In Italy, if both parents are working, one decides to apply for it. Whether woman or man. Some of these things have to do with territorial princes not about money. Social benefits is given everywhere in Europe. So, if “ it’s causing divorce” in the UK, then it’s not about that. These are strongholds in certain territories. As true Christians, let’s be prayerful and Christlike.
That's an interesting point. While child benefit payments are intended to support families, research suggests that unconditional financial support can sometimes have unintended consequences, including increased divorce rates. Some possible reasons for this correlation include: 1. Reduced financial dependence: When one partner receives financial support, they may feel less dependent on the other, leading to a decrease in motivation to work through relationship issues. 2. Increased financial independence: Child benefit payments can provide a sense of financial security, making it easier for individuals to consider leaving a unhappy marriage. 3. Shift in power dynamics: Unconditional financial support can alter the balance of power within a relationship, potentially leading to conflicts and relationship breakdown. However, it's essential to note that correlation does not imply causation. Many factors contribute to divorce, and child benefit payments are just one aspect to consider. If you're interested in exploring this topic further, I can provide more information or resources on the subject!
You have stated the facts. There is also correlation between increased on unconditional financial support and dependency on government and increased poverty
There is a causative effect too. There are many many times that women have blatantly said that their husbands are useless as the money government will give them is much more than what their husbands bring home. In many cases, women hide this financial reason for divorce and conjure a totally different story for driving the man out. A ridiculous reason a woman can and do level is that the man did something to her 15 years or so ago when they were in Ghana. Finally, women normally solicit the services of women's groups, Citizens Advise Bureau, antenatal services before triggering the divorce button so it just looks like it's not financial needs that'd caused her marriage breakdown. Those who put together the research you relied on just use surveys to collect the data. Some also have vested interest so identifying that it's because of benefits that marriages break in the UK and other westen countries will hurt their livelihood. Note they're consultants, academics, politicians and the like.
@@karlmax6031 I think you have made some valid points. So in most cases the real issue is finance. When the woman can have access to resources and the children are more or less independent, the man becomes an accessory that can be disposed of easily. The solicitation of women groups, social services, restraining order and a ploy by the woman to make the groups fertile for divorce. There would be documentation to the effect the woman had suffered abuse.
Because of the benefits some couples plan to cheet the system by separating for benefits n sneak to the house to sleep all the time so when there is a little misunderstanding then lady tells u not to come to the house anymore then it turns to break up.
For the kids government benefit that parents are fighting over , it is given to them for the kids. The parent is SUPPOSED to invest it in educational fund for the kids when they are ready for higher education. This is used for their tuition and residence upkeep. Unfortunately, most of our parents in UK think the money is for them. No! It is for the kids. Save it in educational fund for the kids. How will you feel as a parent if your child completes PhD without owing any student loan. Will he not move up in life faster instead of owing hugely after school? This is what most churches in UK should teach the congregants about. When both parents understands this and monitor the investment, there will be peace in the house.
@priscillaayd2007 Yes it is possible if you have a vision n a better future for your children. Some people have done it and so can you my dear sister. Think big and ahead if you have your child's interest at heart. God bless you.
@@priscillaayd2007 please child benefit is not for food. It is the responsibility of a parent to take care of kids we bring into the world and not reliance on child benefit to take care of kids. I say this respectfully. When we understand that, we will realise that the child benefit is for the kids. One of the best ways for us to use the money is to invest it in educational fund that will compound by the time the kid is ready for school. This is what all of us in London should focus on. Thanks
Know that some of the men also take advantage of the women. They are married in London and still have side chicks in Ghana. When the wife finds out, unlike Ghana, she will advise herself. In Ghana, even if the husband has a side chick, the family encourages you to stay- enye whii fama Nyame. But in London, the lady will not allow that.
Ironically it is the same man who was taking care of the woman in Ghana and it is 70 percent most likely that it is the same man who brought the lady to UK. There are many men in Ghana who have side chicks aside their wives so please OYA go and break their marriages too and collect your blue peter badge.
@@Stirlk The sad thing is that it is probably the same man who was taking care of the lady in Ghana and the lady was aware that he had a side chick in Ghana when she herself was still in Ghana. Smh. I think men should learn and refuse to bring women to UK.
You are right however there’s nothing wrong with side chicks. That doesn’t mean you have to be evil and mean spirited? There is a good chance that these so called side chicks are the reason why he’s staying in the marriage.
