Ok for the common questions: Yes I know our local grocery store is more expensive than Walmart. But it is close and is our local store, in our local town. Thomas works there, and the store has over $3,000 in store credit there for us right now -we support them all we can. The name of the game we were playing is called Tsuro. It supports our whole family, plays in 20 minutes and is one of our favorites. Yes our dog Knuckles is 14 years old, is blind and deaf and possibly got a little dementia and a severe skin allergy, I don't think he will last too much longer, but as long as he isn't in pain, he is our family and we won't put him down until we have to. We have been to the vet multiple times, they prescribed the medicine after all. Asher is sad sometimes and not other times. His grief thus far has been healthy. We play video games together in the evenings and it helps us take both of our minds off of things. He is actually doing quite well.
Praying for all of you as you find your new normal. I know it’s hard to but ignore the haters. Seems like some people have nothing better to do than offer unwanted criticism.
Of course Asher is sad sometimes and happy others. His life has been radically changed. It sounds very normal and a part of the grief process. Stay strong.
Tom, what a wonderful town you live in! People come together and support each other when needed. Andrea always mentioned that she supports local stores. She liked the meat specials there. I am glad you are getting help from your sister-in-law and mother and maybe getting back into your work routine. God bless you and your beautiful family...
Im crying. Her computer. The side of the bed that hasn’t been slept in. All her labels in the fridge. 😔 I didn’t know her personally, but she changed my life as a mother and wife for the better.
Note to all the trolls and haters: Leave this family they’ve been through enough and they don’t need your hate. There wasn’t anything Andrea did to give herself cancer and to say that is insane. There’s nothing wrong with eating healthy and having a few junk food splurges here and there. Please just be nice and supportive this family needs all the love and support we can give them and not have negative judgmental people coming after them. Please remember the bible says do onto others as you do onto me and don’t judge or you too will be judged in the very same manner.
I agree its a beautiful family. But the Bible although tells judge righteous.its in the kjv Bible Gods divine unchanged word. Dont leave it out. Like the Lgbt people don't judge don't judge. Its although judge righteous. There is no reason to be mean i think its a beautiful family. God bless you all ❤️❤️😊🙏
I agree with ms. Sherry they are trying to get some of there life back. He’s trying as hard as he can to be there for his family . So just back off. Love you Tom and your family and I think about Andrea.
All the kids are so amazing but there is something special about Asher :) He is so sweet with the little ones and watching him do Hannahs hair was precious
Yes. Please. You aren't taking any money from viewers hands. Let us help support you by hitting subscribe, like, and playing videos through the ads. She left you this gift...use it. And remember...videos over 10 minutes garner more income due to the ability to have ads in the video. (A youtuber did a great video about how monetization works recently in case you need info.)
Here's my 2 cents on the monetization. If nothing else, those babies (big ones included) are gonna need you now more than ever. I'm all for the monetization!! Much love!!❤❤
To those complaining about Mountain Dew.... At least The mills are drinking fizzy instead of smoking drugs or cigarettes or drinking alcohol. Eating candy and drinking fizzy is not a sin.
@@ms.anonymousinformer242 there is a time and place for everything. this is not the time for you to be giving out parenting advice. its like youre twisting a knife right now. I hope you sleep well at night. wether they have soda and sweets or not, your comments will not help anything in any way. your thoughts mean nothing to anyone. you are hurting people who are already in pain. good for you.. so just back off for now,, how about that...
I know! It’s not other people’s place to judge them...also, they are kids! people need to give them a break and not judge them all the time... losing your mom and then even also getting judged on what they eat is really not cool.
It's no one's business what they do or eat or drink . There's always those that feel they have the right to say things. Wrong you don't have the right.
Your doing a great job. Again Andrea would be proud of you and the children. You know better than anyone what your family needs and deserves. Continued prayers for everyone.
Penny Helms Amen! All the “helpful” people and nah sayers need to remain silent! Maybe we should be praying for them too? Thank you Tom for allowing us to see how things are going.
Its the parents that baby their kids and give them anything they want. The same parents that think children shouldn't do chores and have responsibilities.
Tom, you mentioned in a previous video that you were not sure if Andrea had Life Insurance, I remember watching a budgeting video that Andrea made maybe a couple years ago that it was one of the items she paid every month, if so, maybe that can also help with you being able to be home more with the children. I'm so glad you found the menu cards. I'm so sorry for your loss, I've been watching this channel off and on for years now and I'm thankful that you are still sharing videos with us. Sending good thoughts to you and your family.
Also if all else fails it is pretty common across all states for the company to send a statement of coverages and benefits at least once a year or you may see a bill pop up in the mail.
Sara Williams that’s a bond that can never be broken. My oldest daughter and my youngest daughter of 7 kids has an amazing bond and still do even after she passed away from a severe asthma attack October 21, 2017. She misses her so but has an amazing bond with her still. Miss seeing them together though. That’s something I’ll always miss.
Yes. I can’t believe people would say something about a home that someone lives in. Not everyone can afford a big home. A home is what you make it not what it looks like. Love and family is what makes a home
I lost my mom suddenly when I was 16 and I took care of my family. I helped my dad because I knew that my mom would want that. I never regretted doing what had to be done. I took care of my younger brother who was 10. We grew closer because of it. You handle things the best you know how. God Bless You and this precious family. Praying for you all.
Years ago growing up in a large family, I experienced the sudden death of my mother. But having six siblings made us feel like there was plenty of love in the home. Just wanted to say, that these days now may be sad and grief filled, but there will be happy days ahead and joy will once again fill your hearts. So happy that your children have these wonderful videos of their loving Mother. May God bless you!!
