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  • @the._.elemental90999
    @the._.elemental90999 3 роки тому +545

    My mom was a neurotypical and my father was a diagnosed psychopath. When people hear this, they assume I hate my father and they think he's abusive but I hate my mom because she's the one that left after years of being cruel to me. My father was the one who stayed and fought his disorder to be a good parent to me. Don't judge someone based on what is wrong with them, judge someone based on what they do about it.

    • @purityebere4081
      @purityebere4081 3 роки тому +11

      I can totally relate ❤

    • @LightYagami-iv2vo
      @LightYagami-iv2vo 3 роки тому +20

      I am so sorry you had to go through this 😔 stay strong. Wishing you all luck and support

    • @Charlie-yq8hu
      @Charlie-yq8hu 3 роки тому +17

      My father had antisocial behavural syndrome (sociopathy)
      I hope youre happy niw

    • @nayla4838
      @nayla4838 2 роки тому +5

      That's really brave of your Dad 😭💗

    • @TheOfficialDirtyDan
      @TheOfficialDirtyDan 2 роки тому +4

      Props to your dad for trying to stop, I hope you and him are okay. 💕

  • @chansprotector
    @chansprotector 3 роки тому +350

    i rarely see damon here so thank you for putting him in. he was an abused child as well and that is not shown enough.

  • @nbhd_deadpoet
    @nbhd_deadpoet 3 роки тому +224

    i started sobbing when dean and mary came up but when BOBBY came up, I died

  • @FatherlessDog
    @FatherlessDog 2 роки тому +33

    Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child

  • @rhx_ary
    @rhx_ary 3 роки тому +50

    Dean's 'I never was' always hurts

  • @sophianash6097
    @sophianash6097 3 роки тому +80

    I'm so glad someone finally put Mickey Milkovich in one of these edits. The Gallaghers are always in them but never Mickey and idek why

  • @hayleesmith6724
    @hayleesmith6724 2 роки тому +48

    Dean…Where do I start? He wanted a normal life…But he had to be a Father, A Mother, to keep Sammy safe…And Bobby, man Bobby…He was the best father to Sam and Dean when he didn’t have a good father himself

    • @oliviavance5154
      @oliviavance5154 11 місяців тому

      what episode was it dean and mary in this video

  • @maria-um4uq
    @maria-um4uq 4 роки тому +87

    DEAN WINCHESTER

  • @tararosx
    @tararosx 3 роки тому +147

    I wish my dad would've left instead of putting me and my siblings through hell... with my mom

    • @Flowerrr101
      @Flowerrr101 3 роки тому +12

      Same. If only he wasn't in our lives, we would have ended up like normal beings instead of dysfunctional, emotional, broken human beings with anger issues.

    • @loverofalondonboy9146
      @loverofalondonboy9146 3 роки тому +3

      Me too

    • @zoi9237
      @zoi9237 2 роки тому +1

      Same :(

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      Sorry to hear that.I hope you are doing well now. Plz be safe and stay strong.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      Sorry to hear that.I hope you are doing well now. Plz be safe and stay strong.

  • @ArizonaAngelEyes
    @ArizonaAngelEyes 3 роки тому +148

    Damn it! I thought I could watch this without crying but then it opened up with Dean and Mary...

  • @alex-vl3bg
    @alex-vl3bg 3 роки тому +48

    Dean and Bobby both made me cry....

  • @ItsurfavArrow
    @ItsurfavArrow 2 роки тому +37

    My mom emotionally and mentally abuses me and my sister to the point where I almost killed myself after my brother did. Sometimes present parents are worse than absent ones

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      I hope you are doing well now. Stay Strong

    • @nursemercy5676
      @nursemercy5676 Рік тому +1

      True.....true.....my mom is so manipulative. She bullies me with her words to the point that I'm crying. I try so hard to get her approval and listen to her despite having my own opinions to the point that I don't even know how to file my own taxes without fearing her disapproval.
      I've tried so hard to try to make our mother daughter relationship work so history won't repeat itself with her and my grandma, but I can't do it anymore. After a while, you just stop caring what they think

  • @astroodante
    @astroodante 2 роки тому +11

    i've never seen bobby in one of these, thank you. spn characters have so much trauma it's- overwhelming

  • @shreyagnadig7759
    @shreyagnadig7759 3 роки тому +45

    I just dont hate mary for joining the men of letters, i dont like her because she remembered the deal with Azazel and yet had two childern

  • @seanperks2702
    @seanperks2702 2 роки тому +8

    The older i get the more i realise how fucked my childhood really was. Toxic atmospheres, getting blamed for my parents arguing, getting pinned down or dragged by the back of my neck (granted i was a little shit) the constant "im such a bad mother" comments to this day.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому +1

      Hope you are doing well now. plz be safe and stay strong.

