Listen….”the idea of your father will sustain you more than the reality of him” these words broke my heart because it’s so true. Sometimes it better to imagine who you think he is than to deal with the real him. Life is complicated.
I can agree and relate 100% I never knew my dad until I was 19. I built him up to be like D.L Said a “mythical,” creature. When I met him he was sickly and mentally ill. Everything he has been through in life you could it all over him. And it broke my heart completely. He never understood why I didn’t come around to see him a lot, and I didn’t have the heart to tell him. R.I.P daddy, I miss you.
My mom keeps pics of my dad in the final years. I don’t. I keep pics of him as I knew him and on one hand I’d want my boys to remember me before the end like DL says. But on the other hand seeing my strong father come to his end taught me that I will have to go this way eventually and to embrace and appreciate the days you have. Not sure I’d want to deny my sons that final lesson.
Damn this was a sad segment ! NEVER let your children feel as if you don't care about them. Because it's a curse that may last a lifetime or even LONGER if the pain/abandonment gets passed to the next generation.!! Spread love...Detroit here, Peace
My granny wasn't I found out in my 20s my grandfather is not my grandfather thru his sister whom never liked my granny told me with some sort of sadistic joy I quietly walked out crying inside humiliated I asked my mom sister she of course knew n could careless I was hurting mother's grandmother's need to start telling the truth n stop playing judge n jury
From my own lived experience at almost 62 if we have unresolved trauma we tend to react in ways that we did as children and adolescent Intergenerational trauma
Right. His young mom left his dad while she was pregnant cause she wanted to be with someone else. Then the someone else assumed the role of his father because he wanted her too. Robbed this man of actually knowing who his biological father is. His biological father probably didn't even know she was pregnant and when he found out she said "nah it's not your baby, its my new boyfriends". Momma was young. Made a bad decision. WE SEE THIS ON THE MAURY SHOW ALL THE TIME!!!
Question, what’s stopping these men from going to the courts to demand that they be in their children’s life? What’s stopping them from reaching out to their children and setting the record straight?
That’s a wild story and shame on his mom for putting him through that trauma. She could’ve been honest and let him decide whether or not to have a relationship with him.
@@_Tennille I have a sister who lied to our family, her son, and her then boyfriend that she lived with about who her sons father was. And she is a piece of trash too.
By listening to DL Hughley's rants about his relationships with his biological father and his step father is a true testament to always follow your first instincts regarding how you deal with what you know to be the truth and how you handle a dead beat father also never let the emotions of women guide your decisions.
Respectfully bro, she may NOT have even told DL real dad that he was his son. I mean it sounds like the same shit that go on today. Chick sleepin with 2 different dudes and all of a sudden become pregnant! They'll choose the one they want it to be for whatever reason.
@@rickimhotep1236 We as men must stop making excuses for bad behavior and bad decisions from our women whether it is a girlfriend, wife, sister or mother it is because of their lack of making sound judgements is the reasons why there is so much dysfunction in our communities. Just for the reason you stated, she may have not known who the real father was, that statement alone should be an indicator of a bad choice she made because women should never be having sex with 2 different men at the same time and not be using some form of birth control, when you made that account she may not have known who the real father was because she may have wanted his step father to be his dad well, that wasn't her call to make, she should've gotten a DNA test done as soon as DL got to a certain age, you see this is a testament of how you have normalized bad decision made by some of our women, that we have been over looking for years, also at some point during DL's formidable years his mom should've sat DL down and explained to him whom his real father was, remember DL said that his family betrayed him upon meeting his biological father because they were happy to see another man that looked just like him so, if his family saw the resemblance you don't think DL's mother saw the same thing many years before his family made the same account, again bad judgment by his mother never allowing DL to have a real relationship with his biological father because she wanted his step father to be his dad, what a selfish mother to keep them apart for all those many years when he could have very well had a very good relationship with his biological father before he passed away if it were not for the bad choice that his mother made also, remember DL said his mom had been keeping up with his biological father's whereabouts for years but she was selling DL on him being a deadbeat dad. So in essence DL's mother ruined the relationships between DL and his biological father and DL's family because I'm sure DL's biological father would've loved having a relationship with his grandchildren and them with their grandfather.
@@rickimhotep1236 lmao the Mane LITERALLY Just Said His Mom Had A Different Relationship With The Biological Father and Had Lied To Him! Lmao CLEARLY She Told him that was his Son.
Peace, yes D. L. Hugely was so right!! We have an idealized picture of our parents. They are giants in our eyes. When we age our version of them changes. We see them as actual human beings with failings, limitations etc. Nuff respect to D. L. Hugely.. ☀️🤩👍🏾
Yesss she is indeed triffling.Thats what i keep saying...we black call out every other race on their racism or problems but we loss voice for our own.Many blk wm are sneaky AF and blk mn love being sperm doners.The complete family isnt important to us.And guess what,someone is gonna blame the white man and slavery 400+ yrs ago for that.Its like we cant evolve.
Wow.... his mom had him painted a picture of his dad that was never a true picture and his dad passed and he just.... man I just feel so sorry for this man Jesus man
I lost my mom to cancer January 21st. She was my rock my entire life. I know exactly what he means when he says you have this idea of you parent and then to see them sick, weak etc...really fucks you up. I took care of her every day for 4 1/2 years, but the end felt like it came so fast and she was just so frail all of a sudden. It's an extremely difficult thing to witness. I hope he doesn't hold on to that part too much anymore.
God Bless you, I lost my Dad January 26th. Cancer. When they are on the way out, it is their Final Lesson for Us. I feel like DL’s Mother robbed him of just *making sure the Dad got to see DL from young* what I got out of this interview is that by the time DL was older his heart was closed off.
I know exactly how DL feels. The man that raised me was not the man that made me, I knew that and it didn’t matter. When the one that made me passed, his family wanted to include me but he was a stranger to me and I declined. I explained to them that I didn’t know him like they did and those personal, funeral decisions should be made by the people that knew him.
My son's little brother isn't mine, his dad split soon as his mom got pregnant, and I've been in his life since he was 2 cuz when I went to pick up my son he would be there. I spent lots of time with them during Covid cuz his mom wasn't trying to let my boy go across town and get sick. Even though I'm the only dad he knows I still find it hard to tell him I love him. I want to but something is stopping me. He's a good kid I really don't know what's stopping me cuz I do care for him
I had something similar happen to me and now this makes me feel less alone. I found out in my 30s and I'm still fucked up because I don't know my real father even though I know him. We missed so much of each other's lives because of my mom.
Be better and make sure not to build a relationship with a woman like your mother. It's weird but dysfunctional mothers breed sons that become drawn to women that are every bit as dysfunctional, which is how history always end up repeating itself.
