And this is 💯 true. I experienced this when my aunt was diagnosed with dementia. Her old self was no more, it was slowly fading away. The most painful thing ever 💔
Choosing yourself is the hardest thing you could ever do, it will leave you lonely, heartbroken and sometimes a little bit depressed. I chose myself and it's the hardest thing I've had to do after a 6year relationship
I wish everyone could hear this😢 peace is indeed expensive 💔 it will cost you everything but God is faithful, and he will restore everything you've lost 👐
My heart goes out to all the ladies who are going through the most. ❤ But woooooah, shem!!! I'm so happy I "lost" my ex!😂😂😂 Any time I think I'm having a bad day, I remember him and thank God for his absence! Every day without him is truly a divine blessing! Honestly, "losing" some people is a win!💃🏾🤣💃🏾🤣💃🏾
@@ntombihadebe4822 Yes… wax it on top; hot comb then if you want it bone straight, add hair mist ( heat protection) then iron over with a straightener.❤️
Firstly, Simz, I'm not a weave person, but I love the hair and u look good. Secondly... this is why we can never view ourselves as the exception and take pleasure in what our sisters are going thru in partnerships, especially with males. Many of our sisters are going thru it and that's why I'm for women first. Good for all women (and people) who choose themselves and their safety and mental health first. All the best to Linda
Some men generally like Younger girls because they love a woman they can over power and control . Had this discussion with a few guys this week kubi lol
That moment when you started explaining the consequences of choosing peace. You can see that it's coming from a place of experience and growth ❤❤#heartfelt
The way you just described me and my situation and you actually made me laugh after days of crying. Choosing to leave a 3 year relationship with a toxic, pathological lying man. Man lied to me from day 1 only to find out 3 yrs down the lines he's a married man. Staying with his wife full blown family man. After he played step dad to my kids and partner to me met my family...yoh men are not human ngeke.
😮😢💔 Damn! Kusezoba nzima! Be strong lovey and pray for healing,acceptance and most importantly forgiveness! It's going to be a very loooong journey! One day you will wake up feeling like you got this then the next thing you are breaking down💔 everything is going to trigger you! Eish mtase! Be strong man❤️❤️ lots of love and light!
@ingetshangana7259 It's so hard I don't want to lie, accepting is so hard still so hard to believe having good days and horrible days, and sad thing still longing to be consoled by the person who hurt you. 😢
"Longing to be consoled by the person who hurt you" ..... I'm currently going through this,it's as if he could make everything better ,yet again he's the reason I need consoling.
3years later after leaving a 13 years abusive marriage, it was hard but Iam still healing and Iam peaceful and happy. If it’s not working out anymore no matter how hard it is just leave ,u will thank urself later .
As soon as i saw the notification i ran straight to your channel Simz❤ follow your sister😅 peace is very expensive yei i felt that speaking from experience ku rough but in the end Linda girl uzothola ihappiness
Thank you Simz, for showing support for one of our own. I must say your approach lana was that of a big sister. Thank you for spilling words of wisdom from your own experience❤. I'm here for such content and the laughs😅.
Simz kodwa you’re so funny, the way you were describing how the heart wants what it wants!🤣🤣 Also the way you explained the value of peace, really gave me a profound insight and I’ll never forget it! Thanks sis!❤️❤️❤️
Is it broken or is it empty 😢…. My baby is 9 weeks old and her father is financially and psychologically abusive … decided to leave for the sake of my daughter …. I’ve done my best to make it work with him but I guess it was not meant to be… he hates me for earning 5* what he earns … I’m tired …
@@kwetsephetla3597 it’s so difficult … I’m in a different country with no felemi so ku rwefu… so looking forward to not being triggered at some point in the future
Yimani, we may have gotten this wrong. What if uyafunda, maybe MBA, PHD, second Masters nani nani. Maybe research had him on compass non stop. Jonga panel presentations are no childs play, maybe he had such issues😢😢😢😢yhuuu im just trying to make it make sense, ngoba aba becky woth the good hair hayi
I once read a quote that said ‘one of the hardest things you’ll do in life is to grieve the loss of someone who is still alive “.
