Love The Way God Intended with Pastor Dhairus Daniels and Shameka Daniels

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  • @chalaantv5712
    @chalaantv5712 Рік тому +493

    I know I’m nobody important but this is YOUR year Crystal 💛 I’m praying you get everything you deserve sweetie 🫶🏾

    • @4240Producer
      @4240Producer Рік тому +109

      I'm sorry, u are SOMEBODY Important‼️Ur wishing a sista well that makes u a BEAUTIFUL soul💥🫶🏾

    • @HealthySoulwithCoachT
      @HealthySoulwithCoachT Рік тому +30

      You are both important and valuable. I agree with what you said about Crystal!

    • @HealthySoulwithCoachT
      @HealthySoulwithCoachT Рік тому +10

      @@4240Producer That part!

    • @sherryeaton129
      @sherryeaton129 Рік тому +17

      I agree with you but you are someone, embrace that and all God has for you ❤

    • @yvonnec9842
      @yvonnec9842 Рік тому +21

      You're ALWAYS SOMEBODY and never forget that. It doesn't matter what stage of life you're in ❤ you matter, and you're SOMEBODY !!

  • @caramel0720
    @caramel0720 Рік тому +63

    “See potential but don’t fall in love with potential” ❤❤❤ This was so rich!

  • @unapologetically_annita5742
    @unapologetically_annita5742 Рік тому +120

    This episode had me in a chokehold!!! I got soooo much from this. “Standards are not the ceiling, it’s the floor.” BABEE!!! 🙏🏾♥️🥰

  • @tths__
    @tths__ Рік тому +35

    “Your needs need to automatically be his values” whew! I thoroughly enjoyed this episode. As a 25 year old navigating life and relationships I love getting these gems from married couples.

    • @monique6132
      @monique6132 Рік тому +2

      Im 52 and still gathering gems. 🙌🏽

  • @Love1_L
    @Love1_L Рік тому +5

    “A vision so robust it needs other gifts” whew that’s a word!!!!

  • @Ambi444
    @Ambi444 Рік тому +49

    Keep it “ In Gods Timing” Sweetie.. these Gems 💎 were Crystal Clear… Don’t stop collecting Data people, even when you have a partner you evolve…💚🙏🏽💎🔑

  • @Courie11e
    @Courie11e Рік тому +4

    The blessing behinds still being single is that some of us didn't settle and not going through a divorce.

  • @ericahouston8370
    @ericahouston8370 Рік тому +93

    Another great podcast topic. Loved it. Crystal hang in there. I was 38 when God sent me my Boaz. We're celebrating 4 yrs married in August. I too thought I was behind but nope God knew what I needed. Peace and Blessings Sis.

    • @MaurieB
      @MaurieB Рік тому +7

      Thank you for the encouragement

    • @Courie11e
      @Courie11e Рік тому +5

      I need this encouragement. I'm 38, still single, no kids. A little afraid of being alone the older I get

    • @kham__mokha7045
      @kham__mokha7045 Рік тому +3

      ​@@Courie11eSame but keep praying. God is gonnabless us richly❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @vikkidavixen
    @vikkidavixen Рік тому +21

    I’m 45 and have been single for 5 years and trust me I know how you feel. I pray to the Lord often about “sending my Boaz”.💜I have done the work on myself and I trust and believe that what the Lord has for us will truly be for us🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @gailfields-flowers2406
    @gailfields-flowers2406 Рік тому +3

    My Son & Daughter-in-law Much Love ♥ With One Of My Favorite Actresses ♥ All Stay Blessed ➕ 🙏 Yeah 👄 Yeah 👄

  • @shannelnewton9236
    @shannelnewton9236 Рік тому +25

    Only best friends can keep vows!!!

  • @brainsNbeauty727
    @brainsNbeauty727 Рік тому +60

    I love Pastor Dharius Daniels!

  • @candasenolen2077
    @candasenolen2077 Рік тому +10

    When Shameka said am I taken!!! Only Best Friends Can Keep Vows🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾❤️. See potential, but don't fall for potential 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. Your needs need to automatically be His values🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾. I Love this Conversation!!❤

    • @normacoote9856
      @normacoote9856 Рік тому +1

      Lawd have mercy… I need to take notes.

