My ex came to see me the other day and said to me over the telecom I think you want to see me I think not. lol 😂 how narcissistic can you sound I feel a restraining order coming.
I get called the warden because I am very strict on how I allow men to treat me. I don't do second chances at all. Cheating and lying is an intentional act, not a "mistake." They only show remorse or say that they're "Sorry" when they get caught. Protect your sanity, guard your heart. No one is worth going through that kind of agony, not to mention the effects that it has on your health. Some things don't have a cure.
Yes! Couldn't agree more. Now I'm really unwell because I allowed stress and anger to consume me because of some man that isn't worth it. Ladies, save yourself and your PEACE
It’s so true the more chance you give them the worse it gets. I gave my ex at least 20 chances every time it got worse and worse. To the point where he felt comfortable threatening my life
Because a man will never respect you... when you take them back... he's real nightmare that you don't take him back and live a Single Abstinent Childfree or Celibate life...he doesn't fret you not taking him back and jumping into another relationship ✅
My ex wanted me to get back together, but did not change any of his behaviors. Three years, same. People rarely change. It takes effort. Don’t play yourself. Move on. There are better men out there. You deserve better.
I literally told him he will never have acess to me ever again and i removed myself. I saw his mask slip 3 times. That shit is scary. I stay single for life and am much happier alone without him. Even when he isnt around I dont miss him or anything about him. My body and mind detach frm him the minute I saw him go back to the old him. He went back to being the rubbish he was and never changed. It made it clear that he just wanted acess to me and didn't come back to be better or be a better father either but he just wanted the access to keep having free sex and food or whatever i was giving him so when i removed myself and saw him for who he was his mask slipped. Stay Gone and blocked him
Ladies, become very comfortable with the BLOCK option on your phone…make it an extension of your BFF😂😂😂😂😂😂I know I did cause ain’t no way….and stop letting curiosity kill The cat…you kill it😂😂😂😂😂take that sucka right on out…Block em” like a line backer who’s life depended on it in a Sunday afternoon football game 🥴🙏🏾🤣🤣🤣🤣🤌🏾
10:51: This is a GREAT way to get over someone and stop second-guessing yourself! Keep every bad, annoying, nasty thing your ex ever did ready in your mind, and whenever you catch yourself reminiscing/missing the "good" times you shared with your ex, immediately replace them with a "reminiscence" of the BAD times! Think back and dwell on every BAD thing about your relationship, just like you are doing with the 'good" times. Bring back the memories of all the irritating habits he had! Of all the times he lied, gaslit and abused you and played you for a fool! And truly REMEMBER these incidents; don't just let them flash through your thoughts for just an instant!! Stand there and let yourself once again FEEL the awful way you felt when he threw those things at you, in the SAME way you are letting the "good times" thoughts overwhelm you with good feelings about him!! I GUARANTEE you will be cured of your obsession with that dusty ex faster than you ever thought you could be!
❤️❤️❤️ I learned very late in life after I had already married the one i allowed back in my life, that i should have NEVER NEVER taken him back. Its so hard to get out after the second or third time you have taken them back. That man will do you so dirty. Choose you. Put all your forgiveness, love and energy into yourself. You deserve to be treated with love respect and kindness.
Also YOU need to be willing to walk away even if they won’t. My ex would tell me all the time he wasn’t ready, I would leave him and try to cut off all contact and he would chase me DOWWWNNNN!! Contact my friends, family, all that which was confusing af to me! I stayed 5 years & he put hands on me at the end. He said it was a 1 time thing b/c he was grieving and guess what…he did it again a few months later-final straw. What made me truly walk away is he snapped like that over something so small…in my mind I started to see that he would CONTINUE to lose self-control & snap over even smaller things as time went on. He was pushing the envelope to see what I could take. When they tell/show you they’re not ready walk away FOR GOOD. I literally didn’t realize I was inviting the devil back in over & over.
Saw this at the RIGHT TIME. Thank you sis. I've been on and off with this guy for 7 years 😬🤡🙈 we even have a baby together but I keep suffering anxiety and all wondering what he is doing and if he's still talking to the girls he had a thing with when we were off. I'm with the guy but bitter and I'm starting to realize for the bitterness to go, the guy must go too. Thank you sis. ❤️
It was so painful when I broke up with my ex boyfriend after taking him back 14 months later. We lasted for three years more and I noticed that he would never put me as a priority because I was competing with 7 women! His old ass single momma and 6 sisters with kids that couldn’t take care of. It took me a year and a half to tell my family we are no longer together so please do not ask about out of respect!
