There is just some lose that you never truely get over & all you can do is learn to live with it. I lost my wife at only 37 years old & while I know I can move on & find love again, it's something that stays with you forever.
When you have a real bond, a proper deep connection, with someone and you lose them ... it breaks you. It may take a long time to build yourself back up again. If ever
For a young lady she has a old soul. I think with time and age she may “relax” a bit. However I would suggest she gets counseling for her loss, thus helping her emotionally. The young man was very sweet 💜
You're assuming she hasn't had counseling. I had a brother that was murdered and I had counseling for a long time to try to deal with everything. It's not something to just counsel away.
I'd love to be friends with her she seems so cool and kind. I understand why she needs a boyfriend to understand who she is but loving yourself is always important. Can relate to her so much right now.
I'm average height for a man and I could not be more grateful to God for that. It filters out immature women and helps me find women who are genuinely looking for a long term partner with more serious, well rounded criteria.
I've got that. My brother passed away... always weird to say and then go throught the story again and again. Then having to talk to it and go back to it EVERY time
What a fantastic girl, funny, clever, well spoken, adores her kitty, and of course Duchess will be an amazing floofster, and loved her hair, and shes beautiful too. Don't really take to many of the contestants but when she came on I thought cat lover! Not sure about top hats but definitely top cats lol.
Tall is given. No woman would come out and say she likes short men. If she ends up liking a particular short man, it won't be because she is attracted to his lack of height. However, quite many women would openly say they like bald men.
It is really difficult to know how to respond. Women are constantly asked "Do you have children?" What do you say to some well-meaning old woman still stuck in the conversation standards of the 1960s? "No, I have miscarriages." Or "I lost both my son and daughter last year, one in Afghanistan and one was an overdose." I've seen TV interviews come crashing to a halt when a hostess asked a guest "What about you, do you have kids?" Losing a sibling is also tragic. I hope this girl finds some peace.
You’re right - men aren’t the cure, but that’s not what she’s saying. She wants a man who is emotionally available and can listen to the broken-heartedness and be accepting of very agonizingly painful things in her life. Yes therapy does help certainly, but so does a thoughtful and emotionally supportive partner.
So you would dismiss someone grieving a tragic loss because you also have issues? There is no CURE for loosing someone you love. This girl is not asking for someone to cure her, she is asking to be loved the way she is.
When dealing with death, its not about being "fine" because mortality is part of who we are, its about, despite the pain, carrying on in their memory, let their legacy live through you.
It's never 'fine', but I get why she and others do that. I've said very similar things after my mum passed away just under 6 years ago, still do occasionally. Wishing them both all the best.
I think the episode ended with them being "just friends". It's a shame, Zoe has such a great personality & they seemed a good match. I hope she ultimately found her person. Or some more cats. 😊
No wonder she is single she had better buy a lot of cats. Everyone has loss in their lives. I lost my dad at 12. It doesn't define me. Such a long list of wants. She has not accepted what happened and that's sad. She needs therapy. The guys probably get sick of her moaning on and on and on. They are there to meet someone not provide a therapy session for her. She will stay single whilst she wallows in self pity. She is happy being there. Her brother would want her to go on and be happy. Its not disrespect but she has so many issues to work through. She needs to love herself before someone can love her. Otherwise she will be come co dependent and reliant on some one to save her. No one will measure up to her impossible standards.
If you truly need a man that will " get it " then it shouldn't matter whether he's Tallllllll or does he have hairrrrrrr you should be more into whether he has character does he appreciate and respect you and how you feel!!! Women women women you guys need to learn 🙄🙄🙄
a tall man with hair can '"get it". Women don't need to have only one criterion to choose from and hers is very small. Standards are good. We don't need to lower it. The world is full of tall, hairy, sensitive men. Why settle?
@@yhiontop it's not settling if you get someone that's is on your level tall short big or small the point is to get someone with good CHARACTER that's what women seem to have issues with then they go and get that guy they have a list of what he has to look like and get upset when he turns out to be a terrible dude then guess where she goes back too this damn show women dont have that luxury time is ticking!!
Tall is given. No woman would come out and say she likes short men. If she ends up liking a particular short man, it won't be because she is attracted to his lack of height.
