it’s really sad that now it’s so rare to see such a wise person in your age,who understands things already so clear and shared with others. honestly,this video made me think about myself and brought to some another level. thank you so much for motivation you give!!
That's so sweet of you, rn I feel like I understand absolutely nothing but talking to you guys always leaves me in a better place than I was before posting
I’ve been listening to your ASMR videos nonstop for the past three days, and I love how genuine you are in everything you say and the advice you share.❤❤❤
I love these videos. every video I watch I want to walk away feeling like I learned something, and you’re videos make me feel like I’m actually filling my head with knowledge and not brain rot for once😂 keep it up bro!🫶
i turned 20 recently and i’m so nervous about what the future will hold, and have zero fkn clue what i’m doing… it’s really nice to hear you talk abt what seem to be shared experiences for ppl in their 20s, makes it feel less isolating
hit rock bottom at the end of last year, and i’m determined to focus on myself - whatever that means - until i’m no longer projecting my wounds onto myself and other people. therapy isn’t an option (i’m a uni student, it’s too expensive), so i’m kinda just making it up as i go, and i think videos like these help :)
I completely understand. I used to get anxious & intimidated when I had to go to social functions for work. Everyone seemed more educated or more experienced than me. At first I’d have a couple drinks to conquer my fears but eventually I decided to take a breath & see what I could learn from everyone. I started asking questions & it changed things so much. That said I also have British relatives. They’re very nice but can be very awkward to be around because their lifestyle is rather stuffy. We all need boundaries but you should NEVER let anyone make you feel “less than” you are. Some people need to be schooled for their rude or insulting behavior. You must always maintain your self respect & sometimes that means saying “I’m sorry. I really don’t appreciate what you’re doing/saying. Or, I’m not doing this with you.” You’re the only person that can set your boundaries. Otherwise you’ll never have control of how you are treated. You deserve better Jacob! Be strong & don’t put others feelings before your own. That’s how you give them control. Love you man!❤️
Your videos always seem to hit at the right times in my life! I loved when you talked about self improvement and if you’re always looking to change and be better at something, you won’t ever have a solid foundation to build on (you’ll never really “live” in the house if you’re always fixing the house). This is something I am currently working on because I am always looking to improve myself, but It’s so important to be present and appreciate things in the moment/ where you are in the process of life and adulthood. Great video!
I was one of those kids who always "knew" what I wanted while people my age (at the time) seems kinda clueless about their future. Now i'm feeling stuck questioning my life decisions in my 20s while everybody seems to have achieved something in their life and i have no idea what went wrong while i ironically sing along to "Ain't It Fun" by Paramore and scared to find the more i relate to the movie "The Banshees of Inisherin" Anyway i appreciate your video lol, keep up the good work 💜 Unrelated but you remind me of one of my fave filmmaker Xavier Dolan, you don't look like him but idk why the more the vid progress the more i see the resemblance 🤔
It's not a fun answer but I think it's just part of the process, and you're in that phase at a different point than everybody else. I think as long as you keep trying stuff you'll get clarity eventually. At least I hope so
My life chanced so much in my twenties its insane. I developed an arrhythmia which went undiagnosed for 2 years (they told me i just had stress) so for two years everyday I believed I might just drop dead bc they didn’t know what was wrong with me. This left me with massive health anxiety, while before all of this I rarely went to the doctors and stress was not a thing I really dealt with. If you told me at 18 I would get panic attacks by 21 I would have laughed and not believed you 😅 Also moving away from home everything that happened to me in my life hit me like a truck bc i was no longer living in survival mode and got to actually reflect on the stuff that happened at home. Sticking with therapy is hard for me, I tend to seek a therapist when I reach a bad peak in my life. Then i go for like 3-5 sessions, I usually get to the same point where I’ve told most of my story so I feel better at the time, then i ghost my therapist untill it gets bad again oops. But I would recommend therapy to everyone in their 20’s , even if its just a few sessions I think it’s really beneficial to sort some shit out in your life. I’d like to think I’m doing better since all of this shit started, but I’m still on a pretty big learning curve. But, I still love being in my twenties!! :) I would also urge people to cherish these times, our lives and bodies are only given to us once. Ive never felt so free as now, and I’ve never experienced such tender and beautiful friendships and relationships. Sure there are hard times, but getting to figure out and build up this life on my own has been one of the best things I’ve got to experience. Sorry for getting all rambly, I love how your videos make me think about stuff and I love engaging with them :) curious to see what you post next!
