Not when he dates out of his race will that be said but the moment he starts dragging BM just to Uplift the nonblack one, it will be said! I wish y'all could learn the difference! Smh
I think that brother was wasting his time on Kendra's show. He's trying to find something good at a store having a going out of business sale two days before it's over.
Tells you everything you need to know about the black american community. The worst off you are in society the more respect you get, the better you are, the worse you are treated.
Damn speaking nothing but truth, I separated myself for the majority from the black race long time ago. Best thing I ever did, just family and a very small circle of friends. The rest good bye!
This was interesting to watch. I (black American woman) was married to a man with similar attributes and experiences because of those attributes. He didn't play polo but was into things considered to be different in our communities. He did also speak Russian (trained in military) and was also heavy into skin care. He lived in various countries throughout life, loved books (was a walking encyclopedia), very well-spoken, dressed well, had high standards, and was really just--his own person. (He was also quite rustic and into gardening and permaculture and was a genius at it). He told me when they were growing up, his sister always accused him of being gay. She took it far, too. I think his dating pool was diverse as a young man because of lack of understanding from black American women, however he did attract and date these women as well. We had 3 children together. He's no longer physically on Earth, but I was so blessed to know and live life with him while he was here!
I send my condolences, and its great to hear stories of black women like you expressing your appreciation for quality black men and speaking highly of them 🙌🏾
You nailed it with the Kevin Samuels example. Also the example of educated black women choosing pookies. There is a video on UA-cam of black women in college being interviewed and many of them prefer a drug dealer over a doctor. SMH.
I went to a PWI and most of my Black female counterparts are baby mommas. My mother just asked me why I wasn’t interested in my classmates. Just like I stated I said they’re all single mothers I don’t want someone else’s kid.
I have a rich cousin who only dates upper middle class white women because of this. He wants a Black woman but gets turned down. They don't even know that he has the bag.
So that Bag ONLY means that You have absolutely nothing else that they could possibly want then. You can't be shit if all you really rely on is that, just be prepared to be Used and don't complain afterwards
@@StuartCallendar Df? Y'all love promoting for us to find other races of women when most of us want Black women lol. Keep your swirler/divestor talk to yourself. We prefer Black women. Not all of them are rachet etc. There's literally millions of other Black women across the planet that I'd rather deal with before I go talking to other races of women but I love myself unlike a lot of y'all so I guess that might be why.
Not upper class white women. You ahve to know your crowd. When I went to a sean paul concert, i had nothing HOOD to wear, so i went and got me some stuff i can return the next day. Most of the shhh i own is suits and chinos and blazers. That night i pulled 2 white girls too lol best night ever. So, calling into Kendra G and looking like a european guy from Rome isn't going to work lol he wasn't on code as the pookies say.
@@nocapnobs7845 Lmao, "Looks like a European guy from Rome" haha, it's funny if you have an individualistic sense of style or something that doesn't match Pookie’s hood fashion sense, black women think you're “corny” or weird.
@@nocapnobs7845 a lot of clean cut brothers just don’t want white women though. There is a lot you have to deal with dating interacially that y’all don’t like to talk about.
I wore a turtle neck sweater one time to my friends house at a small party and one of the BW made a sly comment saying, why he dressed like that like he white or g@y...I replied her by saying it ain't my fault you grew up in the lower class. She got angry 😂😂 The women in the community are done for
Wearing shit like turtle necks shouldn't give that vibes. The dude on Kendra G in the beginning looked dodgy because of hand gestures and his initial voice pattern. Only later he sounded a bit more masculine. It's understandable to think it's possible. In it's entirety you can see he's straight, in the first few minutes he looked dodgy.
@@nobodyknowsforsure well am a BM from an upper class family,that have upper class mannerisms and way of talking and you know these dmb Chicks hardly see those type of behaviour in BM given the proximity they always find themselves. So I guess she was intimidated and instead of compliments she wanted to be smarty mouth so I handed it to her..
@@BadTV1993 oh yes brother the upper class lifestyle a wonderful lifestyle. BM should not be ashamed of showing the world they come from that section of society. Stop trying to please these women by hiding who you are
You know it is sickening as a straight black American man, I get this a lot ,I know also other black men do to.If you keep yourself groomed, talk properly,and don't display any stupid thug behavior and so on, you are considered GAY. Then you fucking wonder why we zoom to Thailand and other people. I am not homophobic, but as a straight black man you get tired of this.🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕✌️
@@billypittman8 why do you think threatening women who don’t want you to go to Thailand would care? Men can rate women on a 1-10 scale and get upset because women don’t find them attractive. There are plenty of women who like “pretty boys” but you choose to focus on who DONT want you.
Kudos to him for knowing himself and not giving two shits that he doesn’t fit the paradigm of “black masculinity”. Many so called real niggas don’t do things they actually like because of fear of being clowned.
@@reesejohnson2788 black women deep down like that shit.. The love and hip hop and these black independent women shows got these black women entitled, confused, and alone at the end of the day..
Happens to me every now and then. I work out every day, I have a graduate degree, and grew up in the suburbs. Some family members said I acted "White" and ridiculed me for being smart. Tried dating black women and I either got cheated on or flaked on for dates. As soon as I started dating outside of my race, I was always asked, "Why can't you find a nice Black girl to settle down with? Are you too good for us now?" I say go where you are appreciated. Sometimes you have more in common with others who do not share your skin tone. It may be about class.
I can sadly relate to this very much. I didn't try to date much or flex my sexuality during my school years so people assumed I was gay or thought I was better than. Truthfully I just wasn't dating because I saw an end to most those potential relationships before they began but even after dating women and it being public information it didn't prove anything to them 🤷🏽♂
i feel you. Ppl thought i was picky cuz i refused to go for combative/overweight chicks.. Even tho, it was mainly bigger girls giving me play and throwing me fish but, i never gave em a shot..I just wasn’t interested in the chubby chase..I like mine pretty in the face slim with a slender frame or tight body..sure i like curvy/slim thick ladies..but i’m NOT tripping on a chick if she hasn’t got 🍑🍒 ..most of my exes were thin. i’m built lean & wiry..why tf would i go for a chick heavier then me.
He is a cultivated, cultured and caring man. I have been a bedside nurse for over 30 years. He is the type of man that would advocate for his wife's health with her healthcare team, treat the hospital staff with respect and be by his wife's side from admission to discharge.
Weren’t black men the ones screaming the feminisation of black men because of that Jonathan majors cover 🤣🤣 now you man are screaming something different keep the same energy - his interest are very feminine 🤣🤷
@@accessdenied5262 fetishisation? Why do BW use words they don’t understand? Nobody was talking about fetishes, unless you mean feminisation? And that was a select few people, I happen to love Doflamingo
this is a rabbit hole in and of itself that can be explored. The jails are full of dudes that just fell into a lifestyle they became fully vested in because someone told them that's what they had to do. Shout out to all the men that had the courage to be himself early on and never compromised. Also, Oshay he said polo. Not water polo. The equestrian activity.
As someone who "talks like a white girl" just because I like to speak in complete sentence, I am never one to put my brothers and sisters in a box. I learned this lesson at an early age. I hate the way we are so quickly to put our own people in a box, which is another form of slavery.....but I'm not even going there.
It's because of the culture. The hood and ghetto type seems like the only image and persona we can have at this time. Before that existed all types were accepted.
