and nobody ever comes at Nicole Murphy, Juanita Jordan, kimora Simmons, Tina knowles- lawson… who by the way remarried and still kept Mathews name, just to name a few. They pick on Torrei cause Kevin is the most popular comedian and he moved on with his exotic wife.. now they wanna tell Torrei to get over it. Nah she can keep that last name with her kids.. and even after she marries if she wants to. At this point, it’s a household name that we all know.
Agree completely. It's her name, her identity and her family's name. It is who she has been her entire adulthood and is her family. Very strange for anyone to think they have input over another person's, especially one they've never met, name.
Whew, when she talked about her breakup and constantly being reminded and seeing him move on… this woman is so strong. I have so much respect for her ❤️❤️
Not easy at all, speaking from experience. It took me 5 years to heal and not feel any kind of way whenever I saw my ex-husband to exchange our child. It sucks but the hurt/pain doesn't last forever.
Exactly. I was shocked when someone asked why I didn't change my name back to my maiden name. Not divorced, but my husband died a few years ago. It has been my name since I was 18 yrs old. I'm now 48. It is who I am and who I have been my entire adulthood. It is my family's name, our 5 living children's name, our deceased baby's name. I am also still his wife, as his widow, and very proud to be. Why would I ever change it, and why would anyone have an issue or even feel they have input in who I am?
And drop dead baby doll gorgeous! Such a cutie. Bw shld be adored and get a chance to experience the security that comes from a truly loving husband and family. It’s almost like spotting a unicorn these days. 😞
Kevin wanted a “trophy wife” that would look good on his arm on the red carpet. Bet he didn’t think Torrei would become that trophy wife too. Happy and proud she had her own breakthrough and is looking AMAZING.
@@kazzityangel girl bye, some are weaker than others. She put her bitterness on display for YEARS while he went on with his life. That's the same as drinking poison yourself and hoping the other person dies. It's called LIFE, better hope you're capable of getting back up and moving on. Because u can't dictate what might happen.
I love her honesty, and that she "decided" to be joyful. It was a conscious decision and that is the key piece. Torrei is so cool. Continued success and blessings on their family.
She had to move on she had no choice Kevin wasnt coming back to her and Im sure she was bitter for long time about it...otherwise she wouldn't keep the last name of a man who is remarried with a whole new life and family... I wouldn't want to be tied to that regardless her kids would've understood I have a different last name from my kids they dont even care..so she full of it she holding on and is FORCED to deal with it because she cant let it kill her!
@@consciousluv Many women do keep their marital name for business purposes and for their kids. Changing the name would actually come off as petty because it's not that easy. You'd have to get new passport, drivers license, bank account details, everything you have in that name will need to be changed and that includes and businesses or assets. It's a lot of work and for whose benefit? Now, if she married someone new then I'd understand her wanting to change it.
Maturity? She got divorced years ago and she is still going on shows talking about her remarried ex-husband. She seems stuck AF. Is she an actress? Writer? Producer? Right now she seems like her greatest accomplishment has been marrying a star.
I love iyania she hard very tuff but very real I could use her but not sure I could even handle it and that’s what most people that don’t like her can not handle her straight up and in your face
@@MoeSoNatural I suspect, it's the toxic people who don't like Iyanla and that'd make sense. Iyanla's words be smacking em in the face. 😂 They don't like truth tellers.
I'm so glad they are able to co parent so well....Martell and melody need to have a sit down with Kevin and terrie so they can learn alot of things about co parenting
I commend her and Kevin for helping her to get to a place of healing. I admire her humility of reaching out to him for her to get the help she needed to move forward in a healthy manner- it was the least he could do but shows he respects her as the mother of his children. In this area, the men who are petty toward their exes can definitely take a lesson
That is hard to see the other person constantly after a break up and she's right that most people can break up and wash their hands without being constantly reminded
Am I the only one that has a problem with them asking her about her ex Kevin Hart when he is now in another relationship with the mother of his children and married for many years now. Like why are we still talking about this man when this woman has her own life and situations going on. She is much more than just her ex-husband.
Well I think it was just about co parenting simply because she was on that show and they were pretty up front about NOT having the best relationship… well her and Eniko especially
Because the conversation is why is she keeping his name? Plus insights of her personal journey which he is on it. At least for next 5 yrs he will still be part of it. She is breaking free
I actually WATCHED Kevin Hart’s live content (like when he did instagram lives and facebook lives) back when he was with Torrei Hart. She is a SUPER funny person also, and very quick-witted and you know he married her for a reason. Now that Kevin’s oldest daughter is all grown up compared to back then, the little clips I’ve seen of her that Kevin’s family has put out on social media, she reminds me THE MOST of everything I’ve seen of Torrei Hart. Level-headed, sharp, and just funny and caring
These comments are something. The most important thing is that she is healing from the pain that Kevin caused her. She's working on herself for improvement, that's the important piece. It's not easy to get through this type of heartache and still keep it together because you share a child(ren), I know from experience as my ex-husband did the same to me and we share a child and now he ain't even with the female anymore. Looks ain't everything and won't get you far, looks don't last forever but the heart and mind does, folks don't understand that.