Didn’t get through the first minute without crying. My heart hurts for your family and the profound sense of loss you feel without your precious wife & mama. I’m so glad that you have your own mama and Andrea’s sister there to help. Continually praying for all of you.
I would say monetize. What a great gift from Andrea to help support her beloved family for their future, if you should need it. I really miss Andrea too. Thank you for still posting. God bless you.
My mother was killed in a car accident when I was 11, and it was obviously the defining moment of my life. But unlike your children, we were not encourage to talk about her or grieve her loss; it was almost like she never existed. You are doing a fantastic job of raising your children, Tom. Andrea must be so proud of you all.
This sounds strange, but watching you all go through this and seeing Andrea die, made me appreciate you letting us into your life and made me love all the UA-cam families I watch that much more precious. Thank you, your all doing wonderfully. We are praying for you.
Who else watched with a lump in your throat the whole time? I never thought I could miss someone I never met. I have been praying for your family every single day. Keep strong, Our God is a wonderful Father.
Tom it sounds like you are doing the best for your family and no one else knows what they need better than you. Your family is greatly loved. The kids helping is a good thing for everone. Thank you for keeping the channel going. We will support you.
I love that idea, it's a great way for us viewers to contribute to her family. Her channel is getting so much views. Now would be a great time for them to monetize.
I have binge watched in the past... whenever I'm having a bad day... her voice alone calms me so much.. I've been watching old videos almost every day since she left... I'm so happy Tom is even considering monetizing the channel
As to the size of your family's house, a large house often means that family members have a space to go off and away from the rest of the family to pout and feed the fuel of anger and separation, where as in a small house, people learn to forgive and move on, or even overlook and ignore grievances. I know this because I had to live in a motel room with my two daughters when our apartment was being renovated. We got along so much better when we lived in the space the size of your kitchen than we did when we lived in a full two bedroom apartment. You and Andrea made the right decision in buying your home, and raising your family there, and having every child you have. Each one is an absolute blessing to your family, your community, and one day to our heavenly community! Prayers as always, every day, for your family, to be comforted, encouraged, to find joy, and to be blessed!
I'm old enough to be your mother. I'm sitting in my recliner in Vancouver BC just amazed at the wisdom God has given you. Beautiful video. Thank you ❤️ And yes it's really healthy for the kids to step up. (new subscriber)
I live just down the road from you, in Surrey. I am the same as you...old enough to be the both the mother and grandmother. I have followed Andrea and Tom and their amazing family for a few years now. I agree with you 100%.
@@shannonmiller9548 hi Shannon 👍 I watched one of Andrea's video about a year ago. The boys bedroom tour. I didn't understand UA-cam then and lost track of her. When she was so ill her name was everywhere. People asking for prayer for her. I just started following the family a few days ago, but today at the grocery store she was all I could think of. She was an amazing woman. I'm so sorry for the world's loss of such a wise down to year young woman. 💔
That must be a very frustrating part of putting aspects of your family life online... People then coming and seeming to think they know your family better than their actual family does.
Please don't apologize to uninformed strangers for living your lives as you chose. It's nobody's business. You and your children are doing what families should, taking care of each other. Although I have never met you or your lovely family, my heart breaks for each of you. Thanks for letting us be a small part of your life. I think of your family every day. Bless you all.
Since there are ads I assumed you decided to monetize? I honestly think you made a good decision! Even if you decide to demonetize later, at least you have the extra income to catch you breath. I will continue praying for you.
Tom, I know that you need to take care of the children, the income, the animals, but most importantly you need to take care of yourself. Your family all depend on you. Don’t forget to take time for yourself to grieve. Maybe you will be able to take some help from others and take some time to be by yourself and start the healing process.
She still will get grandchildren and watch her family grow. She may not be tangible but she is there. Just watching I still feel her. You’re doing awesome Tom, I wish I could do more to help. Sending love and prayers to you and your family.
I’m still feeling Heartbroken but this is Heartwarming.....I loved this vlog- this is well produced Tom. We are ALL with you. Sending love and gratitude to you all for all you have done to bring light, love and God’s spiritual teachings to the world through your family. ♥️
Im crying as i watch this video memories flood my mind I was widowed at a young age with only 2 daughters to raise I can say with all certainty The Lord Jesus will give you strength and send those people to assist with practical help I am praying daily for your precious family and especially you Tom He is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. GOD IS FAITHFUL please remember to get enough rest grieving can be exhausting
Just lost my hubby of 39 years, and my bed looks just like yours does, too! So sorry you lost your best friend so soon! Our relationship wasn't perfect by any means, but I so miss sharing my yenta moments with him. Love your vdos. We're Jewish, but very spiritual also. God really doesnt descriminate. Sadly, people do.
I genuinely miss you Andrea. 😔 Tom you are being such a rock for your family. Thank you for being so open and continuing to let us have a glimpse into your life. We will help in any way we can.
Please don't be afraid to lean on your family, friends and community if needed. You're doing a great job and Andrea would be so proud of you and the kids.
Tom don't worry what people think....they don't have to pay your bills, buy your groceries, cloth your kids. Little did Andrea know that she was setting this wonderful Utube station up and had it growing to over 100K that this may be an asset after all. Monetize it and it will give you extra money to be home more with your beautiful children. Tom you have your job cut out for you. She was wonder women....she was the Rock of your family . She had her routines. Now, it will take time to develop your routine. God will guide you with help of the older children. You have to do what is best for you to make your family comfortable and happy. God bless.,
Tom I want to encourage you. You're doing a great job. May you be blessed, blessed, blessed. May Father God have his hand upon you and your family. You know you have some difficult days ahead but you have so many people who are praying for you and want to see you and your family florish. God bless you. Xx
You all are amazing !!!! I’m a mom of 6kids,was married ,divorced to a single mom my kids were my strength !!!!God will get you all through the rainbow will shine after the storm !!!❤Andrea will always be there through all the little things !!!
