I hate that you’re going through that but as a former people pleaser, I know the strength it takes to finally stand up for yourself. I’m so proud of you!
@@dawnstanley7410 i remember watching Tiny and Toya miss Diane pretty much was it was so sad watching her taking care of Tiny Dad going through Alzheimer’s
Children mimic their parents. Tiny aint no saint, but I can see her mom's attitude about people has rubbed off on her. Just like Kandi is combative and stubborn like her mother. We really are our parent's children.
That's right Tamika, fight back! Don't let anyone scare you into not telling THE truth! Deal with them accordingly, spiritually, mentally, legally, & physically if you see fit! Ase! 💯
Yes I can feel it in her spirit…. 5 minutes in that she’s over it, and for the nerve of Tosha to asked for her to apologize … 😢 Wow The ultimate betrayal,
Your right sweetie, YOUR NOT THE ONE THATS WRONG!!!! GOD SAID, WHAT YOU DO UNTO UNTO THE LEAST OF THESE YOU DO ALSO UNTO ME, HE'S TALKING ABOUT HIS CHILDREN AND HE'S A JEALOUS GOD WHEN IT COMES TO HIS KIDS.......KINGDOM BLESSINGS TAMIKA SCOTT❤🙏🏾
Tamika, Kandi, and Tiny needs to continue as a group. Rebrand the Xscape brand and keep touring with the three of you. The chemistry amongst the three of you guys is true sisterhood and love and we need that! Prayers for Tiny, Kandi, and Tamika’s peace, sanity and energy. Keep winning! ❤
From the news that dropped today Todd and Kandi is suing and it said that they officially dropped her from the group. I hope that when her and Tameka make up that she won’t allow Lotocha to manipulate her into convincing Tiny and Kandi to allowing her to rejoin the group. I’m sure that the sisters will be back on good terms. But I personally do not want Lotocha back in the group this group has been in the media since the 90s with having problems and it seems like they are at peace and they all truly love and enjoy each other as three. I’m sick of hearing about Lotocha . So I’m happy to hear about them casting her out. Now she’s about to look dumb do Wendy’s gospel promotions. And I hope that the label drop her due to these legal allegations. Plus if that music suffer they are going to drop her anyway because they would see that she is no good for business
What I love about Tamika and Kandi is that they don't mind admitting what they did while telling the truth about others. I knew she was telling the truth on the show when I saw the family dynamic. I live through that with my mom before I put up boundaries.
Tiny’s mom has me teary eyed, she’s so sweet. Tamika, I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. It’s a shame that family would do this, especially your sister and your mom who is protecting her
You better say that! =She is telling the truth and they don't know what to do with this Tameka. She finally standing up for herself. She also needs to know that her mother nor her sister do not care about her the way they should. I keep seeing that mother whisper to Latocha that Tameka was just jealouse of her. Shame on you so called mother.
This is awful. Tocha is destroying her life over a man that doesn't love or respect her. She will regret what she has done to her sister. Tamika, you are going to have to press charges on your sister.and her good for nothing husband. It hurts but they brought this on themselves. Hopefully your mother will come to her senses and realize that what she has been doing to you is weong.... Praying for you Tamike. Stay strong!
@@Redd91ful After this hot tea that Tamika spilled, she will be needing a job, and she better not say she wants to be back in xscape, she should keep running to her solo album and awful husband
Tamika this hurts but look around you! In the comments, the blogs, etc..YOU ARE LOVED AND SUPPORTED! You have literally found your voice, you are taking the lead, in charge and standing up for yourself.
When they hugged on the show and had that hard cry in eachothers arms Latocha cry was saying I'm sorry and Tamika's was saying I know but I can't forgive you until you make things right. Smh my heartbreaks for Tamika.. 💔
You have become my favorite member of xscape. Your accountability is REFRESHING. It’s only up from here Tamika. You are an inspiration in letting people know that it is ok to not hold back in speaking on what you go through with your family. So many of us suffer from depression and mental issues from thinking we have to harbor things and how family can treat us. Thank you for speaking out
Without receipts we believed you. It's a challenge when people try throwing things from your past in your face when you've worked hard to grow. Especially when they lack accountability for their thieving ways. God bless you!
@therealTamikaScott Sis if that tape gets leaked, LOCK them BOTH up. Put Warrants on both they asses. Poor Latocha is so brainwashed by her scamming ass husband. Rocky Pimps Latocha and her bank account. If Latocha don't make another dime they will fall on their asses and back living with your momma. Rocky don't know what work is. Fukn BUM.
My stomach started hurting so badly when you said only the sister and her husband had the code to the safe. But Toscha says "SOMEONE" stole it. My God.
He’s an absolute creep! I believe he fantasizes over Tamika actually watches the tape himself. And Tocha is so stupid not to see that! She know he took it
If she said she was young when she did that tape and did wrongful things to Kandi. Then ya'll wonder why God gots Kandi back yes I am preaching I have always believed in Kandi no mater what those Hate sayers say. Amen Amen. Tameka you have your own family to think about your husband,daughters and grandchildren. That's your family do you hear me. Love you Stay Bless
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Ma'am you need to know that you aren't wasting your time. You are empowering people like myself, who have also been mistreated by their family for decades. You are showing us all what it looks like to take your power back. Thank you 🙏🏾
Girl go to your sister your family and talk stop going on UA-cam Facebook with this mess this been 10 years ago you won't to be on tv this bad you on the show talking about how mean people Kandi and tiny have following them on UA-cam and Facebook you worry about house wife and that lil show tiny was on you just need help girl
To Chalay: You say you have been mistreated by your family for decades ??. Sorry to hear that. But have you tried changing your phone number??. Remove access for them to you. I'm speaking from experience.
Honey we believed you without the receipts. Proud of you. And hell YES we gone rock with ya'll!! You all may be the best female R&B group ever with albums you can listen to from start to finish! Yeah we gone rock, until the wheels fall off girl.
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, Tameka. The whole thing is truly heartbreaking, but I'm so glad you spoke up and set the record straight. You absolutely deserve to be heard especially after the lies that have been put out into the world by family...who should actually be in jail right now. You showed them grace and decided not to prosecute, which is the ultimate show of love and loyalty. But, now they're trying to extort you???? Listen, I know you love your sister and clearly you've been more loyal to her than she has to you. You may think this is some BS and you're wasting people's time with this...but I assure you, you're not. You are showing people the power that is in their own voice, the power of telling THE TRUTH, the power they have within them not to allow people to victimize them. Your courage is palpable and I know you are helping a lot of people by speaking up. You have my respect for doing the right thing even when others hurt you to your core. God's watching...so, don't you worry. Stay up, Tamika!
Sis.... we didn't even need these receipts. We believe you! We are so proud of you for standing up and speaking up for yourself. You can't keep protecting people while you are hurting. Put yourself FIRST!
What is done in the dark will always come to light! Tamika, keep being the light and speaking your truth. It's time for your voice and your talents to shine, unapologetically ❤️❤️
TAMIKA, YOU BETTER STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!! I'm glad to see that we are witnessing you level up in this chapter of your life. It's been really beautiful to see.
