Tired of Being Taken Advantage Of | Khutbah by Dr. Omar Suleiman

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  • No one likes to feel used, abused, and unappreciated. But reframing how we approach these situations can lead to the realization of a significant reward that makes it all worth it when it counts most.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 63

  • @user-rh9sw8wz1j
    @user-rh9sw8wz1j Рік тому +110

    my father’s mental health has declined so much and everyone is taking advantage of this and now we are in so much hardships. please keep him in your duas.

    • @xyzanonymous3308
      @xyzanonymous3308 Рік тому +15

      💞 May Allah help you all, ease your hardships and cure your father's illness and bless him with the best state of health and Imaan....

    • @bluelilly22222
      @bluelilly22222 Рік тому +5

      @@xyzanonymous3308 Aameen

    • @misssimmi2
      @misssimmi2 Рік тому +4

      May Allah grant your family ease and your father shifa.

    • @urm0mzfav
      @urm0mzfav Рік тому +4

      may Allah make it easy for you guys inshAllahh. Remember Allah never burdens a soul beyond its limit.
      take care

    • @sajid279
      @sajid279 Рік тому +3

      May Allah help us all...who are going through problems
      Allahumma inni as-aluka al-aafiyah

  • @Sarah-pj4vo
    @Sarah-pj4vo Рік тому +23

    Sometimes we can't re-establish ties with those who harmed us, because it cost us our emotional and mental health, wellbeing even leading to poor physical health. Nothing is worth that, and I believe that the believer should always protect themselves from harm - even if it from those who were perceived to be 'close' to us.

    • @abdelrahmanjawhar2592
      @abdelrahmanjawhar2592 Рік тому +4

      Yes totally agree. This is what speakers fail to mention in lectures and it is very frustrating when they speak in a way that suggests that you should be tolerating emotional and mental abuse “for the sake of Allah.”

    • @Doldelsol
      @Doldelsol 7 днів тому

      yes sometimes our family becomes our biggest tests. It’s better to built a strong mental physical and emotional foundation for yourself and pray for more strength in your relationships, so that you can protect yourself. I would suggest

  • @juweriafatima6463
    @juweriafatima6463 Рік тому +15

    Oh Allah grant peace and blessings upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad PBUH

  • @shibafathima1043
    @shibafathima1043 Рік тому +4

    May Allah protect us from the people who traps us with their crazy assumptions. And then take advantage of our reaction.

  • @akdfulanistan
    @akdfulanistan Рік тому +6

    May Allah bless YAQEEN INSTITUTE and its team we are all heartedly with you , may Allah grants us all Jannatul Firdaws

  • @HayroHaryo
    @HayroHaryo Рік тому +1

    8:40 yes, it's so very true. because the people of Ihsan is the people who "works" for Allah.
    and hence "this type of people do not seek reward from others". he/she seeks rewards from Allah.
    people of Ihsan knew that they had to "suffer/ manipulated by others" (to a certain point) to "be getting paid by Allah)"

  • @alaataf9173
    @alaataf9173 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful khutabah! JazakAllah khair shiek for the reminder:
    “ Ehssan (excellence ) to others doesn’t decrease you, maybe the other side doesn’t deserve it
    But YOu deserve it (the reward) from Allah swt
    “ To feel like you have given too much to an ungrateful one (person) is Natural
    But to feel like you have given it up for the sake of Allah (swt) the Most Grateful (Al-Shakooor ) is EmPowering …
    Because your life is a journey between you and Allah and everyone that is placed in the path is part of that journey between you and Allah (swt) !”

  • @rig7452
    @rig7452 Рік тому +3

    May Allah Azawajal give Jannah to those who gave more to us than we gave to them first and foremost our parents

  • @Amalhirad320
    @Amalhirad320 Рік тому +5

    Jasakumuallah sheikh Omar

  • @sobiashah8215
    @sobiashah8215 Рік тому +5

    ALLAHUMMA AAMEEN 💔

  • @bahiaabrahams2734
    @bahiaabrahams2734 Рік тому +6

    Allah forgive,guide and protect us all,Ameen.Algamdulillah,Shukran.

  • @noreengulalai6325
    @noreengulalai6325 Рік тому +3

    Yes we can’t pay back the ehsan of parents but can’t also pay back their abuse. Has Allah ordained to be harsh, unkind and unloving, abusive to your kids. Treat them like trash and slaves with no rights. Make them feel nothing and make their life hell. Are the Quranic verses about such kind of parents which they also rely on to be free of any accountability. Sadly most of the scholars also preach only about it without addressing the other side of reality.
    A child is at the very primary level vulnerable to the harm and abuse from his own parents. The outside world came latter. The harm abusive parents cause to their kids no one can cause and the effect is life lasting.
    Thanks to some of the present day scholars who understand the importance and seriousness of children’s rights and talk about it.
    To raise children is a great responsibility and not everyone is eligible for it. How Allah will not ask about the responsibility of human race when one has taken it. When Allah says treat each other well then how come it wouldn’t be for kids.
    What you grow that shall you reap. And how we expect normal human beings raised in abusive environment.
    Has Allah ordained to tolerate abuse and do nothing against it just be good and patient. And let the tyrant to become a monster. Not at all. Forgiveness is for mistakes not for repetitive intentional wrongdoings. That needs to take stand against and oppose it. The Prophet (PBUH)said, also help the tyrant. People asked how? The prophet replied by stopping him from doing injustice. SubhanAllah
    May Allah guide us and make our ways easy for us. Ameen. God bless all.

