I'm not familiar with him or his interviews, but I felt like he almost wasn't listening half of the time and would ask questions she'd just answered or talked about. That was a little irritating, especially because she was so passionate about her answers.
This is one of the best interviews I’ve ever seen of any artist. This was literally raw emotion and Jason interviewed like a seasoned professional. Wow!
This is so real. One thing I have always loved and noticed about Kelis is that despite her separation from Nas you NEVER heard her speak ill of him in the media. I always thought it was because she still loved him and secretly wanted to be back with him, but after this interview it is very clear that she was dealing with a lot of pain. Even in this interview you can see her reliving some of those moments. She is a superstar and I'm so inspired by the strength she displayed during this interview.
When she hit the scene she was very vibrant and unique. She was so different and naturally beautiful. I loved everything about her. Nas was my teenage crush, but when I first saw them together I said to myself, I hope he doesn't strip her of everything. Men always want the best woman but don't know how to treat them
She's very empathetic. I've been in a similar situation. She's being kind and he sees it as a weakness. In his head, he is confident that he can disappear or show up whenever he wants and she'll never do anything to harm or his image #narcissism
Boy Wonder bullshite. She is with a mixed raced man. Funny how you claim mixed women or women with even 2% black Dna, as a black woman (Amber Rose), but if a man doesn't look like Morris chesnut he isn't "black". Hilarious
As a child who has seen women go through abusive relationships, and also witnessing women who lie about it, I can tell you whole-heartedly, THIS WOMAN AIN'T LYING!
I am so glad Kelis is doing this. This shows the strength of Black Women and what we costantly have to deal with. NO ONE SHOULD GO THROUGH THIS REGARDLESS OF STATUS.
Trevette Chambers Same here. Everyone expect Black women to be the barrier for everyone. I didn't flinch when the gossip outlets made a big deal about Kelis large amount of child support. Yet, Tiger Woods White Ex-wife Elin Nordegren received over 700K and no one made a big fuss about the amount.
No woman would leave her husband when she's 7 months pregnant if it wasn't bad. At that point you can hardly move around, and you want your man to be there throughout the journey.
Lynda Saint-Val With the beatings???!!, and cheating, tha ts not healthy for the mother, the unborn child, is put in danger, what happens when the beatings injure the unborn child, could hurt the baby, definitely puts so much stress on the mother, that the child develops emotional, psychological issues, Ridiculous how the financial support becomes the priority, while you keep your life and child in a bad situation!!
Jon Harris True, but I'm using logic and facts. In an interview with Funk Flex on HOT 97, Nas said Kelis caught a bad rap, and he retracted his statement that Kelis emptied out the house leaving only the green dress. He said she only took pictures and things that were sentimental to both of them.
When she said her son CHOSE to call his stepdad “Papa” that struck a chord with me. My sister took responsibility for our little cousin (aka my niece) when she was practically a newborn. One day, out of nowhere, I think she was about 3 or 4 years old, she started calling my sister “mommy.” And as she got older, when people would correct her, she would explain that she has two moms. A child can recognize when someone takes an active role in their life, no matter what age.
@@mosacharles1033 Parents need to pursue a relationship with their child...so custody/visitation issues will come up if they give an actual fuck. That's independent of who's paying what. Some people let hate for the ex eclipse their love for their child.
@@markobbanya1402 you missed my point! Nas paid for her culinary school btw! But he doesn't pay child support. Like I said if it were true he is a deadbeat then show reciepts. She never refuted that he put her through that school after they split. Kelis has single handedly destroyed her own career. So proceed with caution.
Somebody give Jason Lee an Award!!! This was one of the dopest interviews EVER!!! He asked all the right questions, he was a listening ear and he wasn't judgemental. I would have lost it, when she started spilling all that Tea, but he sipped it like a real, G! I love you Jason!!! All respect to Kelis for being honorable, and loyal to a man that wasn't loyal to her. That takes strength! This interview seemed therapeutic for her. I wish her and her family all the best!
I so understand Kelis' position. I'm private & don't like confrontation, but push me & you'll get what you're asking for. She was silent about this for years & for her child she tried to keep things calm. Enough is a damn nuff!
A genuine honest person will share their faults while they're telling you about the other person. She's doing that in this interview and I respect that.
I think any grown woman that's been through something or know someone that's been through something very similar, can see the realness behind everything that she saying to be true and the fact that she's waited for years to speak on it..... speaks volumes! Through it all she's shining!
That’s why they always question the story because they put so many of us through it, and don’t want us to be believed. All women have a story yet no one knows an abuser.
She's telling her truth..and to her credit she is 5'10 and she could've did some real damage to Nas if she was vengeful..but she knew vengeance is the Lord's & so is the battle.
I saw it somewhere else first and they didnt site their source. I thought she was doing a press tour when I saw her on HU... but HU got the exclusive!!!
I'm a man and was in a short term abusive relationship with a woman. It's inspiring how she bounced back from years of abuse. She's an amazing woman. This interview blessed me.
I’ve always had immense respect and admiration for Kelis’ artistry and integrity. She is intelligent, articulate and deeply talented. I’ve been a fan since her debut with Kaleidoscope. There was no other artist like her when she came on the scene. Kelis setted trends, she never followed them.
Narcissism is SO real. I was never aware that it even existed until I dated someone that was narcissistic. Luckily I came to the realization very quickly and left after 4 months but it’s such a depressing situation to be in and they’re so good at making you believe YOU are the crazy one. It’s sad that people go through this and feel like they can’t get out of it. I’m so glad she opened up about this because no one seems to talk about it.
Curly Breezy Yes Narcissism is a very real and sick illness... To the point that a manipulative person can make the other person look like an abuser , just to make them look bad, for some form of revenge...and people will believe them
How can anyone say she's doing this for court or to sabotage him? This is someone who is almost still protecting him by saying "we would fight" "I'm not an angel". Very candid yet tactful.
mzabie94 Shes not protecting him... she’s trying to be honest... Something most of you females cant do. They fought each other. Same w/ Rihanna & CB. They fought. Society just makes the females a victim
Yes because Waiting 9 years and beeing silence about everything is exactly what narcissists do...so stupid sorry but these comments are fucked and people like you make it so hard for victims to come out :@
The only reason people are not accepting Nas can be this exact character is because he is an OG rap icon. If everyone can be happy for Ciara and her new marriage and family they should also be happy for Kelis. If Naz was a "new age rapper" like future more ppl would respect her perspective.
@@cherylwilliams3193 yes, most geniuses are. She may be lying (doubt it) but then again, the part about him drinking too much (she left out the drugs) we call all believe. Who's ever met a heavy drinker/drug user who treats their woman right?
I believe her. It's so many men that are broken and treat women horribly. Nas looks so well put together but has a lot of issues. People have to separate the man from the music. I love Kelis for her courage and strength.
She kept her mouth shut for years and decided to speak out now because she CAN! Narcissism is all around us... most people are just blind to it! Just because he is Nas... does not mean he is GOD! Yes I love him as an artist but I don't know him as a person so I won't follow the flock of sheep that say she is lying.
i kinda agree but like usual u girls only agreeing because u like to play the victim her timing is way of that amazon deal get her in the amazon buzzing for extra handouts! aint no dad want to be paying money to the baby mum without seeing their child! she blatantly has admitted that they both used to hit each other so who the victim obviously a guy shouldn't hit a girl but does that mean a girl should hit a guy! tired of girls playing the victim kelis just crying out cos she still digging nas tell her to get bk in the kitchen cos she seems to only just get that the kitchen is how to keep her bloke with her new show looooooooooool yh i went there lol
sweetma4life your right and I'm glad that you mentioned that you are an Nas Fan because people dont know the difference between a Fan who can love the artist and his art , but still call him out on his bullshit and a stan who stands with the Artist regardless of what they done And I as an Fan of nas definatly know where you come from with that and the most of the people who say that kelis lies just because its nas are definatly stans
Dee Thomas Proof for what? I honestly think after watching this interview Kellis could care less who believes her or if people believe her. She wanted to tell her story & not hold back today.
