"I did the thing!" becoming one of her tics for a while is actually so cute. Like, imagine being so happy because you worked up the courage to ask someone out on a date that your reaction becomes a tic lmao
"I have tourettes, no one would date me" That broke my heart, my partner has tourettes and I love them greatly 💙 tourettes doesn't mean you're undateable, you seem like a lovely person 😊 Edit: I just realized this was from two years ago oop
@@bill4632 same bro, she was def a bit smaller (of a streamer) in 2019, not saying her fame is a substitute for all other qualities, but im sure she has become more desired as more people are aware of the existence of this wonderful human. Shes def changed my perception of people with tourettes cause I really didnt understand it before
@Zeros DaBast Nah got here from padillas last post comment section about how he gonna interview ppl with tourrettes. Glad i did, this shit was hilarious.
I'm mostly a straight girl and while I can easily appreciate other people's beauty regardless of their sex, I just find you in particular to be absolutely drop dead gorgeous. Your condition is nothing but just that, a condition. It doesn't make you any less attractive, it's just another personality trait for anyone with a shred of sense. You're so well-spoken, empathetic and lovely as a person, and you deserve an equally fantastic person to be your partner. I would love to be your friend and I hope you never feel like anyone is "out of your league" because that's absolutely not true, no matter how many hate messages stupid people with no hobbies would send to you. All the love ❤️
You've said what I was thinking in a way I would have trouble expressing as a man. I'd be tripping over myself trying not to be/seem creepy or simping. Thank you.
@@capnskiddies yeah we are not allowed to talk about our feelings without getting judged or misinterpreted. its not fair but we have to live with it i guess
in general, do not trust someone who disrespects service workers, especially while partaking in the service. be it waiters or strippers, even disrespecting their car mechanic its just weird. Like people dont need to be overly thankful and make friends ( they ARE paying after all ) but ... thats a person doing work
tbh, even if you like, don't think that pr0stitution is wrong, going out of your way to make people's lives harder is such a dick move. No-one should be disrespected like that, and anyone that does that kinda crap deserves to be seen as the dick they are.
1, being at a strip club, 2 inviting her, 3 bragging about not paying them. That guy has so many red flags in one night he got halfway to opening a 6 Flags.
Yea, she showed a lot of maturity in the way she messaged Anita. I hope she does leave him, though, because the dude’s not going to make her any happier. He’s not going to change his behaviour any time soon, so she needs to exit now, while she still has a shred of self-love (yes, that kind of relationship has a tendency to take it away from you...)
"I found out I can seduce men by being awkward and offering them food" Being awkward while being nice got her 1,3M subs. It is actually a surefire way to make a guy fall for you. The hard parts I imagine are: - finding someone who can take your struggle serious instead of writing it off as "not even that bad" because he loves you, - avoid guys who try to prey upon insecurity (which must be extra hard for a girl that is famous and beautiful)
I'm so glad that you got a confidence boost out of this uncomfortable situation. The part about the hate mail really caught me off gaurd. Never thought of that happening. But, I love watching your videos and I Subscribed cuz they are educational and your personality is just the best. And trust me, nobody is out of your league.
As a person who has struggled with sever vocal and physical tourets and i highly respect what you do. Having tourets makes majority of us extremely self conscious but you surpassed it and overcame it! Congratulations! And keep up the work! I developed tourets from a rare illness that affected my brain at 10 years old. However i was fortunate enough to have medically overcame it within 2 years. I still to this day 12 years later have minnor physical ticks and very seldomly i still get vocal ticks
Anita, I always think you are so wonderful, YOU are out of everyone's league. I understand your tics can be very awkward, but in the channel and your streams, they are almost like jokes, coming from another person , and actually kind of funny. You are great just the way you are. Don't ever change!!
I've never heard of you. I don't know why UA-cam is recommending your years old videos to me all of a sudden. What a goofy, frustrating, heart warming tale. Thanks, hope you keep on keepin' on!
Kinda awkward how a portion of the white knights turn hostile the moment she finds somebody interesting. It might hurt a little for a short while but she just dodged a bullet.
It's what happens when weird lonely dudes fall in love with their streamer. These guys cant even talk to a 5 in the real world. But talk to a 8+ streamer? Having her say your NAME and saying Hi and shit. Yeah that will make these idiots fall in love real quick.
Its so one way relationship with streamers. Like unless you meet in real life or message personal stuff directly one on one, its always gonna be the "I love you, random citizen" But how many of them must have been so SALTY after the gas man exploded and they bombed their chance forever on a dude like that.
Omg this totally started out like an amazing anime and then totally gave me the feels. So glad to see you came away with amazing confidence in yourself.
This is both a heart warming and heart aching story in that your anxieties and concerns as a girl approaching a guy are exactly what I think and feel as guy wanting to approaching a girl who I know is out of my league; it shows we are all human and ultimately we cannot and should not judge others purely by what we see. I've even told a girl once (after she indvertently triggered my conscience) that seeing her made me feel as though I was not behaving right and I wanted to be a better version of myself - neither of us were cheating but it felt exploitive on my behalf. I've not heard from her again so I guess she didn't value honesty... it's just a shame not all people can be genuinely thoughtful and respectful to others.
Yes totally agree! I think her tourette's is funny and sometimes kinda cute. And if you don't care about what others think you shouldn't really have problem dating her at all. But hey my ex is still mad at me and I dont even know why so I'm not an expert in things relationships.
I'm so happy that it actually worked out for you, and came away from it with some thing positive from all that douchbaggery. I have no doubt you will find someone who sees you for how lovely, sweet and genuine you are, you just radiate beauty into the world, and if people can't see that or think they can take advantage of that, then they're blind, stupid or not worth a single fucking second of your time.
