Most of the introverts can relate with Namrata...We feel hesitant in sharing our problems even with our best friends...Most of us go through a phase atleast once where we just want to be with ourselves...but that doesn't mean that we don't respect other's feelings and emotions ..
Yes friendship needs effort...but sometimes people do need time alone to solve their problems or cope up with life. It doesn't mean that you are not valuing the friend but it means that you are valuing yourself and trying to become emotionally independent too. Being mentally independent is as important as it is to have a friend to rely on for on difficult situations. So I think Namrata is right here.
I think both are right in their own way. Muskan:s stance that one sided relationships don't last is absolutely right. At the same time the other perspective that friendship comes without any bondages and expectations and is the easiest is also true - as long as the parties involved respect and love each other and don't take each other for granted
@@sunnysingh-um4wq yes actually you are right, since it's okay that you are not talking in normal situations but whenever your friends are in need you should definitely talk irrespective of anything in your life. And you are lucky if you have a best friend to share..
I stand with Muskan. Friendship does require effort and it can never be a one-sided relationship. I'm not in talking terms with my best friend of more than 20 years. We were childhood besties. But, I realized, she only knocks on me when she has problems to share. Trust me, I have always made myself available even in late nights over phone to her so that she could pour out but when it comes to my issues, I never find her by my side and when I tell her this, she says why do you expect.. Ha ha..
People should communicate with each other in any relationship. Without communication there is no chance that relationship goes life long. Communication is the only key through which you can easily get to know each other.
That is a BS. I have decades of friendship and due to our schedule, sometimes we didn't talk to each other for months. But still as close as we used to be whenever one of us reaches out or when we meet in person. Demanding communication or making other obliged to other party is beyond selfish.
Friendship also needs effort. You can't take someone as granted just because this person is your friend. And this relationship whatever it is no matter if this is friendship all relationship does not go for long if it is just one sided.
Friendship is the only relationship which is effortless. Both ends understand this very clearly and that's the beauty of it as well. I have a childhood friend and after 14 years I met her. We both were so happy to see each other and time passed by so fast. Everyone has ups and downs but we should cherish our friends always. Friendship is the only relation where you do not have to prove urself, you can just be....
Both of them are correct in their own way.. Ya it's true that even in friendship, efforts care and love is needed But again there should b understanding too between friends
The amount of effort you put in shows how much you care for the other person and his /her feelings . Yes , no relationship is one sided. It's always two way , if not why would you say it a relationship only . If you're not able to share your problems with your friends then it means you don't consider them your friend only .
For me friendship is only one relation which is choosen by us and we never has to prove ourself. And friends can be in contact again without any justification.
I have done the same with my closest friend. I had problems in life and I had to retreat. But I told him beforehand. He understood I needed that time. We were in touch less frequently during that time and now we are back gradually. We are great friends. Two important things.. One, I told him I needed 'me time'. Second, he understood that.
According to me a true friendship needs efforts. A true friendship means a friendship without any jealousy, where don't have to be mean and without any competition. A true friend is one who is always with you in your ups & downs. Aapke good days mai toh sab aapke saath hote hai lakin sacha dost wohi hai joh aapke bad days mai aapke saath khada rahe. According to this story Namrata is right and this problem is not only with the introverts but can be with anyone. We sometime don't share our problems with our best friend kyunki hum unhe pareshaan karna chahte hai. Hum unse seacrets toh share kar lete kyunki scerets toh best friend ke saath hi share kiye jaate hai na, but kabhi-kabaar problems nahi share karte kyunki hume pata hai humare dukh se woh bhi dukhi ho jayenge aur hum apne best friend ko dukhi nahi dekh sakte aur nahi dukhi kar sakte hi. After all we love them. Aur agar aapka saacha dost aapse apni problems naa share kare yah phir kisi aur se share kare toh never think ki she is no more with you. Aapka woh dost 10 logo ke beech mai bhi aake aapke baare mai hi soonch raha hoga aur agar kisi ne aapke are mai kuch seeda bhola toh use wahi sabak sikhayega. Because "TRUE FRIENDSHIP NEVER DIES".
"A friend in need is a friend indeed",this is a famous quotation and which is not deniable.A real friend is one who stands by you in every odds and ends,who always shows their friend a right path,who never feel any kind of jealousy,ill-feeling ,hatred like all.A real friend understands you from inside unlike this world. ❤️❤️❤️ Coming to this video,I think both r correct in their own ways.But,Namrata said very true that friendship also requires efforts,care or love because it is also a relationship and all such things r pillars of good relationship 😊
We all need to be alone sometimes. It's hard to open up to someone about all of your problems, it's so difficult to talk about something like that. But I also understand the friend who was upset about the fact that her friend didn't talk about her problems with her. She was so invested in the relationship of their friendship. She needed her when she lost her job. When you can't give advice, it feels good to even have someone to talk about it too.
