Husbands are not infants Husbands are adult men Husbands are intentional Husbands make decisions Husbands are not snatchable 😂 Husbands wake up, dress up, drive (or walk), undress themselves and cheat. lol It’s a decision they make. Wives must take that information that the husbands have given them and choose what they will do with the information. Yes, side chicks are complicit, but in my opinion, you don’t even have to confront either husband or side chick, you just have to make a DECISION
That's not a lie, a word is enough for the wise. How can a lady be best friends with someone else's husband? Sin breeds in secret.@@nnamdichilakakingsleyibekw9177
I don’t fight for men. If a man truly loves you he will adore and respect you. You don’t blame side chicks because most time they have been lied too. A husband can go far to say the wife is late or separated. Or he has no peace at home or in the process of getting divorce. If you fight the side chicks, he can get another. The best thing is to confront your husband and explain why what he is doing hurts you. If he refuse to change my dear, be alive for yourself, your children and your love ones. A lot of wife has died for this course, at the end the husband life continues. Nne no die for any husband ooo
This mentality is what has made many people separated or divorced and later regret....what will you say to those who be using anything and everything to get your "rich" husband....i will fight for my legal husband so that when i leave that marriage i will be justified
❤🎉You have spoken well, really!! The only fighting one can actually do, is on your knees, in prayers if you so desire.. Every other fight will end in futility, and a sheer waste of energy that should have been put into something better!
You spoke well. However, I do not agree that most times the women were lied to, I would rather say “sometimes the women are lied to” . These days it is the women that actively do the chasing, and there is a trend happening now where young girls prefer a married man for whatever reasons. So yes it’s okay to confront your man but it’s also ok to fight for him and give him a chance to repentance before calling it a quit
@lady-ibitoruojika705 "there is a trend happening now where young girls prefer a married man for whatever reasons. " The trend didn't just start today o. It has existed for decades. Some 30 years ago when I was in the university, such arrangement was called "aristo". It is the "aristo" babes of that era that are now housewives complaining about philandering husbands now. They should keep their mouths shut. It is the chicken that has come home to roost.
They both to blame because it takes two to tango. Us only blaming men it’s making these women very very comfortable, dangerous and disrespectful towards the wives.
@@lovegreen6679blame the man who took a vow not a lady that is either looking for husband or comfort and owns the wife no apologizes cos she didn’t take a vow with the woman.
This same thing happened to me. When I lost my husband, a lady came to the Zoom meeting and was crying more than myself and said she had lost her best friend. We are living in the same town, but my husband never told me he had a female best friend. After his burial, I decided to scan his phone. OMG, what met my eyes was unbelievable. It turned out it was my husband sidechick. So, I would not be surprised if Ruby turned out to be Junior Pope's second wife/ sidechick. But you know what our God is a faithful God.
Sorry for the lost but all men can't be same....The world has turned into something else that we don't even know good people and good relationships do exist.
Jinior Pope's case with Ruby is different from your story. The wife of Jinior Pope knew about Ruby's friendship with her husband but your husband hide his because he was purely cheating on you with the lady.
No woman can snatch a man who doesn't want to be snatched...when ur man TRULY LOVES YOU HE WILL NEVER CHEAT ON YOU BCZ HE DOESN'T WANT TO HURT YOU ON PURPOSE
@@fonkielizabeth3110 The only person being insensitive and disrespectful is the husband. He is the one breaking commitment. Side chick has no commitment to the wife.
As for Ruby I didn't know what is going on with her, she needs bereavement therapy. He may have been a good friend to her but this is getting out of hand.
Rubby, being a best friend to a married man is out of it. Since JP died, how many times has Rubby visited his wife and children? Because you truly love someone, you will definitely love everyone around him. She is just chasing clout.
If she truly junior POP bestie, she supposed to be very close to his family especially now that Junior is dead. That Rubby has not said what is worrying her yet nonsense and senseless human being posting all manner of video to upset the wife or what?
You see, that's the issue right there. There's no way the world can be convinced, & that's why single ladies shouldn't be close enough to married men that would make people question the relationship. Only 4 people know what existed between them, Ruby, the late Jr Pope, God & the devil! Others can only speculate.
I saw few pictures of Ruby and JP wife, even celebrated with JP wife on her birthday 🎂 I can never believe that Ruby had something with him apart from friendship
Firstly, you are looking gorgeous. Ruby and Late JP were close, no doubt. But for someone who is mourning, moving with camera to video her actions and then going ahead to post it is pure clout esp the video of going to church to pray. The camera person was very deliberate with his course. Lastly, those women revolting are simply embarrassing themselves. Sometimes, it's the men who doesn't want the sidechicks to leave. The women should go home to their husbands to confront them and if the seat is too hot, they should vacate. Instead of coming outside to create a nuisance, they should get some dignity and self worth
I broke my leg running to this notification 🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️. Well...no woman should be besties with a married man and vice versa especially when it disrespects the married woman. How can you be jumping on a married man like that. Even my twin bro, i will have boundaries especially when he is married. Judy abi Ruby. As for the snatchers e reach to post them. First talk to yr husband. Second bothbof them. We know that some of these girls are desperate for marriage. Some use charms. It's easy for people to say "talk to ur man" Some side chicks dont know. So talk to them. But u see the side chixks that say "go talk to ur husband " those ones de use kayamata
Make married woman Sidon o, don’t go and fight side chick, try and make money, take care of your children and take VERY GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF too ABEGI
In my opinion, In this era, fighting because of a promiscuous man is a NO NO. Face your husband. Let’s not forget in some country marrying one wife is against their law.
