What if he lies to the woman and is a dead beat? The woman going to divorce him? That’s not biblical.the LORD hates divorce. That’s why it’s important for a long courtship, to see if the talk lines up with the walk. My grandpa told me 50 years ago.look at what a man DOES NOT WHAT HE SAYS. If they don’t line line up? Walk away from such a man.
@@ronbo30 It's logical when I commit objective, quantifiable assets that I can never take away, and she commits her good will that she can take away at any time.
Praise God that I did the right thing. During our dating stage, I asked about his plans, vision, mission, and determining his faith level in different situations. Now, we are serving as volunteer missionaries in Africa since we have the same mindset.
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As a married woman, what he says is spot on. Romantic Love alone is not enough. It changes through phases of times. Visions and directions in life along with faith to the Lord are most important.
Very very important. I used to ask my ex boyfriend this question and he couldn't answer or he'd just say "to be happy". I hate to admit that I stayed longer than I should but I am glad I left eventually.
I also asked the same question. I never got an answer at first. Then I asked again, what are we doing, going, plans to achieve; his response was that I've done everything I wanted to do. Heartbreaking, but needed for me to move on about my life. I thank the Lord for the strength to move on. ❤
If a person loves u , he will tell about his future and share his ideas and also as opinions , u dont have to ask him. If he doesn’t tell then either he is not serious or have other plans which doesn’t include u or he is not responsible enough to think about his career or way of living.
This is so true and I did the same and I didn't saw any future with him then I refused getting married him .its been a year and I think it was my best decision 🎉🎉🎉
I asked the same questions and my person got offended and listened to several men who weren't giving him good counsel. I remember saying, I don't know who you've been talking to but I know it's not of God. I was asking God for revelation and he gave it to me. By the way, I was 24/25 when that happened.
If youve been dating long enough for him to want to marry you, you already know the answers to these questions. He probably owns a pizza shop or has an advertising agency, you already know where he's going! The question is, do his values, vision and purpose align with yours? Is he a morally sound character, will he love you and stick by you through thick and thin? 💕
A woman leader of a church? A church of Christ??? Christ is the Head of a church. The man is a head of a woman. How can a woman be the head of the ch then??? Sorry that's not God's Order...that's the WORLD ORDER...THAT'S NOT BIBLICAL ....THAT'S DEMONIC THEOLOGY😢😢😢 Ephesians 5:23-33
Oh! However, it's not late yet. Women are gifted to bring life out of no-life. Women are the reason many men's lives are transformed. You can work on your man and patiently bring out the better nature of him. He can become a man of vision because of you.
So true. I asked my ex "where do you see us going" and he replied "as far as things can go"; however, I hate to admit it but I was naive then but wiser now. The current boyfriend's answer to my question "what are your plans and your timeline for us" was "I don't have a timeline but I want us to have a future together." I wish men would be honest. I am done with dating because clearly I haven't been choosing the right individuals.
Sis you need to turn it over to God ...the man is supposed to find you ..all you gotta do is get in position,prepare and be ready. The Godly man will be able to answer the question @lovingpia27
These are MY OWN realization and opinion. I understand you. Even I wasn't able to find with realistic-visionary thinking man. Most of the man I dated whenever I ask where did they see our future together, most of them answered like 'come what may in the future'. And it makes me think, how can I trust you with my future? I am not just about myself but also to the future of our own child, and also, the family and relatives that still depend on us. As a thinking-financially independent woman I am just curious about their plans for their life as well as if they have genuine and practical interest in building a family. I learned this in a hard way living with unstable home life. And, I am hoping not to end up with the same situation. Growing up I realized that love isn't just enough for a relationship to be saved. Love itself can't pay bills. It can't pay educational expenses and hospital charges. Again, these are MY OWN realization and opinion.
I agree 💯 with you. ..we don't ask this question! We only want love and children. No wonder our relationships fail and our children become Victim of our failure. Thanks for the Positive enlightenment...
Good point! 😅 You should see if you have similar goals, the same values and trust. We know the love and attraction part of the equation is important but the goals, values and belief in your worth are so important. To be trustworthy is way up there on the list too.
True, i followed a man without a vision for 12yrs,put mine on hold and followed him. We never got anywhere. He's stil "working" on his health,finances,mental health,he doesnt grow spiritually. I left him and God is restoring years eaten by locust!
Did you want to follow her vision?😂 Is she going to be leading you.? The goal should be finding out if she has the capacity to wear the cap of that vision of yours? For example Not everyone can be a president's wife or a pastor. it's a big role.