You are the people’s champ out of this situation and I feel a huge blessing coming your way. I got chills watching this because God is all over you. I’m in tears because I know this isn’t what you wanted to do but needed to do. We are all behind you, Tamika‼️👊🏽💞🫶🏽💞🙌🏾
This is NUTS! My family use to create false narratives about me to cover up their abuse towards me so that people would think I was lying if I talked about it. The best thing I did for my mental health was cut them off completely...do the same. Tasha is incredibly bitter over what she isn't and her looks from childhood and I'm in shocked that she hasn't moved forward.
I’m sorry you had to go through BS. I cried many tears for my cousin who was treated openly differently from her sister and still to this day they still treat her as the outcast. But I’m glad you moved on cause that’s what you have to do sometimes and continued prayers for you and many blessings
May God continue to bless you Tamika for your pure heart! I know first hand how family will drag you and dog you out when all you did was have their back. The truth always comes to the light!!
The hardest lesson I learned in life and it still stands true.... Just because it's blood don't make it family. Relatives and family two different sets of people. Proud of you Tamika wear your Crown like the Queen you are 👑
@@TheChinadll Facts! No contact with toxic narcissistic family members is sometimes the only solution. Gaslighting is damaging, psychological abuse is not okay.
I've been tuning in for the entertainment but blackmail/extortion is serious and I can only imagine how hard this has been🥺 Thank you for letting us in 🙏🏾💕
So proud of you refusing to be bullied and intimidated by your own family, who's already stolen from you! You are A-1 for how you've handled this. My heart goes out to you, because this doesn't end at Tocha. You will still have fall out with your mom and that's incredibly sad. Stay strong.
Amen to that 🙏🏽😇 and yes it’s very heartbreaking 💔 to know that she will still have to deal with the blowback and defend herself from her sisters nonsense to her mother.
Still you should take her to court like I had to do with my grand daughter especially when you pull it with an out Sider your man or boy friend like my granddaughter did that why I Sue her in order to get him the migistrat told me I had to Sue her in order to get him to do that's what I did
We all knew you weren't lying! It's just sad that it had to come to this, but I'm glad you're finally finding your voice. You are such an amazing woman, and God is truly starting to open all those doors for you, now that you have removed yourself from under your sister's control. Your voice is truly anointed, and I would love for you to do a gospel album!
Tamika you have become the hero out of this whole series. You came on the show and shared your truth and you also have a great personality. I am rooting for you and I know going against your family is hard but I’m glad you are standing up for yourself and I see a bright future ahead for you ❤
Now this a GROWN WOMAN RIGHT HERE!!! You Go Girl!!! I am so proud of you and you setting examples out here for this younger generation. Continue to stay prayed up.
I too was raised with a narcissistic mother and older sister combo and it is one of the most painful, confusing, heartbreaking family dynamics. About 5 or 6 years ago, I broke free and haven't felt such peace since. I don't know Tamika but watching the show and her sis and mother's energy, I felt like I knew her like family. I am so proud of you Tamika for finally standing up for yourself. I hope you have a great therapist. All the love and support in the world. 💙
definitely narcissism happening and Tamaika is the empath and black sheep of the family. The other one has no conscience, unfortunately, and she's married to a demon.
@@jadaroundhouse2.043 So bad, but even worse is adulthood when you finally start seeing things for what they are. It's so heartbreaking. I hope you're healing sis. Hugs
The saddest part about the betrayal between these sisters is that LaTocha doesn’t see the loyalty and unconditional love Tamika has always had for her and the ungodly way their mother has used God to pit them against each other in the name of the Christianity and to support her lifestyle. Her foolishness is not of God and I wish that she would stop using Him to guilt her children. Tamika should love them from afar. No-one can speak for God but I believe he would be better honored in her stepping out of this religious foolishness. He ain’t in this mess.
I admire the fact that you still held back on really airing the situation out. That says a lot about your character in a positive way. I know it’s tough going against your family but in this case, you gotta do what you gotta do.
@@chefaaron9040 What I believe Toni meant was that many of us believed Tamika’s version of events and her story prior to her revealing any receipts 🧾. In other words, WE KNEW she has been TELLING not just her truth, but also THE TRUTH all along. 🤷🏽♂️❤️
She didn’t pull up hardcore receipts that LaTosha did it. The receipts show Edward (Rocky) Bivins and his management company did it. Go Google the address. LaTosha’s name is not on that business it’s in Edward (Rocky, her husband name). Rocky is a business manager in the industry he know more about changing contracts then LaTosha. Yes it’s her husband so why not point all the blame on the husband. I bet Tosha didnt know her husband been taking money from Tamika. 😭 Heck, Rocky use to be R Kelly’s business manager & he don’t know where is money is either (allegedly).🙊 If you watched the episode 4 of Queens of R&B when LaTosha was signing her solo contract, Rocky (Edward) gave her a contract to sign….LaTosha did not read that contract. Rocky said sign and she signed it. Chile 😭🙄 I hope Tamika & Tosha can work this out-again.
Family betrayal hits different!!! I’ve been on both ends you can apologize for your mistakes and your part of whatever went wrong BUT you CAN’T make anybody own their part. We hear you girl. We are praying for you!!!
I know that was hard for you. What I learned in 46 years of living is that family can sometimes treat you worse that enemies. You deserve to get respect and love from people and they don't have to share your blood.
Tamika, I'm so proud of you for speaking your truth. I can truly relate and understand how you feel I with through the same thing with my family. Man tried to destroy me but God sustained me. Keep looking to the Hills from whence your help will cometh from the Lord. Sis apologize not needed I Love my family but from a distance. Continue to walk in your Trust and keep your Hands in God's exchanging Hands. Love always Lynda and Family.
Girl I’m so happy you’re speaking up for yourself because your sister is so used to walking all over you that she is actually pissed that you won’t allow her to continue to do so bravo Tomika
Don't put We, you mean you! You can't speak for everyone else sweetheart y'all thrive off of drama I don't! ✌️😐😑💯 And if I was Kandi and Tiny I would Not be in this damn messing ass group Tamika and her sister needs Tiny and Kandi not the other way around. Tiny and Kandi are selling their self short by entertaining this group the sisters are messy them are the only ones making the show about them 🙄💯 people forgetting about SWV because of their nonsense drama that's called being Selfish and wanting the spotlight on them only! Not classy or Kool! And the only people that like watching drama like this are the ones that don't have no character within themselves. People like watching drama, and shows like this is because they are toxic themselves 🤣 after the first two episodes I was done! If I want to watch drama I would watch Love & hip Hop or the Baddie but it's not entertaining at all
Them receipts sure hit different than chosen words!! Receipts or not, your whole character (along w/Kandi & Tiny) will always have me rockin with y’all. And yes it’s a shame that all of this between you & your sister has to be put out in these streets, but you needed to defend yourself…. I know it hurts but God’s Got You!! And in my head, you are my sister & I’m proud of you & will pray for you to have peace & blessings❤🙏🏽♥️
*I love Ms. Diane (Tiny’s mom) so much.* *I could tell she loves every girl in the group for real on an episode of The Family Hustle that she begged Tiny to get the group together.*
Yasss she been looking out for those girls for decades…she is sooo genuine and even tiny dad was a genuine take my hats off for them..she is the truth and also making sure they gotten their money is everything
Oh to investigate where those checks were is epic…miss diane didn’t have to do that but she did because she love every one of them and signing them up without them knowing she signed up with sound exchanged is everything…I’m sure she knows all their social to…she gon make sure those girls are taken care of love it…i need miss diane in my life
This not a jayz song her sister and mom downed her for years and now their saying she is mentally ill and everything else they wanted this girl to fall back quietly but she is saying no more
Tamika I hope you can see, just from the comments left here on this video, that you are loved. I glanced through the majority of the comments and not one negative thing said towards you. That 1st episode of the show was needed, so that you could see the truth of what “family” is. My hope is that you grow stronger from this and become even bigger than you are now. There’s so much more blessings and positivity in store for you. Love from South Carolina ❤️🙏🏾❤️
Sad...she likely has never received this type of love and support from her mom and sister. The two people she would've needed it from the most while growing up.
