4 Gay Men vs 1 Secretly Straight Man

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  • Опубліковано 26 лис 2024

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  • @lizbethavila6069
    @lizbethavila6069 Рік тому +2725

    The guy on his phone was IRKING ME!! But they were so chill about it 😂😂

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +108

      Hahaha oh wes

    • @latishaodom3192
      @latishaodom3192 Рік тому +308

      Yeah I’m like why are you even here

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +220

      Lolllll it was a bit yalllll

    • @latishaodom3192
      @latishaodom3192 Рік тому +43

      @@BrianTerada okay Brian I was just saying don’t be disrespecting our boys ❤️❤️

    • @abhx214
      @abhx214 Рік тому +101

      Right? It added nothing to the video. He was just a body at that point.

  • @nikitashaitan9984
    @nikitashaitan9984 8 місяців тому +108

    Ryan Gosling being a celebrity crush is such a straight answer

  • @yourfriendjosh6316
    @yourfriendjosh6316 Рік тому +430

    Wes actually had me thinking he was the straight guy because no one would go on a show and be that obnoxious and stereotypical without cause 💀 Guess I was wrong, lol!

    • @anenemyanemone4923
      @anenemyanemone4923 11 місяців тому +13

      I thought the same thing. He might have been trying to double-fake them out, though. If so, he got me.
      Alex also got me with the comment "An otter doesn't know what a bear is." Well played. Forrest was the one whose stories would be hardest for me to believe came from a straight guy, so I was a bit surprised he was the one who they dismissed last. Then again, "vers" is a way more convincing answer than "top" to that question at the end, since it wasn't explicitly given as a choice, and it's a word most of the straights wouldn't be familiar with (though they may understand it on hearing it).

    • @SafariSnipey
      @SafariSnipey 8 місяців тому

      at first for like 5 seconds but my gaydar beeped

  • @JJGLANVILLEMUSIC
    @JJGLANVILLEMUSIC 6 місяців тому +48

    "He's gay, He dresses like He jogs, but He doesnt jog " was too real for me...

  • @antonioleyba6522
    @antonioleyba6522 Рік тому +535

    Wes was cute but def hella annoying it wasn’t just the phone it was his personality he acted rude even after it. Also Forrest is def the cutest guy there like omg why is he so cute

    • @1KingFisher
      @1KingFisher Рік тому +30

      Turtle is the cutest IMO lol

    • @iamalexwolf
      @iamalexwolf Рік тому +14

      He gave me off cocky f*ckboy vibes and him being on Grindr while this happend makes me feel that even more

    • @nuknukisdead
      @nuknukisdead Рік тому +20

      It was probably a bit. I don't think the producers are going to let a paid participant do whatever the fuck they want on set.

    • @graphiquejack
      @graphiquejack Рік тому +15

      It felt like he was pretending to be a stereotypical gay guy and I figured he was maybe the straight one because it all seemed too on the nose, but if that’s honestly his personality? Ugh.

    • @keitoobadiah591
      @keitoobadiah591 Рік тому

      ​@888records He is the type of gay that makes people hate gay people, that shit was wild smh.

  • @mauriciodominguez4665
    @mauriciodominguez4665 Рік тому +239

    Alex’s super obvious butt glance at the beginning gave it away to me right away 😂 he was trying so hard to seem like he was checking Forest out

  • @Rob_Gene07
    @Rob_Gene07 Рік тому +92

    Alex turning bright red everytime he's asked a question is SO FUNNY TO ME☠️☠️☠️

  • @mcwannacu2
    @mcwannacu2 Рік тому +535

    Alo guy, dude come on, coming on and being on your phone a bit rude. Y'all need to actually find people who want to be there and don't allow them to be on there phone. Spread the love. Peace.

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +76

      Haha don’t worry it was just a bit :)

    • @mcwannacu2
      @mcwannacu2 Рік тому +48

      @@BrianTerada Ya i understand but it was kinda awkward watching and disrespectful to y'all, at least through my eyes you know.,and yeah you're right it's just fun and games. You guys are the best, keep doing you. Peace and love.