Friendship never ends..... even time and distance should not be a problem. When meeting a friend after a long time TALKING should come easy and not dwell on the past 💞
Even Muskan needed a support....her problem was too big! Namrata is introvert but Muskan wasn't. She needed Namrata's support. And the most important reason why Namrata was wrong is that she didn't even replied to her texts! And obviously, friendship is not the easiest relationship. No relationship at all is the easiest! Every relationship needs dedication. And what if your best friend leaves you? Not everyone would be so hurt as he/she would be it was break up. I don't know what goes inside an introvert's mind. All I know is that best friend is the person in front of whom, you will never ever feel hesitant. Best friend is equal to mutual secret diary for me. Trust me, if you are knowingly absent during a break down situation of your best friend, you are not his/her best friend. No matter how sad you are, you will share your feelings with your best friend and stand by him/her if he/she is in trouble at the same time. And I am so lucky that I have got three jewels. And my mother is my best too😄😄🥰🥰 One of my three best friends, called me from her hostel(mobile phones were not allowed in her hostel and studentswere allowed to call their family on Sundays only and their was a time limit. She found time to call me!)! She belongs from muslim community and I am hindu. Hindu-Muslim is a very sensitive topic. We even had undergone fights on religious issues. But the most sensitive thing got failed to break our friendship. We are still best friends. One of them was always their when I needed someone close beside me during my hostel life in Kota(I didn't had to even call her to come to me! She was always their on her own whenever I told her that I was well). And the third one is my oldest true friend. She is my Doraemon. I think 'Doraemon' name is enough to explain what she means to me and what she does for me. And my mother being the coolest mom ever is my best friend. Only a few can have her/his parent as a secret diary. My mom knows everything about me☺☺😇😇
Friendship should be unconditional. I have this kind of close friend and we had intuition if any one of not connecting and facing any problems. So don't wait for asking help and in need we knows that only this friend can understand her situation and support each other. So no need to count who is doing more efforts to keep relationship.
Nothing is effortless..if u want a relationship to work you have to stay connected...but yes a friend is one who understands no matter what..and stays with u forever
True friendship doesn't call for explanations. Some of us don't want to unload our problems unless we feel that the other person can help. Some of us may even be going through depression. True friends can tell when the other person is feeling low and accept it or try to change their feelings.
Good content and great presentation. Both of them are right. At the same time loyalty remains even when friends may not have communicated. It's necessary to pick communication as and when opportunity appears and one of them extend a hand out.
Sooo, sort of something happened to me few years back....And this is prolly the most relatable content of Life Tak for me, so I want to share my experience in brief....my case was different tho...My best friend just ignored me all of a sudden...It was just class 8...she got new friends in her tuitions, and behaved with me as a stranger...in the beginning I became upset, but later I stabilized myself and moved on...now we are in 12...in between we went through those 2 years of pandemic, our 1st board exams and all...now few months back, suddenly she called me and apologized for that ignorance...Her version was that now she has realised how much that could have hurted me....She told, that for her attachments are something which can happen now and end up the next moment, nothing to give effort in it. Then I told her my version, that is, for me, attachments take time to build up and strengthen and need efforts to be there...even if it's best friendship, the minimum amount of effort, atleast one text a week or two calls a month is needed...cause nothing could achieved effortlessly in life....In my case, my friendship, rather best friendship ended even after her apology, cause we discovered that our vibes and mentality are totally opposite, neither of us likes each other's choices or supports each other's decision....But in this vast world, any two person if are moving into a relationship, be it friendship, or anything else, I will say, a minimum effort is always needed from both ends to keep a balance....But ofcourse, sometimes a private space is needed away from the world, closest to the self....there we might eliminate even our best friends, but if they are true best friends, later we should again bring them back and mend up everything...cause friendship is a too precious bond to lose....❤
Namrata, true friendship asks no questions or tries to prove anything. True friend ensures to be there whatever be the situation. Understands when one needs space. Gives time to each other to open up at the right time. Understands why the friend did not go running to them when in problem. Every one is unque. True friendship accepts each other as they are without any expectation.
Thank you Life thak. I really needed this right now. You always bring out amazing content related to real life. Really appreciate your work and look forward to more concept on 'Friendship'.
Har introvert sabse nahi par kam se kam apne ek best friend ❤️ se to problem share kar hi sakta hai best friend hamesha saath dega musibat kr samay me kisi apne ke saath hone se problem aasan ho jati hai 👍
Friendship does not need any explanation. It is a best relationship where u can be as it is. If someone says friendship lasts only keep on communicating, it's wrong. Even if u are in touch with your friends after a long break, there would not be any questions for this. That is real friendship. I have such friends
I agree with Namrata, friendship should be effortless.. me and my best friend start our conversion from where we left like after years as well.. I stay in Australia and she is in India, still if we talk after 8-9 months, we start with kaisi hai tu stupid.. no judgements and no expectations.. just understanding..
You have a distance friendship if you was in sane city you would know the other person very well . but our people get along with each other. it's angrez logoh is the problem . sometimes I wish I was in India
No expectations, no explanation for being out of touch, no fear of losing the other... that's exactly what friendship is! As I read somewhere, friends are like books: you approach them only when you need them, while you always cherish them and take pride in them, knowing that they are there for you!