Tamika 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 so proud of you that you will no longer tolerate mental Abuse what your sister has done is wrong I know you’re hurt I’ve been there you do for them even if they are wrong because we want to be apart of that family but it’s not worth it your sanity and health is more important I can’t believe that you’re mom said you were jealous of your sister on the show I was like WOW but you are empowered by this keep it moving and never expected anything from anyone just because you’re family You got this ❤️❤️❤️
You made several grown woman statements, from owning up to making mistakes as a young adult to saying I’m clearing me and moving on to forgiveness to realizing how all of y’all kids are affected, apologizing to your fans… and much much more. My heart breaks for your family but you ma’am have really carried this pain well publicly and so gracefully! 🙌🏾👏🏾 maybe the reason for this is to show us an example of maturity in our own lives and situations. I receive it 🙌🏾
I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself. It has to be done not only for you but your kids. If you can pursue legal action I would highly recommend that
I believe you Tamika! I respect how you've owned up to your mistakes and apologized to people you hurt. Dealing with toxic family is hard. She's your sister but she's not your friend. Sometimes that's the hardest thing to accept. I will be supporting Xscape this year. Can't wait to see you perform.
Tamika, THANK GOD YOU HAVE YOUR WONDERFUL HUSBAND, YOUR CHILDREN, YOUR DAD, YOUR GROUP MATES, AND FRIENDS/FANS WHO UNDERSTAND, LOVE, AND SUPPORT YOU!!! We got you, Girl!!!!!
Apologies aren’t needed Tamika because there’s nothing like someone deliberately lying on you! You have to protect your reputation as that can affect future deals so you do what you need for inner peace, reputation and your family. Remember, blood doesn’t make you family! I’ve loved your music since you first came out and supported your concerts so keep doing what your doing! People HIT THAT LIKE BUTTON! Only 16K Likes with over 94K views?!!!
We believe you! Who extorts someone for an apology that has nothing to do with them? They are less than smart and the public will hold them accountable!
Omg, I just watched the episodes, and I literally have PTSD from your interaction with your mom. You can love your family from afar. If you don't set boundaries and remove yourself from that toxicity, you are going to end up with all kinds of illnesses. No sister would allow their husband to have videos of their naked sister, let alone have it released. Cut them off respectfully. I've been watching your sister and she is burying her own self. Mighty God! I cry for you. At almost 50 you're still backing up from your mama while you're in tears. Even when you're trying to explain yourself, she's basically cutting you off and telling you how you hurt your sister. We all see what is happening just by their interaction with you. Release yourself girl! Release yourself and break the curse of that toxicity. I still love and take care of my mom, but she is not allowed in my space or around my kidd. Nooooo! I've been sick for years because of that control and belittling. Only you can set yourself free. Bullys gets scared and yell when you finally put your foot down and remove their chain from around your neck. They'll either come around or remove themselves permanently from your life. But you'll be ok. You have a family now. Build with your husband and your children. May God bless you and give you strength.
Nothing wrong with standing up for yourself. Mothers and sisters are family . Once we have children they come first even before your mother and sister. Stay strong
If she puts it out, that'll be revenge p0rn and Tamika can sue her evil sister. Tocha should be ashamed of herself, but she'll find out and see the light when that gospel deal, album fail.
Rocky was going to sell that tape with or without Toscha knowledge. This ninja HERE?!?! IMO If Rocky could get away with it, he'd unalive all of them for profit Toscha, Tameka, and their Mom.
I knew she wasn't lying when I seen that episode I can see the hurt and can clearly see who is really lying. Hope she gets the closer she needs. Her voice is amazing and so his her spirit.
Exactly!! You can just tell when someone is lying,,as soon as the mama said to stop the Cameras,I knew right then and there,Tamika was/is not lying!! So sad that a mother would do this to her own child bc the other one gave her some $ more than likely..
So happy you're standing up for yourself, stay humble, God has something bigger and better for you. Your voice is unique, very strong. Every time I hear you sing, you take me to church. Keep being you, keep moving forward even if you have to do it alone.
Tamika, I believed before you showed the receipts. I rock with you, Tiny, & Kandi. I love you to life. You did the necessary, and sometimes we got to show ppl, even if it's our siblings not to play with us. My heart goes out to you and your sister. I completely understand the sibling rivalry and wanting acceptance from my mother. I've been going through it for years with my own mother and sister. All we can do is forgive them for ourselves and love them from a distance. I love you, sis, and keep pressing on and stepping on these haters necks. My best friend and I will see Xscape in June. 🎉❤
the sex tape part stuck out to me that made me really infuriated, you trusted her as a sister and she claims someone stole it or it disappeared knowing deeply she’s had it all these years either that or her husband watched it cause it’s something much deeper 🥺 imagine trusting the only person you trust more than anyone with some so sacred and years later it’s thrown in your face / blackmailed by it ! I pray for your strength but its kinda like who would even want them to work it out ..this is unforgivable to say the least
IF she has that tape and her hubby has watched it, they're BOTH 😫 sick. Love your sister from afar, don't fear anybody but GOD! If a tape is released, SUE. FYI, the DA may press charges for you.
@@michelewatkins9396 she’s a wicked girl I tell you they say if you want to be hurt the person that got hurt you worse are the ones that’s closest to you family sisters, mothers brothers, father’s daughter’s sons those are the only people that could do things to you to knock you to your knees, and hurt you to the core and it’s sad. Very sad when your own enemy is your blood.
Wow! It’s so sad when ur own sister backstabs you. I can’t support Latocha doing this to her own sister this is messed up on so many levels. I believe Tamika because she owed up to doing a sex tape and presented proof of brother in law stealing her money and Latocha because she forged her sister’s name. God will work it out amen 🙏🏽
Exactly! At this point, I personally would not want to work it out. Due to the fact she can not be trusted, and if she has done it several times, 99.9% of the time, she will do it again. Her sister is just pure evil. Prayers for Tamika. 🙏🏼
"THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE". Tamika ur composure along w/ur receipts is evidence of the truth, so proud of you and thank you for sharing and giving a great life lesson, keep walking in light God bless💜
You’re handling this with so much class. Thank you for representing us with dignity and being clear with the evidence. May God keep you & your family, especially your mom.