Anita, this whole thing is like a fractal to me - i.e. completely fascinating! there are so many levels here (e.g. openness, honesty, vulnerability, courage, entertainment, etc. etc.). I don't mean to be offensive at all, but I do find your stream quite poetic (I simply don't have the words to describe). Thanks for sharing and good luck to you! :D
Even if she salvages the relationship it is only gonna end badly. Some girls are like i can fix this guy. A guy that cheats is a minipulator and Anita might not have the most confidence and this guy knows exactly how to keep get her back
@@thomashoneycutt4249 I don’t even think this is mutually exclusive to just “girls fixing guys”... I think it’s human nature to want to change something to fit your mold no matter if it’s “I’m gonna turn this good person out,” or “I’m gonna fix this bad person” etc I recently was in a relationship with a chick who sought attention in unhealthy ways and had a very convoluted outlook on life. She had a pretty big nose in high school but she ended up getting a nose job right before we dated, and if I’m being honest she looked like a complexity different person. I think a part of her overcompensated in trying to find attention she felt she never received before, but she couldn’t really see the implications of how this line of thinking could have on how she built personal relationships. I saw this from the outside looking in, and in all honestly I used to have a really similar outlook on things when I was young and immature, but after working on my addiction, my spiritual maladies, my general pessimistic views, I think I came out complexly different than I was when I had these misconstrued perceptions. I figured I was given second chances, and without them I wouldn’t be where I am today, so why not give someone that fucks me over a second chance in an effort to see if they can do good with it? This girl ended up cheating on me multiple times, and had alligator tears each time it happened in an effort for me to stay. She’d make assurances that she’d delete social media amongst other things. I didn’t necessarily want for her to do that but in an effort to gauge how serious she was with trying to rebuild trust, I’d press her on her word and she’d always try to write it off like she didn’t really mean it or that I was being unhealthy by asking her to delete ig (even though she was the one that cheated, and she was the one that told me she’d do so for the time being until we got things back on track) This line of thinking of giving people the benefit of the doubt is obviously positive but there comes a certain point where positivity can be counterintuitive and actually prevent you from seeing the reality of the situation. Once you’ve committed to someone you don’t want it all to be for nothing, so you can come up with some pretty irrational justifications in an attempt to try to salvage what is probably already too broken to fix. That situation can happen to anyone though. I think it has more to do with your level of emotional maturity than it does with whether or not you’re a boy or girl
I hope you know deep down that you’re so genuine. And for the people who said you shouldn’t tell anyone about your dating, I understand what they’re saying, but it’s up to you. You don’t owe strangers on the internet your life story. It’s very special that you shared, but again, it’s up to you. You deserve the best!
You are simply adorable in every sense of the word. What you refer to as your disability is not only endearing but wildly entertaining. I hope your inner self recognizes your gift and fills you with the confidence to match your compassion. Love the lip pops! PS. I had a pet house rabbit once so I understand why you love them...and also, why they love you. All the best, Sweet Anita!
"For the sake of my relationship, can you please stop messaging my boyfriend?" Sweetie, that relationship is already over and it's currently on fire. Time to jump ship and move on.
Sadly, women usually are attracted to bad boy types, especially if they're extremely good looking. I don't think he'll ever change, he doesn't have to, he has enough women who would gladly put up with him. Hard truth.
so sorry, you met a douce like this.. loving your streams.. loving your honesty.. you have such a great community on here, found your streams through fb shorts.. been a fan since.. keep on keeping on, you're doing a great thing ✌🏼🙏👍
Hey Anita, long time fan and lurker, have had a pretty rough couple of days, but watched a few of your videos and cheered up a bunch, keep making us laugh and smile, and thank you for the positivity today :)
Honestly, I'm really glad you went through this. Despite the be the guy put you through, as long as you came out of it more confident and self assured, then it was a good thing. I wish you the best in your future endeavours. You seem like a lovely person and I hope you find a loving partner. Ps: the hate mail stuff is bullshit. But at least you know now who's actually nice from who was pretending to be
What really gets me laughing is when she is trying to talk about something seriously and she says something inappropriate or helarious that I just wasn't ready for. Something like that lmfao.
Wow, I'm kinda new to Sweet Anita's content, but I am just astonished at how brave, smart, and morally good she is, as this vid shows! That's awesome and I loved this story!
i got to this video randomly and listened to it and this is really weird and messed up. Not paying? He should try stripping for free in front of all people...
I don’t know what kind of women he would be trying to seduce with that comment. Respectable women would obviously be disgusted by the lack of respect and class, and less-admirable women would still see the injustice in his mistreatment of prostitutes. I’d imagine someone super desperate would hit but the stripper comment wouldn’t help. Maybe he was looking to pimp?
I think it's very good and brave to be so open about these kind of topics, especially when you struggle with the whole asking somebody out scenario. Just keep at it, it gets easier with practise. 👍
Guys, i don't think she understands how high up in those "leagues" she is. Seriously...she looks gorgeous, wholesome and funny, if people can't put up with a tick or two, they are not worth it.
@Skelebones that's the thing. Degenerates love toxicity. She is like water of toxicity flooding everything. They love that especially when they are full of it.
Sweet Anita, I have only been watching your UA-cam for a few weeks now and you have a very infectious laugh, smile, and energy. Since I started watching your channel I can honestly say you're the only one that has been able to keep my attention without having to show girls in skimpy clothes bouncing around. I do like the bouncing around stuff, but it does get old kinda fast even though testing gravity through jiggling is great I would rather have someone make me laugh. Please don't change or listen to those people who only want to tear you down because they have nothing better to do. Thanks for making me laugh and brightening my days. Listening from the USA.
its sad when u realize she is using her condition to get donations by emphatic people and simping for that money and if people call her out she can always blame it on touretes. or how people think they are doing her a favor by constantly victimizing her. probably making her condition worse. if people would actually care about her they would know this and try to understand her dark side too
@@Dualities nah you bullies should stop blaming her for no reason. people like you have no idea what tourettes is, and blatantly assume she is faking it for views. like its an actual scientific mental condition, if anything she's bringing awareness to it which is a very good thing so you uneducated people can understand about it. but if you still continue to live in denial, then she is not the one to be blamed for. neither she has done something so offensive to acknowledge her "dark side", she might have said n word but so did many streamers and got away with it. and if you assume she's faking it (without any proof) when she is not , you will be one looking like a complete clown for blaming someone innocent . and a big reason many people watch her or donate her is because she is funny and entertaining ,not because of empathy.
