HEALING to fit back into the toxic family?

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  • @dv52528
    @dv52528 2 місяці тому +10

    That's so right!
    I have also noticed that my body never felt safe around them. Bizarrely enough, since my early 20's I was more comfortable and safe solo travelling and living in other countries than my hometown or country that reminded of my blood family.
    Whenever I would go back, I 'd feel angry with negative energy.

  • @michaeljohns8817
    @michaeljohns8817 2 місяці тому

    The goal is to heal !!!!! Then go NO CONTACT !!!!!!😃😃😃😃😃

  • @Maria-fm2cg
    @Maria-fm2cg 2 місяці тому +1

    THIS. I had a sudden realization a while back, called myself out and stopped. Healing is to belong to our selves and taking the courage to fly BEing you! 🦋✨🫶🏻

  • @ahmadstore
    @ahmadstore 2 місяці тому +3

    I get it.

  • @camarorules1
    @camarorules1 2 місяці тому +4

    Candace, thank you for this. I spent my whole life trying to get my family to love me because I loved and needed them. Once I healed I still love them but I NEED to step back and realize this love will not be reciprocated. I pray to be released from this

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 місяці тому +4

      As soon as you release the false hope, you will be released ❤️❤️

  • @fairygodmotherflowerEternal221
    @fairygodmotherflowerEternal221 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Candace. I want to write alot here. I wish that I could call you Lol.
    Family Weddings that are out of state can be hard to deal with. I’m an introvert in a family of extroverted people pleasers & I am definitely highly sensitive. Maybe autistic or maybe just so traumatized. I feel so alone in my ( birth) family. I feel worried about my brothers wedding coming up. Such an ordeal.

  • @fairygodmotherflowerEternal221
    @fairygodmotherflowerEternal221 2 місяці тому

    Oh my heck.

  • @keeleehudson
    @keeleehudson 2 місяці тому +3

    I need to get my kids out of the system.

  • @christanielsen8338
    @christanielsen8338 2 місяці тому +2

    So guilty of this, and I had no idea! I cannot thank you enough for this video ❤️ Exactly what I personally needed to hear at the exact perfect time. Thank you 🙏❤

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  2 місяці тому +1

      Wonderful! This is usually in most people’s blind spots so I like to shine a light on the deeper truth ✨✨✨

  • @nathan-ms3zc
    @nathan-ms3zc Місяць тому

    Like the saying goes, you cant heal in the environment that made you sick.

  • @angeladoll5444
    @angeladoll5444 2 місяці тому +1

    All good points! Thank you for the reminders!

  • @annier1873
    @annier1873 2 місяці тому +2

    Oh no you’re calling us out 😂❤😅