    • @seanperks2702
      @seanperks2702 Рік тому

      @@fangirlackles i can't say im doing well or that im better but im slowly processing it

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      @@seanperks2702 I hope everything goes well for you and u heal fast and be happy :)

  • @adriennemcdonnell9354
    @adriennemcdonnell9354 3 роки тому +36

    I was so confident I could get through this without crying, but my bby Arthur came on and I couldn’t keep it together

  • @masonjarr6369
    @masonjarr6369 4 роки тому +49

    My baby Damon🥺

  • @girlartist1105
    @girlartist1105 3 роки тому +22

    the description is almost as long as i would cry after my "parents" neglected and abused me

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      i hope you are doing well now. plz be safe and stay strong.

  • @nataliawashington872
    @nataliawashington872 3 роки тому +13

    Bonnie’s Mom from The Vampire Diaries should be here, I’m still watching the show and honestly it feels like she doesn’t even want to try and establish a relationship between herself and Bonnie and just runs like a coward

  • @ImAdamSandler
    @ImAdamSandler 3 роки тому +25

    Dean came up and I was like there’s probably a high chance I’m not gonna make it though this with out crying but then.... Bobby and I was just like oh now there’s not way! AND THEN THE JOKER!! 🥲ahh

  • @edselflores9596
    @edselflores9596 3 роки тому +27

    A year later and still underrated

  • @Tk-qg4xc
    @Tk-qg4xc 3 роки тому +10

    Promise that we will better then our parents.

  • @nellabozhko6941
    @nellabozhko6941 2 роки тому +1

    Some kids are better off in the system than in an abusive home.

  • @momo7337
    @momo7337 3 роки тому +6

    "no more manipulation"

  • @batmenn
    @batmenn 3 роки тому +30

    I have reason to believe that my mom is toxic ..
    1): Always somehow putting the blame of everything on me. Her phone broke? Oh, I did it. She’s having a bad day? My bad, I’ll try to ask god to make it better. Her makeup ran out? My apologies!
    2): Yelling at me for no reason. (This is similar to the first one)
    3): Treating me like a therapist.
    4): Acting like I am invisible.
    5): Randomly saying that she’s disappointed in me. But when they’re not random it’s always for a stupid reason; You didn’t share your food? I am very disappointed with you. You didn’t go on your walk today, I am so disappointed in you.
    6): Always calling me a jerk, or bitch, because I don’t want her to sleep on me. Let me say that again, she’s always calling me a jerk, or bitch, because I don’t want her, to sleep on me.
    7): Blaming me for financial problems.
    8): Asking why I don’t love her anymore because I said I didn’t want to sit by her, for one night.
    9): She gave me trust issues, a fear of social interaction, a fear of being vulnerable, and a fear of small, enclosed spaces.
    10): She makes me cry. A lot.
    11): All her “I love you”’s don’t sound real or are only said in front of her friends.
    12): She always picks me up 1 hour after school ends because I “need practice with my patience”.
    13): She didn’t do anything about stepdad and his random urges to insult, threaten to hit, and yell at me and me only.
    14): She scares me.
    15:) I want to live at my father’s house, permanently, but I’m too afraid of telling him about my mother and stepdad, so I have to come back to her house every other week.
    16): She has never said “I am so proud of you”, or “You are so beautiful”, or “I will always be with you, no matter what, and no matter who you grow to be”.

    • @heavensent146
      @heavensent146 3 роки тому +3

      felt that , you're not alone

    • @BellA-gu7zd
      @BellA-gu7zd 3 роки тому +4

      I feel that. The only thing is that even tho I should hate them for it I can't because then I have no where to go or I just feel like I am being a little bitch. I tried to kill myself and the most fucked up thing was that they blamed me for everything thing and told me I was being ungrateful...

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      i hope you are doing well now. plz be safe and stay strong.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      i'm sorry to hear that. plz be safe and take care of yourself.