Marriage needs a lot of cultivation. Go and find out from those bragging about 40 yrs of marriage, they tuned thier brains to suit the marriage . No marriage is perfect! Celebrating 40 and 50 yrs of togetherness do celebrate forgiveness, tolerance, ignoring spouse's stupidity and overlooking misbehaviour., not to mention cheating! Money doesn't determine a better marriage but character and loyalty does. They wouldn’t divorce in Italy but came here to do so? Very sad and stupid . £20 nti
THE CURRENT STATE OF GHANA SHOULD TELL YOU EXACTLY WHY. WE GHANAINS DO NOT RESPECT ANYTHING, ESPECIALLY WOMEN. WE CAN NOT GO ABOUT DESTROYING EVERYTHING AND THINK IT WILL NOT TRANSLATE IN OUR DAILY LIVES.
To the men who do not contribute to the household financially, who do not support the wife emotionally or mentally or have a provider mentality or support in upbringing of kids. Please remember the part where she said the woman is doing the man a favour by staying married. It’s a different mindset but it is what it is… welcome to 🇬🇧😂.
The point is women ar created powerful, but nature had made us to understand dat men ar heads of family & needs to respected at all times. When women ar been loved & respected dey see you the as a fool. Please madame kindly understand dat our culture setup different form what the white does, & it culture dat makes whom we ar as Ghanaians wai.
We should understand that this system wasn't created for us, Indians been here long time ago, use their culture and we Ghanaians want adopt European one's. Check the difference.
I suggest if the women want to make their own money after relocating from Italy to UK, they should take their own self from Ghana to Uk. The married men also your wives are not ur slaves. Sumtyms help them in the house chores.
That's not all the men, most of them are shallow minded. Anything centralise on benefits, when the kids, are with still young they forget about one day them kids will leave the house and start their own life.
Why should you work 3 shifts? Your husband is working.. He takes care of most of the bills... Your work is to cater for some of your needs that you don't want to ask your husband... But because of money you work 3 shifts... We are ghanaian and should not throw away iur culture... Men must help their wives but not do everything.. Women are home makers so they mustn't work plenty.. If you have a career that's understandable... But some deliberately do 6 shifts and not do their homely responsibilities....
Greedy is one and two anyone who in the churches will not last. There is nothing in bible tell u pastor should bless the marriage. They should going to church to marry.
The reason is once bitten once shy? Been married 23yrs in 🇺🇸 never ever got any tax returns benefits from hubby.
Patience is the key 💕
do u mean u are expecting to get from him?? then why dont you tell him
In Italy, if both parents are working, one decides to apply for it. Whether woman or man. Some of these things have to do with territorial princes not about money. Social benefits is given everywhere in Europe. So, if “ it’s causing divorce” in the UK, then it’s not about that. These are strongholds in certain territories. As true Christians, let’s be prayerful and Christlike.
This woman really spoke well with much knowledge and wisdom. 🥰💯👍👍👍👌👌👌
That's an interesting point. While child benefit payments are intended to support families, research suggests that unconditional financial support can sometimes have unintended consequences, including increased divorce rates.
Some possible reasons for this correlation include:
1. Reduced financial dependence: When one partner receives financial support, they may feel less dependent on the other, leading to a decrease in motivation to work through relationship issues.
2. Increased financial independence: Child benefit payments can provide a sense of financial security, making it easier for individuals to consider leaving a unhappy marriage.
3. Shift in power dynamics: Unconditional financial support can alter the balance of power within a relationship, potentially leading to conflicts and relationship breakdown.
However, it's essential to note that correlation does not imply causation. Many factors contribute to divorce, and child benefit payments are just one aspect to consider.
If you're interested in exploring this topic further, I can provide more information or resources on the subject!
You have stated the facts. There is also correlation between increased on unconditional financial support and dependency on government and increased poverty
There is a causative effect too. There are many many times that women have blatantly said that their husbands are useless as the money government will give them is much more than what their husbands bring home.
In many cases, women hide this financial reason for divorce and conjure a totally different story for driving the man out. A ridiculous reason a woman can and do level is that the man did something to her 15 years or so ago when they were in Ghana.
Finally, women normally solicit the services of women's groups, Citizens Advise Bureau, antenatal services before triggering the divorce button so it just looks like it's not financial needs that'd caused her marriage breakdown.
Those who put together the research you relied on just use surveys to collect the data. Some also have vested interest so identifying that it's because of benefits that marriages break in the UK and other westen countries will hurt their livelihood.
Note they're consultants, academics, politicians and the like.
@@karlmax6031 I think you have made some valid points. So in most cases the real issue is finance. When the woman can have access to resources and the children are more or less independent, the man becomes an accessory that can be disposed of easily.
The solicitation of women groups, social services, restraining order and a ploy by the woman to make the groups fertile for divorce. There would be documentation to the effect the woman had suffered abuse.