@@traceytracey3756 not mine either. And you know some high fashion designers make lines for target so im sure if it’s there it would be for less than $100. I bet you can still get the look
I'd probably keep his last name (too) not because of matching names with the kids but because I'm a little lazy about changing government documents. Actually, that's one reason I haven't changed my last name to my husbands name in the first place. The main reason is because I prefer to keep my name.
Yes keep your last name. Lol I was married and if something was to happen God forbid and y'all did divorce the courts ask him if it's ok for you to change your name. The guy has the right to say she can change it or she has to keep it. It's insane. I don't think that's right that the guy has the right tho.
Yes, it could be a hassle. I only did my ID card. Been saying for years I'm gonna do the passport too but haven't yet. It's been 4 years! lmao I'm going to start the process by Xmas, I promise!
@@ec6621 so I live in Ga an got my divorce in tx and also in Mi. I married the same guy twice. I was a dummy. But when we got our divorce in Tx they had questions they asked to see if we agreed in everything. One was about the last name if said something like does she keep her last name or change it to her maiden name. It was the same in Mi. On the paper I came to that question an I put on there I wanted my last name back. He wanted me to keep his we didn't have kids or anything. Both times it was that way.
@@ec6621 it's just like if the female is married an wants a hysterectomy she has to have her husband sign off that he agrees to it here in Ga and alot of other states. It's crazy. The husband has the say really. He let me have my last name back the 2cd time. I keot my name the 1st time (thankfully) I was just to lazy to go switch it. Lol so much stuff to do to switch it. But the 2cd time we did switch it an then when we divorced.thats when I found out how much rights makes have an what little rights females have over their own stuff an bodies.
A lot of YALL sound real ignorant about her keeping her last name.If y’all knew how common it was for people to do it for the kids or just not have to pay to change it back. I’m sure she will change it when she remarry but for now she don’t have to
There was a segment on should you keep the last name and all these hosts said hell naw they wouldn’t, I guess for obvious reasons. Hart has dollar bills attached to it. Let’s be “real”
@@1afgBeauty last DONT mean advantage cause half of us still only know her has his baby mama. If we bring real half of women keep the last name for children reason
She left him cuz he was a cheater and he thought she would not leave him with all the money. But she knew she was gone be good with child support alone so she took the window out like a woman would. She's good for life with that. No woman should have to accept a man who cheats no matter how much money he has. Men always feel at the height of their career it's the perfect time to cheat!
I agree with the last names and school. As a child who had a different last name than her mother and now as a mother who has different last name as her sons. I have to change it soon, but it’s just feels different.
Yeah I can see that.. It just depends though If the kids don't complain then I would prefer my own last name.. There's definitely more to focus on.. I think it's a big deal in their case because he's a famous person.. If I was in her shoes I wouldn't want the last name.. I'd be taking on my new husband's last name.. she needs to think ahead of her single days
It's good to see Torrei happy and at a better place in her life. She seems to be a loyal person based on her past reality show. I genuinely wish her the best. ❤
It totally kills me how so many people “know,” what Kevin did or Torrey did and feel like they can comment on the situation when none of us where there. Torrey is beautiful just like his new wife! Let people live theirs lives!
@@TheFASHUNRAWKS no she got cheated on by her HUSBAND Kevin. And I'm sure neither of them were perfect, everyone has flaws and sometimes people fall out of love. We only get 1 life and everyone deserves to be happy.
I would love to see tori married and happy loivibg her best life. Often times men divorce and remarry a new “trophy wife” and have new relationships but the first wife remains single… this is especially true for blk women . Even tho I know you can be single and happy I would love to see this black woman remarry and get loved on properly.
@@missb2182 I mean at the end of the day humans are wired for companionship. Often women say they don’t want to remarry out of a hurt place or thinking it’s impossible for them. I doubt if you truly asked her in private what she wanted she would want to be loved unconditionally, supported, cherished and have someone to partner with through life.
That makes its easier to move on when your ex knows he did you wrong and he owns it. He never let Eniko go after Torrei and he even bought her cars afterwards.
Wow ! It’s woman like this we need to see 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 how to come into your healthiest self emotionally. Also how to comparent a healthy way. I like the fact that Kevin helped her..ever after the divorce ..it takes maturity to know that helping each other is helping your children !
She is so beautiful and representing strength and happiness and I luv it I respect how honest she was about how hard her divorce was on her i went through a divorce n it took its toll I can only imagine how it was for her with it being so public !!!!!
She’s beautiful and looks like a grown woman! I know it had to be hard to be there from the beginning and watch someone else live ur dream and reap ur rewards. 🤦🏾♀️ But I’m glad she is positive and happy. I pray Hod sends her the husband she deserves and desires.
I think it depends on how one perceives what a trophy wife is. To me, a trophy wife means someone who looks good, but just “sits on the shelf”, doesn’t have their own personality. The husband may just consider them a pretty face and not much more.
A shame that the looks of these two woman are the highlight, sad. The most important thing is that she is healing from the pain that Kevin caused her. She's working on herself for improvement, that's the important piece. The Hell with the looks. Looks don't get you far and looks don't last forever but the heart and mind does.
