Just heard his mom passed away. From someone who also grew up with a difficult relationship with his mother and an absent father, this song speaks volumes. Sometimes, it's hard to forgive our parents, but those are the ones we had placed before us. Some of us out there are the product of our parents generational trauma.
I'm glad he got to make amends with his mom. My relationship wasn't the best years back, but I understand why my mom is the way she is, and how rough and harder my grandma was on her. Happy to say that our relationship is good now.
The grief you feel after losing a parent that you had a complicated relationship with is different than other grief. The loss of who they were, who you hoped they'd be, who you needed them to be, who they'll never be. This song perfectly expressed some of the complicated feelings I have about my mom, it was released after she was gone. I've often wondered what this loss will bring for Marshall. There will be battles fought between him and the other personas he carries in his head as he tries to process the anger, the pain, the guilt, the sadness, and even the relief that comes as you no longer wait for this phone call. I hope he has strong support during this time and is gentle with himself.
Thank you for those words…😢…I’m a shitty complicated relationship mom that my kids ignore…my kids didn’t come with a manual…I had them before I even knew I had shit I needed to heal and so I forced them to ride on that whole healing journey that was pretty fucked up most of the time…
RIP Debbie Mathers 😢 I'm happy Em got to make this song for her before she passed. He got to show his true appreciation, especially after such a crazy rollercoaster of a relationship during the peak of his career. Much love
Even tho we know they didn't talk once he got clean he looked after everything and maybe he has seeing her more his so private there is still alot of sorrow and if he just payed for everything cause I grew up but just always was dressed okay and most important I used to cry when this came out cause my mother was going through a breakdown from losing a brother was hard but I remember thinking she never be the same but she is thank god em will still feel this Rip to Debbie
@@lazikbro12 honestly I hope so he said this song was I believe the last time he'd write about her but wouldn't answer the same question I asked. I think if it did he should have said yes but he didn't need to say anything more than that
My oldest son told me this song reminded him of us about 10 years ago now. Crushed me. Woke me up. I moved back, never moving away again. I'm a proud Grandma of 3 beautiful grandkids and my son is clean. Rest easy Debbie. You raised a good man.
@@zaylinlynn8522I don't think its your business we live our own life we all have problems and hardships all that matters is we don't hold grudges and leave the past in the past(not trying to sound mean ik text can be misinterpreted❤)
I am a mother (and a present father) who wasn’t always treated the best but my daughter is Starting to come around. I couldn’t listen to even a quarter of this song without balling my eyes out and still am.
I grew up in an abusive household. Getting over it, forgiving, and finding common ground so I can be in the same room as my mom is something I'm constantly working on. She's better now, and I'm still healing but it has to be done. The cycle has to stop. All the pride and guilt has to be swallowed by someone else I'll pass it along. My mom was abused too, and passed it down to me, and it stops with me. No guilt shaming, no more pain added, it's no ones "fault" it's just this shitty world we live in. Deep down I want to love her more than anything but it is hard. If you have a good mom, love her with everything you have, because being a parent isn't easy. Lot's of moving parts and what not. I'm trying
@@kellyhenry2875 Give them time. I don't know the details and those are personal so I don't want to know, but it's hard for us too. It just takes two people being strong and allowing time. The older I get the more I understand, and the more I forgive. I wish the best for you for you and your child. Just know it's confusing for us growing up and sometimes everything gets so short circuited that the kid just can't make sense of it. Time and patience wins the battle.
Some of us disheveled to hear this song to treat our moms better. In the Bible it says honor thy father and mother, that thy days will be long upon this earth. Also it says parent provoke not your children to wrath
@ExtrovertedPodcast i didn't cry about her passing til I decided to come here thinking about it, my mom is my mom and dad and I could never repay her for it. Its frwaky how much me and em relate, can imagine this though. Love you Eminem and rest in peace Debbie
I always loved this song when I bought the album in 2013. I was too young to understand the story. But now I can and Marshall was right, it was a tangled web they had. Just relieving he got to apologize to his Mom for everything.
Condoléances Marshall. Ma mère est née le 4 décembre 1946 et est morte le 7 juillet 1991. Je la pleure toujours. RIP Debbie et merci d'avoir mis au monde et fait ce qu'est devenu le grand Eminem. 🥹
My brother killed himself when I was little and my mom became an alcoholic. She couldn't cope. I used to get so mad at her and listened to Cleaning Out My Closet on repeat to piss her off. I grew up, I realized what she went through was one of the hardest things a mother could endure and I found myself appreciating her in a new way. She died from the alcoholism, I had to take her off of life support. I kissed her forehead as she died in my arms and all I could hear was this song in my head. I lost my dad last year, he got murdered. I found myself wanting my mama and looking for her strength. She wasn't here but I found that strength because of the love she gave me when she was here. I love you mama. Rest in peace💕
You don't grow up with parents like this and sort it out. You can reach a point of seeing them for who they are and accepting that person did the best they could with what they had but it doesn't get sorted out or resolved. With every passing day, with every new life event, there is more trauma added and pain to sort through later. The things to forgive them and yourself for only stops amassing after their death. I understand your sentiment, it just isn't the reality of how these things work.
RIP Debbie Mathers. Thank you for birthing a legend that blessed humanity with his creative arts. Thank you Em for demonstrating love in its purest form. You conquered hate! You conquered bitterness. You’re a champion and your life is a model to all those struggling to overcome the hate of their childhood inflicted by loved ones.
I love that you can print or write down his lyrics and read it out loud as if it were just a regular essay/ letter/ poem. Another good example is walk on water..
I remember listening to this song when I didn't understood half of the lyrics (I'm french) but it get me in tears every time, just because of the way he raps, the clip... ldk why...I guess I felt what he means in this song, and it shows his talent, especially for storytelling ! I was on the same situation for a lot of his songs, like When I'm gone
🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍👑👑👑👑👑🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ Sleeptight Debbie Nelson - Mathers Fly High I Hope My Mamma Meets U Up There God Bless ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Nothing justifies beating and neglecting your child and telling him you wished he was dead. Sure Eminem said sorry in this song for dissing her in all his songs and took it probably a little too far, but he never truly forgave her.
I usually dont get emotional over songs like these but this really almost makes me cry, its a masterpeice, showing his love for his mom, and for anyone to listen to if they are forgiving of their mom, I dont know but this song really sticks out to me.
@@amandariley1160 Yes its normal that his music has changes - as he has changed himself. Yes stan is one of the best, those two others I didnt listen. I listened to rap before in the past so not familiar with anything from Eminem past Recovery (2010)....but when I stumble upon some song like this one, and when compared to those old songs - the difference is huge...so maybe not bad, I just dont like it.
@@lucas8561 it's not like an easy thing, the problem is he already had a fucked up life and his mother was making it worth on him like why didn't she just give him some support some love but she added to the cruelty that he was facing throughout his story growing up without a father figure.
You are a legend ❤ Your mom needs more love after all she is your mom. I'm sure she regretted this decision 1min after she left. Always show love to her.
Even the fact that this was shot from the perspective of his mother shows his intentions even before hearing the lyrics fully. I’m proud of him for this. It’s easier to be mad and find more reasons to be than to forgive and be open to change. It goes both ways though. Both people need to be willing. This song will always be one of my top favorite songs because of how much I relate to it. I listen to cleaning out my closet and this one in order and it’s actually helped a ton. As someone whose not good with expressing their emotions through words and just analyzes them instead, I feel heard and like my emotions are being brought to light. Thank you, Marshall for all you’ve done and continue to do. Forever GOAT.
How is this sung from eminems perspective by himself and somehow his mother's point of view? Guess she is broke and using him again like mother Mary did to jesus
@KellyClocksin-z3s the video is shown through his mothers eyes rather than his own. He's imagining her pain as she's alone in her home, turned away from his gated house, seeing him in his car, seeing him at a child's play park, writing many letters.to him, etc amd finally receiving a letter back from him...these words within the song.
