I commend you for being so real and raw about this natural experience that we go through in life. Alot of influencers paint this perfect picture of birth and breastfeeding whilst most are faced with real challenges like not being able to give natural birth or even breastfeed. THANK YOU for being so real. Wishing you all the best during the 4th trimester, it's not an easy time.
I cried watching you cry. Brought back so many memories, I too went through what you going through now and it's very difficult but Alhamdulilah it does pass. When it does, you get to enjoy your little one and just be happy again. May Allah make it easy for you. ❤
Congratulations first of all on your precious baby. Thanks for keeping it Real 💯. Baby Blues is a real thing I used to cry for my Gynae because I bonded so much with him and I missed seeing him so often🤣😆 Please Rest and take it easy and Seek HELP If this Low and down feelings continues too long..... you will know.
One day at a time darling. So happy for your family. Thanks for sharing. You will get that Lion when you're back online. Lol. Team Penguin is praying for u and your family.
I’m not even a mom en ek huil saam. It’s so amazing to watch your journey Sheeca. Thank you for making us part of your life and for showing the good , the bad, the ugly and the real. Your girly is one very lucky special girl to have such wonderful parents as yourself and Darian. Weereens baie geluk aan julle twee. Here’s to a whole new chapter 💐
How beautiful this moment was 💕 On the 8th August the same time you gave life, my mom passed on the exact same time. This is something very special and beautiful to me, giving life and departing home 💕
Congratulations Mama. You should please take it easy. Rest!! My mommy had a c-section and her stitches opened because she wanted to move too much. Also, we know you a hard worker. But rather do content that doesn't need you to do much. Like have your followers and subscribers ask you questions and do a Q&A video. Do a new father Q&A for Darian. Maybe also do a video of things around the house. That doesn't need you to be toooooo busy. Also a Q&A will be a good video for next week. Then you don't feel like you didn't do any work. I'm begging you, please don't take any pressure from subscribers or followers. Rest, take your time to enjoy your baby and also heal Sheecs. We love you, we happy you had a safe delivery. We happy baby is healthy. Just focus on yourself and getting better. 💜💜💜We will always be here when you ready to come back and you're healed okay.
Wow! Congratulations to you and daddy D! Take all the time you have with your baby and your feelings. Do not rush anything... Not you body, your feelings, your baby... And make time for hubby and you... You are an amazing mom. Huil jou huile
Congratulations on the birth of your baby girl..You will get through this so take it easy and rest as much as you can. You are a strong and beautiful lady. 🙏🙏 Nurie
Such a beautiful name, Masha Allah ♥️ I literally cried with you as I watched this 🥺. There are so many things about being a new mom that people don't tell you. And we learn it the hard way when we come face to face with it with zero preparation. I gave birth to my second baby boy on the 12 August and currently going through the baby blue phase while also battling the hectic mom guilt regarding my 17 month old toddler. I am constantly in tears and it's frustrating when it's so difficult to contain it when you're not alone. But that motivational messages and reminders are so important, from ourselves but also from other mom's experiencing the same thing..it just makes a difference knowing you're not alone, and that it's okay and NORMAL to feel this way. To you and all mother's, especially those battling with baby blues and PPD: May The Almighty remove your sorrow and replace it with complete happiness, and grant you the patience to navigate these emotions 💙 Rasheeqah: May you be granted a speedy recovery Insha Allah, you're in my dua's ❤️ enjoy your baby 🌸
Precious gift from God. May she bring you much joy😊 I also suffered from post natal depression with my firstborn. It will get better. Remain positive and keep smiling that beautiful smile. It's a blessing to be called a mother
Beautiful Sheecs, know that you are loved and protected always ❤️❤️ thinking of you 🇨🇳!!! you just becoming stronger ( spiritually, mentally and physically) stay Blessed love from China 🇨🇳
I'm crying because this is so real. My little boy is 10 weeks old and also struggled a bit in the beginning. May Allah SWT grant you ease. Haniyah is a beautiful name and she is so blessed to have you and Darian as her parents. It get easier with time I promise. Enjoy your beautiful bundle as they grow super fast
Awww Sheecs man! Remember this is new for you, baba and for Daddy. You'll get through it together. May Haniyah be the coolness of your eyes and May the Almighty protect her from all evil at all times. Ameen. 💓
Congratulations on your beautiful baby. I had the baby blues with my first and second born now recently. The first two weeks are the worse I would say, you literally cry over anything and I began to feel like my normal self after 2 months, where you get the hang of things. What helped me was reading lots of Motherhood articles while I was up with baby during the night feeding. InshAllah you will get through this soon, all the best to you! You are strong
Slamat Mr. & Mrs. HOCK. May the Almighty Allah grant princess Haaniya the coolness of her parents eyes. Sheeca remember maternity leave is 4 to 6 months off work. So if needs be take the break from work and social media. The real O.G's will be waiting patiently for your return. Enjoy the moments of motherhood. Its normal to cry or feel emotional because your hormones are playing yo-yo at the moment. Ever mothers journey is different. Don't be hard on yourself. W.r.t Catherter it was not attached correctly thats why you felt it. Its an excruciating pain if its not attached properly , you could feel every drip. "Ou Mense raad" put Balsam Kapivo on the superficial flesh would and ceasar cut. Also drink a teaspoon of it with milk. It helps like a bomb inside and out. Mubarak on ur bday Darian. August is Hock month filled with anniversary, baby bday and daddy bday. May the Almighty bless you and ur family in ubandance. ❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations on your beautiful little bundle of joy ✝️❤️🙏 I am praying for healing over you and baby🙏 being a mom is a world wind of emotion all in one new born up until they older but it gets better remember you are human cry if you feel like crying GOD counts those tears and will turn them all into blessings of healing you amazing and you are the best mother ❤️🙏take one day at a time may the new journey be filled with happiness and love
Welcome to motherhood. It sucks out here and you are you going to do great! The first six weeks after c-section is tough emotionally. After that it should start levelling out. There is nothing more scary, tiring and worthwhile. Ek het ook gedink ma wees dit maklik doen maar maklik en moeite werd gaan nie juis saam nie. Baie sterkte.
