Next time, when my boss comes up to me asking something in along the line of "...so are you going to finish this today? Because it has to be done by tomorrow afternoon" I'm going to answer with "I believe in destiny, not deadlines". She'll probably say "I believe you're fired!" But it's going to be worth it.
In my early twenties I was upset I was not married. Now im 28,I try to live a happy life even single. I think when its meant to be it will happen. There is no point feeling sad you didnt find the right one yet.
+CoDEmanX47 Yes, the biological clock does tick. However, if one is not too fussy about genetics, one can always adopt if the timing is off. Settling for Mr. Right-for-now only leads to misery in the future, especially if he thinks you are Mrs. Right forever.
There are not definite answers but you can work towards something to improve in it. If you're not getting dates, maybe you're shy or lack social skills. Work on improving them. Don't depend on destiny - yes, what happens, happens, but at least take a few swings.
You will be available on twitter and instagram, yet what does that mean to me, I was happy to have you here, I'm,, disappointed you choose to restrict yourself, be freely available, just like your personality, and available to all. Because you're worth it.
Just stumbled across your channel and OMG weird I swear me finding this channel was fate! I love you! I think you're fucking right about everything and you make me realize I'm not that crazy, we are all just that crazy when it comes to being single and dating! Keep doing you girl I'm officially your new biggest fan!
I'm just saying that destiny might lead to blame your fate for everything or something that goes wrong in your life when in reality it's you that you are doing something wrong... I just don't personally believe that something is meant to happen it's just happens and something ourselves might have a little part on it.. All I 'm trying to say is that we are responsible for the life we're living and things just happen around us and we have to except them ☺️
Honestly if I don't have a girlfriend at 30 then I will just buy one from Ukraine :'-( I will soon be 23 wich already makes me feel old so I can only imagine how you feel. Must be a lot more terrible for women.
You are so much fun , Amy! I am in love with your video and your advices. You sound like a really fun and smart girl. I'd wish I had a super cool friend like you to hang out with! Keep it up with your UA-cam page 💖
Well believing in destiny definitely helps but there are BUTs. First, what if your destiny is to be single forever? I have such examples in my life. Second, what if it's you who doesn't do something or does it wrong? I have a story for you. My mom's friend has never had a relationship. She met a perfect guy once but was too scared or shy that she let him leave. So now she is around 60 and she's completely alone. That is a very sad example. It's not always like it is in the movies.
Your videos make me feel happy , I clicked the first one for your smile and I stayed for the laughs. Also I’ve learned so many tips that help relations with the better half. Do you have a link to the Podcast you did with your friend ? I couldn’t find it. Cheers Andy
its funny how destiny and fate work, i personally don't believe in fate( doesn't make it true or false) but destiny is and are the choices you make in life that lead you to certain things where as fate is pre determined no matter what choices you make.
Yeah i was an idot at 12 and made the deadline for myself that by 25 id be married with kids. When 25 came around i had none of that, i had a major panic attack especially since i felt like crap because every girl i grew up with and was friends with had that and i was the only one that didnt. Now that im 26 and none of that is still in sight im still hard on and upset with myself. I feel like a failure and weird and like there is something wrong with me specially when alot of them have said "oh i thought you would have gotten married first and have like 5 kids by now your such a good women and have good relationship advise why aren't you married? Im trying to just go with the flow and trust timing.
It's way harder for men to get dates than women. Men have to work out, look good, have a good job and a nice car, learn how to approach women, learn how to break the ice and start a conversation, learn how to turn that conversation into a phone number, learn how to build attraction on a date so she doesn't lose interest, etc. Women just have to look good.
hey I like your videos so much Amy. I just see your channel,,, I got a question for ya is there any honest girls still there? I am kind of romantic but a little bit shy guy ,, not into bars ,,, was wondering if girls appreciate honesty not just foolishness, drinking and getting drunk , Its all about self confidence >?
This is the clear rift between men and women here. Women believe in destiny therefore they expect a Mr Perfect. Men however, due to their nature, understand they have to earn it and work towards creating their destiny. I've seen it too many times where literally in the first 5 minutes a woman has already decided if you're the Mr Perfect or not, and the answer is almost always no... because he doesn't exist. Aaand I'm gonna stop watching these women's vids. Its clearly not targeted towards me and I feel it sells women a BS version of reality rather than the brutal truth they find difficult to face. As you age the pool gets smaller and "destiny" will seem less and less likely. That "oh men will approach me anyway" attitude will meet harsher opposition whereas men will be where they always were, having to work for it.