I’m liking this interview! I really like when she said “I made the decision to be happy”.. I haven’t thought about how deep and how much work and determination that takes.. I need to ponder on this 🤔
Wow!!! Love it the fact that she is so positive! That’s right she was honest it hurt her and she broke through her hurt and move past it. Amazing we need more woman like this 😘 power to all string mommas out there life ain’t easy but we become stronger and walk with more knowledge and strength
It's easier to co-parent when the kids are almost teenagers. she should put that out there... because it definitely wasn't all rainbows and sunshine in the beginning.
Her and Kevin seem like they have similar personalities that would actually clash, as opposed to being each other’s opposites. Both seem so full of life though! 😄
I think they would compliment each other. She seems interesting like him but the calm version. But unfortunately people don't do right and out grow each other. Remember he cheated so she had to go lol
@@alanaterrel9914 so thats why he cheated on his current wife because he was done with their marriage too...? No not at all Men like Kevin can be very selfish and don't know how to deal with their own shortcomings so they make choices, gratifying self and end up hurting the ones they suppose to love. Why was he so done? I've seen an interview with the both of them from like 10 years ago. I think he was jealous of her career aspirations to get into the same business as he was in, that she always wanted to be in as well but supported him while raising their kids. He wanted all the shine and couldn't get over the fact she want to be more than a stay at home mom. Why do people cheat and lie, many reasons but none have anything to do with the person they cheated on and lie to and every thing to do with their own character flaws.
It was clear she was hurting when Kevin moved on we saw it but we see she bosses up . It is easier to love on and get your check live like he live and be single .
The hardest thing I have ever done was co-parent. It’s really sad when parents will not put their kids happiness above their egos or pride. It also changes the person your child or children will become. Me and my ex got alone so good even after I married. We would have birthday party together, coached her basketball ball team together and he would come to our house on Christmas morning to see what Santa got her. Then one day he gets this new girlfriend. He started honking the horn when he picked her up and wouldn’t speak to me at all when the girlfriend was around. Then the talk came how things had to change because he was getting married and he needed to put his wife feelings first. My daughter was 6 we hadn’t been together over 5 years and I was married for over 3 years. The changes crushed my daughters heart and he never could see how happy it made her when we got alone. They had a ruff relationship and never got a chance to fix it because he passed away when she was 19. It’s been few years now and his wife has yet to give my daughter one thing of his not even a T-shirt. It kills me because I even know he would want her to have something.
As you grow older the last name thing becomes less prevalent and more normal like to you. However, she is certainly right! The last name being different from your parent and or siblings does negatively affect kids. Cause I was one of them lol
It’s normal in many cultures for the mother/wife to keep her name. Also, in Islam, Muslim women are recommended to keep their names in order to identify their family of origin.
It is very good that the Harts can work together for the kids. It is hard for parents to work threw their problems. I am so glad that she got help threw her problems. God bless her.
She’s his first love, and he is hers. She doesn’t have to change her last name. She will always have a special place in his heart, that’s why he didn’t care. Regardless. I’m sorry lol it’s just the way it is. Those first loves are a mf 😂
Yea Iyanla Vassant❤....also known as AUNTIE to me in my head. God is blessing her to bless others with her gift as she helps others help themselves by learning how to look trama dead in the eye and say NOT TODAY..... or tomorrow, so they can get to a place of healing. She teaches how to move forward by ( doing the work ), showing people how to use certain tools that will assist them now and in the future when they need to find their way through life's difficulties, challenges, and battles so that they can have the victory. YES, LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE AUNTIE IYANLA !!!!!! The BEAUTIFUL TORY HART is now an inspiration to others. That's right, do your thing girl. I love what you did as a divorcing parent. You were absolutely in love with and connected to your children's feelings more than anything else. You made THEM your #1 priority. You understood the importance of protecting their hearts, despite the pain your own heart was trying to endure. Many have failed in that respect and children have been wounded when put in the midst of grown people's drama. your children are blessed because you are the definition of a truly loving and wonderful mother. GIVE THIS FATHER AND MOTHER and IYANLA A STANDING OVATION. TORI you GLOWING girl. Inside and out. p.s. One more standing ovation for TORI....yaaaaaas!!!!!!!!
Wow, both of you were wearing your grown folk draws through all that. Much success to you Torrie and I just gained another level of respect for Kevin because he was there for you when you needed him to be.
She was with him literally from the beginning, she earned that name.
Every bit of it!
and nobody ever comes at Nicole Murphy, Juanita Jordan, kimora Simmons, Tina knowles- lawson… who by the way remarried and still kept Mathews name, just to name a few. They pick on Torrei cause Kevin is the most popular comedian and he moved on with his exotic wife.. now they wanna tell Torrei to get over it. Nah she can keep that last name with her kids.. and even after she marries if she wants to. At this point, it’s a household name that we all know.
@@PrincessZamunda 🎯🎯
Thank you
Agree completely. It's her name, her identity and her family's name. It is who she has been her entire adulthood and is her family. Very strange for anyone to think they have input over another person's, especially one they've never met, name.
Whew, when she talked about her breakup and constantly being reminded and seeing him move on… this woman is so strong. I have so much respect for her ❤️❤️
Yessss!! I always thought about it but hearing her say it had to be horrible
I love her honesty!
That’s tough
Not easy at all, speaking from experience. It took me 5 years to heal and not feel any kind of way whenever I saw my ex-husband to exchange our child. It sucks but the hurt/pain doesn't last forever.