I believe both the questions are equally important. Love and future. If any one thing is missing then there is a big problem. The second question should be of family. If all these things are in line. Marry him.
Spot on! What profound words of Wisdom! Straight forward question that speaks volumes. Marriage is much more than physical attraction and love. As it is written, without a VISION, the people perish. Praises to GOD for deliverance, freedom and restoration from the havoc of a vision-less narcissist ex-spouse. I love that Dr. Myles said, see it on paper first. This is proof of the man's seriousness and relevant actions in realising his Vision.
Truth. What matters more to a man is Respect over Love. A man can be in love with you and not want to marry you. A man wants to feel secure and stable as much as a woman. He wants to know that he can build with you, better yet, he wants to see if you can build yourself up without his help. A man speaks through his actions, not his words. If he is a strong, confident, and excellent leader it will show through his actions. Pay attention!
💯 percent agree this is also best advice for men to ask from woman because being with same personality and same person like you is happy life and you can support each other because your needs are same👍
IAM a Muslim, and very much agree, this is what we do in our culture,, love will come later after you learn to struggle together then you'll learn to love and appreciate each other.
If you love Jesus truly. You'll know where you're going. So if they don't know where they are going, you can say they haven't sat with God to know His plans for them
I would hope you already asked that question when you became his friend... Though that is a good question to come back to when you are actively considering marriage.
Yes that's true ❤ man of God , we have been deprived by this so called men without love 🙏🙏🙌 thank you for this advice , it can still work in such times
I agree with you!! Lots of past misfortunes as adults is often due to lots of past poor choice making. Consistent positive improvements in a person's past story says a lot about where they're going now.
First of all the most important thing is that someone loves you and is willing to grow and change with you. Nobody really knows where they’re going 100%. You could have plans for a certain career and it might change in the end of love is what’s important, so long as a man is working and doing his best he doesn’t have to have a whole knowledge of where he’s going in life you learn that together
He has to have ambition. God can reroute him - if he's going somewhere, not if he's always standing still. Most good men are not content if they don't at least have a plan and a goal in mind. When they want a wife, they're going to try to prove their value or share their vision, not just pipe dreams without a plan. The dreamers can be providers, but life with a dreamer who is not a doer sounds like recipe for frustration. Plans don't always work, but when a man has tried their best, his wife and home should be a soft place to fall, a place to heal and regroup, to be reminded of his value, to regain the courage to face and conquer their corner of the world.
@gracebressi8622 if you interested in Kingdom marriage then absolutely the question about where you going ...Biblically your steps are ordered by the Lord. It's not about just working and doing his best ...is that man putting God first. Is he submissive to God?
Amen, so true… Where are you going, write the vision and make it plain Habakkuk 2. The man is supposed to be the head and if I’m supposed to follow you I need to know where you are going , what’s your vision
If more women ask this question less women would be getting married to the wrong men.
Yeah women are 304s they ain't asking that chit.
That's not true dear... lot of people tells lies too...
Or getting a divorce after 2 years, or after 5 years if she's a resilient person.
True
Hello there, there ain't a lot of men wants to get married in the first place. The role has now reversed.
I am in total agreement with this advice for women. I miss Myles Monroe.
What if he lies to the woman and is a dead beat? The woman going to divorce him? That’s not biblical.the LORD hates divorce. That’s why it’s important for a long courtship, to see if the talk lines up with the walk. My grandpa told me 50 years ago.look at what a man DOES NOT WHAT HE SAYS. If they don’t line line up? Walk away from such a man.
That's why only fools marry.
You basically tell them they're there to finance your life, and they still bend the knee.
What a sad sight.
@@Fasmidio what? You must be scared of commitment.
@@ronbo30 It's logical when I commit objective, quantifiable assets that I can never take away, and she commits her good will that she can take away at any time.
That's true good advice
Praise God that I did the right thing. During our dating stage, I asked about his plans, vision, mission, and determining his faith level in different situations. Now, we are serving as volunteer missionaries in Africa since we have the same mindset.
😏 What are we going to do together?😮😊
Wow!❤
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God bless you
@_Paulyn_ I'd like to know too!
This is DEEP... only the wise and matured can answer the question.
True.. marriage is a union where u build together to become better.
As a married woman, what he says is spot on. Romantic Love alone is not enough. It changes through phases of times. Visions and directions in life along with faith to the Lord are most important.
Beautifully stated. I agree! 🙏💕🕊
Beautifully said god bless you
Mr. Monroe
You're right on it
Lord send us more Leaders like, Mr. MONROE.😢
@@sentenac7693 sorry i just saw your message. Certainly 👍
You summed up🎉
Yes ooo, follow a man not because of what he drives but because of what drives him. Power of Vision cannot be overemphasized.