I think Ruby and Jnr Pope had a special friendship. She obviously does not know how to handle her pain which is not publicly acknowlegded because she is not his wife or sister.
True! I lost an uncle whom I saw as a father and grew up with. I was literally dying inside, but no one could understand because I wasn't his wife or his biological child. To date, I am hurt that I was not given the chance to write in his obseques. I had a special relationship with my uncle down to secret bank accounts only both of us knew. I suffered migraines for months because I couldn't express how much I was hurting because no one would understand.
Neze thank you for this video. I saw a controversial video where rubby was publicly mourning a supposed best friend and I saw over 80 comments supporting and telling her to take heart. I couldn't comment because it seemed i was all alone thinking differently. I keep wondering how people mourn and video themselves. Secondly, who are those people paying condolences to a bestie in such manners? Thirdly, how do married people cope with besties besides their spouses? I have so many questions o my people. I will blame Jps wife here. How did she manage to cope with a very good colleague of her husband who throws everything at the husband uncensored!!! I cannot trust anything or anybody to that extent....if you must rub anything off on him, better don't let me have a glimps of it because if you do a video for me to see, then it becomes a personal fight which must begin with the husband. Ruby may actually not have anything hidden to do with JP but she should tune down the videos.
Can a lady who is married have a best friend and behave the same way Ruby and pope acting that close ,please ,and be bold to say that he us my best friend ,The man wont take it likely,. There's nothing wrong having friends outside marrisge ,we all have class mates etc before marriage, however there should be healthy respectful boundaries.Shalom
In my analysis, I see a case of "married to one woman, but madly in love with another" God bless his soul. After death, life goes on, may our husbands recieve sense in the mighty name of Jesus.
@@FoAl-h2b it's only rumor. I blame Ruby for content creating unnecessary things. Pope can never cheat on his wife. If you know that guy you won't believe any lies they're saying on social media
This is a matter of common sense. 🤨😏. Ruby Orjiakor went too far. She may have been honest good/best friends with Jr Pope and yes, nobody can tell her how to mourn but It's not in her place to mourn him so publicly on her own. That's disrespectful to the wife. Plus it takes away the genuineness of her prayers and mourning. Clearly done for public show but unfortunately attracted a backlash. Don't people even give a second thought 🤔 to their actions anymore? What's happening with the invent of social media that people no longer think things through before pressing 🤳 that "upload" button? 🤨🤦
😅 If Clout was a Ruby...sorry an Actress. Let's even keep JP being a married man aside, who videos themselves while in deep mourning and praying for the soul of their departed loved friend??? Nwanyị a ekwenam zụzụọ ya aka ntị
Stop talking about JP not respecting the wife.Go and watch multiple videos of the 3 of them together laughing.Why wasn’t it a problem then?Ruby is crying her friend let her be she’s not disrespecting anyone…JP’s wife is also crying her husband.you people should stop being dramatic for no dam reason
She's 39years old and not 29years old at all, i could remember when she danced for Akanchawa music and other oldest music when i just got married in 2005. I heard She's from Mbaise but if she's from Mbano so be it.
When you talk to your husband and he is adamant. There's a need to approach the girl not with violence. Be matured in handling the girl. But when the two of them are adamant, then you are free to take any decision putting your kids in the picture. So it will not affect them badly. Shalom
People can be best friends, but if one is married, there should be a limit to how close they can be. I didn't know she was an idol worshiper hoo. Bowing down to a statue that can't move, talk or hear.😢
It’s her best friend we are talking about, this is the last drama she can pull on his behalf so people should let her be. Remember she is an actress so she has right to pull drama stunt on her late friend, after all they both pulled drama stunt together when JP was alive. Moving on 🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️
That's like a person being vegetarian then you catch them eating meat one day and you start yelling at the steak.... How??? Women, your problem is your wandering eye having husband. He lacks respect for you and the union.
