For 13 years? Sent her to school, gave her money for biz but she squandered it? Let the man stay home for 1 year taking care of the children and let the woman go work and provide and see if their marriage will last that long. Mtcheew
She said they had a happy life but she was living a delusion.
Thank you Judge Fummee. This defendant needs reality check and you are doing a good job drilling it into his skull. He is in a different century.
@ Stella Obi- Ngene . He’s a from another planet. To impregnate her is an act of God but to marry her she supposed to know when he didn’t do it after the first child . 👀.
I pray God help the woman to find her feet again.
An eye opener! The man has prevented this woman from been herself all in the name of taking care of her, she didn't see this coming at all, he cripple her wings totally. , imagine him calling her "madam", Judge Funmi has said it all...move on with your life, shake off the mud, get lighter and run your own race. The likes of this men doesn't stay long in realizing this kind of mistake. Help yourself first and God will set in for you. I wish you all the best.
This lady was already an adult when she chose to cohabit with the man. the man spent on her education, what she got was the result of her decision. she should have been wise enough to insist on the man seeing her parents.
in fact the lady seems to me like someone that stubbornly left her parents and chose to cohabit with another man.
@@uwemobot5427 only God knows though, God help her.
Somehow this Friday is a nice man but circumstances has turned him into a beast. I just pray that God will touch his heart to make a U turn before it is too late.
Am a man and I felt her pain but am ashamed a man like me is treating the mother of his children like this. I hope she finds someone better than him.
God Bless You Sir!🙌
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This is a bad man, he’s brings shame to the Manhood. I’m very upset 😠
I learnt a lot from this. Never ever should you depend on a man totally.
She is not business oriented, he has invested on her but she failed, the jugde didn't talk on that.
Don't have 3kids with a man who refuses to marry you.
Friday your punishment is 600yrs. If i am the woman I will take the children forever from him..
That is not possible. Children always seek their parents out no matter. No parents can ever prevent that.
@@user-vo8io9zk4g Well may be you never heard children that grew up without father or mother at the end they don't want to see the particular parent.
Why would this woman even accept dating this kind of man.
I tire , this man is not nice at all
@@Mummya2021 outside not been nice, he's not looking well.
Woman empower yourself and be calculative in love. Standing is better than falling. Imagine falling in love for 13yrs and the lover boy left you in coma.
Chai! I wish I have a platform where I can share this 3episodes for all ladies.
Great lesson for Women for learn.
Having a child of children for a man doesn’t guarantee Marriage. Always know that your pride is your pride and please don’t try to force yourself in a present that has no future......
Some men needs to repent
He doesn’t want her or the children. He speak of the children as her children
A soldier that has spent 15 years in sambisa forest needs to be employed at the court. This man needs decking. You don't talk back at your judge/lord
Easy bro 🤣🤣🤣
As in serious decking... very annoying
🤣🤣, to judge marriage is not easy that is why she has to calm down sometime.
Ladies who normally say, I want a ready made man, and yet they (ladies) have forgotten to make themselves ready made, should get ready to face such a ready made problem in future. We ladies always believe, a man should be 💯responsible for all of their responsibilities. WOMEN EMPOWER YOURSELVES. NO MAN IS AN ATM MACHINE. Even ATM MACHINE sometimes fail to dispense cash. Be wise
Ladies please double your hustle before marrying and may such man never come our way...Amen!!
This should be a big lesson for young ladies out there please do the proper thing before moving in with a man do not allow desperation cloud your reasoning. Haba Juliana After 1,2,3 kids she didn't make any effort to secure her marriage, bringing Friday Ogwuche to this court was the best thing she did for herself this man was ready to show her pepper. LADIES HAVE FINANCIAL FREEDOM!!! Kudos to Judge Funmi👍👍
The way this man is telling lies is on another level...
He's doing well in Abuja , maybe he wants to loose everything all together again
Jesus Christ this is a very big lesson to we young ladies and again if any man want to buy you something that’s very huge, make sure your name is on the receipt.
