Transforming Betrayal into Forgiveness
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
- Richard Rudd invites us to consider the possibility that betrayal can be a powerful journey to one day discover a state of extraordinary transcendence and Grace. Citing stories of great forgiveness, he invites us to feel deeply into our hearts and to find self forgiveness, whether you are the betrayer or the betrayed.
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I found that, as a betrayer, self forgiveness comes when you get the perception and understanding of the bigger picture, of the karmic chains involved and accept that things couldn’t have been different. You had a role, a lesson, a journey to fulfill...Also we usually get to experience the both sides of the coin in this wonderful game of polarity:-) Thank you Richard, it was the perfect video to watch and helped me get out of the virus fear hooks as I am now experiencing it😅 betrayal conteplation won!
What lesson? What journey? 😒
With all due respect, you (and people like you (no offend)), are bullshiting themselves. Just accept that life has f.... you, and no there is no higher meaning or anything to it. Just pure f... 👐
I betrayed my spouse. I’m
Here to learn ,suffer and make amends. I just started looking in the mirror on thi s new journey. Wish me luck please, and best of luck to you all
You are on a journey towards forgiveness. My love to you and your spouse on the journey....
I wish you well.x
Μay you meet with peace and forgiveness on the other side of your remorse. We all have cause for regrets and shame, we are works in progress
I'm going to give a gift to my friend M. He did something, or really neglected to do something, that hurt me. But I recently realized that, my biggest fear was that I'd give him a gift and he'd think of me as a manipulative person. But I'm not manipulative. I just give because giving feels good.
Thank You, Richard! Your light shines so brightly. Greetings from Slovakian forest community.
I recommend you also keep in mind: CONTEXTUAL FORGIVENESS! As in, forgiving people in different contexts. Maybe in public you are making a point, maybe you still don't want to talk to this person. But in another context: your heart, thats where the forgiveness is most palpable. If you can go to bed without holding on to resentment, and anger, you've made a huge victory happen in your life. Even if you need to testify for a lawsuit the next day.
Absolutely. I entirely agree and its a great point you are making. I'd not heard that expression before...thanks, Richard
This video just played on its own, but your words hit home so hard. I can only say it was a sign. Thank you sir.
Powerful Insign is to recognize that, inside of each of us exist the remedy to end the inner conflict and activate lasting healing from inside out. Thanks so much!
Thank you for this beautiful reminder, that everything is just an instrument on our journey to light 🙏🏻
Recently, I feel terribly betrayed, but not through one or two specific persons or incidents, but through the whole life itself. I feel like life managed to kill me, and the expectation of letting go, appears deeply humiliating to me. And at the end, a voice tells me: why should I let go and move forwards in life anyways? What do I wish to find afterwards? What good has life ever given me anyway. Maybe it's just better to stay here anyway. At least I don't get to humiliate myself by trusting life, and putting hope into it. 💀
This is a beautiful example of how synchronicity just enters the flow of my life. As we enter into GK 37 (my life's purpose) seeing the connection to GK 4 (my EQ), wow. I have been working all life to unburden ancestral Karma through empathy and compassion and grace had it's way with me, as I was allowing my heart to feel the pain that is the beginning of the unraveling of forgiveness-
Ease yourself into forgiveness...so beautiful
Lot of betrayal I believe happens out of fear in some shape or form ✨
Dear Brother Richard Rudd.
All the types of our Minds are our personality.
Silent, Wisdom,Joyous, Abundant, Compassionate and Freedom Mind...but we have to capacity to Forgive then we will cultivate all the different Minds corresponding with our State of mind in different Situations. Ability to Forgive is a Great Virtue to cultivate LOVE....We Are LOVE ..
I am Grateful, sending lots of love and Blessings,
Dr Sohini Shukla
No coincidence this video was suggested to me 🙏🏼🙏🏼
At first, while listening, I thought forgiveness means the same as staying in that relationship. But towards the end I understand that it's only about forgiveness, that sets you free. Not necessarily staying in that relationship. Did I understand that correctly?
Correct, forgiveness has nothing to do with natural consequences 😊
Consider if you or the other person were a stranger. I had to do that with an ex, before I could see the ways I was still protecting him.
Divine timing 🤣 as always 🙏😊 blessings and gratitude ❤️💙💜
Amazing timing. Thank you Richard - such rich encouragement. 👏
Richard your wisdom touches me so deeply, tears just poured down and a feel of warmth overcame me. Beautiful said thank you
I don”t feel in my heart that it is a revenge when I can forgive… In my heart it feels like love …
For both, life , grace and what was shared…✨
Love the example of revenge in the reverse with positive love.
Thank you so much ❤
Thankyou Richard! I’ve been wondering how forgive someone & your words resonated. I haven’t heard of that perspective. It’s makes sense to me! Namaste 🙏🏼
Beautiful and helpful❤
Yes Richard, Love solves everything the moment we do choose it.Thank you. Miliana.