LIVE ISH You are writing the same thing on everyone's comment that shows support to Kelis, Why is that? Do you know her personally? Your going hard in the comment section trying to invalidate her experience. We're you there? Who put you up to this? Nas is this you?🤔
Everyone is Nas this Nas that. What stood out in this interview was her ferocious stance on parenting and protecting her children. How passionately she described her son. How well traveled and spoken he is. Coming from an abandoned child that touched my heart strings. I wanted a mom like that so bad
@@ITISKONYhypothetically speaking you’re correct as it relates to “spending his money”, would you want your child’s mother to spend the money to enhance and culture your child or get her body done? Either way her prerogative, but I’d more so lean towards an appreciation for developing a well rounded child. Sorry if I saw deeper than the gossip and Nas rhetoric.
Cherrelle G. No. What I am saying is that this woman is a very high level narcissist. Most of this video is twisted half truths and outright lies. Because your truth is similar to her lies, you think she is telling your story. But what she is actually doing is publicly demonizing her kids father out of spite and narcissistic rage.. she is an abusive mentally unstable person with an addictive personality.she ADMITTED that in this video... she is sick. I hope nas gets his son... this video will surely help him.
I have so much respect for Kelis and I understand her more now than ever. She’s a strong woman. She’s survived the industry, domestic abuse and now she’s happy. Shout out to her for that! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
KyrelTerrhaun For real, she shading Nas, 10 years after the event, just when he's making a big business deal in his life? That is low bruh. Black women love to hate a man who's doing well. The narcissism she projects is crazy.
dave junges After thinking about what you said and watching this again, her timely is a lil suspect considering all the shit he has going. This interview came outta nowhere. Nas is still one of the illest MCs and how I look at him didn’t change. Now I wanna hear what he has to say about all of this 🤔
The more I see these interviews with Kelis, the more I am fascinated with her. She’s down to earth, so funny, smart, creative, tough, quick witted, humble. She’s a lot like me, I love her!!🥰💯
There is no comparing. Kelis is original and unique, she really has her own style in everything. Rihanna has good songs, but is made by the industry by producers and marketing.
@@nicolemanja1430 AGREED. plus Kelis would never fuck up lives to make a billion like Rihanna lol. but yea, creatively and how they were marketed, nothing alike. two different lanes
Fabolous the "quiet type" too just like nas and you see what's going on with him now. You never know what's going on behind closed doors. A Smile can hide a lot of pain.
both men were abused by their women that's why Kelis use to hit Nas and that's how the crap started just like Fab. It's sad how men can be painted in a bad light because it's not cool to say a woman abuses you.
@@LYTEYEARPRODUCTIONS exactly, like I always say, if you don't want to be hit, keep your hands to yourself, now I'm not condoning a man just hitting a woman because he's mad but ladies argue with your mouth, not your hands
Damn I didn’t want to hear that about Nas. I would’ve NEVER imagined Nas to be like that, but I believe her. It sounds all too familiar. So many of us women deal w/ this, when dealing w/ the fathers of our child(ren). I know she’s STILL holding so much back in an effort to not destroy his image or the way ppl perceive him. I too thought SHE was the issue & bitter, & now I feel bad for not giving her a chance. I’m glad I watched this interview, although I initially rolled my eyes when I seen the title. God bless you girl. Keep winning!
Erin B I can't imagine her lying about everything she said in this interview at all. 99% of the things she spilled here can be confirmed whether it's true or not with other people than herself or Nas, so I don't see why she would lie.
Erin B Check out the mother of his daughters book. I read it back in 2010 and have never looked at him the same. The behavior she describes is very familiar
I have been a big Kelis fan for a long time. Her and Nas were my favorite couple. This proves that just because people look cute in pictures that doesn't mean that they are happy. Nobody is "goals" to me in regards to their relationship. She has absolutely been quiet for the longest and it sucks that she was suffering in silence and being painted as a gold digger. Side note, she is so damn beautiful and I love her speaking voice and her skin. Disappointed in Nas. Smh.
Thank you Kelis for saying deep down what me as a loyal Nas fan never wanted to believe about him. But I know she’s telling the truth ugh I’m so disappointed 😢
Jason Lee- "Why were you so silent?" Kelis-"In all honestly, I was afraid to because of my faith and belief in God, and my Creator, I know that I could never fight him as ruthlessly as he would fight me." I believe many women who have been in a bad relationship and who genuinely have a heart for God can relate to her answer. This also reveals her level of integrity because you have to stoop real low to fight the devil on his terms.
She said there was abuse. She never said he abused her. Thats because she was the violent one. There have been reports out of Atlanta where they lived from restaurant workers and such that say they saw her putting hand on him often. Also, its funny that he just got $30M from a deal selling Ring to Amazon now she popping up wanting more money and now she abused. Not buying it. Because she says it, it doest make it true. No such thing as "her truth" there is only "the truth". Truth is absolute.
J Johnson she is a violent delusional narcissist.. she ADMITS to this indirectly NUMEROUS times in this video.. she is really a pos.... im was huge fan of hers.. more so than nas.. I too am glad for this video.. this is a great video to watch with your sons or any young brothers so you can teach them identify a narcissistic woman... which she CLEARLY is. A narcissistic woman is like a demon...she is an expert at bringing out the devil in a man.. she will never give up until she get under his skin.. every man has a breaking point.. she will say or do ANYTHING to break him. and then say "look at him.. he is a devil!"
Marlon Green You know all about lipstick and nail polish, don’t you? Judging by the misogynistic videos on your page, I can tell you don’t like women at all.
@Layne G Yup. This me too movement is getting out of hand right now. Any of them will say it now just to assassinate a person's character out of hate. Kelis loses to nas in court and all of a sudden the abuse allegations are brought up 10 YEARS LATER. Why not bring this up after the divorce??.....lol
WOMEN need to speak up!!! We need to tell our truth. We have to be honest about our experiences as women. It’s so empowering. It allows other women to do the same.
I really enjoyed this interview. I respect her transparency, not once did she place the whole blame on NAS, she took responsibility for the demise of the relationship. I dated a Narcissist, it can get really dark and toxic! You will act out of character etc... Crazy, if she didn't speak about the situation, you would've accepted all the rumors about her; she's crazy, golddigger etc...Once you truly heal from a toxic relationship, become self-aware of who you are, it won't matter what people think about you. People will hurt you, God will heal you. People will humiliate you, God will magnify you. People will judge you, God will justify you. Keep having faith (Kelis) God got you no matter what! Keep Nas lifted up in prayer.
LIVE ISH that might be true. To be honest if you dealt with a narcissist long enough you start to emulate the same behavior not knowingly. Most narcissistic never show empathy or take accountability, but she did. She never said it was all Nas fault!!!
Nicole Clark SHE spent this whole interview TRASHING nas..she took NO accountability. For ANYTHING. Name one thing she said she did wrong.. besides choosing him.
Nicole Clark I'm not saying that nas isn't a narcissist as well. He almost has to be to have gotten to the level he is at.. not all narcissism is bad.. this woman is clearly toxic.. but she hides it very very well like most narcissists typically do. You hit the nail on the head... the vast majority of narcissists can bring out the worst in their victim.. I can guarantee that most of toxic the narcissistic behavior she claims nas has, she helped cause. She literally told on herself at the end. When she said she acted a fool and cursed and screamed at him.. and wanted to punch him in his face... the she caught herself and said " I walked away" then nas left.. she took NO accountability for him leaving.. NONE. this is clear cut narcissism..nas was FORCED to leave because of her TOXIC behavior.. then she trashes HIM for leaving.... masterfully.... THAT'S why he filed. ... I went through the exact same thing.. my kids mom is boriqua too... maybe it's that? I don't know lol. Thankfully i got my kid.. . I hope nas gets his son.