I’ve always loved how he criticizes his younger self on being blinded on how much he really does love his mom and how much she means to him.. it’s a blessing he snapped back to reality before she was gone and it was too late
you do realise 99% of the problems were cause HE caused them?....all she ever did was speak the truth, in every interview, ever....but he milked the drama for the sake of $$$$$$. So that fanboys like you would scream ''fuck you debbie! now this looks like...'' etc.... If he really cared, he'd giver her every penny he made off defaming her.
If someone told me 17 years ago that he's gonna make this song, I would told them no fcking way, never gonna happened! It's amazing to see how much this man has grown and matured, after everything he's been through... And I feel lucky and blessed for being able witnessing this whole journey... It was such a great experience! ❤️
Right in the feels. Every damn time I listen to this. And I love it. I may need to go back and listen to every other song he’s ever wrote but this just may be his best lyrics ever.
Fatherless boys tend to blame their loneliness and depression on their mothers instead of blaming the real enemy, its sad man, I wish it wasn't like that.
So I've looked to someones forehead for 7 minutes. = go viral today with *A U T H E N T I C H I T S* *DOT* *COM* get mad hits Get Real *Instagram* Followers *Twitter* Followers *Facebook* *Likes* *SoundCloud* Plays...!!?
No you don’t. I was on OG fan and I even attain some of my upbringing towards him as I didn’t have a father in my life and I used people like Eminem to fill that gaping hole (pause). But I hate this gate keeping mentality of “you had to be there or you’re not a real fan”. I’m sure there are many fans who were born after the year 2000 who love his old work and can understand the importance of this track. If certain things speak to you on a deep level, we don’t have to discredit others’ understanding. Just my 2c. Peace bro ✌️
It takes a real man to apologize to his mom and try to make peace after everything they have been through. That's another reason why I respect Eminem so much.
This song is really beautiful tbh. In this song he's apologizing to his mom for "cleaning out my closet" but you have to understand his mom had a drug problem and pushed all of her anger on her young son. When he wrote that song he was filled with rage. Now in her later years he knows what kind of mother she was but he realized what she was going through a single mom with a drug addiction. He feels guilty for making that song but I understand why he did it. He's so sad to see his mom finally wearing away. He does love her and this song is so nice.
My mother was alcoholic, and also addicted to medication, when I was young like 18 me and my mother would argue and fight a lot, we would physically fight, I had a huge hate for her, she was the person I hated the most in this world. Today I'm 34, I don't hate her anymore, I just feel sad for everything that happened, I feel sad for her sometimes, I totally understand Eminem in this song and in cleaning out my closet, and Jade is right too
I had a drugy mom who would feed me xanax and i have a beautiful daughter and baby mama problem's me md Eminem have a lot in common why i Relate to his music got addiction to drugs gor clean for my daughter and learning to forgive my mother also
“That’s when I realized you were sick and it wasn’t fixable”.... to anyone with parents who struggle with addiction or mental health; find the answer in compassion and understanding. I’m sorry for all you have or will face.
Tried to but it has gone nowhere....it's the same cycle that won't stop...unfortunately some people are just better off not being involved regardless of blood relation
This reminds me of my dad, he had a small temper but he never did drugs or alcohol, he loved my whole family, and he worked hard so I could go to private school and so I could grow up with 2 homes, love you dad❤ wishing everybody a good day.
You can clearly hear the emotion Eminem had when he sang this song. The transition from being an angsty adolescent, to a parent himself. I just like how in the end, despite everything, he still loves his mother. Such a beautiful song.
Mine won’t let me claiming she don’t trust me and she said she thought I’d hit her in front of my sister tf kinda shit is this I didn’t ask for any of this bullshit
Dear Debbie Nelson thank you for making a legend that I can listen to when I’m going through hard times I wish you have peace and have a nice rest RIP❤️ Debbie merry Christmas
I grew up on Eminem. I was a young, white kid in the ghetto, raised by a single mom, and had a similar upbringing. I used to relate so much to his songs and feel like he was speaking for me, so to hear this and see that no matter how rough I thought it was, there's always hope for a loving family, it just hits too hard.. you gotta really understand the Marshall Mathers story to realize just how significant this song is. I'm really happy he made this for not only himself and his mother, but for all those who had strained relationships with their parents growing up.
You are not a fan that is why you don't understand this side of Em.. this is Marshall here spitting about his life.. if you want metaphor and poetry listen to Eminem the rapper and if you want more than that listen to shady for internal rhymes, bars, wordplay, homophone triple entendre, speed, all the fucking elements that you want in a rap.
RIP. Debbie Mathers we all appreciate you bringing this amazing, talented, loving person to this world and caring for him and being a true mother to your kids
There is something special about this song, when you listen it when you’re a little kid you dont feel the lyrics as good, but as you get older you understand..
I was 15 when I discovered this song, my dad was a dj so thanks to him I Learn from a young age about Eminem, thankfully I have a good relationship with my mom and this song just makes me happy and sad, it’s been a long time since I’ve herd it
" But Ma, I forgive you, so does Nathan. All you did, all you said, you did your best to raise us both" "And I'm mad I didn't get the chance to Thank you for being my mom and my dad" That hits hard
R.I.P Debbie Mathers Thank you for Eminem’s birth We will miss you even if the past messed everything up 😢 I’m glad Eminem stopped this mess and conflict before you passed! Fly high 😢 🪦
After a rough divorce between my parents I grew to hate my mom when I was 14 because she left my father. I'd try so hard to skip weekends with her and when she confronted me about why I wouldn't show I threw excuses at her and she'd call me and we had arguments over the phone for hours leaving us both in tears. When this song came out i knew about cleaning out my closet and was exposed to how rough Em's childhood was and for him to disregard that track meant everything. This song helped me find closure with myself and my mom. I cry every time I hear this
This song is dedicated to me by my miss e son who resides in Colorado.. Ty My son Eric Yambrick... I love you very much and ill always be here for you no matter what.. I wish Eminem would facebook my son and tell him ty... He is my rock.my reason for living everyday...
My parents are separated and it is always hard to be in the middle of that. I am the same way with my mom sometimes where I push her away but I know both sides are at fault. She also isn't the easiest to deal with but this song reminds me that no matter what she is my mom.
I'm a grown man but no joke, this song makes me cry every single time I listen to it. It makes me think of my own family and the strained relationships I have with some of them; it's painful to even think about and I feel an immense guilt most of the time, yet I have no idea what to do.
I think you should tell them how you feel. I think Eminem made this song to tell his mom how he felt. There’s something very relieving about talking about those painful memories.
I hope Em sees this. I too have two brothers who went into the system. I was too, my mom left me in the closet at a doctors office. I was lucky enough to have a father who cared about me. A fuck up, but he loved me. I hope you found him, I don't research famous people. I'm from Lansing MI, and we don't got time for shit lol. We love you though, esp my man. I hope you are doing OK, as ok can get. I know it's hard, I lost both my parents by 18. Long story. Anyways, wishing you well. ❤❤❤
His horrible dad is dead, and only recently his mom passed!!he doesn’t have any parents anymore, he still has his extended family; but I think he doesn’t get along with most of them and doesn’t want his kids involved. Unless they’re old enough to want to interact, and he aproves of it; then the kids got a connection.