  • @JuanRodriguez-qw9bd
    @JuanRodriguez-qw9bd 3 роки тому +3

    This makes me breakdown in tears cause it reminds me of my father

  • @rebekafatovic4666
    @rebekafatovic4666 2 роки тому +4

    my dad left me when i wasn't even born and im 17 years old and i feel empty and shallow like i was a burden but im trying too live without him but i sorrow my pain in alcohol cus i can't stand pain

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      Stay strong. plz be careful and take care of yourself

  • @alfr9752
    @alfr9752 2 роки тому +2

    My dad made so many memories then left with no explanation💔

  • @sheyannegorrill7768
    @sheyannegorrill7768 2 роки тому +2

    My mom always blames me for everything and all I want to do is leave and never come back

  • @kpop_lover7665
    @kpop_lover7665 3 місяці тому

    Mom, I always loved you, and I always will, but each night when I go to bed, I wish I never become just like you in anything… Each time we call, you make me cry, but I still love you because you’re my mom. I still love you even though you were never sympathetic to me. I feel sorry for myself, for my heart, for my childhood, for my peace, and the freedom I could have had. I just wish you could leave me alone rather than controlling me and giving me responsibilities that are much higher than a normal expectation… I wish you weren’t a narcissist at least after my father passed away… I always felt helpless, and I was parenting you all the time…I don’t know when I’ll get free from the traumas or even the things you are doing to me now…what hurts the most is that you’ll never understand…and I can never send this to you.

  • @shambhavimishra4503
    @shambhavimishra4503 4 роки тому +28

    mention the shows, please

  • @parishenry2570
    @parishenry2570 2 роки тому +6

    My mom treats my sister better than me, and do all kind of stuff which she calls parenting, but I swear that when I get older I'm going to therapy I'm not staying in this so called family no matter what

    • @nellabozhko6941
      @nellabozhko6941 2 роки тому +1

      That's not parenting. That's favoritism. It's not right to do that to a kid.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      i hope you are doing well now. plz be safe and stay strong.

  • @bree546
    @bree546 2 роки тому

    Am so glad that they all left mom dad and left me behind to survive on my own😭

  • @mkworld9172
    @mkworld9172 2 роки тому +5

    Alice Cooper wasn’t a bad parent she was just overly protective of Betty.

  • @my_girl_seraphine5294
    @my_girl_seraphine5294 Рік тому

    I grew up in a house as a disabled child with a alcoholic mother who wanted a daughter but she never ever wanted a disabled one. And I look just like my dad so that invited sexual and verbal abuse from her. My dad was an alcoholic too but he at least treated me like I was a real person, and when he left I wish he took me with him.

  • @prabhjotkaurxoxo
    @prabhjotkaurxoxo 3 роки тому +25

    My mom just told me that I am dead to her and she’s never trusting me ever and the fact that she believed some random girl over me hurts I love my mom I do but this hurts a lot like a lot and they all lost me the day they said these awful things to me

    • @shizuka6900
      @shizuka6900 3 роки тому +1

      Hey prabh... Stay strong 🤗 everything'll be ok

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому +1

      Sorry to hear that.I hope you are doing well now. Plz be safe and stay strong.

    • @prabhjotkaurxoxo
      @prabhjotkaurxoxo Рік тому

      @@fangirlackles 💗💗

  • @aysi6889
    @aysi6889 2 роки тому

    The saddest part is that I got them I understood what's characters have been throw cuz I'm like them

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      I hope you are doing well now. Stay Strong

  • @rachelburdick2078
    @rachelburdick2078 Рік тому

    I was never good enough for my dad he always made me feel not good enough well he loved my sister all the time and my mom never stood by me

  • @emelyumanzorrodriguez6487
    @emelyumanzorrodriguez6487 2 роки тому +2

    My mom abused me in all the types of abuse that exists and my dad neglected me for 11 years… I’m 13

    • @stevenattwood61
      @stevenattwood61 2 роки тому +1

      Stay strong 1 day all will be brighter

    • @samarasilva1749
      @samarasilva1749 Рік тому

      Sinto muito Emily.forçar garota . SAMARA , Brasil.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      I hope you are doing well now. Stay Strong

  • @advitiyasingh6573
    @advitiyasingh6573 Рік тому +1

    What is the name of movie/webseries at 01:00 ?