  • @marliesisani249
    @marliesisani249 Рік тому +1

    Thank you very much! Temptation, or even lack of discipline, is one thing, decency is another thing... جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ

  • @iy.99
    @iy.99 Рік тому +1

    Subhanallah..
    We need more khutbahs about being humble coz the society teaches us to be too arrogant and egoistic...

  • @safinazsallouh5850
    @safinazsallouh5850 Рік тому +3

    Baraka Allah fikom

  • @ameerkhalid6677
    @ameerkhalid6677 Рік тому +2

    Afghanistan sends love to my brother and teacher Dr Omar Sulieman

  • @imrantaleb7666
    @imrantaleb7666 Рік тому +3

    Asalam ma laykum may allah bless and ease the sufferings of the ummah and may allah have mercy on all those that have passed away before us and may Allah have mercy on us when we pass away and may allah cure all those that have a sickness and a disability and may allah grant them a cure that leaves no aliment and may allah relieve the distress muslims and may allah answer all our prayers and duas ameen

  • @SantNabi
    @SantNabi Рік тому +9

    When you do fisabillilah , understanding that you are just a vessel, you will never get tired…
    Edit: just wanted to add, Allah sees you. Allah saw it All. Don’t you know that? 💝

  • @saburabdul-salaam2418
    @saburabdul-salaam2418 Рік тому +2

    Jazak Allah khairan. May Allah give us the humility to humble ourselves for His pleasure.

  • @thestraightpath2909
    @thestraightpath2909 Рік тому +1

    اللهم صل وسلم على نبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين وسلم تسليما كثيرا إلى يوم الدين

  • @samim7395
    @samim7395 Рік тому +2

    تبارک الله ❤️

  • @Layla6793
    @Layla6793 Рік тому +2

    Salalaahu caleyhi wasalam

  • @nasifok5510
    @nasifok5510 Рік тому +1

    Watching this video from Kerala, India. Jazakallah Sheikh for this eye opening message. We frequently hear these ayats and ahadess. But never able to put it like this. Jazakallah again.

  • @Layla6793
    @Layla6793 Рік тому +2

    Allahuma Ameen ya Allah

  • @jalisaaishakhan1411
    @jalisaaishakhan1411 Рік тому

    Mashallah! Beautiful message, jazakallah khair

  • @nusrathidayatullah5293
    @nusrathidayatullah5293 Рік тому +1

    Powerful khutba May Allah SWTA guide us. Jazakallah sheikh once again an excellent reminder May Allah SWTA bless you in both the worlds AMEEN

  • @VictoriousDrucilla
    @VictoriousDrucilla Рік тому +1

    Ameen 🤲🏾

  • @d3m770
    @d3m770 Рік тому

    سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم

  • @0000Konan
    @0000Konan Рік тому +1

    Jazakallah!

  • @mubeenamusthafa487
    @mubeenamusthafa487 Рік тому

    BarakAllah....
    Jazakum Allahu Khairan for the beneficial khutbah.
    Alhamdulillah 🤲.

  • @marscairil2133
    @marscairil2133 Рік тому +2

    AssalamuAlaikum Sheikh Doctor Omar Sulieman🙏🙏🙏🥰watching OC 🇺🇸👍🧡❤️♥️🤲🤲🤲

  • @ikram2326
    @ikram2326 Рік тому +1

    اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد وعلى آل سيدنا محمد كما صليت على سيدنا إبراهيم وعلى آل سيدنا إبراهيم في العالَمِين إنك حميد مجيد وبارك اللهم على سيدنا محمد وعلى آل سيدنا محمد كما باركت على سيدنا إبراهيم وعلى آل سيدنا إبراهيم في العالَمِين إنك حميد مجيد
    جزاكما الله خيرا على الموعظة ونفعنا بها.

  • @hakimashirejamac7408
    @hakimashirejamac7408 Рік тому

    Masha alah

  • @par_sha7348
    @par_sha7348 Рік тому +2

    I have a question.
    If someone asks something from me and i know that person does not really need it or he or she can get it somewhere else. Should I refuse that person or give it to them as being a good muslim.

  • @stephaniedoerr4310
    @stephaniedoerr4310 Рік тому +3

    Does anyone know who the lady is that is the asl interpreter? My daughter is studying asl and would love them to be able to connect

  • @THEY255
    @THEY255 Рік тому

    Assalamuaikum Waramatullahi tq .. good to me. Wasaalam

  • @mobidick6064
    @mobidick6064 Рік тому

    No yet

  • @TMSJC
    @TMSJC Рік тому

    Hello. Could someone post where I can find this Hadith he speaks of?

  • @theheatshow8324
    @theheatshow8324 Рік тому +1

    The system is designed for us to fail

  • @theheatshow8324
    @theheatshow8324 Рік тому

    It seems like it’s harder to get married… it seems as if you don’t want people to get married

  • @unknown_system789
    @unknown_system789 Рік тому

    ill ask reema in due time

  • @Irfy1
    @Irfy1 Рік тому

    👍🏻

  • @fawziabayat994
    @fawziabayat994 Рік тому

    THE AAMBIYAA ( A.S) , THEIR FAMILIES WERE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF & THEY WERE MOCKED BY THE DISBELIEVERS OF THEIR TIME.

    • @sajid279
      @sajid279 Рік тому

      But they were not ignorant about the situation...they knew very well ..

  • @ammarab3284
    @ammarab3284 Рік тому

    x

    • @anjss1770
      @anjss1770 Рік тому

      Maa Shaa Allah, Jazak Allahu Khair for the beautiful reminder

  • @unknown_system789
    @unknown_system789 Рік тому

    ill put stop to this hes your forever pass welcome to hevean were we act like big kid throw tantrums and