@@HARwinsOUTagain PLEASE explain the concept of what "talking like a white boy/girl means? I don't understand the mentality of people who make statements like this. It's as if they feel it's a compliment. It's REALLY not at all. I would think one would be offended by it. Let's remember that intelligence is something that you're born with. Not everyone was given the "intelligence" ingredient. Being able to articulate your thoughts and pronounce words correctly isn't exclusive to the white race. At this point we as BLACK people have accepted every derogatory moniker that society has given us. Now, we're giving them to ourselves. Not sure which Black MEN and WOMEN you're referring to. But, you would be amazed at just how many intelligent men & women are in the "hood" who never had a chance to shine. Golfing, chess, fencing, ice hockey, tennis, rugby, lacrosse, hacky sack, surfing, ballet, playing the violin, etc. These are things I grew up doing and still continue to do them today. If I had a bottle of nail polish for every time someone called me WEIRD, let's just say it would be a lot! Proud to be me (WEIRD) and loved (he was attracted to my confidence in accepting my weirdness).
Then if he was to go be with someone outside of his race he will be talked about for that decision. When in reality he had to go that route because he won’t be looked at as weird for his hobbies or cleanliness as a black man. Sad reality
So tired of women thinking that men must be gay for one reason or another. I had a coworker ask if I was gay cos I made a statement about not ever having a girlfriend...in actuality the statement was a joke in reference to the length drought between girlfriends. But the coworker was one fry short of a happy meal anyway 😏
Back in middle school people thought I was gay because I was quiet, spoke properly, and I dress like an average guy. I am not gay my parents raised me well.
it's one of the biggest issues within the black community, if you don't show certain mannerism that is considered "black" you get looked down on. it's the dumbest thing, that you have to act, speak and do certain things to be accepted or to be seen as one from the community, but all that do is throw us into stereotypes. ppl will argue with stereotypes there's a ring of truth in them, such as how blacks are far more athletic, cool, creative.....but then you have those that will say that our men are thugs. our women are loud and hateful, so on and so forth. i just think it's absolutely stupid that we will stereotype ourselves simply cause the color of our skin.
Drives me insane. I’ve pretty much been ousted since I was a child. I’m on the total opisite spectrum from BM most blacks people…but it’s easier as I get older. People have many worried about it as much, o don’t know why some blacks feel we all litterally need to be the same
@@kuroe-chan5190 I understand myself. As an artist, I found myself doing things differently from most it would reflect in my appearance and interests. When I was younger, I would wear the leather wrist bands with spikes on them, wear chockers and listen to metal.....I get called a devil worshipper, while that was also when I was in college. I speak articulent and girls laugh at me. I ask if you expected me to talk like some nigga and they admittedly tell me yes. Despite all this, I had to fight my own battles as a black male, cause I faced the same bigotry that we all may face one day. Regardless how we look or act, we all face the same struggles and the sad fact is anyone else from another community will view us as black while our own won't. 🤷🏾♂️
You think Kevin Samuel’s had problems getting blank women…the loud haters are just that…loud and hating…plenty of blank women that loved him and he can easily pool Don’t worry about appeasing the haters
@@istherenooneleft oh, never that. I just think that ppl have to see themselves as an individual, than a community and I think that's the issue some ppl have when they go looking for acceptance. That's why ppl like Kevin Samuels get the recognition they get, cause they do stick out cause they don't conform to what ppl think.
Years ago worked Armed security at ST.JOHN'S University, saw first hand sisters who were top students dealing with thugs Hell the residence life leader a sister with great grades nice young lady but what did she date an older non student thug, just amazing with all the positive brothers going to that university.
I’ve always been attracted to men who take care of themselves and I think it is so wack how people just put that title on any guy who takes care of themselves to a different degree. It’s super attractive to find a man who actually takes pride and time to care for himself
I heard that nonsense all the time. Just because I didn't speak like slavery ended yesterday, my blackness was questioned. The eloquence of Frederick Douglas or James Baldwin would be ridiculed by these heathens.
the elephant in the room, the resistance so called nerdy brothers get contributes to dating outside of the race. he articulates it very well. having non traditional hobbies is too far out of the comfort zone for many sisters.
Non standard Blk men looking to stay within the race are in a difficult position, they don't want hood chicks, hood chicks don't want them and the blk women not looking for hood dudes want white men.
He was a little more than nerdy. He just had a lot of gay characteristics that shouldn’t be ignored just because he’s a BM. Not claiming he’s gay, just isn’t far fetched, especially how he opened the call
Brothers, Live your life! Be yourself! The way around this is to be with the woman who loves you, and not necessarily the one you might hand pick, that way you don't end up with a woman who either wants a man who only exists on the pages of a Hollywood script, or one who thinks she's doing you a favor by being with you.
My man is out there was grinding and trying to come in his own, but BW need to comfortably put BM into the Tyrone, lame, or gay categories. “Huh. I ain't feeling it. Not hood enough, no edge, too corny, can put a few syllables together properly; he look too pretty; he manage his money too well... he can't be my man." Later on - HEY: WHY YOU DATING HER ANYWAY; YOU CANT HANDLE A WOMAN LIKE ME!?!?! TLDR: Leave dusty, narrow-minded harpies like that alone.
Was talking to a woman who is from and still lives in Oklahoma where KS was from, she said they went to the same high school Milwood. I would quote some of his messages and she would swear up and down KS was g@y & speak ill of him so I asked what was her issue she could never give me any Definitive answer. Long story short I smashed and dashed 🏃🏾♂️💨
@@montethomas2667 it’s 1 reason I stopped dating older chicks they’re delusional 🥴 She would ask, “why are you defending him so tough” I would respond bc your attacking a his manhood wtf are you dumb
I live in an affluent suburb, and the few black women I have access to also passed me up for pookie bc they want “the true black experience” smh. Their families worked so hard to attain wealth only to have their daughters regress. Luckily for me I’m African so I can always go back home and find someone with sense. America is the only place I’ve seen affluent girls messing with pookie types (not limited to bw btw).
Preach. Yeah I plan on going back home to find a wife because some American-born Nigerians have, unfortunately, adopted liberal/American values that is literally a contradiction to Igbo culture.
@@topdhen They won’t even get to see it bc they’ll dry up the moment they notice you pronounce your E’s and R’s. Criminal records are more valued than degrees in this community🤣🤣
@Emanuel Dos Santos : Are all these BM really pookies though just because some BW passed you up? If your women are so great, then why are you here in America and why haven't you found a wife in your own country already???
I gotta admit that Damn Kendra’s wig is on point! She does treat gay black men better. Just like most bw who have issues with bm do. What he means is that yt women are ok with him playing polo, and bw think he’s corny. At the same time if he ends up dating interracially, he’ll b considered a sellout
Maybe. But she's BUSTED WITHOUT makeup on. (Check her out on the Breakfast Club recently) Not sure why the HELL people call this BROAD for advice anyway!!! SMH.
Agreed, but growing up in a religious family, it was always more than physical to me. My dad used to lead our prayers before meals and before bed, we had Bible study at home, he would teach us the Bible in a way that related to real life,that we could understand and use it in real life. he prayed over us in his absence, he covered us and gave us the tools to deal with people, beyond a physical level.
@@TheodoreBakes wow that's a great dad, that's the type of father I want to develop to be but I have to shed certain toxic mentalities that's been engrained in me. I have three daughters, a marriage on the verge of being on the rocks. My wife keeps our daughters in church and listening to Christian based music, I must say I haven't been leading my family in the way that you said your dad did for you and your family.