I actually have nothing to say but well done Sheeca im so proud of you... This is hard but so worth it... And if you feel like crying dan tjank jy.... Klompie liefde vir julle! Baie Baie geluk!
I love how real you are. May you always be blessed. I also had baby blues it was terrible. It does get better even though it doesn't feel so now. You are so strong and so beautiful. You are going to be the best mom. Accept help when people offer. Get plenty of rest. It's ok to not be ok now . The baby blues will pass. Congratulations on your little girly
I'm literally tearing, takes me back an I still feel like you do even though my son turned recently 1 which was very much emotional to me as his growing up so fast... I've been the same through my baby was in distress and I had a heart problem.. People will ask and assume things but guess what we are still known as MOMS & definitely super moms.... You are worthy and you are indeed a super mom 😘💖Enjoy every moment Rasheeqah 💖💖
So so mooi, ek hoop dat jy jou gou herstel, the human body is amazing and has a way to heal itself, be strong, the post natal depression is real, jy sal orait wees, Insha Allah, Alhumdullilah 🙏 glo dit ❣️
Slamat Sheecs and Darian on your beautiful Girl ,auwww I cried with you and yes baby blues is quiet normal to happy especially after the time you’ve been thru ,being a C section mom myself I send you loads of recovery duah”s &thoughts don’t be too hard on yourself ,you birthed an entire human being & that’s the best part of being a women ,enjoy all your cuddles with her ❤️
Slamat hun, in your own time no one else’s. You make your own rules that work for your wee family & don’t try to live up to someone else’s story. You had a rough start to Motherhood but Inshallah you are here with us, your baby is healthy & you have a partner who loves and adores you both. I just wanted to say how special it was to see your Dad holding his baby’s baby💕💕. Lots of duahs for a speedy recovery from a cold New Zealand
You are such a brave heart momma! Glad you are better and in recovery mode. Missed you on the socials! Wishing you good health and don't make us send out a search party 🙂. Take it easy girl! Be patient with yourself! Be blessed! Sending love and light
Shukraan for being so raw and out there no1 tells us about these things but in the end our kids keeps us going and those days you're experience will become a testimony. Where you can tell others about our living God who's always besides us in time of need
I am so happy for you. Thanking for sharing your story and being real. My heart goes out to you. I pray that you feel better soon. Just remember you are a super women.
I have no words 🥹🥹🥹 Remarkable woman don’t be so hard on yourself let those tears roll you carried her for more than 9 months her life gave your life new meaning 🥹🥹 You got this momma 🫶❤️
Ive been checking in all the time for updates on you and baby... I was just so emotional but you will get thru it. My daughter 12 and i still get emotional lol
It's ohkay to be going through your emotions Sheecs. Whether it is small or big , go through, feel it and heal . We need to get through our emotions. Take all the time you need to heal , we will be waiting for new content when you are ready . Never forget that you are a strong woman and i commend you for it . You are also an amazing mom! Sending you love, light and healing , you got this! ♥️♥️
It is very real post natal depression , I experienced it with my son in 2021 and no one speaks about it baby blues happens. On my end it got better when he turned 3 months. You very strong honey you will be okay wishing you all the best , May princess Haniya remain the coolness of her parents eyes and grow up to be god fearing Inshallah, Thank you for sharing
Congrats on the baby girl, she is such a blessing. I have been wondering and checking insta and youtube. So glad that your ok now. Baby blues is real thank you for making it normal as so many mothers don't always want to talk about it. I had got pre-eclampsia had to get a emergency C section, 3 days after birth i started bleeding internally, had to be operated again. My baby was "discharged" from hospital and i was still in ICU, took a while to bond with her also, felt like a failure also. 12 Years later and i have the most beautiful Est relationship with my daughter and wouldnt trade it for the world.