Having your father in your life as a boy or girl is very important to becoming a well rounded productive individual in society for majority of people. Crazy how some men will be a stepfather but not a “real” father to their own kids especially in the black communities. Sad.
It’s not just in the black community. Don’t buy into the narrative. I used to believe that crap until I moved into a mostly white neighborhood and learned whytes also have absentee fathers….you just never hear about it. The system is working as intended. But not only absent but they frequently engage in incest. One of the whyte families that I know totally practices sick shit. The dad married his son’s ex-wife and had a kid with her even though his son had a kid with her as well. So the notion that ONLY black dads are not present is to perpetuate the negative stigma and demonize black families. I don’t condone single-parent homes but just wanted to clarify that it isn’t in black communities only like we were sold on.
@@micahscale7413 nah that is crazy and guess what other women don’t hold women like that accountable but swear men never hold men accountable! If men have to do that to other men than women need to hold mothers who keep fathers away or make it difficult for the father n child to have a relationship accountable cuz it damages the child. Women are basically okay with damaging their children and sabotaging the relationship.
I understand what he was saying but that was and can still be a transcendent moment. It's OK to be weak. We must learn to witness one another in our most vulnerable moments and honor ourselves and one another.
It never ceases to amaze me how messy the average woman can be. At least his mother seemed to pick a solid stepfather to help minimize the mental scarring on D.L.
@@dirtygully9938 The messy part was maintaining her own relationship with the man while withholding the truth from her son. Then having the audacity to call him to share in her mourning about a man he never had a relationship with due to her deception. Quite messy.
Your father is the man who was there and reared you, fed you, clothed you, and there for your other needs as a child. That can be a whole different person than who biologically made you. Both are "real", one was there. The one who gave birth to him really betrayed him. How tragic.
@@sagacious4559 No, illogical mindless, he was your father if he was the one that reared you. Your narrow view of what a father is, is, well, mind boggling. But, I would not expect you to understand that.
He said he wasn't given the right information. That he thought his biological father had done something terrible to his mom causing her to leave. It wasn't until that man died that DL found out his mom was cool with his biological father and had kept in touch for years.
"It takes a strong man to take on the woman who's pregnant with another man's child" - DJ Vlad, 2022 Obviously we have two very definitions of the word "strong".
You’re right in a sense but it he found a bad bitch that was pregnant and ain’t wanna let her go me personally I would just smash and give somebody jit a concussion 🤕 and keep it moving
Man, how crazy. My pops was never there for me as a kid. I’ve since reconciled with him after 20 years. There is weird feelings now that I’m the one taking him to the doctors. Keep in mind there is a language barrier too. Not cool.
I love this guy. I have a similar story as well, but just the authenticity this guy brings along with his exceptional humor is off the charts. Darryl Lynn Hughley is my favorite comedian and one of my favorite human beings on the earth.
Definitely one of my faves. He lost me some with his unrelenting support or Hillary in the primaries, but I get that he was just protecting his assets.
@@cmbsoldja what assets. He did it for a check he’s a paid shill you n.. are this stupid. He’s leading you to slaughter and you don’t understand that. He’s a paid comedian / actor. You get political advice from a high school dropout. We are doomed. Make it make sense.
I can understand why Hughley listened to his wife and kids, but sometimes you need another man's perspective. Most men don't want you to see them in a moment of weakness and/or dying. No matter how many other memories you have, the last one is always one of the strongest. That's a hard conversation, but its' one they should have had before it came to that point. Pay attention to what some of the stuff TK is trying to put out there about insurance and stuff. Paying for funerals, how you want to be buried are all conversations you need to have with your folks before they die. Your significant other or whomever has that spot in your life as well. I've seen people fight over stuff after the person is gone. Even with a will involved. Still do the will, but if you have heirlooms and things like that. Give it to the person now if you can. On a different note, I have to give a shout out to Corey Holcomb. People get made but this is the kind of stuff he talks about and it's based on real life. I don't know Hughley's mother and I'm not judging her, but her actions speak volumes. She picked a better prospect to help her raise her child, but maintained a relationship with the real daddy? Not saying it was sexual, but what else did he get out of it? What did she get out of it? You can't ignore that statement. Even his wife did? When a man kicks another man out of his house, that's it. This isn't a TV show. Damn!
The dude that supplied the DNA from his balls is only that. The dude that supplied the DNA from his balls. A dad and a father is a completely different person. Sometimes... they happen to be the same person.
@@chandlerscaringia5260 the mother should of picked better the first time rather than choose up on another man and pick him as the stepfather while talking to the original father, women have to be called out on this or the pattern will continue.
Man Felt this story because this happened to me. I found out one day during one of my Mothers Drunken days that neither my mom and Dad were my real parents and that I was adopted. This happened when I was 7 or 8 and being told so abruptly was kind of sad and shocking. When I asked my Dad if I was adopted I think his feeling were a little hurt because his answer was “Well you like it here don’t you?” Don’t get it twisted tho my dad is and was a saint and he adopted all the kids in every activity I did.
@@gizzoid93 I did already and she said by sharing painful memories i not only purge the bad feelings but I can also share with others who may have gone through the same thing.
🥹🥹Mannnnnnn, and here I go lawyered up, fighting for joint custody for my daughter I’ve haven’t seen in over a year! His step dad IS his real Dad for raising him.
D.L. almost cried discussing his step-father passing away, and his anger at being convinced to go and see him. I can tell he's fighting back tears. Sad.
Absolutely I feel U. My mother didn’t tell me who I knew as who loved me who sacrificed who raised me who put me thru private schools who gave me the best his money could buy who taught me valuable life lessons until he was deceased & I was 32 yrs old was not my biological father. I could’ve done w/o that truth. Really. I resented her telling me that after he died. I get it it all now but I really could’ve done w/o that info.
I need to rewatch the I believe...Thanksgiving 2-Parter of The Hughleys because in that series DL's character in the show's REAL FATHER was portrayed by Billy Dee Williams lol and I remember that being an emotional episode...wow, talk about inserting your real life into your craft. This is some deep stuff, but it does happen more often than you think :/
@@everythingdivine I don't know why when his Bio father is a deadbeat & a real man raised him all his life. He wasn't even mad, he told me he knew but didn't care because his father loves him & thanked me for providing a loving man, husband & father. The ignorance you have with a close mind is detrimental to the world 🌍. Now gtfo my mentions.
I learned who my bio dad was later in life and it didnt bother me. Shit happens. My dad is till this dad an alcoholic. My mom made the choice that my step dad that came into my life when i was a baby would be my dad and no one told me until i was way older. My step dad is my dad. He has always been there for me.