@@blackbolt3685 word word that's good. I'm slowly learning, putting away that hyper masculine harden man and wanting to learn how to be a "comprehensive man" like Mr.Jason Wilson says, author of Cry like a man and Battle Cry.
@@StromLxrd6 well my dad definitely had his flaws, but let this be your sign to step up for your family. Seek God first, ask for his guidance and leadership because it isn’t easy to just know how to do it. And you won’t always have the right answers or make the perfect choices but as long as you’re accountable to God, I believe he will show you the way and give you the tools to lead and protect and provide for your family the way they need. And even for yourself. I personally always pray that God order my steps, lead my way and protect me from things seen and unseen. So many times we lean on our own understanding and the Bible teaches us not to, that’s a major problem with society these days. They go off what they think is right when God already gave us a whole book on lessons and how to live.
You really just have to know who you are. I was also born and raised and Philly and I didn’t liked certain things other kids would be growing up. I felt like I had to fit in and my parental situation also held me back from what I really wanted to be. I totally understand his statement. He seen how destructive growing up in that environment can be and decided to be himself over everything
ALSO FROM PHILLY AND JUST TOLD SOMEBODY LAST WEEK THAT BLACK PEOPLE WHO LIVE AROUND THE MOUNTAINS THERE ABSOLUTELY KNOW ABOUT SNOWBOARDING AND OTHER COLD WEATHER ACTIVITIES!!
It comes down to whether "The Skip Me" wants "Quality or Quantity"!!! My late grandmother used to say, "You will always get what you want, but you may not want, what you get". Plain and simple!!!
Oshay, everything you said was straight facts! It's a damn shame to be honest. This type of scenario is so common among our women, that it's why thugs get so many women. And because of that...that's why so many Black men adopt a thug persona and don't aim to be intellects. There are a host of repercussions behind our women choosing to date thugs and looking down on Black men that are not embracing that type of stereotypical identification. It's a sad shame! (SMH)😡
@@beefybitcoin8085es sir Rent Wic Furniture vouchers $1 a day car insurance Medicaid for the lil future felon baby We take care of them without being with them. And yes the free BT card money gets spent on steamed crab legs The ignorance is a disease at this point So dim they don’t understand how important that Fed Ex worker is to their lifestyle
Oshay is speaking truth here. I have also known and have seen a lot of professional black women who are dating thugs. I know two black female doctors; one is an optometrist and the other woman is a chiropractor - they are both dating hood dudes from the streets. I also knew a white chick who is an attorney from Chicago who love dating gang members. She's a criminal defense attorney too.
Hard to see a professional non black women do this but seldom. Mostly, it's black women! I know a black female judge dating an ex con. White folks in the neighborhood can't wrap their head around it but I understand.
Continue to do what you do. I had a couple of chicks way back in high school that spread rumors about me being gay, because I turned them down. They were fat, hood as h3ll, loud and just looked plain raggedy😆. They will always insult you, especially when you can do better.
And this is why I tell you guys to go where you're wanted!!! There's a plethora of women of different ethnicities that'll appreciate you and treat you like the king you are. 🤷🏿♂️
We Black people are the most judgmental people and especially our females counterparts smh. The amount of time Black people judge a brother before even knowing them is Amazon. Smh 🤦🏾♂️
To be fair, he does have feminine mannerisms like a lot of flamboyant gay men. I went to college with white guys that were very well spoken, and came from serious money, but nothing about them would be considered gay. Let's stop acting like there isn't a stereotypical gay way of speaking or moving.
@@j.baldwin3012 Leave him the fucccck alone and stop judging him. We black folks, always judging people. If white folks judged us now for being black, we start crying racism.
Exactly,I remember during the shutdown I would see ppl posting about needing to get to the shops for hair,beard,etc and that was alien to me because,I always do my own self maintenance I didn't HAVE to go to a shop,times I did go was because I just wanted to or it was convenient.
These are the topics that really need to be discussed in the black community...From Umar to Cynthia G. Instead of talking down and critiquing the men that date out..get to the root of the problem.
Almost every black man that wears lotion and brushes his teeth has had his sexuality questioned. But there are levels to it. Objectively speaking, he presented himself as very effeminate and nervous in his introduction. And we can't change what most black women are sexually attracted to. So if he wants a specific type of black woman, he should adjust accordingly (style, mannerisms, etc.). Otherwise, play the long game and look in your Polo circles and through other hobbies. Some girls are VERY into his look as it currently stands. But they aren't on the Kendra G show.
i dont understand that. as a black man i cant walk around with dry skin. its even worse when its cold as the moisturiser acts as a barrier to the cold. to an extent.
they've only seen one form of masculinity, which is why they judged kevin. most men grow beards and tat themselves to attract women, but deep down, they aren't really that type of guy
That's why they should have fathers in the house because women act like they don't realize that they make these type of man. It's like they make them like this then abandon them. Then get mad when they go outside they race .
NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN MOVE LIKE THAT!!!!!! I'm a BLACK WOMAN & I was NEVER EVER attracted to thugs or the bad boy type!!!!!!! I've ALWAYS been attracted to black men who wore suits & ties and spoke like they were taught proper English in grade school! As an older millennial these are the kind of stereotypes that I HATE bc it makes black men and women struggle to love and accept each other....the older I grow in this country called America...I wish I was born BLACK IN ANOTHER COUNTRY INSTEAD!!!! #Thats just how I feel 🤷🏽♀️they jacked us up 4sho & did a great job at it too😒
Man look..respectfully, he look sweet. As a man you should make sure your mannerisms are not feminine. The world we live in needs hard men, is what it is. Salute to that man💯
Black women appreciate only Pookie, Day-Day and Ray-Ray's. both Kendra and the other black women in the comments section aptly confirmed his criticisms of why he is treated so negative in his own “black communitah”
First off he said Polo, like Ralph Lauren Polo, not water polo... secondly, dude needs to do whatever he wants and to stay away from the stereotypical ninga community. Especially those who don't have a clue what Polo is. You're Welcome 😊
Brother still got a lot going on for himself....we said things we wish we could take back, and what he said was not a big deal to me....brother love himself, and that's very important....stay bless
I Wish this brother well. He seems like a nice gentleman, very calm spirit. I know what it is like to be misjudged as I tend to be very proper and people often mistake that for me being a snob but I find that when I'm around other classy people I just fit right in. So, as he said, you just have to find your crowd. I stopped the video halfway when I realized Oshay was making something out of nothing because Kendra was very mature and professional in the way she dealt with this man. And many of you men who are agreeing with Oshay just because a woman didn't want you if you met this man you'd probably misjudge him too.
This shit be annoying. I used to do that too. I called everyone gay just if I thought they was corny. As I got older I realized it's stupid and people act different and just because its different from you dont mean its gay.
@@topdhen that's just stupid. Yall dumb people just want whatever you want to mean something lol. Calling someone gay dont make you gay actually being gay makes you gay idiot. Back in the day I would have called you gay but since I'm grown I'm just gonna call you corny.
They're all dumb with a ego only a deity should have it is even abit pass the ego of a deity which is crazy to think cuz no matter how fat skinny or how they Look or how crazy their body count is you're always never good enough to even Look at Them They're always perfect while you has way too many flaws to them
I definitely fit in this category. Throughout my life, I got my masculinity and sexuality questioned just because I was well-spoken and kept myself clean. However, I won't say that black women are the only ones who have a narrow perception of what a masculine man is supposed to be. Women in general need to expand those perceptions and not be so judgemental.