Omw babe 🥺🥺🫂 may the almighty make it easy for you and grant you a speedy recovery inshallah may you and your little family always be under the protection of the almighty I.A 🤲 enjoy every moment spent with her 🌸💞
Hello 👋 I am now 3weeks post emergency c section, those baby blues I tell you ... no joke , really a dark place... happy to hear u also on ur way to recovery.... keep well n take it easy lady IA
The Almighty chose you for this baby girl so rest knowing that you've got this! Thank you for sharing your authentic self and making it okay to not be okay. Especially first time Mommy's we feel so much pressure to have everything handled and yet we have no control over how our babies come to us, and what happens to our bodies during and after . Take one day at a time and walk in faith over fear, and you will be just fine
Just a few minutes in and I balled out crying aaawww my heart goes out for you, I truelly am proud of how open you are these are motherhood journeys that no one prepare us for and seeing you being open and honest shows the amazing women you are you are going to be the best mother and time heals
Congratulations Sheeca! 💕💞 Wishing you a speedy recovey🙏...You are truely an amazing woman and your youtube family love you! Thank you for being authentically you!
Wow congratulations, I really hope and pray you heal well, dnt worry cry if you have to cry. Things will get better and you will be yourself again. Thank you for your video this really brought tears to my eyes. My baby girl is 17months old and I still cry when things gets too much. Lol
Congratulations..... I am so happy for you... Beautiful name..... Oh mommy man our pretty little girlie man.....i can relate.. I went through depression...love you.. Enjoy her while she's small..
Everything you've said resonates with me. I had my first child on the 19th August and boy has it been a journey since his birth. Alhamdullilah my little family is happy and healthy and we too cannot thank the Almighty enough for getting us this far❤️
Your feelings are valid mama I had the same with the first born and I was a pro with my sisters boys ..c sections and the healing takes a toll on your body and mental health .. hope you feel better mentally and physically..Mubarak once again
Bringing back emotions for me. Take it easy babes. Take time for yourself. You got this! Cry if you must. My baby is 8 years old and I still get emional. The fact that you said you've become in touch with your feelings, 😂 same. But we've got this! We are women! And we can handle anything that's meant to cross our paths. Allah doesn't give you battles you can't win.
My eyes were tearing up while watching this..Firstly Mubarak to yourself n Darian,May your daughter always be the coolness of your eyes n under the protection of Allah..I've been through the same,just a little over a year ago,baby blues r real..my daughter a year n a few months old now,so much happiness.. Enjoy your little bundle Rasheeqah..
Thank you so much for this video. For sharing you experience and all that comes with it with us. I will also become a First Time Mommy in October 🤞❤ to a baby Boy 💙 & I will definitely remember your kind words. Thank you 🙏
May Allah SWT grant you ease and reward you for all you have endured to be the best mother you can possibly be throughout your pregnancy and after the birth of your daughter! Remember that you are enough and you are doing enough - even in those moments where your actions don't seem to measure up to your expectations of what you would've been able to achieve post-birth. You have gone through physical and mental trauma, birth is such a test for women but wallahi you are adapting and levelling up in every moment, even if it doesn't feel or look that way on the surface. Some time from now when your hormones have stabilised and your body has healed, you will be able to clearly see and realise all that you have overcome and achieved! Be as gentle with yourself as you would be with your best friend through this process because you deserve all of the grace in the world and more - there may be others suffering more than you in this world but don't let that invalidate your pain and suffering - hold space for your feelings without guilt because they deserve to be felt. You're an inspiration and sending you love, light and a big virtual hug, girl! Keeping you in my duas sister xxxx
Slm Mubarak to the parents may she grow up a good pious little girl & may she be the coolness of your eyes & may she bring joy & happiness in your life & she be of benefit to the oemah one day Ameen thumma Ameen..
Congratulations momma, it's completely normal what you going through. I had a similar experience with blues and all.. Acknowledge and embrace the process. It does get better and we learn a new way of life. Blessings upon you and ur family
You shared from your heart which is always beautiful 💖 I’m so grateful to woman like you who understand and share this journey as a mom/ aunty/ sister. Be blessed in all your first moments 🥰
Congratulations Rasheeqah, you brought back so many memories for myself. I gave birth in May via c-section and it's been TOUGH! I'm a first time mommy, and I had my mom stay with myself and my husband for 2 weeks. I cried when my mommy left to go back home. I cried every single day thereafter. It gets better. I watched Look Both Ways on Netflix and there's a scene in the movie where the mom tells her daughter that after giving birth, you crying, is your way of getting rid of your old self and entering Motherhood. ❤️ You're strong, brave, and you're doing an amazing job!
My daughter is 5 months and I'm still crying lol. Congratulations momma, she's gorgeous. Remember to take care of yourself as well, as mommas we so busy taking care of our children we often forget to take care of ourselves.