THIS IS WHY... Em is a legend. RAW, PURE, emotion that the world can relate to. IT'LL NEVER GROW OLD. Your music will last forever, as long as humans don't become numb to feeling LOVE, HATE, HAPPINESS, SADNESS, JOY, PAIN, AFRAID, and ASHAMED. HIS MUSIC CAPTURES IT ALL. HE'S A BLESSING TO THE WORLD 💯
Windows Vista lol it’s HIS mother. You don’t get to decide who he should and shouldn’t forgive. Geez someone’s bitter over someone they don’t even know 🙄
I deeply relate to Eminem because I came from a broken home, I resented my mom for the longest and it wasn’t until I was an adult that I realized how sick my mom was, this song makes me cry because I feel the same as Eminem, I had the same feelings he had when he made “Cleanin out my closet” because it reflected how I felt at the time about my mom, what just made me become a sobbing mess is when he says “And I'm way too old to cry, the shit is painful though But, Ma, I forgive you, so does Nathan, yo All you did, all you said, you did your best to raise us both Foster care, that cross you bear, few may be as heavy as yours But I love you, Debbie Mathers” And “And I'm mad I didn't get the chance to, Thank you for being my mom and dad” I’ve never related to lyrics as much as these. I regret the horrible things I’ve said to her and learned to forgive despite the pain that was caused, now I’m loving her from afar, we are not close now in anyway but every time she acts out I just remember that she’s sick and can’t control her own actions like a normal person can
Im so sorry for what happened to you, I also have a broken family, the sad part for me is that is just far from over and relating to “kill you” “my mom” “ cleaning out my closet” “remember me” and so much more had me sad for all my childhood, but whenever she tries to hurt me with her words or actions I just remember she’s ill and that me responding will not fix that
I completely understand you. My childhood was garbage and I was wonder everyday why I was born in family like that. My family is toxic toward me and i am nothing but a black sheep for them. And it makes me sick everytime when I hear these words such as "i love you" or "you are everything for us" or "you are nothing but a delusional bully". I was getting sick of this. I felt broken after my mom passed away and my ex girlfriend ditched me away. I didn't even want to celebrate holidays but afterwards I went because after all i am part of that garbage family being raised by drinkers, gossipers and father which i dislike his hypocrisy because he did something good. I am almost 20 studying hard in the university of my dreams and fighting for a happy and productive life.
I don't know how you can forgive. I have a younger sibling. The things she does to her hurts more then what she does to me. I don't want to be a victim it is what it is and what happened happened but how does forgiving help when you can't get away yet?
I feel the same way. My dad recently just passed and my mom left us about 8 years ago and I've been with him the whole time, 17 now and it's an early time to lose one like that but I'm still here, me and him always used to listen to Eminem all the time, this one especially. The point being is that my mother is in a abusive relationship where she was brainwashed from an abusive peice of shit boyfriend, first hand have experienced that. Made her cut me out of my life and she recently contacted me and I went off on her, now regretting it because I really do want to mend things with her I think
I hear this more then I want too. My mum passed away in 2017. We had a rocky relationship and she became my best friend when we were both forced to be still. I was pregnant and she was battling with cancer. I had my baby on my own and 4 weeks later my best friend passed away. I have so many regrets, please if any of you can please try and mend your relationships because when it's taken away its the most heartbreaking thing you can ever imagine. Peace and love to all. X
I lost my mom two years ago its hard to think about how much more time I could have spent If I hadn't moved to Los Angeles. In her final years my younger brother took on here illness burden. He quit his job dumped his girlfriend gave up his entire lifestyle just to take care of my mother. I'm glad Eminem is trying to make things right with his mother although this was not his mother in this video its still is a good representation of his mom. I hope he actually is trying to make things right between them. Life Isn't about money....
I know how you feel. I have parents. But they kicked me out of our house when i was 7. I moved to grandmas place and now im 14 living alone, taking care of my grandpa.
This song just makes me love eminem even more. It takes a lot to forgive (considering everything he's expressed on records before regarding his mom) and I just love that he's honest with himself and his fans. Always was.
Maturity is realizing that the woman that birthed ,raised or maybe even abandoned you probably had a whole bunch of issues that she was dealing with and may have done the best she could. Song got me in my feels lol. Y'all take care of yall moms out there if you're lucky enough to have one.
Just knowing how angry Eminem was when he first came onto the scene, I’m sure no one would ever in their life think that they would hear him apologize to his mom and make peace with her. You’re the man Marshall ✊✊✊
@@nostalgictimetraveler7921I feel like everyone’s mom cares about their kid at least to some degree. Clearly she wasn’t/isn’t mentally stable and he saw that and removed himself from the environment. If nothing else this song is just closure for marshal if not a genuine apology as well
Em gave the hardest and greatest apology even when he was justified in is anger and when nobody expected or imagined. This song came from a place of strength developed by self forgiveness and love. Thank you Marshal RIP Debbie Mathers🙏🏾
When you are the same age as Em, and follow his career as I have, and loved each and every level of Eminem, this song makes you truly realize how amazing he is. It makes you realize that as we grow older, we see what is truly most important in this life. Kudos Em. This song is pure gold.
The fact that I didn’t grow up in a broken home(I’m thankful for this & im so sorry to anyone who has grown up in broken homes), and STILL feel I love this song & can relate, you know the artist is doing their job.
Tbh I feel like there are three levels of homes a broken home a family that loves u and acts like it and a family that isn’t broken but is consistently bullying you being rude etc
@@chavalomiguel5587 nooo I live in Europe and every house around me are council houses and they are run down like mine. I am not saying this for sympathy just letting you know that some parts of Europe are very poor
Makes me think about my relationship with my parents. I'm happy that I'm doing good with them. And you should always try to be nice to your parents. Because one time they're gone and you regret that you didn't get along with them.
They should of done what they did on the monster when she had the tv on and it showed his videos mouthing her....he should of been rapping the lyrics to headlights on the tv
flufferella conspiracy oh sweet salty Christ that song freaked me out the first time I listened to it and it seems as if he has clamed down a lot since those days as that song did come out in 1999
Definitely one of the, if not THE most under-rated Em songs. I am so glad he's offered the branch to his mother. I just pray she grabs it with both hands. Absolutely nothing can compare to a full, united and happy family.
This song seared me to the soul when it first came out. No song has ever been more relatable in my entire life. My little brother was taken away by the state too and our mom was also mentally sick and I am just now, at 28, starting to see things differently and starting to learn to forgive. This song will live rent free in my soul for the rest of my life.
Forgiving someone who hurt you, with or without them knowing this, forgiving will humble you and it's so much better than carrying hate and discontent. Life is challenging for everyone. I'm happy for your growth in this matter. When I heard this song the first time, my little girl played it.She said "Mom have you heard this song by Eminem? Listen to it " We were 3 deep standing in the dining room cleaning up after eating and the girls put that sing on and alot like all of the others felt my eyes started welling up with tears.bI was trying my best to hold back, that's how I am, don't cry ever unless you're alone. I stopped moving so did the girls like time stood still , listened I the whole song. This is kinda where the story began. Idk how to explain it, I'm happy Eminem finally found peace from his experience. God bless you all and may you broken pieces start mending you ♥️😘🖤🖤@brandy top fan Eminem
RIP Deb, You made a living legend, and you are apart of his legacy a huge part, we all love you both, hope you good em i know you must be going through it. keep your head and health up!❤ that goes for everyone i love yall and we should all appreciate the family we have and show all the love we can to them and even strangers it doesnt cost anything to be kind and love one another. I hope you all have an amazing prosperous life! Tell Your Mom's, Dad's, Siblings, you love them!
Who’s here after hearing Eminem’s mom passed away? RIP, thank you for producing a living legend.
Me 😢
Yeah bro
Me…
RIP
Yeah. I'm happy Eminem made peace with her before she passed.
Me 😢
Rest in Peace Debbie. You gave birth to an outstanding man.
And abused him when as a child.
Eminem's Mother Passed away.
Yep
Cancer sucks
@@kevinheatcoat2190No shit Sherlock
Just heard his mom passed away. From someone who also grew up with a difficult relationship with his mother and an absent father, this song speaks volumes. Sometimes, it's hard to forgive our parents, but those are the ones we had placed before us. Some of us out there are the product of our parents generational trauma.