There should be a provision in Nigeria law that should give some percentage of property or money to co habit partner like this. She too contributed to the man's achievement
My guy that can not opein nigeria because America that do it today Guy do not want to marry again all u see na is babymama am euros today dis said things here too men are gay in Europe and America
Lessons learnt. I pray God gives this woman a strong heart to pick up her cross and to be financially stable. This man will regret his actions in the nearest future.
She contributed indirectly. She was holding their children down so that he can go out there & make money
@@godspowerisaac9951 in America, whether you marry the woman or not, you must pay for child support. So that is not the reason they are not getting married, they just don’t carry the marriage on the head like a do or die like Africa.
The man will regret the action you just walked away from 13yrs of living together
Judge says he cannot sell the generators cos his children are there. But mother already sold same generators despite the children and its suddenly not an issue?. what a world. Is she aware what some policemen and civil servants earn?
This guy clearly lying about not having a means of income and simply trying to abandon this woman and her kids and go and start a new life elsewhere.
Judge Funmi is always calm and full of wisdom 🎉
I pray that the court must refuse these temporary anger of a man husband unofficial husband. The furniture, children must remain with the wife
This Man is been Difficult on this Case,I can say it loud nd bold that He's capable but he just want to be Wicked cox He's done with the Woman..... Women please this is a Great lesson to learn From
Exactly my thought
This man is wicked and he must pay for betraying his partner
He can afford to support another household tho, he's WICKED!!!!!
The guy no try at all but you know God may still bless him but one certain thing is karma
She deserves respect from the guy. 13 years with 3 children. Honestly, she had invested a lot into the relationship
@@nobleidowu4919 YES, YOU'RE RIGHT! NOT 3 BUT 4 CHILDREN AND HOW HE CAN PAY HER BACK IS TO WALK OUT OF HER TO THE HAND OF ANOTHER WOMAN? HAA, SOME MEN ARE EVIL, TBS.
Honourable 🎖 Judge 👩⚖️ Funmi is blessedly blessed by heavenly wisdom. I love ❤ u 💓 💗 ❤ 💖 💛 ♥
Good judgment and I hope the woman brace up and get something doing because of herself and her children and dont just relax and wait for that man to bring money .LADIES OUT THERE DO NOT LET YOUR GUARDS DOWN LOVE IS SWEET BUT BE WISE OO.
Women should try harder , I don’t understand how you lived with a man for years and he was busy improving financially and you are just comfortable being at the receiving all because you are his wife ..... She learnt it the hard way , this man will do more , I believe he’s hiding alot.
They were not married.
@@inhisimage0457 the major reason she should know that she’s alone and that her stay is not guaranteed and starting working.
As for me, I blame the woman at some point.Firstly the man raised her by sending her to university. She didn’t make attempts to improve herself by working.... that’s by the way. What if this man dies, how does she want to continue with life?. Am never in support for the man decisions.... but he tried to some point. For the woman, her thinking faculty is zero despite been educated. Lots of woman that didn’t experience to this point have empowered their self and the man will be short of ideas. She is just sitting waiting for someone that is long gone with his decision. Okay while they were still leaving together, she received 200k from her husband to establish her self and she couldn’t account on how she spent it.... that one is over the bar. But what if the man dies, where does she want to start from? The man property at lokoja, what if they don’t exist anymore?. I noticed the body language of our judge, not wanting to point out her big mistakes so the man won’t capitalise on it. This is a lesson too everyone watching this including me. For marriage too move on,both parties needs to contribute side by side.
Thank you jare !
You are right and is because she is not increasing the family financially that's why the man wants to leave.
U re on point, the man has tried alot, the way someone woman think ehhhh, i learnt alot from this.
She smart...
@@ifeyinwaezeh that's not smartness. It's called Cowardness
May God bless you mightily ma'am, you are doing a great job for humanity in a platter of gold
This is so touching, women pls wise up.
a very big lesson women know ur stand in a man's life before making any mistake you will regret tomorrow
Oh my goodness!!! this is so heartbreaking to watch because women are still making these mistakes outlined in this series on a daily basis.