Awww Congratulations to you and hubby ❤ May God always keep a hand of protection over her little life 🙏 and a blessing that's she's born on your anniversary. May you enjoy your blessing from thee Almighty
I'm a mom of two a 12 year old young lady and boy of 6.. Its not easy ecspecially when u a new mom,just remember you not alone and you and not wrong for the way you are feeling,your body is adapting to what you are experiencing as a new mom.. I want to say place it before Allah as he is the one that will carry you threw until you are full recovered to be back on your feet as a new person... A Fan from Cape Town northern suburbs
I absolutely cried from the start of the video. Mabrook once again to you and the family may she stay the coolness of your eyes always Ameen may Allah grant you complete and speedy recovery Ameen and grant her good health throughout her life Ameen. My 1st born was a girl as well Alhumdulilha. I was 21 and didn't have much family support my mom past when I was 10 may Allah grant her and All deceased Jannah Ameen. My birth experience was Not the nicest I was in pain for 23hours and the Nurses at public hospital was just horrible. I was so fed up that after I gave birth I walked all the way from the 3rd floor down the stairs out of the hospital smoked 3 cigarettes I was so duk I felt so emotional I just gave natural birth with no pain meds I was gatvol and emotional because of the staff my ex at the time and even duk of the baby so it wasn't love at first sight for me I felt so confused and emotional for awhile Alhumdulilha it got better as the days past but yes baby blue's is very real. And it's by time that society realizes that the mother went through so much throughout her pregnancy then she has to deliver and then she's just expected to be on cloud nine and happy but we all go through it differently we love our babies unconditionally regardless of all the hormonal changes. But we sometimes need a minute to gather ourselves and figure out these new feelings and emotions. Alhumdulilha my little diamond will be 14 this year. Hang in there love it gets better. You got this ❤️❤️❤️
I cried while watching this because I can relate with you so much! A major contributer to me was sleep deprivation because I was so paranoid! I would sit up at night and watch baby sleep. I would go into the bathroom, sit on the floor and just cry! I would sleep for no more than 2 hours at a time. Being responsible for a whole new human being is a major responsibility that we take on and although it seems like it's never going to get better, it does! Cry when you want to cry, it's completely normal because you end up feeling much better afterwards. Congratulations to you and your husband! Treasure these moments and enjoy it, as it goes by so quickly! My son is almost 4 years old and it feels like just yesterday I went through all of that, but guess what, I'm ready for baby number 2 and ready to do it allll from over! Lol Once again, congratulations to you and your husband!
Sheeca! You are not alone... I gave birth on 28 June 2022, I felt as if I suffered from post partum depression😭 I cried ALL the time for the first month! Firstly I had to express as I could not breast feed because baba didn't latch.. I barely slept, I was constantly exhausted, I was overwhelmed and felt as if I wasn't good enough for my son (I'm a first time mom). I picked up 12kgs during my pregnancy, but by week 2 I already lost 14kgs😔 I was so despondent! I eventually made the decision to start my son on formula full time and it was the best decision I could have made (for my own sanity). My son is thriving on formula and I am mentally and emotionally in a better place because I have more time for him! If I'm tired my mom or any1 else can assist as he is on a bottle which doesn't require me to be with him. Baby blues is ABSOLUTELY REAL. Esp for a first time mom! I still miss my sleep and only get to nap with him now and then, but his almost 2 months and I am only now finding myself. Big Love for you Sheeca. "This too shall pass!"
I commend you for being so real and raw about this natural experience that we go through in life. Alot of influencers paint this perfect picture of birth and breastfeeding whilst most are faced with real challenges like not being able to give natural birth or even breastfeed. THANK YOU for being so real. Wishing you all the best during the 4th trimester, it's not an easy time.
I cried watching you cry. Brought back so many memories, I too went through what you going through now and it's very difficult but Alhamdulilah it does pass. When it does, you get to enjoy your little one and just be happy again. May Allah make it easy for you. ❤
Congratulations first of all on your precious baby. Thanks for keeping it Real 💯. Baby Blues is a real thing I used to cry for my Gynae because I bonded so much with him and I missed seeing him so often🤣😆 Please Rest and take it easy and Seek HELP If this Low and down feelings continues too long..... you will know.
One day at a time darling. So happy for your family. Thanks for sharing. You will get that Lion when you're back online. Lol. Team Penguin is praying for u and your family.
I’m not even a mom en ek huil saam. It’s so amazing to watch your journey Sheeca. Thank you for making us part of your life and for showing the good , the bad, the ugly and the real. Your girly is one very lucky special girl to have such wonderful parents as yourself and Darian. Weereens baie geluk aan julle twee. Here’s to a whole new chapter 💐
Missing you.... Hope we see you soon mwah watching this video again because ek miss jou Baie
How beautiful this moment was 💕 On the 8th August the same time you gave life, my mom passed on the exact same time. This is something very special and beautiful to me, giving life and departing home 💕
MashaAllah! Baarakāllah Feekum 💗
Realest and Rawest ,I've ever seen you .
Youre gonna be a great Mom .
Bless your soul .
Again Congratulations .
Congratulations Mama. You should please take it easy. Rest!! My mommy had a c-section and her stitches opened because she wanted to move too much.
Also, we know you a hard worker. But rather do content that doesn't need you to do much. Like have your followers and subscribers ask you questions and do a Q&A video.
Do a new father Q&A for Darian.
Maybe also do a video of things around the house. That doesn't need you to be toooooo busy. Also a Q&A will be a good video for next week. Then you don't feel like you didn't do any work. I'm begging you, please don't take any pressure from subscribers or followers. Rest, take your time to enjoy your baby and also heal Sheecs. We love you, we happy you had a safe delivery. We happy baby is healthy. Just focus on yourself and getting better. 💜💜💜We will always be here when you ready to come back and you're healed okay.