Wow, a wise woman. You have shed light on the situation. Thanks for your insight
This woman spoke facts and the truth! Period! God bless you mommy❤
Because of the benefits some couples plan to cheet the system by separating for benefits n sneak to the house to sleep all the time so when there is a little misunderstanding then lady tells u not to come to the house anymore then it turns to break up.
Wow the force gravity is always pulling the black man down
well spoken counselor
Rightly said Counsellor 😊
Because you have a good husband that's why you are saying what you are saying some of the men the treats women bad
Hw3 asem ooh
😂😂😂😂
So some of the women don’t treat the men badly? 3de3n ne gyimii bebrebe yi
Hw3 ni Kwasuampanin bi 😂
Some of our Ghanaian men are not romantic at all they are villagers
Especially asantes 😂
😂😂😂yes
For the kids government benefit that parents are fighting over , it is given to them for the kids. The parent is SUPPOSED to invest it in educational fund for the kids when they are ready for higher education. This is used for their tuition and residence upkeep. Unfortunately, most of our parents in UK think the money is for them. No! It is for the kids. Save it in educational fund for the kids. How will you feel as a parent if your child completes PhD without owing any student loan. Will he not move up in life faster instead of owing hugely after school? This is what most churches in UK should teach the congregants about. When both parents understands this and monitor the investment, there will be peace in the house.
So you think child benefit is enough to pay for PhD.
get real.
If you have 3 kids is impossible for even food.
IT'S VERY OBVIOUS THAT YOU DON'T LIVE IN THE UK.
Exactly my bro. It is really a shame for parents to fight over that small amount of money. No vision for their children.
@priscillaayd2007 Yes it is possible if you have a vision n a better future for your children. Some people have done it and so can you my dear sister. Think big and ahead if you have your child's interest at heart. God bless you.
@@priscillaayd2007 please child benefit is not for food. It is the responsibility of a parent to take care of kids we bring into the world and not reliance on child benefit to take care of kids. I say this respectfully. When we understand that, we will realise that the child benefit is for the kids. One of the best ways for us to use the money is to invest it in educational fund that will compound by the time the kid is ready for school. This is what all of us in London should focus on. Thanks
Know that some of the men also take advantage of the women. They are married in London and still have side chicks in Ghana. When the wife finds out, unlike Ghana, she will advise herself. In Ghana, even if the husband has a side chick, the family encourages you to stay- enye whii fama Nyame. But in London, the lady will not allow that.
Facts!
The women cheat these days too
Ironically it is the same man who was taking care of the woman in Ghana and it is 70 percent most likely that it is the same man who brought the lady to UK. There are many men in Ghana who have side chicks aside their wives so please OYA go and break their marriages too and collect your blue peter badge.
@@Stirlk The sad thing is that it is probably the same man who was taking care of the lady in Ghana and the lady was aware that he had a side chick in Ghana when she herself was still in Ghana. Smh. I think men should learn and refuse to bring women to UK.
You are right however there’s nothing wrong with side chicks. That doesn’t mean you have to be evil and mean spirited? There is a good chance that these so called side chicks are the reason why he’s staying in the marriage.
Marriage needs a lot of cultivation. Go and find out from those bragging about 40 yrs of marriage, they tuned thier brains to suit the marriage . No marriage is perfect! Celebrating 40 and 50 yrs of togetherness do celebrate forgiveness, tolerance, ignoring spouse's stupidity and overlooking misbehaviour., not to mention cheating! Money doesn't determine a better marriage but character and loyalty does. They wouldn’t divorce in Italy but came here to do so? Very sad and stupid . £20 nti
You are on point ❤
This woman has said it all. Bra Kofi, when you come to the USA, let’s talk about aware3 in the New York USA too 😊
Yes! It is possible! Let's all have positive mindsets toward each other and everything will fall in their proper places.
If not kids I would have walked away from mine long time we move in about 10 years now but hmmm we are dying slowly
10 years ?, hmm God have mercy on us
Lol
You are a strong person
THE CURRENT STATE OF GHANA SHOULD TELL YOU EXACTLY WHY. WE GHANAINS DO NOT RESPECT ANYTHING, ESPECIALLY WOMEN. WE CAN NOT GO ABOUT DESTROYING EVERYTHING AND THINK IT WILL NOT TRANSLATE IN OUR DAILY LIVES.
Infact what she is saying is true, in italy marital issues is like ghana.
Please highlight controlling behaviours domestic violence and lack of support to the family these are the biggest issues for women in the country
Sister, you said it all. Thank you!
Ghana Obaa ne Sika, May God help us all 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Twene Jonas should come and take his stone!
Bibinii!!
Embrace the New Force!
Vote Nana Kwame Bediako✅
To the men who do not contribute to the household financially, who do not support the wife emotionally or mentally or have a provider mentality or support in upbringing of kids. Please remember the part where she said the woman is doing the man a favour by staying married. It’s a different mindset but it is what it is… welcome to 🇬🇧😂.