@@zeuxlaught2797 and u people should stop defending and victimize her all day long. yes she is funny and entertaining. I love some of her videos like formula 1 tick. but she also has her dark side as we all do. ahah proof. like u have any proof she has Tourettes. like all the proof we got for the false accusation that happened in last few months right? yeah, she might be an inspiration or she might be victimizing herself at this point because she knew half of her views are either simps or people who feel bad about her condition. and u people are not doing her any favor by victimizing her. probably making her condition worse. or maybe u do u are giving her money and publicity. It's not like the content is insane. people literally farm her ticks with sexual titles. and when soem1 calls her out on stupid things she say she can always say oh it is just tick from stream...yeah sure...why it seems so inconsistent? especially when it comes to simping? i dont think that i random. she even wears simps hat ffs. so she knows what she is doing...or ymbe she just embraced her stream idk...how is that a good and inspiration for other people with touretes? it is bullshit content farm game. probably even worsening her condition. she will start to feel like she had to have this condition otherwise no1 would care and that is probably the sad truth. if u would actually care about her u would know that. I'm not saying she is fakign ti..but there is a possibility. and yeah she is using her condition so people fell bad and donate. specially emphatic people who think they did a good deed but inf act it is just another content farm. there is another world down there. u would be surprised what some would do when content make is their career and when their survival depends on it. people will victimize her so long that she will feel like she had to have touretess...can't u people see that?
@@Dualities yes we will stop defending her only when you bullies stop harassing her all day long. like literally blaming her for wearing simp merch , when its just a trendy joke, even pewdipie has simp merch. and blaming her when someone uploads a sexual tic clip of hers , why she should be the one to be blamed for? and literally many UA-camrs or streamers say sexual crap all the time and get away with it as it was a "joke" or "dark humour", so even when if its not a tic its nothing outrageous . so basically you butthurt bullies wants to cancel her based on some joke or tic . you idiots cant help but prove again and again why you snowflake butthurt incels should not be taken seriously and how full of sht you guys are.
@@Dualities you're allowed to have your own opinion but it's better to not assume something about someone you've never met especially if they've said otherwise. Being falsely called out is worse than being called out because it makes you feel bad about yourself. She is a streamer, every streamer gets donations, every streamer has content their donators and subscribers enjoy. If people like her BECAUSE she has tourettes then you should be no more mad at her for having that and using it then any streamer using a popular game to get attention. Having tourettes means you have neurological disability. Yes she is still normal person personality wise, but she also has problems with some day to day things. And I say all this because my second cousin has tourettes and I've spent a lot of time with them and if and when we go out I'm constantly having to explain to people why they just got kicked in the back of the knee or just told something like "I'll fluff your moms pillows". It's a disorder, something's wrong up top and you're mad she found away to use her disorder as a way to make money when it may he difficult and very challenging in other ways. You're entitled to your opinion but bashing people with disabilities and being the type of person to dispute their validity makes you a bad person by standard. You don't need to compliment her but don't bash somebody with a disorder you do not have and if you do don't bash somebody with a disorder like that when you know how bad it can get for finding their way around it.
Honestly you seem like a decent person that someone would like to know. You’re sense of humor, openness and sincerity are charming 👍🏼 The way you are warm and share self respect and insecurity is so human. Thank You for being real
She's said multiple times that her tics sometimes say what she's anxious saying, e.g. being scared of saying the n word will make her say it. It makes sense if she's worried about coming off a certain way Edit: I should also add that it's not very good or productive to assume that her tics are what she's "secretly thinking" since she had has the tic of yelling "I'm a pedo!"
@@dragontruth3701 i didnt assume also im new to watching anita her tick would say something then she would say sorry i meant bla bla bla and it was just a nicer way to say what her tick said that's what i was referring to not all of her ticks that's just insensable
@@clashofarenas6246 sorry if I came off in a bad way, I didn't mean that you were assuming anything :) Just trying to answer and i worded it differently to how I should have
"I asked someone on a date." "I felt a great disturbance in the Force, as if millions of voices suddenly cried out in terror and were suddenly silenced."
"I'm a demi-sexual and I don't care how people look." "I felt another great disturbance in the Force, as if millions of voices suddenly cried out in relief and were suddenly silenced."
Most of her fans are going to be nice guy fedora wearing incles that are in love with her. A tale as old as twitch itself. They are married to her in fantasy.
I respect that so much. It must feel good that even though there are things in your life you have no control over, you have more control of yourself ethically and emotionally than most people without Tourettes will ever be able to manage.
Idk why UA-cam offered me this video. I'm in some confrontation with my introvert girl because I did not understood her the right way, when it was needed. Now this video helped me to take a look at a girls point of view. Now I understand why she did some things - she was too shy to talk to me directly. Thank you, for such POV!
Unfortunately that's the issue with many dudes online. They watch streamers they clearly have no chance with, and have this weird notion that by donating, being friendly, etc. will somehow land them a chance with said girl. Once that illusion is shattered they freak out. Also doesn't help that MANY streamers with boyfriends purposely feign being single for that exact reason. Though it is slightly funny most of said dudes are in multiple chats with streamers trying to get at them, but get mad if one has a boyfriend or is going to go on a date..lol
BoW HitUrGSpot Anita seems like a very cool person, so random people hitting on her with donations and comments doesn’t shock me at all. But the fact that she went into her discord for advice on a subject she felt vulnerable about makes it seem like there were people in there she trusted who are more than just random viewers, and many of the people she went to for advice ended up being the type of person you just described, which sucks. Fortunately Anita didn’t listen to those morons who think joining a discord server makes you entitled to having a chance with a girl, and now she feels more confident in herself and has improved as a person.
@@Roid25Rage, she definitely is a cool and good person. Just explaining the mindset behind it. The thirsty boys give 0 shits about how deep they get into your life. If the illusion of never getting what it is they want, they show their true character. It's unfortunate, but it's also the sad reality of the cesspool that surrounds Twitch.
Those End statement's really put credit to her name... That was such a sweetly told story... :D Happy to hear that you summe this up as an interessing learning lesson...
Guys I think she likes me. She keeps winking at me
I'm pretty sure she was winking at me, I mean after all I was standing right behind you all the time. ;)
Lmao
HAAHAHAHAHAH
She also kind of hates you since she keeps middle fingering you. Love hate
Hey bro thanks for paying my college tuition in full, that was very poggers of you
That story started off like a Disney movie and then 2020 got a hold of it 😭
2020!!!!!
That was funny
😆😭
🤣🤣 I’m dead 😭
So basically
LIFE?
"I did the thing!" becoming one of her tics for a while is actually so cute. Like, imagine being so happy because you worked up the courage to ask someone out on a date that your reaction becomes a tic lmao
Police: "So, who stabbed him?"
Her: "i did the thing!"
@@aleekscribblerofdeydras9036 hahaha!!!
"I have tourettes, no one would date me"
That broke my heart, my partner has tourettes and I love them greatly 💙 tourettes doesn't mean you're undateable, you seem like a lovely person 😊
Edit: I just realized this was from two years ago oop
no worries, thats the magic of the internet, time is frozen in it.