Tom , I’m a new subscriber here, I’m gonna tell u something my sweet friend, your wife led me to this channel, but you and those kids kept me here! Keep up with the amazing job! Life is never easy or far, but each day is a gift, a blessing, the joy of our Fathers heart and he loves you! Love u brother! ❤️
My kids don’t have their father anymore, but for the last 2 years I’ve been doing it! I’m mom and dad and with teens it’s been a challenge. U make me proud as a single mom cuz yes my friend it can be done! ❤️
I will let your channel running all night to support you with commercials. I just started to watch your channel days before Andrea pass away. I’m very sorry.
recently i found out my baby will be born with a fatal skeletal dysplasia and watching andrea’s videos had helped me so much with coping with everyday life. i really appreciate you keeping the channel alive for everyone and especially myself.
I am so sorry to hear this. My son was also diagnosed with a fatal condition while in the womb. We did our best to make as many memories as we could with him even though most of it was done while I was carrying him. Sending love and prayers your way. ♥️♥️♥️
Goodness knows you don't have to keep this channel going but it is a blessing to all who watch it. Thank you for this video. It was very well done! You are doing an amazing job! Continuing to pray for your whole family!
Mine too, Julianne! Me too! I grieve for them, and am so saddened by all the hurtful comments people are leaving. This is a time to support, encourage, embrace, and console, not judge or criticize.
Tom, I’m glad you addressed that about stepping up, kids these days are out of control and it’s the parents fault. I could never see ur kids being disrespectful to anyone and it’s because of the way they are being raised. To the new people this is a very honest god loving family that truly love each other and love there home so please be respectful, and enjoy a real family not like the rest on you tube. And there will not be another Andrea she loved her kids so much!! Tom your doing great!! Love from Tennessee
I just have to say that I love how you talk about Andrea with your kids. When my family experienced loss when I was a child no one talked about it, and it just made the grief so much worse. You are keeping her alive and in time your children will thank you for it.
I miss seeing Andrea’s videos 😢 I see the hurt in the older kids eyes the younger kids really don’t understand what happened ..... I think about Andrea all the time and my heart breaks 💔 I have been watching all of her videos and it’s very sad knowing she’s no longer here with her family 😢 she was such a loving mom and wife and had a big kind heart ♥️ I pray that God helps all of you get through this dark time in your life’s 🙏🏼 I know Andrea is looking down at her family and she’s very proud that her family is still continuing just like she was there ..... Thanks for sharing Tom I know it’s not easy being a dad & mom but your doing a great job Andrea would be so proud of you ♥️ her family was her whole life anyone watching her videos could tell that.... I hope anyone watching these videos will have only kind words to say and if they don’t they need to keep it to themselves because words can hurt and this family doesn’t deserve anymore hurt in their life’s ♥️
Little kids can be odd in how they process grief or pain. Seeming to understand one day and then not another, serious one minute and playing the next... I think they just grieve in their own way?
God is, indeed, in charge. I've always wondered how anyone can deal with such a devastating loss without faith. When we lost our son, our faith was our relief. Keeping you and your precious family lifted in prayer.
Same when I lost my daughter. People asked how are you doing this all. I always said Jesus is my comfort and guide without him I'd truly be lost and probably not even here since it would've been a burden too great to bear.
Thank you for bringing us back into your life. Continued prayer and blessing to you and your family. Yes please monetize and I will be one of your biggest supporters! Love you Mills family....
Hi Tom, thinking of you and your family. I think of you guys often. I never doubt that you won’t be able to handle things because you do understand what Andrea’s goals were because I believe they are yours too. I’m here to support you.❤️
I heard about you from Amy Maryon. I subscribed then. Andrea was in the hospital at that time. My prayers are with you and your family. I’ve been watching the back posts. She left you a diary of everything she did and how to do it all. She was preparing them for you for this time, Jesus knew you would need this information. God Bless you and your family. Praying 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am a new subscriber. You are a great father. The love you and Andrea shared was absolutely amazing. So beautiful to watch the genuineness. She was an amazing woman. Praying for you and your family. Thank you for this beautiful and heartfelt video.
I've been binge watching the vlogs. I became a subscriber after Andrea passed, when Jamerell made a video and mentioned Andreas passing. I wish I was a viewer when Andrea was still here. I love your family and I weirdly feel close to you all. I dont have a big family, I'm not religious, I don't home school my son but still I feel so close to you all. Andrea felt like home. I see her and I have an instant comfort in my heart. I wish you would monitize the videos, i can't help out with money but I sure can help out with views and likes! Like I said I'm not religous but you and your family have been in my thoughts everyday. My Mom passed away 6 years ago when I was 23 in a very similar way to Andreas passing. I am comforted knowing they're out of pain, and there's a reason for everything happening and this, even how unfortunate and sad it is, it was just meant to be. Much love to you, Tom and to all of those beautiful children!
Thank you for caring about your children and especially to raise them to love God as well as each other and also to work together. God Bless you and your family.
New subscriber here! Sadly I didn’t know you all before Andrea passed. I found out about you all from so many channels that were heartbroken for your family. I felt the need to check your channel out and I want to let you all know from just the few videos I have watched I am touched by you all and your faith in Christ❤️ keep on keepin’ on and God Bless!