  • @shannawelsh1951
    @shannawelsh1951 Рік тому +7

    Only best friends can keep Vows. I like that

  • @mariasolomon419
    @mariasolomon419 Рік тому +4

    I’m a boss Chick! Everything I do adds value. Whheeewwww love that Lady Shameka🔥💯💞🙏🏾

  • @__prettynerd
    @__prettynerd Рік тому +39

    It was the close up for me! “ I know I’m a wife”! The editing!! 🎉

    • @thesinglemomlifecoach
      @thesinglemomlifecoach Рік тому +2

      Same! Lol I know I’m a wife too 🙌🏾

    • @marthawooden9176
      @marthawooden9176 Рік тому +5

      You have to know for sure that you are good and ready to be what God has for you to be to someone else. Knowing God's will for your life. AMEN!!!

    • @Yvonne-b2c
      @Yvonne-b2c 10 місяців тому

      My God!!!

  • @kikkijames156
    @kikkijames156 Рік тому +31

    No other podcast has kept my attention but this one, God definitely has his hands on you Crystal. From the time I saw you on Sistas you have been kind of a role model. Beauty, grace, hardworking. I hope you’ve found your person after the wait..

  • @shannelnewton9236
    @shannelnewton9236 Рік тому +62

    Yes!! Love PD!! And Pastor Shameka. Thanks Crystal Renee.. you’re a blessing to the body of Christ!!

  • @lorinunery2353
    @lorinunery2353 Рік тому +5

    This was a great episode for me. I'm a divorcee of 15 yrs and single. I was married young and I wish I had done the dating and pre married counseling. Even though I am now 61 yrs I will be doing it for my next marriage. Yes, there will be another husband. God told me that when my ex was still in my home. I'm keeping it Positive Sweetie❤

    • @TanyaEHood
      @TanyaEHood Рік тому

      I want to thank you so much for sharing your story.

  • @Stylesofbri
    @Stylesofbri Рік тому +32

    I attend Change Church Global and I just loved this conversation. You can tell they are genuine and God lead. ❤

  • @gailfields-flowers2406
    @gailfields-flowers2406 Рік тому

    One More Thing I'm A Member Of Change Church ⛪ In New Jersey Also Blessed 2 Be A Mother Of The Church 🙏

  • @__prettynerd
    @__prettynerd Рік тому +2

    He even respects his wife with his eyes and words !

  • @divine5582
    @divine5582 Рік тому +22

    The Green flags shared by PD.. wow wow wow.. Crystal they've got to be back.. It was great listening to both of them.. As a 42 yr old single lady looking into marriage, i needed this!
    Bless you !!

  • @catherinemusangi5509
    @catherinemusangi5509 7 місяців тому

    My favourite actress, Crystal, Gods timing is always The best. Trust him

  • @M0NI1ish
    @M0NI1ish Рік тому +1

    REV. DANIELS FROM TRENTON NJ 😮😮 I LOVE HIM

  • @shemiekarenee0117
    @shemiekarenee0117 Рік тому +1

    Only best friends can keep vows... that's deep💎

  • @ibiyemib2191
    @ibiyemib2191 8 місяців тому +1

    I love how Crystal's face lights up! It just makes you want to smile

  • @PreciousChism2121
    @PreciousChism2121 Рік тому +34

    Love these 2!!!! I remember first meeting them when they had their church in Ewing,NJ and going to this function they had at the bowling alley. They were so down to earth and you felt comfortable in/around their energy. Change church is the bomb and Pastor Daniel's is heavily anointed with the word of God!!!! Transforming lives one soul at a time❤

  • @teeclay4394
    @teeclay4394 Рік тому +1

    I love the real conversations. "Am I taken?"

  • @angelslovelybraiders2366
    @angelslovelybraiders2366 Рік тому +1

    “Coach while courting”
    That’s what’s up💯💯💯
    People need to be coachable and know that’s guidance is needed while dating💯💯

  • @lenadaniels7234
    @lenadaniels7234 11 місяців тому +9

    I'm 59 years young, never married, no kids. I can relate, I processed all those emotions even when I felt I was making marriage an idol. I'm focusing on the ministry God has for me as well as trusting God's perfect timing for the suitable mate He has for me.