Friendship is perhaps the only relationship which we develop absolutely voluntarily. But, it's also the most vulnerable relationship as people can move on from a friendship more easily than other relationships (esp those we are related to by birth or marriage). IMO, friendship should be nurtured with as much effort as any other relationship. So, here I agree with Muskaan. But I also understand Namrata's PoV, as for introverts it's not easy to open up about their personal life so easily, even with their best friend. As in all healthy relationships, friendship too requires mutual trust n genuine concern for the other's wellbeing. But, it's a pity that in these modern times, even friendships have become very transactional, almost business like.
Best Friendship is once you are considering someone as your friend then you can share anything about your life and who can listen you and give you support always without any conditions apply. If you have to explain something for yourself to prove in your friendship then there is something wrong.
Namrata is right, some people can't open up and need private space, friendship is about not talking for months but when the meeting finally, no questions asked and we just get normal, it is about understanding and compromising ur dignity because in the end life is awesome only when we compromise. :)
For me muskan was right. Like any other relationship some efforts are needed for friendship also. U can't just leave a friend like this. If can share happyness friends ar the ppl with whom u should be sharing good and bad
Like any other relationship, friendship also needs to nurtured. Commitment and communication from both sides is essential. But that said, if there has been very less communication between the friends for reasons both have, then they should not carry any grudges and they should pick up the threads from where they had left. That is true friendship.
I think muskaan is right like my best friend Bhim. But unfortunately, We don't talk to each other for 1 year, for such type issues. I have no words after watching this 😭😭😭 I miss you my friend, I miss you... Friendship breakup is more worst than any other type of breakups, in my opinion
I think both were right at their own point..like Namrata said friendship is the easiest relationship..yes it is!!Like you don't have to prove yourself Also muskan said the right thing you have to be extrovert in your friendship no matter what!! So, practically ,communication gap sometimes affects a good friendship and relationship 🙏🙏
I think friendship should be effortless. Muskan isn't wrong but she should understand Namrata's state of mind. Sometimes, we are not able to stay in touch with our friends but that doesn't mean that friendship is over.
Friends varies from time to time, friends means having same things at the same time so it is called we are friends means we are same not different and it is effortless. A real friend understands and thus supports easily because he/she has the same experience.
Loyalty has to be there in friendship, that is when it will last for long. But sometimes, people get involved in their own matters and might not be able to stay in touch(for a short duration) and that is also perfectly fine. My best friend and myself have a really close bond and we have been best buddies since 2003(almost 18 years) but the understanding is so good that sometimes when she gets occupied with her stuff, she is unable to keep in touch and same thing happens with me as well.
I think namarta is right...bcz friendship aisi honi chahiye jha kbhi koi explanation ki jrurt na pade q ki clg life ke baad bht sari baate different hoti h...or ye situation mere sath bhi hua h ...I agree namarta talk
Muskan is totally right. Esi dosti Kya Kam ki jaha hum apni problems hi share na Kar paye. Insan extrovert or introvert unknown ya Kam familiar logo ke liye hota h. Dosto ke liye wo sirf dost hota h. Islye har relationship me efforts zaruri h. I totally agree. I hate one sided efforts.
Friends should have that room to allow each other to get back at every time no matter what the issues are. Late or early. U just cant giveup on those goodtimes based on 1 issue.
Muskan is right cause who does not have problems in life as we all know Life is not a bed of roses. Give importance to friendship cause that's what friends are for to help each other through thick and thin. A nice video good acting and really serious conversation and expression. God bless you all always.
Never take any relationship for granted. Every relation is important and needs efforts at the end nothing is permanent but only our efforts make it lifelong.
I can understand Namrata situations. This happens with introvert ppl, they are unable to share their emotions but they cry inside. I understand Muskaan points too but Namrata was hiding from ppl and she didn't want to meet anyone
I m an introvert too. I don't like to share my problems with anyone. But that doesn't mean that i will ignore a friend who needs me. That's the problem with namrata kind of people. First they will ignore friends, then they will expect understanding from them and complain that no one likes to talk to them.
This is the problem of every introvert . That they don't talk to everyone. But the other person need to understand them. Yea friendship need attention. But we need to balance both problem and friendship
Both were right, Muskan makes her understand that she should tell her, and make her realise, Friendship also needs effects from both side, But not as much as other relation, When both clarify each other than... Let it go and now again start ... With full of happiness... And love Super videos... I love to watching life Life Tak...
Friendship is one of the relationship which is effortless but does not imply not making effort at all, but least effort. Because here two people can understand each other the most, there's scope for that. It is not so much in other relationships.
Namrata is right . True friends never needs justification. If u can't meet or talk with your besties doesn't mean that you are not interested in friendship
Both are right in their own way. Just they have to understand each other to keep their friendship alive. Friendship is not about talking everyday and sharing or not sharing few things, it's more than that.
Kabhi kabhi aisa wakt aa jata hai,life me,jab hum apni problems chah kar bhi kisi ke saath share nahi kar paate.Chaahe wo hamara best friend hi kyun na ho.