  • @borntovlog6804
    @borntovlog6804 2 роки тому +2

    When i was 2 years my father just dumpbed me and lefttt me..... I just hate dads......

  • @artgirl1339
    @artgirl1339 3 роки тому +2

    Came here for dean

  • @hedi6309
    @hedi6309 3 роки тому +3

    Can somebody please say these films?
    I really need to see them and cry

    • @strange........
      @strange........ 2 роки тому

      The ones I know are, The Vampire Diaries, Supernatural, Lucifer, Riverdale, Shameless, Prison Break, Peaky Blinders and Animal Kingdom.

  • @levid.2592
    @levid.2592 2 роки тому

    Why isn't Sarah from "My Sister's Keeper." On here?

  • @marcelleninakwa7007
    @marcelleninakwa7007 2 роки тому +1

    Where is Klaus in this edit 🤔

    • @strange........
      @strange........ 2 роки тому

      Klaus Mikealson or Klaus Hargreeves because I think that they should both be in this.

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/rc20L1JVUGE/v-deo.html here :)

  • @lea_jl
    @lea_jl Рік тому

    What series at 4:53 ? I really wanna know

  • @Anastasia-ro3oi
    @Anastasia-ro3oi 2 роки тому +1

    I have too much to even right I'm 12 and I've gone through so much I'm so tired

  • @rent5729
    @rent5729 3 роки тому +6

    (Spoilers for Billy’s story)
    Honestly remembering billy breaks my heart. He was a jerk in the show, but he had a reason. His father fed this stuff into his brain and treated him like absolute shit, of coarse he ended up like that. He deserved so much better. Killing him off made me so mad. The poor guy didn’t get a chance at a normal life and just- died.

  • @chitrashukla06
    @chitrashukla06 9 місяців тому

    Names of the dramas plz??

  • @OnlyAlyna
    @OnlyAlyna 4 роки тому +8

    Song?

  • @chitrashukla06
    @chitrashukla06 9 місяців тому

    4:57 which show ??

  • @yaliehaclayvon7480
    @yaliehaclayvon7480 3 роки тому +1

    What names are some of these shows they shouldn’t have to go through that 😥😭😢😥😭😢😥😭😢😞🙁☹️😩🥺😟😔😣

    • @strange........
      @strange........ 2 роки тому

      Are you asking for the names of the shows or did I misunderstand your comment?

  • @250vidhyagaonkar7
    @250vidhyagaonkar7 Рік тому

    Hey i don't know how to react after watching this becoz my parents are worse then this they never ever thought about me i was always cornered. My parents doesn't like me talking to boys secondly they are so strict that they don't give freedom even my phone comes busy while i m talking to my friends they are asking me y your phone is busy i don't know when ill go far from them sometimes it feels like i should leave and run away from house but at that time even if i run they will find me and kill me my father is a complete psycho he doesn't understand only us ....

  • @satanic_aries
    @satanic_aries 3 роки тому +3

    i wish i knew what movie or show was the one at 2:53

    • @elizagonzalez75
      @elizagonzalez75 3 роки тому

      Someone let us know pleaseeee

    • @daisysegura4321
      @daisysegura4321 3 роки тому +6

      Stranger things

    • @ashleyk7165
      @ashleyk7165 2 роки тому

      @@elizagonzalez75 stranger things

    • @lea_jl
      @lea_jl Рік тому

      ​@@elizagonzalez75 its billy from stranger things

  • @مطبخرهف-ض7ب
    @مطبخرهف-ض7ب 2 роки тому

    What is the music name

  • @projectdarktrooper2721
    @projectdarktrooper2721 2 роки тому

    3:44 what movie or show is this.

  • @rukentoprak8361
    @rukentoprak8361 2 роки тому

    What drama is the scene in 4.08

  • @ninagreen8228
    @ninagreen8228 2 роки тому

    abusive children grow up being broken adult and hurt people and some time abusive their kids

    • @fangirlackles
      @fangirlackles  Рік тому

      Our past will affect our future sometimes in a good way and sometimes...

  • @cameronelizabeth7665
    @cameronelizabeth7665 2 роки тому

    Jesus loves u!

  • @jinxxx_03
    @jinxxx_03 2 роки тому +1

    Song???

    • @strange........
      @strange........ 2 роки тому +1

      The song name is at the bottom of the description if you haven't found it already.