  • @MimisLove
    @MimisLove Рік тому +3

    I love what she said when she said she was put in his life to add value! Wow that opened something in my mind

  • @Allytwix
    @Allytwix Рік тому

    “You can only shop at one store but what you need ain’t on the shelf” !! Emotional availability 👏🏾 Come on! 🗣️

  • @rashekawilliams5036
    @rashekawilliams5036 Рік тому +19

    I told y'all I was coming with my notebook for this here episode. Because even though I'm still "young" lol I am aiming to set the life I want for my future and the example I want my child to see. So here are my takeaways and please be patient with me because the might seem a lot but almost everything said in this video soaked deep in my heart.
    1. When you first decide to "love the way God intended" it may not work out and this could be God just putting us into practice for the real deal.
    2. Sometimes things will stay in the "grey" if you are assertive enough about your require him/her to make a decision on the relationship. Be clear of your expectations in order for the relationship to strive.
    3. Carry yourself how you want to be treated and viewed. When Crystal talked about how people always think she's in a relationship just based on how she assert herself, yep that's me.
    4. Getting coached throughout the dating process should be a together thing, while counselling should be more so individually. We have to work through our traumas and make sure we ourselves are whole before wanting to give of ourselves to another.
    5. Dating is the gathering of data. Get to know him/her, have uncensored conversations, become best friends first because only "best friends can keep vows".
    6. Your preferences can be negotiable but your standards should be absolute, they will in turn determine your green flags.
    7. This on hits - "if you are not going to meet my relationship needs it is like telling me I can only shop in this store but you will put what I need on the shelves". Like make it make sense lol I mean.
    8. You need to know what you want/need for yourself so that you know what to accept from the other.
    9. Be super clear on what you feel like you have to have in a relationship to be fulfilled and whether or not that person is demonstrating that. Don't just go falling in love with potential.
    10. Do frequent check ins with your partner, having those bimonthly or quarterly deep uncensored conversations helps to see where the relationship has improved and where it needs improvement.
    11. "Your needs should automatically be his/her values".
    12. Give yourself the permission to know what is your "too long" because only you can determine such.
    Keep it "honest, real and spicy" sweetie🥰🥰🥰. Loved this episode, listened to podcast getting ready for work thi morning and watched it when I got to work❤✨💝

    • @kala7347
      @kala7347 Рік тому +3

      the notebook was needed, thank you ✨✨💝 i forgot to take notes and was like "im gone have to watch this again" but then I went to the comments randomly and saw yours with the notes :)

    • @rashekawilliams5036
      @rashekawilliams5036 Рік тому +1

      @@kala7347 ❤️🥹🙏🏽

  • @tamaranicholas6504
    @tamaranicholas6504 Рік тому +1

    I clicked on this by mistake and glad I did!

  • @elizabethburton6956
    @elizabethburton6956 Рік тому +1

    I love how Pastor Daniels state that when you have had enough, you know. I recall the same idea when I decided to get my divorce. Shout out to my pastor as well. Love y’all.

  • @liberty9190
    @liberty9190 Рік тому

    “I just need to know before I go here am I taken” I know that’s righttt👏🏾😭

  • @kelleyjones2899
    @kelleyjones2899 Рік тому

    Fullfillment vs. falling for potential. This is a shirt!!!
    Lord Jesus!!! Baby, he is so telling the truth. Hinsight 2020, my God. Married for 16 years, but my God!!

  • @ECHOpg
    @ECHOpg Рік тому

    I ABSOLUTELY adore Ms. Shameka! She is the embodiment of Godliness, humility, intelligence and beauty... LOVE HER!

  • @lisaprewitt9374
    @lisaprewitt9374 Рік тому +26

    PD and Pastor Shameka are a powerful Kingdom couple! I enjoy attending Change Church in Atlanta!!! I thank God for them!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽😃😃🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @myhunny2006
    @myhunny2006 Рік тому +10

    I love Pastor Dharius and Shameka. They compliment each other very well. I have been attending Change Church since Jan and I have seen the growth in myself.