And this is 💯 true. I experienced this when my aunt was diagnosed with dementia. Her old self was no more, it was slowly fading away. The most painful thing ever 💔
Never thought people understood this. Yhu it hurts like a MF. 😢
@@mogaleadimogale8777 🫂🫂🫂
Choosing yourself is the hardest thing you could ever do, it will leave you lonely, heartbroken and sometimes a little bit depressed. I chose myself and it's the hardest thing I've had to do after a 6year relationship
Me too🥺
We are one❤
A very difficult mountain to climb yeerrrrr but once you reach the top which is (healing) you start feeling like you’re the girl ❤
Legit
Sending you love ❤️
I wish everyone could hear this😢 peace is indeed expensive 💔 it will cost you everything but God is faithful, and he will restore everything you've lost 👐
My heart goes out to all the ladies who are going through the most. ❤ But woooooah, shem!!! I'm so happy I "lost" my ex!😂😂😂 Any time I think I'm having a bad day, I remember him and thank God for his absence! Every day without him is truly a divine blessing! Honestly, "losing" some people is a win!💃🏾🤣💃🏾🤣💃🏾
Yoh 😂❤
🤣🤣o funny neh
I can relate. 🎉
Being with the wrong person can halt your blessings. God will be damned if they benefit. 😂😂😂😂
A cheater problem is about her or him not the other person if you cheat you are the problem a lot internal problems at that
That juice there at the back is dealing with my anxiety and ocd...😢
I didn't see it. Now you've ruined the video for me 😂😂😂
@@thebusinessstrategistbw816 sameeee😅😅😅😅
In my eyes it has already spilt😢😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol same here I was scared for it the entire video 😂😂😂
Me too. I saw it immediately and said, ‘please take that glass behind you and drink it tuuu’.
Did I know laugh so hard. You are stronger than my previouse marriage.
It shows that beauty on the outside isn’t everything
Nothing is everything, if you have beauty on the inside they will take advantage of you, even the "good ones" 😢
She will be definitely be alright ❤ It gets better. Everyone that is scared to let go should always trust that and just let go
The weave just needs a hair wax and a hot comb. Just so it can behave.
You look good
Oh I thought I wasn't wearing mine right le hot combs does the job neh ,I'll do that ke nami shame
@@ntombihadebe4822 Yes… wax it on top; hot comb then if you want it bone straight, add hair mist ( heat protection) then iron over with a straightener.❤️
Firstly, Simz, I'm not a weave person, but I love the hair and u look good.
Secondly... this is why we can never view ourselves as the exception and take pleasure in what our sisters are going thru in partnerships, especially with males.
Many of our sisters are going thru it and that's why I'm for women first.
Good for all women (and people) who choose themselves and their safety and mental health first.
All the best to Linda
"Is the glass broken or empty?" Yoh that is so profound Simphiwe 😢🙏❤
I felt that hey🥺🥺
Kodwa ufollow your sister uhlakaniphile and futhi I sense a lot of emotional intelligence bona🤞🏽
Some men generally like Younger girls because they love a woman they can over power and control . Had this discussion with a few guys this week kubi lol
That moment when you started explaining the consequences of choosing peace. You can see that it's coming from a place of experience and growth ❤❤#heartfelt
I love how she kept it to herself, was low key about until she felt comfortable speaking about it.
Youre unlike any other bloggers. Youre so mature. Intelligent/wise. There is always a profound advice in your videos. God bless.
After God Fear Men.
🙌
Peace nana is a calling it's not for everyone. It's only for the chosen
You are spitting facts yaz
Eish this breaks my heart.... Coz I get sad thinking some of us will never know peace and joy😢
The way you just described me and my situation and you actually made me laugh after days of crying. Choosing to leave a 3 year relationship with a toxic, pathological lying man.