I thought dude was a little zesty until he dropped pure wisdom on how some women operate. They love the idea of a nice guy but not the logistics of the relationship.
I have to keep this all the way 100. Just from looking at the thumbnail I thought Bro was a fruit. But after hearing him speak I didn't get that from him....
To be honest he has feminine mannerisms. if he don't fix that, he will be mistaken for gay and I can't blame the women for thinking that way in this day and age. For example the way he wave his hand. I don't believe his issues come from women looking at him as corny.
He doesn’t have to fix a thing. And for who? If it isn’t his self. He can find himself a lovely black woman the way he is who will enjoy his ways. We as brothers gotta live and let live. I remember I met this blk guy at the bar years and years ago. I will admit, I thought he might of been a splinter booty, but it terns out, he was just ultra feminine in his expressive nature. There’s a big difference when you’d mature enough between gae and feminine. He went on and on about chicks, soaked up a lot of game, he had his stuff semi together, and he was fun to drink with and watch games with. When you realize that you’ve met a brother who isn’t trying to kill you or another, you recognize how all that judgment stuff goes out the window and coming together in peace is very beautiful when manifested. It’s when the person starts to project that onto you when there is problems. That’s a clear sign. But if they are just that way with out trying to disrespect your manhood, live and let live. We gotta protect each other, especially the non violent non ghtto ones
Great brother, with a great job, pension, benefits, and also take good care of himself. The brother got a routine and great hobbies and not hanging on the corner street....hope this brother finds a good lady who will respect him and take care of him...stay focus my brothers.....
They'll call him corny until he dates out. Then all of a sudden he hates his momma.
bingo
Or….someone hurt him. It’s always the same narrative. Foh
Goofy ass sh*t for real, vvomen can be insufferable
@@derrickwilliams9458 ....,ikr. Yo momma black.
Not when he dates out of his race will that be said but the moment he starts dragging BM just to Uplift the nonblack one, it will be said! I wish y'all could learn the difference! Smh
These women be wanting a hood astronaut I swear 😂
Lmao. No lies here.
Hood Lab Technicians lmaooo😂😂
You can’t make this shit up. (Kevin Samuels voice)
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Legendary comment sir.
I think that brother was wasting his time on Kendra's show. He's trying to find something good at a store having a going out of business sale two days before it's over.
Factssss that’s what I was thinking.
I'm contacting all the good brothers from this show and referring them to a better show with more quality women.
Tells you everything you need to know about the black american community. The worst off you are in society the more respect you get, the better you are, the worse you are treated.
Yes that is black Americans in a nutshell
This is an American issue, specifically. It's not just African-Americans'.
@@dejumaboutique1305 also true I have to agree
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Damn speaking nothing but truth, I separated myself for the majority from the black race long time ago. Best thing I ever did, just family and a very small circle of friends. The rest good bye!
Type of brother that women look back in life at and missed out on. Wish him the best moving forward.
Lost and gainz
Exactly the corny ones back then are winning now
Then he dates a white girl, instantly sellout.
@@chelseareyes56 thing is they weren't corny to begin with that's a you thing
@@jasonwilliams9307 I completely agree. They were too busy looking at F**ck boys
It was not water polo Oshay, it was actual polo, with the horse and stick, as he mentioned.
Great sport and hobbie...Trust me
Exactly,and did you see the look on KG face when he described it to her,she was lost.
This was interesting to watch. I (black American woman) was married to a man with similar attributes and experiences because of those attributes. He didn't play polo but was into things considered to be different in our communities.
He did also speak Russian (trained in military) and was also heavy into skin care. He lived in various countries throughout life, loved books (was a walking encyclopedia), very well-spoken, dressed well, had high standards, and was really just--his own person. (He was also quite rustic and into gardening and permaculture and was a genius at it). He told me when they were growing up, his sister always accused him of being gay. She took it far, too. I think his dating pool was diverse as a young man because of lack of understanding from black American women, however he did attract and date these women as well.
We had 3 children together. He's no longer physically on Earth, but I was so blessed to know and live life with him while he was here!
Sorry for your loss. He sounds like a loss for the entire community.
I send my condolences, and its great to hear stories of black women like you expressing your appreciation for quality black men and speaking highly of them 🙌🏾
@@rw2382 Thank you! And it truly was a loss.
sound like a great guy fr...sad masculinity gets placed in a small box
Sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you honored a man who wasn't 2 dimensional and experienced a solid meaningful relationship with him.
You nailed it with the Kevin Samuels example. Also the example of educated black women choosing pookies. There is a video on UA-cam of black women in college being interviewed and many of them prefer a drug dealer over a doctor. SMH.
Facts!!!!
I went to a PWI and most of my Black female counterparts are baby mommas. My mother just asked me why I wasn’t interested in my classmates. Just like I stated I said they’re all single mothers I don’t want someone else’s kid.
I have a rich cousin who only dates upper middle class white women because of this. He wants a Black woman but gets turned down. They don't even know that he has the bag.
I’m looking to get into the dating Market as a young black female lol where is your cousin from?
@@kiathompson4734 Why would he downgrade?
@@nocapnobs7845 😂😂 💯
So that Bag ONLY means that You have absolutely nothing else that they could possibly want then. You can't be shit if all you really rely on is that, just be prepared to be Used and don't complain afterwards
@@nocapnobs7845 Snap!!!
God bless this man he is not ghetto.
God said an Effeminate Man isn't going to inherit the Kingdom, so there's no blessings for that
He needs to find himself a woman outside of the culture, outside of the race, or both.
@@StuartCallendar Df? Y'all love promoting for us to find other races of women when most of us want Black women lol. Keep your swirler/divestor talk to yourself. We prefer Black women. Not all of them are rachet etc. There's literally millions of other Black women across the planet that I'd rather deal with before I go talking to other races of women but I love myself unlike a lot of y'all so I guess that might be why.
@@StuartCallendar go to a trailer park or an area in Asia with a high crime rate?
@@sivartb7273 why would he do that stupid shit when he could just get a passport and travel the world? Smh
Now a days, if you dress nice, and look clean, women think you’re suspect.
Not upper class white women. You ahve to know your crowd.
When I went to a sean paul concert, i had nothing HOOD to wear, so i went and got me some stuff i can return the next day. Most of the shhh i own is suits and chinos and blazers. That night i pulled 2 white girls too lol best night ever.
So, calling into Kendra G and looking like a european guy from Rome isn't going to work lol he wasn't on code as the pookies say.
@@nocapnobs7845 Lmao, "Looks like a European guy from Rome" haha, it's funny if you have an individualistic sense of style or something that doesn't match Pookie’s hood fashion sense, black women think you're “corny” or weird.
Right all of them be looking at you like 🧐🧐🧐
That’s not true. You just have to find a different set of BW.
@@nocapnobs7845 a lot of clean cut brothers just don’t want white women though. There is a lot you have to deal with dating interacially that y’all don’t like to talk about.
I wore a turtle neck sweater one time to my friends house at a small party and one of the BW made a sly comment saying, why he dressed like that like he white or g@y...I replied her by saying it ain't my fault you grew up in the lower class. She got angry 😂😂 The women in the community are done for
as a brother who grew up w/ a housekeeper & nanny, i can concur this to be true
Wearing shit like turtle necks shouldn't give that vibes. The dude on Kendra G in the beginning looked dodgy because of hand gestures and his initial voice pattern. Only later he sounded a bit more masculine. It's understandable to think it's possible. In it's entirety you can see he's straight, in the first few minutes he looked dodgy.