May Allah make it easy for you and grant shifa🤲🏻
A huge congratulations. I've been waiting for our princess. Muda 💕
Congratulations momma. Take your time to heal and enjoy your little love..ag nee wat ons huil saam dis okay!!u got this mom 💪
Wow! Congratulations to you and daddy D!
Take all the time you have with your baby and your feelings. Do not rush anything... Not you body, your feelings, your baby... And make time for hubby and you... You are an amazing mom. Huil jou huile
Thank you so much ! You will get through it, you are doing amazing job , give yourself grace. 💕💕💕 congratulations
Congratulations on the birth of your baby girl..You will get through this so take it easy and rest as much as you can. You are a strong and beautiful lady. 🙏🙏 Nurie
Congratulations with your bundle of joy😁 You and Darian are great parents and everything will be fine Sheeca, just take it day by day🙏😇🤗❤️
Not me crying with you 😅😅
Aaaah man Congratulations!!!!!!!! ❤️❤️🥰 So glad we got the first scoop🙋
Such a beautiful name, Masha Allah ♥️
I literally cried with you as I watched this 🥺.
There are so many things about being a new mom that people don't tell you. And we learn it the hard way when we come face to face with it with zero preparation.
I gave birth to my second baby boy on the 12 August and currently going through the baby blue phase while also battling the hectic mom guilt regarding my 17 month old toddler. I am constantly in tears and it's frustrating when it's so difficult to contain it when you're not alone. But that motivational messages and reminders are so important, from ourselves but also from other mom's experiencing the same thing..it just makes a difference knowing you're not alone, and that it's okay and NORMAL to feel this way. To you and all mother's, especially those battling with baby blues and PPD: May The Almighty remove your sorrow and replace it with complete happiness, and grant you the patience to navigate these emotions 💙 Rasheeqah: May you be granted a speedy recovery Insha Allah, you're in my dua's ❤️ enjoy your baby 🌸
Precious gift from God. May she bring you much joy😊 I also suffered from post natal depression with my firstborn. It will get better. Remain positive and keep smiling that beautiful smile. It's a blessing to be called a mother
Awww my beautiful friend, 🥺 jy laat my huil! Speedy recovery and all the best with that process, here if you need anything , always❤.
Slamat to you and Darian. Enjoy your little bundle of joy. I know that you are going to be an amazing mother 👩
So heartfelt 🥹🫶🏾
Beautiful Sheecs, know that you are loved and protected always ❤️❤️ thinking of you 🇨🇳!!! you just becoming stronger ( spiritually, mentally and physically) stay Blessed love from China 🇨🇳
I'm crying because this is so real. My little boy is 10 weeks old and also struggled a bit in the beginning. May Allah SWT grant you ease. Haniyah is a beautiful name and she is so blessed to have you and Darian as her parents. It get easier with time I promise. Enjoy your beautiful bundle as they grow super fast
Awww Sheecs man! Remember this is new for you, baba and for Daddy. You'll get through it together. May Haniyah be the coolness of your eyes and May the Almighty protect her from all evil at all times. Ameen. 💓
Congratulations on your beautiful baby. I had the baby blues with my first and second born now recently. The first two weeks are the worse I would say, you literally cry over anything and I began to feel like my normal self after 2 months, where you get the hang of things. What helped me was reading lots of Motherhood articles while I was up with baby during the night feeding. InshAllah you will get through this soon, all the best to you! You are strong
Congratulations mummy. You did great. ❤️💐
Slamat Mr. & Mrs. HOCK. May the Almighty Allah grant princess Haaniya the coolness of her parents eyes. Sheeca remember maternity leave is 4 to 6 months off work. So if needs be take the break from work and social media. The real O.G's will be waiting patiently for your return. Enjoy the moments of motherhood. Its normal to cry or feel emotional because your hormones are playing yo-yo at the moment. Ever mothers journey is different. Don't be hard on yourself. W.r.t Catherter it was not attached correctly thats why you felt it. Its an excruciating pain if its not attached properly , you could feel every drip. "Ou Mense raad" put Balsam Kapivo on the superficial flesh would and ceasar cut. Also drink a teaspoon of it with milk. It helps like a bomb inside and out. Mubarak on ur bday Darian. August is Hock month filled with anniversary, baby bday and daddy bday. May the Almighty bless you and ur family in ubandance. ❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations on your beautiful little bundle of joy ✝️❤️🙏 I am praying for healing over you and baby🙏 being a mom is a world wind of emotion all in one new born up until they older but it gets better remember you are human cry if you feel like crying GOD counts those tears and will turn them all into blessings of healing you amazing and you are the best mother ❤️🙏take one day at a time may the new journey be filled with happiness and love
Welcome to motherhood. It sucks out here and you are you going to do great! The first six weeks after c-section is tough emotionally. After that it should start levelling out. There is nothing more scary, tiring and worthwhile. Ek het ook gedink ma wees dit maklik doen maar maklik en moeite werd gaan nie juis saam nie. Baie sterkte.