Our hearts break along with yours. When you feel lonely or want to throw in the towel, remember you are being prayed for each and every day. God BLESS you all.
hey tom. i just wanna say, it’ll get better. my dad passed away when i was 8. i’m 15 now. and at first, it was really hard on me, my brother and sister and my mom. it took awhile but we got through it. just know that she’s looking down on you guys from heaven and smiling. i know how hard it is to loose someone close. stay strong tom. we all love you guys
Oh Tom, I want to tell you that you are doing a fantastic job. It can't be easy. This is all still raw. Take your time. Everything will come around in time. Allow yourself some grace. Your videos are a reminder for me to slow down and live in the moment. God is in control and he is good. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Your home is beautiful absolutely beautiful, furnished with live , filled with the Holy Spirit , you are doing incredible work with your family , and you are totally doing the very best for your family.
Nothing happens that isn't filtered through God's hands. God is still in charge. God is still on the throne. We may not understand but God does. Blessings...
I found you because of being a large family in a small house. That’s literally what I googled to find you. It’s all we could afford and I was not very content about it. Her videos helped me find contentment and get excited about it. As we were able to get a slightly bigger house she helped me find contentment in other areas. I am so grateful for the channel. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.
I can clearly see that you are trying your best and thats all you can do! Nobody can tell you how to do things because they arent in your shoes or in your home. Lots of love to all of you- ive been praying for you often!
Your life is YOUR life and your children’s. You have the right live it as you see fit. Do not let others tell you how to live it. You are doing a great job, and Andrea , I know , is proud of you. Keep on living as you are and God will be helping you. God be with you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Ok for the common questions:
Yes I know our local grocery store is more expensive than Walmart. But it is close and is our local store, in our local town. Thomas works there, and the store has over $3,000 in store credit there for us right now -we support them all we can.
The name of the game we were playing is called Tsuro. It supports our whole family, plays in 20 minutes and is one of our favorites.
Yes our dog Knuckles is 14 years old, is blind and deaf and possibly got a little dementia and a severe skin allergy, I don't think he will last too much longer, but as long as he isn't in pain, he is our family and we won't put him down until we have to. We have been to the vet multiple times, they prescribed the medicine after all.
Asher is sad sometimes and not other times. His grief thus far has been healthy. We play video games together in the evenings and it helps us take both of our minds off of things. He is actually doing quite well.
Praying for all of you as you find your new normal. I know it’s hard to but ignore the haters. Seems like some people have nothing better to do than offer unwanted criticism.
Seriously? People are telling you to shop at Walmart and that your dog is too old to live? They need a new pair of glasses just like you described !
Of course Asher is sad sometimes and happy others. His life has been radically changed. It sounds very normal and a part of the grief process. Stay strong.
God Bless you all love them Chrildern.💙💜
Tom, what a wonderful town you live in! People come together and support each other when needed. Andrea always mentioned that she supports local stores. She liked the meat specials there. I am glad you are getting help from your sister-in-law and mother and maybe getting back into your work routine. God bless you and your beautiful family...
Thanks Tom for allowing us in your life ❤️
I think of Andrea every single day and pray for you
Same here
Same 😭🙏
Same 😙
I’m the same too! ❤️ I’m so thankful that God is in control! My heart is sore for all of them! ❤️xxx
Me too!
Im crying.
Her computer. The side of the bed that hasn’t been slept in. All her labels in the fridge. 😔
I didn’t know her personally, but she changed my life as a mother and wife for the better.
Note to all the trolls and haters:
Leave this family they’ve been through enough and they don’t need your hate. There wasn’t anything Andrea did to give herself cancer and to say that is insane. There’s nothing wrong with eating healthy and having a few junk food splurges here and there. Please just be nice and supportive this family needs all the love and support we can give them and not have negative judgmental people coming after them. Please remember the bible says do onto others as you do onto me and don’t judge or you too will be judged in the very same manner.
100% agree!! If you going to hate and give negative comments..this is not the channel for you!
I agree its a beautiful family. But the Bible although tells judge righteous.its in the kjv Bible Gods divine unchanged word. Dont leave it out. Like the Lgbt people don't judge don't judge. Its although judge righteous. There is no reason to be mean i think its a beautiful family. God bless you all ❤️❤️😊🙏
I agree with ms. Sherry they are trying to get some of there life back. He’s trying as hard as he can to be there for his family . So just back off. Love you Tom and your family and I think about Andrea.
Agreed
Amen.....I have never been to close to this channel, but that is beside the point...Amen and Alleluia!
All the kids are so amazing but there is something special about Asher :) He is so sweet with the little ones and watching him do Hannahs hair was precious
Jessica Eaton I agree! I was gonna say the same thing ♥️
If you think you need to monetize, do it!! I will always support you!
Same here, I so wish he would. I can't imagine their pain. We only know her thorough here, I think her a the time it breaks my heart for them all.
Yes, Tom we are with you and your family. God Bless you.
Katie Delight What does it mean to monetise UA-cam?
Katie Delight Absolutely 1000%
@@julietannOsfan1972 It means allowing ads on your channel. UA-cam then gives you some money from the advertisers.
Your life has changed. Please monetize for the good of your family. ♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻
Yes. Please. You aren't taking any money from viewers hands. Let us help support you by hitting subscribe, like, and playing videos through the ads. She left you this gift...use it.
And remember...videos over 10 minutes garner more income due to the ability to have ads in the video. (A youtuber did a great video about how monetization works recently in case you need info.)
Monetize and patreon your time is valuable
If your going to monetize I would do it sooner than later. Your getting more views and subscribers..