The idea of your father will sustain you more than the reality of him....I think most fathers can relate to this..my daughter loves me! She thinks the world of me. She thinks I'm just a big tank of a man, that can never be hurt or defeated. Just a solid rock. But truth is..if she knew who I really was on the inside, or who I am when she's not around I'm sure she wouldn't feel the same. Just some self reflection of myself.
I’m sorry that DL didn’t listen to his biological father’s side of the story. He seemed to have learned that with his own outside child. A deserves to tell his side of the story and then you make an informed decision as to who and what you believe.
Man, there were A LOT of issues going on. I wonder if he got the truth of why his mother left and why she never let him know that she had kept in touch with his biological father. Sounds shady.........
As a young person, if you're growing up with split up parents and you ain't old enough to remember the break up, you need to know that parents will cheerfully and blatantly LIE to their child to keep them on side. My mama slandered my father every way possible to keep me from loving him. Then told me after he died,"Oh he didn't beat me and assault me and do drugs like I told you over and over ...he was just always going to be poor". Dig a little. You don't want this pain and regret as an adult.
I don't remember ever meeting my biological father. But I do not hold anything against him because I don't know what happened before I was born. It could be that he might have been a good man & I never would have known it
You would rather believe that your Mom who stayed with you ain't shit? If your Dad was good, you would know him. Good men don't abandon their children. You ungrateful bastards amaze me. Shame on you.
@@fashionlife5348 why wouldn't I wouldn't want to know him? I'm not bitter. You heard dl. You're told 1 thing bur come to find out, the whole time they've always tried to be there & wasn't allowed to be there or you was forced to move away with your mother where he couldn't find you on something unnecessarily bitter shyt. Sometimes it's always better to find out why wasn't they around.
@@xavierwilliams4119 sometimes you gotta be careful what you wish for, I seen my cousin go through the same and turns out that dad was a deadbeat with hella kids of his own, from what he told me the guy just didn't really want more kids to deal with (fucking crazy ik). he bounce back, but I can tell he was super bitter at that nigga. hopefully it was for a more honorable reason for your case, but there are selfish, irresponsible men in every era.
Some? Alot of women do this ishh. Women do some trifling stuff...my mom named my brother after her college sweet heart who she didn't marry. She openly said this to us like it was normal after our dad passed away. Like that's some nasty stuff if you think about it for a second.
I had the same exact situation as DL And I too wish no one would have never told me… I would have been just fine with not knowing at all! It brought to much bs when I found out My maternal grama and aunty dropped the info on me as a preteen. It f@cked me up. And my parents were pissed! Then at 18 My maternal grama & maternal aunty pushed and pushed that I “owed the bio dude” that much And now I can definitely tell you I didn’t owe that man jack shit! My daddy (the man who raised me from birth) has been and always will be my daddy! Im 50 yrs old and blessed to still have him. Glad your right… it takes a special REAL man to raise another man’s child as his own.
I’m struggling to understand why do black men carry resentment towards the fathers and not the mothers? 🤔 It’s the mother that knew and kept the secret whole time. A lot of times these biological fathers have no clue. Now his father comes into his life and is cool with his grandkids and he wants to get mad and hold resentment to this man who could’ve very well of been a victim just like him. It’s really confusing to me. Smh 🤦🏾♂️
Because the mother is the only parent/power figure in the house. She can manipulate the children before they can even speak. So by the time they can speak, all they know is what their mother says. And when they get old enough to realize the fuckery that took place, it’s too late & they already have this deep infatuation with their mothers love. It’s terrible
Crazy how a lot of us got the same story it don’t do nothing but mess up the child especially if you hide it from them when ever I have kids ima make sure they never go through what I been thru 💯
I was lead to believe a man was my father... Non family member told me, he wasn't. it hurts bad. But it hurts worse knowing my so called family lied to me my whole life.
My mother lied into making me believe my stepfather was my real dad just because she was spiteful towards her BD. All it did was scar me and lead me to not trust her bullshit again 🙌🏾 black women gotta do better when raising kings smh
I always tell ppl to forgive their absent parents, I know it’s fucked up to neglect your kids but ppl aren’t perfect & a lot of times we don’t know the whole story but u only get 2 parents in life, it’s only 2 ppl responsible for u being here & it’s best to establish a good of a relationship as possible cause SO many ppl wished they’d of forgave their mother/father before they passed
I love how vladd has people telling stories like this that have BIG meaning behind the surface. When he said his mom kept in contact with him the whole time and his wife, it confirmed my suspicions.
You know what the more I think about it the more ticked off i get: SHE WATCHED THEM HAVE A WEDGE UNTIL THE DEATH FROM SOMETHING SHE HELPED CREATE BUT SHE KEPT A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM ON THE SIDE - BUT NEVER BROUGHT DL IN IT - EVEN UNTIL THE DAY HE DIED!!!! SHE TELLS DL THIS - AFTER HE IS DEAD!!!!!!!! THATS NOT RIGHT MAN!!!!!!
Salute my brother DL I'm glad you shared that part of your life touched me like m***erf***er word... father are alot more important than society will tell
He told part of this story during one of older stand up routines. He said he invited his biological father over one day. Then afterwards told he didn’t want to see him again
I have exact same story as DL. Exact same. Never listen to a spouse or ur mom or family when it comes to who ur dad is. Genealogists say something like 60 percent of family stories are incorrect. It's cause people always want to save face and preserve the family image. And spouses, etc think they have best interests in mind they don't. If u deal with DNA, do it alone. Don't share with nobody.
Wait… No offense Bruh but it don’t happen that fast. Your Mom was with 2 dudes at the same time. “She had a different relationship with him than she told me”. Thats why his mom kept in touch with the other man all this time. And your wife recognizes the game your mom was playing. That’s why she got involved. DL didnt come clean on this one And yet DL also had a baby by another woman and went thru that same crap. DL doesn’t have the relationship with his other child the same a Kanye does not have the relationship with his children the same way MILLIONS of men dont have the relationship they want with their children =because of the games WOMEN play with their children and their baby daddies.
He's hurt. The women in his life have their own secrets and hidden agendas. All while he's financially supporting BOTH of them. As an adult, he realizes that his mother was unfaithful to his father before, during, and after her marriage. She lied to him his entire life. He tried so hard not to call them both the b-word. BOTH of them deserve it.
To each their own but I don't understand why a man would get into a relationship with a woman pregnant by another man. The other guy had all the fun and now you're picking up the pieces.
@@fashionlife5348 He died suddenly from a heart attack. I never visited the morgue, I never looked at him at the funeral nor at the final call at the grave site. I remember my uncle and friends in that state and it never made me feel any better. The women were hysterical saying, "You'll never see him again" but I chose to remember my father as the pillar he was in life. Never regretted it.