    • @yasdanymendez5989
      @yasdanymendez5989 Рік тому +14

      I thought he did it as a joke but ig not

    • @Xplreli
      @Xplreli Рік тому +3

      Who cares? He still participated and answered the questions. You don’t know why he was on his phone. He could’ve had anxiety or he could’ve had important texts too reply too. It’s really not that big of a deal.

    • @AliinaG
      @AliinaG Рік тому +25

      @@mcwannacu2 they just said it was a BIT. meaning it was scripted lol.

  • @aubreyy__15
    @aubreyy__15 Рік тому +75

    It was so hard to focus on the video because the guy on his phone made me so mad 😭

    • @baileydrouin
      @baileydrouin Рік тому +2

      yes it was so distracting!!

    • @Sue-uw2oi
      @Sue-uw2oi 22 дні тому

      So freaking rude and self absorbed.

  • @itskhaotic
    @itskhaotic Рік тому +127

    Instantly was crushing on Forest, so I knew he was straight…… I was dead wrong 😂🤣

    • @RazorXXTreme
      @RazorXXTreme Рік тому +17

      Same here I need his insta lmao

    • @polyliker8065
      @polyliker8065 Рік тому +21

      He's got that 'cute guy next door'-vibe

    • @Forge17
      @Forge17 Рік тому +5

      Dude same! 😂

    • @b-six-twelve
      @b-six-twelve Рік тому +7

      Same here Lmao. We’ve all clearly been burnt by the commonness of heterosexuality before.

    • @b-six-twelve
      @b-six-twelve Рік тому +8

      WAIT
      Controversy
      Forest is on Instagram and is a comedian who talks about his girlfriend and in one part they call him a straight man. Is this whole thing a scam

  • @Elizabeth.Crawford
    @Elizabeth.Crawford Рік тому +273

    Brian and Wyl are a duo I will NEVER get enough of!!!

  • @BadMattOfficial
    @BadMattOfficial Рік тому +23

    Wes killed the whole mood. Gtfo if you don't wanna be there.

  • @oldmanjenkinsgaming3555
    @oldmanjenkinsgaming3555 Рік тому +61

    Dope ass channel. For a straight guy myself it's cool to see different perspective on things and people being mad chill. New subscriber👊

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +9

      Love this. Thanks for being here!

  • @cscms28
    @cscms28 Рік тому +10

    In love with Forest. So, I assumed he was straight, as I typically go for the straight guy, but he was not! awsome!

  • @lobo091122
    @lobo091122 Рік тому +5

    I was literally scrolling, saw the title and looked at the thumbnail and guessed correctly who the straight guy was. 😅 my reverse gaydar is on point

  • @bajanyaoikaizer6902
    @bajanyaoikaizer6902 Рік тому +22

    Number 2 {Turtle} is straight, I'm calling it now before I finish
    * suffice to say, I am shook 👀👀🌈

  • @TheWindsofWonder
    @TheWindsofWonder Рік тому +34

    I was very happy to see that it wasn't Forest after all

  • @maorg7376
    @maorg7376 7 місяців тому +4

    Wes is refreshing the weather app for sure

  • @shana6937
    @shana6937 Рік тому +18

    I think I got clued into the straight guy's identity when he checked out Turtle, it just seemed kinda forced

  • @simplylunar13
    @simplylunar13 Рік тому +48

    Just finished watching and let me tell u, I was very shocked at the end👏Great video Brian!!!! Happy Pride Month!!! Love u!

  • @IEATOSI
    @IEATOSI Рік тому +28

    I need the instagrams from Turtle and Forest, asking for a friend 😅

    • @gt4017
      @gt4017 Рік тому +1

      Agree, what’s Forest’s insta❤

    • @charlie79811
      @charlie79811 Рік тому

      Same question 👀🙏🏼

  • @jellysjen
    @jellysjen Рік тому +127

    LOVED THIS!! had me laughing the whole time. happy pride month brian, im proud of you!