@@adrianaspeis I guess it’s because we’re young :/ I don’t fully blame them because I have svt, so when I’m not going through an attack you can’t see anything wrong with my heart. It’s not a dangerous arrhythmia but its very scary as my resting heart rate can suddenly be +200bpm, and having to go go the ER to get adenosine to “reset” your heartbeat is the worst 😅 I had to go to the ER during an attack to finally get my diagnosis
Great point about this being an incredible time in our lives, these past couple of months I keep thinking to myself that someday I'm gonna cherish the memories of the uncertainty and angst that I have rn. Cuz those feelings are what make this stage of life so meaningful, and what make figuring it all out eventually so fulfilling
I’m about to be 26 at the end of December and I’m still trying to figure myself out, so it just takes time from person-to-person… Am I the oldest person in here? Yikes.
I love your videos! Just wish the vocal volume was pumped up a little, I like to sleep without headsets but it’s super difficult to hear everything even at full volume.
Great vid! Ty for the honestyy. And lmao not the islamic fanatic XD, i getchu so bad lit last week I got into an uber w an intense christian (I myself already am catholic) and the guy just started prophecy explaining everything like relating life events to the bible and how it all just fits and i was so uncomfy lmaooo i just nodded and agreed quietly so he didnt get upset 😂😂
hey bro, bomb content! I've been subscribed since you posted your 1st vid months back. I'm out in San Francisco, I'm hoping to start an ASMR channel soon. I might ask some advice on the microphones you use 😅lol
i don’t know if i can think of lessons i’ve learned i think all the cliche lessons we learn throughout life are the one i most likely learned if that makes sense
Why is the camera always dying? lol I’m 31 so older than most here. I agree with you that you should let things go and be patient. I just left an abusive relationship and I know it fucked me up mentally. I want to change and grow but I’m mentally stuck in this place where I can’t trust anyone and feel like everyone I know is going to leave me. It’s going to take time to heal so patience is necessary to avoid going crazy in most areas of life.
Sadly it's cuz I can never do the full video in the first take and end up having to restart a bunch. I get obsessive about saying everything the way I want to and it results in a good take happening right as the camera is dying. The time heals all / patience combo is almost always the answer, just keep yourself busy and do your best bruh
I’ve been lying to my boyfriend about my age and told him I’m 22 when I’m actually 19. He keeps telling me I’m so mature and wise beyond my years and it’s because of videos like this. I like listening to people in their 20’s talk about their life so I can use that knowledge to come across as older. Sometimes I’ll just repeat the things I hear in the video or tell their stories like they’re mine. I don’t know if I’ll ever tell him the truth and I hope he doesn’t ever find my UA-cam. Anyway, great vid!
I’m sorry you experienced that thing in the uber with the driver. In Islam it is forbidden to what the driver did and I hope you don’t get any anger towords the religion. Thank you for your awesome whispers
Not at all, and I hope I didn't come off as being critical of Islam, it just caught me off guard and I was tired and hungry so it got to me more than it should've
Hi, from the UK here. As soon as you said you wanted to go to London I was like oh damn. I typically advise people not to go there 😂 Unfortunately uk cities are now rife with extremism, illegal immigration and a lot of them don’t care and will persist in trying to convert you. The crime in London has got so bad and common that the police won’t come help most of the time. Next time you come, definitely explore the true England, the town, villages, castles, seasides, mountains etc. so much better London is scary as hell and I don’t know how anybody feels comfortable living there.