@@nobodyknowsforsure well am a BM from an upper class family,that have upper class mannerisms and way of talking and you know these dmb Chicks hardly see those type of behaviour in BM given the proximity they always find themselves. So I guess she was intimidated and instead of compliments she wanted to be smarty mouth so I handed it to her..
Great Comeback brother😂
@@BadTV1993 oh yes brother the upper class lifestyle a wonderful lifestyle. BM should not be ashamed of showing the world they come from that section of society. Stop trying to please these women by hiding who you are
That Black Polo Club I’m North Philadelphia is a very successful program. Produced a number of collegiate polo players.
He's into real polo, with the horses, not water polo. Troy stated this clearly.
Yeah i caught that too lol
both are sports usually only played by the "upper crust",as far as american society goes
Homeboy going to be alright, he’s secure and doesn’t take the prejudgment personal.. salute black man!
Can't judge a book by its cover
Just it's contents
You know it is sickening as a straight black American man, I get this a lot ,I know also other black men do to.If you keep yourself groomed, talk properly,and don't display any stupid thug behavior and so on, you are considered GAY. Then you fucking wonder why we zoom to Thailand and other people. I am not homophobic, but as a straight black man you get tired of this.🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕✌️
Selfish people are shallow.
Yep
@@billypittman8 why do you think threatening women who don’t want you to go to Thailand would care? Men can rate women on a 1-10 scale and get upset because women don’t find them attractive. There are plenty of women who like “pretty boys” but you choose to focus on who DONT want you.
Kudos to him for knowing himself and not giving two shits that he doesn’t fit the paradigm of “black masculinity”. Many so called real niggas don’t do things they actually like because of fear of being clowned.
True. Plus, the “real niccas” be on the down-low the most… 🤦🏽♂️
I be saying "thug" is a costume most brothas wear 😂😂😂
@@MrDragonkarp yea, it’s mostly bcuz the thugs and scammers get the baddest chicks. Oh well, I’ll still with the regular cute girl
Hated it!! Two snaps..😂.. A black girl thought I dated white girls, because of the type of eye glasses, I had on..😂
i believe it brother.. i seen that type of ish myself.. a lot of chicks will do that to disqualify you in case i don’t fight em attractive.
Did she tell you that, "you look like you like white girls?" That's my favorite.
Damn,that very dumb of her to even believe that🤦🏾♂️
One black chick from my past life thought I only dated white girls bcuz she thought I was demanding. I only told her to be on time and wear a skirt. 😂
@@reesejohnson2788 black women deep down like that shit.. The love and hip hop and these black independent women shows got these black women entitled, confused, and alone at the end of the day..
This guy is a Gem! A woman would be fortunate to have him.
Happens to me every now and then. I work out every day, I have a graduate degree, and grew up in the suburbs. Some family members said I acted "White" and ridiculed me for being smart. Tried dating black women and I either got cheated on or flaked on for dates. As soon as I started dating outside of my race, I was always asked, "Why can't you find a nice Black girl to settle down with? Are you too good for us now?" I say go where you are appreciated. Sometimes you have more in common with others who do not share your skin tone. It may be about class.
Yeah I'm the same. Always get. "You look like you date white girls" I always respond I'm from Miami, I don't date white or black American girls. LOL
Have you tried dating African women? Same race but a very different culture.
Women from my hood said the similar things about me being "too soft". I'm from the hood, but I'm not street. So they chose the street dudes over me.
Same here
And they'll end up on a fresh and fit podcast as single mothers who were in toxic relationships blaming everything on men👀
I can sadly relate to this very much. I didn't try to date much or flex my sexuality during my school years so people assumed I was gay or thought I was better than. Truthfully I just wasn't dating because I saw an end to most those potential relationships before they began but even after dating women and it being public information it didn't prove anything to them 🤷🏽♂
If everyone did what u it’s be way less divorces. U have discernment which other people don’t .they just like the way the person makes them feel
@@HUNGRYFLOWER98 yeah I think so too
i feel you. Ppl thought i was picky cuz i refused to go for combative/overweight chicks..
Even tho, it was mainly bigger girls giving me play and throwing me fish but, i never gave em a shot..I just wasn’t interested in the chubby chase..I like mine pretty in the face slim with a slender frame or tight body..sure i like curvy/slim thick ladies..but i’m NOT tripping on a chick if she hasn’t got 🍑🍒 ..most of my exes were thin.
i’m built lean & wiry..why tf would i go for a chick heavier then me.
@@jayclearmen411 Facts lmao. You kinda sound like me😂
You got to grab em by da 😸 and rob a bank to prove it to them.
He is a cultivated, cultured and caring man. I have been a bedside nurse for over 30 years. He is the type of man that would advocate for his wife's health with her healthcare team, treat the hospital staff with respect and be by his wife's side from admission to discharge.
Sadly Isaiah 5:20 has become reality🙄
Weren’t black men the ones screaming the feminisation of black men because of that Jonathan majors cover 🤣🤣 now you man are screaming something different keep the same energy - his interest are very feminine 🤣🤷
@@accessdenied5262 fetishisation? Why do BW use words they don’t understand? Nobody was talking about fetishes, unless you mean feminisation? And that was a select few people, I happen to love Doflamingo
Y’all noticed how KG said that he needs to stay with his own kind despite they judge him. Damn we can’t win at all with them.
He might want to deal with a black woman that does cosplay
@@evos469 they all do
@@DragonFellowship bruh im crying 😂😂😂😂😂
@@MrDragonkarp 😂😂
these women want good looking men with the bad boy attitude, and NOTHING ELSE matters, until something else starts mattering.
I was just thinking how much my opinion of American bw has changed in just 3 years.
Agreed...
That's unfortunate but it's the truth. I'm done with them it would take a lot to even date one she would have to really be humble.
this is a rabbit hole in and of itself that can be explored. The jails are full of dudes that just fell into a lifestyle they became fully vested in because someone told them that's what they had to do. Shout out to all the men that had the courage to be himself early on and never compromised. Also, Oshay he said polo. Not water polo. The equestrian activity.
And Willie Lynch using black woman to get black men to follow suit. Sad
Yep and also that so called lifestyle ends in rampant homosexuality in those prisons.
As someone who "talks like a white girl" just because I like to speak in complete sentence, I am never one to put my brothers and sisters in a box. I learned this lesson at an early age. I hate the way we are so quickly to put our own people in a box, which is another form of slavery.....but I'm not even going there.
Ignorant concept.
It's because of the culture. The hood and ghetto type seems like the only image and persona we can have at this time. Before that existed all types were accepted.
Same here, though replace that with “talk like a white guy”. Black kids in school would completely look down on me. Treat me like subpar.
Hey Lady J what’s your email 📧🍻🇺🇸
@@HARwinsOUTagain PLEASE explain the concept of what "talking like a white boy/girl means? I don't understand the mentality of people who make statements like this. It's as if they feel it's a compliment. It's REALLY not at all. I would think one would be offended by it. Let's remember that intelligence is something that you're born with. Not everyone was given the "intelligence" ingredient. Being able to articulate your thoughts and pronounce words correctly isn't exclusive to the white race. At this point we as BLACK people have accepted every derogatory moniker that society has given us. Now, we're giving them to ourselves. Not sure which Black MEN and WOMEN you're referring to. But, you would be amazed at just how many intelligent men & women are in the "hood" who never had a chance to shine. Golfing, chess, fencing, ice hockey, tennis, rugby, lacrosse, hacky sack, surfing, ballet, playing the violin, etc. These are things I grew up doing and still continue to do them today. If I had a bottle of nail polish for every time someone called me WEIRD, let's just say it would be a lot! Proud to be me (WEIRD) and loved (he was attracted to my confidence in accepting my weirdness).