FACTS!! Say one more time for the salty beeeches in the back!!
A divorced woman who is not remarried need not explain why she “keeps” her married name.
It’s her name. It’s not borrowed.
Exactly
I didn't change my name when I got divorced either. It's too much work and it's MY name now. I had that name longer than my maiden name.
Thank you. My children have that last name& so will I if divorced.
Exactly. I was shocked when someone asked why I didn't change my name back to my maiden name. Not divorced, but my husband died a few years ago. It has been my name since I was 18 yrs old. I'm now 48. It is who I am and who I have been my entire adulthood. It is my family's name, our 5 living children's name, our deceased baby's name. I am also still his wife, as his widow, and very proud to be. Why would I ever change it, and why would anyone have an issue or even feel they have input in who I am?
Thank you!!
I’m glad she’s speaking out! She seems so positive and mentally happy.
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 yeah It really is unfair black women deserve better
Lol she lost
She is human, so we know it was ugly before she got to this place of happiness and I'm proud of her.
And drop dead baby doll gorgeous! Such a cutie. Bw shld be adored and get a chance to experience the security that comes from a truly loving husband and family. It’s almost like spotting a unicorn these days. 😞
She’s lovely 🥰
Kevin wanted a “trophy wife” that would look good on his arm on the red carpet. Bet he didn’t think Torrei would become that trophy wife too. Happy and proud she had her own breakthrough and is looking AMAZING.
Bingo! And cheated on her multiple times! God will allow u to sit high and look low at those who hurt u. Karma is real
She looks so outstanding like wow
@@MoeSoNatural Yes she does! And she’s doing her own thing. She’s not sitting down waiting on child support money.
@@PreciousSullivan Yap. She stayed and popped out another baby right after that.
Exactly
Divorce doesn't mean ur life is over. How u decide to live after is what counts. Especially for the kids. Love how mature she is
Facts!!! ❤️
She could be a voice actress. Glad she's moved onward and more importantly UPWARD.
Yes, her voice is adorable.
Yes, I've been saying that for years. She has the most 'unique' voice.
You should send her this suggestion to her as a message
Torrei is basically the Tyler Perry Acrimony movie but with a happy ending. I'm happy she found her light
Exactly
Absolutely👏🏽
She is so gorg with her melanin Poppin skin. Yes you go Tori, I really love how she kept it moving and find peace and happiness in loving herself.
Took her long enough. She was bitter for a long time.
About time.....
@@ebonyeverything2751 girl stop judging she was done wrong! better pray it doesn't happen to you.
@@kazzityangel girl bye, some are weaker than others. She put her bitterness on display for YEARS while he went on with his life. That's the same as drinking poison yourself and hoping the other person dies. It's called LIFE, better hope you're capable of getting back up and moving on. Because u can't dictate what might happen.
@@ebonyeverything2751 Went on with his life? Ehm no he made their marriage and his infidelity the main topic of his comedy skits for years. Stop!!
I love her honesty, and that she "decided" to be joyful. It was a conscious decision and that is the key piece. Torrei is so cool. Continued success and blessings on their family.
She had to move on she had no choice Kevin wasnt coming back to her and Im sure she was bitter for long time about it...otherwise she wouldn't keep the last name of a man who is remarried with a whole new life and family... I wouldn't want to be tied to that regardless her kids would've understood I have a different last name from my kids they dont even care..so she full of it she holding on and is FORCED to deal with it because she cant let it kill her!
@@consciousluv Many women do keep their marital name for business purposes and for their kids. Changing the name would actually come off as petty because it's not that easy. You'd have to get new passport, drivers license, bank account details, everything you have in that name will need to be changed and that includes and businesses or assets. It's a lot of work and for whose benefit?
Now, if she married someone new then I'd understand her wanting to change it.
She has a unique voice.
She kinda sounds like Kevin 😂
Her voice sounds almost like Michel'le.
@@alidhere9806 nah more like mini mouse
@@charlenejohnson5769 thought that too
@@Tee-kc3pn lol it’s not that bad
So proud of Torrei...she is honest & relatable to many women....Big Blessings to her! 🖤
Wow I've been thru that..
I really admire the maturity between her and Kevin. The world needs to normalize this ❤️
#word 💙
It is normalized lol 😂
It was nasty at first, but of course after seeing him move on, she found herself and is now stepping on Kevin and his wife's neck.
Maturity? She got divorced years ago and she is still going on shows talking about her remarried ex-husband. She seems stuck AF. Is she an actress? Writer? Producer? Right now she seems like her greatest accomplishment has been marrying a star.
Normalize staying together how about that?
I was literally thinking of this woman she looks amazing and better than ever! I’m happy she’s over came all the drama!! She has a beautiful soul
Wow Torrei is so mature, beautiful, and positive! 😍❤️
Well Said
She’s 43. I would hope she’s mature. But I agree with the rest
@@yesmynameisrich1944 I guess you would be surprised that there are people her age and older that are not mature
People shade Iyanla but she's helped a lot of people. Glad Torrei is doing well and being so positive. She's glowing with happiness.
I’ll never understand the dislike ppl have for Iyanla. She is outstanding in my book and always will be.