Exactly use the increase of views for the family.
Crissy Presents Marleighs Magical Moments yes!!! This!!!
Crissy Presents Marleighs Magical Moments what does it mean to “monetize” the channel?
@@kl-yp3xi Allow commercials on the videos. Then you can get some money from UA-cam, depending how many people watch.
kl 4018 allowing commercials to run through his videos and the count of subscribers count as well. Most you tubers do it
Here's my 2 cents on the monetization. If nothing else, those babies (big ones included) are gonna need you now more than ever. I'm all for the monetization!! Much love!!❤❤
To those complaining about Mountain Dew.... At least The mills are drinking fizzy instead of smoking drugs or cigarettes or drinking alcohol.
Eating candy and drinking fizzy is not a sin.
As long as the kids are not doing the stimulant drugs in MD, it's okay. Occasionally.
@@ms.anonymousinformer242 there is a time and place for everything. this is not the time for you to be giving out parenting advice. its like youre twisting a knife right now. I hope you sleep well at night. wether they have soda and sweets or not, your comments will not help anything in any way. your thoughts mean nothing to anyone. you are hurting people who are already in pain. good for you.. so just back off for now,, how about that...
I know! It’s not other people’s place to judge them...also, they are kids! people need to give them a break and not judge them all the time... losing your mom and then even also getting judged on what they eat is really not cool.
I agree 100 percent
It's no one's business what they do or eat or drink . There's always those that feel they have the right to say things. Wrong you don't have the right.
Your doing a great job. Again Andrea would be proud of you and the children. You know better than anyone what your family needs and deserves. Continued prayers for everyone.
Absolutely right!!!
Penny Helms Amen! All the “helpful” people and nah sayers need to remain silent! Maybe we should be praying for them too? Thank you Tom for allowing us to see how things are going.
Penny Helms - Amen
Haters dont pay your bills,eaise your children, DO NOTTTTT pay attention to them.
True Life Average Jane Vlog amen!!!
Well said 🤗
I hope the kids don't read such comments :(.
I do not understand how anyone could criticize or hate on your family or your beautiful family values 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️. You are an inspiration to my life.
Its the parents that baby their kids and give them anything they want. The same parents that think children shouldn't do chores and have responsibilities.
The person who sent those lockets was the must amazing idea and I can’t stop crying thank you for sending the girls that it best gift ever
Yes! Also so nice of someone to offer to make pillows out of her shirts for the kids!
Tom, you mentioned in a previous video that you were not sure if Andrea had Life Insurance, I remember watching a budgeting video that Andrea made maybe a couple years ago that it was one of the items she paid every month, if so, maybe that can also help with you being able to be home more with the children. I'm so glad you found the menu cards. I'm so sorry for your loss, I've been watching this channel off and on for years now and I'm thankful that you are still sharing videos with us. Sending good thoughts to you and your family.
Also if all else fails it is pretty common across all states for the company to send a statement of coverages and benefits at least once a year or you may see a bill pop up in the mail.
I just love Asher! His bond with Hannah is amazing!! Y’all made great kids Tom!
Sara Williams that’s a bond that can never be broken. My oldest daughter and my youngest daughter of 7 kids has an amazing bond and still do even after she passed away from a severe asthma attack October 21, 2017. She misses her so but has an amazing bond with her still. Miss seeing them together though. That’s something I’ll always miss.
Sara Williams Asher is my favorite too!! He reminds me of my son, kinda looks like him too lol
You're doing great Tom. You're home is small,cozy and full of love.
Yes. I can’t believe people would say something about a home that someone lives in. Not everyone can afford a big home. A home is what you make it not what it looks like. Love and family is what makes a home
Just don't forget you. Take a few minutes each day too relax and clear your mind. You are important.
Absolutely!!! This is very very important thing to remember
I agree 100%♥️🙏
If you monetize, I will watch every ad!!
It's nice to be able to watch ads at last as it's all I am able to do to help. I just wish there were more of them to watch.
I feel the same way Tara Wright!
Me to
Yeah, I usually skip ads but have been biting the bit through all of theirs 💞
I lost my mom suddenly when I was 16 and I took care of my family. I helped my dad because I knew that my mom would want that. I never regretted doing what had to be done. I took care of my younger brother who was 10. We grew closer because of it. You handle things the best you know how. God Bless You and this precious family. Praying for you all.
Years ago growing up in a large family, I experienced the sudden death of my mother. But having six siblings made us feel like there was plenty of love in the home. Just wanted to say, that these days now may be sad and grief filled, but there will be happy days ahead and joy will once again fill your hearts. So happy that your children have these wonderful videos of their loving Mother. May God bless you!!
Bless your ❤️
The angel in the beginning with Andrea,absolutely beautiful.
Didn’t get through the first minute without crying. My heart hurts for your family and the profound sense of loss you feel without your precious wife & mama. I’m so glad that you have your own mama and Andrea’s sister there to help. Continually praying for all of you.
I would say monetize. What a great gift from Andrea to help support her beloved family for their future, if you should need it.
I really miss Andrea too. Thank you for still posting. God bless you.
My mother was killed in a car accident when I was 11, and it was obviously the defining moment of my life. But unlike your children, we were not encourage to talk about her or grieve her loss; it was almost like she never existed. You are doing a fantastic job of raising your children, Tom. Andrea must be so proud of you all.
This sounds strange, but watching you all go through this and seeing Andrea die, made me appreciate you letting us into your life and made me love all the UA-cam families I watch that much more precious. Thank you, your all doing wonderfully. We are praying for you.