Man lied to me from day 1 only to find out 3 yrs down the lines he's a married man. Staying with his wife full blown family man.
After he played step dad to my kids and partner to me met my family...yoh men are not human ngeke.
I pray for your healing😭
😮😢💔 Damn! Kusezoba nzima! Be strong lovey and pray for healing,acceptance and most importantly forgiveness! It's going to be a very loooong journey! One day you will wake up feeling like you got this then the next thing you are breaking down💔 everything is going to trigger you! Eish mtase! Be strong man❤️❤️ lots of love and light!
@ingetshangana7259 It's so hard I don't want to lie, accepting is so hard still so hard to believe having good days and horrible days, and sad thing still longing to be consoled by the person who hurt you. 😢
"Longing to be consoled by the person who hurt you" .....
I'm currently going through this,it's as if he could make everything better ,yet again he's the reason I need consoling.
One of many reasons u remain a Queen our Simz, your narration depths nje WoW 👏😍
3years later after leaving a 13 years abusive marriage, it was hard but Iam still healing and Iam peaceful and happy. If it’s not working out anymore no matter how hard it is just leave ,u will thank urself later .
As soon as i saw the notification i ran straight to your channel Simz❤ follow your sister😅 peace is very expensive yei i felt that speaking from experience ku rough but in the end Linda girl uzothola ihappiness
Simz your analogy is hitting hard, the nuggets your sharing Mphemba 🙌🏼🙌🏼 I must replay and listen carefully
Peace is very expensive! You can say that again!!! I will take the expense, peace is worth it
Peace is priceless.
The broken glass analogy touched me ❤
Simz mara you're naturally funny 😅
🤣🤣🤣as for stronger than my previous marriage 🤣🤣🤣. Simz you are that girl and I love you 🤣🤣
The analogy of the trains also ma’am 🙆🏿♀️ I love it
Stronger than my previous marriage 😂😂😂😂 Kodwa Simz, I can't with you....
Bro
😂
"How do you fumble a girl like me"😭🤣🤣
He really fumbled 😭😭
Big time!!
The train and the broken glass analogy I was like wow it hit and made me think hard of my situation😢❤
Wait but I think Musa said this yazi!! But as always we never believed him. The weave needs a treatment then sharp! Anyway love you Simz
I love how you always drop gems in your videos, I’m so happy to be here ❤
I needed to hear this 😢
Thank you Simz, for showing support for one of our own. I must say your approach lana was that of a big sister. Thank you for spilling words of wisdom from your own experience❤. I'm here for such content and the laughs😅.
Simz kodwa you’re so funny, the way you were describing how the heart wants what it wants!🤣🤣
Also the way you explained the value of peace, really gave me a profound insight and I’ll never forget it! Thanks sis!❤️❤️❤️
Am in the shosholoza journey. But all shall be well 🤞🏼❤️
🤣🤣🤣 Yoo! Sims you’re so funny.
0:47 men don’t care about you that much, they can literally cheat on anyone
Is it broken or is it empty 😢…. My baby is 9 weeks old and her father is financially and psychologically abusive … decided to leave for the sake of my daughter …. I’ve done my best to make it work with him but I guess it was not meant to be… he hates me for earning 5* what he earns … I’m tired …
My sister.... it's broken
You make enough to take care of your baby. Good for you for choosing your baby and yourself ❤
@@kwetsephetla3597 it’s so difficult … I’m in a different country with no felemi so ku rwefu… so looking forward to not being triggered at some point in the future
Ruuuuuuuun and don't look back
I wish you and your baby the very best of this life and the next❤❤❤
It’s the juice chilling on the couch for me
It’s stronger than my love life
😅😅😅😅😅😅Loooool deaaad
N its oros😂😂😂😂😂
Sorrows Sorrows Prayers 🙏❤
May God bless u more ❣️
@@vuyokazi1797 I wish the same for you 🙏🏾
You are the best Sims!❤
Love your hair ubukeka kahle ngezinwele ezimfishane, mara you must flick that wig ntombo❤
Thet was a sad news
About linda mtoba 😢😢😢
Road to 100K 🎉❤️💃🏼
Ohh yhini tana Simz..remove the glass😢😢😢
6:19 This part killed me yoh😂you really know how to lighten up the mood Simz❤
Atleast akamithisanga ngaphandle considering his ways.
