It would be the latter. If he has to defend that it's NOT abuse, Newsflash, it's abuse. After I saw that comment I'd honestly see if there was any way to report it to authorities. Cause if he has a woman in his life, I'm sure he abuses her.
Nah, there are some cases where "physical discipline" is required, people just aren't using it right. If you've never had a 4-year old "dying of exhaustion" because they've been asked to clean their room, you cannot fully understand how physical enforcing basic discipline can be. Teaching discipline requires more than just talk, but getting physical shouldn't mean getting angry, getting violent or causing pain. It should mean being a physical, real-life example of the behaviours you are trying to teach - supporting the exhausted kid to get their task done and following through with the things your 4-year old sees you avoid because they are exhausting.
@@kismetcaffet9862You didn't even say "oh, sometimes your child is doing something dangerous so you need to use negative conditioning for their safety" which is already bullshit. No, you choose that your example will be cleaning toys. You would cause pain to your child for something as simple and not urgent as cleaning. I beg you, keep yourself away from kids. And go to therapy.
Funny how children are also taught to keep their hands to themselves while adults apparently have no issue. All you're teaching them is that when I'm big enough I can hurt people too. Adults should keep the "keep your hands to yourself" thing very much in the front of your mind. You are a big, intimidating presence towering over a tiny child and then inflicting pain. Can you bot understand how terrifying that is? Specifically with something that's brain is still developing?
"It hurts me more than it hurts you" Which is exactly why they carried flyswatters inside their purses because they got welts on their hands from hitting their kids too hard.
@@Shuang_Shuang Spanking definitely happens in developed countries. It's the most common form of punishment in the U.S. Almost everyone I know got spanked with their dad's belt or mom's slippers as a kid.
I agree with everything else but don't body sham especially not something like that it doesn't help you make a point it just hurts your followers or people who stumbled on to this video with one AND it stigmatize it even more with a issue that is already heavily stigmatized
Those days that doesn't have any meaning towards body shaming, rather character shaming. People that feel insecure and instead of solving their own feelings/problems, just make it everyone else's. Women generaly don't care about the size, but the behaviour of a man. Men between them judge and shame based on size.
Sadly, some men do internalize their own patriarchal bullshit, and do believe that they deserve to be abused by their superiors for the sake of maintaining the all important hierarchy. If you're being abused, you can contrive a belief that it's justified, and that the abuse you inflict is justified in turn. This line of thinking should not be perpetuated.
You can’t beat someone into respect, only fear! I have never heard a more blatant admission that this man (and I use that term generously) beats his wife, ridiculous!
My father always said the first time he hits her its his fault, the second time its hers, for not burying him thr first time he did it. If a guy didn't agree, I knew he wasn't for me!
It’s never someone’s fault. Of course, leave if you can, but sometimes it’s to hard or too late. For anyone out there, never doubt your instincts, leave at the first red flag and ALWAYS tell someone.
@@NyeTide I agree it's never someone's fault. My father watched his mother be abused as he grew up. He hated him, & was determined to not be him. He also never wanted me to be in that situation. Saying that statement while dating weeding out some lemons! Seeing how a guy reacted, etc told me about the guy. It also turned one guy violent, & I got out quick. I don't blame anyone, but not getting in a long term relationship with this kind of person is best. This tip may help others.
By this person's logic they must also think that wives can hit their husbands It sounds to me like they just want to make their marriage into fight club 😅
some religious traditionalists do fully believe grown ass women should be spanked for things like disobedience and not getting everything done around the house or the kids' grades slipping. Not the fun kind.
Ill say it once and again again again until its drilled so deeply into people heads that it becomes common knowledge Corporal punishment is not effective. Actually only people from that time period of the song could say so without scientific impunity (meaning they deffo still could have been argued with) because a lot of the research on it was done in the 70s. You know how hard it is to find modern scientific study on corporal punishment as discipline in western nations? Really flocking hard. Because we learned that shit was bad DECADES (at least 5) ago. Be smart, read a book, dont hit people. Shouldnt be that tough to get.
He is talking about spanking his wife, not his kids. I think that is even less effective in a world where women have the right to own property and file for divorce.