This comment is so sincere.... So true too❤️
Who else watched with a lump in your throat the whole time? I never thought I could miss someone I never met. I have been praying for your family every single day. Keep strong, Our God is a wonderful Father.
Yes. I especially got sad when he showed the bed with her side untouched.
Yes!! I never knew of Andrea I til after her passing and watching her videos I feel like I've known her years and seeing Tom now breaks my heart
Tom it sounds like you are doing the best for your family and no one else knows what they need better than you. Your family is greatly loved. The kids helping is a good thing for everone. Thank you for keeping the channel going. We will support you.
I agree love this Family.
Let us know when you monetize, I know I have Andreas videos playing all the time! I'll set up a nice playlist and set them to play!! Keep your head up
I love that idea, it's a great way for us viewers to contribute to her family. Her channel is getting so much views. Now would be a great time for them to monetize.
Same here!
I’ll do the same!
I have binge watched in the past... whenever I'm having a bad day... her voice alone calms me so much.. I've been watching old videos almost every day since she left... I'm so happy Tom is even considering monetizing the channel
Your such a beautiful person for suggesting that💞
As to the size of your family's house, a large house often means that family members have a space to go off and away from the rest of the family to pout and feed the fuel of anger and separation, where as in a small house, people learn to forgive and move on, or even overlook and ignore grievances. I know this because I had to live in a motel room with my two daughters when our apartment was being renovated. We got along so much better when we lived in the space the size of your kitchen than we did when we lived in a full two bedroom apartment.
You and Andrea made the right decision in buying your home, and raising your family there, and having every child you have. Each one is an absolute blessing to your family, your community, and one day to our heavenly community!
Prayers as always, every day, for your family, to be comforted, encouraged, to find joy, and to be blessed!
I'm old enough to be your mother. I'm sitting in my recliner in Vancouver BC just amazed at the wisdom God has given you. Beautiful video. Thank you ❤️ And yes it's really healthy for the kids to step up. (new subscriber)
I couldn’t agree any more. There is nothing wrong in helping out with the family.
I live just down the road from you, in Surrey. I am the same as you...old enough to be the both the mother and grandmother. I have followed Andrea and Tom and their amazing family for a few years now. I agree with you 100%.
Welcome to the Family!!
@@shannonmiller9548 hi Shannon 👍 I watched one of Andrea's video about a year ago. The boys bedroom tour. I didn't understand UA-cam then and lost track of her. When she was so ill her name was everywhere. People asking for prayer for her. I just started following the family a few days ago, but today at the grocery store she was all I could think of. She was an amazing woman. I'm so sorry for the world's loss of such a wise down to year young woman. 💔
Of course you are the expert on Andrea and you definitely know what she would want . You are doing an amazing job.
That must be a very frustrating part of putting aspects of your family life online... People then coming and seeming to think they know your family better than their actual family does.
TOM YOU ARE A VERY WISE MAN...TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS....GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY !!
Please don't apologize to uninformed strangers for living your lives as you chose. It's nobody's business. You and your children are doing what families should, taking care of each other. Although I have never met you or your lovely family, my heart breaks for each of you. Thanks for letting us be a small part of your life. I think of your family every day. Bless you all.
The videos are a rich legacy that Andrea left for you.
Since there are ads I assumed you decided to monetize? I honestly think you made a good decision! Even if you decide to demonetize later, at least you have the extra income to catch you breath. I will continue praying for you.
Anna Massarelli I didn't have any ads
I didn't see a ad.
I didn't have any ads, weird. I wonder if he monetized or not?! This video is so long (yay!) That i should've had a hundred ads, lol.
I didnt get any adds
Miss Andrea so much and baby Hannah is so darn cute
Tom, I know that you need to take care of the children, the income, the animals, but most importantly you need to take care of yourself. Your family all depend on you. Don’t forget to take time for yourself to grieve. Maybe you will be able to take some help from others and take some time to be by yourself and start the healing process.
She still will get grandchildren and watch her family grow. She may not be tangible but she is there. Just watching I still feel her. You’re doing awesome Tom, I wish I could do more to help. Sending love and prayers to you and your family.
I’m still feeling Heartbroken but this is Heartwarming.....I loved this vlog- this is well produced Tom.
We are ALL with you. Sending love and gratitude to you all for all you have done to bring light, love and God’s spiritual teachings to the world through your family. ♥️
Im crying as i watch this video memories flood my mind I was widowed at a young age with only 2 daughters to raise I can say with all certainty The Lord Jesus will give you strength and send those people to assist with practical help I am praying daily for your precious family and especially you Tom He is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. GOD IS FAITHFUL please remember to get enough rest grieving can be exhausting
Oh, the lockets. I'm at a loss for words. So special yet sad.
What a wonderful person to send the lockets.
Why does there have to be haters! This is a beautiful family!! A truly beautiful family! Please choose kindness,no hate
Haters are children of their father ..the devil ..Jesus said they hated him first
I am a widow 12 years, when I saw your bed, it is the way mine looks every morning.. My heart breaks for you.
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Just lost my hubby of 39 years, and my bed looks just like yours does, too! So sorry you lost your best friend so soon! Our relationship wasn't perfect by any means, but I so miss sharing my yenta moments with him. Love your vdos. We're Jewish, but very spiritual also. God really doesnt descriminate. Sadly, people do.
I genuinely miss you Andrea. 😔 Tom you are being such a rock for your family. Thank you for being so open and continuing to let us have a glimpse into your life. We will help in any way we can.
I love that Judah hasn't lost his sense of humour. He seems like a real character to have around!