Yeah mine got the song Get Outta my Life by Hank Williams when he walked into my unlocked door 7 months after I left and explained WHY so no wondering plus I am an Adult well I use to think of him as a man-child how right I was. Have my problem not my man
Don’t tolerate a man who puts you on the back burner, or won’t introduce you to friends, or won’t make even the smallest sacrifices. Don’t settle. We ALL deserve better. I don’t care what you look like, or where you’re from. If he doesn’t give you 100%, move on.
@8:03... unfortunately, leaving a man and jumping into the next relationship isn't a man's nightmare...a man's nightmare is you not taking him back and staying Single Abstinent Childfree or Celibate ✅
I simply convinced myself that my presence causes that person to feel like they are being enabled and justified to do bad behavior. Now we cant have that. I have no problem to keep distance for the greater good. Mostly for my own good. I forgave her a big issue once.... she did it again worse on steroids. No contact and high boundaries were then set and things are much better now
Because a man will never respect you if you take them back... that's why they get worse and worse... unfortunately, a lot of women tolerate and endure deplorable behavior for decades...smh
The crazy thing is they talk all this bs say they changed but when u reject them they. Get all vindictive or say they gonna do stuff what happened to I changed I love u and all the bs they said 2 seconds ago yea no second chances
atp i know my phones being monitored, i just gotta text from a man yesterday i swore i blocked him i said damn he can’t even go 90 days this man crazy lmao and he had the nerve to send the message and block me at 9 in the morning what are you going through sir this was my final straw year fr idc i feel like what God has for me doesn’t even include a man not this lifetime yall got it 😂😂
Plastic glued to the ends of her fingers is NOT attractive. I really wish this trend would stop. As soon as they glue the plastic to the ends of their fingers, they then all of a sudden have to talk with their hands. lol 😂
They out there searching to replace you and return when they didn’t find another fool facts# I did this for a decade with someone biggest waste of my good years never again ladies don’t do it!
Never let a man fumble you twice.
Yeah let him dwell in the condolences of fumbling you
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NEVER Take em Back. Look at their HURTFUL ACTIONS instead of his bs words.
Yes yes recalling why you guys are exes in the first place helps you to stay away from the viper
All true!!!!
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My ex came to see me the other day and said to me over the telecom I think you want to see me I think not. lol 😂 how narcissistic can you sound I feel a restraining order coming.
@@StephanieRoseeee Ha ha! Most men are selfish and narcissistic Sis! Never take him back!
I get called the warden because I am very strict on how I allow men to treat me. I don't do second chances at all. Cheating and lying is an intentional act, not a "mistake." They only show remorse or say that they're "Sorry" when they get caught. Protect your sanity, guard your heart. No one is worth going through that kind of agony, not to mention the effects that it has on your health. Some things don't have a cure.
period!!
Big facts 💯
Yes! Couldn't agree more. Now I'm really unwell because I allowed stress and anger to consume me because of some man that isn't worth it. Ladies, save yourself and your PEACE
Unfortunately, many women accept the lies and cheating for decades...smh
I left him 30 years ago. Circled around the blck and nothing has changed. 53 years old and he hasn't grown at all.
They never change Sis 😭
I thought them reaching out after 23 years was bad ! Ewww I was a teen ( I’m not even the same person)!
I've regretted EVERY chance I gave everyone, especially exes. One chance and done has made my life better and that will never change.
It’s so true the more chance you give them the worse it gets. I gave my ex at least 20 chances every time it got worse and worse. To the point where he felt comfortable threatening my life
Because a man will never respect you... when you take them back... he's real nightmare that you don't take him back and live a Single Abstinent Childfree or Celibate life...he doesn't fret you not taking him back and jumping into another relationship ✅
You deserve better sis, put that bum out he’s for the streets.
My ex wanted me to get back together, but did not change any of his behaviors. Three years, same. People rarely change. It takes effort. Don’t play yourself. Move on. There are better men out there. You deserve better.
I don't do second chances. They are exes forr a reason. If the relationship ended, I let it go. I would rather stay single than to go back.
Exactly 💯
Ur right it better to take a chance with a stranger than with one with a “criminal record “!
