Everyone loves the janitor. Hell I remember a janitor at my elementary school who was absent for 2 weeks turns out he was helping take care of his sick grandmother and some of the student's parents which 1 turned out to be fairly wealthy ended up hiring a private nurse to take of the janitor's grandmother because their kids missed the janitor. In America we respect the people who do good job cleaning. If the school has a good janitor even bullies will get the shit kicked out of them by other bullies if they make life harder for the janitor. For example a kid at my middle school trashed a bathroom and for making the work harder for the janitor he had 2 broken legs, 2 broken arms, and bruises all over because he trashed the best bathroom in the school by breaking everything in it.
You are that guy. If you have any bad habits, even if rare, to others you are that guy. If you show up late once in a while, maybe once a week or less. You are the guy who is always late. If you drink too much and make an ass of your self, even only once or twice a year. You are the guy who can’t handle there booze. One incident of SA or assault and you are the guy who hurts people.
Don't envision a life for yourself that you want, because you probably won't have it, so if things work out well it will just be a surprise. Going to college will do almost nothing for you at all. There's a lot of folks with masters working entry level McDonald's or retail stores, and those who refuse to be workers bees will be the 1000s of applicants applying for every job and never getting the callback. For guys: 80 percent of women are with 20 percent of men. If you are a man, it's likely you will never be with anyone your whole life, but thats the majority of men anyway so it's whatever.
Everyone loves the janitor. Hell I remember a janitor at my elementary school who was absent for 2 weeks turns out he was helping take care of his sick grandmother and some of the student's parents which 1 turned out to be fairly wealthy ended up hiring a private nurse to take of the janitor's grandmother because their kids missed the janitor. In America we respect the people who do good job cleaning. If the school has a good janitor even bullies will get the shit kicked out of them by other bullies if they make life harder for the janitor. For example a kid at my middle school trashed a bathroom and for making the work harder for the janitor he had 2 broken legs, 2 broken arms, and bruises all over because he trashed the best bathroom in the school by breaking everything in it.
You aren't the cause of your trauma, but it is your responsibility to fix it. You will heal much faster and have a better life if you accept this.
Sometimes the world is full absolute morons and you can't do anything to change it. Some times family members are just stupid.
You are that guy. If you have any bad habits, even if rare, to others you are that guy. If you show up late once in a while, maybe once a week or less. You are the guy who is always late. If you drink too much and make an ass of your self, even only once or twice a year. You are the guy who can’t handle there booze. One incident of SA or assault and you are the guy who hurts people.
Don't envision a life for yourself that you want, because you probably won't have it, so if things work out well it will just be a surprise.
Going to college will do almost nothing for you at all. There's a lot of folks with masters working entry level McDonald's or retail stores, and those who refuse to be workers bees will be the 1000s of applicants applying for every job and never getting the callback.
For guys: 80 percent of women are with 20 percent of men. If you are a man, it's likely you will never be with anyone your whole life, but thats the majority of men anyway so it's whatever.