I Can Relate To The Messaging About Following Your Own Mind and Thoughts To Navigate Rather Than Being Influenced By Those You Love or Word Hold Weight. Gives You A Different Portal to How We May Need To Take or Process Advice.
My mother did the same to me only it was my Grandfather,, I was young but I was no dummy as I told her, I don't know what you talking about, but the man that loved and cared for me since birth, took me everywhere, taught me important lessons in life, and made sure I was never spanked, was my Grandfather and will always be my only Grandfather, and I am happy she told me so I could Thank my Grandmother from moving on to someone else who stepped in and raised my Mother and Uncle, and provided for his family until the day he died, much respect for my Grandmother for making a better choice for her family, for my siblings and cousins were completely loved by our Grandfather unconditionally
This actually happened to me when I was around 38 years old. Insane. I guess everyone fantasizes about finding out someone adopted you then when you find out that it actually happened to you it's a very weird feeling
@@kevindube7096 Yeah, it’s kind of like the idea of having a background story you never knew about. I think most of us often wonder the paternity or even maternity of our parents.
My dad was having a heart attack my sister and step mom called me to come to The house the medics had just arrived I was about 20 min away... Then my car started to overheat I stopped waited for it to cool down then drove again. Only for it to overheat again. I never made it to the house where my dad passed! We were very close and I had just seen him a day or two prior. And I'm thankful that him alive is my last memory especially after my family describing the scene that night and how the medics tried to save him. I truly don't think I was supposed to make it there to see him that way. I believe that was the reason my car broke down. Because after that day it was fine. I completely agree with D.L. in this situation.
The same thing happened with his character on The Hugleys . He finds out his father is really his stepfather and he is mad about it then he meets his biological father . That's life iminating art.
🤔 yet why didn't DL give his biological father the same chance to explain his self, and what happened between him and his mother. It's kind of obvious that his mother was most likely dealing with his stepfather before she even left his biological father. Know the fullness of a matter and then judge it from a better informed perspective.
Listen….”the idea of your father will sustain you more than the reality of him” these words broke my heart because it’s so true. Sometimes it better to imagine who you think he is than to deal with the real him. Life is complicated.
I can agree and relate 100% I never knew my dad until I was 19. I built him up to be like D.L Said a “mythical,” creature. When I met him he was sickly and mentally ill. Everything he has been through in life you could it all over him. And it broke my heart completely. He never understood why I didn’t come around to see him a lot, and I didn’t have the heart to tell him. R.I.P daddy, I miss you.
True. Both my biological parents were not capable of being emotional present in my life. Intergenerational
Trauma. And yes i agree with DL
I remember when I thought my father was Superman.
It’s sooo true
The father in your imagination will not be the man you meet in real life. At all.
My mom keeps pics of my dad in the final years. I don’t. I keep pics of him as I knew him and on one hand I’d want my boys to remember me before the end like DL says. But on the other hand seeing my strong father come to his end taught me that I will have to go this way eventually and to embrace and appreciate the days you have. Not sure I’d want to deny my sons that final lesson.
Scandalous old women I tell you. Bitter mad and project it to their sons because they mad. Smh
Very powerful take.....i couldn't agree more
Powerful
My father stayed taught me the lessons that took me thru life...my mother and him have been married for 50+ years
I be sitting thinking my dad was right about 98% of the things he told me.Mannn
We’re 2 of the same, it’s a blessing to watch your parents grow old together.. Shout out to my OGs 🙏
That’s what’s up brother ✊🏾
Damn this was a sad segment ! NEVER let your children feel as if you don't care about them. Because it's a curse that may last a lifetime or even LONGER if the pain/abandonment gets passed to the next generation.!!
Spread love...Detroit here, Peace
This was hard
So true!!
Now the real conversation in regards to estranged fathers is starting to happen and you realize mama wasn’t always the most honest
My granny wasn't I found out in my 20s my grandfather is not my grandfather thru his sister whom never liked my granny told me with some sort of sadistic joy I quietly walked out crying inside humiliated I asked my mom sister she of course knew n could careless I was hurting mother's grandmother's need to start telling the truth n stop playing judge n jury
From my own lived experience at almost 62 if we have unresolved trauma we tend to react in ways that we did as children and adolescent
Intergenerational trauma
@@feralLove sounds like a bunch of bullsh*t to not be accountable for your bad decisions
Right. His young mom left his dad while she was pregnant cause she wanted to be with someone else. Then the someone else assumed the role of his father because he wanted her too. Robbed this man of actually knowing who his biological father is. His biological father probably didn't even know she was pregnant and when he found out she said "nah it's not your baby, its my new boyfriends". Momma was young. Made a bad decision.
WE SEE THIS ON THE MAURY SHOW ALL THE TIME!!!
Question, what’s stopping these men from going to the courts to demand that they be in their children’s life? What’s stopping them from reaching out to their children and setting the record straight?
That’s a wild story and shame on his mom for putting him through that trauma. She could’ve been honest and let him decide whether or not to have a relationship with him.
Exactly. But he is so weak, he some how blames his father. Smh.
@@mfit7110 not weak, but respectful of his mother
@@nlytend1 she doesn’t deserve respect if his father doesn’t. She was a liar.
@@mfit7110 That’s very easy to say when it’s not your mother wtf 🥴
@@_Tennille I have a sister who lied to our family, her son, and her then boyfriend that she lived with about who her sons father was. And she is a piece of trash too.
By listening to DL Hughley's rants about his relationships with his biological father and his step father is a true testament to always follow your first instincts regarding how you deal with what you know to be the truth and how you handle a dead beat father also never let the emotions of women guide your decisions.
Respectfully bro, she may NOT have even told DL real dad that he was his son. I mean it sounds like the same shit that go on today. Chick sleepin with 2 different dudes and all of a sudden become pregnant! They'll choose the one they want it to be for whatever reason.
@@rickimhotep1236 We as men must stop making excuses for bad behavior and bad decisions from our women whether it is a girlfriend, wife, sister or mother it is because of their lack of making sound judgements is the reasons why there is so much dysfunction in our communities. Just for the reason you stated, she may have not known who the real father was, that statement alone should be an indicator of a bad choice she made because women should never be having sex with 2 different men at the same time and not be using some form of birth control, when you made that account she may not have known who the real father was because she may have wanted his step father to be his dad well, that wasn't her call to make, she should've gotten a DNA test done as soon as DL got to a certain age, you see this is a testament of how you have normalized bad decision made by some of our women, that we have been over looking for years, also at some point during DL's formidable years his mom should've sat DL down and explained to him whom his real father was, remember DL said that his family betrayed him upon meeting his biological father because they were happy to see another man that looked just like him so, if his family saw the resemblance you don't think DL's mother saw the same thing many years before his family made the same account, again bad judgment by his mother never allowing DL to have a real relationship with his biological father because she wanted his step father to be his dad, what a selfish mother to keep them apart for all those many years when he could have very well had a very good relationship with his biological father before he passed away if it were not for the bad choice that his mother made also, remember DL said his mom had been keeping up with his biological father's whereabouts for years but she was selling DL on him being a deadbeat dad. So in essence DL's mother ruined the relationships between DL and his biological father and DL's family because I'm sure DL's biological father would've loved having a relationship with his grandchildren and them with their grandfather.
