my father’s mental health has declined so much and everyone is taking advantage of this and now we are in so much hardships. please keep him in your duas.
Sometimes we can't re-establish ties with those who harmed us, because it cost us our emotional and mental health, wellbeing even leading to poor physical health. Nothing is worth that, and I believe that the believer should always protect themselves from harm - even if it from those who were perceived to be 'close' to us.
Yes totally agree. This is what speakers fail to mention in lectures and it is very frustrating when they speak in a way that suggests that you should be tolerating emotional and mental abuse “for the sake of Allah.”
yes sometimes our family becomes our biggest tests. It’s better to built a strong mental physical and emotional foundation for yourself and pray for more strength in your relationships, so that you can protect yourself. I would suggest
Sister Assalamualaikum . I know it's hard to restablish ties with someone who harmed you but if you hold a grudges against them it's definitely going to be more harmful for your mental and physical health.. I don't tell that you should forgive them all of once. Just try to love you more and find the way that are not going to harm yourself. I don't know what's going in your life and it's always between you and Allah SWT. May we all are are guided by him. Allahumma Amin. I know how it feel when someone close to you hurts you but take your time to heal yourself and I am not the one to decide for you if you should forgive them or not. Just think by not forgiving them if it easy for you or it's more easy if you're going ahead by giving you a chance to live and be close to Allah SWT who give us everything in the world.. Lastly don't get me wrong and forgive me if I said something that hurt you..Allah hafiz and take care of yourself.. Be Happy ..May Allah SWT give you all happiness and protect us from shaitaan's trap..
8:40 yes, it's so very true. because the people of Ihsan is the people who "works" for Allah. and hence "this type of people do not seek reward from others". he/she seeks rewards from Allah. people of Ihsan knew that they had to "suffer/ manipulated by others" (to a certain point) to "be getting paid by Allah)"
Beautiful khutabah! JazakAllah khair shiek for the reminder: “ Ehssan (excellence ) to others doesn’t decrease you, maybe the other side doesn’t deserve it But YOu deserve it (the reward) from Allah swt “ To feel like you have given too much to an ungrateful one (person) is Natural But to feel like you have given it up for the sake of Allah (swt) the Most Grateful (Al-Shakooor ) is EmPowering … Because your life is a journey between you and Allah and everyone that is placed in the path is part of that journey between you and Allah (swt) !”
Watching this video from Kerala, India. Jazakallah Sheikh for this eye opening message. We frequently hear these ayats and ahadess. But never able to put it like this. Jazakallah again.
Asalam ma laykum may allah bless and ease the sufferings of the ummah and may allah have mercy on all those that have passed away before us and may Allah have mercy on us when we pass away and may allah cure all those that have a sickness and a disability and may allah grant them a cure that leaves no aliment and may allah relieve the distress muslims and may allah answer all our prayers and duas ameen
When you do fisabillilah , understanding that you are just a vessel, you will never get tired… Edit: just wanted to add, Allah sees you. Allah saw it All. Don’t you know that? 💝
اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد وعلى آل سيدنا محمد كما صليت على سيدنا إبراهيم وعلى آل سيدنا إبراهيم في العالَمِين إنك حميد مجيد وبارك اللهم على سيدنا محمد وعلى آل سيدنا محمد كما باركت على سيدنا إبراهيم وعلى آل سيدنا إبراهيم في العالَمِين إنك حميد مجيد جزاكما الله خيرا على الموعظة ونفعنا بها.
Yes we can’t pay back the ehsan of parents but can’t also pay back their abuse. Has Allah ordained to be harsh, unkind and unloving, abusive to your kids. Treat them like trash and slaves with no rights. Make them feel nothing and make their life hell. Are the Quranic verses about such kind of parents which they also rely on to be free of any accountability. Sadly most of the scholars also preach only about it without addressing the other side of reality. A child is at the very primary level vulnerable to the harm and abuse from his own parents. The outside world came latter. The harm abusive parents cause to their kids no one can cause and the effect is life lasting. Thanks to some of the present day scholars who understand the importance and seriousness of children’s rights and talk about it. To raise children is a great responsibility and not everyone is eligible for it. How Allah will not ask about the responsibility of human race when one has taken it. When Allah says treat each other well then how come it wouldn’t be for kids. What you grow that shall you reap. And how we expect normal human beings raised in abusive environment. Has Allah ordained to tolerate abuse and do nothing against it just be good and patient. And let the tyrant to become a monster. Not at all. Forgiveness is for mistakes not for repetitive intentional wrongdoings. That needs to take stand against and oppose it. The Prophet (PBUH)said, also help the tyrant. People asked how? The prophet replied by stopping him from doing injustice. SubhanAllah May Allah guide us and make our ways easy for us. Ameen. God bless all.