@@lisakaye3919 Forgive me if I am wrong, but I am assuming that you have not watched any of Tamika's previous videos (available on this channel) where she stated that she reached out to her sister for reconciliation, but was given the cold shoulder with every attempt. There are a lot of layers that led up to the explosive revelations and behavior displayed on the reality show. Issues that are intentionally left unresolved, but then abruptly presented in a pre-meditated fashion (and in front of cameras) definitely negate any sense of privacy and decency anyone could expect to continue. I encourage you to look at her previous video to obtain context.
I hate that you’re going through that but as a former people pleaser, I know the strength it takes to finally stand up for yourself. I’m so proud of you!
Especially to stand up to family..
🙌🏾
Same! I feel free now
Preach
Indeed! You’re applauded 👏🏾👏🏾
Ms. Diane is so sweet! She looked out for everyone in the group, not just her daughter❤
Nah if anybody the 5th member, it's her
@@dawnstanley7410 Right!!
@@dawnstanley7410 i remember watching Tiny and Toya miss Diane pretty much was it was so sad watching her taking care of Tiny Dad going through Alzheimer’s
@@dawnstanley7410 FACTS.!!!
Children mimic their parents. Tiny aint no saint, but I can see her mom's attitude about people has rubbed off on her. Just like Kandi is combative and stubborn like her mother. We really are our parent's children.
That's right Tamika, fight back! Don't let anyone scare you into not telling THE truth! Deal with them accordingly, spiritually, mentally, legally, & physically if you see fit! Ase! 💯
Yes I can feel it in her spirit…. 5 minutes in that she’s over it, and for the nerve of Tosha to asked for her to apologize … 😢 Wow The ultimate betrayal,
praise God for that Be strong and the power of God's might He will cover you with his windshield and buckler. You are beyond blessed Just know that
AMEN
Baby I am only 9 minutes into this video and the tea 🍵 is PIPING HOT 🔥 🔥 🔥 BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAABY
The physically, if you see fit is sound advise yes. In agreement, cause the enemy needs to know God created no punks. Yooo I love this comment
“Blood doesn’t make you FAMILY! LOYALTY DOES!!!”
Blood isn't thicker than water. Water tastes better 😉
Blood dont mean a thing..often times non family are way better
Love this! ❤ Wonderfully said.
@@jen7ellez 🙏🏾
@@demetriousdickerson3392 FACTS
It's not 10 mins of wasted time. It's 10 mins of you standing up for yourself. I wish you healing. ❤
Amen ❤
It explains a lot.
Your right sweetie, YOUR NOT THE ONE THATS WRONG!!!! GOD SAID, WHAT YOU DO UNTO UNTO THE LEAST OF THESE YOU DO ALSO UNTO ME, HE'S TALKING ABOUT HIS CHILDREN AND HE'S A JEALOUS GOD WHEN IT COMES TO HIS KIDS.......KINGDOM BLESSINGS TAMIKA SCOTT❤🙏🏾
Your sister bogus she need her ass beat😂😂😂
This video is dramatic
Mrs. Diane a real one, such a concerned mother for all the group members ❤
I’m so glad she was doing her due diligence to help them
She's the 5th member.
@@kssnmiss definitely!!
@@kssnmiss show ain’t Ms a Gloria 😂😂😂 if that’s her name
@@kssnmiss She's the Momager... Momma Joyce is the 5th member🤣🤣🤣
When Tamika looked in that camera and dared her sister to release the tape and said “God don’t play about me.”I got chills. God got you covered girl!
Giirrrllll!!! I was like what tha! Then she said, "Keep my name out cho mouth!"
well, if they release the tape, isn't that a crime? I believe it is.
I'm still rocking with yall.
God don't like ugly
I was literally screaming ‘SAY THAT SHIT TAMIKAAAAAHHHHHHH’
There’s nothing worse than someone you love and trust stealing from you. I completely understand her.
Been there. People act like everything is peachy. Speak your peace. 🙏🏽
Tamika God will keep you covered and blessed we love you Amen. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
You may not need an apology, but you definitely deserve one!!
And some checks!!
It wouldn't be genuine tamika knows they are not capable ogmf giving that!
YESSSS!
For what? It wont change a thing. What they did and still doing is really low!!!
And she deserve to get ALL her money from them thieves!!!!!!
Ms. Diane brings such a smile to my face. Love how she continues looked out for all of the ladies.
Thanks to Tinys mom for looking out for all of yall. 💜💜💜💜
Shout out to her FR!
Right Ms.Diane is the real MVP for keeping it real and still remaining cordial with everyone
Absolutely 💯 💯 💯 Hats off to you frfr, Mrs. Diane!! ❤❤❤
RIGHT!!! BC THE SISTER'S MAMA DAMN SURE WASN'T LOOKING OUT FOR THEM AS A WHOLE.
IKR, she's a sweetheart,🥰🤗
keep shining Tamika we love you.❤❤❤
Tamika, Kandi, and Tiny needs to continue as a group. Rebrand the Xscape brand and keep touring with the three of you. The chemistry amongst the three of you guys is true sisterhood and love and we need that! Prayers for Tiny, Kandi, and Tamika’s peace, sanity and energy. Keep winning! ❤
Yes and to put the finishing touch they need to do a new album WITHOUT Tocha and then she can NEVER join the group again
Agreed. They also could get a new fourth member like so many groups do, but I doubt they want to do that. 😂
Don't even need to rebrand. We'll know why there are 3 now and will be happy about it. Get Tocha and her evil ways outta here!
From the news that dropped today Todd and Kandi is suing and it said that they officially dropped her from the group. I hope that when her and Tameka make up that she won’t allow Lotocha to manipulate her into convincing Tiny and Kandi to allowing her to rejoin the group. I’m sure that the sisters will be back on good terms. But I personally do not want Lotocha back in the group this group has been in the media since the 90s with having problems and it seems like they are at peace and they all truly love and enjoy each other as three. I’m sick of hearing about Lotocha . So I’m happy to hear about them casting her out.
Now she’s about to look dumb do Wendy’s gospel promotions. And I hope that the label drop her due to these legal allegations. Plus if that music suffer they are going to drop her anyway because they would see that she is no good for business
I agree
What I love about Tamika and Kandi is that they don't mind admitting what they did while telling the truth about others. I knew she was telling the truth on the show when I saw the family dynamic. I live through that with my mom before I put up boundaries.
Me to they admit what they did we proud of you Tamika! Stay strong an keep yo head up!