😢well spoken my friend. Wishing well for you brother ❤
Very well spoken. We all just tryna heal 💔
I just saw that as well
I'm glad he got to make amends with his mom. My relationship wasn't the best years back, but I understand why my mom is the way she is, and how rough and harder my grandma was on her. Happy to say that our relationship is good now.
Wonderfully written, I try so hard every day to keep my son from repeating the same cycle
The grief you feel after losing a parent that you had a complicated relationship with is different than other grief. The loss of who they were, who you hoped they'd be, who you needed them to be, who they'll never be. This song perfectly expressed some of the complicated feelings I have about my mom, it was released after she was gone.
I've often wondered what this loss will bring for Marshall. There will be battles fought between him and the other personas he carries in his head as he tries to process the anger, the pain, the guilt, the sadness, and even the relief that comes as you no longer wait for this phone call. I hope he has strong support during this time and is gentle with himself.
Thank you for those words…😢…I’m a shitty complicated relationship mom that my kids ignore…my kids didn’t come with a manual…I had them before I even knew I had shit I needed to heal and so I forced them to ride on that whole healing journey that was pretty fucked up most of the time…
RIP Debbie Mathers 😢 I'm happy Em got to make this song for her before she passed. He got to show his true appreciation, especially after such a crazy rollercoaster of a relationship during the peak of his career. Much love
RIP Debbie Mathers.
Rest in Peace Debbie Matters
U don’t care u put a emoji
Even tho we know they didn't talk once he got clean he looked after everything and maybe he has seeing her more his so private there is still alot of sorrow and if he just payed for everything cause I grew up but just always was dressed okay and most important I used to cry when this came out cause my mother was going through a breakdown from losing a brother was hard but I remember thinking she never be the same but she is thank god em will still feel this
Rip to Debbie
RIP Debbie
This song made me tear up. Definitely one of Eminem's saddest songs because it really shows true emotion and his apology to his mom.
i wonder if this song brought them closer together?
@@rolandofgilead43 probably yes
@@lazikbro12 honestly I hope so he said this song was I believe the last time he'd write about her but wouldn't answer the same question I asked. I think if it did he should have said yes but he didn't need to say anything more than that
Accountability
@@guthrochad right
My oldest son told me this song reminded him of us about 10 years ago now. Crushed me. Woke me up. I moved back, never moving away again. I'm a proud Grandma of 3 beautiful grandkids and my son is clean. Rest easy Debbie. You raised a good man.
What did you do?
@@zaylinlynn8522I don't think its your business we live our own life we all have problems and hardships all that matters is we don't hold grudges and leave the past in the past(not trying to sound mean ik text can be misinterpreted❤)
I'm happy for you. I wish I could have the same thing with my mom.
@@billymartin6646 thank you. And, I really sorry that you don't have that with your mom. 😔
Cried all week listening to this song I vowed to treat my mother better. Thank God she’s still here. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
I am a mother (and a present father) who wasn’t always treated the best but my daughter is Starting to come around. I couldn’t listen to even a quarter of this song without balling my eyes out and still am.
@KellyHenry2875. Pleased things are getting better. I lost My Mum 12 Years Ago and I lost My Dad nearly 18 Years ago.
I grew up in an abusive household. Getting over it, forgiving, and finding common ground so I can be in the same room as my mom is something I'm constantly working on. She's better now, and I'm still healing but it has to be done. The cycle has to stop. All the pride and guilt has to be swallowed by someone else I'll pass it along. My mom was abused too, and passed it down to me, and it stops with me. No guilt shaming, no more pain added, it's no ones "fault" it's just this shitty world we live in. Deep down I want to love her more than anything but it is hard. If you have a good mom, love her with everything you have, because being a parent isn't easy. Lot's of moving parts and what not. I'm trying
@@kellyhenry2875 Give them time. I don't know the details and those are personal so I don't want to know, but it's hard for us too. It just takes two people being strong and allowing time. The older I get the more I understand, and the more I forgive. I wish the best for you for you and your child. Just know it's confusing for us growing up and sometimes everything gets so short circuited that the kid just can't make sense of it. Time and patience wins the battle.
Some of us disheveled to hear this song to treat our moms better. In the Bible it says honor thy father and mother, that thy days will be long upon this earth. Also it says parent provoke not your children to wrath
May his mom rest in peace, I’m glad Em got to do this song before she passed away. Thank you for giving us a legend
Never thought I'd be watching this again...
R.I.P. Debbie
My deepest condolences to you, Em
I'm not crying, you're crying, ...I'm crying. A son's homage to his mother. A love letter and act of contrition all in one. LEGEND!
Without a doubt one of his most powerful songs and easily his most underrated. Eminem is a treasure.
❤❤❤❤
🫡🫡🫡
Oh it’s even worse now 💔🕊️
@ExtrovertedPodcast i didn't cry about her passing til I decided to come here thinking about it, my mom is my mom and dad and I could never repay her for it. Its frwaky how much me and em relate, can imagine this though. Love you Eminem and rest in peace Debbie
Glad to know that he wrote this ten years ago and helped her once she was diagnosed. Rest in peace Debbie.
Most underrated Eminem song in terms of popularity. Not enough attention it deserves. True stans should know this song.
Too bad it's not the full song 😭
@@InsaneWorldWrestling yeah. Idk why they cut Nate's solo
@@wisco9er536 wait a minute ? There's Nate solo ?
Adolf Hitler he is one of the peole who only listens to is the beat
I always loved this song when I bought the album in 2013. I was too young to understand the story. But now I can and Marshall was right, it was a tangled web they had. Just relieving he got to apologize to his Mom for everything.
RIP ❤🙏 Thank God she was able to hear this song for 10yrs
almost 11 actually
I am so grateful thank you god
This right here 🥺 atleast she knew.
So much pain and love in one song. Beautiful song and great attitude, Eminem. Is never too late to forgive and be forgiven.
i didn't know you liked Em, really like your videos tho
Carl johnson HeilRJ03 is your idol?
Claude Harris Sure,EMIN3M too. Be answered by any of them could make me to fly.
sorry claude harris i was talking about heil and eminem, not you.
da hell did that come from?, ofcourse i knew that but i was just surprised that a youtuber is your idol
Condoléances Marshall. Ma mère est née le 4 décembre 1946 et est morte le 7 juillet 1991. Je la pleure toujours. RIP Debbie et merci d'avoir mis au monde et fait ce qu'est devenu le grand Eminem.
🥹
His ability to speak his emotions through his lyrics has always been something that i will admire
TRUE.
That's Talent Right There
hell yeah bro, you can tell how real, authentic and passionate, he is. I love his yelling so much.
Not only lyrics, he's still the whole man i admire
I'm with you
My brother killed himself when I was little and my mom became an alcoholic. She couldn't cope. I used to get so mad at her and listened to Cleaning Out My Closet on repeat to piss her off. I grew up, I realized what she went through was one of the hardest things a mother could endure and I found myself appreciating her in a new way. She died from the alcoholism, I had to take her off of life support. I kissed her forehead as she died in my arms and all I could hear was this song in my head. I lost my dad last year, he got murdered. I found myself wanting my mama and looking for her strength. She wasn't here but I found that strength because of the love she gave me when she was here. I love you mama. Rest in peace💕
i'm really sorry 😥
@@lutfidandy I appreciate that. No need to be sorry though. My family may be dead but I'm lucky to have known them at all
Yeah.. its must be hard butt they will always love you in the hard time
God bless you. Be happy.
Wow... i feel sad for you
I'm just glad Marshall and his mom sorted everything out before she died. RIP Debbie🙏🏻
No they were still very estranged but glad he conveyed the message so she knows
And how do you know she never put a like on it after years later nobody reallt knows when they got right@4567tiki
You don't grow up with parents like this and sort it out. You can reach a point of seeing them for who they are and accepting that person did the best they could with what they had but it doesn't get sorted out or resolved. With every passing day, with every new life event, there is more trauma added and pain to sort through later. The things to forgive them and yourself for only stops amassing after their death. I understand your sentiment, it just isn't the reality of how these things work.