Cuz these Chicks Will Surely LIE Smh! Like my mom Did!
@@carlosgreen3551 FACTS! lmao I'm Like DAMN, Hold The Female ACCOUNTABLE Sheesh
@@rickimhotep1236 lmao the Mane LITERALLY Just Said His Mom Had A Different Relationship With The Biological Father and Had Lied To Him! Lmao CLEARLY She Told him that was his Son.
Peace, yes D. L. Hugely was so right!! We have an idealized picture of our parents. They are giants in our eyes. When we age our version of them changes. We see them as actual human beings with failings, limitations etc. Nuff respect to D. L. Hugely.. ☀️🤩👍🏾
Facts! I think about that day when they won’t be here anymore and if given the option would I want to see them on there “death bed”.
Is it just me or is Dl's mom trifling for keeping in touch with his biological Dad who did nothing for him whilst another man is raising her child.
Nope it’s messed up, 1/4 of all men are fathers to children who didn’t biologically have with thier significant other. Women are trifling are sneaky.
Yesss she is indeed triffling.Thats what i keep saying...we black call out every other race on their racism or problems but we loss voice for our own.Many blk wm are sneaky AF and blk mn love being sperm doners.The complete family isnt important to us.And guess what,someone is gonna blame the white man and slavery 400+ yrs ago for that.Its like we cant evolve.
That's foul as fuck.
@@daryllndemmayah4874 unfortunately you have no factual evidence to prove that
totally trifling!
This was a deep compassionate interview but funny 😁 😂 😆 as hell.
right
Great comment 👍
Glad talk too damn much
You can tell DL is a deep a thinker as any but he knows how to take the edge off every moment with comedy, that something I wish we all had
Wow.... his mom had him painted a picture of his dad that was never a true picture and his dad passed and he just.... man I just feel so sorry for this man Jesus man
I lost my mom to cancer January 21st. She was my rock my entire life. I know exactly what he means when he says you have this idea of you parent and then to see them sick, weak etc...really fucks you up. I took care of her every day for 4 1/2 years, but the end felt like it came so fast and she was just so frail all of a sudden. It's an extremely difficult thing to witness. I hope he doesn't hold on to that part too much anymore.
God Bless you, I lost my Dad January 26th. Cancer.
When they are on the way out, it is their Final Lesson for Us. I feel like DL’s Mother robbed him of just *making sure the Dad got to see DL from young* what I got out of this interview is that by the time DL was older his heart was closed off.
I know exactly how DL feels. The man that raised me was not the man that made me, I knew that and it didn’t matter. When the one that made me passed, his family wanted to include me but he was a stranger to me and I declined. I explained to them that I didn’t know him like they did and those personal, funeral decisions should be made by the people that knew him.
My son's little brother isn't mine, his dad split soon as his mom got pregnant, and I've been in his life since he was 2 cuz when I went to pick up my son he would be there. I spent lots of time with them during Covid cuz his mom wasn't trying to let my boy go across town and get sick. Even though I'm the only dad he knows I still find it hard to tell him I love him. I want to but something is stopping me. He's a good kid I really don't know what's stopping me cuz I do care for him
@@JoseMartinez-bh1ng Be his friend. Not his go along with whatever he wants friend, but his friend just the same.
This man has had a hell of a life
A lot of pain in comedy.
I learned the true story about my bio dad at the age of 55. It is super important to tell kids the truth. My heart goes out to you DL!
Only reality and truth teaches you the lessons you need to sustain in life ✊🏿💯
I had something similar happen to me and now this makes me feel less alone. I found out in my 30s and I'm still fucked up because I don't know my real father even though I know him. We missed so much of each other's lives because of my mom.
Be better and make sure not to build a relationship with a woman like your mother. It's weird but dysfunctional mothers breed sons that become drawn to women that are every bit as dysfunctional, which is how history always end up repeating itself.
You took the thoughts out my head wow 😯 we not alone 😡😢😔
Sorry , never meant for this to happen
Going thru sumn simliar but i got crossed out … i hope my son dont hate me when hes my age cause i tried
Its not your real father your real father is the man that raised u
Having your father in your life as a boy or girl is very important to becoming a well rounded productive individual in society for majority of people. Crazy how some men will be a stepfather but not a “real” father to their own kids especially in the black communities. Sad.
It’s not just in the black community. Don’t buy into the narrative. I used to believe that crap until I moved into a mostly white neighborhood and learned whytes also have absentee fathers….you just never hear about it. The system is working as intended. But not only absent but they frequently engage in incest. One of the whyte families that I know totally practices sick shit. The dad married his son’s ex-wife and had a kid with her even though his son had a kid with her as well. So the notion that ONLY black dads are not present is to perpetuate the negative stigma and demonize black families. I don’t condone single-parent homes but just wanted to clarify that it isn’t in black communities only like we were sold on.
crazy how black women keep children away from their fathers. SMH.
@@micahscale7413 nah that is crazy and guess what other women don’t hold women like that accountable but swear men never hold men accountable! If men have to do that to other men than women need to hold mothers who keep fathers away or make it difficult for the father n child to have a relationship accountable cuz it damages the child. Women are basically okay with damaging their children and sabotaging the relationship.
“These fucking sellouts”…it be your own ppl💀😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I understand what he was saying but that was and can still be a transcendent moment. It's OK to be weak. We must learn to witness one another in our most vulnerable moments and honor ourselves and one another.
When he said, "my fucking wife." I felt that.... Deeply🤣😂
jeremiah , he loves her
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It never ceases to amaze me how messy the average woman can be. At least his mother seemed to pick a solid stepfather to help minimize the mental scarring on D.L.
Average woman? How long how you lived?
This doesnt mean she was being messy his father might of been a piece of s***
@@dirtygully9938 The messy part was maintaining her own relationship with the man while withholding the truth from her son. Then having the audacity to call him to share in her mourning about a man he never had a relationship with due to her deception. Quite messy.
@@dirtygully9938 selfish and messy... u dont see it cuz u probably the same way
@@dirtygully9938 Shes still messy because she had unprotected sex with him if he was like that, either way it falls back on her.
Your father is the man who was there and reared you, fed you, clothed you, and there for your other needs as a child. That can be a whole different person than who biologically made you. Both are "real", one was there. The one who gave birth to him really betrayed him. How tragic.