I have a question. If someone asks something from me and i know that person does not really need it or he or she can get it somewhere else. Should I refuse that person or give it to them as being a good muslim.
my father’s mental health has declined so much and everyone is taking advantage of this and now we are in so much hardships. please keep him in your duas.
💞 May Allah help you all, ease your hardships and cure your father's illness and bless him with the best state of health and Imaan....
@@xyzanonymous3308 Aameen
May Allah grant your family ease and your father shifa.
may Allah make it easy for you guys inshAllahh. Remember Allah never burdens a soul beyond its limit.
take care
May Allah help us all...who are going through problems
Allahumma inni as-aluka al-aafiyah
It's first time in my whole life that I heard I can give sadaqa from my honour too. And it's a gem of information. JazakAllah u Khairan kaseera
Sometimes we can't re-establish ties with those who harmed us, because it cost us our emotional and mental health, wellbeing even leading to poor physical health. Nothing is worth that, and I believe that the believer should always protect themselves from harm - even if it from those who were perceived to be 'close' to us.
Yes totally agree. This is what speakers fail to mention in lectures and it is very frustrating when they speak in a way that suggests that you should be tolerating emotional and mental abuse “for the sake of Allah.”
yes sometimes our family becomes our biggest tests. It’s better to built a strong mental physical and emotional foundation for yourself and pray for more strength in your relationships, so that you can protect yourself. I would suggest
Sister Assalamualaikum . I know it's hard to restablish ties with someone who harmed you but if you hold a grudges against them it's definitely going to be more harmful for your mental and physical health.. I don't tell that you should forgive them all of once. Just try to love you more and find the way that are not going to harm yourself. I don't know what's going in your life and it's always between you and Allah SWT. May we all are are guided by him. Allahumma Amin. I know how it feel when someone close to you hurts you but take your time to heal yourself and I am not the one to decide for you if you should forgive them or not. Just think by not forgiving them if it easy for you or it's more easy if you're going ahead by giving you a chance to live and be close to Allah SWT who give us everything in the world.. Lastly don't get me wrong and forgive me if I said something that hurt you..Allah hafiz and take care of yourself.. Be Happy ..May Allah SWT give you all happiness and protect us from shaitaan's trap..
Oh Allah grant peace and blessings upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad PBUH
May Allah protect us from the people who traps us with their crazy assumptions. And then take advantage of our reaction.
8:40 yes, it's so very true. because the people of Ihsan is the people who "works" for Allah.
and hence "this type of people do not seek reward from others". he/she seeks rewards from Allah.
people of Ihsan knew that they had to "suffer/ manipulated by others" (to a certain point) to "be getting paid by Allah)"
Beautiful khutabah! JazakAllah khair shiek for the reminder:
“ Ehssan (excellence ) to others doesn’t decrease you, maybe the other side doesn’t deserve it
But YOu deserve it (the reward) from Allah swt
“ To feel like you have given too much to an ungrateful one (person) is Natural
But to feel like you have given it up for the sake of Allah (swt) the Most Grateful (Al-Shakooor ) is EmPowering …
Because your life is a journey between you and Allah and everyone that is placed in the path is part of that journey between you and Allah (swt) !”
Thank you very much! Temptation, or even lack of discipline, is one thing, decency is another thing... جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ
Afghanistan sends love to my brother and teacher Dr Omar Sulieman
Allah forgive,guide and protect us all,Ameen.Algamdulillah,Shukran.
May Allah Azawajal give Jannah to those who gave more to us than we gave to them first and foremost our parents
Mashallah! Beautiful message, jazakallah khair
Jasakumuallah sheikh Omar
Jazak Allah khairan. May Allah give us the humility to humble ourselves for His pleasure.
Subhanallah..
We need more khutbahs about being humble coz the society teaches us to be too arrogant and egoistic...