He's still working on his you tube channel which is nice to see.
Please don't be afraid to lean on your family, friends and community if needed. You're doing a great job and Andrea would be so proud of you and the kids.
You are doing what is best for your family. I admire your strength in Christ. I am one of your new subscribers.
Also a new subscriber. Ditto everything she said ^.
Shannon G. I'm new also.
I love the update of the family! Thank you so much for inviting us to share your lives with you.
Tom don't worry what people think....they don't have to pay your bills, buy your groceries, cloth your kids.
Little did Andrea know that she was setting this wonderful Utube
station up and had it growing to over 100K that this may be an asset after all. Monetize it and it will give you extra money to be home more with your beautiful children. Tom you have your job cut out for you. She was wonder women....she was the Rock of your family . She had her routines. Now, it will take time to develop your routine. God will guide you with help of the older children. You have to do what is best for you to make your family comfortable and happy. God bless.,
You are so right about letting your older children help. It’s good for them.
Asher is wonderful doing his sisters hair good job stepping up
I agree it is important for the kids to step up and care for each other. They can do it.
I agree!
Tom I want to encourage you. You're doing a great job. May you be blessed, blessed, blessed. May Father God have his hand upon you and your family. You know you have some difficult days ahead but you have so many people who are praying for you and want to see you and your family florish. God bless you. Xx
You all are amazing !!!! I’m a mom of 6kids,was married ,divorced to a single mom my kids were my strength !!!!God will get you all through the rainbow will shine after the storm !!!❤Andrea will always be there through all the little things !!!
Tom , I’m a new subscriber here, I’m gonna tell u something my sweet friend, your wife led me to this channel, but you and those kids kept me here! Keep up with the amazing job! Life is never easy or far, but each day is a gift, a blessing, the joy of our Fathers heart and he loves you! Love u brother! ❤️
My kids don’t have their father anymore, but for the last 2 years I’ve been doing it! I’m mom and dad and with teens it’s been a challenge. U make me proud as a single mom cuz yes my friend it can be done! ❤️
Tom, I would gladly watch commercials to support you staying home. Thinking of you and your children. 👍👍❤️
ditto!
I will let your channel running all night to support you with commercials. I just started to watch your channel days before Andrea pass away. I’m very sorry.
TheKinillita great idea I will do the same
Me to! I have been watching all the time anyways
Same here...
Same with me. I'm here and will be here watching any and all ads.
TheKinillita yes!! Also clicking on the ads will pay out extra for them.
recently i found out my baby will be born with a fatal skeletal dysplasia and watching andrea’s videos had helped me so much with coping with everyday life. i really appreciate you keeping the channel alive for everyone and especially myself.
I am incredibly sorry. God bless and keep you strong.
I'm praying for you!! I know you must be do sad... ❤
I am so sorry to hear this. My son was also diagnosed with a fatal condition while in the womb. We did our best to make as many memories as we could with him even though most of it was done while I was carrying him. Sending love and prayers your way. ♥️♥️♥️
@Skylar - prayers for you and your baby❤
I'm so very sorry to hear that. My sister had the same experience. I'll be praying for you.
Tom you are doing a wonderful job
Andrea is smiling down from heaven
Prayers for your sweet family
Goodness knows you don't have to keep this channel going but it is a blessing to all who watch it. Thank you for this video. It was very well done!
You are doing an amazing job! Continuing to pray for your whole family!
Onions. Lots of chopped onions somewhere in my living room.
Dirtpatcheaven .....Mine too!
Me too, me too.
Mine too, Julianne! Me too! I grieve for them, and am so saddened by all the hurtful comments people are leaving. This is a time to support, encourage, embrace, and console, not judge or criticize.
Glad to see you have another adult there helping.
Tom, I’m glad you addressed that about stepping up, kids these days are out of control and it’s the parents fault. I could never see ur kids being disrespectful to anyone and it’s because of the way they are being raised. To the new people this is a very honest god loving family that truly love each other and love there home so please be respectful, and enjoy a real family not like the rest on you tube. And there will not be another Andrea she loved her kids so much!! Tom your doing great!! Love from Tennessee
I totally agree.. Fayetteville, TN here hello neighbor
Kimberly Critcher Knox tenn hello
I just have to say that I love how you talk about Andrea with your kids. When my family experienced loss when I was a child no one talked about it, and it just made the grief so much worse. You are keeping her alive and in time your children will thank you for it.
I miss seeing Andrea’s videos 😢 I see the hurt in the older kids eyes the younger kids really don’t understand what happened ..... I think about Andrea all the time and my heart breaks 💔 I have been watching all of her videos and it’s very sad knowing she’s no longer here with her family 😢 she was such a loving mom and wife and had a big kind heart ♥️ I pray that God helps all of you get through this dark time in your life’s 🙏🏼 I know Andrea is looking down at her family and she’s very proud that her family is still continuing just like she was there ..... Thanks for sharing Tom I know it’s not easy being a dad & mom but your doing a great job Andrea would be so proud of you ♥️ her family was her whole life anyone watching her videos could tell that.... I hope anyone watching these videos will have only kind words to say and if they don’t they need to keep it to themselves because words can hurt and this family doesn’t deserve anymore hurt in their life’s ♥️
Little kids can be odd in how they process grief or pain. Seeming to understand one day and then not another, serious one minute and playing the next... I think they just grieve in their own way?
Thank you tom for allowing us to still be part of ur family sending love and hugs to you all xxx
God is, indeed, in charge. I've always wondered how anyone can deal with such a devastating loss without faith. When we lost our son, our faith was our relief. Keeping you and your precious family lifted in prayer.