What a nasty comment, I hope people in your life aren’t as harsh as you are, making this type of comments about someone you don’t even know doesn’t speak highly of you
What.. Picky how? Because she likes tall men who have hair? Are you not allowed to have preferences in dating any longer or else you are branded as picky? 🤔
@@jeoneunthatbitch3897 well said Lola, everyone has a choice, guessing Russ is a 5ft tall guy with a receding hair line... she is very pretty and deserves a good guy. Its definitely not Russ 🤭🤭
It's never fine. She's traumatised by the loss. 😔
@Nenethegreat W then we agree. 🤷🏼
There is just some lose that you never truely get over & all you can do is learn to live with it. I lost my wife at only 37 years old & while I know I can move on & find love again, it's something that stays with you forever.
@@jeremyweekes2126 I'm so sorry to hear that. Hugs.
When you have a real bond, a proper deep connection, with someone and you lose them ... it breaks you. It may take a long time to build yourself back up again.
If ever
I can't imagine losing a sibling and how heartbreaking that is. 💔
I think this girl is great, she just needs to find the right guy. Wear the jumpsuit next time though :D
YES jumpsuit is much better :-D
If only that jumpsuit were red like her dress
No way man, that red dress was classic.
@@leahnyb6878 Leah are you aged 23-33?
Noooo the dress is much better.
She seems so genuine and kind. I wanna be friends with her, haha 🥺
For a young lady she has a old soul. I think with time and age she may “relax” a bit. However I would suggest she gets counseling for her loss, thus helping her emotionally. The young man was very sweet 💜
You're assuming she hasn't had counseling. I had a brother that was murdered and I had counseling for a long time to try to deal with everything. It's not something to just counsel away.
When she said I need a man who, just gets it! I cried i getcha love ❤️ love Zoe x
These two are absolutely a perfect match
I'd love to be friends with her she seems so cool and kind. I understand why she needs a boyfriend to understand who she is but loving yourself is always important. Can relate to her so much right now.
This man is precious 🙏🏼
"I like tall men". She's a real trailblazer.
She going true alot losing a brother at 12 to young she is very pretty though.
Every cloud ☁️ 🤦🏻♂️
I'm average height for a man and I could not be more grateful to God for that. It filters out immature women and helps me find women who are genuinely looking for a long term partner with more serious, well rounded criteria.
Lol.
You don't sound average height.
The boy is mature and honest.
She looks like Lily from from How I Met Your Mother (Alyson Hannigan)
Looks nothing like her
Nooooo.....
I adore Zoe, be my bestie lol. She's so funny and so full of sadness. She needs friends who help her let it out. He seems so good for her.
Did they see each other again?
"I do like a top hat." lol, oh don't we all, why can't Mr. Darcy or Mr. Knightley be real?!?!
They’re both absolutely lovely! She’s not got her head on straight if she doesn’t try to latch onto him.
Social anxiety
Fear of letting someone in
It'll be nice to have a bf
Damn, she spoke to my heart.
I've got that. My brother passed away... always weird to say and then go throught the story again and again. Then having to talk to it and go back to it EVERY time
What an absolute babe, love this girl. She is perfect
What a fantastic girl, funny, clever, well spoken, adores her kitty, and of course Duchess will be an amazing floofster, and loved her hair, and shes beautiful too. Don't really take to many of the contestants but when she came on I thought cat lover! Not sure about top hats but definitely top cats lol.
“I want him to be tall and I want him to...have hair” 👌🏻
Tall is given. No woman would come out and say she likes short men. If she ends up liking a particular short man, it won't be because she is attracted to his lack of height. However, quite many women would openly say they like bald men.
Love her, sooooo cute and bubbly
Lovely beautiful girl it's not fine she is hurting go see someone beautiful girl 😍
It is really difficult to know how to respond. Women are constantly asked "Do you have children?" What do you say to some well-meaning old woman still stuck in the conversation standards of the 1960s? "No, I have miscarriages." Or "I lost both my son and daughter last year, one in Afghanistan and one was an overdose." I've seen TV interviews come crashing to a halt when a hostess asked a guest "What about you, do you have kids?" Losing a sibling is also tragic. I hope this girl finds some peace.
It really sucks when people unknowingly put you in incredibly difficult spots to talk yourself out of
I love the way she speaks.
Sorry a man can support but theyre not the cure. We have a host of issues as well. Get therapy thats not an insult btw
Exactly❤️
You’re right - men aren’t the cure, but that’s not what she’s saying. She wants a man who is emotionally available and can listen to the broken-heartedness and be accepting of very agonizingly painful things in her life. Yes therapy does help certainly, but so does a thoughtful and emotionally supportive partner.
