THIS IS HOW TO OVERCOME INSECURITIES AND FIND YOUR IDENTITY IN CHRIST | L'amour in Christ

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  • @danielleharrison4327
    @danielleharrison4327 5 років тому +41

    Your videos always bless me because everytime I'm going through a specific situation your video notifications come up and you wind up speaking on exactly what I'm dealing with. God is really using you to bless me ❤❤🙏🏽

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +1

      Danielle Harrison Wow! That’s pretty amazing.

  • @TyKent
    @TyKent 5 років тому +31

    I truly think God is trying to call His children back to Him in a pure and wholehearted way. No fluff. No gimmicks. No manipulation. No obstacle courses. He just want them to understand the simplicity of who He created them to be and what they should be focused on in these last days. He put it on my heart to speak on this as well. Deception is so powerful today and it is destroying so many lives. This is going to help so many people. Glad I clicked on the recommendation. Be blessed.

    • @messengerofchristjesus4236
      @messengerofchristjesus4236 5 років тому +2

      Yes! Amen! This is so true. I 100% agree with you sister! Stay blessed and may the anointing of God flow upon your life richly in Jesus name! Amen!

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +2

      Thank you so much for saying that! Well said, and I'm glad you spoke on this topic as well.

  • @CharlotteVictoria.
    @CharlotteVictoria. 5 років тому +43

    Kytia please pray for me. As a sister in Christ. My Dad is dying (cancer stage 4) and I'm really needing prayer for me, my family and him.
    Thank you so much for your encouraging videos.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +7

      Charlotte Schnell I can only imagine what you’re going through, I will definitely pray for you and your family. 🙏🏼

    • @CharlotteVictoria.
      @CharlotteVictoria. 5 років тому +2

      @@KytiaLamour thank you so much. I'm greatful.

    • @ityyyyyy
      @ityyyyyy 5 років тому +3

      By his stripes we are healed. Your dad will be whole again in Jesus name Amen.

    • @CharlotteVictoria.
      @CharlotteVictoria. 5 років тому +1

      @@ityyyyyy Thank you

    • @danielleharrison4327
      @danielleharrison4327 5 років тому +1

      I'm praying for you and your family 🙏🏽

  • @BigPapaPeaches
    @BigPapaPeaches 5 років тому +39

    Praise God! I’ve been in a season of strange transition where I’ve kind of forgotten what I’m passionate about and what God wants for me. I prayed right along with you at the end, for the important things I’ve forgotten to be brought back to memory so I can move forward! 😊💕

    • @lexking3249
      @lexking3249 5 років тому +1

      Chelsey Fudd me too.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +1

      Chelsey Fudd That’s really awesome. Sometimes we can lose sight of it when there’s a lot going on around us.

  • @JerrellConner
    @JerrellConner 5 років тому +15

    Such a timely topic!
    I know so many struggle with finding their identity and confidence...
    I personally find that at the core of self-confidence is truly discovering one’s identity in Christ. Seeing His loving design for our lives helps us to have all the confidence in the world for our lives!! ✊🏽

    • @JerrellConner
      @JerrellConner 5 років тому +1

      By the way... You tryin’ it.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +1

      Jerrell Conner Ain’t that the truth!!!

    • @JerrellConner
      @JerrellConner 5 років тому +1

      Kytia L'amour 💯

  • @delacruzroselle5866
    @delacruzroselle5866 2 роки тому +1

    Kytia, my eyes are tearing up while watching this video😭. I'm struggling in insecurity for a long time. Praise Jesus, I know He will help me get out of this. God bless you Kytia.

  • @marketa7752
    @marketa7752 5 років тому +10

    I have a significant gifting in visual arts, but I have tried to "make it" into the industry in the history with a few different approaches, but I've always "failed" and got really discouraged and even broken by it. I think the reason is that the timing wasn't right and that I have been trying to do it in my strenght, and I was trying to fit in with the world and give the people what I thought they wanted rather that bring glory to God and be led by the Spirit in my artwork...
    Now I'm focusing on God first, and he has been slowly renewing my desire for making art. I'm sure that as I will continue to seek him, all the other good things will follow.
    Also, your video has reminded me of how much I love giving genuine compliments to people, and I think people do appreciate it.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +4

      Marketa That’s so awesome. I’ve been there myself too, and trying to make a career for yourself in your own strength is very very tiring and stressful.