That’s interesting, I went back w my best friend last October and loved it but visiting alone was a much different experience. I still liked it but was a lot more intimidated. That was also my first solo trip but being in a big city was scary at first. If you have recommendations on other places in the uk to visit I’d love to hear them cuz I’m dying to come back
@@jacobdreamsasmr This could be bias on my part, but coming from the north I'd really recommend coming up here for a different experience. I live in Leeds myself, it is one of the bigger cities in the UK in the north and it's a decent place, the general consensus seems to be that people in the north are friendlier and things are a little more slow-paced because most tourists obviously want to automatically see London and the more high profile areas. But personally, I'd recommend more seaside areas, especially northern seaside towns and rural/countryside areas, they're just as if not even more culturally rich in my experience, and really nostalgic to a lot of British people given that a holiday 30-40 years ago usually meant going to the seaside. Like the first commentor says, the big cities tend to be perceived as having the most wow factor, but it's the local areas in the UK that really give you the purest experience. Yorkshire, the county my city lies in, is the biggest in the UK and offers some of the finest experience; I'd highly recommend it! ;)
@@Howyafeeloutthere thank you so much for writing that out. I actually grew up watching the sidemen and I can't remember which of them it was, maybe harry, but he lived a little out of the city and it made me want to see the less suburban parts of the country. now that I have london out of the way and figured out how to use trains I think I'm gonna take some of your advice up when I go again
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it’s really sad that now it’s so rare to see such a wise person in your age,who understands things already so clear and shared with others. honestly,this video made me think about myself and brought to some another level. thank you so much for motivation you give!!
That's so sweet of you, rn I feel like I understand absolutely nothing but talking to you guys always leaves me in a better place than I was before posting
I’ve been listening to your ASMR videos nonstop for the past three days, and I love how genuine you are in everything you say and the advice you share.❤❤❤
i’m so glad you decided to consistently upload. your advice, stories and just rambling is so nice to listen to while doing mundane tasks.
I love these videos. every video I watch I want to walk away feeling like I learned something, and you’re videos make me feel like I’m actually filling my head with knowledge and not brain rot for once😂 keep it up bro!🫶
i turned 20 recently and i’m so nervous about what the future will hold, and have zero fkn clue what i’m doing… it’s really nice to hear you talk abt what seem to be shared experiences for ppl in their 20s, makes it feel less isolating
hit rock bottom at the end of last year, and i’m determined to focus on myself - whatever that means - until i’m no longer projecting my wounds onto myself and other people. therapy isn’t an option (i’m a uni student, it’s too expensive), so i’m kinda just making it up as i go, and i think videos like these help :)
being 21 i feel like my life went downhill after 20, but this video really put a lot of things in perspective to me, appreciate u
You've got so much time left girl you're gonna be more than fine. Just keep trying new stuff out until something sticks
The amount of appreciation i have for this channel is insane
I love how comforting you are as a person :)
I completely understand. I used to get anxious & intimidated when I had to go to social functions for work. Everyone seemed more educated or more experienced than me. At first I’d have a couple drinks to conquer my fears but eventually I decided to take a breath & see what I could learn from everyone. I started asking questions & it changed things so much. That said I also have British relatives. They’re very nice but can be very awkward to be around because their lifestyle is rather stuffy. We all need boundaries but you should NEVER let anyone make you feel “less than” you are. Some people need to be schooled for their rude or insulting behavior. You must always maintain your self respect & sometimes that means saying “I’m sorry. I really don’t appreciate what you’re doing/saying. Or, I’m not doing this with you.” You’re the only person that can set your boundaries. Otherwise you’ll never have control of how you are treated. You deserve better Jacob! Be strong & don’t put others feelings before your own. That’s how you give them control. Love you man!❤️
Your videos always seem to hit at the right times in my life! I loved when you talked about self improvement and if you’re always looking to change and be better at something, you won’t ever have a solid foundation to build on (you’ll never really “live” in the house if you’re always fixing the house). This is something I am currently working on because I am always looking to improve myself, but It’s so important to be present and appreciate things in the moment/ where you are in the process of life and adulthood. Great video!
I’m super glad that part resonated w you, it’s definitely been one of my more recent takeaways. Thanks for watching!
I love the combination of wisdom / personal development & ASMR it’s something you don’t often see on UA-cam and I love it ❤
Thank you! I love talking about all of that and I'm so glad people enjoy listening to it, too
U just seem hella chill bro subbed right away in the first 5 seconds just had a feeling.
You are the best my man! A whisky and cigar for you! Keep up the great work.
Loving the new background!!
Love these in your 20s advice/ur opinion type of videos need more even if it’s not 20s specific love em !
You have a good voice x
sweet purple background king 👍
Thank you for this ♥︎ It’s been a difficult year.