Same when I lost my daughter. People asked how are you doing this all. I always said Jesus is my comfort and guide without him I'd truly be lost and probably not even here since it would've been a burden too great to bear.
Thank you for bringing us back into your life. Continued prayer and blessing to you and your family. Yes please monetize and I will be one of your biggest supporters! Love you Mills family....
Hannah is absolutely adorable. I love her! You are doing such an amazing job, Tom! I still tear up watching these vlogs though, breaks my heart.
Im balling my eyes out again well done tom your doing a great job❤
Same here
Family stays together and work as a family, my family does that, don't let negative comments get to you.
Hi Tom, thinking of you and your family. I think of you guys often.
I never doubt that you won’t be able to handle things because you do understand what Andrea’s goals were because I believe they are yours too.
I’m here to support you.❤️
I heard about you from Amy Maryon. I subscribed then. Andrea was in the hospital at that time. My prayers are with you and your family. I’ve been watching the back posts. She left you a diary of everything she did and how to do it all. She was preparing them for you for this time, Jesus knew you would need this information. God Bless you and your family. Praying 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am a new subscriber. You are a great father. The love you and Andrea shared was absolutely amazing. So beautiful to watch the genuineness. She was an amazing woman. Praying for you and your family. Thank you for this beautiful and heartfelt video.
I've been binge watching the vlogs. I became a subscriber after Andrea passed, when Jamerell made a video and mentioned Andreas passing. I wish I was a viewer when Andrea was still here. I love your family and I weirdly feel close to you all. I dont have a big family, I'm not religious, I don't home school my son but still I feel so close to you all. Andrea felt like home. I see her and I have an instant comfort in my heart. I wish you would monitize the videos, i can't help out with money but I sure can help out with views and likes! Like I said I'm not religous but you and your family have been in my thoughts everyday. My Mom passed away 6 years ago when I was 23 in a very similar way to Andreas passing. I am comforted knowing they're out of pain, and there's a reason for everything happening and this, even how unfortunate and sad it is, it was just meant to be. Much love to you, Tom and to all of those beautiful children!
What a small world! I found Andrea the same way - through Jammerill. Only wish I'd found these wonderful videos sooner. Take care, my friend!
Sorry for your loss but I think your doing an awesome job in such a short amount of time.
Oh, my heart. When I got to the lockets I lost it 😭. God bless you, Tom. You are doing an amazing job.
Thank you for caring about your children and especially to raise them to love God as well as each other and also to work together. God Bless you and your family.
New subscriber here! Sadly I didn’t know you all before Andrea passed. I found out about you all from so many channels that were heartbroken for your family. I felt the need to check your channel out and I want to let you all know from just the few videos I have watched I am touched by you all and your faith in Christ❤️ keep on keepin’ on and God Bless!
My heart hurts, missing my friend. Loved the video and praying for you and the family.
Our hearts break along with yours. When you feel lonely or want to throw in the towel, remember you are being prayed for each and every day. God BLESS you all.
Thanks to all the big kids for helping out more. Family is like that. You have fine kids.
You are a very strong man. Tell it like it is and never fold to the crowd.
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God Bless you.
hey tom. i just wanna say, it’ll get better. my dad passed away when i was 8. i’m 15 now. and at first, it was really hard on me, my brother and sister and my mom. it took awhile but we got through it. just know that she’s looking down on you guys from heaven and smiling. i know how hard it is to loose someone close. stay strong tom. we all love you guys
God's grace shall abound in you as you take care of those adorable children.
Oh Tom, I want to tell you that you are doing a fantastic job. It can't be easy. This is all still raw. Take your time. Everything will come around in time. Allow yourself some grace. Your videos are a reminder for me to slow down and live in the moment. God is in control and he is good. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Allison Bearup exactly! Sorry to chime in but this is so true!
Amen
God is in control!
Thank you for continuing the channel.
Andrea made a huge impact on my life...
You’re an amazing dad, and husband.
The lockets made me sob. You are doing well. Remember,one day at a time.
You’re one strong man Tom! Thank you for keeping the channel going strong! God bless you and your family.
My dad lived to 97 he used to pray to God every morning and thank him for every day XX.
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Your home is beautiful absolutely beautiful, furnished with live , filled with the Holy Spirit , you are doing incredible work with your family , and you are totally doing the very best for your family.
Nothing happens that isn't filtered through God's hands. God is still in charge. God is still on the throne. We may not understand but God does. Blessings...
You are Loved by Thousands of us !! Keep Pressing on ! You and your family are an amazing Testimony To The Lord !
I found you because of being a large family in a small house. That’s literally what I googled to find you. It’s all we could afford and I was not very content about it. Her videos helped me find contentment and get excited about it. As we were able to get a slightly bigger house she helped me find contentment in other areas. I am so grateful for the channel. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.
Words can’t express , how my heart feels, what a wonderful , husband and father you are, Tom.❤️❤️❤️ luv Dee
I can clearly see that you are trying your best and thats all you can do! Nobody can tell you how to do things because they arent in your shoes or in your home. Lots of love to all of you- ive been praying for you often!
The lockets made me teary eyed. Perhaps you could add your own photo on the other side of the locket?
That’s what large families are all about - helping each other. You are doing amazing. Shine on!!!!
Your life is YOUR life and your children’s. You have the right live it as you see fit. Do not let others tell you how to live it. You are doing a great job, and Andrea , I know , is proud of you. Keep on living as you are and God will be helping you. God be with you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Also, I just want to say that I really enjoy your talks especially about christianity and family. You have an amazing way that you look at life.🥰