Unfortunately, most women are not able to be Celibate Single Abstinent Childfree.
All true Sis!!! ❤❤ Never ever give a man a second chance. Most men can hardly be trusted at all. Myself I trust ladies only!!
I literally told him he will never have acess to me ever again and i removed myself. I saw his mask slip 3 times. That shit is scary. I stay single for life and am much happier alone without him. Even when he isnt around I dont miss him or anything about him. My body and mind detach frm him the minute I saw him go back to the old him. He went back to being the rubbish he was and never changed. It made it clear that he just wanted acess to me and didn't come back to be better or be a better father either but he just wanted the access to keep having free sex and food or whatever i was giving him so when i removed myself and saw him for who he was his mask slipped. Stay Gone and blocked him
Ladies, become very comfortable with the BLOCK option on your phone…make it an extension of your BFF😂😂😂😂😂😂I know I did cause ain’t no way….and stop letting curiosity kill
The cat…you kill it😂😂😂😂😂take that sucka right on out…Block em” like a line backer who’s life depended on it in a Sunday afternoon football game 🥴🙏🏾🤣🤣🤣🤣🤌🏾
10:51: This is a GREAT way to get over someone and stop second-guessing yourself! Keep every bad, annoying, nasty thing your ex ever did ready in your mind, and whenever you catch yourself reminiscing/missing the "good" times you shared with your ex, immediately replace them with a "reminiscence" of the BAD times! Think back and dwell on every BAD thing about your relationship, just like you are doing with the 'good" times. Bring back the memories of all the irritating habits he had! Of all the times he lied, gaslit and abused you and played you for a fool! And truly REMEMBER these incidents; don't just let them flash through your thoughts for just an instant!! Stand there and let yourself once again FEEL the awful way you felt when he threw those things at you, in the SAME way you are letting the "good times" thoughts overwhelm you with good feelings about him!!
I GUARANTEE you will be cured of your obsession with that dusty ex faster than you ever thought you could be!
Exactly 💯 girl....recalling all the negativity helps so much with moving on
Meanwhile they come back thinking you forgot about all the nasty things they did lol.....the audaciittttyyyty??? SMH
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I learned very late in life after I had already married the one i allowed back in my life, that i should have NEVER NEVER taken him back. Its so hard to get out after the second or third time you have taken them back. That man will do you so dirty. Choose you. Put all your forgiveness, love and energy into yourself. You deserve to be treated with love respect and kindness.
Also YOU need to be willing to walk away even if they won’t. My ex would tell me all the time he wasn’t ready, I would leave him and try to cut off all contact and he would chase me DOWWWNNNN!! Contact my friends, family, all that which was confusing af to me! I stayed 5 years & he put hands on me at the end. He said it was a 1 time thing b/c he was grieving and guess what…he did it again a few months later-final straw. What made me truly walk away is he snapped like that over something so small…in my mind I started to see that he would CONTINUE to lose self-control & snap over even smaller things as time went on. He was pushing the envelope to see what I could take. When they tell/show you they’re not ready walk away FOR GOOD. I literally didn’t realize I was inviting the devil back in over & over.
I needed to hear this 😢
More power to you Sis 💓
Saw this at the RIGHT TIME. Thank you sis. I've been on and off with this guy for 7 years 😬🤡🙈 we even have a baby together but I keep suffering anxiety and all wondering what he is doing and if he's still talking to the girls he had a thing with when we were off. I'm with the guy but bitter and I'm starting to realize for the bitterness to go, the guy must go too. Thank you sis. ❤️
It was so painful when I broke up with my ex boyfriend after taking him back 14 months later. We lasted for three years more and I noticed that he would never put me as a priority because I was competing with 7 women! His old ass single momma and 6 sisters with kids that couldn’t take care of. It took me a year and a half to tell my family we are no longer together so please do not ask about out of respect!
Baaaabay! He tried to reach out abd was given the middle finger and to leave me tf alone!
Now that's what I'm talking about👏🏽
Yeah mine got the song Get Outta my Life by Hank Williams when he walked into my unlocked door 7 months after I left and explained WHY so no wondering plus I am an Adult well I use to think of him as a man-child how right I was. Have my problem not my man
As much as it hurts it true
I'm no taking anybody back, I always remember why it ended. ❤
He thinks you’re a homeless shelter
Do you think there’s a text book for this bullshit 🤔🤣🤣🤣
Not a homeless shelter oooh my
Don’t tolerate a man who puts you on the back burner, or won’t introduce you to friends, or won’t make even the smallest sacrifices. Don’t settle. We ALL deserve better. I don’t care what you look like, or where you’re from. If he doesn’t give you 100%, move on.
