A Week In My Life 149
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- Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
- The week did not start good but it got better. I’m having a very difficult time dealing with the loss of Nathan. I’m starting to feel better but it’s been a rough road. I miss my little buddy so much. I’m grateful I had the years I had with him.
When one of my beloved pets died I cried (on and off) for two years. I will forever be deeply sad about her death. You talk to us about your loss and pain as often as you would like. You are not depressing....you are in touch with your emotions and that is a great thing.
My husband and I lost our oldest furbaby a little over 3 months ago and I'm still grieving her death. I always say there is no set time to grieve so you grieve as much and as long as want my friend.
Be strong, you could always start a journal, and write about him, that may help.
Hello Angie, I have lost a few of my fur babies in the past. I know you said you don’t want to feel like you are replacing Nathan, but the truth is you can never replace him. You will always remember him and the love and joy he gave you. I always got another fur baby because I could not stand coming home and not having them waiting for me. My husband past away almost 4 years ago and the comfort and love I get from them is life saving. Please don’t let the loss of Nate stop you from giving love to another fur baby that needs a good home.
I feel so sad for you. Speak as much as you want about Nathan I think in my opinion it helps it's better to talk then hold it in. Your husband sounds like he is trying to help you and himself.
I have a cat Flo I adore her shes 7yrs and I can't image her not being her.
Your son moving out will be a little hard to start with but you will handle that I am sure. When my 2 moved out I think after a couple of weeks I came home from work and realised how lovely and tidy my house was with a huge smile on my face.
Best wishes from the UK 🌸🌸
Hi Angie you talk about Nathen as much as you want, it is understandable that Brian wants to help but you have a lot of first to get through and it won't be easy at all but stay strong and you will get there xxxxx
Hi Angie, I agree with others - you should talk about Nathan as much as you want. I will say that men tend to want to fix things and women want to talk things out. I know that is a generalization but I suspect that Brian doesn't know how to help you with your grieving and he thinks you dwelling on Nathan is keeping you in a sad place. Women and men handle their feelings in different ways and I do think he means to help you, but for us women it hurts our feelings when we can't talk about something. Anyone on here who thinks you are too sad or talking about Nathan too much can just move on down the road. One day I bet your spirits will lift and most of your feelings will be happy when you think about that little love that you lost. And not to rush things, but there are lots and lots of little souls out there that need help and need a home. It's never to replace our lost pets but to help ones here on earth that have not had a happy life yet.
And no, you aren't being a big baby. Your son's move is coming right behind a sad time with Nathan - your feelings are already raw. Just our kids moving away, by itself, is hard. I have two sons and one lives in Minnesota and the other lives in Ohio, I live in Georgia - of course they aren't close enough for my liking cause I love having them around. I just try to keep in mind that they have their own lives. It takes a while and your oldest is your last "baby" moving out. It's all natural. Betty Ann
I agree - men and women do tend to think differently, and I believe he thinks he's helping. It's ok to talk about Nathan and we are here to listen. Take good care!
Angie I don't know how I missed the vlog for this week!? I am so happy the card got there. Sorry to make you cry-not my intent at all. That mug is adorable! Even though my girls are out on their own I still miss them and honestly I still buy them a few groceries here and there-makes me happy inside. Angie you can always, always reach out to me.
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You talk all you want about Nathan. He was in your life for years and years and I can't imagine just flipping a switch and getting over it. Your child moving out is a major life change as well. You got the double whammy so don't be so hard on yourself. I have 4 children and I get every emotion you're feeling.
I also found this. I don't know if it will help at all, but it's worth a listen.
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He’s a male they never grow up. Yes it is a big adjustment for both of you. Then you will go through
empty nest syndrome. You will find joy again I promise.
I know from personal experience.Sometimes there’s just that one that Brian is hurting also. Me. Just don’t like to show their
What I was going to say men just don’t like to show a lot of emotionsThey think it makes them weak. He might think he’s going to fall apart.You May need to get a little help from Dr, out of sight out of mind. He’s worried about you! Take care big hugs to you.
Honey your still in mourning.