The side chicks are not blameless because it takes two to tangle. As a single girl, once you ask me out I ask your status and you say “married “ that is the end of our discussion. When I was 25, I met a 27yrs guy, never suspected he was married, I got involved with him but the day the wife called me on phone to ask if her husband was with me that he had not returned home, that day I ended the relationship because I didn’t like to be in such side chick drama. Years later I heard the marriage ended because he continued in his escapades to the destruction of his marriage, but I was glad I wasn’t the cause. So yes the side chicks are not blameless but the man has the major issue. It is however worthy of note to mention that in some cases, it is the women that go after the men, but if that be the case, if the wife interferes the man will be very remorseful and will not go ahead to continue with such because for him it was a mistake, a temptation he fell into, not a character or lifestyle
Nawa thing dey happen, protest for sidechic some men are at fault and some girls are at fault, Ruby she choose that way to morun her dead friend JP so let's leave her and her God
Men are not handbags that can be snatched. If a man doesn't approach a woman she will not be in a relationship. Some men will lie that they are not married. Some women also knows that the man is married yet she will still go into a relationship with him. The problem is that the society in which we live in is now rotten beyond repair with women wearing shorts or should I call it inner wear to the market. Tight that women wear as inner wear has turned to market wears. Even the married ones do the same exposing all the lumps on their buttocks. I am sick and tired of this generation. Side chicking will not stop until we begin to do the right thing. There's too much immorality this days. Everyone has a share in what is happening now. Women, this is not a physical battle. If you make noise the man can send you away and marry his side chic. He doesn't know what he's doing. Stop competing with single ladies in the way they dress, that will not stop your husband from cheating if he wants to. Prayerfully guard your home and make sure you have something doing in case of anything. I pray that God will help our men to understand the pain they are causing their wives by cheating on them. Women always prepare your mind for anything in this life. God bless us
A broken heart will not even remember to touch phone 📱 when I lost my sis.. I did not even remember my phone for one month. 😢 because I could not look at her pictures. I had so my on my phone chai. But God came through for me 😇
I know of a lady who was dating a married man but later on got married and was saying if any woman is caught beside my husband, I will deal with her. Some of these women have dated married men before. Women, let's take care of our homes and forget about side chicks.. Jr pop was like a brother to Ruby. I am married but my best was a married man. My husband nor his wife never suspected us.
Neze ❤ Neze 👍😁, "Tanx for always sharing educating stories ......."YES, those wome (side chicks )are nt saint oo, because some of them are once married & they know ow crazy some men are yet they choose to believe thier lies just bcus of Ateenuuuu 😂 free stipends......infact most of dem actually instigate d husband against his wife .....some even go to extent of harming d wife/destroy d marriage just to have thier way in........Such women are marriage /women greatest enemies, they can never be trusted "Things happens , may d lord continue to protect our homes 🙏
I believe in Friendship between men and women. I am a living proof of that. My best friend girlfriend is very jealous, so there are many things I stopped altogether when they started dating. Improvised Hanging out, no calls late at night, even the behavior when we are together changed. We had a discussion him and I about it and I told him why things needed to improve and change and why he needed to consider his girlfriend feelings. We are not friend her and I, but there is some curtesy and no animosity. But that’s me and my Bestfriend. Everybody is different.
Hello beautiful Neze, with the impeccable narrative skills!... In my opinion, the most important question is 'Who is the chaser'? On the one hand, if the lady admirer is, then it will make sense for a wife to fight for her husband. On the other hand, If the husband is, the wife can inquire about his reasons for engaging in something so shameful, for the sake of trying to see if the situation can be remedied.. In the case where the husband is the chaser, it's usually pointless fighting any side chic. Like seriously, how many can you fight? How many do you even know of? Fighting side chics drains everything in you. Rather than fight, aim to develop yourself, shower your attention on other important things in your life, and make a decision to stay and cope or to not. #my2cents
I’d rather leave than fight and embarrass myself for a man who would disrespect me and push me to this extent…. It’s painful but the truth remains that these men have the keys to disrespect to their wives. Really sad
Is wrong for a woman to go fight her husband side chick. Cos she is bringing more disrespect to herself. Why going dat low to fight for her husband dat knows what he is doing. If the side chick can be approach ket the married woman approach her and instruct herself to d side chick as the man wife cos sometimes some of these side chick don't know d man is married but while approaching her and she start insulting u d wife. Walk away. I'm not going to disrespect myself over a disrespect a man already given me.
@@coolislandbreeze9906 your opinion. I'm sure you have not had your mum called on the phone by a side chick to insult and mock her,or have your father say he doesn't have money but sight his car at a hotel,blame the man all you want,the said side witch is as guilty to for knowing he is married but choose to stick with him, some even wish the main wife death..God knows I won't fight over a man like this but if a side witch trys what they did to my mum,I will make sure they run without seeing what's pursuing them.
@@trixwoman I’m sorry you and your mom went through such. But I still maintain it is the man’s responsibility to take care of his home be in control of his life in a way that gives no room for any outsider to disrespect his wife. He knows his responsibilities, is he so weak that he can be told not to full fill duties he vowed to attend to . Until women hold men responsible instead of attacking side chick it will continue to be the story.
@@trixwoman The man has the obligation to his wife and family the side chick share no such bond. As a woman I can with my full chest say if my husband dishonors his vows my issues would never be the other woman. It would be between he and I. After all if it wasn’t her it just be next her(you get). So my issue therefore would be with my man. While a side chick does leave a moral bad taste in the mouth of society they exist only because and when men don’t honor their vows and commitments.