Then if he was to go be with someone outside of his race he will be talked about for that decision. When in reality he had to go that route because he won’t be looked at as weird for his hobbies or cleanliness as a black man. Sad reality
So tired of women thinking that men must be gay for one reason or another. I had a coworker ask if I was gay cos I made a statement about not ever having a girlfriend...in actuality the statement was a joke in reference to the length drought between girlfriends. But the coworker was one fry short of a happy meal anyway 😏
Back in middle school people thought I was gay because I was quiet, spoke properly, and I dress like an average guy. I am not gay my parents raised me well.
I hate that so much they want black men to be a monolith
it's one of the biggest issues within the black community, if you don't show certain mannerism that is considered "black" you get looked down on. it's the dumbest thing, that you have to act, speak and do certain things to be accepted or to be seen as one from the community, but all that do is throw us into stereotypes. ppl will argue with stereotypes there's a ring of truth in them, such as how blacks are far more athletic, cool, creative.....but then you have those that will say that our men are thugs. our women are loud and hateful, so on and so forth. i just think it's absolutely stupid that we will stereotype ourselves simply cause the color of our skin.
That’s why no one including other black peoples outside of America don’t like or respect most black Americans
Drives me insane. I’ve pretty much been ousted since I was a child. I’m on the total opisite spectrum from BM most blacks people…but it’s easier as I get older. People have many worried about it as much, o don’t know why some blacks feel we all litterally need to be the same
@@kuroe-chan5190 I understand myself. As an artist, I found myself doing things differently from most it would reflect in my appearance and interests. When I was younger, I would wear the leather wrist bands with spikes on them, wear chockers and listen to metal.....I get called a devil worshipper, while that was also when I was in college. I speak articulent and girls laugh at me. I ask if you expected me to talk like some nigga and they admittedly tell me yes. Despite all this, I had to fight my own battles as a black male, cause I faced the same bigotry that we all may face one day. Regardless how we look or act, we all face the same struggles and the sad fact is anyone else from another community will view us as black while our own won't. 🤷🏾♂️
You think Kevin Samuel’s had problems getting blank women…the loud haters are just that…loud and hating…plenty of blank women that loved him and he can easily pool
Don’t worry about appeasing the haters
@@istherenooneleft oh, never that. I just think that ppl have to see themselves as an individual, than a community and I think that's the issue some ppl have when they go looking for acceptance. That's why ppl like Kevin Samuels get the recognition they get, cause they do stick out cause they don't conform to what ppl think.
Years ago worked Armed security at ST.JOHN'S University, saw first hand sisters who were top students dealing with thugs Hell the residence life leader a sister with great grades nice young lady but what did she date an older non student thug, just amazing with all the positive brothers going to that university.
I’ve always been attracted to men who take care of themselves and I think it is so wack how people just put that title on any guy who takes care of themselves to a different degree. It’s super attractive to find a man who actually takes pride and time to care for himself
I agree! There’s nothing wrong with that.
@Andrea Janes in our community it is lol
@@GameN3rdz You’re right and It’s unfortunate.
Yes I've always appreciated that but unfortunately haven't come across it often.
I heard that nonsense all the time. Just because I didn't speak like slavery ended yesterday, my blackness was questioned. The eloquence of Frederick Douglas or James Baldwin would be ridiculed by these heathens.
the elephant in the room, the resistance so called nerdy brothers get contributes to dating outside of the race. he articulates it very well. having non traditional hobbies is too far out of the comfort zone for many sisters.
Non standard Blk men looking to stay within the race are in a difficult position, they don't want hood chicks, hood chicks don't want them and the blk women not looking for hood dudes want white men.
He was a little more than nerdy. He just had a lot of gay characteristics that shouldn’t be ignored just because he’s a BM. Not claiming he’s gay, just isn’t far fetched, especially how he opened the call
Brothers,
Live your life! Be yourself! The way around this is to be with the woman who loves you, and not necessarily the one you might hand pick, that way you don't end up with a woman who either wants a man who only exists on the pages of a Hollywood script, or one who thinks she's doing you a favor by being with you.
My man is out there was grinding and trying to come in his own, but BW need to comfortably put BM into the Tyrone, lame, or gay categories.
“Huh. I ain't feeling it. Not hood enough, no edge, too corny, can put a few syllables together properly; he look too pretty; he manage his money too well... he can't be my man."
Later on - HEY: WHY YOU DATING HER ANYWAY; YOU CANT HANDLE A WOMAN LIKE ME!?!?!
TLDR: Leave dusty, narrow-minded harpies like that alone.
Was talking to a woman who is from and still lives in Oklahoma where KS was from, she said they went to the same high school Milwood. I would quote some of his messages and she would swear up and down KS was g@y & speak ill of him so I asked what was her issue she could never give me any Definitive answer. Long story short I smashed and dashed 🏃🏾♂️💨
lmaooooo
Bruh 😂
@@montethomas2667 it’s 1 reason I stopped dating older chicks they’re delusional 🥴 She would ask, “why are you defending him so tough” I would respond bc your attacking a his manhood wtf are you dumb
Im CRYING.
That transition though… 😂
I live in an affluent suburb, and the few black women I have access to also passed me up for pookie bc they want “the true black experience” smh. Their families worked so hard to attain wealth only to have their daughters regress. Luckily for me I’m African so I can always go back home and find someone with sense. America is the only place I’ve seen affluent girls messing with pookie types (not limited to bw btw).
Preach. Yeah I plan on going back home to find a wife because some American-born Nigerians have, unfortunately, adopted liberal/American values that is literally a contradiction to Igbo culture.
They don’t even care if the square guy has King Kong Dong.
It’s all about who it’s attached too.
Which proves size doesn’t matter as a stand alone.
@@topdhen They won’t even get to see it bc they’ll dry up the moment they notice you pronounce your E’s and R’s. Criminal records are more valued than degrees in this community🤣🤣
@@thebluefalcons92 sad, but true. We Africans have our issues, but BELIEVE IN SHAME. We would be ashamed of going to jail, compared to their community
@Emanuel Dos Santos : Are all these BM really pookies though just because some BW passed you up? If your women are so great, then why are you here in America and why haven't you found a wife in your own country already???
I gotta admit that Damn Kendra’s wig is on point! She does treat gay black men better. Just like most bw who have issues with bm do. What he means is that yt women are ok with him playing polo, and bw think he’s corny. At the same time if he ends up dating interracially, he’ll b considered a sellout
Maybe. But she's BUSTED WITHOUT makeup on. (Check her out on the Breakfast Club recently) Not sure why the HELL people call this BROAD for advice anyway!!! SMH.
Helluva paradox ain't it?
Her wig is on point? Are you sure you’re straight?
@@coldhardtruth333 lol, apparently masculinity is fluid nowadays…
@@coldhardtruth333 😂
I'm learning that being a "protector" is as much about emotionally/spiritually protecting your woman and children than physical.
I've always known this even though some may try distract and sidetrack you from that I've always thought it was more than just physical.