Hope you live a happy life with your better half!
I just found her this week. She seems like a sweet lady to be around.
@@bill4632 Likewise and I do agree completely.
@@bill4632 same bro, she was def a bit smaller (of a streamer) in 2019, not saying her fame is a substitute for all other qualities, but im sure she has become more desired as more people are aware of the existence of this wonderful human. Shes def changed my perception of people with tourettes cause I really didnt understand it before
He 100% looked up “tourettes streamer” to find her
@Zeros DaBast Nah got here from padillas last post comment section about how he gonna interview ppl with tourrettes. Glad i did, this shit was hilarious.
I found her from sidemen tinder lol
@@nousername1888 lol same
Skxrlxt he looked up do you know who this is? It’s a ni--
Found her off of someone tik tok vid glad I did
"And stop being the kind of guy that women try to forget"
Holy shit that's a good one
Lose the 'try to.' Jussst 'forget.'
Where the whip app when you need it
In the feels.
Greg Hornby what should you do then? Act weird or something?
Greg Hornby then she said she what sexual? So she doesn’t care what people look like?
I'm mostly a straight girl and while I can easily appreciate other people's beauty regardless of their sex, I just find you in particular to be absolutely drop dead gorgeous. Your condition is nothing but just that, a condition. It doesn't make you any less attractive, it's just another personality trait for anyone with a shred of sense. You're so well-spoken, empathetic and lovely as a person, and you deserve an equally fantastic person to be your partner. I would love to be your friend and I hope you never feel like anyone is "out of your league" because that's absolutely not true, no matter how many hate messages stupid people with no hobbies would send to you. All the love ❤️
You've said what I was thinking in a way I would have trouble expressing as a man. I'd be tripping over myself trying not to be/seem creepy or simping. Thank you.
@@capnskiddies yeah we are not allowed to talk about our feelings without getting judged or misinterpreted. its not fair but we have to live with it i guess
Came here to say this. Thoughtful, well-spoken, good-looking and great sense of humour. Don't let anyone put you down.
@@sket179 hear hear
She is indeed beautiful inside and out!
Thank you for finding him disrespecting strippers offensive 😭 ❤
in general, do not trust someone who disrespects service workers, especially while partaking in the service. be it waiters or strippers, even disrespecting their car mechanic
its just weird. Like people dont need to be overly thankful and make friends ( they ARE paying after all ) but ... thats a person doing work
@@Maric18 exactly
@@Maric18 yes!!!!
tbh, even if you like, don't think that pr0stitution is wrong, going out of your way to make people's lives harder is such a dick move. No-one should be disrespected like that, and anyone that does that kinda crap deserves to be seen as the dick they are.
1, being at a strip club, 2 inviting her, 3 bragging about not paying them.
That guy has so many red flags in one night he got halfway to opening a 6 Flags.
Respect for his girlfriend to confront it the way she did
Could have started messaging her instead of just randomly block her without a comment.
But you know, not bad.
I hope she finds the strength and the respect for herself to kick him the the curb.
Yea, she showed a lot of maturity in the way she messaged Anita.
I hope she does leave him, though, because the dude’s not going to make her any happier. He’s not going to change his behaviour any time soon, so she needs to exit now, while she still has a shred of self-love (yes, that kind of relationship has a tendency to take it away from you...)
@@DDLDIDD I think she is stupid to stay with him but abusive relationships are like this too.
Any woman that elects to stay with a man that she caught cheating deserves to be cheated on over and over again.
White knights got triggered because they wanted to be the one, lmao
🤣👌🏽
Lmao this comment section is especially on point this week!
Fuckin Neckbeards lmao
Thats offensive to all non white colored knights
yea most single males want all pretty women to be single so they have a sliver of a chance its really quite sad
"I found out I can seduce men by being awkward and offering them food"
Being awkward while being nice got her 1,3M subs. It is actually a surefire way to make a guy fall for you. The hard parts I imagine are:
- finding someone who can take your struggle serious instead of writing it off as "not even that bad" because he loves you,
- avoid guys who try to prey upon insecurity (which must be extra hard for a girl that is famous and beautiful)
I'm so glad that you got a confidence boost out of this uncomfortable situation. The part about the hate mail really caught me off gaurd. Never thought of that happening.
But, I love watching your videos and I Subscribed cuz they are educational and your personality is just the best.
And trust me, nobody is out of your league.
"I don't really want someone like that in my life *or in mah c^nt, OR IN MAH SAMMICH* " You know I gotta agree with you there lol
I'm watching it and out loud ago I agree with you when she said that
I guess we all hoped she'll say something like "yeah, that too..." when she said that
What minute is that?
Youth is wasted on the young...
Holy shit this shit had me dying
Day 1: "I'm the GAS man."
Day 2: "I'm the TRASH man."
Day 3: "I'm back again and I'm the ASS man."
@@shaheenthomas Day 4: after that i became GLASS man
Day 5: "I'm the Scatman... Ski-bi dibby dib yo da dub dub!"
@@jakob... Day 5: i became FAT MAN
Day X: Anita takes out the trash's ex-girl
As a person who has struggled with sever vocal and physical tourets and i highly respect what you do. Having tourets makes majority of us extremely self conscious but you surpassed it and overcame it! Congratulations! And keep up the work!
I developed tourets from a rare illness that affected my brain at 10 years old. However i was fortunate enough to have medically overcame it within 2 years. I still to this day 12 years later have minnor physical ticks and very seldomly i still get vocal ticks
Anita, I always think you are so wonderful, YOU are out of everyone's league. I understand your tics can be very awkward, but in the channel and your streams, they are almost like jokes, coming from another person , and actually kind of funny. You are great just the way you are. Don't ever change!!
“And I put the card UP MY ASS.. RIGHT UP THERE. WOW UP THERE?.” Had me rolling
“You know how to respect buns?? Can you respect MY BUNS?!”
Not sure if tic or dirty joke lmfao but I love it
Cass J ahahah that was a tic i’m pretty sure
I though it was about rabbits.
@@bearb1asting Lowkey, me too
she is very smart, i am sure from time to time she throw a naughty one :)
@conejo than you never met too many women in your life
I've never heard of you. I don't know why UA-cam is recommending your years old videos to me all of a sudden.
What a goofy, frustrating, heart warming tale. Thanks, hope you keep on keepin' on!