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +8

      NGL I was cracking up editing and rewatching. This was a great crew

  • @SailorChibbiEarth
    @SailorChibbiEarth Рік тому +8

    The guy was more pink than the other guy's socks

  • @eliseembree5790
    @eliseembree5790 Рік тому +23

    i thought wes being on his phone was gonna be a bit just for the intro, but it just seemed kinda rude :/ loved the video tho! keep up the good work

  • @dihboas
    @dihboas Рік тому +4

    *video starts*
    me immediately: someone needs to tell him to get off that phone and join the conversation

  • @nazaabdo1292
    @nazaabdo1292 Рік тому +34

    Forest and Turtle can definitely get it 👀

  • @buttercupup3687
    @buttercupup3687 Рік тому +6

    I was so shocked that you eliminated Alex first, y’all were so sure he was gay, but he just read a little too straight lol

  • @janniehaus138
    @janniehaus138 Рік тому +9

    Great surprise!! Hilarious video!! I love you and will together!!

  • @Itzezyyyy
    @Itzezyyyy Рік тому +28

    Knew it’d be that dude, it was kinda obvious he was straight yet you guys took him out first like what 😂

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +3

      HOWWW DID U KNOW

    • @dantedvg4837
      @dantedvg4837 Рік тому

      @@BrianTerada WORD HOW TF

    • @jamessanders145
      @jamessanders145 8 місяців тому +1

      So did I but it seemed like they wanted to trick us into it seeming so obvious so I figured it couldn't be that simple. Played mind games with myself

    • @rodolfomezaalvarado8004
      @rodolfomezaalvarado8004 7 місяців тому +3

      Honestly it wasn't that obvious. You say that now obviously lol

  • @kentglass3894
    @kentglass3894 Рік тому +3

    dude needs too put that phone down. it's his safety blanky.

  • @Rudi1999O
    @Rudi1999O Рік тому +21

    Your friendship is so wholesome ❤

  • @Harpie.
    @Harpie. Рік тому +5

    Wes is the guy I'd go after but he wouldn't want me. Turtle is so damn cute though.. and Brian of course.

  • @markbaxter8748
    @markbaxter8748 Рік тому +3

    That queen on the phone - don’t rehire him so disrespectful

  • @mackiereyes7574
    @mackiereyes7574 Рік тому +6

    Wes on his phone was pissing me off

  • @creese.tee.nah21
    @creese.tee.nah21 Рік тому +22

    Forest is so cute 🥰

  • @a_d_a_m
    @a_d_a_m Рік тому +6

    josh hartnett in virgin suicides was such a specific one he fooled me too!

    • @XeaRae
      @XeaRae Місяць тому

      Same - I fancied him back in the day too.

  • @hela8202
    @hela8202 Рік тому +13

    wyl was literally the best camboy to do this video with i love him sm

  • @Snooziac
    @Snooziac Рік тому +5

    I thought the dude on the phone was straight and was gonna reveal he was texting his girlfriend the whole time. lol

  • @elainasoriano1798
    @elainasoriano1798 Рік тому +7

    Ayy my favorite Camboy duo lets go. I’m so excited to watch this.

  • @dariuspatterson7039
    @dariuspatterson7039 Рік тому +19

    Great content, my only complaint is getting more perspectives of the LGBTQ community. Most of the people feel more mainstream, urban, and stereotypical. If you added people who didn’t care about mainstream stuff for the community, who are more masculine, or more rural you’d get more in depth conversations. Especially for topics like coming out, sexuality, relationships, and personal beliefs.
    Because there’s a growing part of the community that doesn’t care about the mainstream gay things, don’t like being a stereotype or stereotypes about the LGBTQ community, and feel alienated because they’re too straight acting. I’d say even more LGBTQ people are getting repulsed by the community than past years.

    • @dalienashen
      @dalienashen 9 місяців тому

      The only one who really seemed overly stereotypical to me was Wes. Forest seemed pretty straight acting. I don't think common experiences are stereotypical, that's just part of the experience.

  • @acjazz01
    @acjazz01 Рік тому +25

    It was definitely nice how they put all of kinds of guys without stereotypes.
    Also, I don't think Alex is totally straight, I think he's more or less how he described himself, but more towards to girls.

    • @ajplays7241
      @ajplays7241 Рік тому +11

      bisexuality enters the chat.

    • @Ihchkciyiyhgifuofyr555
      @Ihchkciyiyhgifuofyr555 Рік тому +5

      Yeah, but the guy in yellow is also bi & more into girls. If this show considered "bi" as straight, he wouldn't have been placed with the gay contestants, as a fellow gay. The yellow shirt dude was in the bisexual episode btw, that's how I know where his bi meter is at on the kinsey scale.