@@brandisnyder2985 spot on
Just listened to this song on my way to work this morning before hearing the news… RIP Debbie Mathers.
You don't actually care, you just want likes.
@@Onepieceistheworstanimedude are you just mad about something and taking anger out on other people?
@@Onepieceistheworstanimebecause he actually cares
@@Onepieceistheworstanime you are the one who wants attention
@@Onepieceistheworstanime 🤡
Eminem is different breed , mans a legend in every sense of the word
100
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Dissing em Hhhhh dissing em by menima
True, Eminem's Legasy is Priceless! Genius!∆∆∆∆∆
@@menimaaaq4304 Shush.
Sooooo true!!!! It's insane when somebody doesn't think so!
This should have won a Grammy, such an iconic song.
Grammy judges are busy sucking up to Cardi B and Drake
@Lil Taylor 😂😂😂😂
@Lil Taylor he is crazy, get him to the infirmary
Get an Oscar ‘soon’ , Em has already got one. Forever the GOAT
@Lil Taylor i need to score what you smoke seems high af
RIP Debbie Mathers.
Thank you for birthing a legend that blessed humanity with his creative arts.
Thank you Em for demonstrating love in its purest form.
You conquered hate!
You conquered bitterness.
You’re a champion and your life is a model to all those struggling to overcome the hate of their childhood inflicted by loved ones.
This song deserves atleast a Grammy nomination.. One of the most underrated song in the history
It deserves 5 grammies this song made me forgive mine.
@@emoproburrito8014 Cleaning out My Closet is still true for my mum but shes twisted not ill
@@mbradfield53 fuck man im sorry too hear that i hope it gets better for you
100%!!
♥️♥️
His storytelling is just on another level
Also Nas :)
I love that you can print or write down his lyrics and read it out loud as if it were just a regular essay/ letter/ poem. Another good example is walk on water..
That is why i will always love and respect Em. His songs connect with me and I can relate to his struggles, he motivates me to become a better man👌
Stan
I remember listening to this song when I didn't understood half of the lyrics (I'm french) but it get me in tears every time, just because of the way he raps, the clip... ldk why...I guess I felt what he means in this song, and it shows his talent, especially for storytelling ! I was on the same situation for a lot of his songs, like When I'm gone
RIP DEBBIE MATHERS. YOU were all of our teenage moms who we were mad at and one day grew up and realized you were human too.
🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍👑👑👑👑👑🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ Sleeptight Debbie Nelson - Mathers Fly High I Hope My Mamma Meets U Up There God Bless ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Damn i never saw it like that. Good connection random person good job!😊
Nothing justifies beating and neglecting your child and telling him you wished he was dead. Sure Eminem said sorry in this song for dissing her in all his songs and took it probably a little too far, but he never truly forgave her.
This is a fire comment.
I usually dont get emotional over songs like these but this really almost makes me cry, its a masterpeice, showing his love for his mom, and for anyone to listen to if they are forgiving of their mom, I dont know but this song really sticks out to me.
Only this man can rap aggresivly on such a nice and calm beat....
Emin Terzic lol
and only him can be touching and make a beautiful song at the same time
he*
dmx
Been thinking this since he was a killer on a calm cleaning out my closet beat
One of Eminem's absolute best songs he's ever written, sheer beauty.
lol compaed to his old stuff this is sooo bad, its like its not even eminem
@@MrBirkic The rap community isn't used to rappers living long. He grew up.
Yep. Stan, Headlights, and Walk on Water are my faves. I love River, too.
@@amandariley1160 Yes its normal that his music has changes - as he has changed himself. Yes stan is one of the best, those two others I didnt listen.
I listened to rap before in the past so not familiar with anything from Eminem past Recovery (2010)....but when I stumble upon some song like this one, and when compared to those old songs - the difference is huge...so maybe not bad, I just dont like it.
I’d put this at #2, after arose. Arose is literally sad as hell 😢
No joke this song helped me forgive my mum for running off when I was a kid. Shut her off completely for years then forgave her.
😔
This song is the perfect example of how much we can grow and forgive/forget past fights and bad stuff
@@lucas8561 it's not like an easy thing, the problem is he already had a fucked up life and his mother was making it worth on him like why didn't she just give him some support some love but she added to the cruelty that he was facing throughout his story growing up without a father figure.
You are a legend ❤
Your mom needs more love after all she is your mom.
I'm sure she regretted this decision 1min after she left. Always show love to her.
You made a big mistake which you will regret a lot.
Hits so much harder now Debbie’s gone😭
Rest In Paradise Debbie Mathers, thank you for giving us Em❤️
Even the fact that this was shot from the perspective of his mother shows his intentions even before hearing the lyrics fully. I’m proud of him for this. It’s easier to be mad and find more reasons to be than to forgive and be open to change. It goes both ways though. Both people need to be willing. This song will always be one of my top favorite songs because of how much I relate to it. I listen to cleaning out my closet and this one in order and it’s actually helped a ton. As someone whose not good with expressing their emotions through words and just analyzes them instead, I feel heard and like my emotions are being brought to light. Thank you, Marshall for all you’ve done and continue to do. Forever GOAT.
This is 💯 so true & I feel the same! Wishing continued blessings for you 🙏❤️🙏
How is this sung from eminems perspective by himself and somehow his mother's point of view? Guess she is broke and using him again like mother Mary did to jesus
@KellyClocksin-z3s the video is shown through his mothers eyes rather than his own. He's imagining her pain as she's alone in her home, turned away from his gated house, seeing him in his car, seeing him at a child's play park, writing many letters.to him, etc amd finally receiving a letter back from him...these words within the song.
I’ve always loved how he criticizes his younger self on being blinded on how much he really does love his mom and how much she means to him.. it’s a blessing he snapped back to reality before she was gone and it was too late
You learn with age I guess
Oh, there goes gravity
@@redthewifeyhunter4034 You just realize that life is too short to carry all the hate.
you do realise 99% of the problems were cause HE caused them?....all she ever did was speak the truth, in every interview, ever....but he milked the drama for the sake of $$$$$$. So that fanboys like you would scream ''fuck you debbie! now this looks like...'' etc....
If he really cared, he'd giver her every penny he made off defaming her.
@@NoNoNoNopeNopeNopeNo😂 your ignorancy is showing.
That chorus. That bluesy piano riff. God, this song hits me hard every time I throw it on. I'm legit tearing up as I'm typing this comment.
Hear ya
it's a sample MOther from Lenon
@@alanbrito5239 No it isn't. The melodies sound similar, but it's not a sample of that song.
This song was so sad...😢
Rest In Peace Eminem's mother....🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
63 years old. It's one of the best songs. So real. Thank you.
I know right
his mom passed away.
If someone told me 17 years ago that he's gonna make this song, I would told them no fcking way, never gonna happened!
It's amazing to see how much this man has grown and matured, after everything he's been through...
And I feel lucky and blessed for being able witnessing this whole journey... It was such a great experience! ❤️
Well said 👏
Right in the feels. Every damn time I listen to this. And I love it. I may need to go back and listen to every other song he’s ever wrote but this just may be his best lyrics ever.
But watch him top this too lol. ♥️♥️
Fatherless boys tend to blame their loneliness and depression on their mothers instead of blaming the real enemy, its sad man, I wish it wasn't like that.
@@ChristusRex081 prolly true but he wasn't saying she never did anything wrong. All he was saying is that she did her best😂
Eminem, touch the soul again.
Я согласен с Вами
Agreed
So many likes
I agree with all of you
Echo ce mama dracu faci aici ma ? :))
this music video is so deep.
goblin!
Maham Raza wtf does that mean
Fuck ofofofofofofof.
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You have to be an old school Em fan to understand the sheer magnitude of this track. Good on you Em for this.