If a man respects his wife he will not get involved in this kind of friendship. A friend of a husband should be a friend of the family and vice versa and both parties must know when not to cross the line. After they will tell you " it was on set". Take your time and look at some married responsible actors you see how they handle their roles without disrespecting their spouses.
I told a friend during that period when Pope kpai that I don't trust Ruby and Pope. I don't believe it is just friendship. There is definitely more to it.
JP and Ruby will always be my favorite to the end I love them both JP is just someone that I watched in movies he's also one of my favorite actor and i felt as if i lost a brother and a friend so I can understand what Ruby is going through😭😭💔💔💯💯🙏🏽🙏🏽 as a fan of JP we are still looking for justice🤛🏽🤛🏽 there will be no peace for the wicked 🔥🔥
If a young widow with kids, going out with a married man is she a husband snatcher? Pls I need answer.
Lol are you for real? What are you even asking smh
Once the man is married there is no justification.
No!
sis pls leave that man for his wife n kids
❤@@naaafi7994
Husbands are not infants
Husbands are adult men
Husbands are intentional
Husbands make decisions
Husbands are not snatchable 😂
Husbands wake up, dress up, drive (or walk), undress themselves and cheat. lol
It’s a decision they make.
Wives must take that information that the husbands have given them and choose what they will do with the information. Yes, side chicks are complicit, but in my opinion, you don’t even have to confront either husband or side chick, you just have to make a DECISION
@@thewomenlatelyshow1816
How many time can I like your post . Rightly said
🎉🎉
Being a best friend with a married man is complete bullshit
Big time
You know you are lying right?
That's not a lie, a word is enough for the wise. How can a lady be best friends with someone else's husband? Sin breeds in secret.@@nnamdichilakakingsleyibekw9177
Say that again
Yes, bulshit
I don’t fight for men. If a man truly loves you he will adore and respect you. You don’t blame side chicks because most time they have been lied too. A husband can go far to say the wife is late or separated. Or he has no peace at home or in the process of getting divorce. If you fight the side chicks, he can get another. The best thing is to confront your husband and explain why what he is doing hurts you. If he refuse to change my dear, be alive for yourself, your children and your love ones. A lot of wife has died for this course, at the end the husband life continues. Nne no die for any husband ooo
I blame the woman, no matter what if a man is married he is married but most women like that do not care if the man is married or not .
This mentality is what has made many people separated or divorced and later regret....what will you say to those who be using anything and everything to get your "rich" husband....i will fight for my legal husband so that when i leave that marriage i will be justified
❤🎉You have spoken well, really!! The only fighting one can actually do, is on your knees, in prayers if you so desire.. Every other fight will end in futility, and a sheer waste of energy that should have been put into something better!
You spoke well. However, I do not agree that most times the women were lied to, I would rather say “sometimes the women are lied to” . These days it is the women that actively do the chasing, and there is a trend happening now where young girls prefer a married man for whatever reasons. So yes it’s okay to confront your man but it’s also ok to fight for him and give him a chance to repentance before calling it a quit
@lady-ibitoruojika705
"there is a trend happening now where young girls prefer a married man for whatever reasons. "
The trend didn't just start today o. It has existed for decades. Some 30 years ago when I was in the university, such arrangement was called "aristo". It is the "aristo" babes of that era that are now housewives complaining about philandering husbands now. They should keep their mouths shut. It is the chicken that has come home to roost.
It’s the men I blame in this situation. A lady won’t be a side chic to any man who’s not opening his arms to her.
Exactly
They both to blame because it takes two to tango. Us only blaming men it’s making these women very very comfortable, dangerous and disrespectful towards the wives.
Thank u, I concur.
@@lovegreen6679blame the man who took a vow not a lady that is either looking for husband or comfort and owns the wife no apologizes cos she didn’t take a vow with the woman.
Setting Boundaries is very very important in everything we do.
This same thing happened to me. When I lost my husband, a lady came to the Zoom meeting and was crying more than myself and said she had lost her best friend. We are living in the same town, but my husband never told me he had a female best friend. After his burial, I decided to scan his phone. OMG, what met my eyes was unbelievable. It turned out it was my husband sidechick. So, I would not be surprised if Ruby turned out to be Junior Pope's second wife/ sidechick. But you know what our God is a faithful God.
Sorry for the lost but all men can't be same....The world has turned into something else that we don't even know good people and good relationships do exist.
Jinior Pope's case with Ruby is different from your story. The wife of Jinior Pope knew about Ruby's friendship with her husband but your husband hide his because he was purely cheating on you with the lady.
No woman can snatch a man who doesn't want to be snatched...when ur man TRULY LOVES YOU HE WILL NEVER CHEAT ON YOU BCZ HE DOESN'T WANT TO HURT YOU ON PURPOSE
It's insensitive and disrespectful of her to act like this, knowing he was married!
@@fonkielizabeth3110
The only person being insensitive and disrespectful is the husband. He is the one breaking commitment. Side chick has no commitment to the wife.