💪💓💯💯💯💯
Did he say that in the complete speech.
I Love it💜💛
Very very important. I used to ask my ex boyfriend this question and he couldn't answer or he'd just say "to be happy". I hate to admit that I stayed longer than I should but I am glad I left eventually.
Congrats! So happy you got out early.
I wouldn't call it late but confirmation on what you felt. You made the right decision at the end of the day
I also asked the same question. I never got an answer at first. Then I asked again, what are we doing, going, plans to achieve; his response was that I've done everything I wanted to do. Heartbreaking, but needed for me to move on about my life. I thank the Lord for the strength to move on. ❤
I did the same thing. And stayed too long. I now have my senses
I did the same and stayed longer than I should have. He literally had no sense of direction. The relationship went nowhere.
If a person loves u , he will tell about his future and share his ideas and also as opinions , u dont have to ask him. If he doesn’t tell then either he is not serious or have other plans which doesn’t include u or he is not responsible enough to think about his career or way of living.
Beautiful..this is Soo Deep
This is so true and I did the same and I didn't saw any future with him then I refused getting married him .its been a year and I think it was my best decision 🎉🎉🎉
Wonderful
I asked the same questions and my person got offended and listened to several men who weren't giving him good counsel. I remember saying, I don't know who you've been talking to but I know it's not of God. I was asking God for revelation and he gave it to me. By the way, I was 24/25 when that happened.
Yes! Sharing a common vision & having similar goals are so important!
Not common vision but to support that vision.
I agree with this message 100%!!! May God continuesly bless your visions and mindsets ❤.
Amen 🙏👍
Amen
Amen
If youve been dating long enough for him to want to marry you, you already know the answers to these questions. He probably owns a pizza shop or has an advertising agency, you already know where he's going! The question is, do his values, vision and purpose align with yours? Is he a morally sound character, will he love you and stick by you through thick and thin? 💕
ameen❤
Unfortunately a deeper conversation needs to be had. My husband's answer was superb and a decade later I'm regretting it.
I agree. People can give all the right answers and then change.
Absolutely positive communication! 💯💯💯💯💯‼️
Great insight!
Another question is "why do you want to marry"?
Another one is "why do you want to marry me in particular'?
Wow
Those are my two first questions
Facts 💯
I'm gonna add these to my list too as 2nd. Doc included me in this question, what are we gonna do together is similar to why me in particular.
Yes!!
Love is useless when a man can't provide for his family's needs
I think what's worse is when they won't provide. Any man who is willing to try or at least make effort, is still worth it 😊
@@LLmoney23 peoples future children can’t eat “try”
So love isn't necessary in a marriage?
@@cirohugoBoth love and provision are necessary in a marriage.😊
@@cirohugoBishop didn't say love wasn't necessary in a marriage. You need more than love, you also need provision.
I asked this all the time and men don't even answer. I see that as a blessing in disguise.
Most men don’t know where they’re going until they get married . the preacher on the other hand is surely be talking about eternity, perhaps.
Exactly. Cause most men have no purpose for their life.
This is good
Just a blessing. No disguise
most men dont have maturity they cant answer
Marvelous work! Keep dazzling us with your brilliance! 🎥💖
Amen!
This is solid advice❤!!
I will certainly take heed💯!
I pray that these short messages will reach the youth of this generation 🙏 ❤
Agree with late Dr. Myles. So true. As a woman who is a leader of our church, I don't want a man who doesn't have a plan.
A woman leader of a church? A church of Christ??? Christ is the Head of a church. The man is a head of a woman. How can a woman be the head of the ch then??? Sorry that's not God's Order...that's the WORLD ORDER...THAT'S NOT BIBLICAL
....THAT'S DEMONIC THEOLOGY😢😢😢
Ephesians 5:23-33
Amen! I always pray for a man whom we will serve God's purpose TOGETHER!❤
Words of wisdom so true lovely I miss this man and his teaching.....
I think Dr. Myles is a 100% correct! I absolutely agree. Thank you for sharing so honestly, it's like you are still here.
Very true! I wish I would’ve known that sooner!😢
Oh! However, it's not late yet.
Women are gifted to bring life out of no-life.
Women are the reason many men's lives are transformed.
You can work on your man and patiently bring out the better nature of him. He can become a man of vision because of you.
Don't worry sister, ❤
I can relate 😢
learn from ur past and fault we are humans
Thank you Dr. Munroe for all the wise teachings you left behind for all to follow.
He was a false teacher lol 😅
How so?
Very true because God says we are helpers we have to help someone who is doing something how can I help someone doing nothing??