    • @XX-pe4sj
      @XX-pe4sj 10 місяців тому

      No not really you can have personality without having to be gay/bi that doesn’t always add up,i know some gays who are quiet or introverted where when you normally think of gays you think of extroverts,really confident etc… it’s just the stereotypical aspects you think of but it doesn’t mean that it’s always accurate.

    • @dalienashen
      @dalienashen 9 місяців тому

      Funny how the comment above yours stated everyone seemed stereotypical, but I don't really think they did. I was thinking the same thing about Alex, that he might not be 100% straight but he's married and probably not looking.

    • @dalienashen
      @dalienashen 9 місяців тому

      @@Ihchkciyiyhgifuofyr555 Did he say this because I don't remember him stating that he was more into girls or even bi but I remember Turtle stating that his sexuality is more fluid and he leans towards men but has been attracted to women before. If Alex is bi, he may not be open about it or even be in denial or just considers himself more straight because he is married to a woman and not looking for anyone. He seems like he may not be 100% straight, but maybe he is just kinda gay acting but still only likes women idk.

  • @DominantJont
    @DominantJont Рік тому +6

    6:36 the high five and the rock had me dead lol 🤣

  • @johnnyerenee8968
    @johnnyerenee8968 Рік тому +11

    BRIAN!! This was top tier content! Such a good video!

  • @masterofwit339
    @masterofwit339 6 місяців тому

    The algorithm blessed me early this morning during yet another insomniac fit! Started with Stassi’s interview and ended up here. Normally I’m filled with anxiety (bc… insomnia) but your channel has quelled it for the time being.
    ETA: I _KNEW_ who it was from jump but forest and turtle kinda had me thinking otherwise for a few

  • @baileydrouin
    @baileydrouin Рік тому +4

    I realize now the guy on his phone was a bit… but I’m not understanding what it was supposed to bring to the video… i just kept getting distracted by him sitting there so I’d have to rewind a bunch lol. just a lil confused

    • @baileydrouin
      @baileydrouin Рік тому

      wait !! maybe it’s a way to get more comments flowing cause all of us are asking about it or pointing it out lmaoooo

    • @IsraelLlerena
      @IsraelLlerena Рік тому

      It might’ve been to just get people talking like you just stated but I didn’t really like it. I skipped through the video until he was out because it didn’t really feel like it brought anything

  • @alcibibibababoey5756
    @alcibibibababoey5756 Рік тому +18

    Next you should make a challenge where you put 10 guys in a house for a week and find the person who is not gay but the catch is that everyone is straigth and you whould just see straigth mens do gay things to proove they are gay for a week💀💀💀

    • @dantedvg4837
      @dantedvg4837 Рік тому

      Sounds like you want a whole bunch of men to have sex...

  • @MoreDevonte
    @MoreDevonte Рік тому +12

    Love you Brian! Happy that you’re making the content you always wanted to make ❤️

  • @avamai
    @avamai Рік тому +5

    LOVED Turtle and Forest!!!

  • @luchinr91
    @luchinr91 Рік тому +4

    I couldn't reach the end of the video. That guy on the phone annoyed me so much, that made the video seem like a complete joke to me.

  • @bajanyaoikaizer6902
    @bajanyaoikaizer6902 Рік тому +3

    Brian should have brought Connor Franta, Kian Lawley, Ricky Dillon, Mason Healey, Anthony Padilla, Heath Hussir or Zane Hajizi to help him invigilate.
    1 - verse bottom; 2 - verse top; 3 - verse; 4 - bottom; 5 - verse top

  • @badeealzoubi8990
    @badeealzoubi8990 Рік тому +6

    wes is the worssstttt bro he's a mood killer

  • @Codetrooper1
    @Codetrooper1 Рік тому +2

    I've seen Alex in other videos, so I knew who the straight guy was. I'm kinda mad he didn't talk more in this, though. He's freaking hilarious.

  • @jaydalolxo
    @jaydalolxo Рік тому +4

    this video is INSANEEE, i love it !!!

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +1

      Thank you jayda!! We worked so hard on it!!