No you don’t. I was on OG fan and I even attain some of my upbringing towards him as I didn’t have a father in my life and I used people like Eminem to fill that gaping hole (pause).
But I hate this gate keeping mentality of “you had to be there or you’re not a real fan”. I’m sure there are many fans who were born after the year 2000 who love his old work and can understand the importance of this track.
If certain things speak to you on a deep level, we don’t have to discredit others’ understanding.
Just my 2c. Peace bro ✌️
@@BeforeThisNovember dude…why waste time typing this?
@@KingMoogle97 same can be said for you
@@BeforeThisNovember i agree all you have to do is be a human having a human experience. Fk gatekeepers.
@@jpesicka492 💯
this song won't hit the same anymore knowing eminem's mom passed today 💔 RIP Debbie 🌹
it hits harder now RIP Debbie
It'll hit different yeah
It will hit more.
this was 10 years ago stfu
Agree😢
RIP Debbie. You gave birth to the best Detroit rapper Eminem.
Try and imagine seeing Em in the studio recording this track. Guaranteed to make you cry. We love you Marshall!!
Me to
I bet the pain had been on his mind for some time and had to address it all within a song. I wonder if those things did happen in the video.
It takes a real man to apologize to his mom and try to make peace after everything they have been through. That's another reason why I respect Eminem so much.
Exactly . We expect too Much from people
Eminem Please Reply To Us
This song is really beautiful tbh. In this song he's apologizing to his mom for "cleaning out my closet" but you have to understand his mom had a drug problem and pushed all of her anger on her young son. When he wrote that song he was filled with rage. Now in her later years he knows what kind of mother she was but he realized what she was going through a single mom with a drug addiction. He feels guilty for making that song but I understand why he did it. He's so sad to see his mom finally wearing away. He does love her and this song is so nice.
Windows Vista, don’t hate the person. Hate the disease. The disease steals them from you. But worse, it sabotages them.
My mother was alcoholic, and also addicted to medication, when I was young like 18 me and my mother would argue and fight a lot, we would physically fight, I had a huge hate for her, she was the person I hated the most in this world.
Today I'm 34, I don't hate her anymore, I just feel sad for everything that happened, I feel sad for her sometimes, I totally understand Eminem in this song and in cleaning out my closet, and Jade is right too
R.I.P Debbie… you will be remembered for giving birth to two outstanding man 😔
This song is so underrated. It is a raw look at overcoming childhood trauma and learning to use the strength to forgive his mom.
I usually don't cry too often because of songs but this song had me in tears several times. This is the power of Eminem.
Same
Same💔
Listen to Ben Gibbard. If he sang Nate's part, you would cry all the tears you could possibly let out all at once.
❤🙏🏻
I had a drugy mom who would feed me xanax and i have a beautiful daughter and baby mama problem's me md Eminem have a lot in common why i Relate to his music got addiction to drugs gor clean for my daughter and learning to forgive my mother also
2002: Cleanin' Out My Closer
2014: Headlights
Time changes.
ya 2013
Mister X closer?
Agree to disagree
Beastly McLaren he meant closet
Mister X no cuz this is Marshall Mathers
a little late but, RIP Debbie Mathers. thank you for raising such a good man
“That’s when I realized you were sick and it wasn’t fixable”.... to anyone with parents who struggle with addiction or mental health; find the answer in compassion and understanding. I’m sorry for all you have or will face.
That’s such a relatable line
My mom is wack but i luv her
Tried to but it has gone nowhere....it's the same cycle that won't stop...unfortunately some people are just better off not being involved regardless of blood relation
@@AILDgURL True words
So sweet! No truer words. I love my parents no matter what. 😍
Never in a million years did i ever think he would forgive his mom🖤 so proud of him . He's so mature now ❤💖
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This was happening years ago what
@@BeeVyr shhhh, let her enjoy it
Fr me too
Kenia Ortiz this song came out 6 years ago. Eminem won’t make anymore emotional songs tbh cuz of how badly Revival went
Eminem is the greatest of all time. He make you feel it, told a story and gave you lyrics. He's unstoppable.
MrBrandon330 I know everything about Eminem through his music. He told a story
Love how you named 2 of his songs in there.
This reminds me of my dad, he had a small temper but he never did drugs or alcohol, he loved my whole family, and he worked hard so I could go to private school and so I could grow up with 2 homes, love you dad❤ wishing everybody a good day.
You can clearly hear the emotion Eminem had when he sang this song.
The transition from being an angsty adolescent, to a parent himself.
I just like how in the end, despite everything, he still loves his mother.
Such a beautiful song.
He was a parent the whole time.
I hope he spends more time with his mother now.
she didnt do a lot of the stuff he said she did.
So many people don’t understand this song. If you don’t you’re lucky. Love your mum with all your heart , seriously.
Not everyone can be the mom they wished they had been, or should have been. Life bites. Regret bites harder...
True book...
Have you told her that in person
I understand this
Mine won’t let me claiming she don’t trust me and she said she thought I’d hit her in front of my sister tf kinda shit is this I didn’t ask for any of this bullshit
I miss him dropping music all the time. Shoutout to anyone still loving him as much as I.
don't worry he will be back in no time. He announced his new album.
Defooooo!
Mr Nobody when?
Jimmys Dallas he announced it early this year but didn't confirm any date.
Angie Nunez 😀😀😀👍🏻👍🏻😄😄
Dear Debbie Nelson thank you for making a legend that I can listen to when I’m going through hard times I wish you have peace and have a nice rest RIP❤️ Debbie merry Christmas
I grew up on Eminem. I was a young, white kid in the ghetto, raised by a single mom, and had a similar upbringing. I used to relate so much to his songs and feel like he was speaking for me, so to hear this and see that no matter how rough I thought it was, there's always hope for a loving family, it just hits too hard.. you gotta really understand the Marshall Mathers story to realize just how significant this song is. I'm really happy he made this for not only himself and his mother, but for all those who had strained relationships with their parents growing up.
Literally me ASF
The use tu yyiyy😊
Johnald - What you wrote is truly so beautiful! Wishing continued blessings for you always 🙏 ❤️ This song makes me cry. Every. SINGLE. time. 😭
bro idk i see no hope in that instead of creating one
I fully agree and understand from south Africa I felt his pain when I was a child but thank you Eminem for helping me through my life
A man that can admit when he has taken something too far, no matter what has happened to him, takes guts and isn’t for everyone much respect
This song hits real hard. Eminem's ability to tell stories through his lyrics is amazing.
@slothrop4751huh?
@Slothrop 47 so true but in a good way
@slothrop4751mumble rap fan?
You are not a fan that is why you don't understand this side of Em.. this is Marshall here spitting about his life.. if you want metaphor and poetry listen to Eminem the rapper and if you want more than that listen to shady for internal rhymes, bars, wordplay, homophone triple entendre, speed, all the fucking elements that you want in a rap.
you telling us what music is? xD who are you?@slothrop4751
RIP. Debbie Mathers we all appreciate you bringing this amazing, talented, loving person to this world and caring for him and being a true mother to your kids
There is something special about this song, when you listen it when you’re a little kid you dont feel the lyrics as good, but as you get older you understand..
TRUE 💯
Fact 💯
The reason why I came back to listening this song❤
This is how life is. Age and experience bring clarity and a deeper perception of the complexities of life.
I was 15 when I discovered this song, my dad was a dj so thanks to him I Learn from a young age about Eminem, thankfully I have a good relationship with my mom and this song just makes me happy and sad, it’s been a long time since I’ve herd it
" But Ma, I forgive you, so does Nathan. All you did, all you said, you did your best to raise us both"
"And I'm mad I didn't get the chance to Thank you for being my mom and my dad"
That hits hard
Why can I relate to it, 💔
Yes
I can real late 2 this song
Bruh when I saw this comment the part came on
Same, my older brothers name is Nathan too...💔😩
Nate is the perfect singer for this, his voice is so unique. Absolute perfect compliment for Em's rap
And he was great with Pink as well
There is not many singer named Nate that can fit this song narrative. It's very fortunate the Nate Ruess get to be the one
i am not remotely surprised a xiao player listens to eminem
Not to mention Eminem’s little brother’s name is Nate as well.