Agreed, but growing up in a religious family, it was always more than physical to me. My dad used to lead our prayers before meals and before bed, we had Bible study at home, he would teach us the Bible in a way that related to real life,that we could understand and use it in real life. he prayed over us in his absence, he covered us and gave us the tools to deal with people, beyond a physical level.
@@TheodoreBakes wow that's a great dad, that's the type of father I want to develop to be but I have to shed certain toxic mentalities that's been engrained in me. I have three daughters, a marriage on the verge of being on the rocks. My wife keeps our daughters in church and listening to Christian based music, I must say I haven't been leading my family in the way that you said your dad did for you and your family.
@@blackbolt3685 word word that's good. I'm slowly learning, putting away that hyper masculine harden man and wanting to learn how to be a "comprehensive man" like Mr.Jason Wilson says, author of Cry like a man and Battle Cry.
@@StromLxrd6 well my dad definitely had his flaws, but let this be your sign to step up for your family. Seek God first, ask for his guidance and leadership because it isn’t easy to just know how to do it. And you won’t always have the right answers or make the perfect choices but as long as you’re accountable to God, I believe he will show you the way and give you the tools to lead and protect and provide for your family the way they need. And even for yourself. I personally always pray that God order my steps, lead my way and protect me from things seen and unseen. So many times we lean on our own understanding and the Bible teaches us not to, that’s a major problem with society these days. They go off what they think is right when God already gave us a whole book on lessons and how to live.
You really just have to know who you are. I was also born and raised and Philly and I didn’t liked certain things other kids would be growing up. I felt like I had to fit in and my parental situation also held me back from what I really wanted to be. I totally understand his statement. He seen how destructive growing up in that environment can be and decided to be himself over everything
That the realest thing you can do in a world full of followers
Yea, Philly is rough. I’m from N. Philly, but raised in Mt. airy, fortunately.
@@reesejohnson2788 Philly is treacherous my lil cuzzo live in York P.A is it like a baby philly out there?
@@timharris1675 No, York is less diverse and may have a hint waycism.
ALSO FROM PHILLY AND JUST TOLD SOMEBODY LAST WEEK THAT BLACK PEOPLE WHO LIVE AROUND THE MOUNTAINS THERE ABSOLUTELY KNOW ABOUT SNOWBOARDING AND OTHER COLD WEATHER ACTIVITIES!!
It comes down to whether "The Skip Me" wants "Quality or Quantity"!!! My late grandmother used to say, "You will always get what you want, but you may not want, what you get". Plain and simple!!!
Oshay, everything you said was straight facts! It's a damn shame to be honest. This type of scenario is so common among our women, that it's why thugs get so many women. And because of that...that's why so many Black men adopt a thug persona and don't aim to be intellects. There are a host of repercussions behind our women choosing to date thugs and looking down on Black men that are not embracing that type of stereotypical identification. It's a sad shame! (SMH)😡
Also the reason our tax dollars have to take care of millions of millions of kids the Doctor she could have had kids with could afford.
@@beefybitcoin8085es sir
Rent
Wic
Furniture vouchers
$1 a day car insurance
Medicaid for the lil future felon baby
We take care of them without being with them.
And yes the free BT card money gets spent on steamed crab legs
The ignorance is a disease at this point
So dim they don’t understand how important that Fed Ex worker is to their lifestyle
For the type of women I saw on that show, I wouldn't recommend him to take any of them.
Oshay is speaking truth here. I have also known and have seen a lot of professional black women who are dating thugs. I know two black female doctors; one is an optometrist and the other woman is a chiropractor - they are both dating hood dudes from the streets. I also knew a white chick who is an attorney from Chicago who love dating gang members. She's a criminal defense attorney too.
Hard to see a professional non black women do this but seldom. Mostly, it's black women! I know a black female judge dating an ex con. White folks in the neighborhood can't wrap their head around it but I understand.
Lol, I guess it’s good for her business… 🤦🏽♂️
They want that hood pipe😂
He never said Water Polo, he said Polo. Polo is played on Horses, just like the shirts by Ralph Lauren
Whatever.. that’s all you got out the message? What the actual fck..
EXAAACTLY
My man said Polo... with horses.😂😂😂 Bruh! Every time you said water polo I was was done!
That “Hoooow You doin?” Smh lol..Come on Son.
😂😂😂
That was Suspect and the wave 😄
Dr. Moist Watkins is a prime example of a woman NOT being interested UNTIL she comes around YEARS later with 3-4 children in tow!
Continue to do what you do. I had a couple of chicks way back in high school that spread rumors about me being gay, because I turned them down. They were fat, hood as h3ll, loud and just looked plain raggedy😆. They will always insult you, especially when you can do better.
They love to call you gay when you don't act thirsty for them. It's happened to me a couple of times.
@@ieanascousin-fi4oy how come they don’t get called out for there homophobia?
“Gotta be around your people” …It’s his “people” who judge him 🤦🏾♀️
And this is why I tell you guys to go where you're wanted!!! There's a plethora of women of different ethnicities that'll appreciate you and treat you like the king you are. 🤷🏿♂️
We Black people are the most judgmental people and especially our females counterparts smh. The amount of time Black people judge a brother before even knowing them is Amazon. Smh 🤦🏾♂️
Solid guy just to well-rounded for these hyenas
Look how quickly her face microsgressions changed 😮
Just a man enunciate his words differently, doesn't mean he's gay. Everybody doesn't have to sound or talk like the rapper Future. Wow Kendra G SMH
If you sound, act, and look the part ppl are gonna put you in that box until you prove otherwise…that’s human nature
To be fair, he does have feminine mannerisms like a lot of flamboyant gay men. I went to college with white guys that were very well spoken, and came from serious money, but nothing about them would be considered gay. Let's stop acting like there isn't a stereotypical gay way of speaking or moving.
It's his mannerisms, not the way he talks.
@@j.baldwin3012 BS! Loads of rich white men come across gay
@@j.baldwin3012 Leave him the fucccck alone and stop judging him. We black folks, always judging people. If white folks judged us now for being black, we start crying racism.
Ideal man for sistas is a reformed 2-pac in a suit
Them 🤡🤡🤡always tried to pull that 🌈 card on KS, yet his day and evening on earth was spent with a WOMAN🤦🏾♂️
A fine one too
I have faced this misconception all my life rite up to now . I take very good care of myself from head to toe.
You put the loofah to your booty ?
Exactly,I remember during the shutdown I would see ppl posting about needing to get to the shops for hair,beard,etc and that was alien to me because,I always do my own self maintenance I didn't HAVE to go to a shop,times I did go was because I just wanted to or it was convenient.
These are the topics that really need to be discussed in the black community...From Umar to Cynthia G. Instead of talking down and critiquing the men that date out..get to the root of the problem.
Yes it is!!!! That's EXACTLY what society thinks about many Black men!!!!
The man does come off as effeminate and would be viewed that way regardless of race.
This is a good topic and is true. I'm not worried that the young man will find a great woman.
This brother would be better off with a non black woman. 🤷🏿♂️
Almost every black man that wears lotion and brushes his teeth has had his sexuality questioned. But there are levels to it. Objectively speaking, he presented himself as very effeminate and nervous in his introduction. And we can't change what most black women are sexually attracted to. So if he wants a specific type of black woman, he should adjust accordingly (style, mannerisms, etc.). Otherwise, play the long game and look in your Polo circles and through other hobbies. Some girls are VERY into his look as it currently stands.