Congrats on having the courage to ask someone out and doing "the thing", sorry it didn't work out better for you. Stay strong and good luck!
Kinda awkward how a portion of the white knights turn hostile the moment she finds somebody interesting. It might hurt a little for a short while but she just dodged a bullet.
What do you mean by the last minute?
It's what happens when weird lonely dudes fall in love with their streamer. These guys cant even talk to a 5 in the real world. But talk to a 8+ streamer? Having her say your NAME and saying Hi and shit. Yeah that will make these idiots fall in love real quick.
@@Diavolo222 Can't really agree with the numbers thing but yeah, cunts and their parasocial relationships.
@@schippai3308 hm.
Its so one way relationship with streamers. Like unless you meet in real life or message personal stuff directly one on one, its always gonna be the "I love you, random citizen" But how many of them must have been so SALTY after the gas man exploded and they bombed their chance forever on a dude like that.
“You know how to respect the bunns?!”
“CAN YOU RESPECT MY BUNS”
The ultimate pickup line
19:43
Depends... Are they cinnamon buns?
oh god, Terrence I laughed so hard
2:49
I love how you expressed to him how you felt & wished for him in the future. Beautifully said!
This has become my comfort video you are such a calming person and your videos have helped me through tough times so thank you!
Seeing Anita get super hype and proud of herself for doing the thing is heartwarming af.
"stop being the kind of guy that women try to forget" completely roasted, screw that guy and screw the haters on discord
Better that than the guy that women forget super easily.
Joseph Abrams not fuckin really
@@victortesla4198 ah, so you want to be the guy who makes the rest of us look bad. Good on you man, see how far that gets you in life.
@@Dodderyfeline31 Both are extreme versions that tend to lead to bad experiences for everyone involved.
Omg this totally started out like an amazing anime and then totally gave me the feels.
So glad to see you came away with amazing confidence in yourself.
This is the best discovery of 2021 for me! Every second is inspiring and hilarious. Thank you Anita rolf
Its cute how obsessed she became with it to the extent that she had a tic
“I did the thing”
“Don’t tell anyone but I’m a streamer”
Everyone in chat: wtf does she do?!
her wink tics are honestly so flattering
She’s a “pro gamer”
@@keropicakeu I'm your 1800 like I feel special
IDK Bro You Kinda Sus..
This is both a heart warming and heart aching story in that your anxieties and concerns as a girl approaching a guy are exactly what I think and feel as guy wanting to approaching a girl who I know is out of my league; it shows we are all human and ultimately we cannot and should not judge others purely by what we see. I've even told a girl once (after she indvertently triggered my conscience) that seeing her made me feel as though I was not behaving right and I wanted to be a better version of myself - neither of us were cheating but it felt exploitive on my behalf. I've not heard from her again so I guess she didn't value honesty... it's just a shame not all people can be genuinely thoughtful and respectful to others.
Im glad you were able to do all of this. Its hard for me to ask people because of my dissability and mental ilnesses
"I have Tourette's No one would date me." You are underselling yourself big time. I bet there are a ton of people who would love to date you.
Yes totally agree! I think her tourette's is funny and sometimes kinda cute. And if you don't care about what others think you shouldn't really have problem dating her at all. But hey my ex is still mad at me and I dont even know why so I'm not an expert in things relationships.
The Tourette's is a bonus because she doesn't mind when you laugh and omg does she utter some gems
She's fine as fuck.
Her sammich needs respectin'
Ngl it's hard for me to not go creeper mode and try to message her.
Saying Gas man sounds like they’re talking about hitler
Bet he underpayed his hookers too
@@mercylessplayer *D E M O N E T I S E D*
My goodness
Yes
Alright that’s enough internet for today
I'm so happy that it actually worked out for you, and came away from it with some thing positive from all that douchbaggery. I have no doubt you will find someone who sees you for how lovely, sweet and genuine you are, you just radiate beauty into the world, and if people can't see that or think they can take advantage of that, then they're blind, stupid or not worth a single fucking second of your time.
Anita, this whole thing is like a fractal to me - i.e. completely fascinating! there are so many levels here (e.g. openness, honesty, vulnerability, courage, entertainment, etc. etc.). I don't mean to be offensive at all, but I do find your stream quite poetic (I simply don't have the words to describe). Thanks for sharing and good luck to you! :D
Cheating is literally the worst. And he did it multiple times. Why is that girl trying to salvage that relationship?
he cute tho
well he probably understands her bulslhit way better than we do...her high iq content farm skills and darkness
you will not understand if i tell to you
Even if she salvages the relationship it is only gonna end badly. Some girls are like i can fix this guy. A guy that cheats is a minipulator and Anita might not have the most confidence and this guy knows exactly how to keep get her back
@@thomashoneycutt4249 I don’t even think this is mutually exclusive to just “girls fixing guys”... I think it’s human nature to want to change something to fit your mold no matter if it’s “I’m gonna turn this good person out,” or “I’m gonna fix this bad person” etc
I recently was in a relationship with a chick who sought attention in unhealthy ways and had a very convoluted outlook on life. She had a pretty big nose in high school but she ended up getting a nose job right before we dated, and if I’m being honest she looked like a complexity different person. I think a part of her overcompensated in trying to find attention she felt she never received before, but she couldn’t really see the implications of how this line of thinking could have on how she built personal relationships. I saw this from the outside looking in, and in all honestly I used to have a really similar outlook on things when I was young and immature, but after working on my addiction, my spiritual maladies, my general pessimistic views, I think I came out complexly different than I was when I had these misconstrued perceptions. I figured I was given second chances, and without them I wouldn’t be where I am today, so why not give someone that fucks me over a second chance in an effort to see if they can do good with it?
This girl ended up cheating on me multiple times, and had alligator tears each time it happened in an effort for me to stay. She’d make assurances that she’d delete social media amongst other things. I didn’t necessarily want for her to do that but in an effort to gauge how serious she was with trying to rebuild trust, I’d press her on her word and she’d always try to write it off like she didn’t really mean it or that I was being unhealthy by asking her to delete ig (even though she was the one that cheated, and she was the one that told me she’d do so for the time being until we got things back on track)
This line of thinking of giving people the benefit of the doubt is obviously positive but there comes a certain point where positivity can be counterintuitive and actually prevent you from seeing the reality of the situation. Once you’ve committed to someone you don’t want it all to be for nothing, so you can come up with some pretty irrational justifications in an attempt to try to salvage what is probably already too broken to fix. That situation can happen to anyone though. I think it has more to do with your level of emotional maturity than it does with whether or not you’re a boy or girl
The discord dudes were sad they weren't in the game anymore.
