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"i've been in a serious relationship with my first love" tablo: congrats *a few secs later* "but it ended pretty bad last month" tablo: oh i'm sorry 😗 SKSSKKSSKKSKSSK
I love that you guys said that the first love can happen in high school, college, 30s, 50s, etc. Society tends to assume first loves and relationships happen in high school, and it ends up making people that don't have relationships that early to feel like there is something wrong with them. I appreciate that you normalized finding love later in life. I also loved what Tablo said how not to compare your loves and relationships, its more about comparing your past and current self. ♥
So well said. I would also add that generally loving different people feels differently too. Each person brings out a different part of ourselves (and we bring out different parts in different people as well). I did not recognize my 2nd love till the moment when I started feeling those emotions at the same depth as I felt my first love. Second love has a hard time to be seen within oneself.
wow so insightful. I liked that you said u can't compare the current love with your first love because you're essentially comparing your old self to your new self, which is not comparable.
I'm in the middle of watching this, but feeling the need to comment. Damn Tablo! You're so damn right! Well said! You are such a good love advisor! It hit me when you said "... You're just more experienced. You're just more cautious. But that's fine because you will realize that you are also much better at relationships. You are much more in control of your emotions so that, you know, no one can easily break your heart..." Anyway, I'm still wondering why you do not upload the full version of some latest videos on UA-cam. I've been waiting. 😢
They only upload the highlights on youtube. You can watch the full version as a podcast on spotify or soundcloud search tablo podcast and happy listening :)
@@flowery_path0t734 I listen on Spotify. But, tbh. Everyone has different preferences. I can watch video with more than an hour long but cannot only listen to it for more than 30 minutes. And English is not my first language, sometimes I don't get what they talk about, but by watching the video, I can turn on the cc button and it helps a lot. That's why I'm sad they only upload the highlights.
Tablo's last words really had me ,, never thought that before but it's really make sense ,, you are not comparing love you are comparing yourself ,, it's just wow
I'm 17 and i have never been in love nor in a romantic relationship , and now I am kind of sacred to fall in love ..😢 can i just skip "first love" and "first Hart break" and just start on the second one ?? 😐
bruh, I actually went through the exact same thing. fyi, even if it's a mutual break up over something completely reasonable it still hurts just as much. my relationship was about 4 or 5 years and it ended a couple months ago. my first love. now I kinda just dont know what to do with myself 🤷♀️
i need more episodes ^~^ but i don’t want you to get anxious for finding content or such... i listen to you on my way work and home while riding a bike, and i enjoy a lot (specially the ep. 6 😂) 👍 keep going
In other words, 'heart break' does not mean you literally break your heart or 'failed' in last and only love. It's more like emotional feelings of sorrow and sadness that you cannot bear with for some amount of time. You still have that heart which are not consumed of emotional feelings, but also your thoughts, memories, time, career, and etc,. Although your feelings in side of heart have broken, your whole heart is still there and ready to be affected by many other experiences and memories. You transform that heart as you want to and keep that going. And hopefully one day you will be able to find a person who sees your precious heart and hold it together with you like you will for that person.
Looking back at my first love, I laugh because I thought (at the time) he was "The One". I think there will be more than one person you'll fall in love with and you'll learn lessons from it. I thought my last relationship (which was my longest) was going to be my life partner but it didn't work out. Now I'm staying single until I'm ready to open up again.
I'm not gonna lie. I met my first love when I was a kid and we became a couple when I was in elementary school and broke up when I entered college like my first yaer in college we broke up after he proposed to me and we were planning our wedding together... And now after 5 years I still can't get over him.... I met new people i tried to date but nothing last more than few months.. I seriously don't know how to forget and move on with my life without him. It's hard first love is hard
Wow. That end but of advice there. You need to scream that for the people in the back. People are always comparing their next love to the last live, waiting for shit to happen, then when something insignificant does happen, they make a mountain out if it, because they are waiting for a bigger thing to happen. Trust me. I had to leave someone because he was like that
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Now, this is surely a "podclass". Haru knew it all along.
it sure is! HAHAHA
"You're not comparing love, you're comparing yourselves" (Tablo, 2019)
So correctly quoted (":
"i've been in a serious relationship with my first love"
tablo: congrats
*a few secs later*
"but it ended pretty bad last month"
tablo: oh i'm sorry 😗
SKSSKKSSKKSKSSK
I love that you guys said that the first love can happen in high school, college, 30s, 50s, etc. Society tends to assume first loves and relationships happen in high school, and it ends up making people that don't have relationships that early to feel like there is something wrong with them. I appreciate that you normalized finding love later in life. I also loved what Tablo said how not to compare your loves and relationships, its more about comparing your past and current self. ♥
Can tablo be therapy?