  • @Shefightsdifferent
    @Shefightsdifferent Рік тому +3

    Sis I just turned 40 in May and also just waiting for whatever God has for me! Pray you continue to stay strong and do it His way! It will be worth it regardless!

  • @adriana5103
    @adriana5103 Рік тому

    remember that not every one that calls on the lord is with him ❤🙏🏽 Repent and turn from evil and accept Jesus as your lord and savior before its too late just confess it with your mouth and believe in your heart that he is lord and he is coming again God bless and keep you all ❤️🙌🏾🙏🏽

  • @chabridgettumusiime8994
    @chabridgettumusiime8994 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ i really like these people talking about relationships being Godly people! God Almighty knows everything and at the right time we shall get married to God's choice! Marriage is a God purpose!

  • @mistymojones9280
    @mistymojones9280 Рік тому +11

    They became my COVID pastors.. I tell everyone about them, I've learned so much about myself from his teaching.

  • @cre8tivethinking859
    @cre8tivethinking859 Рік тому +4

    I always tell my clients, when dating pay attention to the person's character when they don't know you are looking. How do they treat people? How do they react when things don't go their way? Etc . Does that line up with God, and does it line up with who you are looking for in a spouse. Great topic , and I love watching all of you guys I recently discovered Pastor Darius and his sermons have blessed me through a difficult time in my life. And Zatima / sistas is my whosa😅

  • @kelleyjones2899
    @kelleyjones2899 Рік тому +1

    Take your time and let the Lord lead you.

  • @pawarmspirit
    @pawarmspirit Рік тому +1

    That's SOOO good! Don't fall for the potential you see, but what is demonstrated. I've done this WRONG and found my heart broken from the person I believed he could be, not the person he actually showed himself to be.

  • @rachellelove7999
    @rachellelove7999 Рік тому +1

    “only best friends can keep vows”❤🎉

  • @IkeRuffRyder
    @IkeRuffRyder Рік тому +1

    God’s timing is impeccable!!

  • @chabridgettumusiime8994
    @chabridgettumusiime8994 Рік тому

    These Pastors are so real and open ! ❤❤❤this girl 💖 Crystal is so beautiful 💕🌹🌹🌹 she looka like a rose flower , her Prince charming is on the way

  • @Marquetta-z8f
    @Marquetta-z8f Рік тому

    I have been married for 29 years. I can tell that you’re a wife & daughter of God. You’re a pure & very beautiful young lady inside & out! Hold on, because God will bring you your handsome prince…Boaz❤ Be blessed!

  • @chantalemerchant2389
    @chantalemerchant2389 4 місяці тому

    "Only Best Friends can keep vows." 🎯

  • @maude1790
    @maude1790 6 місяців тому

    That pastor just dropped the mic on my head.
    In counseling, what most of them need is coaching. What they need individually is counseling." Why, So you get the healing you need from your Trauma so that you can be an unbroken partner ( I added that) but La- ord. Gooood!!!!!

  • @toyakelley6628
    @toyakelley6628 Рік тому

    Only Bestfriends Keep Vows! Just being lovers will not get you through better or worse.👏

  • @rhondarivers9608
    @rhondarivers9608 11 місяців тому

    OMG, this is your pastor. I absolutely love listening to Dr. Dharius sermons. I came across his sermons 3 months ago and been stuck on them ever since. He has a unique style of bringing forth the word and drawing your attn.

  • @ears2heareyes2see
    @ears2heareyes2see Рік тому +9

    Great episode! I found my best love and best friend when I got in my 40s. I pray for that for you that this will be your year for love! Continued blessings!

    • @thea7418
      @thea7418 Рік тому

      I receive it too!❤

  • @kimbrown8882
    @kimbrown8882 Рік тому +23

    Hi Chrystal.......I'm listening at work......Love what you're doing these simple conversations really have ministered to me.....Thank you for being human and showing the world that we christian women deal with real life issues too. Things aren't always black and white but we can get through it through Christ Jesus our lord. Praying God's covering and will for your life. Please keep the videos coming. Such sound wisdom. 🙏🏽

  • @mariasolomon419
    @mariasolomon419 Рік тому +1

    FLAG 😂ON THE PLAY 😂PD!!! LOVE IT 😂❤

  • @LovinglyKnown
    @LovinglyKnown Рік тому +2

    I got certified as a marriage counselor and decided to counsel singles before they even start dating bc often as singles we don't know ourselves or what we want. Doing so helps us know what we desire in a mate and avoid making some critical errors.