Losers. lol
>anymore
implying implications
They were never in the game. And even if they were, they took themselves right out.
@@NamAim1991 easy cash money from thirsty dudes vs weeding out the trash.
I just don't get it... How is it away from anyone if she finds someone? Not this one tho, dodged a bullet there.
T Rex Exploiting lovely and desperate dudes for cash and ego isn’t trash behaviour at all, of course.
This was actually super inspiring and very positive. Didn't expect that, but it's a 10/10 from me.
I hope you know deep down that you’re so genuine. And for the people who said you shouldn’t tell anyone about your dating, I understand what they’re saying, but it’s up to you. You don’t owe strangers on the internet your life story. It’s very special that you shared, but again, it’s up to you. You deserve the best!
Gas man totally thought she was a cam girl.
oooooh never thought of that! you are prolly right
#mindblown Sounds like he is a bit of a sleaze.
that was my thought as well!
on the other hand they played video games together so yeah.
Exactly what I was thinking... 😬
And then went on to insult a related profession. /slow clap
Dude you make a great first impression, anyone whos offput by your differences is just making it easier for you to find the right people 😊
You are simply adorable in every sense of the word. What you refer to as your disability is not only endearing but wildly entertaining. I hope your inner self recognizes your gift and fills you with the confidence to match your compassion. Love the lip pops! PS. I had a pet house rabbit once so I understand why you love them...and also, why they love you. All the best, Sweet Anita!
"this guy is out of my league" turns out you were way out of his league.
"For the sake of my relationship, can you please stop messaging my boyfriend?"
Sweetie, that relationship is already over and it's currently on fire. Time to jump ship and move on.
Like bitches ever break up with good looking dudes lol.
Cockoff Gewgle yikes what a wrong take
Audrisaline x Yikes-Rooney! Who hurt you????
@@cockoffgewgle4993 Were you talking to yourself, bud? You seem hurt
Sadly, women usually are attracted to bad boy types, especially if they're extremely good looking. I don't think he'll ever change, he doesn't have to, he has enough women who would gladly put up with him. Hard truth.
so sorry, you met a douce like this.. loving your streams.. loving your honesty.. you have such a great community on here, found your streams through fb shorts.. been a fan since.. keep on keeping on, you're doing a great thing ✌🏼🙏👍
This story was such an emotional rollercoaster. Loved every bit of it. Hope you find someone soon or be you already have 🤗
Some people are single, because they are weird.
Other people are single, because other people are weird.
then there is me... on the middle of that Venn diagram.
Is it really bad if it's both?
Some people are single because they choose people based on looks and refuse to lower their standards.
I'm single because I want a woman that likes to cook.
I'm both...
The girlfriend seems nice, maybe you should ask her out for food
pizzafrenzyman, and caves lol
Plot twist: she already has and they are now dating
give her the food
Take my dislike i cant give u like and ruin 500
i ship it
Hey Anita, long time fan and lurker, have had a pretty rough couple of days, but watched a few of your videos and cheered up a bunch, keep making us laugh and smile, and thank you for the positivity today :)
Honestly, I'm really glad you went through this. Despite the be the guy put you through, as long as you came out of it more confident and self assured, then it was a good thing. I wish you the best in your future endeavours. You seem like a lovely person and I hope you find a loving partner.
Ps: the hate mail stuff is bullshit. But at least you know now who's actually nice from who was pretending to be
"He's out of my league"
Me: "There's a league above her?"
There isn’t but we all think we are worse than we are
@@dannydelaney5046 Too true bro
Simp alert 🚨
Holy simp. She's a 5.
Simp
0:17 "There was a man who came to my house to fix my boiler."
Oh, I think I know where this story's going...
I do too he fixes the boiler, she pays, they talk for a bit then they go on a date! What a story isn't it?
@@luighost9917 haha totally.....
@@luighost9917 yes exactly
@@luighost9917 umm you were mostly right
The boiler man is now a doctor and was an Astronaut and will be a teacher... he’s also bold.
Love your take on that learning opportunity!
The algorithm has been tossing your videos my way. This one sealed the deal. I'm definitely subscribing. haha
Tossing the salad hey
"I might actually make a good impression despite offering to fist them and stuff."
🤣 🤣 🤣
I'm dying out here.
What really gets me laughing is when she is trying to talk about something seriously and she says something inappropriate or helarious that I just wasn't ready for. Something like that lmfao.
We are all slowly dying out here, and that's a fact!
The part that did it for me was when she was all "I said I'd do really inappropriate things with his grandma, which I'm not going to repeat." 😂
wooow i didnt think of that! the stripclub-thing, you are obviously right!
She might actually make a good impression BECAUSE she’s offering to fist them and stuff. Lol
If someone was to be hesitant about telling me about their streaming, I would think it was porn just fyi
I thought the same thing
But why would she stream porn with a gaming setup and a chair?
Yeah exactly. In fact that might be why he was interested in the first place
if they were at the streamers house tho they could leak the streamers address i think thats why she didnt want to say
@@dankolyte1418 but there's a good chance he knew she does stream, leaving the note. what wasn't clear is what she did on stream.
You're so sweet and kind. You always makes me smile and laugh and I love you! Keep doing you!
Wow, I'm kinda new to Sweet Anita's content, but I am just astonished at how brave, smart, and morally good she is, as this vid shows! That's awesome and I loved this story!
"I told him that god did not love him, and that I would do unspeakable things with his grandma"
Still not as bad as my last date.
This made me wheeze🤣🤣
ok the strip club comment caught me extremely off guard that is SO douchey
i got to this video randomly and listened to it and this is really weird and messed up. Not paying? He should try stripping for free in front of all people...
I wouldn't say douchey I'd say its it's just straight up disgusting.
I don’t know what kind of women he would be trying to seduce with that comment. Respectable women would obviously be disgusted by the lack of respect and class, and less-admirable women would still see the injustice in his mistreatment of prostitutes. I’d imagine someone super desperate would hit but the stripper comment wouldn’t help. Maybe he was looking to pimp?
@@DaFanky I agree, this is beyond insane. Someone like that is not worth anyone's time.
And it felt like an indirect jab at streamers
I think it's very good and brave to be so open about these kind of topics, especially when you struggle with the whole asking somebody out scenario.