LIVE ISH 🤔 sorry did I miss something. She said they were very intense, which cause very intense (high & low) moments. She said “she’s not perfect if he hit, she hits back, she didn’t start it, but didn’t mind finishing it. She’s 5”10 I know how to fight, I’m not weak, very opinionated and a bitch at times” I mean she said a lot!! At the beginning she said “we were just too much” Yes, many of us have narcissistic behavior, no all of it is not bad. Far as what she described it sounds like it was a volatile toxic relationship 🤷🏽♀️
I already loved Kelis but this made me love her even more. She has always been so raw and authentic. And I always respected why she never talked about her relationship with Nas before because they have a son together but I know why she chose to speak now and it’s so empowering. I wish her all the best with this custody battle.
Naomi T Grant NAS ain't never getting that kid. He need take a✈🛫🛬🚀🛩🛥🚢⛴🛸🚁💺💺💺 he has too much time on his hands...he need to find something or someone to play with.
This interview is so real. her experience is so relevant to me. I went through very similar events in my life. Yes, soon as I had my child getting thru to him was a loss cost amongst other things. It was an indication and impromptu to getting the hell out and dodging fast for the benefit of my child. Her interview screams to my heart. It's on my top five. I don't want to knock any other interview off the list...but🤷🏿♀️. Then again 🤔 Is it safe to put these interviews in categories? As a viewer I'm so pleased to experience the growth of Hollywood Unlocked. Thank you !
kaylon B yes it his I am dealing with a monster a complete monster its not even about our son it his narcissistic ass I know exactly what you're talking about had to get that out Ladies men to hang in there be strong 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Oh come off it. There is no evidence her claims are real. If she has proof why didn't she take him to court at the time? All bruises and no proof? Come. On. Why is this woman even speaking Nasir name now, she admits their relationship was violent, she gets paid 8k a month and has remarried. Move on.
Ladies, it would probably mentally benefit you to realize that: 1.) humans in the real world don't "just turn" on you with no prior warning signs. 2.) Needing his money as a matter of life and death BEFORE figuring out he's schizo is a stupid mistake, regardless how common the mistake is made by stupid people. 3.) If we separate time from space, her interview would make sense. But since this didn't happen all in one day, I'm pretty sure she's just bad at finding an appropriate remedy in a timely fashion.
I hate that people can't separate artists from individuals. Nas can very much be the person she is saying. I've dated an abuser. They all the same and have all the same characteristics. So Nicki left Nas? Mmmmm hmmmmm
“I HATE YOU SO MUCH RIGHT NOW.... ARGHHHH!!!” That was my jam 💃🏽🕺🏾. Kelis definitely marched to the beat of her own drum and was a originator in her craft.
This interview is everything we needed right now my goodness. I don’t think she trashed Nas she shared her truth with the fire we only expect from Kelis. I am so grateful for her sharing I wish I could thank her personally.
I'm glad Kelis has finally told her story. For those wondering why she waited so long or why she didn't mention abuse during the divorce, does it matter? For the record Tina Turner never mentioned being abused until she released her book. Ike and Tina divorced in 1978, her book was released in 1986. While they were married she never called the cops and Ike was never charged with domestic violence. During their divorce proceedings Tina did not mention abuse either.
Salim Uhuru i was a victim of domestic abuse. When youre in that situation, you think you can change that person when youre in love. I was also deathly afraid to say anything. He not only abused me physically, but he controlled me. Nobody thought i could be in a relationship like that because id always been loud and goofy. Sometimes women look to fix men and forget themselves. It took me being in a coma for 3 days for me to leave and even then i thought about going back. Love is a crazy thing and you can be addicted to a person just like drugs. Plus i felt like no one would believe me because of who he was.
Sassy butSweet thank you. Im still dealing with it everyday but i try to remember that i came out the coma for a reason. That was almost 3 years ago. I had to literally move out the state for him to leave me alone. But thanks for your prayers can never get enough of those😘😄
Years ago I was in a restaurant in NYC and both Kelis and Nas were there eating. The room stood still when Kelis stood up.. she was stunning. Simply stunning. They were an adorable couple that many saw as a health relationship in Hip Hop but in truth we never knew. And I recall your adorable mother in your Food Network special. She made the pernil and I feel in love with both of your chemistry and love for each other. All I can say is that I hope for the best for Nas, Kelis, your Mom and son.
I believed her once she told the child story. A lot of men like to decide they wanna be fathers then disrupt a child’s whole life because they’re ready.
I'm a Leo to and was in abusive relationship too. When she said she is not weak and said she was contemplating what she should do because she is private. Until this day half of my friends or my mother do not know this happen to me. Be free Kelis. This is very freeing. I love her honesty. The host ask the questions exactly the way they should have been asked. Great interview.
She has such a fun, bubbly personality, I have to say I believe her. Nas is my favorite rapper and it hurts to hear what he is really like in private. Shame on Nas for treating Kelis and his son this way.
My sis sent me this interview bc it reminded her of me and my high profile ex husband. I cried for her and for me bc I know how it feels to have to be painted as a crazy baby momma when you are really the victim and quiet bc you don’t want more drama. The biggest critics are females who misjudge you. People don’t wait to hear both sides, they just condemn and repeat lies which hurt people. This man has destroyed my life in every way with his power and influence and I hv finally found the strength within to fight him back on all levels. I must say, if you survive narcissistic abuse and rise, then you are a god! That I have become and now I counsel and heal many others. Much love Kelis and other survivors
Ann M congrats to u. I had to deal with ths Bullsht regarding my grandson dad, my baby went through hell. One day I was on my way to his hs God spoke told me to go bk to bed( yes I was goin to kill tht ass) a wk later he was put on hospice he died of stage 4 cancer & sclerosis of the liver a horrible deaf. My grandson has never been the same tht nicca took my baby innocence he was forced to grow up b4 his time. God bless 💜
I remember when Nicki and Nas got together so many “fans” would go on Kelis page to troll her about that relationship to the point she (Kelis) had to make a statement that she did not care and wanted ppl to stop writing on her page. Now it makes sense. I wonder what Nicki’s story with him is because that ended abruptly and then she went on a hiatus 🤔
A REAL MOTHER always ALWAYS, takes and endures the toughest and deepest hardships when it comes to our kids. We handle shit different and always prevail with God's hand over us...and always ALWAYS come out better on the other side. Happiness and Success is the best remedy for evil.
I’m not a mother yet but I’ve witnessed many single mothers go through all these things in my life, which is why I when it comes to children I’m super focused on the type of father I want for my kids. Be careful of the snakes. 😒 I teared up watching this.
My child's father did the same stuff ordered to have medical insurance but wouldn't do or would do it for six months and then cancel it. Lie about anything or do stuff to spite me
Willa Wonka also thoroughly work on healing any trauma in your own past! That helps prevents us from ending up with people that are abusive/manipulative and also helps with raising our children better than our parents raised us. It’s so tricky and hidden but it truly is the root of a lot of subconscious tendencies.
Caroline No, its not. You do not know someone is going to abusive you. Most abusers hide it. Everybody in an abusive relationship did not have bad childhoods. They are manipulative as you said so maybe they stay due to trauma but unless you see them get angry you cannot tell until they hit you. You can pick up on things like putting you down. Mirroring, gaslighting but everyone isnt a textbook case
Girl just don't have children because u can't tell the future in what may happen if there's a split. The person u thought u knew oh so well turns into someone u never seen before.
Nique Sade truly, sometimes the situations are soo unreal, it's all you can do. When you are a peaceful person and the other lives for drama, the only response is laughter.
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This is the best Interview Jason Lee has done, he actually let her talk and asked good questions.
Sasha Howlette And she deserves a 1 on 1, if Alexis Sky had one ,Kelis definitely was due
Sasha, yeah i was going to be upset if he did but he let her talk and she was deep!
I was thinking the same thing and so surprised!
I'm not familiar with him or his interviews, but I felt like he almost wasn't listening half of the time and would ask questions she'd just answered or talked about. That was a little irritating, especially because she was so passionate about her answers.
This is one of the best interviews I’ve ever seen of any artist. This was literally raw emotion and Jason interviewed like a seasoned professional. Wow!
I did NOT want this interview to end. Great job Jason. She was so comfortable and really open. We dont hear from her often so this was so fascinating.
I know! It was a really good interview. Makes me like her even more now 🥰❤️
Yup, because you love drama that damn much.