But they aren't on the Kendra G show.
why should he change to get any black woman. Thats crazy
@@paulekezie465 you gotta dress for the part. He obviously wants a specific type of black woman.
"Almost every bm who wears lotion and brush his teeth has had his sexuality questioned" good one 👏🏿😆
Women who would potentially be interested in him would most likely not be black though.
i dont understand that. as a black man i cant walk around with dry skin. its even worse when its cold as the moisturiser acts as a barrier to the cold. to an extent.
He needs to go where he's appreciated. He's not going to find what he's looking for in black women.
they've only seen one form of masculinity, which is why they judged kevin. most men grow beards and tat themselves to attract women, but deep down, they aren't really that type of guy
I grew a beard for myself, it's part of my genetics and also, I like to think of Leonidas from 300 or Kratos from God of War lol.
when you can read and write...you are not BW's type...🤣🤣
Alot of feminine acting men grew up around a bunch of women doesn't mean they gay
That's why they should have fathers in the house because women act like they don't realize that they make these type of man. It's like they make them like this then abandon them. Then get mad when they go outside they race .
Becky in the suburbs would go for someone who plays polo that's super preppy.
NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN MOVE LIKE THAT!!!!!! I'm a BLACK WOMAN & I was NEVER EVER attracted to thugs or the bad boy type!!!!!!! I've ALWAYS been attracted to black men who wore suits & ties and spoke like they were taught proper English in grade school!
As an older millennial these are the kind of stereotypes that I HATE bc it makes black men and women struggle to love and accept each other....the older I grow in this country called America...I wish I was born BLACK IN ANOTHER COUNTRY INSTEAD!!!! #Thats just how I feel 🤷🏽♀️they jacked us up 4sho & did a great job at it too😒
A white woman would LOVE ❤️ that Black Gentleman Nice Guy 👦 👌
North Philly is no joke. So for him to come out that environment so decent, shoutout to him💯
Keep winning BECKY!!!!
These women want Ghost from Power
Ain’t gonna lie that wave in the beginning was sus lol
I agree with this ENTIRE VIDEO …from personal experience.. my daughter and I both are STILL HAPPILY WITH OUR men ..
Man look..respectfully, he look sweet. As a man you should make sure your mannerisms are not feminine. The world we live in needs hard men, is what it is. Salute to that man💯
Then we’d never have had Prince Tupac or Michael Jackson
Get outta here pookie jr with your divisive Blk Viking World bs
You wouldnt say that to a white dude with those same mannerisms
@@NoRockinMansLand ??..why wouldn't I ?
And they wonder why they’re single
Black women appreciate only Pookie, Day-Day and Ray-Ray's. both Kendra and the other black women in the comments section aptly confirmed his criticisms of why he is treated so negative in his own “black communitah”
First off he said Polo, like Ralph Lauren Polo, not water polo... secondly, dude needs to do whatever he wants and to stay away from the stereotypical ninga community. Especially those who don't have a clue what Polo is.
You're Welcome 😊
"I Take Care Of My Skin Like A Female"...He shouldn't of said that
Brother still got a lot going on for himself....we said things we wish we could take back, and what he said was not a big deal to me....brother love himself, and that's very important....stay bless
@@oneilfarquharson-ifearthel3253 I agree bro but that extra shit he said was zesty
I do agree that was the WRONG choice of words to use, but a man should desire to properly maintain his skin.
@@S.R.SERUM75 Amen....SELF-RESPECT and ❤️ LOVING ourselves is a must....
@@oneilfarquharson-ifearthel3253 💯✊🏽
I Wish this brother well. He seems like a nice gentleman, very calm spirit. I know what it is like to be misjudged as I tend to be very proper and people often mistake that for me being a snob but I find that when I'm around other classy people I just fit right in. So, as he said, you just have to find your crowd.
I stopped the video halfway when I realized Oshay was making something out of nothing because Kendra was very mature and professional in the way she dealt with this man. And many of you men who are agreeing with Oshay just because a woman didn't want you if you met this man you'd probably misjudge him too.
Definitely 100% Gay.
This shit be annoying. I used to do that too. I called everyone gay just if I thought they was corny. As I got older I realized it's stupid and people act different and just because its different from you dont mean its gay.
Plot twist,
You were deeply deeply closeted
@@topdhen that's just stupid. Yall dumb people just want whatever you want to mean something lol. Calling someone gay dont make you gay actually being gay makes you gay idiot. Back in the day I would have called you gay but since I'm grown I'm just gonna call you corny.
Our BW can complain about us being too masculine while wanting us to be the kind of BM they can make fun of for not being too so called masculine.
& a lot of the BW talking are overly masculine
Too masculine? We never said we said to feminine.
Yea, it’s best to just ignore women when they say stoopid things.
They're all dumb with a ego only a deity should have it is even abit pass the ego of a deity which is crazy to think cuz no matter how fat skinny or how they Look or how crazy their body count is you're always never good enough to even Look at Them They're always perfect while you has way too many flaws to them
All the black women I went to college with got pregnant by drug dealers who already had kids. Real talk
I definitely fit in this category. Throughout my life, I got my masculinity and sexuality questioned just because I was well-spoken and kept myself clean. However, I won't say that black women are the only ones who have a narrow perception of what a masculine man is supposed to be. Women in general need to expand those perceptions and not be so judgemental.
He needs that passport!!!
I thought dude was a little zesty until he dropped pure wisdom on how some women operate. They love the idea of a nice guy but not the logistics of the relationship.
Ahhhhaaaa, lol. He played on her Top.
"I play Polo, you know, with the horse & stick".?
I have to keep this all the way 100. Just from looking at the thumbnail I thought Bro was a fruit. But after hearing him speak I didn't get that from him....
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@@Fraziercranium97 you know what? You might be right....
To be honest he has feminine mannerisms. if he don't fix that, he will be mistaken for gay and I can't blame the women for thinking that way in this day and age. For example the way he wave his hand. I don't believe his issues come from women looking at him as corny.
Lmaooo he hit him with the rainbow cutout. Man was looking like a bag of skittles
He doesn’t have to fix a thing. And for who? If it isn’t his self.
He can find himself a lovely black woman the way he is who will enjoy his ways.
We as brothers gotta live and let live.
I remember I met this blk guy at the bar years and years ago.
I will admit, I thought he might of been a splinter booty, but it terns out, he was just ultra feminine in his expressive nature. There’s a big difference when you’d mature enough between gae and feminine.
He went on and on about chicks, soaked up a lot of game, he had his stuff semi together, and he was fun to drink with and watch games with.
When you realize that you’ve met a brother who isn’t trying to kill you or another, you recognize how all that judgment stuff goes out the window and coming together in peace is very beautiful when manifested.
It’s when the person starts to project that onto you when there is problems. That’s a clear sign. But if they are just that way with out trying to disrespect your manhood, live and let live.
We gotta protect each other, especially the non violent non ghtto ones
The preconceived ideas, expectations, and images of Black Men (...and Women) come directly from the Minstrel Shows & advertising of the 1800's
That's because she's a fake A.B. 😂😂😂
He admit he likes girls and she was rude. Happy he clap back 😊
Great brother, with a great job, pension, benefits, and also take good care of himself. The brother got a routine and great hobbies and not hanging on the corner street....hope this brother finds a good lady who will respect him and take care of him...stay focus my brothers.....
He said Polo not water Polo. I swear Oshay don't be listening sometimes