Sooooooo disrespectful
@@coolislandbreeze9906how is a dead man insensitive.
@@obinmaparis3522
And who is speaking of a dead was not referring Ruby or Jr person. I am speaking of a very alive man with a side chick situation.
As a married woman I'm deeply embarrassed!!😢
Such husband is not yet born. I cannot fight for anyone. I walk away. Men should be fighting for me.
As for Ruby I didn't know what is going on with her, she needs bereavement therapy. He may have been a good friend to her but this is getting out of hand.
A heart broken person will not remember to video!
True!
Thank you! 👏🏽
Totally agree with you 💯
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I totally agree
If a man respects and loves you he will not have a side chick. Simple. ❤❤
And that’s on periodt 📌
Rubby, being a best friend to a married man is out of it. Since JP died, how many times has Rubby visited his wife and children? Because you truly love someone, you will definitely love everyone around him. She is just chasing clout.
Bestfriend in bed
visite for what?
Was it a must for her visit her..people surely i thought judgement was in heaven even here on this planet you judge?
If she truly junior POP bestie, she supposed to be very close to his family especially now that Junior is dead.
That Rubby has not said what is worrying her yet nonsense and senseless human being posting all manner of video to upset the wife or what?
U will not visit ur friend wife if ur friend die? How do love ur friend and not visit his family when he or she pass?
If the wife allowed this nonsense while the husband was alive, who are we? What is our own?
Exactly my thought
Toor
Abi o. Exactly! Help me ask them fa.
Thank you
Exactly right
Neze, blessed morning, i think Rubby and JP were just best of friends.
You see, that's the issue right there. There's no way the world can be convinced, & that's why single ladies shouldn't be close enough to married men that would make people question the relationship.
Only 4 people know what existed between them, Ruby, the late Jr Pope, God & the devil!
Others can only speculate.
Being best friends with a married man but you’re not friends with his wife is just wrong, how do you mourn someone’s husband like your own
Exactly why do you both marry then
I saw few pictures of Ruby and JP wife, even celebrated with JP wife on her birthday 🎂 I can never believe that Ruby had something with him apart from friendship
That means you don’t know who ruby is,she is even closer to his wife
Let's not chase shadows please. Let's keep it real biko nu 🙏
Same thing Judy Austin did...movies movies....las las 2nd wife
Firstly, you are looking gorgeous. Ruby and Late JP were close, no doubt. But for someone who is mourning, moving with camera to video her actions and then going ahead to post it is pure clout esp the video of going to church to pray. The camera person was very deliberate with his course.
Lastly, those women revolting are simply embarrassing themselves. Sometimes, it's the men who doesn't want the sidechicks to leave. The women should go home to their husbands to confront them and if the seat is too hot, they should vacate. Instead of coming outside to create a nuisance, they should get some dignity and self worth
I don't understand o
Always remember it takes two to tango... No cheating hubbies No side chicks.
No side chicks no cheating men
@@elimukwadada I absolutely agree with you. The men were not exonerated in my comment. They're equally guilty.
I broke my leg running to this notification 🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️.
Well...no woman should be besties with a married man and vice versa especially when it disrespects the married woman.
How can you be jumping on a married man like that. Even my twin bro, i will have boundaries especially when he is married.
Judy abi Ruby.
As for the snatchers e reach to post them. First talk to yr husband. Second bothbof them. We know that some of these girls are desperate for marriage. Some use charms. It's easy for people to say "talk to ur man"
Some side chicks dont know. So talk to them. But u see the side chixks that say "go talk to ur husband " those ones de use kayamata
😂😂😂 you are so funny, your first statement makes me laugh and the other one is Judy or Ruby. God bless you real good thanks
Make married woman Sidon o, don’t go and fight side chick, try and make money, take care of your children and take VERY GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF too ABEGI
In my opinion, In this era, fighting because of a promiscuous man is a NO NO. Face your husband. Let’s not forget in some country marrying one wife is against their law.
Neze, you're looking radiant in yellow 💛. I'm loving this look. Fantastic delivery as usual. I give it to you 👏
Honestly you are the best story teller 😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
Indeed she is
I think Ruby and Jnr Pope had a special friendship. She obviously does not know how to handle her pain which is not publicly acknowlegded because she is not his wife or sister.
nobody says she should not mourn but videoing and posting these are the problem.
@@iheomanwakpadolu2576 special friendship? oh you are right hummmm.
So true, disenfranchised grief
@@iheomanwakpadolu2576
She's just showing off and creating content...
True! I lost an uncle whom I saw as a father and grew up with. I was literally dying inside, but no one could understand because I wasn't his wife or his biological child. To date, I am hurt that I was not given the chance to write in his obseques. I had a special relationship with my uncle down to secret bank accounts only both of us knew. I suffered migraines for months because I couldn't express how much I was hurting because no one would understand.
Neze, u really know how to do this thing. Thank u so so much for ur endless n tireless work..