You speaking from your own insecurities my stepfather raised me but he is not my father
@@sagacious4559 No, illogical mindless, he was your father if he was the one that reared you. Your narrow view of what a father is, is, well, mind boggling. But, I would not expect you to understand that.
@@sagacious4559 not insecure. I swear all of yall want a story..the man raised you and fed you...that's your daddy.
Your are glorifying simps. Necessity is not a virtue.
Did you listen to the story at all?
Wow. The mother chose to sleep around with more than one man. But when your ACTUAL father comes, you kick him out 😢
That's how damaged mentally these guys are. They will forgive their ratchet mom but not the father they were taking away from
@@DB-ws2lp facts it’s the women in the community that’s the problem
He said he wasn't given the right information. That he thought his biological father had done something terrible to his mom causing her to leave. It wasn't until that man died that DL found out his mom was cool with his biological father and had kept in touch for years.
Yea his mom kept "in touch". This explains all the simp logic he been spitn all these years🤷♂️
Can we as a community stop blaming each other. Divide and conquer is the easiest way to ruin a community.
Hughley one of the greatest of all time this guy a Legend for real
Please don't make me laugh and thanks to Kanye he getting unwanted attention.
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"It takes a strong man to take on the woman who's pregnant with another man's child" - DJ Vlad, 2022
Obviously we have two very definitions of the word "strong".
Lol love DL but I can barely stand Vlad
You’re right in a sense but it he found a bad bitch that was pregnant and ain’t wanna let her go me personally I would just smash and give somebody jit a concussion 🤕 and keep it moving
@@swiggarebel 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣……DAMN!!!!
Man, how crazy. My pops was never there for me as a kid. I’ve since reconciled with him after 20 years. There is weird feelings now that I’m the one taking him to the doctors. Keep in mind there is a language barrier too. Not cool.
I love this guy. I have a similar story as well, but just the authenticity this guy brings along with his exceptional humor is off the charts. Darryl Lynn Hughley is my favorite comedian and one of my favorite human beings on the earth.
Definitely one of my faves. He lost me some with his unrelenting support or Hillary in the primaries, but I get that he was just protecting his assets.
@@cmbsoldja protecting his assets? Bro, look what the alternative was. The damage that orange buffoon did to the United States is irreparable.
@@cmbsoldja what assets. He did it for a check he’s a paid shill you n.. are this stupid. He’s leading you to slaughter and you don’t understand that. He’s a paid comedian / actor. You get political advice from a high school dropout. We are doomed. Make it make sense.
I found out through 23andMe but always had suspicions because my parents were so old. Really appreciate DL sharing
@@mauricioh7376 *Primaries
I can understand why Hughley listened to his wife and kids, but sometimes you need another man's perspective. Most men don't want you to see them in a moment of weakness and/or dying. No matter how many other memories you have, the last one is always one of the strongest. That's a hard conversation, but its' one they should have had before it came to that point. Pay attention to what some of the stuff TK is trying to put out there about insurance and stuff. Paying for funerals, how you want to be buried are all conversations you need to have with your folks before they die. Your significant other or whomever has that spot in your life as well. I've seen people fight over stuff after the person is gone. Even with a will involved. Still do the will, but if you have heirlooms and things like that. Give it to the person now if you can. On a different note, I have to give a shout out to Corey Holcomb. People get made but this is the kind of stuff he talks about and it's based on real life. I don't know Hughley's mother and I'm not judging her, but her actions speak volumes. She picked a better prospect to help her raise her child, but maintained a relationship with the real daddy? Not saying it was sexual, but what else did he get out of it? What did she get out of it? You can't ignore that statement. Even his wife did? When a man kicks another man out of his house, that's it. This isn't a TV show. Damn!
The dude that supplied the DNA from his balls is only that. The dude that supplied the DNA from his balls. A dad and a father is a completely different person. Sometimes... they happen to be the same person.
@@chandlerscaringia5260 the mother should of picked better the first time rather than choose up on another man and pick him as the stepfather while talking to the original father, women have to be called out on this or the pattern will continue.
All real spill 💯
@@deanbrooks7297 agreed
@@deanbrooks7297 We all make mistakes
Man Felt this story because this happened to me. I found out one day during one of my Mothers Drunken days that neither my mom and Dad were my real parents and that I was adopted. This happened when I was 7 or 8 and being told so abruptly was kind of sad and shocking. When I asked my Dad if I was adopted I think his feeling were a little hurt because his answer was “Well you like it here don’t you?” Don’t get it twisted tho my dad is and was a saint and he adopted all the kids in every activity I did.
U gonna cry 😂😂😂😂
@@gizzoid93 I don’t wait for asking, I do.
@@gizzoid93 I did already and she said by sharing painful memories i not only purge the bad feelings but I can also share with others who may have gone through the same thing.
Dads are the best ..
Moms are bitter and crazy
@@gizzoid93 You want to be edgy so bad
This was funny as hell. Calling his kids "sellouts". 🤣
😂😂😂😂 lol
Yes! LMAOOOOO 😂
Have you seen him talk about his son having Autism? Had me hollering and SMDH.
@@shondarenee3186 I saw it on a Netflix special of his years ago 🤣 Hell, I saw him live and he was still ripping his son. I was like daaaamn.
@@chinoejio As a mom with kids on the Autism spectrum it left my mouth on the floor but was so hilarious.
@@shondarenee3186 lmao...wait I think his son specifically has aspergers. I hear you tho. If his son ain't kill him, neither should we.
🥹🥹Mannnnnnn, and here I go lawyered up, fighting for joint custody for my daughter I’ve haven’t seen in over a year! His step dad IS his real Dad for raising him.
D.L. almost cried discussing his step-father passing away, and his anger at being convinced to go and see him. I can tell he's fighting back tears. Sad.
Absolutely I feel U. My mother didn’t tell me who I knew as who loved me who sacrificed who raised me who put me thru private schools who gave me the best his money could buy who taught me valuable life lessons until he was deceased & I was 32 yrs old was not my biological father. I could’ve done w/o that truth. Really. I resented her telling me that after he died. I get it it all now but I really could’ve done w/o that info.
I need to rewatch the I believe...Thanksgiving 2-Parter of The Hughleys because in that series DL's character in the show's REAL FATHER was portrayed by Billy Dee Williams lol and I remember that being an emotional episode...wow, talk about inserting your real life into your craft. This is some deep stuff, but it does happen more often than you think :/
will watch this or look online for it
What a Dad to have.
Yes I remember this episode
I appreciate the honesty about a tough situation.
thats a heart breaking story! wow!!! but i am glad he was able to over come that
Wish my father was still alive...we had great relationship 😢
I told my son that his real father is not his father too. Met him when I was 6 months pregnant and still with him to this day.