Baraka Allah fikom
May Allah bless YAQEEN INSTITUTE and its team we are all heartedly with you , may Allah grants us all Jannatul Firdaws
Watching this video from Kerala, India. Jazakallah Sheikh for this eye opening message. We frequently hear these ayats and ahadess. But never able to put it like this. Jazakallah again.
Asalam ma laykum may allah bless and ease the sufferings of the ummah and may allah have mercy on all those that have passed away before us and may Allah have mercy on us when we pass away and may allah cure all those that have a sickness and a disability and may allah grant them a cure that leaves no aliment and may allah relieve the distress muslims and may allah answer all our prayers and duas ameen
ALLAHUMMA AAMEEN 💔
تبارک الله ❤️
BarakAllah....
Jazakum Allahu Khairan for the beneficial khutbah.
Alhamdulillah 🤲.
Powerful khutba May Allah SWTA guide us. Jazakallah sheikh once again an excellent reminder May Allah SWTA bless you in both the worlds AMEEN
اللهم صل وسلم على نبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين وسلم تسليما كثيرا إلى يوم الدين
سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم
Jazakallah!
Ameen 🤲🏾
AssalamuAlaikum Sheikh Doctor Omar Sulieman🙏🙏🙏🥰watching OC 🇺🇸👍🧡❤️♥️🤲🤲🤲
When you do fisabillilah , understanding that you are just a vessel, you will never get tired…
Edit: just wanted to add, Allah sees you. Allah saw it All. Don’t you know that? 💝
Allahuma Ameen ya Allah
Salalaahu caleyhi wasalam
Masha alah
اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد وعلى آل سيدنا محمد كما صليت على سيدنا إبراهيم وعلى آل سيدنا إبراهيم في العالَمِين إنك حميد مجيد وبارك اللهم على سيدنا محمد وعلى آل سيدنا محمد كما باركت على سيدنا إبراهيم وعلى آل سيدنا إبراهيم في العالَمِين إنك حميد مجيد
جزاكما الله خيرا على الموعظة ونفعنا بها.
Yes we can’t pay back the ehsan of parents but can’t also pay back their abuse. Has Allah ordained to be harsh, unkind and unloving, abusive to your kids. Treat them like trash and slaves with no rights. Make them feel nothing and make their life hell. Are the Quranic verses about such kind of parents which they also rely on to be free of any accountability. Sadly most of the scholars also preach only about it without addressing the other side of reality.
A child is at the very primary level vulnerable to the harm and abuse from his own parents. The outside world came latter. The harm abusive parents cause to their kids no one can cause and the effect is life lasting.
Thanks to some of the present day scholars who understand the importance and seriousness of children’s rights and talk about it.
To raise children is a great responsibility and not everyone is eligible for it. How Allah will not ask about the responsibility of human race when one has taken it. When Allah says treat each other well then how come it wouldn’t be for kids.
What you grow that shall you reap. And how we expect normal human beings raised in abusive environment.
Has Allah ordained to tolerate abuse and do nothing against it just be good and patient. And let the tyrant to become a monster. Not at all. Forgiveness is for mistakes not for repetitive intentional wrongdoings. That needs to take stand against and oppose it. The Prophet (PBUH)said, also help the tyrant. People asked how? The prophet replied by stopping him from doing injustice. SubhanAllah
May Allah guide us and make our ways easy for us. Ameen. God bless all.
Assalamuaikum Waramatullahi tq .. good to me. Wasaalam
Does anyone know who the lady is that is the asl interpreter? My daughter is studying asl and would love them to be able to connect
I have a question.
If someone asks something from me and i know that person does not really need it or he or she can get it somewhere else. Should I refuse that person or give it to them as being a good muslim.
Hello. Could someone post where I can find this Hadith he speaks of?
It seems like it’s harder to get married… it seems as if you don’t want people to get married
THE AAMBIYAA ( A.S) , THEIR FAMILIES WERE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF & THEY WERE MOCKED BY THE DISBELIEVERS OF THEIR TIME.
But they were not ignorant about the situation...they knew very well ..
ill ask reema in due time
The system is designed for us to fail
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Maa Shaa Allah, Jazak Allahu Khair for the beautiful reminder
ill put stop to this hes your forever pass welcome to hevean were we act like big kid throw tantrums and