Both of them are right because some people don't like sharing their personal problems even to their best friend and some people are so frank who shares everything with their best friend. And a true and real friendship doesn't need daily conversation and friendship is the purest form of love❤️
Both muskan and namrata are correct in their perspectives. Namrata has an understanding that discussion with friends is not the cure of every problem. Life is personal. Dost sath de skte hai support kr skte hai par ldai to khud ko hi krni hai. Muskan knows the meaning of friendship. Best friend is that person to whom you can share all your thoughts emotions understanding without any doubts. But muskan lacks the understanding related to importance of individuality. Every person has its own space and no one has the right to evade that space. Even in marriage, space is must. You have to connect with yourself first to connect with others. And namrata did mistake with regards to communication. Namrata should communicate to muskan that she needs her time. So that she can figure herself properly. Friendship is an important part in our lives. What friendship needs are transparency and understanding. Communication is secondary. If you are tightly busy in work, if you are busy fighting with something, thats why you didn't communicate for months with your best friend, that doesn't mean she didn't value her. It means that she value herself first. Every relationship needs mutual effort but friendship is that relation in which a person expect that her friend values her so she can understand every action taken by her. Friendships have only one foundation.. That is understanding ❤
I think both of them are right in their own perspectives , while if we consider muskan's point of view she is absolutely right that friendship is also a very solemn relation which needs time and effort and it cannot be one sided , communication should be there at any cost while i think namrata is also somwhere right as she is trying to solver her unkempt life first before dragging anyone she considers special in that mess , she is first teying to be emotionally stable that is very important. But i think of you are in a true friendship and if you consider that person your confidante than you should probably pour your heart out in front of that person because a true friend always undertands your perspective even if the whole world stands against you.
Yes no relationship is one sided Especially friendships . This relation must b free from anyone else's dictation such as parents , soulmates etc. Muskaan is right , people can move out from life on their own will but their coming back is upto oneself.
Both are right respectfully, as both of their lives and experiences are different, but personally I would rely Namrata's side, because when someone goes through personal challenges, you either shut everyone out, in order to heal, or you become extremely social. We each heal differently, and some people need time to heal and need to be alone to reflect, while other's need to be surrounded by people. So judgement just space, time and understanding!
I think friendship should be effortless. My best friend lives in India and I live in US. We don’t talk for months at times as we both busy with our one kids, etc but when we do talk it’s like we speak just yesterday.
even I'm an introvert and have a very few no. of friends who are really important to me. but if I was in place of Namrata, I'd not have ever done the kind of things she did, like, not receiving phone calls or not replying to the messages. If I'm aware of the fact that someone is really concerned about me then I'd love to share my life happenings without any hesitation. because it'll strengthen your relationship and most importantly provide you the psychological security that you are also a worth living being.
Muskan is right. It's very difficult to deal with people like namrata. It's like that you are at their mercy. Whenever she will be in right state of mind, only than she will pick your phone and talk to you. You can't depend on these type of people.
True and agreed Every relation is having own do and dontswhich you have to follow Obviously best friend touch me nahi suddenly she wants same that is not possible 🤚🏻
These are those friends who have you at their 'disposal' everytime THEY need u! Their friendship is based on convenience rather than priority for you... It's better to keep away from such 'friends'.
In friendship ,loyalty and trustworthy is needed, moreover in friendship a helping mind is also most important if it is a long distance friendship 🥰🥰in conclusion I am saying that in this video,both the people should confess their problem and understand each other's situation and start their friendship with a new beginning 🥰🥰🥰
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Most of the introverts can relate with Namrata...We feel hesitant in sharing our problems even with our best friends...Most of us go through a phase atleast once where we just want to be with ourselves...but that doesn't mean that we don't respect other's feelings and emotions ..
Yeah.. I agree
Yes friendship needs effort...but sometimes people do need time alone to solve their problems or cope up with life. It doesn't mean that you are not valuing the friend but it means that you are valuing yourself and trying to become emotionally independent too.
Being mentally independent is as important as it is to have a friend to rely on for on difficult situations.
So I think Namrata is right here.
I think both are right in their own way. Muskan:s stance that one sided relationships don't last is absolutely right. At the same time the other perspective that friendship comes without any bondages and expectations and is the easiest is also true - as long as the parties involved respect and love each other and don't take each other for granted
I can relate so much with this... I can understand Namrata bcoz she speaks my mind😌😌
Every relationship needs efforts and loyalty, even friendship.
Friendships doesn't need any explaination.
It just requires a deep understanding even in absence of conversation.
I agree with you.
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What is undestaing when you want to talk with your friend and they don't . Even being a best friend 😭
@@sunnysingh-um4wq yes actually you are right, since it's okay that you are not talking in normal situations but whenever your friends are in need you should definitely talk irrespective of anything in your life.
And you are lucky if you have a best friend to share..
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I stand with Muskan. Friendship does require effort and it can never be a one-sided relationship. I'm not in talking terms with my best friend of more than 20 years. We were childhood besties. But, I realized, she only knocks on me when she has problems to share. Trust me, I have always made myself available even in late nights over phone to her so that she could pour out but when it comes to my issues, I never find her by my side and when I tell her this, she says why do you expect.. Ha ha..
People should communicate with each other in any relationship. Without communication there is no chance that relationship goes life long. Communication is the only key through which you can easily get to know each other.