Never too DEEP! These videos are awesome thank you ❤
Glad you like them!🫶🏽💓
0:47 : I agree with her and that hair! Love it!
@8:03... unfortunately, leaving a man and jumping into the next relationship isn't a man's nightmare...a man's nightmare is you not taking him back and staying Single Abstinent Childfree or Celibate ✅
I simply convinced myself that my presence causes that person to feel like they are being enabled and justified to do bad behavior. Now we cant have that. I have no problem to keep distance for the greater good. Mostly for my own good.
I forgave her a big issue once.... she did it again worse on steroids. No contact and high boundaries were then set and things are much better now
My hugs to you, sis❤❤❤❤ I absolutely love your content!
Thank you so much 🤗🥹
When he comes into the relationship cosplaying as a single man. Caught him cheating on me for the sixth and last time. I put him out a month ago.
I’m just scrolling down UA-cam and I see my face on your thumbnail ♥️ lol exactly what I stay telling these people! Leave the past in the PAST‼️
Girl...❤️🫶🏽...
NEVER EVER TAKE HIM OR HER BACK. THEY’RE CALLED EXES FOR A GOOD REASON.
I talk bad to them for popping back up! Sir get tf out my face and off my porch!
Yep and they get even worse every time you go back.
Nope!
Because a man will never respect you if you take them back... that's why they get worse and worse... unfortunately, a lot of women tolerate and endure deplorable behavior for decades...smh
The crazy thing is they talk all this bs say they changed but when u reject them they. Get all vindictive or say they gonna do stuff what happened to I changed I love u and all the bs they said 2 seconds ago yea no second chances
Great video ❤ Pass down the wisdom to the younger generation!
Yes! Thank you! 😊🙏🏽
Your commentary at the end. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💯🤞🏾🎯
Thank you Sis I'm glad you loved it🫶🏽😘
I finally blacked him
He’s such a bum
Mine was def a loser bum 40 years old
Definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over, and expecting a different outcome!!❤
Love the topics as always
Thank you babe I'm glad you enjoy them☺️🤗
All my exes are married and their wives can keep them 😂😂😂 I'm happy being single, no drama no stress.
@11:55...take heed ✅... unfortunately, a lot of women think a baby will change him...smh
@3:20...all facts ✅
needed to see this during this retrograde season
@2:12...All facts... plus he'll never respect you...if you do take him back.
atp i know my phones being monitored, i just gotta text from a man yesterday i swore i blocked him i said damn he can’t even go 90 days this man crazy lmao and he had the nerve to send the message and block me at 9 in the morning what are you going through sir this was my final straw year fr idc i feel like what God has for me doesn’t even include a man not this lifetime yall got it 😂😂
Plastic glued to the ends of her fingers is NOT attractive. I really wish this trend would stop. As soon as they glue the plastic to the ends of their fingers, they then all of a sudden have to talk with their hands. lol 😂
Nope some people talk like that with or without nails and if we pay for them why is that a problem for you oh okay😂
@ probably should reread what I wrote?
Baby boy, gonna die trying.🤷🏻♀️
They out there searching to replace you and return when they didn’t find another fool facts# I did this for a decade with someone biggest waste of my good years never again ladies don’t do it!
Yes, a lot of times, subconsciously, these men dog you because they know you'll want to give it another try so you'll get a return on your investment!
Unfortunately, males are only able to do what women allow and permit them to do ✅
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If u let him correct word
Right, males can only do what women allow and permit them to do ✅
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@@jadedlulz 🫶🏽😘thanks Sis 💓
Can we leave these topics alone , this ish is basic knowledge now
It isn't though.
Yet, you're HERE... clicking, viewing and commenting. Must not be "basic" enough 🙄
@ lmao shame on me for wanting the conversations and topics to grow 🤷🏽♀️
Common sense isn't common though! Some women need to hear this knowledge.
@@Misandrist777some? Or most... let's be honest...How many women you know tolerate and endure deplorable behavior from males?
@3:50...all facts ✅
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