Yesssss that what I noticed about bout of them ❤❤❤❤
Yeah I agree. That is one thing I do like about Kandi. She takes accountability
Tiny’s mom has me teary eyed, she’s so sweet. Tamika, I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. It’s a shame that family would do this, especially your sister and your mom who is protecting her
Tiny mother Do not have proof that she r Rocky cashed the checks. DIANE IS GOING BY HE SAY SHE SAYS THAT'S TOTALLY WRONG
Tiny has a heart for people just like her Mom ❤❤❤
Tiny got her sweet ways from her momma💕
Ms. Diane has always been a real one since we first saw her on Tiny & Toya. She has a heart of gold
@@just_plain_ol_kym Yep!
I love you Tamika and I believe you, Continue to stay prayed up❤❤❤❤
Her composure speaks volumes. A person telling the truth is always calm. 🙌🏾
Not always, I get very upset when I know I'm telling the truth and people try to make it look like I'm lying...
You better say that! =She is telling the truth and they don't know what to do with this Tameka. She finally standing up for herself. She also needs to know that her mother nor her sister do not care about her the way they should. I keep seeing that mother whisper to Latocha that Tameka was just jealouse of her. Shame on you so called mother.
She might be but trust and believe..that is not always the case. These sisters need to release the drama, let the past stay in the past and move on.
She has receipts
Sike
This is awful. Tocha is destroying her life over a man that doesn't love or respect her. She will regret what she has done to her sister. Tamika, you are going to have to press charges on your sister.and her good for nothing husband. It hurts but they brought this on themselves. Hopefully your mother will come to her senses and realize that what she has been doing to you is weong.... Praying for you Tamike. Stay strong!
And destroying her image and lack of integrity
And she claims to be doing gospel music. She is literally throwing her career away
@@universalsecretsskincare4082 💀i literally hope she *have businesses or a good skill because I can’t see it through for her music career
@@Redd91ful After this hot tea that Tamika spilled, she will be needing a job, and she better not say she wants to be back in xscape, she should keep running to her solo album and awful husband
No, TOCHA is destroying her life over TOCHA
Tamika this hurts but look around you! In the comments, the blogs, etc..YOU ARE LOVED AND SUPPORTED! You have literally found your voice, you are taking the lead, in charge and standing up for yourself.
Not to mention she's really getting to show her gift. People are finally seeing she's the strongest singer in the group.
@@iKETOURAGE even though it’s obvious
That’s a fact you’re doing the right thing speaking for yourself not going to the blogs or news outlets but your outlet. That’s Godly 🙏🏽
Prosecute them
@@Queen.of.Trades Right people out here really thinking Tocha is the best singer.🤣
When they hugged on the show and had that hard cry in eachothers arms Latocha cry was saying I'm sorry and Tamika's was saying I know but I can't forgive you until you make things right.
Smh my heartbreaks for Tamika.. 💔
This is what it looks like when someone comes into her own, makes peace with herself, stands up for herself, and takes her power back ❣️
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯💯
EXACTLY 💯
You have become my favorite member of xscape. Your accountability is REFRESHING. It’s only up from here Tamika. You are an inspiration in letting people know that it is ok to not hold back in speaking on what you go through with your family. So many of us suffer from depression and mental issues from thinking we have to harbor things and how family can treat us. Thank you for speaking out
Yessss I Love her
Aannnnnd Tamika has a way better voice then her sister! Actually has all the great tonal qualities of tocha but with depth & more desirable vibrato.
The doors that she has opened by just bieng transparent and humble!
@@Blueridge4000 keywords DESIRABLE VIBRATTO
Nie why mama diane who is put up, i mean PUT UPPPP, GOTTA LIE ON LATHIEF AND ROCKHEAD😂
Without receipts we believed you. It's a challenge when people try throwing things from your past in your face when you've worked hard to grow. Especially when they lack accountability for their thieving ways. God bless you!
Did the two evil tgeives forget onlyfans exists and people don't care about 2016 sextapes? Hilarious! And she can sue them for revenge p0rn.
Sure did!
Not stealing the identity on direct tv 😂 Tamika cracks me up, she brings such a light to the room.
@therealTamikaScott Sis if that tape gets leaked, LOCK them BOTH up. Put Warrants on both they asses. Poor Latocha is so brainwashed by her scamming ass husband. Rocky Pimps Latocha and her bank account. If Latocha don't make another dime they will fall on their asses and back living with your momma. Rocky don't know what work is. Fukn BUM.
My stomach started hurting so badly when you said only the sister and her husband had the code to the safe. But Toscha says "SOMEONE" stole it. My God.
Yesssss girl , they plotted in held that Tape/evidence for years just to black mailed her because they knew they took her money
He’s an absolute creep! I believe he fantasizes over Tamika actually watches the tape himself. And Tocha is so stupid not to see that! She know he took it
If she said she was young when she did that tape and did wrongful things to Kandi. Then ya'll wonder why God gots Kandi back yes I am preaching I have always believed in Kandi no mater what those Hate sayers say. Amen Amen. Tameka you have your own family to think about your husband,daughters and grandchildren. That's your family do you hear me. Love you Stay Bless
Tocha is a creep too……
Yes… the sedition of it all 😮
We believed you from Day 1. I’m glad that you’re speaking your peace and not letting them get over on you.
YEP! We knew and could tell the truth from Day 1 that they did Tameka wrong. Glad she spoke her truth ❤️
💜🙏🏾 You have to respect her, I feel for her
Right, I did!! Her sister is acting like she never wronged her!!
Yep, l also believed her from day-1! I could see how uncomfortable her sister was, by trying to excuse the situation.
I hate this happened to you Tamika, but I do admire the fact that you're standing up for yourself and telling your truth.🌹
Some times we give out more love and never get love in return.
wassup Trey brother! also a sub to your channel😊 Keep up the good work bro!
Peace King! Did you know that Bishop Michael Washington is The Top Voodoo Priest in The United States Of America with a net worth of $60 Million in 2023? They consider him to be the male version of Marie Laveau but darker😮
So proud of you standing up for yourself
Sis , we believed you without the receipts ! I hope your family finds peace
Ma'am you need to know that you aren't wasting your time. You are empowering people like myself, who have also been mistreated by their family for decades. You are showing us all what it looks like to take your power back. Thank you 🙏🏾
Girl go to your sister your family and talk stop going on UA-cam Facebook with this mess this been 10 years ago you won't to be on tv this bad you on the show talking about how mean people Kandi and tiny have following them on UA-cam and Facebook you worry about house wife and that lil show tiny was on you just need help girl
@@Txpsbynyaa1 Yes, exactly! Coz the truth of it is…..The people don’t care about the real pain associated with Family dysfunction is so not cool!
That part
To Chalay: You say you have been mistreated by your family for decades ??. Sorry to hear that. But have you tried changing your phone number??. Remove access for them to you. I'm speaking from experience.
Honey we believed you without the receipts. Proud of you. And hell YES we gone rock with ya'll!! You all may be the best female R&B group ever with albums you can listen to from start to finish! Yeah we gone rock, until the wheels fall off girl.
She betta stop Karma is a B!