This is so real. One thing I have always loved and noticed about Kelis is that despite her separation from Nas you NEVER heard her speak ill of him in the media. I always thought it was because she still loved him and secretly wanted to be back with him, but after this interview it is very clear that she was dealing with a lot of pain. Even in this interview you can see her reliving some of those moments. She is a superstar and I'm so inspired by the strength she displayed during this interview.
Wonder Wesley exactly
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Yes .. I love her
I really love and respect her wholeheartedly.
Bless her.🙏🏿
When she hit the scene she was very vibrant and unique. She was so different and naturally beautiful. I loved everything about her. Nas was my teenage crush, but when I first saw them together I said to myself, I hope he doesn't strip her of everything. Men always want the best woman but don't know how to treat them
Book, chapter and verse. They want the best women so they'll have the most to deconstruct. Men are, by nature it seems, incredibly destructive.
bullshit!
I'm sure you are not referring to all men
ESPECIALLY in a woman’s youth
This the one!!
Im so glad that narcissism was brought up! Narcissism is being brought to the light left and right!
Erica Scott yes indeed..its very prominent in the black community... we need more awareness . .it is Everywhere!!!!! I also think Kanye is one tbh.
Kelis, have you tried “grey rocking” this negro? Its a narcissist tactic though hard for someone who is in the spotlight to practice
brit llove hes DEFINITELY one. Just like 45
Erica Scott yup!! ;-)
brit llove Kanye, Bill Cosby and Nas all narcissistic trash.
The fact that she still invited him to thanksgiving is WOOOW. The empathy some women have is amazing. God bless her
DICK LONG no because she has forgiven him. Watch your UA-cam fingers.
She's very empathetic. I've been in a similar situation. She's being kind and he sees it as a weakness. In his head, he is confident that he can disappear or show up whenever he wants and she'll never do anything to harm or his image #narcissism
Jachimma Nwachukwu she has absolutely zero true empathy. Zero. She is a MASTER level narcissist...
Boy Wonder bullshite. She is with a mixed raced man. Funny how you claim mixed women or women with even 2% black Dna, as a black woman (Amber Rose), but if a man doesn't look like Morris chesnut he isn't "black". Hilarious
jacpppp yeah he looks hispanic or italian. He definitely isn't black.
I love her speaking voice...
that rasp...
Me too! I love her period!
I was thinking this as well lol!
Me too
Same. It's slightly similar to mine actually lol
As a child who has seen women go through abusive relationships, and also witnessing women who lie about it, I can tell you whole-heartedly, THIS WOMAN AIN'T LYING!
Lol
Yes I agree 💯.
We fans of hers know she ain't lying
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Straight! Thank you so much for this comment...I don’t get how people can bash her.
I am so glad Kelis is doing this. This shows the strength of Black Women and what we costantly have to deal with. NO ONE SHOULD GO THROUGH THIS REGARDLESS OF STATUS.
Trevette Chambers the problem is that we believe that we have to deal with this 🙄
Trey Diggz people are really wanting to give others access to this touchy information. That is probably the issue.
She is a classic narcissist
SHE PLAYED HER PART!!!
Trevette Chambers Same here. Everyone expect Black women to be the barrier for everyone. I didn't flinch when the gossip outlets made a big deal about Kelis large amount of child support. Yet, Tiger Woods White Ex-wife Elin Nordegren received over 700K and no one made a big fuss about the amount.
No woman would leave her husband when she's 7 months pregnant if it wasn't bad. At that point you can hardly move around, and you want your man to be there throughout the journey.
Lynda Saint-Val With the beatings???!!, and cheating, tha ts not healthy for the mother, the unborn child, is put in danger, what happens when the beatings injure the unborn child, could hurt the baby, definitely puts so much stress on the mother, that the child develops emotional, psychological issues, Ridiculous how the financial support becomes the priority, while you keep your life and child in a bad situation!!
I stayed with my wife through it, I think her character is questionable tbh
Misses Mandarin You misread my comment.
Lynda Saint-Val FAAAACTS!!!
Jon Harris True, but I'm using logic and facts. In an interview with Funk Flex on HOT 97, Nas said Kelis caught a bad rap, and he retracted his statement that Kelis emptied out the house leaving only the green dress. He said she only took pictures and things that were sentimental to both of them.
When she said her son CHOSE to call his stepdad “Papa” that struck a chord with me. My sister took responsibility for our little cousin (aka my niece) when she was practically a newborn. One day, out of nowhere, I think she was about 3 or 4 years old, she started calling my sister “mommy.” And as she got older, when people would correct her, she would explain that she has two moms. A child can recognize when someone takes an active role in their life, no matter what age.
NJPrinc3 wait, how is she your cousin and niece at the same time?
@@kauity9666 she's probably calling her her niece because her sister is raising her as her child. But by blood, she's her cousin.
This is months late but...
But why is a deadbeat (Nas) taking the mother (Kelis) back to court for custody issues? There are 3 sides to a story!!
@@mosacharles1033 Parents need to pursue a relationship with their child...so custody/visitation issues will come up if they give an actual fuck. That's independent of who's paying what. Some people let hate for the ex eclipse their love for their child.
@@markobbanya1402 you missed my point! Nas paid for her culinary school btw! But he doesn't pay child support. Like I said if it were true he is a deadbeat then show reciepts. She never refuted that he put her through that school after they split. Kelis has single handedly destroyed her own career. So proceed with caution.
RIP to her husband's who just passed away a few days ago and condolences to her.
Much love and healing to her and her family
Damn that sucks😢
@laylo5999 yeah he had stomach cancer for 2 yrs.
damn why cant she be happy he was soo young
@@veroniquel7263 she's healing with her children, farm and currently traveling through Africa.❤
Somebody give Jason Lee an Award!!! This was one of the dopest interviews EVER!!! He asked all the right questions, he was a listening ear and he wasn't judgemental. I would have lost it, when she started spilling all that Tea, but he sipped it like a real, G! I love you Jason!!! All respect to Kelis for being honorable, and loyal to a man that wasn't loyal to her. That takes strength! This interview seemed therapeutic for her. I wish her and her family all the best!
Erica Doyle I agree
Erica Doyle exactly he's really good
Right !! She started spilling everything!
Y r u here
Well said
I so understand Kelis' position. I'm private & don't like confrontation, but push me & you'll get what you're asking for. She was silent about this for years & for her child she tried to keep things calm. Enough is a damn nuff!
Dena C right !
Dena C basically
A genuine honest person will share their faults while they're telling you about the other person. She's doing that in this interview and I respect that.
I noticed that too. I highly respect it.
@Abigail Wisdom then get your lawyers and take her to court. Otherwise you can stfu
EXACTLY!! That’s why I know she’s telling the truth.
100% she is love her!
You don’t know how much of her faults she shares though
I think any grown woman that's been through something or know someone that's been through something very similar, can see the realness behind everything that she saying to be true and the fact that she's waited for years to speak on it..... speaks volumes! Through it all she's shining!
That’s why they always question the story because they put so many of us through it, and don’t want us to be believed. All women have a story yet no one knows an abuser.
She's telling her truth..and to her credit she is 5'10 and she could've did some real damage to Nas if she was vengeful..but she knew vengeance is the Lord's & so is the battle.
They better credit Hollywood Unlocked when this story goes viral!
J.Alaia you aint never lying, Jason was on point with this one!
This story is not going to go viral because nobody cares.🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
Moe it will
I saw it somewhere else first and they didnt site their source. I thought she was doing a press tour when I saw her on HU... but HU got the exclusive!!!
Moe it definitely will
"What about your ex?! Is he fly?! Go get him!" Lmaooo I love her!
I'm a man and was in a short term abusive relationship with a woman. It's inspiring how she bounced back from years of abuse. She's an amazing woman. This interview blessed me.
This will be a classic. Kelis has always been dope and Hollywood Unlocked always has the rawest interviews. Kudos!
Spoken Softly, this one of his top 3 interviews to me!
jarvis thomas Agreed! The honesty. The setting. Her comfort level. A1!