Neze thank you for this video. I saw a controversial video where rubby was publicly mourning a supposed best friend and I saw over 80 comments supporting and telling her to take heart. I couldn't comment because it seemed i was all alone thinking differently. I keep wondering how people mourn and video themselves. Secondly, who are those people paying condolences to a bestie in such manners? Thirdly, how do married people cope with besties besides their spouses? I have so many questions o my people. I will blame Jps wife here. How did she manage to cope with a very good colleague of her husband who throws everything at the husband uncensored!!! I cannot trust anything or anybody to that extent....if you must rub anything off on him, better don't let me have a glimps of it because if you do a video for me to see, then it becomes a personal fight which must begin with the husband. Ruby may actually not have anything hidden to do with JP but she should tune down the videos.
Can a lady who is married have a best friend and behave the same way Ruby and pope acting that close ,please ,and be bold to say that he us my best friend ,The man wont take it likely,. There's nothing wrong having friends outside marrisge ,we all have class mates etc before marriage, however there should be healthy respectful boundaries.Shalom
Dem no born woman make she try am.
This is giving side chick vibes. Or someone who was in love with him.
I wander how ppl will be crying and say they are sad and still go take phone themselves.😮 hshha
It has never made any sense to me
This world has gone completely bonkers...stay focused on God biko because insane things are going on here and there - God have Mercy!
In my analysis, I see a case of "married to one woman, but madly in love with another"
God bless his soul.
After death, life goes on, may our husbands recieve sense in the mighty name of Jesus.
Pope can never cheat on his wife. He's a lovely person and have good morals
He has been rumoured to cheat on his wife many times 😂
@@FoAl-h2b it's only rumor. I blame Ruby for content creating unnecessary things. Pope can never cheat on his wife. If you know that guy you won't believe any lies they're saying on social media
Say that loud
Dey play
@@uchemark9610 he's not like you
How can a man be snatched when he’s not an object 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@@GracefulKnots
Exactly he is a grown ass man
@@coolislandbreeze9906 honestly people need to look up the meaning of “snatched” 😀
Making contact and threatening the woman can be taken as harrassment and is punishable by law
I think she was secretly in love with him but could not admit it due to him being married.
It's obvious for all with eyes to see.
This is a matter of common sense. 🤨😏. Ruby Orjiakor went too far. She may have been honest good/best friends with Jr Pope and yes, nobody can tell her how to mourn but It's not in her place to mourn him so publicly on her own. That's disrespectful to the wife. Plus it takes away the genuineness of her prayers and mourning. Clearly done for public show but unfortunately attracted a backlash. Don't people even give a second thought 🤔 to their actions anymore? What's happening with the invent of social media that people no longer think things through before pressing 🤳 that "upload" button? 🤨🤦
The man should be blamed, and if you must shame the shame, both of them should be shamed.
The height of shamelessness. You're threatening to post women's pictures but not speaking to your husband who made a vow to be faithful to you.
Are you a side chick😂
@@frimpong9101 No, I would never be with someone who cannot be trusted or loyal to their partner. But thanks for asking.
lol women have become friends with wives to get access to husbands
@@frimpong9101😂😂😂
@@sariat2307
Totally agree
This is the most reality and funny video I have ever watched. I watched it three times just to enjoy myself with a laugh 😂😂😂😂
😅 If Clout was a Ruby...sorry an Actress.
Let's even keep JP being a married man aside, who videos themselves while in deep mourning and praying for the soul of their departed loved friend??? Nwanyị a ekwenam zụzụọ ya aka ntị
She didn't respect the man's wife
The man didnt set that boundary for her to respect her..
No. It's the man that did not respect the one he should be committed to
Stop talking about JP not respecting the wife.Go and watch multiple videos of the 3 of them together laughing.Why wasn’t it a problem then?Ruby is crying her friend let her be she’s not disrespecting anyone…JP’s wife is also crying her husband.you people should stop being dramatic for no dam reason
From Cameroon 🇨🇲 I think she is going about it the wrong way...she needs to give this man's wife some respect.
No 1 golden rule... Love yourself first❤
People mourn differently. May Jr Pope rest in peace. May God protect his parents, children, wife etc.
No way a man who respects his wife will be this close with another woman, They can be friends but the closeness surely ,even her she has no manners
There's no way in hell Ruby is 29! Somebody who was already grown acting on movie sets as far back as 2010🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 abeg
Oooh my goodness. A banner of side chick😂😂😂 .We have not seen this before oooo. Where my Ghanaian 🇬🇭 brothers and sisters dey😂😂😂😂
Rotflmao!!!!
I think she just missing the fun and being together nothing more about that.
Exactly
The man is to blame not the side chick.
She's 39years old and not 29years old at all, i could remember when she danced for Akanchawa music and other oldest music when i just got married in 2005. I heard She's from Mbaise but if she's from Mbano so be it.
Ruby is from mbano
Neze Neze Neze, u something else ooo, See me laughing from corner to corner of my mouth ❤
When you talk to your husband and he is adamant. There's a need to approach the girl not with violence. Be matured in handling the girl. But when the two of them are adamant, then you are free to take any decision putting your kids in the picture. So it will not affect them badly. Shalom
People can be best friends, but if one is married, there should be a limit to how close they can be.