Sharron say that truth again about Karma
Exactly!!! But the receipts are Good!!!! God bless you Tamika 🥰🙏🏾
sooo trueeeeeee
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, Tameka. The whole thing is truly heartbreaking, but I'm so glad you spoke up and set the record straight. You absolutely deserve to be heard especially after the lies that have been put out into the world by family...who should actually be in jail right now. You showed them grace and decided not to prosecute, which is the ultimate show of love and loyalty. But, now they're trying to extort you???? Listen, I know you love your sister and clearly you've been more loyal to her than she has to you. You may think this is some BS and you're wasting people's time with this...but I assure you, you're not. You are showing people the power that is in their own voice, the power of telling THE TRUTH, the power they have within them not to allow people to victimize them. Your courage is palpable and I know you are helping a lot of people by speaking up. You have my respect for doing the right thing even when others hurt you to your core. God's watching...so, don't you worry. Stay up, Tamika!
Nicely said and I agree with everything you said
Sis.... we didn't even need these receipts. We believe you! We are so proud of you for standing up and speaking up for yourself. You can't keep protecting people while you are hurting. Put yourself FIRST!
Facts
It was very well needed to many lies were being told and in this industry you always need to clear your name
Oh yes they were needed
.. She needed to do this for herself... Now hopefully she has peace and can move on
FACTS ❤
So glad she’s standing up for herself. This is terrible. One of the best girl groups in the 90s. This breaks my heart.
U stand to if they stole that much from u and gonna talk shit
🎯🙏
What is done in the dark will always come to light! Tamika, keep being the light and speaking your truth. It's time for your voice and your talents to shine, unapologetically ❤️❤️
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
⬆️⬆️⬆️That part!!
"And your enemies shall those of your own household"
WEEEELLLLL!!! 😂
(I know the feeling)
You can only be bullied and pushed so far. You’re human! No apology needed. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤❤❤
TAMIKA, YOU BETTER STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!!
I'm glad to see that we are witnessing you level up in this chapter of your life. It's been really beautiful to see.
Agreed!!😊
AMEN!!!
Whewww she came with the irrefutable receipts. We support you girl. Cut all the toxic people out of your life, family or not 💜
I agree with you amen!
Way to go girl I'm glad you put your sister on blast with the receipts. I hope you prosecute them.
You are the people’s champ out of this situation and I feel a huge blessing coming your way. I got chills watching this because God is all over you. I’m in tears because I know this isn’t what you wanted to do but needed to do. We are all behind you, Tamika‼️👊🏽💞🫶🏽💞🙌🏾
This is NUTS! My family use to create false narratives about me to cover up their abuse towards me so that people would think I was lying if I talked about it. The best thing I did for my mental health was cut them off completely...do the same. Tasha is incredibly bitter over what she isn't and her looks from childhood and I'm in shocked that she hasn't moved forward.
I had to cut mine off too. The lies and slander become too much. I rather be by myself then to have my family
@@queenbluntressspeaks2695 You did the right thing!!!
You did the right thing!!
@@queenbluntressspeaks2695 💯💯💯
I’m sorry you had to go through BS. I cried many tears for my cousin who was treated openly differently from her sister and still to this day they still treat her as the outcast. But I’m glad you moved on cause that’s what you have to do sometimes and continued prayers for you and many blessings
You are like a breakout star! It’s like we are just meeting you, and we admire and adore you! Stay strong and SHINE!❤
100% feel the same way..
Same
That part!!
Real talk ❤
This ! I will always support you
May God continue to bless you Tamika for your pure heart! I know first hand how family will drag you and dog you out when all you did was have their back. The truth always comes to the light!!
The hardest lesson I learned in life and it still stands true.... Just because it's blood don't make it family. Relatives and family two different sets of people. Proud of you Tamika wear your Crown like the Queen you are 👑
Baby! I say that all this all the time. It’s relatives and family. I got friends that are family.
@@TheChinadll Facts! No contact with toxic narcissistic family members is sometimes the only solution. Gaslighting is damaging, psychological abuse is not okay.
I've been tuning in for the entertainment but blackmail/extortion is serious and I can only imagine how hard this has been🥺 Thank you for letting us in 🙏🏾💕
We are all proud of you Tamika, this is so deep and so sad but it was necessary!!!!!!
I agree with you!
You did this so gracefully I'm glad you stood up for yourself
So proud of you refusing to be bullied and intimidated by your own family, who's already stolen from you! You are A-1 for how you've handled this. My heart goes out to you, because this doesn't end at Tocha. You will still have fall out with your mom and that's incredibly sad. Stay strong.
Amen to that 🙏🏽😇 and yes it’s very heartbreaking 💔 to know that she will still have to deal with the blowback and defend herself from her sisters nonsense to her mother.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Still you should take her to court like I had to do with my grand daughter especially when you pull it with an out Sider your man or boy friend like my granddaughter did that why I Sue her in order to get him the migistrat told me I had to Sue her in order to get him to do that's what I did
Thank God for Tiny’s mom for looking out for all of you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
We all knew you weren't lying! It's just sad that it had to come to this, but I'm glad you're finally finding your voice. You are such an amazing woman, and God is truly starting to open all those doors for you, now that you have removed yourself from under your sister's control. Your voice is truly anointed, and I would love for you to do a gospel album!
Right. I always believed her! LaTosha needs prayers. I pray she finds true God and True Love!
We did!
When I watched that episode, I felt that in her whole being. I knew they stole her money. Her mom was in on it😢😊
I’m crying for you… So proud of you as well, stay strong.
❤️you Tamika ❤️
He able❣️
Tamika you have become the hero out of this whole series. You came on the show and shared your truth and you also have a great personality. I am rooting for you and I know going against your family is hard but I’m glad you are standing up for yourself and I see a bright future ahead for you ❤
Now this a GROWN WOMAN RIGHT HERE!!! You Go Girl!!! I am so proud of you and you setting examples out here for this younger generation. Continue to stay prayed up.
I too was raised with a narcissistic mother and older sister combo and it is one of the most painful, confusing, heartbreaking family dynamics. About 5 or 6 years ago, I broke free and haven't felt such peace since. I don't know Tamika but watching the show and her sis and mother's energy, I felt like I knew her like family. I am so proud of you Tamika for finally standing up for yourself. I hope you have a great therapist. All the love and support in the world. 💙
definitely narcissism happening and Tamaika is the empath and black sheep of the family. The other one has no conscience, unfortunately, and she's married to a demon.
Me too! Good for you! It was the worst childhood ever.
@@jadaroundhouse2.043 So bad, but even worse is adulthood when you finally start seeing things for what they are. It's so heartbreaking. I hope you're healing sis. Hugs
Yep. Tamika is the black sheep and Tocha is the golden child
You didn't have to do this, but I'm so glad you did. Prayers up for you and your family. Your core fans will always be happy to hear music from you.🤗
The saddest part about the betrayal between these sisters is that LaTocha doesn’t see the loyalty and unconditional love Tamika has always had for her and the ungodly way their mother has used God to pit them against each other in the name of the Christianity and to support her lifestyle. Her foolishness is not of God and I wish that she would stop using Him to guilt her children. Tamika should love them from afar. No-one can speak for God but I believe he would be better honored in her stepping out of this religious foolishness. He ain’t in this mess.