Now this is what I call an INTERVIEW 👏🏾 I’m glad she finally was able to tell her truth. Love Kelis.
chrissayssoo im glueddddd
This interview touched my SOUL. Girl, Kelis, stay strong.
Damn. "Life is really short". RIP Mike.
U can tell everything she said was real af. I admire her and we still love Kelis thats for sure
Cashsus Clay except, she is a narcissist. That's what they do.. SEEM real.. but everything said in this interview was calculated.
@@liveish2717 you sure you ain’t a narcissist? You literally on every comment smearing her
I love how she separates business from personal life. That's very healthy.
I like Kelis she kept it 100
DICK LONG Nasss That You?? 🤔
She’s full of shit
I’ve always had immense respect and admiration for Kelis’ artistry and integrity. She is intelligent, articulate and deeply talented. I’ve been a fan since her debut with Kaleidoscope. There was no other artist like her when she came on the scene. Kelis setted trends, she never followed them.
True talk!!!! 👌🏽
Talk ya truth 💯💯💯
Narcissism is SO real. I was never aware that it even existed until I dated someone that was narcissistic. Luckily I came to the realization very quickly and left after 4 months but it’s such a depressing situation to be in and they’re so good at making you believe YOU are the crazy one. It’s sad that people go through this and feel like they can’t get out of it. I’m so glad she opened up about this because no one seems to talk about it.
Curly Breezy Yes Narcissism is a very real and sick illness... To the point that a manipulative person can make the other person look like an abuser , just to make them look bad, for some form of revenge...and people will believe them
Nicole Horton yup spot on. it’s a crappy situation to ever experience.
Curly Breezy Yep just like this Narcissist being interviewed has all of you all fooled... She's lying
Curly Breezy yeh it seems to be an epidemic
Curly Breezy absolutely!
How can anyone say she's doing this for court or to sabotage him? This is someone who is almost still protecting him by saying "we would fight" "I'm not an angel". Very candid yet tactful.
mzabie94 Shes not protecting him... she’s trying to be honest... Something most of you females cant do.
They fought each other.
Same w/ Rihanna & CB. They fought.
Society just makes the females a victim
Well, when you asked for a $40k monthly child support, it's obvious she did it for the court. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I believe what she's saying is true. NARCISSISM is real people! I was involved with one and almost went to jail. Being caught up with one.
kary'ology SHE is a narcissist.... nas other baby mama carmen is also a narcissist. Watch her vlad tv interview.. she thinks EXACTLY like this woman.
kary'ology 💯✔
@@liveish2717 exactly. She’s full of shit
Yes because Waiting 9 years and beeing silence about everything is exactly what narcissists do...so stupid sorry but these comments are fucked and people like you make it so hard for victims to come out :@
@@Unkwown_Admin__ she’s Money Hungry .
The only reason people are not accepting Nas can be this exact character is because he is an OG rap icon. If everyone can be happy for Ciara and her new marriage and family they should also be happy for Kelis. If Naz was a "new age rapper" like future more ppl would respect her perspective.
Very well said
Or maybe she's not believable and lying. Could that be a possibility??? Or should we just believe her since we are in the me too era??
Nas is Nas. A Genius, A King and a Flawed Person. 💖 Kelis.
@@cherylwilliams3193 yes, most geniuses are. She may be lying (doubt it) but then again, the part about him drinking too much (she left out the drugs) we call all believe. Who's ever met a heavy drinker/drug user who treats their woman right?
@@willsmooth1355 hope nobody beats your daughter and calls her a liar when she speaks up about it.
I believe her. It's so many men that are broken and treat women horribly. Nas looks so well put together but has a lot of issues. People have to separate the man from the music. I love Kelis for her courage and strength.
Kelley Dorsey Exactly
Kelley Dorsey facts
One of my favorite artists of all time! I just love her raspy voice.... it's so Rock n roll and unique! Kelis made it fly to be DIFFERENT! 💜
KIMMY Amen my sista!
KIMMY love her voice..
So true shes underrated.
Yeeessss
Jasmine Douglas beyond underated for sure!!!
She kept her mouth shut for years and decided to speak out now because she CAN! Narcissism is all around us... most people are just blind to it! Just because he is Nas... does not mean he is GOD! Yes I love him as an artist but I don't know him as a person so I won't follow the flock of sheep that say she is lying.
i kinda agree but like usual u girls only agreeing because u like to play the victim her timing is way of that amazon deal get her in the amazon buzzing for extra handouts! aint no dad want to be paying money to the baby mum without seeing their child! she blatantly has admitted that they both used to hit each other so who the victim obviously a guy shouldn't hit a girl but does that mean a girl should hit a guy! tired of girls playing the victim kelis just crying out cos she still digging nas tell her to get bk in the kitchen cos she seems to only just get that the kitchen is how to keep her bloke with her new show looooooooooool yh i went there lol
U usual can speak on past trauma & hurt once you've moved past it. I never doubt anyone's story.
sweetma4life your right and I'm glad that you mentioned that you are an Nas Fan because people dont know the difference between a Fan who can love the artist and his art , but still call him out on his bullshit and a stan who stands with the Artist regardless of what they done
And I as an Fan of nas definatly know where you come from with that and the most of the people who say that kelis lies just because its nas are definatly stans
where is her proof?
Dee Thomas Proof for what? I honestly think after watching this interview Kellis could care less who believes her or if people believe her. She wanted to tell her story & not hold back today.
Kelis is such an intelligent strong black woman, so inspiring.
For some odd reason I don’t think Kelis is lying at all. I’m glad she got out, rebuilt, and is happy.
It's those "quiet nice guys" that do the most....believe me...act like a whole different person around others
Ebony Huffman that's true. But in this case. She is the true narcissist.
Way too accurate!
LIVE ISH You are writing the same thing on everyone's comment that shows support to Kelis, Why is that? Do you know her personally? Your going hard in the comment section trying to invalidate her experience. We're you there? Who put you up to this? Nas is this you?🤔
Gurl this is so true
Yeah covert narcissist are the creepiest
She deserves so much more , kelis is so original her style was way different for her time so yeah pay some homage
Randell Parham
Yeah! I love Kelis, and still listen to her early stuff, and you know the men calling her a liar have their own issues.
Randell Parham its asking asSiFOzosasszszzZyzuez
Randell Parham its asking asSiFOzosasszszzZyzuezd
Randall yessss! You either get it or you don't.
Yes. And she has more than Nas now with her new hubby.
Everyone is Nas this Nas that. What stood out in this interview was her ferocious stance on parenting and protecting her children. How passionately she described her son. How well traveled and spoken he is. Coming from an abandoned child that touched my heart strings. I wanted a mom like that so bad
😢
🙏🏾🤎
You will be a good mom/dad.
Well, she was traveling on NAS' money. 🤣🤣🤣
And she protected the kid from the dad because she wanted child support.
@@ITISKONYhypothetically speaking you’re correct as it relates to “spending his money”, would you want your child’s mother to spend the money to enhance and culture your child or get her body done? Either way her prerogative, but I’d more so lean towards an appreciation for developing a well rounded child. Sorry if I saw deeper than the gossip and Nas rhetoric.
This is LITERALLY what baby daddies do. Dip off for 3 months at a time, then come back demanding things to go their way. No respect. No consistency. 😒
Cherrelle G. No that's what soldiers do. That's what touring musicians and athletes do.. this woman is a RAGING narcissist.
LIVE ISH I'm talking about my own regular nigga ass baby daddy. She is telling the SAME story I went through.
Cherrelle G. Except her situation is NOTHING like yours.. unless less you are a narcissist like she is.
LIVE ISH So you tryna tell me about MY situation 🤔 Got it.
Cherrelle G. No. What I am saying is that this woman is a very high level narcissist. Most of this video is twisted half truths and outright lies. Because your truth is similar to her lies, you think she is telling your story. But what she is actually doing is publicly demonizing her kids father out of spite and narcissistic rage.. she is an abusive mentally unstable person with an addictive personality.she ADMITTED that in this video... she is sick. I hope nas gets his son... this video will surely help him.