Horrible smh
@@everythingdivine I don't know why when his Bio father is a deadbeat & a real man raised him all his life. He wasn't even mad, he told me he knew but didn't care because his father loves him & thanked me for providing a loving man, husband & father.
The ignorance you have with a close mind is detrimental to the world 🌍. Now gtfo my mentions.
Why is this horrible, sounds like she has a good husband and father for her child
@@gloriabowie2453 I do and he's the best 🌟 Thank You.
I learned who my bio dad was later in life and it didnt bother me. Shit happens. My dad is till this dad an alcoholic. My mom made the choice that my step dad that came into my life when i was a baby would be my dad and no one told me until i was way older. My step dad is my dad. He has always been there for me.
The idea of your father will sustain you more than the reality of him....I think most fathers can relate to this..my daughter loves me! She thinks the world of me. She thinks I'm just a big tank of a man, that can never be hurt or defeated. Just a solid rock. But truth is..if she knew who I really was on the inside, or who I am when she's not around I'm sure she wouldn't feel the same. Just some self reflection of myself.
I’m sorry that DL didn’t listen to his biological father’s side of the story. He seemed to have learned that with his own outside child. A deserves to tell his side of the story and then you make an informed decision as to who and what you believe.
Man, there were A LOT of issues going on. I wonder if he got the truth of why his mother left and why she never let him know that she had kept in touch with his biological father. Sounds shady.........
Because black females are unruly and rebellious
As a young person, if you're growing up with split up parents and you ain't old enough to remember the break up, you need to know that parents will cheerfully and blatantly LIE to their child to keep them on side.
My mama slandered my father every way possible to keep me from loving him.
Then told me after he died,"Oh he didn't beat me and assault me and do drugs like I told you over and over ...he was just always going to be poor".
Dig a little.
You don't want this pain and regret as an adult.
I don't remember ever meeting my biological father. But I do not hold anything against him because I don't know what happened before I was born. It could be that he might have been a good man & I never would have known it
You would rather believe that your Mom who stayed with you ain't shit? If your Dad was good, you would know him. Good men don't abandon their children. You ungrateful bastards amaze me. Shame on you.
Why would u want to know him i am asking just out of curiosity
@@fashionlife5348 why wouldn't I wouldn't want to know him? I'm not bitter. You heard dl. You're told 1 thing bur come to find out, the whole time they've always tried to be there & wasn't allowed to be there or you was forced to move away with your mother where he couldn't find you on something unnecessarily bitter shyt. Sometimes it's always better to find out why wasn't they around.
@@xavierwilliams4119 sometimes you gotta be careful what you wish for, I seen my cousin go through the same and turns out that dad was a deadbeat with hella kids of his own, from what he told me the guy just didn't really want more kids to deal with (fucking crazy ik). he bounce back, but I can tell he was super bitter at that nigga. hopefully it was for a more honorable reason for your case, but there are selfish, irresponsible men in every era.
@@nilesstevenson734 I still want to know
Its messed up how some women can get away with doing things like that
ALL THE DAMN TIME TOO!
Some? Alot of women do this ishh. Women do some trifling stuff...my mom named my brother after her college sweet heart who she didn't marry. She openly said this to us like it was normal after our dad passed away. Like that's some nasty stuff if you think about it for a second.
I had the same exact situation as DL
And I too wish no one would have never told me…
I would have been just fine with not knowing at all!
It brought to much bs when I found out
My maternal grama and aunty dropped the info on me as a preteen. It f@cked me up. And my parents were pissed!
Then at 18 My maternal grama & maternal aunty pushed and pushed that I “owed the bio dude” that much
And now I can definitely tell you I didn’t owe that man jack shit!
My daddy (the man who raised me from birth) has been and always will be my daddy!
Im 50 yrs old and blessed to still have him.
Glad your right… it takes a special REAL man to raise another man’s child as his own.
Im glad u are mature about it and understand that father is the man who raised u and love is universal
u dont owe him shyt? Bish, he gave u life.
@@micahscale7413 u sound like a hurt irresponsible donor
@@micahscale7413 ma'am calm down. No one owes their abuser anything..regardless of familiar connections.
Raises another man child doesn't make you a real man. Just a man like everyone else
I’m struggling to understand why do black men carry resentment towards the fathers and not the mothers? 🤔 It’s the mother that knew and kept the secret whole time. A lot of times these biological fathers have no clue. Now his father comes into his life and is cool with his grandkids and he wants to get mad and hold resentment to this man who could’ve very well of been a victim just like him. It’s really confusing to me. Smh 🤦🏾♂️
Because the mother is the only parent/power figure in the house. She can manipulate the children before they can even speak. So by the time they can speak, all they know is what their mother says. And when they get old enough to realize the fuckery that took place, it’s too late & they already have this deep infatuation with their mothers love. It’s terrible
Facts like his mom knew who his father was the whole time smh. He said she left him while she was pregnant. Step pops could probably provide more.
true. I wonder y she did this
The resentment actually goes both ways, depending on the individual.
@@lw2823 I’m sure he never asked his mother to leave when she was playing with her grandkids over this messed up thing she did. Smh 🤦🏾♂️
Crazy how a lot of us got the same story it don’t do nothing but mess up the child especially if you hide it from them when ever I have kids ima make sure they never go through what I been thru 💯
I was lead to believe a man was my father... Non family member told me, he wasn't. it hurts bad. But it hurts worse knowing my so called family lied to me my whole life.
Family politics is real. The things humans will do to clean up their image
let that go. God blessed you with another father.
@@DC45193 🤨🤨I'ma let u go
I felt him on knowing yourself enough not to listen to others. 💯
Same thing was on his sitcom The Hughleys. He was raised by his mom and step-dad. Then met his father later in the show.
My mother lied into making me believe my stepfather was my real dad just because she was spiteful towards her BD. All it did was scar me and lead me to not trust her bullshit again 🙌🏾 black women gotta do better when raising kings smh
There are no KINGS OR QUEENS JUST PEOPLE. A KING PROVIDES
" My Kid's, Phucking Sellouts were jumping all over him". LOL.
This segment is why VLADTV is so important.
I can honestly say that I have NEVER heard "DL" say anything in his interviews that I disagree with!
I always tell ppl to forgive their absent parents, I know it’s fucked up to neglect your kids but ppl aren’t perfect & a lot of times we don’t know the whole story but u only get 2 parents in life, it’s only 2 ppl responsible for u being here & it’s best to establish a good of a relationship as possible cause SO many ppl wished they’d of forgave their mother/father before they passed
I love how vladd has people telling stories like this that have BIG meaning behind the surface. When he said his mom kept in contact with him the whole time and his wife, it confirmed my suspicions.