“The lies the lies” kandi’s voice 😮 who needs enemies when you have a “family” like this. I’m so sorry you’re going through this ❤
I admire the fact that you still held back on really airing the situation out. That says a lot about your character in a positive way. I know it’s tough going against your family but in this case, you gotta do what you gotta do.
"God dont play about me" POWERFUL
We believe you, 💯 %, even if you didn’t pull out the receipts! ❤ Prayers and love to you! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
She did pull out the receipts what video was you watching
@@chefaaron9040 What I believe Toni meant was that many of us believed Tamika’s version of events and her story prior to her revealing any receipts 🧾. In other words, WE KNEW she has been TELLING not just her truth, but also THE TRUTH all along. 🤷🏽♂️❤️
@@chefaaron9040 She meant, before Tamika showed proof, many people already believed her. I, being one of them.
She didn’t pull up hardcore receipts that LaTosha did it. The receipts show Edward (Rocky) Bivins and his management company did it. Go Google the address. LaTosha’s name is not on that business it’s in Edward (Rocky, her husband name). Rocky is a business manager in the industry he know more about changing contracts then LaTosha. Yes it’s her husband so why not point all the blame on the husband. I bet Tosha didnt know her husband been taking money from Tamika. 😭 Heck, Rocky use to be R Kelly’s business manager & he don’t know where is money is either (allegedly).🙊 If you watched the episode 4 of Queens of R&B when LaTosha was signing her solo contract, Rocky (Edward) gave her a contract to sign….LaTosha did not read that contract. Rocky said sign and she signed it. Chile 😭🙄
I hope Tamika & Tosha can work this out-again.
Ummm did you watch the video she did show the receipts smh
Family betrayal hits different!!! I’ve been on both ends you can apologize for your mistakes and your part of whatever went wrong BUT you CAN’T make anybody own their part. We hear you girl. We are praying for you!!!
THIS !!!
@@neichelestevenson5342 that part. I have been there 😔.
I know that was hard for you. What I learned in 46 years of living is that family can sometimes treat you worse that enemies. You deserve to get respect and love from people and they don't have to share your blood.
True.
Tamika, I'm so proud of you for speaking your truth. I can truly relate and understand how you feel I with through the same thing with my family. Man tried to destroy me but God sustained me. Keep looking to the Hills from whence your help will cometh from the Lord. Sis apologize not needed I Love my family but from a distance. Continue to walk in your Trust and keep your Hands in God's exchanging Hands. Love always Lynda and Family.
This show made me love you! I’m proud of you for standing for what’s right instead of someone who’s just family! I’m a fan!
Girl I’m so happy you’re speaking up for yourself because your sister is so used to walking all over you that she is actually pissed that you won’t allow her to continue to do so bravo Tomika
❤️💯👏🏾
You don’t owe us an apology. We believe you and will continue to support you. Stay positive. 💜
We always believed you.
Don't put We, you mean you! You can't speak for everyone else sweetheart y'all thrive off of drama I don't! ✌️😐😑💯 And if I was Kandi and Tiny I would Not be in this damn messing ass group Tamika and her sister needs Tiny and Kandi not the other way around. Tiny and Kandi are selling their self short by entertaining this group the sisters are messy them are the only ones making the show about them 🙄💯 people forgetting about SWV because of their nonsense drama that's called being Selfish and wanting the spotlight on them only! Not classy or Kool! And the only people that like watching drama like this are the ones that don't have no character within themselves. People like watching drama, and shows like this is because they are toxic themselves 🤣 after the first two episodes I was done! If I want to watch drama I would watch Love & hip Hop or the Baddie but it's not entertaining at all
Absolutely ❤
Them receipts sure hit different than chosen words!! Receipts or not, your whole character (along w/Kandi & Tiny) will always have me rockin with y’all. And yes it’s a shame that all of this between you & your sister has to be put out in these streets, but you needed to defend yourself…. I know it hurts but God’s Got You!! And in my head, you are my sister & I’m proud of you & will pray for you to have peace & blessings❤🙏🏽♥️
*I love Ms. Diane (Tiny’s mom) so much.* *I could tell she loves every girl in the group for real on an episode of The Family Hustle that she begged Tiny to get the group together.*
I remember that I was thinking about that too. She really does love all of those girls.
Yasss she been looking out for those girls for decades…she is sooo genuine and even tiny dad was a genuine take my hats off for them..she is the truth and also making sure they gotten their money is everything
Oh to investigate where those checks were is epic…miss diane didn’t have to do that but she did because she love every one of them and signing them up without them knowing she signed up with sound exchanged is everything…I’m sure she knows all their social to…she gon make sure those girls are taken care of love it…i need miss diane in my life
At this point take them to court they need to payyy
@@tbrown2742 Right, I felt it during that episode. I was hoping she could get through to the group because I am a HUGE fan of Xscape too.
I just love Tiny's mom. She's a sweetheart. I pray this situation can be mended. "Nobody wins when the family feuds".
This not a jayz song her sister and mom downed her for years and now their saying she is mentally ill and everything else they wanted this girl to fall back quietly but she is saying no more
Tamika I hope you can see, just from the comments left here on this video, that you are loved. I glanced through the majority of the comments and not one negative thing said towards you. That 1st episode of the show was needed, so that you could see the truth of what “family” is. My hope is that you grow stronger from this and become even bigger than you are now. There’s so much more blessings and positivity in store for you. Love from South Carolina ❤️🙏🏾❤️
Sad...she likely has never received this type of love and support from her mom and sister. The two people she would've needed it from the most while growing up.
Tamika 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 so proud of you that you will no longer tolerate mental Abuse what your sister has done is wrong I know you’re hurt I’ve been there you do for them even if they are wrong because we want to be apart of that family but it’s not worth it your sanity and health is more important I can’t believe that you’re mom said you were jealous of your sister on the show I was like WOW but you are empowered by this keep it moving and never expected anything from anyone just because you’re family
You got this ❤️❤️❤️
Every bit of this was necessary! Speaking up for yourself can be so hard. I’m proud of you.
You made several grown woman statements, from owning up to making mistakes as a young adult to saying I’m clearing me and moving on to forgiveness to realizing how all of y’all kids are affected, apologizing to your fans… and much much more. My heart breaks for your family but you ma’am have really carried this pain well publicly and so gracefully! 🙌🏾👏🏾 maybe the reason for this is to show us an example of maturity in our own lives and situations. I receive it 🙌🏾
Amen
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I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself. It has to be done not only for you but your kids. If you can pursue legal action I would highly recommend that
YOU ARE BRAVE, STRONG, AND COURAGEOUS TAMIKA! WE KNOW YOU'RE TELLING THE TRUTH. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK! YOU ARE AMAZING AND BEAUTIFUL.
I believe you Tamika! I respect how you've owned up to your mistakes and apologized to people you hurt. Dealing with toxic family is hard. She's your sister but she's not your friend. Sometimes that's the hardest thing to accept. I will be supporting Xscape this year. Can't wait to see you perform.