I love iyania she hard very tuff but very real I could use her but not sure I could even handle it and that’s what most people that don’t like her can not handle her straight up and in your face
@@MoeSoNatural I suspect, it's the toxic people who don't like Iyanla and that'd make sense. Iyanla's words be smacking em in the face. 😂 They don't like truth tellers.
I'm so glad they are able to co parent so well....Martell and melody need to have a sit down with Kevin and terrie so they can learn alot of things about co parenting
I’m a licensed clinical therapist and love Iyanla. She’s a great life coach with her flaws like many. I wish her show was still recording new shows.
Wow Torrei is a gorgeous, well-spoken woman! Also, I need that chain!
And dress!
I commend her and Kevin for helping her to get to a place of healing. I admire her humility of reaching out to him for her to get the help she needed to move forward in a healthy manner- it was the least he could do but shows he respects her as the mother of his children. In this area, the men who are petty toward their exes can definitely take a lesson
Amen 🙏🏾 praise god 🙌🏾
When the man has money it’s easy. But it’s hard when you not holding cash like that and the mom is using your kids as a bargaining tool.
The least he can do 😂😂😂 y’all brainwashed
@@cashshinobi Quiet little dusty, this is feown women's business.
That is hard to see the other person constantly after a break up and she's right that most people can break up and wash their hands without being constantly reminded
She needs her own talk show. I love to hear her talk she has so much wisdom to share. Thank you Queen Hart 💞
Am I the only one that has a problem with them asking her about her ex Kevin Hart when he is now in another relationship with the mother of his children and married for many years now. Like why are we still talking about this man when this woman has her own life and situations going on. She is much more than just her ex-husband.
Well I think it was just about co parenting simply because she was on that show and they were pretty up front about NOT having the best relationship… well her and Eniko especially
She is the mother of his first (2)children and was his wife at a point. Also she's not remarried.
Because the conversation is why is she keeping his name? Plus insights of her personal journey which he is on it. At least for next 5 yrs he will still be part of it. She is breaking free
I hate it too but being his Ex is what the media wants to spin for ratings
She is stunning!!
No wonder their kids are so cute. Their daughter is stunning
@@mimiad397 very true!
Sike
Yes, she is!!
I'm happy for her. That therapy with Iyanla is golden.
She radiates with happiness. I can’t wait to be at that level again.
Yes !!!! I want this level of peace.
I wish the best for yall ❤
Jeannie’s eyes when Torrei was talking about the food LMFAO heart eyes 😍😂 them pregnancy cravings I imagine
🤣🤣🤣 lookin’ like she zoned out for a minute thinking about food …. Mommy Brain 😩🤣🤣🥰
@@karynallen-clarke3354 She was in another place 😂 😂 😂
Aww...haha
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I am cryingggggg this is so funnyyy cuz its SO TRUE
I actually WATCHED Kevin Hart’s live content (like when he did instagram lives and facebook lives) back when he was with Torrei Hart. She is a SUPER funny person also, and very quick-witted and you know he married her for a reason. Now that Kevin’s oldest daughter is all grown up compared to back then, the little clips I’ve seen of her that Kevin’s family has put out on social media, she reminds me THE MOST of everything I’ve seen of Torrei Hart. Level-headed, sharp, and just funny and caring
All true but she’s also brown baby doll gorgeous like her mom. 💗
Torrei has always been a dime. She’s been thru a lot glad she made it thru.
I randomly met Torrei at a food show, very sweet. Wish her the best!
Yes, I met her one day in a restaurant and she was very beautiful and sweet. So down to earth. I like her spirit.
She is so beautiful inside and out. I love how transparent they’ve both been about the past and now. I wish her well in every area of her life.
Torrei is such a beautiful woman and you can tell she's happy. She has that glow!
This is the height of maturity in a relationship. Both of them have earned my respect.
Love how well she carries herself.
Torrei looks better than his current wife to me. Mixed heritage doesn't automatically make a person beautiful. Ijs
Ohhhh
Facts 💯💯💯💯💯💯!
She is so pretty
TRUTH 💯💯🎯🎯
Her kids too they are beautiful 🤩😍
Every outfit Adrienne has worn this season has been a 10
Outfit, hair and face all 10
These comments are something. The most important thing is that she is healing from the pain that Kevin caused her. She's working on herself for improvement, that's the important piece. It's not easy to get through this type of heartache and still keep it together because you share a child(ren), I know from experience as my ex-husband did the same to me and we share a child and now he ain't even with the female anymore. Looks ain't everything and won't get you far, looks don't last forever but the heart and mind does, folks don't understand that.
Kevin has cheated in both his marriages! Eniko will need Iyanla as well at some point.😒
First she make they have atleast 3 to 6 kids
Eniko isn’t going anywhere. He’s cheated on her more than once and she’s still there. Definitely all about being taken care of.
@@styleswithkay3985 she will get tired eventually
That dress is everything
Wonder where we can get it?
@@traceytracey3756 probably balmain, bet shein has a dupe
@@Loganne92 Wow! Thanks. Just looked it up and truthfully, imma need the Target knock off. 😊 $2,000 isn't in my budget.
@@traceytracey3756 not mine either. And you know some high fashion designers make lines for target so im sure if it’s there it would be for less than $100. I bet you can still get the look
@@Loganne92 Yup. I love Beyonce's dress. That thing fits like a glove and I get compliments like crazy.