Ha! Most of the men that I've been with are the ones who weren't working for it and I was. It really depends on the individual and you lumping us all together as being the same is the actual BS here. Also, I don't think you'll be winning anyone over with that attitude.
I like what you're saying about the differences between men and women...there are so many variables and some women are quite intuitive and can sense a man's intention. With the inequality of men and women there is still work for both sides to look past gender and respect each other
0001har0001 personally, i was just curieux, but seeing the echochamber 'you can have everything when you want' feminist attitude, is what puts men off, it did me. I fervently hoped to meet a woman who would love me consistently and faithfully. I'm now mercifully free of women's demands. Life is free of drama. It's bliss
Emma Dickinson male desire is all but criminalized and so is being male it would seem, we've had fifty years of feminism to thank for inequality. Male privilege is a myth and yet taken into consideration in politics. It's no picknick being male, but it can be ameliorated by avoiding western women. Dramajunkie narcissism and weaponized sex? No thank you.
SWIFTzTrigger I agree that this message presented is unhealthy for women. You don't sit around and wait for a career or new car or shoes do you ladies? Then why do you feel that love is different?
Waiting will make you into an old, bitter, lonely and pathetic spinster. No one will care about you and have any sort of sympathy. In fact, most of them will be very disgusted and nauseated at your sight, taking you righteously as some sort of enemy.
Destiny sure is taking its time with me....
Cameron West more than 12 years?.... :/ lol
veganpea Try 25
ahh damn... sorry to hear.. i hope u are still enjoying life though? :) x
7 years still single not to mention I'm a V
Cameron West Me too...way too much
Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.
― Rumi
What does that even mean
Next time, when my boss comes up to me asking something in along the line of "...so are you going to finish this today? Because it has to be done by tomorrow afternoon" I'm going to answer with "I believe in destiny, not deadlines". She'll probably say "I believe you're fired!" But it's going to be worth it.
Hahaha!!! Too funny!
Lizmarie Twin2 Thanks
😊
destiny is a great gal
That would be epic!!!
In my early twenties I was upset I was not married. Now im 28,I try to live a happy life even single. I think when its meant to be it will happen. There is no point feeling sad you didnt find the right one yet.
How are you now?
Deadlines are for projects. Your love life, and your future mate are not projects. From my experience, people are never projects.
+Colin Chan There is a deadline of sorts for babies though...
+CoDEmanX47 Yes, the biological clock does tick. However, if one is not too fussy about genetics, one can always adopt if the timing is off. Settling for Mr. Right-for-now only leads to misery in the future, especially if he thinks you are Mrs. Right forever.
such decisions must be taken slowly
Unless you're a scientist
"I believe in destiny, not deadlines" is what I'm using next time I have a 4000 word essay due :'D
I like that you say let our destiny unravel but we have to make that Leap of faith
There are not definite answers but you can work towards something to improve in it. If you're not getting dates, maybe you're shy or lack social skills. Work on improving them. Don't depend on destiny - yes, what happens, happens, but at least take a few swings.
I wish Amy Young was my fairy Godmother actually...
I just love how you make me feel good about my self. I think you should have your own show just like Ellen!
You will be available on twitter and instagram, yet what does that mean to me, I was happy to have you here, I'm,, disappointed you choose to restrict yourself, be freely available, just like your personality, and available to all. Because you're worth it.
Girl your hair is fabulous
i love that example of things always happening randomly love might be the same
Wow! Believing in Destiny x Believing in Deadlines! You are forever AMAZING AMY Young! Much Love :)
Just stumbled across your channel and OMG weird I swear me finding this channel was fate! I love you! I think you're fucking right about everything and you make me realize I'm not that crazy, we are all just that crazy when it comes to being single and dating! Keep doing you girl I'm officially your new biggest fan!
I'm just saying that destiny might lead to blame your fate for everything or something that goes wrong in your life when in reality it's you that you are doing something wrong... I just don't personally believe that something is meant to happen it's just happens and something ourselves might have a little part on it.. All I 'm trying to say is that we are responsible for the life we're living and things just happen around us and we have to except them ☺️
27 still waiting...⏰
xNnix xVvix me too, hot cakes ;)
32 here. Just enjoy your life. That's what I've learned to do.