  • @camilaw7802
    @camilaw7802 5 років тому +7

    Thank you for your video. Timely. This is something I have been struggling with all my life. And still going through right now. I have never felt good at anything. But God showed me that even my smile is a gift. Persons have said that my smile has made their day and brought joy and changed their mood. My perky and bubbly attitude as well. Even the small things are in line with your purpose. As you said our Heavenly Father is into details.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      You are correct. Even the small things are in line with our purpose.

  • @loa4035
    @loa4035 5 років тому +18

    Thank you for blessing me with this message. I have to remember this in this season of my life.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +1

      ꧁Loa࿐ • I’m so glad this helped you!!

  • @smileyt7581
    @smileyt7581 Рік тому

    I did a UA-cam search on overcoming insecurities and I came across your video. Thanks for laying this out. It truly was a blessing!!!

  • @uniquelyhidden8215
    @uniquelyhidden8215 5 років тому +13

    Thank you so much for this video! I’ve been struggling for awhile with comparison issues and I’ve been so busy looking at what others are doing that I have never taken the time to actually ask God what I’m good at. I’m similar to your daughter in that I always try to be the best at everything lol. Sometimes it feels like I’m always in competition with others and I’m always just left feeling disappointed especially now that I’m going into my third year of college and all of my friends are living this lavish life with all of their internships. I’m definitely going to take time this upcoming week to look at what God has given me and to try to learn to fall in love with who I am in Christ. So thanks girly for just always been so spiritually lead with your content. Definitely needed this message ❤️

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Uniquely Hidden Thank you so much for sharing that personal part of your journey. I’m sure many people can relate to this, and I’m excited for you as you get fresh revelation from The Lord.

    • @nai9410
      @nai9410 4 роки тому

      I used to have troubles with comparison but one thing I’ve learnt is that we all have our own individual journeys. I can’t have the exact same outcomes as someone else because we have been made differently and influenced by different things. You have your own journey, your own pace abs it’s okay. You don’t have to rush to meet someone at a certain point. Hope this helped.

  • @timica5014
    @timica5014 5 років тому +2

    Kytia,
    Thank you for being a vessel for God's goodness, grace, wisdom, power, and authority to rise up against all darkness and SHINE His marvelous light through. Your channel has brought so much joy, encouragement, love, and light into my life and others. May our Father of heaven and earth continue to bless you, your loved ones, your channel and your ministry. Thank you for demonstrating how wonderful, creative, loving, compassionate and FUN our God is. Keep SHINING like the bright star that you are.

  • @Zephaniah3-17
    @Zephaniah3-17 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much! You really encouraged me and I'm going on 52. God's got it goin on in you...( and me too)! ❤😃😁

  • @eli4shawt
    @eli4shawt 5 років тому +7

    I’m finally at a place where I’m secure enough that I can really ask God why I am here. There is so much I personally want to accomplish but I don’t know if God wants me to but I know I can’t without him. I’m 19 and I don’t want to waist time. I love doing hair and making music, singing dancing, writing music, stuff like that, but I’m way more talented with secular music I find, but I’m still unsure after a few years of asking if that’s okay. But I really don’t want to be unsuccessful, but I just think, as many people who think God has called them into music who can’t even make enough to live doing it, obviously God didn’t call everyone who thinks God called them into music, into it, so Idk how to know that I’m not deceived. I just wonder why it seems like everyone wants to be a singer/songwriter, and if I’m just like all of them, why would God need ALL of us to be doing that it doesn’t really make sense.

    • @therealynch1704
      @therealynch1704 5 років тому +4

      Hey have been there too! I love writing songs, singing, dancing but where am I? I struggle with coming out and doing what I was called for. You're right in saying, you don't want to waist time (by the way I'm 19 too) but while you're in the rushing, did you think of ''I'm in God's process for my purpose?'' I know how it hurts to be talented but not really doing something concrete with it (breakthrough). But I want to assure you, you are talented in Christian music, not secular. That's what the devil is trying to let you think.
      Not everyone sings for a general audience. The called ones (in the music ministry) have a specific audience that they were assigned. Some people do not succeed in music either because they're putting money before God, they were not really called to that or they are still in the process. Often we need more intimacy with God and that's the key to success. If you're really into God with your talent, he's going to open doors for you. Sometimes God doesn't have to bless us through money. I know of many who live in houses (villas) having cars, they didn't pay by themselves but God blessed them through someone else. When God meets you faithfully doing what he's assigned you to, he'll meet all your needs. Stay strong!!
      By the way, it will be a pleasure to listen to your works of art and share it here with my surrounding and the world.