He already is:)
Tablo: "Oh, congrats"
Also Tablo: "oh... I´m sorry"
Haven’t been disappointed with a Tablo podclass yet. There’s always a piece of wisdom to leave with
Ahhh... I am a 51 year old woman and this brought tears to my eyes. So much wisdom from you two young men. hugs and kisses from noona lol
this man's wisdom...
Knows no bounds..
I would love for Tablo to narrate Eddy’s wedding for us live. That would be so lovely (and of course it would be hilarious)
tablo and eddie together are perfect. they're both so funny but they're so inspirational as well and i just appreciate them so much
Tablo and his life lessons... Where does that wisdom come from... But I love your podcasts
He has been through a lot of things actually even like a nightmare literally
@@as4ism yah.... I learnt about it recently.... And I hope he and his family remain happier... ☺
Tablo please please please don't stop giving us your wisdom. Hmmm maybe you should start a cult? Hey, I'd be game.
Haru will benefit from your advices Tablo
So well said. I would also add that generally loving different people feels differently too. Each person brings out a different part of ourselves (and we bring out different parts in different people as well). I did not recognize my 2nd love till the moment when I started feeling those emotions at the same depth as I felt my first love. Second love has a hard time to be seen within oneself.
this is not a podcast
this is life lesson. thanks haru's dad
Pod "Class" on point haha
I swear an episode cannot be done without mention of the mcu in any way shape or form
wow so insightful. I liked that you said u can't compare the current love with your first love because you're essentially comparing your old self to your new self, which is not comparable.
I'm learning a lot about love while listening to this. Thanks Tablo and Eddie 😊
So true nothing compares to your first love but your first born is a definite equal in terms of the over flowing love in your heart
"Oh my God, my heart can beat like this?" -- yup every Thursday at midnight. ^ ^
I'm in the middle of watching this, but feeling the need to comment. Damn Tablo! You're so damn right! Well said! You are such a good love advisor! It hit me when you said "... You're just more experienced. You're just more cautious. But that's fine because you will realize that you are also much better at relationships. You are much more in control of your emotions so that, you know, no one can easily break your heart..."
Anyway, I'm still wondering why you do not upload the full version of some latest videos on UA-cam. I've been waiting. 😢
They only upload the highlights on youtube. You can watch the full version as a podcast on spotify or soundcloud search tablo podcast and happy listening :)
@@flowery_path0t734 I listen on Spotify. But, tbh. Everyone has different preferences. I can watch video with more than an hour long but cannot only listen to it for more than 30 minutes. And English is not my first language, sometimes I don't get what they talk about, but by watching the video, I can turn on the cc button and it helps a lot. That's why I'm sad they only upload the highlights.
Two highlights for one episode!? I'm really missing out on the full ep rn
U really should listen to it all ur MISSING ON A LOT
Tablo's last words really had me ,, never thought that before but it's really make sense ,, you are not comparing love you are comparing yourself ,, it's just wow
"You're comparing yourselves" and then the video ends.....mind blown!
Thank you, this means a lot to me
Seriously tablo seriously we need ur advice in our life ,THANK YOU
Yes. Eddie Nam is back!
I just got out of a ten year relationship 4 months ago. I kinda needed to hear this thank you blo
This is what we need , thank you Tablo
This was so comforting and lovely. Thank you
going through my first heartbreak too, it helped me a lot thank you...it's been 3 months but i still miss him really much
...
Please make Eddy your co-host I love you guys together!
YESSS seriously
yessss
This was one of the best videos I've seen on love I wish I saw it after my 1st breakup
Truly speaking to me *snaps fingers to this poetic beauty *
I'm 17 and i have never been in love nor in a romantic relationship , and now I am kind of sacred to fall in love ..😢 can i just skip "first love" and "first Hart break" and just start on the second one ?? 😐
“You’re not comparing love, you’re comparing yourselves.”
I really enjoy this segment! please continue
damn, that was some serious wisdom right there. All true, too. Thanks, Tablo that was really well said.