That is a BS. I have decades of friendship and due to our schedule, sometimes we didn't talk to each other for months. But still as close as we used to be whenever one of us reaches out or when we meet in person. Demanding communication or making other obliged to other party is beyond selfish.
Muskan is right.
Frndship doesn't need investment.
It's just about understandings and no formalities
Muskan is right bcoz friendship also needs efforts without effort nothing works
Friendship also needs effort. You can't take someone as granted just because this person is your friend. And this relationship whatever it is no matter if this is friendship all relationship does not go for long if it is just one sided.
Friendship - even after years remains the same - even if you are not in touch with your friend - that’s pure friendship
Friendship is the only relationship which is effortless. Both ends understand this very clearly and that's the beauty of it as well. I have a childhood friend and after 14 years I met her. We both were so happy to see each other and time passed by so fast. Everyone has ups and downs but we should cherish our friends always. Friendship is the only relation where you do not have to prove urself, you can just be....
Both of them are correct in their own way..
Ya it's true that even in friendship, efforts care and love is needed
But again there should b understanding too between friends
Agree with you
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The amount of effort you put in shows how much you care for the other person and his /her feelings . Yes , no relationship is one sided. It's always two way , if not why would you say it a relationship only . If you're not able to share your problems with your friends then it means you don't consider them your friend only .
Both are right in their own ways.
One may not have to put efforts in friendship but definitely , you can't take your friends for granted
For me friendship is only one relation which is choosen by us and we never has to prove ourself. And friends can be in contact again without any justification.
I have done the same with my closest friend. I had problems in life and I had to retreat. But I told him beforehand. He understood I needed that time. We were in touch less frequently during that time and now we are back gradually. We are great friends. Two important things.. One, I told him I needed 'me time'. Second, he understood that.
According to me a true friendship needs efforts. A true friendship means a friendship without any jealousy, where don't have to be mean and without any competition. A true friend is one who is always with you in your ups & downs. Aapke good days mai toh sab aapke saath hote hai lakin sacha dost wohi hai joh aapke bad days mai aapke saath khada rahe. According to this story Namrata is right and this problem is not only with the introverts but can be with anyone. We sometime don't share our problems with our best friend kyunki hum unhe pareshaan karna chahte hai. Hum unse seacrets toh share kar lete kyunki scerets toh best friend ke saath hi share kiye jaate hai na, but kabhi-kabaar problems nahi share karte kyunki hume pata hai humare dukh se woh bhi dukhi ho jayenge aur hum apne best friend ko dukhi nahi dekh sakte aur nahi dukhi kar sakte hi. After all we love them. Aur agar aapka saacha dost aapse apni problems naa share kare yah phir kisi aur se share kare toh never think ki she is no more with you. Aapka woh dost 10 logo ke beech mai bhi aake aapke baare mai hi soonch raha hoga aur agar kisi ne aapke are mai kuch seeda bhola toh use wahi sabak sikhayega. Because "TRUE FRIENDSHIP NEVER DIES".
I agree with Namrata. I think friendship h ek aisi chiz hai jisme na to koi umeed na to koi shikwa hona chahiye.
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Both are correct in their own ways..
I find myself in both of them 🥺
"A friend in need is a friend indeed",this is a famous quotation and which is not deniable.A real friend is one who stands by you in every odds and ends,who always shows their friend a right path,who never feel any kind of jealousy,ill-feeling ,hatred like all.A real friend understands you from inside unlike this world. ❤️❤️❤️
Coming to this video,I think both r correct in their own ways.But,Namrata said very true that friendship also requires efforts,care or love because it is also a relationship and all such things r pillars of good relationship 😊
We all need to be alone sometimes. It's hard to open up to someone about all of your problems, it's so difficult to talk about something like that. But I also understand the friend who was upset about the fact that her friend didn't talk about her problems with her. She was so invested in the relationship of their friendship. She needed her when she lost her job. When you can't give advice, it feels good to even have someone to talk about it too.
Friendship never ends..... even time and distance should not be a problem. When meeting a friend after a long time TALKING should come
easy and not dwell on the past 💞
Yes friendship also need effort and loyalty
Definitely a relationship that has to be worked on and be committed and respected.
Even Muskan needed a support....her problem was too big! Namrata is introvert but Muskan wasn't. She needed Namrata's support. And the most important reason why Namrata was wrong is that she didn't even replied to her texts! And obviously, friendship is not the easiest relationship. No relationship at all is the easiest! Every relationship needs dedication. And what if your best friend leaves you? Not everyone would be so hurt as he/she would be it was break up. I don't know what goes inside an introvert's mind. All I know is that best friend is the person in front of whom, you will never ever feel hesitant. Best friend is equal to mutual secret diary for me. Trust me, if you are knowingly absent during a break down situation of your best friend, you are not his/her best friend. No matter how sad you are, you will share your feelings with your best friend and stand by him/her if he/she is in trouble at the same time.