    • @eli4shawt
      @eli4shawt 5 років тому +2

      ThereaLynch thank you so much I really appreciate it! You definitely gave me some new things to ponder for sure!

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +2

      Elijah Lindsey I don’t think you can have too many musicians, artists, engineers, scientists, doctors, dancers, etc. I think if we look at “success” through the lens of “making a living from it”, we could miss out on what God has in mind for our gifts. There are many different ways to influence the world through entertainment. It could be a huge platform, or something that effects a small group of people around you. If you don’t think you have clarity, keep working on your quiet time with God. Sometimes He does put huge dreams on our spirits, but you won’t know for sure if it’s Him unless you hear His voice clearly. At your young age, I’m so glad you’re asking these questions. Even though I’m 33 years old, sometimes I still feel like I have no idea what I’m doing, but I trust God day by day and keep seeing results. Faith is such a huge part of your journey.

    • @eli4shawt
      @eli4shawt 5 років тому

      Kytia L'amour cool thank you!!

  • @relaxingmusic6609
    @relaxingmusic6609 5 років тому +10

    This is so timely. Keep up the great work. May God bless and keep you.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Monique Lake Awww thank you!!

  • @messengerofchristjesus4236
    @messengerofchristjesus4236 5 років тому +3

    Amen! This message really spoke to me. And that can only be done by & the Holy Ghost moving in your life! I'm passionate about a lot of things such as art making, encouraging others, graphic designs, writing, acting, so much more! God is using me through them all in great ways already for His glory and I'm just humbled by that. God bless & continue to use you in Jesus name! :)

  • @lifeisbeatiful2559
    @lifeisbeatiful2559 5 років тому +10

    Thank you for this message Kytia...this really spoke to me

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +1

      life is beatiful I’m so glad to hear that!! You’re welcome.

  • @cbake3069
    @cbake3069 5 років тому +1

    Thank you. Ive been in a very dark place this past year. This and speaking to my father was what i needed. i stil have a lot to figure out and i hope this isnt one of the times that im ok for like a week and then i relapse into depression and away from God. But i'll keep reminding myself of the plans he has for me. Thank you!!

  • @PixelatedTwix
    @PixelatedTwix 5 років тому +3

    I just found your channel and this was so timely for me. I have been searching for my purpose, especially these past few days. 💜

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Yay! Welcome to my channel! Glad to have you here.

  • @christinemalvin6129
    @christinemalvin6129 5 років тому +1

    This is the 3rd video I watched from you today and I had to subscribe. I can’t wait to see how God pours into to pour into others! I pray that you continue to glorify God and build others up with you life.🤗

  • @catherinegudiwada6542
    @catherinegudiwada6542 5 років тому +3

    The video was lovely sis!!♥️
    Your videos always give me a new perception, whenever I'm in great chaos!♥️ Praise the Lord!♥️

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      I'm so glad to hear that! God is good.

  • @kimmwangi46
    @kimmwangi46 5 років тому +3

    I love the messages you share ❤️
    I watch your videos from Kenya 🇰🇪 and i really love them
    God is really working in you!

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Thank you! Your support means a lot!

  • @hinatalieclaire
    @hinatalieclaire 2 роки тому

    Love this message - thank you so much.

  • @len4831
    @len4831 3 роки тому

    Praise God and may God bless you and your family, Thankyou your video has really helped realize so many things , thanks alot

  • @melodylipford3142
    @melodylipford3142 5 років тому +1

    Your videos have been such a blessing to me and have provided me with so much encouragement, led me to important realizations and prayers. Please know you are making a difference and as a young woman, I see you as a role model when it comes to being a strong woman of faith. Being a recent college graduate, I'm struggling with those things and have come to the desire to want to give up fighting for my desired outcome and to seek His will and call for my life. I feel like His call is something He has been telling me to do for two years and I have questioned it and ignored it. If it is possible, please keep me in your prayers that I would have the courage as you said in your video to pursue that calling if truly of God regardless of the opinions of others. I love serving and helping others and want to follow His calling and know I will only be able to use my skills and be who I truly am by following His will. Thanks and God Bless.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      You have my prayers, I know it's not easy to abandon the "expected" and walk in faith.

  • @SheIsMuvaaa
    @SheIsMuvaaa 5 років тому

    Thank you for being committed to shining light and leading others into righteousness in Christ.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Thank you for saying that! All glory to God.