Tamika, THANK GOD YOU HAVE YOUR WONDERFUL HUSBAND, YOUR CHILDREN, YOUR DAD, YOUR GROUP MATES, AND FRIENDS/FANS WHO UNDERSTAND, LOVE, AND SUPPORT YOU!!! We got you, Girl!!!!!
Apologies aren’t needed Tamika because there’s nothing like someone deliberately lying on you! You have to protect your reputation as that can affect future deals so you do what you need for inner peace, reputation and your family. Remember, blood doesn’t make you family! I’ve loved your music since you first came out and supported your concerts so keep doing what your doing! People HIT THAT LIKE BUTTON! Only 16K Likes with over 94K views?!!!
I’m so proud of you Tamika. Period. You said what you say!! done….
We believe you! Who extorts someone for an apology that has nothing to do with them? They are less than smart and the public will hold them accountable!
I can tell that Tameka has a good heart, a good spirit, genuine. ❤
PROUD OF YOU FOR THIS. So great to see people not cower to the toxicity and manipulation of their family. BLESSINGS 🙏🏾
Omg, I just watched the episodes, and I literally have PTSD from your interaction with your mom. You can love your family from afar. If you don't set boundaries and remove yourself from that toxicity, you are going to end up with all kinds of illnesses. No sister would allow their husband to have videos of their naked sister, let alone have it released. Cut them off respectfully. I've been watching your sister and she is burying her own self. Mighty God! I cry for you. At almost 50 you're still backing up from your mama while you're in tears. Even when you're trying to explain yourself, she's basically cutting you off and telling you how you hurt your sister. We all see what is happening just by their interaction with you. Release yourself girl! Release yourself and break the curse of that toxicity. I still love and take care of my mom, but she is not allowed in my space or around my kidd. Nooooo! I've been sick for years because of that control and belittling. Only you can set yourself free. Bullys gets scared and yell when you finally put your foot down and remove their chain from around your neck. They'll either come around or remove themselves permanently from your life. But you'll be ok. You have a family now. Build with your husband and your children.
May God bless you and give you strength.
Nothing wrong with standing up for yourself. Mothers and sisters are family . Once we have children they come first even before your mother and sister. Stay strong
Wow!! The videotape incident alone is just absolutely crazy to me that a sister would do something like that 😢
If she puts it out, that'll be revenge p0rn and Tamika can sue her evil sister. Tocha should be ashamed of herself, but she'll find out and see the light when that gospel deal, album fail.
Rocky was going to sell that tape with or without Toscha knowledge. This ninja HERE?!?! IMO If Rocky could get away with it, he'd unalive all of them for profit Toscha, Tameka, and their Mom.
@@p9782 I truly believe Rocky is capable of that as well. He seems truly depraved
I knew she wasn't lying when I seen that episode I can see the hurt and can clearly see who is really lying. Hope she gets the closer she needs. Her voice is amazing and so his her spirit.
Me too.
@@thegorgeous195 well said
Exactly!! You can just tell when someone is lying,,as soon as the mama said to stop the Cameras,I knew right then and there,Tamika was/is not lying!! So sad that a mother would do this to her own child bc the other one gave her some $ more than likely..
So happy you're standing up for yourself, stay humble, God has something bigger and better for you. Your voice is unique, very strong. Every time I hear you sing, you take me to church. Keep being you, keep moving forward even if you have to do it alone.
This tea is PIPING HOT!!! Thank you for bringing receipts, being honest & finding your voice. We support you!!!
Tamika, I believed before you showed the receipts. I rock with you, Tiny, & Kandi. I love you to life. You did the necessary, and sometimes we got to show ppl, even if it's our siblings not to play with us. My heart goes out to you and your sister. I completely understand the sibling rivalry and wanting acceptance from my mother. I've been going through it for years with my own mother and sister. All we can do is forgive them for ourselves and love them from a distance. I love you, sis, and keep pressing on and stepping on these haters necks. My best friend and I will see Xscape in June. 🎉❤
the sex tape part stuck out to me that made me really infuriated, you trusted her as a sister and she claims someone stole it or it disappeared knowing deeply she’s had it all these years either that or her husband watched it cause it’s something much deeper 🥺 imagine trusting the only person you trust more than anyone with some so sacred and years later it’s thrown in your face / blackmailed by it ! I pray for your strength but its kinda like who would even want them to work it out ..this is unforgivable to say the least
Her sister is her biggest enemy sad 😞 but true and her sister’s husband is the real Bit#h
IF she has that tape and her hubby has watched it, they're BOTH 😫 sick. Love your sister from afar, don't fear anybody but GOD! If a tape is released, SUE. FYI, the DA may press charges for you.
@@michelewatkins9396 she’s a wicked girl I tell you they say if you want to be hurt the person that got hurt you worse are the ones that’s closest to you family sisters, mothers brothers, father’s daughter’s sons those are the only people that could do things to you to knock you to your knees, and hurt you to the core and it’s sad. Very sad when your own enemy is your blood.
Wow! It’s so sad when ur own sister backstabs you. I can’t support Latocha doing this to her own sister this is messed up on so many levels. I believe Tamika because she owed up to doing a sex tape and presented proof of brother in law stealing her money and Latocha because she forged her sister’s name. God will work it out amen 🙏🏽
Exactly! At this point, I personally would not want to work it out. Due to the fact she can not be trusted, and if she has done it several times, 99.9% of the time, she will do it again. Her sister is just pure evil. Prayers for Tamika. 🙏🏼
So happy you found your voice and finally standing up for yourself. If she keeps playing with you 🗣️ press charges!!! On principle, you deserve that.
What is done in the dark shall come to the light! Wishing you many blessings and much success Tamika.
I felt that in my soul!!!! “What you trying to hold over my head about kandi; I’m glad she forgave me” that was deep and I felt that!! ❤
I’m so proud of you for standing in the truth and not allowing yourself to be bullied yet again! This was necessary!!!! ❤
"THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE".
Tamika ur composure along w/ur receipts is evidence of the truth, so proud of you and thank you for sharing and giving a great life lesson, keep walking in light God bless💜
No apologies needed, we have eyes we can see. Love how you’re not backing down and standing up for yourself. Continue receiving your blessings.
You’re handling this with so much class. Thank you for representing us with dignity and being clear with the evidence. May God keep you & your family, especially your mom.
Nah they need to keep family business FAMILY business its not for the world’s entertainment
@@lisakaye3919 Forgive me if I am wrong, but I am assuming that you have not watched any of Tamika's previous videos (available on this channel) where she stated that she reached out to her sister for reconciliation, but was given the cold shoulder with every attempt. There are a lot of layers that led up to the explosive revelations and behavior displayed on the reality show. Issues that are intentionally left unresolved, but then abruptly presented in a pre-meditated fashion (and in front of cameras) definitely negate any sense of privacy and decency anyone could expect to continue. I encourage you to look at her previous video to obtain context.
@@Alione her dumb ass didn’t see it that’s why she made that comment
No need to apologize! You’re helping a lot of people
We love you Tamika, sorry to hear your going through all this BS drama