Honestly if I don't have a girlfriend at 30 then I will just buy one from Ukraine :'-( I will soon be 23 wich already makes me feel old so I can only imagine how you feel. Must be a lot more terrible for women.
Congratulations! You know I'll be subscribing! So awesome, so happy for you.
Great message this week, too. You never disappoint.
"There's no finish line on life!" are *perfect* last words
You are so much fun , Amy! I am in love with your video and your advices. You sound like a really fun and smart girl. I'd wish I had a super cool friend like you to hang out with! Keep it up with your UA-cam page 💖
jus sayin this genuinely makes my week. youre great
Well believing in destiny definitely helps but there are BUTs. First, what if your destiny is to be single forever? I have such examples in my life. Second, what if it's you who doesn't do something or does it wrong? I have a story for you. My mom's friend has never had a relationship. She met a perfect guy once but was too scared or shy that she let him leave. So now she is around 60 and she's completely alone. That is a very sad example. It's not always like it is in the movies.
Why I only discover this now! Omg! Ur really helpful to me! Thank you! New subscriber! 💕💕
Your videos make me feel happy , I clicked the first one for your smile and I stayed for the laughs. Also I’ve learned so many tips that help relations with the better half. Do you have a link to the Podcast you did with your friend ? I couldn’t find it. Cheers Andy
Oh my gosh, I just discovered your videos. You are honestly so awesome and funny. Subscribed :)
I subscribed, ha. Love the editing and the tough-love style.
I believe in deadlines not destiny... yeah i got it
You always cheer me up !
awesome...love ur sense of humor
Love love love your mantras. Kisses from Lithuania ( now you will check your geography skills) :)
its funny how destiny and fate work, i personally don't believe in fate( doesn't make it true or false) but destiny is and are the choices you make in life that lead you to certain things where as fate is pre determined no matter what choices you make.
I really like how your house looks.
Im a TG your video really works for me!
Yay!!! Good episode too btw!
I like your videos, very inspirational!
😂😂 she's crazy and funny. I love her haha my new favorite youtubers
Yeah but a lot of people don’t find someone ... I have various family memebers that just didn’t get the chance
You didn't say "one video at a fucking time" oh god ;_; i feel so empty
hahah
+Amy you are hilarious !!!!! Lol I love you already.
You are that voice inside my head
can you do a video on awesome responses to "why are you still single?"
Yeah i was an idot at 12 and made the deadline for myself that by 25 id be married with kids. When 25 came around i had none of that, i had a major panic attack especially since i felt like crap because every girl i grew up with and was friends with had that and i was the only one that didnt. Now that im 26 and none of that is still in sight im still hard on and upset with myself. I feel like a failure and weird and like there is something wrong with me specially when alot of them have said "oh i thought you would have gotten married first and have like 5 kids by now your such a good women and have good relationship advise why aren't you married? Im trying to just go with the flow and trust timing.
Your eyebrows mesmerizes me🤩
You are the oprah of our generation
Inspirational as always
I got "A" hair cut...I got them All cut!" Hilarious!!!
She is just gorgeous like really really realllllllllly beautiful. Just had to get that off my chest.😂🖤
You are awesome! And so real!
42 I'm still single
I love you, thank you for all you do🌹✨
You have great eyes and a fun engaging voice.
Yeah but humans come in thsi body with a timeline....n we gotta make the most of it ...in whatever way makes us happy
she's Perry cool and I understand the hole destani thing but u also gotta go for Wat u want
Your such a good acter 😂 like in the Scenario 😂 yours so smartttt with relations ship 😂
I’ll be 35 in July. I gave up a while ago.
I'll be 45 in July. I had to give up. It was driving me insane.
17 years single, now 47 lol luckly we have more than one life to find true love
Subscribed! 😍
"if you can be cool with that" "try and be cool with that" "BE COOL WITH IT!" hahahahaha omg I love you amy!
It's way harder for men to get dates than women. Men have to work out, look good, have a good job and a nice car, learn how to approach women, learn how to break the ice and start a conversation, learn how to turn that conversation into a phone number, learn how to build attraction on a date so she doesn't lose interest, etc. Women just have to look good.