And I am so lucky that I have got three jewels. And my mother is my best too😄😄🥰🥰
One of my three best friends, called me from her hostel(mobile phones were not allowed in her hostel and studentswere allowed to call their family on Sundays only and their was a time limit. She found time to call me!)! She belongs from muslim community and I am hindu. Hindu-Muslim is a very sensitive topic. We even had undergone fights on religious issues. But the most sensitive thing got failed to break our friendship. We are still best friends. One of them was always their when I needed someone close beside me during my hostel life in Kota(I didn't had to even call her to come to me! She was always their on her own whenever I told her that I was well). And the third one is my oldest true friend. She is my Doraemon. I think 'Doraemon' name is enough to explain what she means to me and what she does for me. And my mother being the coolest mom ever is my best friend. Only a few can have her/his parent as a secret diary. My mom knows everything about me☺☺😇😇
Friendship should be unconditional. I have this kind of close friend and we had intuition if any one of not connecting and facing any problems. So don't wait for asking help and in need we knows that only this friend can understand her situation and support each other. So no need to count who is doing more efforts to keep relationship.
Nothing is effortless..if u want a relationship to work you have to stay connected...but yes a friend is one who understands no matter what..and stays with u forever
True friendship doesn't call for explanations. Some of us don't want to unload our problems unless we feel that the other person can help. Some of us may even be going through depression. True friends can tell when the other person is feeling low and accept it or try to change their feelings.
Good content and great presentation. Both of them are right. At the same time loyalty remains even when friends may not have communicated. It's necessary to pick communication as and when opportunity appears and one of them extend a hand out.
Sooo, sort of something happened to me few years back....And this is prolly the most relatable content of Life Tak for me, so I want to share my experience in brief....my case was different tho...My best friend just ignored me all of a sudden...It was just class 8...she got new friends in her tuitions, and behaved with me as a stranger...in the beginning I became upset, but later I stabilized myself and moved on...now we are in 12...in between we went through those 2 years of pandemic, our 1st board exams and all...now few months back, suddenly she called me and apologized for that ignorance...Her version was that now she has realised how much that could have hurted me....She told, that for her attachments are something which can happen now and end up the next moment, nothing to give effort in it. Then I told her my version, that is, for me, attachments take time to build up and strengthen and need efforts to be there...even if it's best friendship, the minimum amount of effort, atleast one text a week or two calls a month is needed...cause nothing could achieved effortlessly in life....In my case, my friendship, rather best friendship ended even after her apology, cause we discovered that our vibes and mentality are totally opposite, neither of us likes each other's choices or supports each other's decision....But in this vast world, any two person if are moving into a relationship, be it friendship, or anything else, I will say, a minimum effort is always needed from both ends to keep a balance....But ofcourse, sometimes a private space is needed away from the world, closest to the self....there we might eliminate even our best friends, but if they are true best friends, later we should again bring them back and mend up everything...cause friendship is a too precious bond to lose....❤
Namrata, true friendship asks no questions or tries to prove anything. True friend ensures to be there whatever be the situation. Understands when one needs space. Gives time to each other to open up at the right time. Understands why the friend did not go running to them when in problem. Every one is unque. True friendship accepts each other as they are without any expectation.
Thank you Life thak. I really needed this right now. You always bring out amazing content related to real life. Really appreciate your work and look forward to more concept on 'Friendship'.
Har introvert sabse nahi par kam se kam apne ek best friend ❤️ se to problem share kar hi sakta hai best friend hamesha saath dega musibat kr samay me kisi apne ke saath hone se problem aasan ho jati hai 👍
Friendship does not need any explanation. It is a best relationship where u can be as it is. If someone says friendship lasts only keep on communicating, it's wrong. Even if u are in touch with your friends after a long break, there would not be any questions for this. That is real friendship. I have such friends
I agree with Namrata, friendship should be effortless.. me and my best friend start our conversion from where we left like after years as well.. I stay in Australia and she is in India, still if we talk after 8-9 months, we start with kaisi hai tu stupid.. no judgements and no expectations.. just understanding..
So nice and great!! Lucky you 👍
bingo.
You have a distance friendship if you was in sane city you would know the other person very well . but our people get along with each other. it's angrez logoh is the problem . sometimes I wish I was in India
No expectations, no explanation for being out of touch, no fear of losing the other... that's exactly what friendship is! As I read somewhere, friends are like books: you approach them only when you need them, while you always cherish them and take pride in them, knowing that they are there for you!
Friendship is perhaps the only relationship which we develop absolutely voluntarily. But, it's also the most vulnerable relationship as people can move on from a friendship more easily than other relationships (esp those we are related to by birth or marriage). IMO, friendship should be nurtured with as much effort as any other relationship. So, here I agree with Muskaan. But I also understand Namrata's PoV, as for introverts it's not easy to open up about their personal life so easily, even with their best friend. As in all healthy relationships, friendship too requires mutual trust n genuine concern for the other's wellbeing. But, it's a pity that in these modern times, even friendships have become very transactional, almost business like.
Best Friendship is once you are considering someone as your friend then you can share anything about your life and who can listen you and give you support always without any conditions apply. If you have to explain something for yourself to prove in your friendship then there is something wrong.