Such an important and beautiful message! Thanks a lot Richard
Richard, thank you a lot, for this message, for the perspective you give. I am so grateful I can see the true light through you and gene keys. Much love 💕🙏💕
Such profound and deep love. Thank you.
Out of my whole family, I'm the only one who forgave the murderer of my dad.
She was the oldest of us 4 kids.
His first born.
My sister. OUR sister.
Yup...she took his life with a knife in 2000.
My life completely changed after i forgave her.
My life is not perfect but im.a better lady than i was prior to forgiving her.
Thank you so much Richard Rudd. you are a great inspiration along my journey eye feel grace
Thank you, Richard, appreciated deeply
And being both constantly in relationship is sometime so natural. So it is imperative to forgive.
I agree with the point that you have to want it, have a "will" to get on the path of forgiveness. Often people talk about 'time' healing, but it is not guaranteed at all. So often we see elders who still carry betrayals from their earlier life. It is not pretty!
@@gene_keys Absolutely. I have worked with that a lot.... perhaps you were picking up on it :)
Thank you Richard for your beautiful perspective 🙏
Thank you Richard 🙏 love and light 💓💓namaste🙏💓💓
what utterly thrilling and amazing stuff. 'Cor and good on you for going with flow. I was just wondering, what sort of concepts can be nicely and swimmingly adjusted to the bringing up, (or guiding up?) of children? My kids are 15 years apart fromvthe first to the seventh, and I can just see the softening and melliwing that has gone on over time...Thank you for this x
Thank you Richard 🙏
Thank you!
Thank you so much
Like even before listening!)
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A tuf 1 yet doable 777🕊
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From my point of view forgiveness is one of the most misunderstood (and simplified!) theme in the whole spiritual scene. Forgiveness is NOT always the goal to freedom. If parents or partners abuse or torture their partners or children, maybe for long times, for years and years, it is not the business of the victims to forgive them, even if they are addult later. It is a question of self-respect towards their traumatic damage. And on the other side, if you forgive too qucikly, the culprit learns nothing. (It is not without reason, that we have a legal system, by the way...!) So, the better way for many people may be, to say goodbye, to end the realtionship, make their peace without this person who done all that to them, and give the whole issue back to the universe, god or whatever they call it. ("Not my business anymore".) With peace, but resolute. „May god give you the lessons you have to learn...Goodbye. “ Because the whole forgiveness-thing and the inappropriate spiritual claim in it may be an overtaxing, particulary in destructive and violent relationships over long times.
Thank you so much for the videos!
My own brother😐
Thank you🙏💜
How exactly do u release pain u cannot forget
I wish I knew my mother abused me from birth because of that I met an abuser he destroyed my life and turned my kids against me h ow can I turn that into forgetting don't mind forgiveness if someone robs u off your hole life u can't forget it it so wrecks my head when I hear people say let it go as if u can just erase and forget so much damage
it takes a lot of time. Circles of letting out your anger, your pain, little by little allow people to touch you again, to learn again how to physical trust. Abuse lies deep in the body. I was abused. Not in such a young age but growing up as a woman. And i know it feels like there would be no end of this pain. My body is still trying to fight something that is not existing anymore. It is on constant alarm, on seeking revenge. And it is exhausting. But little by little working with this pain, these emotions i am learning something. Even when i am doing everything wrong i am learning something from it. But who can tell how long it takes. I can't be sure if i will be able to let go of this pain. And sometimes this means to work with the pain and sometimes it means to let go of the pain and do something entirely different. At least thats how i do it.
Is not being bothered by it anymore, but not allowing the person back the same as forgiving/letting it go?
Absolutely. To forgive does not require that we relinquish our boundaries....
Thank you 🙏🏻 love ❤️
Thank you.
We will take a simple little verse and show you why it is not addressed to the natural man, Ecclesiastes 3:15:
“That which is, already has been; that which is to be, already has been; and God seeks what has been driven away.”
The “natural man” cannot grasp that, for to him reality is based only on the evidence of the senses. The man of reason could justify the verse’s end, saying if it has any meaning then the writer must mean recurrence. The sun comes every day and the moon completes its cycle and the seasons come and go. If we took a picture of the universe today, the scientists can compute how long it will take to return to this point in the picture. So the intellectual man could justify the verse; but that is not what is meant, for it is addressed not to the man of reason or the man of sense, but to the man of Imagination.
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Do you think it's possible that perpetrators have never been wounded themselves? I do. Perhaps a small minority. But a number of them, at least.
I find it easier to forgive someone if they too have been wounded - it's easier to understand and to step into their shoes. But if they haven't been abused or wounded (by their own admission), I find it harder to forgive this... To deliberatively inflict abuse on a child for years is hard for the child to forgive as an adult. It is a long process. And I wonder what forgiveness is ultimately? Just freedom I guess - freedom from pain and hurt and triggers. Which allows us then to live in lightness, joy, peace once more - or perhaps for what feels like the first time...
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