Just keep at it, it gets easier with practise. 👍
You are very entertaining to listen to, keep it up! Had me cracking up
Holy hell who sends hate mail because Sweet Anita got a date???
Incels
woorrdd
Simps and all the above.
Simps and incels of course.
Can you fucking imagine being those guys sheesh, lowest of the low.
He probably thought you were doing a different type of "streaming"
probably why he was waiting outside the door to listen too
Yeah, definitely was hoping she would say cam girl
I don't think so since she has a gaming chair and all that lol
@@andreaoblitas3870 yeah but idk if he saw all that 🤔
F
Thank you for this
You are a beautiful person, you handled this so well. I wish more people could be like you.
Guys, i don't think she understands how high up in those "leagues" she is.
Seriously...she looks gorgeous, wholesome and funny, if people can't put up with a tick or two, they are not worth it.
So fucking true...she is WAYYY up in the BIG 'leagues'
Skelebones true
Skelebones Well hopefully someone will see past that and have to patience. There someone for everyone.
@Skelebones that's the thing. Degenerates love toxicity. She is like water of toxicity flooding everything. They love that especially when they are full of it.
Just comment I always looking for, you know have the biggest pair of balls down them pants, NO HOMO!
the new "i did the thing!" tic, has got to be the most adorable thing I've ever herd
Same
Sweet Anita, I have only been watching your UA-cam for a few weeks now and you have a very infectious laugh, smile, and energy. Since I started watching your channel I can honestly say you're the only one that has been able to keep my attention without having to show girls in skimpy clothes bouncing around. I do like the bouncing around stuff, but it does get old kinda fast even though testing gravity through jiggling is great I would rather have someone make me laugh. Please don't change or listen to those people who only want to tear you down because they have nothing better to do. Thanks for making me laugh and brightening my days. Listening from the USA.
I found you channel by accident and became hooked. Love the content you got a new sub.
find a guy who can respect buns,
and the women that come with them.
@Coffee and Lemon I can feel my screen getting coarse and dry from the thirst just by reading your comment.
*”CAN YOU RESPECT MY BUNS!?”*
@@yogxoth1959 bro he said wahmens, can't you feel the irony?
Her condition makes her look like she is constantly making a joke both intentionally and unintentionally, and it’s great
its sad when u realize she is using her condition to get donations by emphatic people and simping for that money and if people call her out she can always blame it on touretes. or how people think they are doing her a favor by constantly victimizing her. probably making her condition worse. if people would actually care about her they would know this and try to understand her dark side too
@@Dualities nah you bullies should stop blaming her for no reason. people like you have no idea what tourettes is, and blatantly assume she is faking it for views. like its an actual scientific mental condition, if anything she's bringing awareness to it which is a very good thing so you uneducated people can understand about it. but if you still continue to live in denial, then she is not the one to be blamed for. neither she has done something so offensive to acknowledge her "dark side", she might have said n word but so did many streamers and got away with it. and if you assume she's faking it (without any proof) when she is not , you will be one looking like a complete clown for blaming someone innocent . and a big reason many people watch her or donate her is because she is funny and entertaining ,not because of empathy.
@@zeuxlaught2797 and u people should stop defending and victimize her all day long. yes she is funny and entertaining. I love some of her videos like formula 1 tick. but she also has her dark side as we all do. ahah proof. like u have any proof she has Tourettes. like all the proof we got for the false accusation that happened in last few months right? yeah, she might be an inspiration or she might be victimizing herself at this point because she knew half of her views are either simps or people who feel bad about her condition. and u people are not doing her any favor by victimizing her. probably making her condition worse. or maybe u do u are giving her money and publicity. It's not like the content is insane. people literally farm her ticks with sexual titles. and when soem1 calls her out on stupid things she say she can always say oh it is just tick from stream...yeah sure...why it seems so inconsistent? especially when it comes to simping? i dont think that i random. she even wears simps hat ffs. so she knows what she is doing...or ymbe she just embraced her stream idk...how is that a good and inspiration for other people with touretes? it is bullshit content farm game. probably even worsening her condition. she will start to feel like she had to have this condition otherwise no1 would care and that is probably the sad truth. if u would actually care about her u would know that. I'm not saying she is fakign ti..but there is a possibility. and yeah she is using her condition so people fell bad and donate. specially emphatic people who think they did a good deed but inf act it is just another content farm. there is another world down there. u would be surprised what some would do when content make is their career and when their survival depends on it. people will victimize her so long that she will feel like she had to have touretess...can't u people see that?
@@Dualities yes we will stop defending her only when you bullies stop harassing her all day long. like literally blaming her for wearing simp merch , when its just a trendy joke, even pewdipie has simp merch. and blaming her when someone uploads a sexual tic clip of hers , why she should be the one to be blamed for? and literally many UA-camrs or streamers say sexual crap all the time and get away with it as it was a "joke" or "dark humour", so even when if its not a tic its nothing outrageous . so basically you butthurt bullies wants to cancel her based on some joke or tic . you idiots cant help but prove again and again why you snowflake butthurt incels should not be taken seriously and how full of sht you guys are.
@@Dualities you're allowed to have your own opinion but it's better to not assume something about someone you've never met especially if they've said otherwise. Being falsely called out is worse than being called out because it makes you feel bad about yourself. She is a streamer, every streamer gets donations, every streamer has content their donators and subscribers enjoy. If people like her BECAUSE she has tourettes then you should be no more mad at her for having that and using it then any streamer using a popular game to get attention. Having tourettes means you have neurological disability. Yes she is still normal person personality wise, but she also has problems with some day to day things. And I say all this because my second cousin has tourettes and I've spent a lot of time with them and if and when we go out I'm constantly having to explain to people why they just got kicked in the back of the knee or just told something like "I'll fluff your moms pillows". It's a disorder, something's wrong up top and you're mad she found away to use her disorder as a way to make money when it may he difficult and very challenging in other ways.
You're entitled to your opinion but bashing people with disabilities and being the type of person to dispute their validity makes you a bad person by standard.
You don't need to compliment her but don't bash somebody with a disorder you do not have and if you do don't bash somebody with a disorder like that when you know how bad it can get for finding their way around it.
"I put the card up my arse" I'm sorry but I had to laugh at that one hahaha you're lovely btw, glad you went out with him!
Honestly you seem like a decent person that someone would like to know.