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 Рік тому +1

    God is truly working on me. I have learn so much about myself in celibates and more time with God. I know that i cannot rush perfection .. So I will continue to wait on God.

  • @nela8302
    @nela8302 Рік тому

    Pray for GOD's guidance to make it your year. See your happiness through your eyes....

  • @mariasolomon419
    @mariasolomon419 Рік тому +1

    You are taken needs to be spoken. Or I’ll be living ahhh single! 💯🔥💃🏾

  • @claudiaacevedo7635
    @claudiaacevedo7635 Рік тому

    Beautiful couple led by God 🙏🏽🙌🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾to help us 🌍

  • @annagary4954
    @annagary4954 Рік тому +1

    “Only BEST FRIENDS keep vows “ that’s deep I ❤ it.

  • @jdelaynanderson
    @jdelaynanderson Рік тому +1

    I so absolutely love their candid story!!! He was not letting her go to the Reservation~ Alcorn😍💜💛 without being claimed!!!😂The real ness is so needed and is totally a blessing!

  • @kingdomchild6392
    @kingdomchild6392 Рік тому

    This couple is the salt of the earth. I have learned so much from their ministry, they don't play church they truly want to encourage transformation through Christ Jesus. They also sponsor an orphanage in Haiti.

  • @janewangui5147
    @janewangui5147 Рік тому +1

    Keep it "God's time"sweetie 😘 in His own time He will make everything beautiful...love you crystal 💕🔮

  • @JamesAustinHall
    @JamesAustinHall Рік тому +1

    God bless everyone in the name of Jesus amen!

  • @antionettemartin3694
    @antionettemartin3694 Рік тому +1

    Hello Beautiful Precious Souls
    Yes keep believe God going to make it happen in Jesus Name
    I enjoy this Powerful and Positive Message
    Thank You for sharing this I need to here this !
    Blessings to you all!

  • @GishelleWatson
    @GishelleWatson 9 місяців тому

    This Episode was Soooo AMAZING I have been Married for 10 years….. this was Soooooo Good and The Daniel’s have dropped some AMAZING NUGGETS🙏🙌🏽….

  • @jasonperry00
    @jasonperry00 Рік тому +3

    I love Dharius! So enjoyed listening to him talk about how he met Shameka! Thank you for having this conversation. I'm binge watching your shows. I'm so like Dharius... I grew up knowing how to be a husband... I was raised to be a husband, but I had no knowledge or wisdom on how to date. Which has hurt me a lot in my dating relationships.

  • @keannagreen8794
    @keannagreen8794 Рік тому

    Wow… he explained a helpmate in the most beautiful way.

  • @ebonyspencer7708
    @ebonyspencer7708 9 місяців тому

    Communication and understanding is needed for both individuals and when it’s one-sided, it’s super hard!

  • @StrengthNLove
    @StrengthNLove Рік тому +1

    God bless you all

  • @MarissaJOAT
    @MarissaJOAT 7 місяців тому

    I love my Pastor and my spiritual mother and they don’t even know they’ve been adopted by me.

  • @msliltrinity
    @msliltrinity Рік тому +3

    @Crystal Renee Hayslett I’m only four minutes in (and it’s the crack of dawn here), but this resonates with me so much and I’m focused. 38 and in the same boat with wanting that specific “I did it Your way” testimony. Thank you for sharing. Been loving @Dharius Daniels TV’s lessons and so happy to be introduced to @Shameka Daniels. I can already tell this video is going to be a gift that keeps on giving. God bless all of you, their current marriage, and your future marriage.