@@pompeyparker6369 Well didnt know that , didnt do a fact check right now but if its the case its either by chance or another genius decision
R.I.P Debbie Mathers
Thank you for Eminem’s birth
We will miss you even if the past messed everything up 😢
I’m glad Eminem stopped this mess and conflict before you passed! Fly high 😢 🪦
After a rough divorce between my parents I grew to hate my mom when I was 14 because she left my father. I'd try so hard to skip weekends with her and when she confronted me about why I wouldn't show I threw excuses at her and she'd call me and we had arguments over the phone for hours leaving us both in tears. When this song came out i knew about cleaning out my closet and was exposed to how rough Em's childhood was and for him to disregard that track meant everything. This song helped me find closure with myself and my mom. I cry every time I hear this
liek if u cry erytim
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This song is dedicated to me by my miss e son who resides in Colorado..
Ty My son Eric Yambrick...
I love you very much and ill always be here for you no matter what..
I wish Eminem would facebook my son and tell him ty...
He is my rock.my reason for living everyday...
By my middle son Eric y..oops audio correct
My parents are separated and it is always hard to be in the middle of that. I am the same way with my mom sometimes where I push her away but I know both sides are at fault. She also isn't the easiest to deal with but this song reminds me that no matter what she is my mom.
I'm a grown man but no joke, this song makes me cry every single time I listen to it. It makes me think of my own family and the strained relationships I have with some of them; it's painful to even think about and I feel an immense guilt most of the time, yet I have no idea what to do.
I think you should tell them how you feel. I think Eminem made this song to tell his mom how he felt. There’s something very relieving about talking about those painful memories.
Ditto ❤️
I feel you brother. My family and my childhood are garbage.
just talk to them before it's too late. it's god damn hard to live your life without saying the word you should've.
You should give em a call and just ask them how their day is and let them know you love them
It's traditional to come back to this scene every once in a while.
Isn't this a Christmas song? 🙃
Just wanted to visit this underrated track, again.
Same
I forgot the title of this song I'm glad I randomly remembered it
Eminem Christmas song for the broken kids/Adults
R.I.P. Debbie Mathers ❤ Eminem you're a true legend! This song hits deep in my heart! Much love to you and your family 🕊🕊🕊
"Mom, I know I let you down", that part gets me every time.
😴
I swear bro💯💯💯💯💯
Reallly 100%%%: feal like that all the time!!! I guess i am a bad man!!!!
It beautiful mate xTina
Media talks about cleanin out my closet and ignores this!
Yeah, at leas 115m people know the truth that Eminem is amazing
There just shock jocks and vampires ignoring that these are humans with real issues
❤️
www.google.com/amp/s/www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/eminem-finally-apologizes-to-mom-on-headlights-248931/amp/
Paper Works but then on revival he talks about fingering his mom...
This ain't eminem.....This is Marshall Mathers
Nate Ruess is the most underrated singer of all time.
Agreed
At least Eminem recognizes how good he is.
@@msjayelleaye that’s his brother
@@392holden Nathan Mathers is his brother. Look up “Nate Kane Mathers”
Bro was in a band that was incredible in the early 2010s
I hope Em sees this. I too have two brothers who went into the system. I was too, my mom left me in the closet at a doctors office. I was lucky enough to have a father who cared about me. A fuck up, but he loved me. I hope you found him, I don't research famous people. I'm from Lansing MI, and we don't got time for shit lol. We love you though, esp my man. I hope you are doing OK, as ok can get. I know it's hard, I lost both my parents by 18. Long story. Anyways, wishing you well. ❤❤❤
His horrible dad is dead, and only recently his mom passed!!he doesn’t have any parents anymore, he still has his extended family; but I think he doesn’t get along with most of them and doesn’t want his kids involved. Unless they’re old enough to want to interact, and he aproves of it; then the kids got a connection.
THIS IS WHY... Em is a legend. RAW, PURE, emotion that the world can relate to. IT'LL NEVER GROW OLD. Your music will last forever, as long as humans don't become numb to feeling LOVE, HATE, HAPPINESS, SADNESS, JOY, PAIN, AFRAID, and ASHAMED. HIS MUSIC CAPTURES IT ALL. HE'S A BLESSING TO THE WORLD 💯
Windows Vista lol it’s HIS mother. You don’t get to decide who he should and shouldn’t forgive. Geez someone’s bitter over someone they don’t even know 🙄
If you enjoy emotional songs, I’d suggest listening to NF. He’s amazing
A modern day Shakespeare
I deeply relate to Eminem because I came from a broken home, I resented my mom for the longest and it wasn’t until I was an adult that I realized how sick my mom was, this song makes me cry because I feel the same as Eminem, I had the same feelings he had when he made “Cleanin out my closet” because it reflected how I felt at the time about my mom, what just made me become a sobbing mess is when he says
“And I'm way too old to cry, the shit is painful though
But, Ma, I forgive you, so does Nathan, yo
All you did, all you said, you did your best to raise us both
Foster care, that cross you bear, few may be as heavy as yours
But I love you, Debbie Mathers”
And
“And I'm mad I didn't get the chance to,
Thank you for being my mom and dad”
I’ve never related to lyrics as much as these.
I regret the horrible things I’ve said to her and learned to forgive despite the pain that was caused, now I’m loving her from afar, we are not close now in anyway but every time she acts out I just remember that she’s sick and can’t control her own actions like a normal person can
Im so sorry for what happened to you, I also have a broken family, the sad part for me is that is just far from over and relating to “kill you” “my mom” “ cleaning out my closet” “remember me” and so much more had me sad for all my childhood, but whenever she tries to hurt me with her words or actions I just remember she’s ill and that me responding will not fix that
I completely understand you. My childhood was garbage and I was wonder everyday why I was born in family like that. My family is toxic toward me and i am nothing but a black sheep for them. And it makes me sick everytime when I hear these words such as "i love you" or "you are everything for us" or "you are nothing but a delusional bully". I was getting sick of this. I felt broken after my mom passed away and my ex girlfriend ditched me away. I didn't even want to celebrate holidays but afterwards I went because after all i am part of that garbage family being raised by drinkers, gossipers and father which i dislike his hypocrisy because he did something good. I am almost 20 studying hard in the university of my dreams and fighting for a happy and productive life.
I don't know how you can forgive. I have a younger sibling. The things she does to her hurts more then what she does to me. I don't want to be a victim it is what it is and what happened happened but how does forgiving help when you can't get away yet?
I feel the same way. My dad recently just passed and my mom left us about 8 years ago and I've been with him the whole time, 17 now and it's an early time to lose one like that but I'm still here, me and him always used to listen to Eminem all the time, this one especially. The point being is that my mother is in a abusive relationship where she was brainwashed from an abusive peice of shit boyfriend, first hand have experienced that. Made her cut me out of my life and she recently contacted me and I went off on her, now regretting it because I really do want to mend things with her I think
I hear this more then I want too. My mum passed away in 2017. We had a rocky relationship and she became my best friend when we were both forced to be still. I was pregnant and she was battling with cancer. I had my baby on my own and 4 weeks later my best friend passed away. I have so many regrets, please if any of you can please try and mend your relationships because when it's taken away its the most heartbreaking thing you can ever imagine. Peace and love to all. X
this is what i love about eminem, he knows he wasnt always right and hes grown, and he shows it to us all
Yesssss
Unbelievable Song and lyrics Eminem. Every son loves there mum. Priceless
"I don't hate u cuz mom, your still beautiful to me cuz ur my mom" that shit had me bawling my eyes out
"I love you Debbie Mathers; Oh what a tangled we b we have cus…" 😭😭😭😭
+Tony Moore one thing i never asked was where the fuck my dead beat dad was
+1,000,000 Subscriber No Videos fuck it I guess he had keeping up with every address
+Enrique Nolasco Me too man :C eminem songs are amazing !