I actually have nothing to say but well done Sheeca im so proud of you... This is hard but so worth it... And if you feel like crying dan tjank jy.... Klompie liefde vir julle! Baie Baie geluk!
I love how real you are. May you always be blessed. I also had baby blues it was terrible. It does get better even though it doesn't feel so now. You are so strong and so beautiful. You are going to be the best mom. Accept help when people offer. Get plenty of rest. It's ok to not be ok now . The baby blues will pass. Congratulations on your little girly
I'm literally tearing, takes me back an I still feel like you do even though my son turned recently 1 which was very much emotional to me as his growing up so fast... I've been the same through my baby was in distress and I had a heart problem.. People will ask and assume things but guess what we are still known as MOMS & definitely super moms.... You are worthy and you are indeed a super mom 😘💖Enjoy every moment Rasheeqah 💖💖
So so mooi, ek hoop dat jy jou gou herstel, the human body is amazing and has a way to heal itself, be strong, the post natal depression is real, jy sal orait wees, Insha Allah, Alhumdullilah 🙏 glo dit ❣️
I simply love you!!! Keep going girl 💙💙
thank you for sharing. so proud of you and you doing a great job
Slamat Sheecs and Darian on your beautiful Girl ,auwww I cried with you and yes baby blues is quiet normal to happy especially after the time you’ve been thru ,being a C section mom myself I send you loads of recovery duah”s &thoughts don’t be too hard on yourself ,you birthed an entire human being & that’s the best part of being a women ,enjoy all your cuddles with her ❤️
Slamat hun, in your own time no one else’s. You make your own rules that work for your wee family & don’t try to live up to someone else’s story. You had a rough start to Motherhood but Inshallah you are here with us, your baby is healthy & you have a partner who loves and adores you both. I just wanted to say how special it was to see your Dad holding his baby’s baby💕💕. Lots of duahs for a speedy recovery from a cold New Zealand
Heartiest congratulations and blessings 🙏 love and hugs from DBN
You are such a brave heart momma! Glad you are better and in recovery mode. Missed you on the socials! Wishing you good health and don't make us send out a search party 🙂. Take it easy girl! Be patient with yourself! Be blessed! Sending love and light
Congratulations mommy💗 You are strong enough. I had my emergency c-section 3 days after my mom passed away in May. God is still good.
Shukraan for being so raw and out there no1 tells us about these things but in the end our kids keeps us going and those days you're experience will become a testimony. Where you can tell others about our living God who's always besides us in time of need
Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl💗 I know the feeling... Baby blues are real!!! This shall pass too🙏🏼 all the best babe and enjoy her🤗
I am so happy for you. Thanking for sharing your story and being real. My heart goes out to you. I pray that you feel better soon. Just remember you are a super women.
Congrats Sheeca, take your time, things will get better💜
I have no words 🥹🥹🥹 Remarkable woman don’t be so hard on yourself let those tears roll you carried her for more than 9 months her life gave your life new meaning 🥹🥹 You got this momma 🫶❤️
Ive been checking in all the time for updates on you and baby... I was just so emotional but you will get thru it. My daughter 12 and i still get emotional lol
It's ohkay to be going through your emotions Sheecs. Whether it is small or big , go through, feel it and heal . We need to get through our emotions. Take all the time you need to heal , we will be waiting for new content when you are ready . Never forget that you are a strong woman and i commend you for it . You are also an amazing mom! Sending you love, light and healing , you got this! ♥️♥️
Thanks for sharing, Rasheeqah. You're in my prayers.
And Congratulations on y'all beautiful baby girl! ❤️
It is very real post natal depression , I experienced it with my son in 2021 and no one speaks about it baby blues happens. On my end it got better when he turned 3 months. You very strong honey you will be okay wishing you all the best , May princess Haniya remain the coolness of her parents eyes and grow up to be god fearing Inshallah, Thank you for sharing
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Congratulations sheeca💜
Congrats on the baby girl, she is such a blessing. I have been wondering and checking insta and youtube. So glad that your ok now. Baby blues is real thank you for making it normal as so many mothers don't always want to talk about it. I had got pre-eclampsia had to get a emergency C section, 3 days after birth i started bleeding internally, had to be operated again. My baby was "discharged" from hospital and i was still in ICU, took a while to bond with her also, felt like a failure also. 12 Years later and i have the most beautiful Est relationship with my daughter and wouldnt trade it for the world.
Omw babe 🥺🥺🫂 may the almighty make it easy for you and grant you a speedy recovery inshallah may you and your little family always be under the protection of the almighty I.A 🤲 enjoy every moment spent with her 🌸💞
Hello 👋 I am now 3weeks post emergency c section, those baby blues I tell you ... no joke , really a dark place... happy to hear u also on ur way to recovery.... keep well n take it easy lady IA
The Almighty chose you for this baby girl so rest knowing that you've got this! Thank you for sharing your authentic self and making it okay to not be okay. Especially first time Mommy's we feel so much pressure to have everything handled and yet we have no control over how our babies come to us, and what happens to our bodies during and after . Take one day at a time and walk in faith over fear, and you will be just fine
Ek het letterlik vir 2 maande gehuil… met n bietjie post partum depression. Dit raak beter kan Ek se… met goeie support! Sterkte you got this !