I didn't know she was an idol worshiper hoo. Bowing down to a statue that can't move, talk or hear.😢
Madam Neze the story teller... 🥰🥰🥰
I love your channel.
It’s her best friend we are talking about, this is the last drama she can pull on his behalf so people should let her be. Remember she is an actress so she has right to pull drama stunt on her late friend, after all they both pulled drama stunt together when JP was alive.
Moving on 🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️
You're right. I hope you'd be this understanding as a boyfriend and a husband.
hi Neze....thanx for the updates
Limits and boundaries
Respect for the wife equates respect for the late, unless he himself gave the right to cross boundaries
Theyre clearly sleeping together. Even a blind person can see that
That's like a person being vegetarian then you catch them eating meat one day and you start yelling at the steak.... How??? Women, your problem is your wandering eye having husband. He lacks respect for you and the union.
This narrative off me 😂😂😂😂😂 but 💯 👌🏾
@@ellenotah7292 lmao!!
This is the best way to put it 😂
@@sass_designs it's how I heard it... 🤣
But I think is just from a pure heart
No more husband snatching took me out😂
😂😂😂
They where indeed close. No close friend of my husband is allowed to jump on him like that nah,there has to be boundaries
Truly a case of crying more than the bereaved 😂😂
Some friends can be closer to you than your spouse sha
The side chicks are not blameless because it takes two to tangle. As a single girl, once you ask me out I ask your status and you say “married “ that is the end of our discussion. When I was 25, I met a 27yrs guy, never suspected he was married, I got involved with him but the day the wife called me on phone to ask if her husband was with me that he had not returned home, that day I ended the relationship because I didn’t like to be in such side chick drama. Years later I heard the marriage ended because he continued in his escapades to the destruction of his marriage, but I was glad I wasn’t the cause. So yes the side chicks are not blameless but the man has the major issue. It is however worthy of note to mention that in some cases, it is the women that go after the men, but if that be the case, if the wife interferes the man will be very remorseful and will not go ahead to continue with such because for him it was a mistake, a temptation he fell into, not a character or lifestyle
The anger should all be blown up to the man. He is the one who asked her out. Talk to her woman to woman.
Nawa thing dey happen, protest for sidechic some men are at fault and some girls are at fault, Ruby she choose that way to morun her dead friend JP so let's leave her and her God
If your husband doesn't respect you, there's nothing you can do. You have no business with the shameles side chick.
Men are not handbags that can be snatched. If a man doesn't approach a woman she will not be in a relationship. Some men will lie that they are not married. Some women also knows that the man is married yet she will still go into a relationship with him. The problem is that the society in which we live in is now rotten beyond repair with women wearing shorts or should I call it inner wear to the market. Tight that women wear as inner wear has turned to market wears. Even the married ones do the same exposing all the lumps on their buttocks. I am sick and tired of this generation. Side chicking will not stop until we begin to do the right thing. There's too much immorality this days. Everyone has a share in what is happening now. Women, this is not a physical battle. If you make noise the man can send you away and marry his side chic. He doesn't know what he's doing. Stop competing with single ladies in the way they dress, that will not stop your husband from cheating if he wants to. Prayerfully guard your home and make sure you have something doing in case of anything. I pray that God will help our men to understand the pain they are causing their wives by cheating on them. Women always prepare your mind for anything in this life. God bless us
A broken heart will not even remember to touch phone 📱 when I lost my sis.. I did not even remember my phone for one month. 😢 because I could not look at her pictures. I had so my on my phone chai. But God came through for me 😇
It was more than a friend. Something deeper than what people think about them.
I know of a lady who was dating a married man but later on got married and was saying if any woman is caught beside my husband, I will deal with her. Some of these women have dated married men before. Women, let's take care of our homes and forget about side chicks.. Jr pop was like a brother to Ruby. I am married but my best was a married man. My husband nor his wife never suspected us.
Neze ❤ Neze 👍😁, "Tanx for always sharing educating stories ......."YES, those wome (side chicks )are nt saint oo, because some of them are once married & they know ow crazy some men are yet they choose to believe thier lies just bcus of Ateenuuuu 😂 free stipends......infact most of dem actually instigate d husband against his wife .....some even go to extent of harming d wife/destroy d marriage just to have thier way in........Such women are marriage /women greatest enemies, they can never be trusted "Things happens , may d lord continue to protect our homes 🙏
Neze! Your braids are braiding ❤
I thought the video with a friend spraying her money was her birthday.
Ruby crossed the line honestly
She needs to be tutored about privacy..,,,,and to keep her ring light afar
I believe in Friendship between men and women. I am a living proof of that. My best friend girlfriend is very jealous, so there are many things I stopped altogether when they started dating. Improvised Hanging out, no calls late at night, even the behavior when we are together changed. We had a discussion him and I about it and I told him why things needed to improve and change and why he needed to consider his girlfriend feelings. We are not friend her and I, but there is some curtesy and no animosity. But that’s me and my Bestfriend. Everybody is different.