I can relate to all of the points you brought up. I really enjoy your videos, thanks for making such thoughtful content :)
Your videos are always top tier! 👌🏻💯
I was one of those kids who always "knew" what I wanted while people my age (at the time) seems kinda clueless about their future. Now i'm feeling stuck questioning my life decisions in my 20s while everybody seems to have achieved something in their life and i have no idea what went wrong while i ironically sing along to "Ain't It Fun" by Paramore and scared to find the more i relate to the movie "The Banshees of Inisherin"
Anyway i appreciate your video lol, keep up the good work 💜
Unrelated but you remind me of one of my fave filmmaker Xavier Dolan, you don't look like him but idk why the more the vid progress the more i see the resemblance 🤔
It's not a fun answer but I think it's just part of the process, and you're in that phase at a different point than everybody else. I think as long as you keep trying stuff you'll get clarity eventually. At least I hope so
My life chanced so much in my twenties its insane. I developed an arrhythmia which went undiagnosed for 2 years (they told me i just had stress) so for two years everyday I believed I might just drop dead bc they didn’t know what was wrong with me. This left me with massive health anxiety, while before all of this I rarely went to the doctors and stress was not a thing I really dealt with. If you told me at 18 I would get panic attacks by 21 I would have laughed and not believed you 😅
Also moving away from home everything that happened to me in my life hit me like a truck bc i was no longer living in survival mode and got to actually reflect on the stuff that happened at home. Sticking with therapy is hard for me, I tend to seek a therapist when I reach a bad peak in my life. Then i go for like 3-5 sessions, I usually get to the same point where I’ve told most of my story so I feel better at the time, then i ghost my therapist untill it gets bad again oops. But I would recommend therapy to everyone in their 20’s , even if its just a few sessions I think it’s really beneficial to sort some shit out in your life.
I’d like to think I’m doing better since all of this shit started, but I’m still on a pretty big learning curve. But, I still love being in my twenties!! :) I would also urge people to cherish these times, our lives and bodies are only given to us once. Ive never felt so free as now, and I’ve never experienced such tender and beautiful friendships and relationships. Sure there are hard times, but getting to figure out and build up this life on my own has been one of the best things I’ve got to experience.
Sorry for getting all rambly, I love how your videos make me think about stuff and I love engaging with them :) curious to see what you post next!
I also have an abnormal heart rhythm and I had to see three doctors before it was diagnosed.
@@adrianaspeis I guess it’s because we’re young :/ I don’t fully blame them because I have svt, so when I’m not going through an attack you can’t see anything wrong with my heart. It’s not a dangerous arrhythmia but its very scary as my resting heart rate can suddenly be +200bpm, and having to go go the ER to get adenosine to “reset” your heartbeat is the worst 😅 I had to go to the ER during an attack to finally get my diagnosis
Great point about this being an incredible time in our lives, these past couple of months I keep thinking to myself that someday I'm gonna cherish the memories of the uncertainty and angst that I have rn. Cuz those feelings are what make this stage of life so meaningful, and what make figuring it all out eventually so fulfilling
Someone get this guy a modeling contract please
I really liked your content, I just wished there's more ear to ear videos ❤
I am sorry for your negative experience with that Uber driver, we are not all like that.
i always look forward to your videos
Love your content!
When I clicked it was 666 views! Hahaha! The number of the beast! Heh heh!
I’m about to be 26 at the end of December and I’m still trying to figure myself out, so it just takes time from person-to-person… Am I the oldest person in here? Yikes.
thanks man🙌🏽
I love your videos! Just wish the vocal volume was pumped up a little, I like to sleep without headsets but it’s super difficult to hear everything even at full volume.
I turned it up a bit in the vid I'm posting tmr so lmk how it sounds
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Great vid! Ty for the honestyy. And lmao not the islamic fanatic XD, i getchu so bad lit last week I got into an uber w an intense christian (I myself already am catholic) and the guy just started prophecy explaining everything like relating life events to the bible and how it all just fits and i was so uncomfy lmaooo i just nodded and agreed quietly so he didnt get upset 😂😂
Yeah you're not exactly in the position to disagree when a quick left turn could end your entire existence
You look like the vilain everyone simps over in every movie, the hot and mysterious-looking one. And I love it.
hey bro, bomb content! I've been subscribed since you posted your 1st vid months back. I'm out in San Francisco, I'm hoping to start an ASMR channel soon. I might ask some advice on the microphones you use 😅lol
Rode podmic and scarlett 2i2 audio interface. Thanks for watching!
i don’t know if i can think of lessons i’ve learned i think all the cliche lessons we learn throughout life are the one i most likely learned if that makes sense
The older I get the more I realize all the cliche stuff is true
model. just do it. TRUST ME JUST DO IT. fawk the noise.
i’m only 30 seconds in i’ll comment smth serious later 🧘♀️..