Why do people care about someone else’s name?? I will NEVER understand it. She’s Hart, until she gets remarried. Not rocket science people😩
This new generation are so weird 😂. Asking questions that don’t even concern them. I thought that was commons knowledge also
I was about to ask
@@nathc540 facts! But you know what they say, common sense ain’t common.. unfortunately!
Her skin though!!! Her voice sound super sweet and innocent lol
I'd probably keep his last name (too) not because of matching names with the kids but because I'm a little lazy about changing government documents. Actually, that's one reason I haven't changed my last name to my husbands name in the first place. The main reason is because I prefer to keep my name.
Yes keep your last name. Lol I was married and if something was to happen God forbid and y'all did divorce the courts ask him if it's ok for you to change your name. The guy has the right to say she can change it or she has to keep it. It's insane. I don't think that's right that the guy has the right tho.
Yes, it could be a hassle. I only did my ID card. Been saying for years I'm gonna do the passport too but haven't yet. It's been 4 years! lmao I'm going to start the process by Xmas, I promise!
@@stephanielong2674 what??? Courts ask the man if it's ok for her to change her name? Where does this happen?
@@ec6621 so I live in Ga an got my divorce in tx and also in Mi. I married the same guy twice. I was a dummy. But when we got our divorce in Tx they had questions they asked to see if we agreed in everything. One was about the last name if said something like does she keep her last name or change it to her maiden name. It was the same in Mi. On the paper I came to that question an I put on there I wanted my last name back. He wanted me to keep his we didn't have kids or anything. Both times it was that way.
@@ec6621 it's just like if the female is married an wants a hysterectomy she has to have her husband sign off that he agrees to it here in Ga and alot of other states. It's crazy. The husband has the say really. He let me have my last name back the 2cd time. I keot my name the 1st time (thankfully) I was just to lazy to go switch it. Lol so much stuff to do to switch it. But the 2cd time we did switch it an then when we divorced.thats when I found out how much rights makes have an what little rights females have over their own stuff an bodies.
A lot of YALL sound real ignorant about her keeping her last name.If y’all knew how common it was for people to do it for the kids or just not have to pay to change it back. I’m sure she will change it when she remarry but for now she don’t have to
Right! Especially with kids in school
There was a segment on should you keep the last name and all these hosts said hell naw they wouldn’t, I guess for obvious reasons. Hart has dollar bills attached to it. Let’s be “real”
Exactly My Stepmom and Dad are divorce and she still has my dads last name fo legal purposes
@@1afgBeauty last DONT mean advantage cause half of us still only know her has his baby mama. If we bring real half of women keep the last name for children reason
She is the first wife !!! so she is entitled to keep that name forever if she chews
Okay Tori come through with the bawdy‼️🎉🥰 Tori is such a dope person. I miss her on reality tv.
She left him cuz he was a cheater and he thought she would not leave him with all the money. But she knew she was gone be good with child support alone so she took the window out like a woman would. She's good for life with that. No woman should have to accept a man who cheats no matter how much money he has. Men always feel at the height of their career it's the perfect time to cheat!
She wasn't with him for child support ..
no shade on his current wife but she still with him after he cheats on her too
Actually, he left HER
Absolutely proud of her. This is why I am an advocate for therapy. It changed my life.🙌🏾
She looks absolutely stunning
Omg that’s why her daughter is soooo beautiful….she is sooo beautiful!!!
I wanted to say the same thing but just didn't want to come off mean. The two kids she had with Kevin as so beautiful
I agree with the last names and school. As a child who had a different last name than her mother and now as a mother who has different last name as her sons. I have to change it soon, but it’s just feels different.
Yeah I can see that.. It just depends though If the kids don't complain then I would prefer my own last name.. There's definitely more to focus on.. I think it's a big deal in their case because he's a famous person.. If I was in her shoes I wouldn't want the last name.. I'd be taking on my new husband's last name.. she needs to think ahead of her single days
It's good to see Torrei happy and at a better place in her life. She seems to be a loyal person based on her past reality show. I genuinely wish her the best. ❤
It totally kills me how so many people “know,” what Kevin did or Torrey did and feel like they can comment on the situation when none of us where there. Torrey is beautiful just like his new wife! Let people live theirs lives!
Not kills you😂😂💀 Everybody has opinions just like you right now
Exactly!!!
What did she do I’m lost lol she was a devoted wife and got cheated on by a side chick.
@@TheFASHUNRAWKS thank you!
@@TheFASHUNRAWKS no she got cheated on by her HUSBAND Kevin. And I'm sure neither of them were perfect, everyone has flaws and sometimes people fall out of love. We only get 1 life and everyone deserves to be happy.
I would love to see tori married and happy loivibg her best life. Often times men divorce and remarry a new “trophy wife” and have new relationships but the first wife remains single… this is especially true for blk women . Even tho I know you can be single and happy I would love to see this black woman remarry and get loved on properly.
So do I and I wish that on every single/divorced black woman. I want to see black women win for a change
Perhaps Torrei doesn't want to be remarried. Marriage is not for everyone..
@@missb2182 I mean at the end of the day humans are wired for companionship. Often women say they don’t want to remarry out of a hurt place or thinking it’s impossible for them. I doubt if you truly asked her in private what she wanted she would want to be loved unconditionally, supported, cherished and have someone to partner with through life.