Deep
❤Amen...
😂😂😂😂😂Help him to sit😅
Preach 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@CalderonIsra😂😂😂…sit around doing nothing and wasting time
He is so real ❤❤❤
Absolutely awesome perspective 🎉
So true. I asked my ex "where do you see us going" and he replied "as far as things can go"; however, I hate to admit it but I was naive then but wiser now. The current boyfriend's answer to my question "what are your plans and your timeline for us" was "I don't have a timeline but I want us to have a future together." I wish men would be honest. I am done with dating because clearly I haven't been choosing the right individuals.
Sis you need to turn it over to God ...the man is supposed to find you ..all you gotta do is get in position,prepare and be ready. The Godly man will be able to answer the question @lovingpia27
These are MY OWN realization and opinion.
I understand you. Even I wasn't able to find with realistic-visionary thinking man. Most of the man I dated whenever I ask where did they see our future together, most of them answered like 'come what may in the future'.
And it makes me think, how can I trust you with my future? I am not just about myself but also to the future of our own child, and also, the family and relatives that still depend on us. As a thinking-financially independent woman I am just curious about their plans for their life as well as if they have genuine and practical interest in building a family. I learned this in a hard way living with unstable home life. And, I am hoping not to end up with the same situation.
Growing up I realized that love isn't just enough for a relationship to be saved. Love itself can't pay bills. It can't pay educational expenses and hospital charges.
Again, these are MY OWN realization and opinion.
I agree 💯 with you. ..we don't ask this question! We only want love and children. No wonder our relationships fail and our children become Victim of our failure. Thanks for the Positive enlightenment...
🙏🏻✝️🥇
WOAH 😳 I FELT THAT
Perfect . You nailed it. Wish someone guided me 17 years back , like this.
Perfectly said😂😂❤
Good point! 😅 You should see if you have similar goals, the same values and trust. We know the love and attraction part of the equation is important but the goals, values and belief in your worth are so important. To be trustworthy is way up there on the list too.
EXCELLENT advice!!!!
Very sensible. Especially these times when there are so many challenges in marriage. This should be an important conversation before marriage.
EXACTLY !!!!!
Well said.
Ladies, look before you leap.
Life is too precious to let it pass by.
Absolutely correct, love and physical touch is not the life
Absolutely mind blowing 💥💢💯
Well said. Without vision the people shall perish
True!! How can you truly follow someone who has no vision or plan especially that includes you or your role??
I agree 💯. Some men only want a “bedroom” buddy…js
Yes its good advice! he must show clear Vision and Purpose in life!❤❤❤
True, i followed a man without a vision for 12yrs,put mine on hold and followed him. We never got anywhere. He's stil "working" on his health,finances,mental health,he doesnt grow spiritually. I left him and God is restoring years eaten by locust!
Beautiful advice
Wow that's powerful? An eye opener? Thank you a legend. Rest in peace beloved.
Very True and he must be God fearing🙌
He is correct because the answer will help her know him better and he will learn about the sustainability of their relationship. ❤
Amen 🙏 "You asking me to follow you... I wanna know where we are going"
Always full of wisdom...Dr. Myles munroe, your legacy lives on💯👍😊
You are true sir. That reminds me that women have been created to be a help to their husband. I just understand it now. Thank you sir for this wisdom
Men should also be asking their friends this, and asking women too.
Did you want to follow her vision?😂 Is she going to be leading you.?
The goal should be finding out if she has the capacity to wear the cap of that vision of yours? For example Not everyone can be a president's wife or a pastor. it's a big role.
I agree. If he can't show that he can lead, I'm not following!
I'm pretty sure man's should ask that too cause it's actually a really good advice
Myles Munroe was so wise. I loved listening to him every Sunday. He definitely went to be with the Lord way too soon.
I believe both the questions are equally important. Love and future. If any one thing is missing then there is a big problem. The second question should be of family. If all these things are in line. Marry him.
Exactly. I learned my lesson and this question will be asked from now on.
So can you ask me the same question❤🎉
This man never ceases to amaze me, even in his absence. His voice and impact will never die. He is the GOAT!
Dr Myles Munroe is right.
I agree with him entirely
I should have known this question before my marriage
Spot on! What profound words of Wisdom!
Straight forward question that speaks volumes. Marriage is much more than physical attraction and love.
As it is written, without a VISION, the people perish. Praises to GOD for deliverance, freedom and restoration from the havoc of a vision-less narcissist ex-spouse.
I love that Dr. Myles said, see it on paper first. This is proof of the man's seriousness and relevant actions in realising his Vision.