May Allah ease your pain inshallah and great you a speedy recovery inshallah Ameen
You inspiring so many mothers out there Algamdullilah.
Just a few minutes in and I balled out crying aaawww my heart goes out for you, I truelly am proud of how open you are these are motherhood journeys that no one prepare us for and seeing you being open and honest shows the amazing women you are you are going to be the best mother and time heals
Congrats guys shows how strong woman can be its my 3rd chil shes 2 months now and the baby blues is as hectic as the first child baby blues is so real
Your such a pure soul❤️
Mubarak mom n dad ..May Allah bestow His richest blessings upon ur family ameen
Congratulations Sheeca! 💕💞 Wishing you a speedy recovey🙏...You are truely an amazing woman and your youtube family love you! Thank you for being authentically you!
Wow congratulations, I really hope and pray you heal well, dnt worry cry if you have to cry. Things will get better and you will be yourself again. Thank you for your video this really brought tears to my eyes. My baby girl is 17months old and I still cry when things gets too much. Lol
Congratulations blessings upon blessings 🙏💐💐
Congratulations to you and Hubby on the birth of your beautiful baby girl. Many blessings
Congratulations..... I am so happy for you... Beautiful name..... Oh mommy man our pretty little girlie man.....i can relate.. I went through depression...love you.. Enjoy her while she's small..
Everything you've said resonates with me. I had my first child on the 19th August and boy has it been a journey since his birth. Alhamdullilah my little family is happy and healthy and we too cannot thank the Almighty enough for getting us this far❤️
Your feelings are valid mama I had the same with the first born and I was a pro with my sisters boys ..c sections and the healing takes a toll on your body and mental health .. hope you feel better mentally and physically..Mubarak once again
Bringing back emotions for me. Take it easy babes. Take time for yourself. You got this! Cry if you must. My baby is 8 years old and I still get emional. The fact that you said you've become in touch with your feelings, 😂 same. But we've got this! We are women! And we can handle anything that's meant to cross our paths. Allah doesn't give you battles you can't win.
Mabruk to you, hubby and the rest of your family Sheeca. I am in tears. I’m 33 weeks now and cannot wait to meet my little boy.
Congratulations, all the best and may God continue to give you strength you are strong and you will make it through...
Congratulations sheecs and D...so so happy vir julle. Blessings Blessings Blessings in abundance
My eyes were tearing up while watching this..Firstly Mubarak to yourself n Darian,May your daughter always be the coolness of your eyes n under the protection of Allah..I've been through the same,just a little over a year ago,baby blues r real..my daughter a year n a few months old now,so much happiness..
Enjoy your little bundle Rasheeqah..
Maa shaa ALLAH..may ur by girl grow up to be a good healthy pious girl in shaa ALLAH ameen...
Aww man.... In shaa Allah Aameen the best is yet to come love. ❤️Shukran for sharing... Much love to you and Haniyah 🤗🤗🤗💗💗💗
This was the most heartwarming video Fr fr 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️. May Allah bless you and your loved ones!
Thank you so much for this video. For sharing you experience and all that comes with it with us. I will also become a First Time Mommy in October 🤞❤ to a baby Boy 💙 & I will definitely remember your kind words. Thank you 🙏
Slm.Rasheeqah nobody tells you these stuff.Play the Qura an for her softly.Good luck and all the best dear.
Ow man sterkte daar ek huil ook nie Baie Geluk met julel dogtertjie mag Goedheid en Guns haar volg al die dae van julle lewe mooi bly
Thank u for this sheeca couldn't wait to get home so I can watch💞💞soema geweet ek gaan huil🤭happy tears🤭
May Allah SWT grant you ease and reward you for all you have endured to be the best mother you can possibly be throughout your pregnancy and after the birth of your daughter! Remember that you are enough and you are doing enough - even in those moments where your actions don't seem to measure up to your expectations of what you would've been able to achieve post-birth. You have gone through physical and mental trauma, birth is such a test for women but wallahi you are adapting and levelling up in every moment, even if it doesn't feel or look that way on the surface. Some time from now when your hormones have stabilised and your body has healed, you will be able to clearly see and realise all that you have overcome and achieved! Be as gentle with yourself as you would be with your best friend through this process because you deserve all of the grace in the world and more - there may be others suffering more than you in this world but don't let that invalidate your pain and suffering - hold space for your feelings without guilt because they deserve to be felt. You're an inspiration and sending you love, light and a big virtual hug, girl! Keeping you in my duas sister xxxx
Slm Mubarak to the parents may she grow up a good pious little girl & may she be the coolness of your eyes & may she bring joy & happiness in your life & she be of benefit to the oemah one day Ameen thumma Ameen..
Masha Allah. May she be the coolness of your eyes and comfort of your heart. Wishing you a speedy recovery
Congratulations momma, it's completely normal what you going through. I had a similar experience with blues and all.. Acknowledge and embrace the process. It does get better and we learn a new way of life. Blessings upon you and ur family
I can totally relate to this! It gets better honey, no amount of advice can prepare you for that feeling. Strongs!