@@somebody2474 speaking it into existence!!! Black Women win in relationships. We each just have to start manifesting better
@@tamekarobinson1747
I don't disagree with that but you can have all of that without being married.
Jesus is your free gift to heaven when you believe in his death, burial and resurrection you are immediately saved.
I 1000% needed to hear what she said- thanks Torrei!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
She looks so beautiful 😍
Her and Kevin have both moved on and are great at co-parenting. He makes sure she and their children are good. She already knows.
That makes its easier to move on when your ex knows he did you wrong and he owns it. He never let Eniko go after Torrei and he even bought her cars afterwards.
Torrei is so beautiful! Grounded, true to herself… I love to see it!
Kevin was at his best comedy wise when he was with Torri, don't @ me.
Some people feel that way, you know why she help him with his material.
Didn’t she help him write though?
@@Ariesborn yes she did
She's gorgeous mature, and classy. She brought back classy
Wow ! It’s woman like this we need to see 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 how to come into your healthiest self emotionally. Also how to comparent a healthy way. I like the fact that Kevin helped her..ever after the divorce ..it takes maturity to know that helping each other is helping your children !
Well, helping her will also help him! I wish more men understood that.
@@Nash0303 exactly
@@Nash0303 absolutely!
Torei skin is glowing… that melanin baby 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰😍😏😏
And he left that
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc she left him.
@@ronnie2699 oh damn why
@Gunnel Gainey looks don’t keep a man or a woman!!
She is so beautiful and representing strength and happiness and I luv it I respect how honest she was about how hard her divorce was on her i went through a divorce n it took its toll I can only imagine how it was for her with it being so public !!!!!
Torrei upgraded her whole look👌🏾 I would’ve kept a famous ex last name too lol unless he was toxic as hell
She’s beautiful and looks like a grown woman! I know it had to be hard to be there from the beginning and watch someone else live ur dream and reap ur rewards. 🤦🏾♀️ But I’m glad she is positive and happy. I pray Hod sends her the husband she deserves and desires.
TORRIE HART LOOKS AMAZING!! 😍😍😍😍😍😍
I love this. She’s beautiful confident and mature. They are doing great bc they’re children are great as well. ❤️
Calling Eniko a trophy wife is actually an insult to Torrie and a compliment to Eniko. But y'all can't see that.
I think it depends on how one perceives what a trophy wife is. To me, a trophy wife means someone who looks good, but just “sits on the shelf”, doesn’t have their own personality. The husband may just consider them a pretty face and not much more.
Trophy’s are shiny on the outside and hollow on the inside. Depends if u value looks over substance then it’s a compliment
A shame that the looks of these two woman are the highlight, sad. The most important thing is that she is healing from the pain that Kevin caused her. She's working on herself for improvement, that's the important piece. The Hell with the looks. Looks don't get you far and looks don't last forever but the heart and mind does.
Calling your Wife a trophy is not a compliment. 😂🤣😂🤣 it sounds cute but no. 😂😂😂
Everyone has already said what I was going to say. A trophy wife is not something someone should be proud of being.
I Kevin be side eyeing her. She is beautiful and her shape is popping.
Way better than the sloppy giant he’s with.
Nah his current wife gorgeous
I’m liking this interview! I really like when she said “I made the decision to be happy”.. I haven’t thought about how deep and how much work and determination that takes.. I need to ponder on this 🤔
Wow!!! Love it the fact that she is so positive! That’s right she was honest it hurt her and she broke through her hurt and move past it. Amazing we need more woman like this 😘 power to all string mommas out there life ain’t easy but we become stronger and walk with more knowledge and strength
Oh man, I like her. And oh my Ms Hart is soooo strikingly beautiful! Keep it up hunnnnaayyyy❤❤❤
She’s way hotter than Kevin’s new beard.
😂😂😂😂
Not new beard 🤣🤣🤣
Broad lol. Beard🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
@@thetotalpackage6308 beard is used to explain a cover up (fake wife/girlfriend) for a gay man lol 🤦🏽♀️ fyi
It's easier to co-parent when the kids are almost teenagers. she should put that out there... because it definitely wasn't all rainbows and sunshine in the beginning.
She said it wasn't easy in the beginning 🤦🏿♀️
Your comprehension is way off go back and watch the video a few more time until you get an understanding hun
@@audreyp9472 no ❤️
torrei made her money as a hart they have children and he chose to give her that name. it's hers
She been through it 🙏🏾🙏🏾. Glad she’s better .
Her and Kevin seem like they have similar personalities that would actually clash, as opposed to being each other’s opposites.
Both seem so full of life though! 😄
I think they would compliment each other. She seems interesting like him but the calm version. But unfortunately people don't do right and out grow each other. Remember he cheated so she had to go lol
Also people like to change when they get rich and famous. The “grass is always greener” mentality 🙄
@@keba773 he literally said he cheated so he could get a divorce because he was done with the marriage so he didnt care
@@alanaterrel9914 what a mature way to deal with it! Instead of communicating👍🏾
@@alanaterrel9914 so thats why he cheated on his current wife because he was done with their marriage too...? No not at all Men like Kevin can be very selfish and don't know how to deal with their own shortcomings so they make choices, gratifying self and end up hurting the ones they suppose to love. Why was he so done? I've seen an interview with the both of them from like 10 years ago. I think he was jealous of her career aspirations to get into the same business as he was in, that she always wanted to be in as well but supported him while raising their kids. He wanted all the shine and couldn't get over the fact she want to be more than a stay at home mom. Why do people cheat and lie, many reasons but none have anything to do with the person they cheated on and lie to and every thing to do with their own character flaws.