And all this, I will bring my wife to Europe.tweeaaaa
Exactly,guys never bring your woman abroad
The problem is someone else will be enjoying her here while you work hard to support her here. Not every woman though
@@lavishguy6183never say Never oo. I brought my wife here in the UK just after a year and No regrets. Absolutely none.
Well spoken ma'am. Good job!
Well said Akumaa. ❤
You hit both sides well, you are very wise madam
This woman spoke very well
True talk my sister what you are saying is true. God bless you
Ah why the interview was in Twi but all the comments are in English 😂😂😂 for the love of my country
This woman is sensible ....
The point is women ar created powerful, but nature had made us to understand dat men ar heads of family & needs to respected at all times.
When women ar been loved & respected dey see you the as a fool.
Please madame kindly understand dat our culture setup different form what the white does, & it culture dat makes whom we ar as Ghanaians wai.
Lady,the reason why GHANAIAN WOMEN are doing two or three jobs is for their own benefits!
The truth is we don't have good upbringing
We should understand that this system wasn't created for us, Indians been here long time ago, use their culture and we Ghanaians want adopt European one's. Check the difference.
I suggest if the women want to make their own money after relocating from Italy to UK, they should take their own self from Ghana to Uk. The married men also your wives are not ur slaves. Sumtyms help them in the house chores.
Very well said
What a wonderful woman ...
Very true the men goes to market
Kofi not only in UK, is same in Germany
A lot of the women also appreciate in the moment.
WoW…
She’s good..!
Now Italy 🇮🇹 they don't give the money to me again please 🙏
😂😂😂😂
This woman is wise and intelligent
Wisdom talk nie nice one there
1 thing I will never do is to bring my wife to d UK here
I'll tell sister Akoss bra kwame😂😂😂😂
@@freemanbext4371 hahahaha
Kofi just know that not all sensible want to marry or be with wife to tolerate their attitude.
Amen ❤
Madam you have said it all 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
You are the best Sofo maame, is true u are saying
Good interview ❤❤
What about men who do all the shopping and still don't get any better with the women.
Because of some Ghanaian women are so greedy more than politicians.
Well spoken,wise words .thanks
How can you say staying with a man abroad is doing him a favor? Meware bronii p33. Nkwasiasem sei
Obibini ba wo b3 ware if u like or not
But when you guys marry the whites you cook, clean and do all other household chores but when you marry your own, you leave everything to them.
This issue of benefit that is given to children for support should not bring about divorce. This is total nonsense.
Let them come to America no child benefit
Wise woman 🎉🎉🎉
Wise woman👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
A combination of a woman and the State is the most dangerous and lethal force.
THAT SIKA NIBR3 IT'S COMING FROM GHANAIAN WOMEN!
Well spoken maam ❤
Go to the root causes. What is killing marriages abroad is women paying all bills or carrying a bigger burden than men.
Interesting conversation
The lady said she has done the husband a favor? Osofo maame paa nie
Despite what happens a wise woman build his house with Godly wisdom but a foolish woman scattered his family
Thanks madam❤
They're not only lonely but bitter🤣✌️
Beautiful
I’m here too🎉🎉
That's not all the men, most of them are shallow minded. Anything centralise on benefits, when the kids, are with still young they forget about one day them kids will leave the house and start their own life.
True mommy
But Kofi London is not cold right now 😂
I will never send my family abroad. Never
You can not do your husband a favor...............by living with the man as said
ITALY IS MORE WISER 😂😂
The volume for this video is too low
Your marriage is different
What about people who have lost their spouse?
😊😊😊
That is why I don't want to married
Let them be single to enjoy benefits and spoil the child
This lady is amazing 👏 ❤
Hahaha 😅😂
My husband treated me like a slave
He is Money evil
Leave him for me 😂
KOFI TV,3y3 SIKA NIBR3!
Why should you work 3 shifts? Your husband is working.. He takes care of most of the bills... Your work is to cater for some of your needs that you don't want to ask your husband... But because of money you work 3 shifts... We are ghanaian and should not throw away iur culture... Men must help their wives but not do everything.. Women are home makers so they mustn't work plenty.. If you have a career that's understandable... But some deliberately do 6 shifts and not do their homely responsibilities....
Greedy is one and two anyone who in the churches will not last. There is nothing in bible tell u pastor should bless the marriage. They should going to church to marry.
What a shame, that you will break your family over a change of money that the government will give you.
Who also says all men want kids. Stop this bus interviews
All rubbish
Braa kofi I wanted to tell you my story how can I get your number
Braa kofi I wanted to tell you my story how can I get your number
😂come and marry me lol