  • @virlinehonore9767
    @virlinehonore9767 Рік тому +4

    6:14-6:17 Aladdin’s really cute, but my favs are Flynn and Naveen 🥰🥰

  • @BeYounique...Maryanne
    @BeYounique...Maryanne Рік тому +4

    I'm a straight woman and I picked correctly!

  • @Amwhoiam207
    @Amwhoiam207 Рік тому +8

    Love these videos you guys have been doing. It's so fun.

  • @Debthouse
    @Debthouse Рік тому +5

    Alex was so comfortable with his own sexuality! Love it!

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +1

      Thx Shak!

    • @Debthouse
      @Debthouse Рік тому +2

      @@BrianTerada Thank _you_ for the entertaining and engaging content!

  • @abhishekjangra21
    @abhishekjangra21 Рік тому +5

    Hey brian
    You invited these cool men and didn't mention their links in description, don't you love ur viewers
    Good time though
    And my gaydar is working properly so thanks for letting me test that ❤

  • @hotspotsportal6699
    @hotspotsportal6699 8 місяців тому +1

    So just from the first minute, I think Alex is the straight one. My first impression for the gays is that Mitchell and Wes are definitely gay.

  • @austinozz5955
    @austinozz5955 Рік тому +5

    Ok but the guy using phone is annoying af they should have never take him in the video

  • @oliviaunnerstall3608
    @oliviaunnerstall3608 Рік тому +2

    Such a good video Brian!!! HAHAHA

  • @charlie79811
    @charlie79811 Рік тому +5

    I need Forest's socials or handles or something 👀🙏🏼

    • @JlnJck
      @JlnJck Рік тому +1

      Me too🙏

  • @Sweepout
    @Sweepout Рік тому +1

    I thought Forest was too, but that’s just cause I thought he was most attractive. Normally the most unavailable is who I gravitate too with that! Lol! I wonder what Cole from his school will think now… lol!

  • @Yomomma-ju2ym
    @Yomomma-ju2ym Рік тому +3

    This was a really good video! 😂

  • @starbrand3726
    @starbrand3726 Рік тому +2

    OMG, I would have slapped that phone out of the guy's hand. Seriously!

  • @dlegend1538
    @dlegend1538 Рік тому +4

    Couldn’t help but be too distracted by Wes being on his phone tbh. I get it’s a bit but L. Much love tho Brian

  • @roberthammer8890
    @roberthammer8890 Рік тому +7

    hope you and Wyl and the rest of the CamBoys are having a wonderful week.

  • @Stefarooh
    @Stefarooh Рік тому +1

    Cool concept and a lot of fun. Glad I found your channel. I was so busy shipping Turtle I forgot what I was actually watching. Actually, right now I am picturing him and Forest wrestling...in the nude!

  • @winklepicking3202
    @winklepicking3202 Рік тому +3

    Wes, I’ve known a Wes, we are no longer friends, self absorbed and ignorant 🙄

  • @richardwilliams9271
    @richardwilliams9271 8 місяців тому +2

    the guy on the phone, its obvious he didnt want to be there, but thought he was very unsociable, rude if you ask me

  • @angelzcorpse
    @angelzcorpse Рік тому +7

    HAPPY PRIDE MONTH BRIAN!!!!! from ur semi-friendly local lesbian

  • @RachelRBarton
    @RachelRBarton Рік тому +5

    Dude on his phone, so rude

  • @challefd108
    @challefd108 Рік тому +1

    The dude with the phone is a payed actor, to play the role of i don't give an F and i'm here to make you upsate so you can comment on the video and help the video get more engagement and get more view, so it can be a succesfull video, Marketing genius in here.

  • @MrMerel
    @MrMerel Рік тому +5

    Another gem! ❤

  • @Joeykm1972
    @Joeykm1972 Рік тому +1

    At first I thought it was the man in the yellow shirt that was straight, until the first question was answered. I knew it was the guy in the blue shirt, because I'm more familiar with bears and he did not act like a typical gay bear to me.

  • @virlinehonore9767
    @virlinehonore9767 Рік тому +3

    1:18-1:20 turtle!? there’s no way that’s his actual name!? 🤯🤯

  • @virlinehonore9767
    @virlinehonore9767 Рік тому +1

    9:35-9:41 finally it’s about time!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Lothomiras
    @Lothomiras 10 місяців тому

    LOVED this. Didn't expect the result. More important; does Forrest have IG?