You know what the more I think about it the more ticked off i get: SHE WATCHED THEM HAVE A WEDGE UNTIL THE DEATH FROM SOMETHING SHE HELPED CREATE BUT SHE KEPT A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM ON THE SIDE - BUT NEVER BROUGHT DL IN IT - EVEN UNTIL THE DAY HE DIED!!!! SHE TELLS DL THIS - AFTER HE IS DEAD!!!!!!!! THATS NOT RIGHT MAN!!!!!!
That's a tough situation, communication breakdowns and secrets prevent people from living their best life.
Salute my brother DL I'm glad you shared that part of your life touched me like m***erf***er word... father are alot more important than society will tell
Shoutout to all the parents that raised their kids right, gave them a great life, and happily stay together. You guys are a rare breed of great people
Just because you stay together does not mean you done it right some marriages are terrible and the children suffer
@@gloriabowie2453 Well if you actually read my comment properly I never said that I said **happily**
He told part of this story during one of older stand up routines. He said he invited his biological father over one day. Then afterwards told he didn’t want to see him again
That was fucked up of dl to do that. Should have just left the man be
This segment was deep on several different levels.
I have exact same story as DL. Exact same. Never listen to a spouse or ur mom or family when it comes to who ur dad is. Genealogists say something like 60 percent of family stories are incorrect. It's cause people always want to save face and preserve the family image. And spouses, etc think they have best interests in mind they don't. If u deal with DNA, do it alone. Don't share with nobody.
Wait… No offense Bruh but it don’t happen that fast. Your Mom was with 2 dudes at the same time. “She had a different relationship with him than she told me”. Thats why his mom kept in touch with the other man all this time. And your wife recognizes the game your mom was playing. That’s why she got involved. DL didnt come clean on this one And yet DL also had a baby by another woman and went thru that same crap. DL doesn’t have the relationship with his other child the same a Kanye does not have the relationship with his children the same way MILLIONS of men dont have the relationship they want with their children =because of the games WOMEN play with their children and their baby daddies.
He's hurt. The women in his life have their own secrets and hidden agendas. All while he's financially supporting BOTH of them. As an adult, he realizes that his mother was unfaithful to his father before, during, and after her marriage. She lied to him his entire life. He tried so hard not to call them both the b-word. BOTH of them deserve it.
The pain of not being raised by a parent is something else. No matter how old you are, that shit continues to hurt but we survive
I wish y’all would drop the whole thing already
👏🏼👏🏼. This interview was absolutely brilliant
Wow his mother is something else.
I could listen to DL all day. Smart, likeable dude.
To each their own but I don't understand why a man would get into a relationship with a woman pregnant by another man. The other guy had all the fun and now you're picking up the pieces.
Katy, there is something called fall in love. charles Hughley raised him well. you see he ain't talked bad about him .
@@PHlophe why would you be looking for love in the middle of a pregnancy to another man?
Because the other guy was a simp
Shout out to vlad tv n air pods for making a 8 hr work day interesting
I know exactly what he's talking about. I chose how I wanted to remember my father after he passed but the women around me just couldn't accept it.
What does that mean you didn’t see your father while he was ill
@@fashionlife5348 He died suddenly from a heart attack. I never visited the morgue, I never looked at him at the funeral nor at the final call at the grave site. I remember my uncle and friends in that state and it never made me feel any better. The women were hysterical saying, "You'll never see him again" but I chose to remember my father as the pillar he was in life. Never regretted it.
@@dwightpalmer9103 I thought u didn’t want to see him at the Hospital but you mean at funeral
The truth shall set you free!
Thank the almighty for Step Dad..he never gave up
I Can Relate To The Messaging About Following Your Own Mind and Thoughts To Navigate Rather Than Being Influenced By Those You Love or Word Hold Weight. Gives You A Different Portal to How We May Need To Take or Process Advice.
That was SUPER DEEP!
"My kids..F'n sellouts jumpin all over him" Lol 🤣🤣 DL crazy as hell
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My mother did the same to me only it was my Grandfather,, I was young but I was no dummy as I told her, I don't know what you talking about, but the man that loved and cared for me since birth, took me everywhere, taught me important lessons in life, and made sure I was never spanked, was my Grandfather and will always be my only Grandfather, and I am happy she told me so I could Thank my Grandmother from moving on to someone else who stepped in and raised my Mother and Uncle, and provided for his family until the day he died, much respect for my Grandmother for making a better choice for her family, for my siblings and cousins were completely loved by our Grandfather unconditionally
Yeah...a Man must always follow his own mind. Great video.
I remember they put this story as a plot for one of the episodes of The Hughleys
Same here, Billy Dee Williams played his biological father on the show.
Damn,.. that sincerity from vlad at the ending got to blue boy.
This actually happened to me when I was around 38 years old. Insane. I guess everyone fantasizes about finding out someone adopted you then when you find out that it actually happened to you it's a very weird feeling
😂 I don’t know if fantasize is the right word but I think I get what you mean, it’s a lot of us who have questioned if that’s really our parent
@@kevindube7096 Yeah, it’s kind of like the idea of having a background story you never knew about. I think most of us often wonder the paternity or even maternity of our parents.
I experienced this same thing
My dad was having a heart attack my sister and step mom called me to come to The house the medics had just arrived I was about 20 min away... Then my car started to overheat I stopped waited for it to cool down then drove again. Only for it to overheat again. I never made it to the house where my dad passed! We were very close and I had just seen him a day or two prior. And I'm thankful that him alive is my last memory especially after my family describing the scene that night and how the medics tried to save him. I truly don't think I was supposed to make it there to see him that way. I believe that was the reason my car broke down. Because after that day it was fine. I completely agree with D.L. in this situation.
The same thing happened with his character on The Hugleys . He finds out his father is really his stepfather and he is mad about it then he meets his biological father . That's life iminating art.
You have such a deep insight I enjoy listening to your perception
Nah this isn’t a “bravo bravo bravo” moment
Bravo to Mr. Charles Hughley!
I wouldn't want to know either.
So many levels and angles to this story/relationship...
He's said this before in some of his stand ups for years now. I don't how Vlad doesn't know this.
I fell d.l. on this one. when my father was sick and dying it hard to believe because your father is a super hero it most kids eyes
🤔 yet why didn't DL give his biological father the same chance to explain his self, and what happened between him and his mother. It's kind of obvious that his mother was most likely dealing with his stepfather before she even left his biological father. Know the fullness of a matter and then judge it from a better informed perspective.
i felt this interview all faxx
this is gon go viral in the sphere.
Genius comedic timing.. 1:07
This man is so articulate.
This was DEEP.
D.L Speaking Factz 💯💯💯
DL was the weak link on "Kings If Comedy "🤣😂😭😭😭😭