I have so much respect for Kelis and I understand her more now than ever. She’s a strong woman. She’s survived the industry, domestic abuse and now she’s happy. Shout out to her for that! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
KyrelTerrhaun if you think, that that is a strong woman you are in for a WORLD of pain and misery with women.
LIVE ISH Haha! Nah. I ain’t with the crazy shit! All of that domestic violence and being at war ain’t for me.
KyrelTerrhaun For real, she shading Nas, 10 years after the event, just when he's making a big business deal in his life? That is low bruh. Black women love to hate a man who's doing well. The narcissism she projects is crazy.
dave junges After thinking about what you said and watching this again, her timely is a lil suspect considering all the shit he has going. This interview came outta nowhere. Nas is still one of the illest MCs and how I look at him didn’t change. Now I wanna hear what he has to say about all of this 🤔
Rasuke11 Fact! I am a HOV fan! 🙌🏽 Fuck you! 😂
- “ Look at him , he’s perfect - you’re welcome “ (on their son) 🤣🤣👌🏽
Stephanie Thomas 🙌🏾
Love!
Lol. I loved that part too!
Jade Smith yes ! Lol like , i FEEL you girl
Quotable quote!
The more I see these interviews with Kelis, the more I am fascinated with her. She’s down to earth, so funny, smart, creative, tough, quick witted, humble. She’s a lot like me, I love her!!🥰💯
She keeps on laughing from crying. Like Kelis is strong
Empress Bahbie I totally understand that
Or she's BS-ing and acting is her game.
Empress Bahbie every sentence ends with a chuckle
@@calliepeach6234 that's when you're good with everything
Phony af
She is so freaking beautiful! Like wow man... Genuine spirit and beautiful soul.
She seems like she’d be mad cool to hangout with.
She does
Mark Matthews AMEN I thought the same thing
I remember Kelis being Rihanna before Rihanna. Kelis was the sexy, cool style and hair cuts. Then Rihanna came.
Dominique Ransom Kelis was also the “weird black chic” before it became a trend to be weird.
There is no comparing. Kelis is original and unique, she really has her own style in everything. Rihanna has good songs, but is made by the industry by producers and marketing.
@@nicolemanja1430 I agree, her image was created by her team
@@nicolemanja1430 AGREED. plus Kelis would never fuck up lives to make a billion like Rihanna lol. but yea, creatively and how they were marketed, nothing alike. two different lanes
Absolutely they stole her whole swag
damn we be so in love with these celebrities and really don't know them from a can of paint
Amen.
Not at all !
so did you hear Nas side? or you just believe her?! that is scary!
Kicknowledge Smith Nas told his side about the breakdown of this relationship when “Life is Good” dropped. Apparently he left out a lot of details
D Henny was that a reference to queen latifah or is that a common phrase in the US?
Robert Lund a common phrase
Fabolous the "quiet type" too just like nas and you see what's going on with him now. You never know what's going on behind closed doors. A Smile can hide a lot of pain.
so many people want to marry somebody famous.
both men were abused by their women that's why Kelis use to hit Nas and that's how the crap started just like Fab. It's sad how men can be painted in a bad light because it's not cool to say a woman abuses you.
@@LYTEYEARPRODUCTIONS Like Johnny Depp
@@LYTEYEARPRODUCTIONS exactly, like I always say, if you don't want to be hit, keep your hands to yourself, now I'm not condoning a man just hitting a woman because he's mad but ladies argue with your mouth, not your hands
@@deronwilliams338 it’s not worth it!!
Man this woman is so brilliant, Love Kelis.
zan752000 she is a brilliant articulate talented NARCISSIST
Kelis turns 40 tomorrow. Happy early birthday Kelis! Been a fan since 1999, Kaleidoscope era.
M j G Yessss maam
Damn I didn’t want to hear that about Nas. I would’ve NEVER imagined Nas to be like that, but I believe her. It sounds all too familiar. So many of us women deal w/ this, when dealing w/ the fathers of our child(ren). I know she’s STILL holding so much back in an effort to not destroy his image or the way ppl perceive him. I too thought SHE was the issue & bitter, & now I feel bad for not giving her a chance. I’m glad I watched this interview, although I initially rolled my eyes when I seen the title. God bless you girl. Keep winning!
Erin B 💯💜🙏
Erin, i was saying the same thing not Nas, but peps go through real iiiiish!
I thought the same thing! Any woman who has a child by a broken black man KNOWS she's telling the truth
Erin B I can't imagine her lying about everything she said in this interview at all. 99% of the things she spilled here can be confirmed whether it's true or not with other people than herself or Nas, so I don't see why she would lie.
Erin B Check out the mother of his daughters book. I read it back in 2010 and have never looked at him the same. The behavior she describes is very familiar
I have been a big Kelis fan for a long time. Her and Nas were my favorite couple. This proves that just because people look cute in pictures that doesn't mean that they are happy. Nobody is "goals" to me in regards to their relationship. She has absolutely been quiet for the longest and it sucks that she was suffering in silence and being painted as a gold digger. Side note, she is so damn beautiful and I love her speaking voice and her skin. Disappointed in Nas. Smh.
My words exactly -- ugh NAS brother :(((( u gotta do better and heal up !
ItsGippetto Agreed!!
ItsGippetto This proves that all somebody needs is to be accused to be guilty.
"Look at him, He's PERFECT. You're welcome" This is my new motto! Yessssss Kelis!!!!
L C this is narcissistic behavior.
L C bitch
This definitely hit home for me. I love Kelis. I know this is old, but sending her high vibes.
I just subscribed to your channel💥
@@Light_144 Thank You 😊
Ditto
Thank you Kelis for saying deep down what me as a loyal Nas fan never wanted to believe about him. But I know she’s telling the truth ugh I’m so disappointed 😢
Heidi Taylor 💚💗💚 I'm feeling the same but I enjoyed every moment!!!
Heidi Taylor this is so sad. I think she laughs to keep from crying. I look at him different now
Heidi Taylor me too! I didn’t want to hear that about Nas. Out of all ppl....NAS?!?!?!
Heidi Taylor Yep. Nas is very attractive but I can't say I'm surprised
Heidi Taylor omg!!!! Me too!!! I Used to love his ass. But I’m leaving hope he’ll get help. It’s hard coming from what we came from.
“If you really want to spend time with him, show up” damn.. FACTS! 💯
I am Black and I am Furious!!! ~Kelis
Can we get this on a shirt ma’m?! I need this ASAP!
Destiny FACTS
AGREED!
Felt that 🔥
I know right! That would be so dope especially now!
Destiny "and I am not sorry about that!" ** Shirts need to come ASAP
Jason Lee- "Why were you so silent?"
Kelis-"In all honestly, I was afraid to because of my faith and belief in God, and my Creator, I know that I could never fight him as ruthlessly as he would fight me." I believe many women who have been in a bad relationship and who genuinely have a heart for God can relate to her answer. This also reveals her level of integrity because you have to stoop real low to fight the devil on his terms.
Yes 🙌🏾 🙌🏾the guilt is all too much… and fear of losing everything is real.. especially your kids
Thank you for speaking your truth. You have saved lives in many forms.
Really? Can u expound on this
How?!
So you can just say something these days and that makes it true. Wow it's a new world.
She said there was abuse. She never said he abused her. Thats because she was the violent one. There have been reports out of Atlanta where they lived from restaurant workers and such that say they saw her putting hand on him often. Also, its funny that he just got $30M from a deal selling Ring to Amazon now she popping up wanting more money and now she abused. Not buying it. Because she says it, it doest make it true. No such thing as "her truth" there is only "the truth". Truth is absolute.
J Johnson she is a violent delusional narcissist.. she ADMITS to this indirectly NUMEROUS times in this video.. she is really a pos.... im was huge fan of hers.. more so than nas.. I too am glad for this video.. this is a great video to watch with your sons or any young brothers so you can teach them identify a narcissistic woman... which she CLEARLY is. A narcissistic woman is like a demon...she is an expert at bringing out the devil in a man.. she will never give up until she get under his skin.. every man has a breaking point.. she will say or do ANYTHING to break him. and then say "look at him.. he is a devil!"