  • @katimahchildofgod1000
    @katimahchildofgod1000 5 років тому +1

    So well said , so on time in my journey, so in tune with God and his word of truth. God bless you ! Thank you for using your gift for His glory sis 😊

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Thank you so much for that encouragement.

  • @horrendous_karaoke
    @horrendous_karaoke 5 років тому +1

    Love this message. It never gets old. I've gotten some prophetic words to help give me a general idea of my purpose. But, since it involves mentoring and I feel like a hot mess myself, I don't think I can do much about it now. Plus, I have been in agony for the last 14 years because I don't like my jobs and am looking into going back to school for whatever will pay well and won't take me years to graduate. Isn't funny that I'm called to help people who don't feel like they can succeed?

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +1

      Christina Fred Most people who are called to a position of mentoring/leadership/discipleship that I’ve met or know of have had a radical shift in their life by fearlessly choosing to abandon what is “safe” and follow God wholeheartedly. I pray God helps you to know what that means for you. 🙏🏼

  • @OpesPOV
    @OpesPOV 5 років тому

    Amen! God bless you Kytia

  • @11111q2w3e
    @11111q2w3e 5 років тому

    Kytia thank you soo much for this message and praying over our lives. I didn't realise how much I needed to hear this until I watched your video. Thank you again😊

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      You're so welcome. I'm glad God was able to speak to you through this video.

  • @EmotionsExpressed
    @EmotionsExpressed 5 років тому

    I just realized you are the woman from a Jubilee video I watched... wow God bless, you stood out to me because of how bold you were

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Thank you, I get a lot of mixed reviews from my involvement in that video. I'm glad to have your support.

  • @georgealeman4612
    @georgealeman4612 Рік тому

    Awesome

  • @minari3252
    @minari3252 4 роки тому

    i needed this. thank you kytia!

  • @eli4shawt
    @eli4shawt 5 років тому +7

    Honestly though what us identity in Christ because I always hear that phrase and I don’t even know what it means. Like what he thinks of us? Who we are within Holy living?

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +5

      Elijah Lindsey That’s a great question. Identity in Christ is understanding who God made you to be when you were conceived in your mother’s womb. Unashamed, unafraid, uncompromising. The new creation you are because of what Christ did on the cross. Basically, you in your most free form untainted by the world.

    • @eli4shawt
      @eli4shawt 5 років тому +2

      Kytia L'amour OH I GET IT FINALLY

  • @Butterfly22797
    @Butterfly22797 5 років тому +2

    Thanks for this video ! I really needed this 💛

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      God’s Way God is good! I’m so glad!!

  • @thulaganyomaphakwane4045
    @thulaganyomaphakwane4045 5 років тому

    This is such perfect timing! Been dealing with a lot of insecurities! Thanks!

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Thulaganyo Maphakwane You’re so welcome. I’m really glad this helped.

  • @teamwooten2024
    @teamwooten2024 5 років тому

    Love love love your videos 😍 as I'm trying to work toward funding for traveling and building my own youth ministry one step at a time and I thank God for you and this clarification

  • @AliceRavenWing
    @AliceRavenWing 5 років тому

    Bless you Kytia, Jesus through you have helped me tons.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +1

      AliceRavenWing Glory to God! 🙌🏼

  • @jeremyalcoser5742
    @jeremyalcoser5742 Рік тому

    Recently married (5/18/23) and jumped into my wife’s past and see all these guys who were fit and more attractive than me. More popular. More stable than me. I don’t know why she married me… I’m lost but it’s killing me.

  • @NewCreationInChrist896
    @NewCreationInChrist896 5 років тому +1

    Amen alive in Christ.
    #predestined

  • @AllThingsNique781
    @AllThingsNique781 5 років тому

    Thank you! This message was right on time !

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Dominque Ashley Yay! So glad to hear that.

  • @ingridellinor
    @ingridellinor 5 років тому

    Thank you!

  • @yolandadavis2747
    @yolandadavis2747 5 років тому

    Glory be to God Almighty!

  • @EleniWiebeMentalWellness
    @EleniWiebeMentalWellness 4 роки тому

    Thanks for this vid💛 I want to be a mom, a mental health therapist and also help children or thru being a momma 🙏💛

  • @alishabarretto
    @alishabarretto 5 років тому

    Thank you so much for this video!! It was on time for me

  • @EleniWiebeMentalWellness
    @EleniWiebeMentalWellness 4 роки тому

    Love this video my next video I prayed about this I want to make a video too about how to overcome insecurity by finding our worth and identity in Christ. Love this kytia 💛🙏

  • @IlenElla
    @IlenElla 5 років тому

    Amen! This video is a blessing!