So you would dismiss someone grieving a tragic loss because you also have issues? There is no CURE for loosing someone you love. This girl is not asking for someone to cure her, she is asking to be loved the way she is.
She is not looking for a cure, she is looking for support and more importantly understanding.
Yeah men aren't the cure; they cause more problems. She's looking for a man who is not a problem.
I hope The Bartender gets great tips for his great personality!!
Can relate to this girl 100%
she can only heal herself nothing on the outside will satisfy her, a boy won't help only her problems.
When dealing with death, its not about being "fine" because mortality is part of who we are, its about, despite the pain, carrying on in their memory, let their legacy live through you.
Zoe doesn't understand what the word strategy means.
Watching this kinda makes me wanna date a cat person.
Like a furry?
I LOVE her personality! ♥
It's never 'fine', but I get why she and others do that. I've said very similar things after my mum passed away just under 6 years ago, still do occasionally. Wishing them both all the best.
A top hat fantasy lol I guess
She is lovely, like a character out of Evelyn Waugh
She should date the barman 🤣
genuine lovely people .. they seemed tailor made tbf .. cant see the whole programme sadly .. anyone know what happened to them?
I think the episode ended with them being "just friends".
It's a shame, Zoe has such a great personality & they seemed a good match. I hope she ultimately found her person. Or some more cats. 😊
No wonder she is single she had better buy a lot of cats. Everyone has loss in their lives. I lost my dad at 12. It doesn't define me. Such a long list of wants. She has not accepted what happened and that's sad. She needs therapy. The guys probably get sick of her moaning on and on and on. They are there to meet someone not provide a therapy session for her. She will stay single whilst she wallows in self pity. She is happy being there. Her brother would want her to go on and be happy. Its not disrespect but she has so many issues to work through. She needs to love herself before someone can love her. Otherwise she will be come co dependent and reliant on some one to save her. No one will measure up to her impossible standards.
I'm the right guy for her.
I can just sit down with this girl for a coffee and a brief chit chat, which wouldn't be any longer than 15 mins .
0:35 strategy? ..lol. ok then
She has a great smile
That place is beautiful
If you truly need a man that will " get it " then it shouldn't matter whether he's Tallllllll or does he have hairrrrrrr you should be more into whether he has character does he appreciate and respect you and how you feel!!! Women women women you guys need to learn 🙄🙄🙄
a tall man with hair can '"get it". Women don't need to have only one criterion to choose from and hers is very small. Standards are good. We don't need to lower it. The world is full of tall, hairy, sensitive men. Why settle?
@@yhiontop it's not settling if you get someone that's is on your level tall short big or small the point is to get someone with good CHARACTER that's what women seem to have issues with then they go and get that guy they have a list of what he has to look like and get upset when he turns out to be a terrible dude then guess where she goes back too this damn show women dont have that luxury time is ticking!!
you're one of two salty men complaining about this. No one wants an itty bitty man, especially given most of y'all have a chip on your shoulders.
Hope they made it. Good chemistry here 😁
The show ended with them being "just friends" when they returned home.
She's a lovely girl.
Shes way to young to say I'd like them to have hair. Is that a struggle? It should be really simple to choose truth. That must be a deep hurt.
She is so sweet and funny!
0:57 You look a beau-ti-ful. She's right.
The date idoes not have an ending
Literally me
Tall is given. No woman would come out and say she likes short men. If she ends up liking a particular short man, it won't be because she is attracted to his lack of height.
👀
That haircut is atrocious
I think it's beautiful
His or hers?
💋💋
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Heavy baggage and Daddy calls every morning. No room for a relationship. Still 12 years old emotionally poor thing
What a nasty comment, I hope people in your life aren’t as harsh as you are, making this type of comments about someone you don’t even know doesn’t speak highly of you
What a bitchy teenager comment. It’s lovely to have that close friendship with your relatives.
awful thing to say
I wish I had a Dad to call me every day.
What kind of father did you have?
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Gee, I wonder why Miss picky doesn't have a boyfriend
What.. Picky how? Because she likes tall men who have hair? Are you not allowed to have preferences in dating any longer or else you are branded as picky? 🤔
@@jeoneunthatbitch3897 well said Lola, everyone has a choice, guessing Russ is a 5ft tall guy with a receding hair line... she is very pretty and deserves a good guy. Its definitely not Russ 🤭🤭