Very profound🔥🔥. Thank you very much🙏🙏.
@@gbeblewuemefa8133 An absolute honour ✨✨ May your 2024 be a predestined success.
Amen, thank you sir. I am so glad it came from a real man. Women are you listening , I hope so🙏
He has my full attention!
This is the best massage I've heard so far, i don't want a man who doesn't have a plan.
Sharing a common vision and having similar goals is so much important
Amen!!!!!!! Yesssss this is so important and something so many people don’t know to do
Godly women are faithful and Loyal in relationships with their men through the Love of God 🙏
101% perfectly said❤❤❤
So much grace and truth ❤️🙏
Truth. What matters more to a man is Respect over Love. A man can be in love with you and not want to marry you. A man wants to feel secure and stable as much as a woman. He wants to know that he can build with you, better yet, he wants to see if you can build yourself up without his help. A man speaks through his actions, not his words. If he is a strong, confident, and excellent leader it will show through his actions. Pay attention!
You nailed this one. Thank you. 🌹🌹🌹.
True every one should ask this before marriage
True. Never marry a one who has no plan and action for your future together.
Exactly ! That's so true 👍 💯
Wow. That is amazing advice. I’m totally using that when I meet a man who says he has serious intentions.
This is life changing. Thank you
wow, I see this now after going through it... But, sometimes it takes time for each partner to know where they want to go, people develop
Thank you for posting this. Wish I could see his full sermons
This man again, I love you so much sir.
Your teaching has impacted me so much.
💯 percent agree this is also best advice for men to ask from woman because being with same personality and same person like you is happy life and you can support each other because your needs are same👍
Great advice! I hope the young women are listening! 👍🏼😁
He is telling the truth❤😊
these hit so hard😢
IAM a Muslim, and very much agree, this is what we do in our culture,, love will come later after you learn to struggle together then you'll learn to love and appreciate each other.
Absolutely on point! ❤
Powerful and True!! 👑❤️🙌
Thank you for sharing this I asked this I thought it was crazy no response until today😂😂😂😂
I agree but the question should be “do you love Jesus”
If you love Jesus truly. You'll know where you're going. So if they don't know where they are going, you can say they haven't sat with God to know His plans for them
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lip service. you know them by their fruits(actions)
Me toooooo
I would hope you already asked that question when you became his friend...
Though that is a good question to come back to when you are actively considering marriage.
Yes true
That’s the most realest thing I’ve heard all week
He's speaking the truth.
True talk man of God❤
This is great spiritual advice....❤💯💥
Wow. This is so captivating and inspiring. I really learn a lot from this short but full message
I absolutely agree!!! But do we ask that question? Absolutely not. We’re to busy being swept off of our feet with emotion and sometimes lust.
Yes that's true ❤ man of God , we have been deprived by this so called men without love 🙏🙏🙌 thank you for this advice , it can still work in such times
YES.... AS FUTURE OF MEN IS IMPORTANT..... SO IS WOMEN'S PAST..... BE CAREFUL MEN..... CAUSE THERE ARE A LOT OF SHAPE SHIFTERS.
I agree with you!! Lots of past misfortunes as adults is often due to lots of past poor choice making. Consistent positive improvements in a person's past story says a lot about where they're going now.
True. Men be very careful very careful.
This is so spot on and so simple..
Spot on!!! Very correct!!!
First of all the most important thing is that someone loves you and is willing to grow and change with you. Nobody really knows where they’re going 100%. You could have plans for a certain career and it might change in the end of love is what’s important, so long as a man is working and doing his best he doesn’t have to have a whole knowledge of where he’s going in life you learn that together
He has to have ambition. God can reroute him - if he's going somewhere, not if he's always standing still. Most good men are not content if they don't at least have a plan and a goal in mind. When they want a wife, they're going to try to prove their value or share their vision, not just pipe dreams without a plan. The dreamers can be providers, but life with a dreamer who is not a doer sounds like recipe for frustration. Plans don't always work, but when a man has tried their best, his wife and home should be a soft place to fall, a place to heal and regroup, to be reminded of his value, to regain the courage to face and conquer their corner of the world.
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@gracebressi8622 if you interested in Kingdom marriage then absolutely the question about where you going ...Biblically your steps are ordered by the Lord. It's not about just working and doing his best ...is that man putting God first. Is he submissive to God?
you didn't understand what the man was trying to say, your right but he was trying to give highlites to....
That is the Best Advice!
Amen, so true… Where are you going, write the vision and make it plain Habakkuk 2. The man is supposed to be the head and if I’m supposed to follow you I need to know where you are going , what’s your vision