This is great life lesson. Thanks Tablo
Beautifully answered tablo it just makes you a so much cooler guy
tablo always has the best reactions. i love him
Best duo
오빠 팟캐스트로 영어공부하고있어여....ㅎㅎㅎ 이렇게 또 제 인생에 큰 도움을 주셔서 감사합니다❣ 영어공부도 시켜주는 에픽하이...사랑합니당💕
bruh, I actually went through the exact same thing. fyi, even if it's a mutual break up over something completely reasonable it still hurts just as much. my relationship was about 4 or 5 years and it ended a couple months ago. my first love. now I kinda just dont know what to do with myself 🤷♀️
I have been waiting for the podcast.... thanks !
i need more episodes ^~^ but i don’t want you to get anxious for finding content or such... i listen to you on my way work and home while riding a bike, and i enjoy a lot (specially the ep. 6 😂) 👍 keep going
The Tablo Podcast is my remedy
In other words, 'heart break' does not mean you literally break your heart or 'failed' in last and only love. It's more like emotional feelings of sorrow and sadness that you cannot bear with for some amount of time. You still have that heart which are not consumed of emotional feelings, but also your thoughts, memories, time, career, and etc,. Although your feelings in side of heart have broken, your whole heart is still there and ready to be affected by many other experiences and memories. You transform that heart as you want to and keep that going. And hopefully one day you will be able to find a person who sees your precious heart and hold it together with you like you will for that person.
Bravo Tablo and Eddie....very well said!👍👍
Tablo: a
Eddie: beautifully said
I loved this episode a lot
Looking back at my first love, I laugh because I thought (at the time) he was "The One". I think there will be more than one person you'll fall in love with and you'll learn lessons from it. I thought my last relationship (which was my longest) was going to be my life partner but it didn't work out. Now I'm staying single until I'm ready to open up again.
tablo speaking truth
Speaking the truth 🙌
Well said Tablo! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
If I ever find myself heartbroken one day, I will remember this.
Wow eddie shld just be a permanent co-host! You guys are a fun duo
it's all true, it's beautifully sad. I cried a lot. everyone cried, I think. I move on, not easy but I did it
Well said....
Very well said Tablo 👍👍 I'll take this advice 👍😊😊
"It's not scientific." Tablo is great.
Well said, Tablo.
Omg, tablo you are really something. Great advice
Nunca fez tanto sentido uma explicação sobre o primeiro amor .
My favorite class and my favorite professor EVAH
The mind is a vampire, thief of the Greatest present of all, the Present.
LOL
Well said.
I need tablo when i get a heartbreak
Ive never really had a first love but Im scared because of how I hear heartbreak feels
Well said there Tablo.
Damn Tablo hitting us with the preach
I'm not gonna lie. I met my first love when I was a kid and we became a couple when I was in elementary school and broke up when I entered college like my first yaer in college we broke up after he proposed to me and we were planning our wedding together... And now after 5 years I still can't get over him.... I met new people i tried to date but nothing last more than few months.. I seriously don't know how to forget and move on with my life without him. It's hard first love is hard
ive never experience first love or heartbreak but damn this is so😭✊✊
Thank you for this podcast, Oppa. 😍
I need more Eddie. Please invite him again
Eddie: That's a lot of time.
Tablo: ThAt's atLeAst 3-4 alBUmS iF yOu'Re In A bAnD.
Wow. That end but of advice there. You need to scream that for the people in the back. People are always comparing their next love to the last live, waiting for shit to happen, then when something insignificant does happen, they make a mountain out if it, because they are waiting for a bigger thing to happen. Trust me. I had to leave someone because he was like that
Thanks Tablo
That’s deep Tablo...
Can you upload the full episodes to UA-cam?
Why is tablo só fun im so suprised
Well said tablo👌
Is that an Oasis T-shirt?
Shocked the 1st love lasted FOUR years :O
Where can I watch the full podcast?
i like the short answer made long part.
How can I get the full video in Google play store????
God he's so smart
I miss u blo
Also, comparison kills the relationship.
im here at 2021
Dang!
💟
I just realised that TTP also stands for a bunch of medical stuff
topinya unyu :D
명언터진다...
What if u never had a love🤣
Lol🤣
That CONGRATS tho
#TTPBROMANCESERIES XD