  • @virlinehonore9767
    @virlinehonore9767 Рік тому +3

    0:26 why is the guy on his phone 🤨🤨

  • @superxicanatravel
    @superxicanatravel Рік тому +1

    They should have excused the guy on the phone from participating or put him at the very end so he didn’t act like a wall between the other participants and the guy in yellow who was obviously wanting to be part of the conversation.

  • @drewcarson1855
    @drewcarson1855 7 місяців тому

    I just assumed the least good looking guy was straight.... I was correct 🤣🤣

  • @GregRBaird
    @GregRBaird 8 місяців тому +1

    The guy on the phone...be in the moment! I mean, really??

  • @coryslife02
    @coryslife02 Рік тому +2

    WHAT IS FOREST INSTAGRAM!

  • @lucthin6245
    @lucthin6245 Рік тому

    Great video! Did not expect it was him.

  • @idee7896
    @idee7896 Рік тому

    Literally the most funniest, unexpected video!

  • @samirainn
    @samirainn Місяць тому +1

    I knew Alex was the straight guy i was so mad at yall for immediately voting him as gay 😭 my gaydar was in shambles

  • @virlinehonore9767
    @virlinehonore9767 Рік тому +1

    2:20-2:24 why do I feel like this is just a bit and they just told him to be on his phone. Unless he actually meant that 😂😂

  • @tazzyanderson1192
    @tazzyanderson1192 5 місяців тому

    10:56 This reminds me so much of Captain Raymond Holt every single time he pretended to be straight!
    I REALLY hope Forrest is straight and his creative and acting skills are just THAT good

  • @karring10e
    @karring10e Рік тому +3

    did no one get the joke… Wes was eating up the part 😭

  • @EvanPeix
    @EvanPeix Рік тому

    its so annoying watching someone on there phone while Theres a social interaction

  • @hsmorg3640
    @hsmorg3640 2 місяці тому

    Why is there no socials? Whats Forest's @?

  • @charminglove9893
    @charminglove9893 Рік тому +1

    What is Forest social media?

  • @nidhim7632
    @nidhim7632 Рік тому +3

    The guy on the phone.. so irritating and disrespectful.

  • @daliabel5747
    @daliabel5747 Рік тому +9

    the older gent in the blue t-shirt’s gay awakening choice was sooo fire i loved that guy from the movie too

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +1

      Hahaha I need to go see it!

    • @CraveComedy
      @CraveComedy Рік тому

      @@BrianTerada I have good taste and so do you.

  • @theshamanrapper
    @theshamanrapper Рік тому +1

    this was fun. thanks for having me!

  • @classicaj1322
    @classicaj1322 Рік тому +1

    I knew it from the beginning my gaydar as always been strong

  • @spacechannelg6843
    @spacechannelg6843 Рік тому +2

    forest was major cute and i was hoping he was gay and he was!!🤭

  • @vinny98nyc
    @vinny98nyc Рік тому +1

    I keep imagining myself in this group of contestants but I actually dont qualify. I would neither win or lose. Im Bisexual and not too familiar with gay culture outside of specifically gay sex, or info about some club events like Bear Week In Massachusetts or Big Boy Pride in Atlanta

    • @keenh1075
      @keenh1075 Рік тому

      the guy in yellow was in another video where it was all bisexuals

    • @vinny98nyc
      @vinny98nyc Рік тому

      @@keenh1075 yeah exactly. And since people can lie about what they identify as, that makes events like these not accurate or liable as studies/experiments

  • @LaurenKaminski
    @LaurenKaminski Рік тому +2

    Alex isn’t gay,he is married to a female,I recognize him for AGT!

  • @molipaul
    @molipaul Рік тому +3

    Wish I had found a Forest to spend my life with.

    • @BrianTerada
      @BrianTerada  Рік тому +1

      haha shoot your shot

    • @molipaul
      @molipaul Рік тому +1

      @@BrianTerada I quit looking a long time ago. I went back to being a virgin…and am now just hoping for something better in my next life. 😂