It was clear she was hurting when Kevin moved on we saw it but we see she bosses up . It is easier to love on and get your check live like he live and be single .
The hardest thing I have ever done was co-parent. It’s really sad when parents will not put their kids happiness above their egos or pride. It also changes the person your child or children will become. Me and my ex got alone so good even after I married. We would have birthday party together, coached her basketball ball team together and he would come to our house on Christmas morning to see what Santa got her. Then one day he gets this new girlfriend. He started honking the horn when he picked her up and wouldn’t speak to me at all when the girlfriend was around. Then the talk came how things had to change because he was getting married and he needed to put his wife feelings first. My daughter was 6 we hadn’t been together over 5 years and I was married for over 3 years. The changes crushed my daughters heart and he never could see how happy it made her when we got alone. They had a ruff relationship and never got a chance to fix it because he passed away when she was 19. It’s been few years now and his wife has yet to give my daughter one thing of his not even a T-shirt. It kills me because I even know he would want her to have something.
WOW I LOVE THIS INTERVIEW ITS POSTIVE AND HONEST
Honest & real. Love it!! Also beauty, melanin…all of the above! Go chica!! 😻
She and Kevin sounds alike and speak the same.
Yup! Lol
been together too long 😂
That’s amazing god bless!! Can’t wait to get my breakthrough! I’m so happy for you!! And thank you for opening up about it!
She looks absolutely stunning🤩💗
Such a sweet black Sistah! You see and feel the joy from the inside.
Torrei hart is so pretty 😍 Love this interview ❤️❤️❤️ Adriane and Jeannie look gorgeous as usual
What A Beautiful Woman! Inside and out! I’m happy she’s well and has made that break through! Now living her life❗️❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾
She is looking so good. But more importantly she is sounding healthy from the inside. 🧡
Happy to see you happy!🥰
As you grow older the last name thing becomes less prevalent and more normal like to you. However, she is certainly right! The last name being different from your parent and or siblings does negatively affect kids. Cause I was one of them lol
It’s normal in many cultures for the mother/wife to keep her name. Also, in Islam, Muslim women are recommended to keep their names in order to identify their family of origin.
@@larabraver Recommended by whom?
@@ceterisparibus8966 The tenets of the religion, Islam.
@@larabraver The tenets? Can you give some specific examples?
I am so elated she shared herstory... And is doing well and looking amazing and is in a positive mindset! 🙏 She deserves happiness as we all do.
She is so beautiful 😍
Great interview. I noticed it said part 1. Will there be a part 2 uploaded soon?
Omg she's so Beautiful 🥰🥰
It is very good that the Harts can work together for the kids. It is hard for parents to work threw their problems. I am so glad that she got help threw her problems. God bless her.
She’s his first love, and he is hers. She doesn’t have to change her last name. She will always have a special place in his heart, that’s why he didn’t care. Regardless. I’m sorry lol it’s just the way it is. Those first loves are a mf 😂
So if she remarries she won't change it?🤔
@@Traveler-rf8ye not if she doesn’t want to 🙂🤷🏾♀️
Yea Iyanla Vassant❤....also known as AUNTIE to me in my head. God is blessing her to bless others with her gift as she helps others help themselves by learning how to look trama dead in the eye and say NOT TODAY..... or tomorrow, so they can get to a place of healing. She teaches how to move forward by ( doing the work ), showing people how to use certain tools that will assist them now and in the future when they need to find their way through life's difficulties, challenges, and battles so that they can have the victory.
YES, LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE AUNTIE IYANLA !!!!!!
The BEAUTIFUL TORY HART is now an inspiration to others. That's right, do your thing girl. I love what you did as a divorcing parent. You were absolutely in love with and connected to your children's feelings more than anything else. You made THEM your #1 priority. You understood the importance of protecting their hearts, despite the pain your own heart was trying to endure. Many have failed in that respect and children have been wounded when put in the midst of grown people's drama. your children are blessed because you are the definition of a truly loving and wonderful mother. GIVE THIS FATHER AND MOTHER and IYANLA A STANDING OVATION. TORI you GLOWING girl. Inside and out.
p.s. One more standing ovation for TORI....yaaaaaas!!!!!!!!
Good for her! She seem like an amazing person!
Wow, both of you were wearing your grown folk draws through all that. Much success to you Torrie and I just gained another level of respect for Kevin because he was there for you when you needed him to be.
Co-parenting is easy, but that break up was rough.
But God got her to the breakthrough!🙌🏾
@@cassandraturner8905 Amen
Happy for this sis! She’s minding her business and Neva in somebody else’s to have to leave it alone!💃🏾
Who is here after finding out about her tour with Katt Williams? gather here!!!
I’m so happy she’s happy!!! I couldn’t imagine how hard that would be and to just not look back.