You’re sense of humor, openness and sincerity are charming 👍🏼
The way you are warm and share self respect and insecurity is so human.
Thank You for being real
Anyone else notice that sometimes anita's ticks say what she means but in a harsher way then she says it in a nicer way?
She's said multiple times that her tics sometimes say what she's anxious saying, e.g. being scared of saying the n word will make her say it. It makes sense if she's worried about coming off a certain way
Edit: I should also add that it's not very good or productive to assume that her tics are what she's "secretly thinking" since she had has the tic of yelling "I'm a pedo!"
@@dragontruth3701 i didnt assume also im new to watching anita her tick would say something then she would say sorry i meant bla bla bla and it was just a nicer way to say what her tick said that's what i was referring to not all of her ticks that's just insensable
@@clashofarenas6246 sorry if I came off in a bad way, I didn't mean that you were assuming anything :) Just trying to answer and i worded it differently to how I should have
Sometimes she has truth tics too 👀
@@aspengreene not true
He's definitely out of your league. Way, way *below* your league.
@@itstimeforlee 👏👏😑
Had us in the first half ngl
Good story and Anita was very mature and wholesome.
Only watched a few of your capture compilations and this one was very engaging.
Thank you for sharing!
The story is so interesting but the timing of your tourette is comedy gold. 5:17 19:43
wow up there?
Haha yeah
@Fuck You it's at 440rn :/
braindead bich
@Fuck You atleast im not racist
"I asked someone on a date."
"I felt a great disturbance in the Force, as if millions of voices suddenly cried out in terror and were suddenly silenced."
"I'm a demi-sexual and I don't care how people look."
"I felt another great disturbance in the Force, as if millions of voices suddenly cried out in relief and were suddenly silenced."
@Science Fiction Nice b8 m8, I r8 8/8
@Science Fiction tbh i cant blame her you read her chat and theres hundreds of thirsty virgins in there
@@TS-STORM She's literally got a whole day stream dedicated for that called "Thirstday" on Thursdays.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Angry people when you talk about dating = simp jealousy when you don't choose THEM!
That was a very wholesome video, thank you for sharing that experience. ❤
An attractive girl with self confidence issues is pure gold to dudes like that.
Pure gold to anyone who looks for an easy target but one does not even have to be a d*ck about it and cheat aso.
ok no one asked
words
yeah dudes like that! the gas man !! hes just a stopid player guy!!! not like us were nice guys right!! he is a bad man!
@@sexalex 🤣🤣🤣
Imagine sending hate mail to someone because they're going on DATES. wtf
Because incels
@@ExplodingChickenPie its fucking sad
pickled buns
Max level virgins.
John Jenkins no because they are assholes
Most of her fans are going to be nice guy fedora wearing incles that are in love with her. A tale as old as twitch itself. They are married to her in fantasy.
I respect that so much. It must feel good that even though there are things in your life you have no control over, you have more control of yourself ethically and emotionally than most people without Tourettes will ever be able to manage.
too much, can't believe you didn't think you could get a date if you asked, crazy!
His GF breaking up with him and then dating Anita would be the greatest plot twist ever
The editing and the tics make my adhd brain follow the videos so easily without feeling the need to skip or change video. Thanks
Same
Same it's really engaging to my hyper brain
Broooo I thought I was the only one.
Ditto. I almost never make it through videos.
100% the same!!
Anita's show always puts a smile on my face, hopefully things go well for her!
I have no idea how I ended up watching one of Anita's videos. But I so glad I did. Great first impression
I genuinely appreciated the definition of “scarper”
Learning new words is fun!
I was an equivalent of a+ in English school in Sweden än never heard it. Always glad to learn something new.
You can think the wonderful editor Trev for that, he’s amazing
IRenegadEEEEE My American ignorance is strong
@Coffee and Lemon I'm a day too late & I had to consult Google, but it's Brasília.
"i told him god didn't love him"
Terrence knew what was up
Terrence saw through his BS
Next level story telling. Absolute gold.
Idk why UA-cam offered me this video.
I'm in some confrontation with my introvert girl because I did not understood her the right way, when it was needed. Now this video helped me to take a look at a girls point of view. Now I understand why she did some things - she was too shy to talk to me directly.
Thank you, for such POV!
Why are dudes on the internet so weird towards girls, like chill out and find a girl IRL for yourself
Impossible, simp time
Because they're all awkward, smelly, fat, weaboos with obsessive personalities and possible mental disorders?
Otaku Toast 🚨 You have been caught by the simp police! 👮 you have the right to remain silent! 🚨
JUST FIND SOMEONE WHO LIKES YOU 4Head
@@cockoffgewgle4993 found an incel 🤭
Sucks that you were lied to and that discord was being hateful, but at least something good came out of all this with your confidence being boosted 👍
Unfortunately that's the issue with many dudes online. They watch streamers they clearly have no chance with, and have this weird notion that by donating, being friendly, etc. will somehow land them a chance with said girl. Once that illusion is shattered they freak out.
Also doesn't help that MANY streamers with boyfriends purposely feign being single for that exact reason. Though it is slightly funny most of said dudes are in multiple chats with streamers trying to get at them, but get mad if one has a boyfriend or is going to go on a date..lol
BoW HitUrGSpot Anita seems like a very cool person, so random people hitting on her with donations and comments doesn’t shock me at all. But the fact that she went into her discord for advice on a subject she felt vulnerable about makes it seem like there were people in there she trusted who are more than just random viewers, and many of the people she went to for advice ended up being the type of person you just described, which sucks. Fortunately Anita didn’t listen to those morons who think joining a discord server makes you entitled to having a chance with a girl, and now she feels more confident in herself and has improved as a person.
@@Roid25Rage, she definitely is a cool and good person. Just explaining the mindset behind it.
The thirsty boys give 0 shits about how deep they get into your life. If the illusion of never getting what it is they want, they show their true character. It's unfortunate, but it's also the sad reality of the cesspool that surrounds Twitch.
@@Th1sUsernameIsNotTaken you've hit the nail on the fucking head lmao
@@Th1sUsernameIsNotTaken This is literally how Kpop groups market themselves. Both male and female groups.
I could listen to you forever.... I sit with my eyes closed and listen to your videos... You really are awesome, way more than you know.
Those End statement's really put credit to her name... That was such a sweetly told story... :D Happy to hear that you summe this up as an interessing learning lesson...
You could physically see her disappointment in just remembering the situation