  • @okohbliss299
    @okohbliss299 Рік тому

    Divine opportunities for u crystal...at your increase there shall be no end in Jesus name amen

  • @tinarandolph517
    @tinarandolph517 Рік тому +1

    I love their light-hearted but sincere & serious energy.
    🙏🏾 💛😊

  • @yolandaslade1059
    @yolandaslade1059 Рік тому +1

    I'm not even halfway through and I'm LOVING the conversation! I've seen Dharius Daniels preach at Transformation Church several times and I've always liked his style of teaching/preaching. Love he and his wife's relationship :)

  • @andilengubane5178
    @andilengubane5178 Рік тому +1

    Crystal you have such a beautiful aura and a great personality, not only are you beautiful on the outside you have a beautiful soul too! I pray for everything good and just to come your way as you so deserve ❤

  • @dalynthiajohnson7183
    @dalynthiajohnson7183 Рік тому +5

    This was truly the best thing that I never knew I needed on a Saturday afternoon! When I first saw the video, I assumed that I just happened to see it. But as a believer, I know better. For all who were gleaming from the conversation just as I was, I'm excited about our testimonies! 💖

  • @fenacarter1620
    @fenacarter1620 Рік тому +12

    To GOD be the Glory for the things he has done:::: Thank you so much Crystal for sharing this episdoe!!! Keep shining Queen!!!

  • @albrown3808
    @albrown3808 Рік тому

    "Servant lover" ♥️♥️♥️

  • @alexandrajlovesyou
    @alexandrajlovesyou Рік тому

    Love this I could not keep smiling😊 I was like crystal when she hear a nugget COME ON!!! Say that 🫰🏿👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @tamarapierce2164
    @tamarapierce2164 Рік тому

    I’m 40 and single and a single mother with 2kids .. I settled in my past .I’m not doing it anymore kids are older I’ll be alone while kids are in college n a yr but Still not settling I HAVE STANDARDS AND KNOW MY WORTH NOWWWW MORE THAN EVER TY TO MY PASTOR AND ALSO DHARIUS N SHEMIKA FOR THE CHANGE IN MY LIFE N ME 💙💙💜

  • @Created706
    @Created706 Рік тому +1

    You'll are my favorite spiritual leaders!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @PPlese
    @PPlese 6 місяців тому

    Oh yes. TOTALLY AGREE. I got married young “19” and you don’t know yourself enough to speak your feelings because you’re still growing … you are evolving each moment.

  • @Devine503
    @Devine503 Рік тому

    Omg 3 of my favoriteeeeeeeeee people n the same couch!!! They are my pastors! I love change church!!! They changed my life!!!!❤❤❤

  • @user-mimic-w4u
    @user-mimic-w4u Рік тому

    That is very true. Since COVID I’ve been so accustomed to watching church online. I’m really trying to fix that.

  • @mariasolomon419
    @mariasolomon419 Рік тому +1

    I love my Spiritual Parents. ❤❤❤

  • @CityPrettyMakeup
    @CityPrettyMakeup Рік тому

    Only best friends can keep vows. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @JustKay720
    @JustKay720 Рік тому +3

    I have 3 pages of notes. It's a blessing to be under PD's leadership. I thoroughly enjoyed this episode.

  • @natisse2003
    @natisse2003 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, Mrs. Daniels!

  • @chabridgettumusiime8994
    @chabridgettumusiime8994 Рік тому

    Crystal you are so real in your opinions you should start a talk show like Oprah Winfrey

  • @lisapowell2333
    @lisapowell2333 Рік тому +3

    Such a good episode and what Pastor said about when you’re older you have done some of the work & know yourself more, so you’re not late it will happen in the time it supposed to. That was excellent.

  • @chabridgettumusiime8994
    @chabridgettumusiime8994 Рік тому

    I love 💕 crystal's pinky princess look and she has a gorgeous smile 😊

  • @SuccesswithLatoya
    @SuccesswithLatoya Рік тому

    This is so real. Help your partner jump the moon!!! So much gems and gratitude in this episode. And things are definitely in God's timing not ours. Faith First.

  • @gracelong3975
    @gracelong3975 Рік тому

    Love this 🙏🏾 I am 40 years old too this is my year for my husband n I too. Ready to receive him 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @Rhondamrawls
    @Rhondamrawls Рік тому +3

    Best relationship conversation on the internet! Thanks Crystal for sharing.