Kelis is so beautiful, inside and out.
You don't even know the bitch.
I believe every single word! I was a fan before but now I’m an even bigger fan for her being so real and honest.
AJH 723 I love you Akai!!! 😘😘😘😘😘😘
sweetma4life I love you more!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Marlon Green 😒 whatever that's supposed to mean
Marlon Green You know all about lipstick and nail polish, don’t you? Judging by the misogynistic videos on your page, I can tell you don’t like women at all.
AJH 723 how can you believe every single word when you only heard half the story? You must think the interviewer is sexy too. This bitch been crazy
Dealing with a narcistic person is synonymous with dealing with the devil.
Narcissists are Demons period.
I guess she is the devil.
Kells is so upbeat. *Abusers can't stand happiness*
Angel Face she is depressed.
she really is upbeat
That’s why he keeps fkin w/ her. He’s mad she’s not miserable w/o him.
“Abusers can’t stand happiness." So true because they’re miserable inside, and misery doesn’t want to be alone.
@Layne G Yup. This me too movement is getting out of hand right now. Any of them will say it now just to assassinate a person's character out of hate. Kelis loses to nas in court and all of a sudden the abuse allegations are brought up 10 YEARS LATER. Why not bring this up after the divorce??.....lol
WOMEN need to speak up!!! We need to tell our truth. We have to be honest about our experiences as women. It’s so empowering. It allows other women to do the same.
Coco Chips Not Fabulous babymamma! She is in it to win it hunny!
I served her in Primark yearsssss ago in London when I used to work there. She was most def in Pilates clothes lmaooo and humble as hell
Aww bless you, what a good memory.
What branch lol Kelis at Primani
My name is Jade - marble arch. She always used to shop there. Lmao. This was 8 years ago haha
I saw her recently in a Homegoods in LA. She was chillin. I said nothing of course but was HYPE! lol
Dr. Honey Trap Bih • The Honey Experience • you from london
She just seems like someone real that you need in your life.
She starts speaking about Nas at 13:00 and starts to get real at 14:38. You can thank me later 😁
In The Beginning Was The Word shiiit... I thought I was gna have to watch this whole fkn interview lol
You my friend are the real mvp
In The Beginning Was The Word I wish I saw your comment earlier
thank u
Thanks because I was like blah blah blah 😂
I really enjoyed this interview. I respect her transparency, not once did she place the whole blame on NAS, she took responsibility for the demise of the relationship. I dated a Narcissist, it can get really dark and toxic! You will act out of character etc... Crazy, if she didn't speak about the situation, you would've accepted all the rumors about her; she's crazy, golddigger etc...Once you truly heal from a toxic relationship, become self-aware of who you are, it won't matter what people think about you. People will hurt you, God will heal you. People will humiliate you, God will magnify you. People will judge you, God will justify you. Keep having faith (Kelis) God got you no matter what! Keep Nas lifted up in prayer.
Nicole Clark SHE is a narcissist... CLEARLY.
LIVE ISH that might be true. To be honest if you dealt with a narcissist long enough you start to emulate the same behavior not knowingly. Most narcissistic never show empathy or take accountability, but she did. She never said it was all Nas fault!!!
Nicole Clark SHE spent this whole interview TRASHING nas..she took NO accountability. For ANYTHING. Name one thing she said she did wrong.. besides choosing him.
Nicole Clark I'm not saying that nas isn't a narcissist as well. He almost has to be to have gotten to the level he is at.. not all narcissism is bad.. this woman is clearly toxic.. but she hides it very very well like most narcissists typically do. You hit the nail on the head... the vast majority of narcissists can bring out the worst in their victim.. I can guarantee that most of toxic the narcissistic behavior she claims nas has, she helped cause. She literally told on herself at the end. When she said she acted a fool and cursed and screamed at him.. and wanted to punch him in his face... the she caught herself and said " I walked away" then nas left.. she took NO accountability for him leaving.. NONE. this is clear cut narcissism..nas was FORCED to leave because of her TOXIC behavior.. then she trashes HIM for leaving.... masterfully.... THAT'S why he filed. ... I went through the exact same thing.. my kids mom is boriqua too... maybe it's that? I don't know lol. Thankfully i got my kid..
. I hope nas gets his son.
LIVE ISH 🤔 sorry did I miss something. She said they were very intense, which cause very intense (high & low) moments. She said “she’s not perfect if he hit, she hits back, she didn’t start it, but didn’t mind finishing it. She’s 5”10 I know how to fight, I’m not weak, very opinionated and a bitch at times” I mean she said a lot!! At the beginning she said “we were just too much”
Yes, many of us have narcissistic behavior, no all of it is not bad. Far as what she described it sounds like it was a volatile toxic relationship 🤷🏽♀️
You can tell she tired . She steady trying to hold them tears back . Like I’m a tearing up for her..
When he said “Narcissist” that hit home! The tears starting falling at A fast pace..I know this person all too well!!! Omg
Nasassist.
He got a new name.
Yup Nasir Narcissist! I always wondered about that look in his eyes. They all have it.
@@Foodreview3.0 What look? you mean that weed and hennessy look?
@@oc850 dead inside look... coldness behind their eyes
@@starmaree ya know the nigga is from queensbridge
Now this is the definition of a Real genuine woman. So down to earth. Salute to all hard working solid Mothers.
N33k lol that's losing in court and now is willing to say and do anything to discredit Nas lol why come out with all this after 9yrs?
I already loved Kelis but this made me love her even more. She has always been so raw and authentic. And I always respected why she never talked about her relationship with Nas before because they have a son together but I know why she chose to speak now and it’s so empowering. I wish her all the best with this custody battle.
Naomi T Grant NAS ain't never getting that kid. He need take a✈🛫🛬🚀🛩🛥🚢⛴🛸🚁💺💺💺 he has too much time on his hands...he need to find something or someone to play with.
This interview is so real. her experience is so relevant to me. I went through very similar events in my life. Yes, soon as I had my child getting thru to him was a loss cost amongst other things. It was an indication and impromptu to getting the hell out and dodging fast for the benefit of my child. Her interview screams to my heart. It's on my top five. I don't want to knock any other interview off the list...but🤷🏿♀️. Then again 🤔 Is it safe to put these interviews in categories? As a viewer I'm so pleased to experience the growth of Hollywood Unlocked. Thank you !
Kaylon, you right, this interview was deep
kaylon B yes it his I am dealing with a monster a complete monster its not even about our son it his narcissistic ass I know exactly what you're talking about had to get that out Ladies men to hang in there be strong 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Glad you could overcome sis and come out on top...may God continue to bless you and your baby ❤️🙌🏾...this is my first Hollywood Unlocked interview!
Oh come off it.
There is no evidence her claims are real. If she has proof why didn't she take him to court at the time? All bruises and no proof? Come. On. Why is this woman even speaking Nasir name now, she admits their relationship was violent, she gets paid 8k a month and has remarried. Move on.
Ladies, it would probably mentally benefit you to realize that:
1.) humans in the real world don't "just turn" on you with no prior warning signs.
2.) Needing his money as a matter of life and death BEFORE figuring out he's schizo is a stupid mistake, regardless how common the mistake is made by stupid people.
3.) If we separate time from space, her interview would make sense. But since this didn't happen all in one day, I'm pretty sure she's just bad at finding an appropriate remedy in a timely fashion.
Despite everything she s been through, Kelis keeps herself in an upbeat spirit. That s what I love about her👍😀
Kelis is beautiful and so down to earth and real. Great interview!
I hate that people can't separate artists from individuals. Nas can very much be the person she is saying. I've dated an abuser. They all the same and have all the same characteristics.
So Nicki left Nas? Mmmmm hmmmmm
saushe young Most abusers keep a wholesome image.
saushe young 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
“I HATE YOU SO MUCH RIGHT NOW.... ARGHHHH!!!” That was my jam 💃🏽🕺🏾. Kelis definitely marched to the beat of her own drum and was a originator in her craft.
Candie P she is one of the few TRUE originals
Written by pharrell.
Candie P kaleidoscope is classic
the artist mind because of pharrell.