As for me, if the side c don't know that he is married then Blame him but if she is aware then she get what she is looking for
Hello beautiful Neze, with the impeccable narrative skills!...
In my opinion, the most important question is 'Who is the chaser'? On the one hand, if the lady admirer is, then it will make sense for a wife to fight for her husband. On the other hand, If the husband is, the wife can inquire about his reasons for engaging in something so shameful, for the sake of trying to see if the situation can be remedied.. In the case where the husband is the chaser, it's usually pointless fighting any side chic. Like seriously, how many can you fight? How many do you even know of? Fighting side chics drains everything in you. Rather than fight, aim to develop yourself, shower your attention on other important things in your life, and make a decision to stay and cope or to not. #my2cents
I’d rather leave than fight and embarrass myself for a man who would disrespect me and push me to this extent…. It’s painful but the truth remains that these men have the keys to disrespect to their wives.
Really sad
He didn't establish any boundaries, so what do we now expect. 😮🤔
Is wrong for a woman to go fight her husband side chick. Cos she is bringing more disrespect to herself. Why going dat low to fight for her husband dat knows what he is doing. If the side chick can be approach ket the married woman approach her and instruct herself to d side chick as the man wife cos sometimes some of these side chick don't know d man is married but while approaching her and she start insulting u d wife. Walk away. I'm not going to disrespect myself over a disrespect a man already given me.
If you're crying when you have a law that can protect you, sisters come to UGANDA 🇺🇬🇺🇬 where where adultery is not a crime you will be shocked ooo
If you have been denied your school fees cause of a woman outside 😢you would understand what wifes go through.
@@trixwoman
No because of the woman outside but because the husband don’t care enough to fulfill his obligations. He is a grown ass man not a child
@@coolislandbreeze9906 your opinion.
I'm sure you have not had your mum called on the phone by a side chick to insult and mock her,or have your father say he doesn't have money but sight his car at a hotel,blame the man all you want,the said side witch is as guilty to for knowing he is married but choose to stick with him, some even wish the main wife death..God knows I won't fight over a man like this but if a side witch trys what they did to my mum,I will make sure they run without seeing what's pursuing them.
@@trixwoman
I’m sorry you and your mom went through such. But I still maintain it is the man’s responsibility to take care of his home be in control of his life in a way that gives no room for any outsider to disrespect his wife. He knows his responsibilities, is he so weak that he can be told not to full fill duties he vowed to attend to . Until women hold men responsible instead of attacking side chick it will continue to be the story.
@@coolislandbreeze9906 like I said blame just the man all you want,if a side chick says No we won't be here.
@@trixwoman
The man has the obligation to his wife and family the side chick share no such bond. As a woman I can with my full chest say if my husband dishonors his vows my issues would never be the other woman. It would be between he and I. After all if it wasn’t her it just be next her(you get). So my issue therefore would be with my man. While a side chick does leave a moral bad taste in the mouth of society they exist only because and when men don’t honor their vows and commitments.
No man can be snatched..he aint a baby..he willingly goes to the other woman..underline..willingly...
God please separate your people from trouble of cheating partner in Jesus mighty name Amen 🙏
Misplaced priorities. The women should call their husbands to order if they can.
Yes, it is the man that should be confronted. She should hold a serious meeting with her husband.
Another one that has been mourning JP as a lover is Eve Esin. I found her posts and pictures so disturbing
I, a Kenyan, was just chilling 😂😅
No more husband snatching. Those women are tired, chasing their husband up and down 😂😂😂
If a man respects his wife he will not get involved in this kind of friendship. A friend of a husband should be a friend of the family and vice versa and both parties must know when not to cross the line.
After they will tell you " it was on set".
Take your time and look at some married responsible actors you see how they handle their roles without disrespecting their spouses.
Did she say 29 years old or I didn’t hear her clearly
Am suprise too I don’t think we heard her right
@@natnatty3036 my dear I tire oooo!! This one na soccer age lol 😅😂😂😂😂😂
Ruby is doing too much. She is not d widow that's disrespect to the late Jr Pope and d widow.
Kenya's GenZ to the world 😂❤🇰🇪
Thank you for looking out for us🤣🤣 they literally matched to the market 💀
I told a friend during that period when Pope kpai that I don't trust Ruby and Pope. I don't believe it is just friendship. There is definitely more to it.
She threw caution to the wind no matter.
I think the husband is one to problem 100%😢
Yes
Well spoken, sis
JP and Ruby will always be my favorite to the end I love them both JP is just someone that I watched in movies he's also one of my favorite actor and i felt as if i lost a brother and a friend so I can understand what Ruby is going through😭😭💔💔💯💯🙏🏽🙏🏽 as a fan of JP we are still looking for justice🤛🏽🤛🏽 there will be no peace for the wicked 🔥🔥
Ruby is not 29 please. I remember her early days of acting. She is Angela okorie and mercy Johnson’s set.