Namrata is right, some people can't open up and need private space, friendship is about not talking for months but when the meeting finally, no questions asked and we just get normal, it is about understanding and compromising ur dignity because in the end life is awesome only when we compromise. :)
I think muskan is right bcoz friendship never ends ha thode bht efforts to hr relationship me zruri hote h but friendship is very easy relationship.
For me muskan was right. Like any other relationship some efforts are needed for friendship also. U can't just leave a friend like this. If can share happyness friends ar the ppl with whom u should be sharing good and bad
Like any other relationship, friendship also needs to nurtured. Commitment and communication from both sides is essential. But that said, if there has been very less communication between the friends for reasons both have, then they should not carry any grudges and they should pick up the threads from where they had left. That is true friendship.
I think muskaan is right like my best friend Bhim. But unfortunately, We don't talk to each other for 1 year, for such type issues. I have no words after watching this 😭😭😭
I miss you my friend, I miss you...
Friendship breakup is more worst than any other type of breakups, in my opinion
I think both were right at their own point..like Namrata said friendship is the easiest relationship..yes it is!!Like you don't have to prove yourself Also muskan said the right thing you have to be extrovert in your friendship no matter what!! So, practically ,communication gap sometimes affects a good friendship and relationship 🙏🙏
I think friendship should be effortless. Muskan isn't wrong but she should understand Namrata's state of mind. Sometimes, we are not able to stay in touch with our friends but that doesn't mean that friendship is over.
Friends varies from time to time, friends means having same things at the same time so it is called we are friends means we are same not different and it is effortless. A real friend understands and thus supports easily because he/she has the same experience.
Muskan is right! Many need to understand this
Loyalty has to be there in friendship, that is when it will last for long. But sometimes, people get involved in their own matters and might not be able to stay in touch(for a short duration) and that is also perfectly fine. My best friend and myself have a really close bond and we have been best buddies since 2003(almost 18 years) but the understanding is so good that sometimes when she gets occupied with her stuff, she is unable to keep in touch and same thing happens with me as well.
Muskan is absolutely right ....
I think namarta is right...bcz friendship aisi honi chahiye jha kbhi koi explanation ki jrurt na pade q ki clg life ke baad bht sari baate different hoti h...or ye situation mere sath bhi hua h ...I agree namarta talk
This was indeed a masterpiece.
Thanks, Lifetak for touching lives each time. :)
Muskan is right ..... Dosti kabhi bhi one sided nhi hoti ...best friend vo hota hai...jo apko kabhi bhi hurt na kare ....
Muskan is totally right. Esi dosti Kya Kam ki jaha hum apni problems hi share na Kar paye. Insan extrovert or introvert unknown ya Kam familiar logo ke liye hota h. Dosto ke liye wo sirf dost hota h. Islye har relationship me efforts zaruri h. I totally agree. I hate one sided efforts.
Friends should have that room to allow each other to get back at every time no matter what the issues are. Late or early. U just cant giveup on those goodtimes based on 1 issue.
Muskan is right cause who does not have problems in life as we all know Life is not a bed of roses. Give importance to friendship cause that's what friends are for to help each other through thick and thin. A nice video good acting and really serious conversation and expression. God bless you all always.
Never take any relationship for granted. Every relation is important and needs efforts at the end nothing is permanent but only our efforts make it lifelong.
Superb performance.. Actor par excellence you both are.. In fact everyone in the team has been so good with expressing. ❤❤
i agree with muskaan that even friendship requires certain efforts to make it go
I can understand Namrata situations. This happens with introvert ppl, they are unable to share their emotions but they cry inside. I understand Muskaan points too but Namrata was hiding from ppl and she didn't want to meet anyone
I m an introvert too. I don't like to share my problems with anyone. But that doesn't mean that i will ignore a friend who needs me.
That's the problem with namrata kind of people. First they will ignore friends, then they will expect understanding from them and complain that no one likes to talk to them.
I agree with muskan . Friendship is also sharing and caring.
Both are right it depends on situation
Ap dono aur life tak mera best friend hai..
Mujhe motivation aur entertainment dene ke sath life skills aur dress , faishan trends sab sikhata
Wow
Friendship need efforts too
Bhut kuch karna padta hai friends ke liye
Aur agr ek hi insaan efforts krta rahe na toh phir dosti jyada din tak chal pati
Ek dum naya angle, awesome, thoughtful, though it's situational.
I think they both are right in their place🤗
Friendship should be effortless❤
सिर्फ सेल्फिश लोग,ऐसे होते हैं कि
जब जरूरत हुई कॉल कर लिया
जब जरूरत खत्म कॉल्स भी बंद
और ये फिर से
जब जरूरत..... 😀
Yes....every relationship needs efforts...but word friend means something...close to heart...so both of them are correct....
This is the problem of every introvert . That they don't talk to everyone. But the other person need to understand them. Yea friendship need attention. But we need to balance both problem and friendship
Yes it's true that all relations need loyalty and effort. Likewise, all relations need space too, whenever required.
Both were right, Muskan makes her understand that she should tell her, and make her realise, Friendship also needs effects from both side, But not as much as other relation, When both clarify each other than... Let it go and now again start ... With full of happiness... And love
Super videos... I love to watching life Life Tak...