I know exactly how you feel. Take it a day at a time. You will be okay! Love you guys lots!
You shared from your heart which is always beautiful 💖 I’m so grateful to woman like you who understand and share this journey as a mom/ aunty/ sister. Be blessed in all your first moments 🥰
Congratulations Rasheeqah, you brought back so many memories for myself. I gave birth in May via c-section and it's been TOUGH! I'm a first time mommy, and I had my mom stay with myself and my husband for 2 weeks. I cried when my mommy left to go back home. I cried every single day thereafter. It gets better. I watched Look Both Ways on Netflix and there's a scene in the movie where the mom tells her daughter that after giving birth, you crying, is your way of getting rid of your old self and entering Motherhood. ❤️ You're strong, brave, and you're doing an amazing job!
Oh wow, never though of it like this. Thank for sharing.
Very true motherhood is very nice & seeing ur children grow up
Congratulations, may God bless you and your baby
My daughter is 5 months and I'm still crying lol. Congratulations momma, she's gorgeous. Remember to take care of yourself as well, as mommas we so busy taking care of our children we often forget to take care of ourselves.
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May Allah continue to bless you, your beautiful princess and entire family❤
#superheromom🥺🤗❤
Sho you brought back memories. Baby blues is definately real.
Hi Rasheeqah,
Thank you for speaking so frankly about your recovery. I always say that Csections are not for sissy’s. I hope the recovery goes well.
Beautiful name Maa Shaa Allah! Mabrook to you both...may she always bring coolness to her parents eyes aameen
Awww Congratulations to you and hubby ❤ May God always keep a hand of protection over her little life 🙏 and a blessing that's she's born on your anniversary. May you enjoy your blessing from thee Almighty
I'm a mom of two a 12 year old young lady and boy of 6.. Its not easy ecspecially when u a new mom,just remember you not alone and you and not wrong for the way you are feeling,your body is adapting to what you are experiencing as a new mom.. I want to say place it before Allah as he is the one that will carry you threw until you are full recovered to be back on your feet as a new person... A Fan from Cape Town northern suburbs
I absolutely cried from the start of the video. Mabrook once again to you and the family may she stay the coolness of your eyes always Ameen may Allah grant you complete and speedy recovery Ameen and grant her good health throughout her life Ameen. My 1st born was a girl as well Alhumdulilha. I was 21 and didn't have much family support my mom past when I was 10 may Allah grant her and All deceased Jannah Ameen. My birth experience was Not the nicest I was in pain for 23hours and the Nurses at public hospital was just horrible. I was so fed up that after I gave birth I walked all the way from the 3rd floor down the stairs out of the hospital smoked 3 cigarettes I was so duk I felt so emotional I just gave natural birth with no pain meds I was gatvol and emotional because of the staff my ex at the time and even duk of the baby so it wasn't love at first sight for me I felt so confused and emotional for awhile Alhumdulilha it got better as the days past but yes baby blue's is very real. And it's by time that society realizes that the mother went through so much throughout her pregnancy then she has to deliver and then she's just expected to be on cloud nine and happy but we all go through it differently we love our babies unconditionally regardless of all the hormonal changes. But we sometimes need a minute to gather ourselves and figure out these new feelings and emotions. Alhumdulilha my little diamond will be 14 this year. Hang in there love it gets better. You got this ❤️❤️❤️
I cried while watching this because I can relate with you so much!
A major contributer to me was sleep deprivation because I was so paranoid!
I would sit up at night and watch baby sleep. I would go into the bathroom, sit on the floor and just cry!
I would sleep for no more than 2 hours at a time.
Being responsible for a whole new human being is a major responsibility that we take on and although it seems like it's never going to get better, it does!
Cry when you want to cry, it's completely normal because you end up feeling much better afterwards.
Congratulations to you and your husband!
Treasure these moments and enjoy it, as it goes by so quickly!
My son is almost 4 years old and it feels like just yesterday I went through all of that, but guess what, I'm ready for baby number 2 and ready to do it allll from over! Lol
Once again, congratulations to you and your husband!
Congratulations Sheeca, always remember your feelings are valid. Thank you for this video and always being open and honest. Sending you hugs!
Nchoo congratulations guys 🎊🎉💌💌💌🖤
Sheeca! You are not alone... I gave birth on 28 June 2022, I felt as if I suffered from post partum depression😭 I cried ALL the time for the first month! Firstly I had to express as I could not breast feed because baba didn't latch.. I barely slept, I was constantly exhausted, I was overwhelmed and felt as if I wasn't good enough for my son (I'm a first time mom). I picked up 12kgs during my pregnancy, but by week 2 I already lost 14kgs😔 I was so despondent! I eventually made the decision to start my son on formula full time and it was the best decision I could have made (for my own sanity). My son is thriving on formula and I am mentally and emotionally in a better place because I have more time for him! If I'm tired my mom or any1 else can assist as he is on a bottle which doesn't require me to be with him. Baby blues is ABSOLUTELY REAL. Esp for a first time mom! I still miss my sleep and only get to nap with him now and then, but his almost 2 months and I am only now finding myself. Big Love for you Sheeca. "This too shall pass!"