  • @WWIIKittyhawk
    @WWIIKittyhawk 5 років тому +6

    How does one overcome years of living with anxiety as a Christian?

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +2

      WWII Kittyhawk God helped me tremendously with that! I made a video on my experience: ua-cam.com/video/AwUfe9O5ZFg/v-deo.html

    • @WWIIKittyhawk
      @WWIIKittyhawk 5 років тому

      Kytia L'amour thank you so much

  • @ImieVictoriano07
    @ImieVictoriano07 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this. Godbless you

  • @marnishag9193
    @marnishag9193 5 років тому

    Thank you again!

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      MarNisha G Thanks so much for watching!!

  • @GigglesAttack91
    @GigglesAttack91 5 років тому

    Amen amen, love this video!

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +1

      GigglesAttack91 Praise be to God! 😄

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      GigglesAttack91 Awesome! Thanks for watching!

    • @GigglesAttack91
      @GigglesAttack91 5 років тому

      @@KytiaLamour 💕💕💕anytime

  • @Itz_Muichiro_Tokito
    @Itz_Muichiro_Tokito 5 років тому

    Your videos are very helpful :) I love the Lord and Jesus.

  • @sixteen.candles.4644
    @sixteen.candles.4644 5 років тому

    Oooo a mommy blog! Im about to be a mommy soon yay 🙌

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Beloved Bee Yay!! Congrats!!!

  • @JesusLucky1
    @JesusLucky1 5 років тому

    Thank you

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      JESUSlucky1 You’re so welcome. 💗

  • @gadielsuriel
    @gadielsuriel 5 років тому

    I don’t wanna work a 9-5 job that I don’t like I feel like I’m waisting time and I’m passionate and love playing basketball but It’s not my talent im at a confused state where I just go with the flow and I hate that feeling

  • @elisaluckett1392
    @elisaluckett1392 5 років тому

    What city you live in I need a friend like you , you inspire me. And motivates me . I am also a Christian I live in Milwaukee wisconsin . If you not in my city can we be UA-cam friends.

    • @elisaluckett1392
      @elisaluckett1392 5 років тому

      I really enjoy your messages , the things you talk a about. When you talked about to know your identity in Christ.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      I'm in Los Angeles, CA but I'm glad that you can still connect with me on this platform.

  • @hummingbird4335
    @hummingbird4335 5 років тому

    Babe this is unrelated (blessed by this video by the way) but what pink lipstick is that? So vibrant & fruity Lol

  • @oliviamanning-richardson6677
    @oliviamanning-richardson6677 5 років тому

    How can I know if I’m saved?

    • @CharlotteVictoria.
      @CharlotteVictoria. 5 років тому +1

      Asking God into your life.
      Knowing what He did for you at the cross and believing in him.
      Loving Him with all your heart mind and soul.
      Recognize that your a sinner, repent and ask for forgiveness.
      Walking with the Lord and being in His will.
      That's what it means to me to be saved. And how I know I am saved.
      Hopefully this makes sense.
      If I missed anything I'm sorry.
      My mind is not the best right now. I found out my Dad is dying.
      Also the Bible is a great place to go to answer those questions with God's Word. There's lots of scriptures on getting saved.
      Praying for you.
      I encourage you to read the book of John.

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      Olivia Manning-Richardson I talk specifically about this in one of my videos. I’ll link it here: ua-cam.com/video/dYL88J5zk7g/v-deo.html

    • @taylorh1287
      @taylorh1287 5 років тому +1

      @@CharlotteVictoria. Praying for you and your family...the joy of the Lord is your strength.

    • @CharlotteVictoria.
      @CharlotteVictoria. 5 років тому

      @@taylorh1287 thank you so much!

  • @Fashion_With_Tamyia
    @Fashion_With_Tamyia 5 років тому

    ♥️♥️

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому

      The Chic Advice ☺️☺️☺️

  • @HalfFrown93
    @HalfFrown93 4 роки тому

    I’m sorry to say this , I love your videos , but never have I seen Christian videos with so many ads. I don’t mind them but I think there needs to be less ads.

  • @mars_starz420
    @mars_starz420 4 роки тому

    Im Jewish

  • @theforceq
    @theforceq 5 років тому

    There's a lot of static feedback. Is your air conditioner or fan on? :(

    • @KytiaLamour
      @KytiaLamour  5 років тому +1

      theforceq No air conditioner or fan. Thanks for watching! 😊