Friendship is one of the relationship which is effortless but does not imply not making effort at all, but least effort. Because here two people can understand each other the most, there's scope for that. It is not so much in other relationships.
Muskan is right. In Friendship loyalty trust love care all are essential thing.
No relationship can be taken for granted...
Namrata is right . True friends never needs justification. If u can't meet or talk with your besties doesn't mean that you are not interested in friendship
Wonderful content.
I think friendship is the easiest relation ❤️
Frdship shud be effortless.... It's a beautiful relationship.... Koi toh ho jaha mann halka ho... Jo Hume judge na Kare...
Both are right in their own way. Just they have to understand each other to keep their friendship alive. Friendship is not about talking everyday and sharing or not sharing few things, it's more than that.
Effort hona chahiye nhi toh ek point pe taken for granted feel hota hai
Friendship also needs efforts to stay.All of a sudden,one stops sending msgs,calls, will definitely create void,which takes time to fill up.
Kabhi kabhi aisa wakt aa jata hai,life me,jab hum apni problems chah kar bhi kisi ke saath share nahi kar paate.Chaahe wo hamara best friend hi kyun na ho.
Dosti effortless honi chahiye , but for granted nahi kisi bhi riste me communication zaroori hai
Both of them are right because some people don't like sharing their personal problems even to their best friend and some people are so frank who shares everything with their best friend.
And a true and real friendship doesn't need daily conversation and friendship is the purest form of love❤️
Muskan is right.... If you share your problems with your bestfriend you feel better than stay alone with lots of depression ❤️
Both muskan and namrata are correct in their perspectives. Namrata has an understanding that discussion with friends is not the cure of every problem. Life is personal. Dost sath de skte hai support kr skte hai par ldai to khud ko hi krni hai. Muskan knows the meaning of friendship. Best friend is that person to whom you can share all your thoughts emotions understanding without any doubts. But muskan lacks the understanding related to importance of individuality. Every person has its own space and no one has the right to evade that space. Even in marriage, space is must. You have to connect with yourself first to connect with others. And namrata did mistake with regards to communication. Namrata should communicate to muskan that she needs her time. So that she can figure herself properly. Friendship is an important part in our lives. What friendship needs are transparency and understanding. Communication is secondary. If you are tightly busy in work, if you are busy fighting with something, thats why you didn't communicate for months with your best friend, that doesn't mean she didn't value her. It means that she value herself first. Every relationship needs mutual effort but friendship is that relation in which a person expect that her friend values her so she can understand every action taken by her. Friendships have only one foundation.. That is understanding ❤
I think both of them are right in their own perspectives , while if we consider muskan's point of view she is absolutely right that friendship is also a very solemn relation which needs time and effort and it cannot be one sided , communication should be there at any cost while i think namrata is also somwhere right as she is trying to solver her unkempt life first before dragging anyone she considers special in that mess , she is first teying to be emotionally stable that is very important. But i think of you are in a true friendship and if you consider that person your confidante than you should probably pour your heart out in front of that person because a true friend always undertands your perspective even if the whole world stands against you.
Muskan is right. We should share our feelings with our best friends.
Yes no relationship is one sided
Especially friendships . This relation must b free from anyone else's dictation such as parents , soulmates etc. Muskaan is right , people can move out from life on their own will but their coming back is upto oneself.
Both are right respectfully, as both of their lives and experiences are different, but personally I would rely Namrata's side, because when someone goes through personal challenges, you either shut everyone out, in order to heal, or you become extremely social. We each heal differently, and some people need time to heal and need to be alone to reflect, while other's need to be surrounded by people. So judgement just space, time and understanding!
Muskan is right. No relationship can be one sided. Friendship too required efforts.
I think friendship should be effortless. My best friend lives in India and I live in US. We don’t talk for months at times as we both busy with our one kids, etc but when we do talk it’s like we speak just yesterday.
even I'm an introvert and have a very few no. of friends who are really important to me. but if I was in place of Namrata, I'd not have ever done the kind of things she did, like, not receiving phone calls or not replying to the messages. If I'm aware of the fact that someone is really concerned about me then I'd love to share my life happenings without any hesitation. because it'll strengthen your relationship and most importantly provide you the psychological security that you are also a worth living being.
Muskan is right. It's very difficult to deal with people like namrata. It's like that you are at their mercy. Whenever she will be in right state of mind, only than she will pick your phone and talk to you. You can't depend on these type of people.
True and agreed
Every relation is having own do and dontswhich you have to follow
Obviously best friend touch me nahi suddenly she wants same that is not possible 🤚🏻
These are those friends who have you at their 'disposal' everytime THEY need u!
Their friendship is based on convenience rather than priority for you...
It's better to keep away from such 'friends'.
Real friendship never require any efforts....both are right....but needs to empathize each others condition with free mind....
In friendship ,loyalty and trustworthy is needed, moreover in friendship a helping mind is also most important if it is a long distance friendship 🥰🥰in conclusion I am saying that in this video,both the people should confess their problem and understand each other's situation and start their friendship with a new beginning 🥰🥰🥰