Hi Jacob 👋. Have a good day ☀️.
just found him 😌
Why is the camera always dying?
lol
I’m 31 so older than most here. I agree with you that you should let things go and be patient. I just left an abusive relationship and I know it fucked me up mentally. I want to change and grow but I’m mentally stuck in this place where I can’t trust anyone and feel like everyone I know is going to leave me. It’s going to take time to heal so patience is necessary to avoid going crazy in most areas of life.
Sadly it's cuz I can never do the full video in the first take and end up having to restart a bunch. I get obsessive about saying everything the way I want to and it results in a good take happening right as the camera is dying.
The time heals all / patience combo is almost always the answer, just keep yourself busy and do your best bruh
I turn 20 in 5 months 😅
I’ve been lying to my boyfriend about my age and told him I’m 22 when I’m actually 19. He keeps telling me I’m so mature and wise beyond my years and it’s because of videos like this. I like listening to people in their 20’s talk about their life so I can use that knowledge to come across as older. Sometimes I’ll just repeat the things I hear in the video or tell their stories like they’re mine. I don’t know if I’ll ever tell him the truth and I hope he doesn’t ever find my UA-cam. Anyway, great vid!
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you're wicked
What the hell
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Ur eyes are fucking beautiful
These videos make me want to better myself 🤌
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I’ve never been in a relationship and I am 20
Don’t stress it you’ve got so much time left. You’re still a baby
@@jacobdreamsasmrWhat’s your instagram ?
I’m sorry you experienced that thing in the uber with the driver. In Islam it is forbidden to what the driver did and I hope you don’t get any anger towords the religion. Thank you for your awesome whispers
Not at all, and I hope I didn't come off as being critical of Islam, it just caught me off guard and I was tired and hungry so it got to me more than it should've
Pleeeeease make a tapping your favorite triggers video.. shake it up a bit
I've been debating trying one for a couple of weeks, what are your favorite tapping triggers
Love finger tip tapping on books phone screens!
My god you had bad luck with the Uber driver. I hope you've reported him on the app after
I actually gave him 5 stars and a tip cuz i'm a pushover sadly
Jesus loves you bro
Hi, from the UK here.
As soon as you said you wanted to go to London I was like oh damn. I typically advise people not to go there 😂
Unfortunately uk cities are now rife with extremism, illegal immigration and a lot of them don’t care and will persist in trying to convert you. The crime in London has got so bad and common that the police won’t come help most of the time. Next time you come, definitely explore the true England, the town, villages, castles, seasides, mountains etc. so much better
London is scary as hell and I don’t know how anybody feels comfortable living there.
That’s interesting, I went back w my best friend last October and loved it but visiting alone was a much different experience. I still liked it but was a lot more intimidated. That was also my first solo trip but being in a big city was scary at first. If you have recommendations on other places in the uk to visit I’d love to hear them cuz I’m dying to come back
@@jacobdreamsasmr This could be bias on my part, but coming from the north I'd really recommend coming up here for a different experience. I live in Leeds myself, it is one of the bigger cities in the UK in the north and it's a decent place, the general consensus seems to be that people in the north are friendlier and things are a little more slow-paced because most tourists obviously want to automatically see London and the more high profile areas. But personally, I'd recommend more seaside areas, especially northern seaside towns and rural/countryside areas, they're just as if not even more culturally rich in my experience, and really nostalgic to a lot of British people given that a holiday 30-40 years ago usually meant going to the seaside. Like the first commentor says, the big cities tend to be perceived as having the most wow factor, but it's the local areas in the UK that really give you the purest experience. Yorkshire, the county my city lies in, is the biggest in the UK and offers some of the finest experience; I'd highly recommend it! ;)
@@Howyafeeloutthere thank you so much for writing that out. I actually grew up watching the sidemen and I can't remember which of them it was, maybe harry, but he lived a little out of the city and it made me want to see the less suburban parts of the country. now that I have london out of the way and figured out how to use trains I think I'm gonna take some of your advice up when I go again