“Lonyaka lo cishe wangiginca phansi “now I understand what Linda meant with those words
Truly the heart is ❤punishing us. Hope she's ok, cause wow growing pains.
The heart: "I'm going thereee" 😂😂😂😂💔💔
😂😂😭😭
Strength to Linda
🤞🏾🤞🏾the truth in this 💯😞.
Nna my network is a bit slow, so i haven’t watched the video. With that said, you look stunning ma'am!! Yoh😢
The Heart wants what it wants….
Awusemhle Simz❤
"Gu..gum, gu..gum, gu..gum ubani I'm going there😌🎶" yaze yaba inkinga lenhlitiyo😂😭😭
So well said❤
The peace part👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
New Subscriber, a Gautrain commuter of note ❤
l love your content hle👌🥰
Simz o motle hle iyhooo 😢
Yintle le ndoda 🥰
The beatboxing 😭😂
Did he want to give them NSFAS? 😂😩 Yoh Simz you kill me sheeeeem 😂
Hey ngoba struu,we need prayers
Simz the heart !!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are crazy beautiful, so funny
Kanti why😂😂😂 the intro took me!
And the glass with juice at the back🤣🤣🤣😂😂
Washo u Inno amadoda ama666 guys ungitshelanje ukuthi abo Beyoncé bacheatelwa njani😢
When you said “a girl like Ntswaki” ☺️☺️☺️☺️🤣🤣🤣
The Truth ❤
Guys don’t care 😒
i wish our relationships could be as stable as that glass on a couch with u busy moving around🤞🤞🤞
😂😂😂😂😂 South Africa loves u
Yaz Abafana 🙆🏾♀️😩
Not Qunu mntase! 😂
Sending love to Linda❤
I always take Gautrain 😂😂😂😂
Abafana bhaya fana simz😩
Bona you can be miss south africa, the best sexy looking banging body Nana. Pomo..mara they will cheat ❤
Let's not forget the best mannerism... Mara stil cheat.
Kodwa Simz😂😂😂
"Higher than the high way" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
❤❤❤❤❤Hello mama
Nabelungu sebaya feba😭 😭💔
Uban yohhhh they are the worst I've got stories 😂😂😂😂😂 AMADODA!!!!!
Yimani, we may have gotten this wrong. What if uyafunda, maybe MBA, PHD, second Masters nani nani. Maybe research had him on compass non stop. Jonga panel presentations are no childs play, maybe he had such issues😢😢😢😢yhuuu im just trying to make it make sense, ngoba aba becky woth the good hair hayi
she’s not delusional, that’s her husband and she knew her better like the back of her hand.
Loving the hair sis❤
Chomi orange juice yona😂😂
I'm here to laugh more than anything... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Love your necklace is so cute 🥰 looks grate on ur neck ❤❤I hope it’s still called necklace 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Divorce is the worst death ever.... its the worst
Simz not di text books😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hi siphiwe I fear man with all i have 🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮
Yoh Twitter made me dizzy shem. This guy is really known in the streets. Apparently he’s been busy since the early 2000s being sferbs🤢 Poor Linda
Braids sisi, braids
lmao the heart is doing beat boxing🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ohhh simz
The other gender nje, doesn’t matter the race.
This is a serious issue but o funny tlhe😂😂😂😂😂
❤
😂😂😂 strong than my marriage