Katherine S pharrell is one of the true originals.
I love how Jason just allowed her to talk without interrupting! I have a new found love for Kelis ❤️ she seems so real and down to earth.
I know after this interview she must have been completely silent or bawled her eyes out; therapeutic silence, therapeutic tears.
This is big Jason !
Per Goddess, yeah this one was huge, i mean this one was deep
Jennifer Lewis was a great one too
Brit, yeah that was my fav one! But Tank and TS Madison were super funny too!
Per Goddess yes
This interview is everything we needed right now my goodness. I don’t think she trashed Nas she shared her truth with the fire we only expect from Kelis. I am so grateful for her sharing I wish I could thank her personally.
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I hope you get through what you are going through. I have been there, it's hard, but now I have never been so happy.
Blessings to you.
“ I wouldn’t start it but I’ll participate in ended it.” Felt that deep in my soul. Kelis is such a Leo woman ♌️👑.
You know damn well she is lying
@@andrebayiha8350why?
lol corny
I'm glad Kelis has finally told her story. For those wondering why she waited so long or why she didn't mention abuse during the divorce, does it matter? For the record Tina Turner never mentioned being abused until she released her book. Ike and Tina divorced in 1978, her book was released in 1986. While they were married she never called the cops and Ike was never charged with domestic violence. During their divorce proceedings Tina did not mention abuse either.
bluesugar58 very good points
Salim Uhuru i was a victim of domestic abuse. When youre in that situation, you think you can change that person when youre in love. I was also deathly afraid to say anything. He not only abused me physically, but he controlled me. Nobody thought i could be in a relationship like that because id always been loud and goofy. Sometimes women look to fix men and forget themselves. It took me being in a coma for 3 days for me to leave and even then i thought about going back. Love is a crazy thing and you can be addicted to a person just like drugs. Plus i felt like no one would believe me because of who he was.
You think Tina had an option to call the cops and not ruin her career or end up in jail herself. Don't do that. Not even a comparison
Trina's Sourpuss OMG....Im pray GOD continue 2 cover u.....im glad u were finally able 2 get out that situation
Sassy butSweet thank you. Im still dealing with it everyday but i try to remember that i came out the coma for a reason. That was almost 3 years ago. I had to literally move out the state for him to leave me alone. But thanks for your prayers can never get enough of those😘😄
I’m so here for this emergence of 90’s and early 2000’s tea.☕️ Back then we didn’t have social media and blogs so this is golden.
venus clarke Yesss me too! My cup runnenth over
Years ago I was in a restaurant in NYC and both Kelis and Nas were there eating. The room stood still when Kelis stood up.. she was stunning. Simply stunning. They were an adorable couple that many saw as a health relationship in Hip Hop but in truth we never knew.
And I recall your adorable mother in your Food Network special. She made the pernil and I feel in love with both of your chemistry and love for each other. All I can say is that I hope for the best for Nas, Kelis, your Mom and son.
I believed her once she told the child story. A lot of men like to decide they wanna be fathers then disrupt a child’s whole life because they’re ready.
I'm a Leo to and was in abusive relationship too. When she said she is not weak and said she was contemplating what she should do because she is private. Until this day half of my friends or my mother do not know this happen to me. Be free Kelis. This is very freeing. I love her honesty. The host ask the questions exactly the way they should have been asked. Great interview.
Anyone can be a narcissist
Lioness. Meets narcissist. Lioness will win. She will protect her cub beyond death.
JoshuaM Yesssss Joshua!!!
JoshuaM that's what we do
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#PREACH#FACTS
JoshuaM True!!! & she's a Leo! #teamleo
She has such a fun, bubbly personality, I have to say I believe her. Nas is my favorite rapper and it hurts to hear what he is really like in private. Shame on Nas for treating Kelis and his son this way.
RayRoss925 yes, my fav too. This was so disheartening but I believe her!
RayRoss925 Same here 😢
I admire her strength and love for herself and moving forward through her struggles with being a survivor of Domestic Violence ❤
My sis sent me this interview bc it reminded her of me and my high profile ex husband. I cried for her and for me bc I know how it feels to have to be painted as a crazy baby momma when you are really the victim and quiet bc you don’t want more drama. The biggest critics are females who misjudge you. People don’t wait to hear both sides, they just condemn and repeat lies which hurt people. This man has destroyed my life in every way with his power and influence and I hv finally found the strength within to fight him back on all levels. I must say, if you survive narcissistic abuse and rise, then you are a god! That I have become and now I counsel and heal many others. Much love Kelis and other survivors
Ann M you are a survival and a strong woman sista! God bless you
thank you sister! blessings!
Ann M congrats to u. I had to deal with ths Bullsht regarding my grandson dad, my baby went through hell. One day I was on my way to his hs God spoke told me to go bk to bed( yes I was goin to kill tht ass) a wk later he was put on hospice he died of stage 4 cancer & sclerosis of the liver a horrible deaf. My grandson has never been the same tht nicca took my baby innocence he was forced to grow up b4 his time. God bless 💜
God Bless Babes! So proud of u...
You stay strong
I remember when Nicki and Nas got together so many “fans” would go on Kelis page to troll her about that relationship to the point she (Kelis) had to make a statement that she did not care and wanted ppl to stop writing on her page. Now it makes sense. I wonder what Nicki’s story with him is because that ended abruptly and then she went on a hiatus 🤔
SicaDeero ikr
A REAL MOTHER always ALWAYS, takes and endures the toughest and deepest hardships when it comes to our kids. We handle shit different and always prevail with God's hand over us...and always ALWAYS come out better on the other side. Happiness and Success is the best remedy for evil.
Lex C. Amen
Lex C. Such a beautiful comment💕
HeartofGOLD thank you......life's experiences happen for a reason. It builds our character. No one can ever take your peace once you gain it back.
„I have the craziest storys“ feel you Girl, Living with a narcissist is like living in a madhouse. So happy she moved on ❤️
As a Kelis super fan, this is thee most raw interview she's ever, EVER done and I am so proud. I NEVER seen her cry OMG. I'm in tears right now.
Same here. Gotta love her !
God, she is so gorgeous.
I’m not a mother yet but I’ve witnessed many single mothers go through all these things in my life, which is why I when it comes to children I’m super focused on the type of father I want for my kids. Be careful of the snakes. 😒 I teared up watching this.
Willa Wonka Some guys literally wait until they get the woman pregnant.
My child's father did the same stuff ordered to have medical insurance but wouldn't do or would do it for six months and then cancel it. Lie about anything or do stuff to spite me
Willa Wonka also thoroughly work on healing any trauma in your own past! That helps prevents us from ending up with people that are abusive/manipulative and also helps with raising our children better than our parents raised us. It’s so tricky and hidden but it truly is the root of a lot of subconscious tendencies.
Caroline No, its not. You do not know someone is going to abusive you. Most abusers hide it. Everybody in an abusive relationship did not have bad childhoods. They are manipulative as you said so maybe they stay due to trauma but unless you see them get angry you cannot tell until they hit you. You can pick up on things like putting you down. Mirroring, gaslighting but everyone isnt a textbook case
Girl just don't have children because u can't tell the future in what may happen if there's a split. The person u thought u knew oh so well turns into someone u never seen before.
She is laughing thru the pain. Mad respect to Kelis.
Nique Sade truly, sometimes the situations are soo unreal, it's all you can do. When you are a peaceful person and the other lives for drama, the only response is laughter.
Nique Sade it’s 3 sides to every story and some of this is bullshit
And thats it? No proof and thats it? Nas said she full of shit? So who do you believe and why?
Nique Sade there's always two sides of the story...I am pretty sure you saw all the Nas letters on his IG.
Who do u believe now?
Truly she's an amazing lady I really like her
You helped so many people girl when you did this interview. God has truly blessed you Kelis.❤️
This so why I love her!!!!
Malibu Dollface She has such a beautiful spirit it radiates through the camera
You have to do a video on this! I thought of you the moment I saw it!
Oh hey Malibu Dollface 🙋🏾♀️
Please do a video. Would love to hear your thoughts.
Malibu Dollface Hey!!!