+Enrique Nolasco I have to agree with you this reminds me of my mom
I can't stop crying as I listen to the lyrics. No one can beat EMINEM! Nobody can!
Marshall Mathers can
❤️🔥❤️
I also get misty-eyes while listening heart touching song
i can beat him in a fist fight🤷🏾♂️
Only 2pac or biggie
I lost my mom two years ago its hard to think about how much more time I could have spent If I hadn't moved to Los Angeles. In her final years my younger brother took on here illness burden. He quit his job dumped his girlfriend gave up his entire lifestyle just to take care of my mother.
I'm glad Eminem is trying to make things right with his mother although this was not his mother in this video its still is a good representation of his mom.
I hope he actually is trying to make things right between them.
Life Isn't about money....
im sorry for your loss
bro I'm so sry for you that is just so sad
Sorry for your loss
I hate to here tht bro
I know how you feel. I have parents. But they kicked me out of our house when i was 7. I moved to grandmas place and now im 14 living alone, taking care of my grandpa.
RIP Debbie, you gave birth to one of the best people to ever roam this green and blue planet
This song just makes me love eminem even more. It takes a lot to forgive (considering everything he's expressed on records before regarding his mom) and I just love that he's honest with himself and his fans. Always was.
sabrinas4life same
+sabrinas4life 3:37 "cuz ur my mom" :D
Maturity is realizing that the woman that birthed ,raised or maybe even abandoned you probably had a whole bunch of issues that she was dealing with and may have done the best she could. Song got me in my feels lol. Y'all take care of yall moms out there if you're lucky enough to have one.
💯💯💯
I really agree with this it's what I've learnt from talking to my parent and trying to understand and empathise
Just knowing how angry Eminem was when he first came onto the scene, I’m sure no one would ever in their life think that they would hear him apologize to his mom and make peace with her. You’re the man Marshall ✊✊✊
It's too late. There's no forgiving after a certain point
Why should he apologize? She was his mother it was her job to protect him his feelings are valid and maybe this was his coping method at the time
@@nielshansen193 she did him wrong
@S.p he turned to drugs himself so he now understands his mum, no one is above reproach, his mum fucked but so did he, it's a beautiful song
@@nostalgictimetraveler7921I feel like everyone’s mom cares about their kid at least to some degree. Clearly she wasn’t/isn’t mentally stable and he saw that and removed himself from the environment. If nothing else this song is just closure for marshal if not a genuine apology as well
Em gave the hardest and greatest apology even when he was justified in is anger and when nobody expected or imagined.
This song came from a place of strength developed by self forgiveness and love.
Thank you Marshal
RIP Debbie Mathers🙏🏾
When you are the same age as Em, and follow his career as I have, and loved each and every level of Eminem, this song makes you truly realize how amazing he is. It makes you realize that as we grow older, we see what is truly most important in this life. Kudos Em. This song is pure gold.
Yes I loved him before but much more respect now
Facts
Yes sir...80s babies unite...last great generation
The fact that I didn’t grow up in a broken home(I’m thankful for this & im so sorry to anyone who has grown up in broken homes), and STILL feel I love this song & can relate, you know the artist is doing their job.
That’s rare now growing up in a home like that
@@ansjdjgaming3049 I was very fortunate with my family life. I truly wish more people could say this. 😔
Tbh I feel like there are three levels of homes a broken home a family that loves u and acts like it and a family that isn’t broken but is consistently bullying you being rude etc
@@ansjdjgaming3049 nooo, maybe in Europe
@@chavalomiguel5587 nooo I live in Europe and every house around me are council houses and they are run down like mine. I am not saying this for sympathy just letting you know that some parts of Europe are very poor
How's everyone loving the latest Eminem track?
I love it it's so powerful and just great
Makes me think about my relationship with my parents.
I'm happy that I'm doing good with them. And you should always try to be nice to your parents. Because one time they're gone and you regret that you didn't get along with them.
amazing song.
its amzing as usual,
EMINEM
They should of done what they did on the monster when she had the tv on and it showed his videos mouthing her....he should of been rapping the lyrics to headlights on the tv
Debbie the reason we have Eminem. R.I.P 😢
🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
eminem is one of my favorite rappers. he is so real and he is loving of his family. he has so much respect for the less fortunate. such a great guy.
samantha omg umm have you heard the song called Kim
samantha omg that he made
flufferella conspiracy oh sweet salty Christ that song freaked me out the first time I listened to it and it seems as if he has clamed down a lot since those days as that song did come out in 1999
haha
Definitely one of the, if not THE most under-rated Em songs. I am so glad he's offered the branch to his mother. I just pray she grabs it with both hands. Absolutely nothing can compare to a full, united and happy family.
It has 136 million views chill
Boa noite. Oi Boa Boa sé OK ideias pensadores tanbensou.
@@ArielBojorquez . s
Then you have not been to Hong Kong Stripclub in Copenhagen😂
Only you must think this banger is underrated.
This song seared me to the soul when it first came out. No song has ever been more relatable in my entire life. My little brother was taken away by the state too and our mom was also mentally sick and I am just now, at 28, starting to see things differently and starting to learn to forgive. This song will live rent free in my soul for the rest of my life.
I hope life is kinder to you from here on.
Forgiving someone who hurt you, with or without them knowing this, forgiving will humble you and it's so much better than carrying hate and discontent. Life is challenging for everyone. I'm happy for your growth in this matter. When I heard this song the first time, my little girl played it.She said "Mom have you heard this song by Eminem? Listen to it " We were 3 deep standing in the dining room cleaning up after eating and the girls put that sing on and alot like all of the others felt my eyes started welling up with tears.bI was trying my best to hold back, that's how I am, don't cry ever unless you're alone. I stopped moving so did the girls like time stood still , listened I the whole song. This is kinda where the story began. Idk how to explain it, I'm happy Eminem finally found peace from his experience. God bless you all and may you broken pieces start mending you ♥️😘🖤🖤@brandy top fan Eminem
true
C'mon now
I'm so sorry Bro
RIP Deb, You made a living legend, and you are apart of his legacy a huge part, we all love you both, hope you good em i know you must be going through it. keep your head and health up!❤ that goes for everyone i love yall and we should all appreciate the family we have and show all the love we can to them and even strangers it doesnt cost anything to be kind and love one another. I hope you all have an amazing prosperous life! Tell Your Mom's, Dad's, Siblings, you love them!
Cleaning out my closet: 273 million views
Headlights: 119 million views
A lot of people only see half the story
And this is too sad.
One's been around for much longer. Give it time.
@@skylertillett6290 bro, this came out 7 years ago. It had enough time to grow
i'm glad i know full story
eminem is living legend..
Γιώργος Ρούσης lol facts
Deep video, straight respect for it!
Daym?
are u kidding me?
THIS ISNT THE TYPE OF EMINEM YOU EAT FOO
Daym Drops wow! even Daym was here.
Julio Bloemenveld wooow
I almost cry everytime I listen to this.
LuzaBeggs I DO cry every time I listen to this 😂
Me to
I do
Me to
Lol nothing to cry about
Rest in peace Debbie, we love you, ❤ for giving birth to a legend but also because you did your best and now your son is such a kind , humble man.
"Who's here after kamikaze"..... the real fans never left
this dude 12 ❤ love to mommy
Fr
Eminem slim marshal ❤
True words have never been spoken
Ayy!
Greatest apology of all time.
Peyton Vogt logan’s paul apology for the dead body is better 😤😤👌🏻🅱️
@@maanmoti xd
"i forgive you"
is that apology?
@@123vijit No u