Your so beautiful Amy! Love your vedios 🤗
Hahaha such a cute video! You are great!
hahahaah you are so funny ! Loved this
hey I like your videos so much Amy. I just see your channel,,, I got a question for ya
is there any honest girls still there? I am kind of romantic but a little bit shy guy ,, not into bars ,,, was wondering if girls appreciate honesty not just foolishness, drinking and getting drunk , Its all about self confidence >?
With every video i want to meet her more and more haha
I love you!
I fucking love you.
Haha you describe how i feel at the moment
She's a catch. 😍
So relatable.....that's totally me....m fuckin 30 n still being 😎 cool
Exactly, why haven't I met you?
She looks like we could have the longest conversations almost everyday
I just tell myself that I am way to ugly, I put on my head phones and go about my business.
How about neither? Neither is good for me.
What if you dont believe in destiny at all?
That's fine. It's not actually a thing anyway.
And yet if you fail to meet your deadlines, you're destined to fail.
Being single WITH the powerful mindset of MGTOW!
I believed in destiny, not deadlines =)
why did she deleted all the social media with her name?
6yrs single
Will see you at Starbucks Amy!!
It's possible yeah but I'm 25 been single like forever ... Why taking so long :(
If that's your real picture it's because you're pretty so a lot of guys probably assume you're taken.
Omg I love you lol
Lol wish it really happened to me cuz I go too starbuck every fuckin morning haaa
You're cute
MrELKICKER ikr I love Amy!! That's what keeps me coming back and watching her videos ;)
315 to 3:0 I'm right here
3:30*
I guess Twinder is the Twitter version of Tinder? 🤔
Are you still single?
Omg, twinder, that's like the twitter for swingers lol ;)
You said ovaries are drying up it sounds so creepy 😶
Stop being so nice.
I'm sorry but... The biological clock and menopause... I feel bad that those are the two things to popped into my head...
Your Ovaries have a deadline though ;^)
Coulda taken the 15 guys who wanted to marry you when you were in your mid 20s :p
Old ladies pants. hahahaha
This is the clear rift between men and women here. Women believe in destiny therefore they expect a Mr Perfect. Men however, due to their nature, understand they have to earn it and work towards creating their destiny. I've seen it too many times where literally in the first 5 minutes a woman has already decided if you're the Mr Perfect or not, and the answer is almost always no... because he doesn't exist.
Aaand I'm gonna stop watching these women's vids. Its clearly not targeted towards me and I feel it sells women a BS version of reality rather than the brutal truth they find difficult to face. As you age the pool gets smaller and "destiny" will seem less and less likely. That "oh men will approach me anyway" attitude will meet harsher opposition whereas men will be where they always were, having to work for it.
Ha! Most of the men that I've been with are the ones who weren't working for it and I was. It really depends on the individual and you lumping us all together as being the same is the actual BS here. Also, I don't think you'll be winning anyone over with that attitude.
I like what you're saying about the differences between men and women...there are so many variables and some women are quite intuitive and can sense a man's intention. With the inequality of men and women there is still work for both sides to look past gender and respect each other
0001har0001 personally, i was just curieux, but seeing the echochamber 'you can have everything when you want' feminist attitude, is what puts men off, it did me. I fervently hoped to meet a woman who would love me consistently and faithfully. I'm now mercifully free of women's demands. Life is free of drama. It's bliss
Emma Dickinson male desire is all but criminalized and so is being male it would seem, we've had fifty years of feminism to thank for inequality. Male privilege is a myth and yet taken into consideration in politics. It's no picknick being male, but it can be ameliorated by avoiding western women. Dramajunkie narcissism and weaponized sex? No thank you.
SWIFTzTrigger I agree that this message presented is unhealthy for women. You don't sit around and wait for a career or new car or shoes do you ladies? Then why do you feel that love is different?
Mm-mm.
hundred
Waiting will make you into an old, bitter, lonely and pathetic spinster.
No one will care about you and have any sort of sympathy. In fact, most of them will be very disgusted and nauseated at your sight, taking you righteously as some sort of enemy.
hello how are you ^_^ i like you you are crazy :)
You're looking for a man? Hmmm ok ok maybe you're crazy