That OP comment made me wanna meet that guy and then inevitably go to jail for 'physically diciplining' him 😂 thats most gaslightint phrase for DV i ever heard.
These are funny old songs. I like," Mr 5 by 5," he's 5 ft tall and he's 5 ft wide. "Busy doing nothing." "Che la luna"/"hey ma ma" "The bigger the figure the better I like them" "Nasty Dan" "The cat came back" So many great old funny songs😊
I get mad at my wife and kids so we settle it with a game of either smash bros or mortal kombat. All the satisfaction of physical punishment with none of the consequences or fear. (I almost always lose anyway) lol
I'm not religious, but this is usually why people justify beating their wives. Ephesians 5:22-33 ESV / 20 helpful votes Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, ...
Man I wish I could drag my yoyo around but I think I lost it a while back as a kid. Got a bigger one recently though I've never really used it nor pulled tricks with it
I was confused cause i was like "what is everyone mad about? Hes right. Spanking your kid isn't at all the same as beating them." 👁️👄👁️ Then i realized he meant physically punishing his adult partner.
Nope, they have the same rights, woman just have more equal rights now. To put it simply, imagine you're a child, and every day your mother gives you a cookie, and gives your sister 0 cookies. One day she takes ur cookie, and splits it in half. Even though you're both equal, you feel like you've lost something.
Still love the old music, at least they stuck with their wives. Most cant even stay with one guy nowdays so the music reflects it. Find it funny that the songs about women are bad but the men it's okay. It's almost as if one gender can take a joke and the other can't
Back then guys had three whole different families that never met and he told two of them that he worked as a long haul trucker or was some traveling salesman.
"Most cant even stay with one guy nowdays" Or maybe now that women can do things like open their own bank account, buy their own property, and work any job they want, men have to actually be worth keeping around to be kept around, and some men *really* struggle with that level of not-sucking. Though if you think men are better at "taking a joke," you've never made a joke that actually called out a man in public. Like little children, lots of men get violent when their widdle feelings get too ouchy, just like Jack Ass over here.
@@ariwoodshany4308 and that in no way shape or form is like the multiple baby daddy having mothers that bounce from guy to guy. At least they knew who their father was unlike most kids today being raised in divorces or by single parents aka grandparents raised them. Basically as a guy i can admit I'm trash funny how women cant though they are always strong and independent surving the best they can lmao. Accountability is something women didn't want when they wanted equality, still like to blame men.
Easy answer: don't have kids. I sincerely hope you don't have any kids because I'd feel really sorry for them. Children are a product of their environment, so if you have a child with some problems, my first guess would be it's because of you.
It’s wasn’t about parenting, it was about this person thinking husbands are allowed to “physically discipline” their wives. (If this isn’t what you were confused on, sorry Lol)
@@HunterNoceda-sg2cgno it's not. The parents can teach all they want. But it is purely up to the kid to decide. You cannot control everything about someone, and if you try they're just going to end up traumatized and retaliate even more
The perfect response xD
Physical discipline? Like an exercise routine, martial arts?
Or is that just a flowery way of saying beating your family.
It would be the latter. If he has to defend that it's NOT abuse, Newsflash, it's abuse. After I saw that comment I'd honestly see if there was any way to report it to authorities. Cause if he has a woman in his life, I'm sure he abuses her.
THATS how you should be saying “physical discipline”, not to justify beating. Well said.
My husband doesnt discipline me and I dont discipline my husband. We're equals. That comment is just bizarre.
"watch out for splinters!"
bro "physical dicipline" (aka domestic abuse) shouldnt even be used for your kids lets alone your spouse like wtf this dude should be behind bars 💀💀💀
Nah, there are some cases where "physical discipline" is required, people just aren't using it right.
If you've never had a 4-year old "dying of exhaustion" because they've been asked to clean their room, you cannot fully understand how physical enforcing basic discipline can be. Teaching discipline requires more than just talk, but getting physical shouldn't mean getting angry, getting violent or causing pain. It should mean being a physical, real-life example of the behaviours you are trying to teach - supporting the exhausted kid to get their task done and following through with the things your 4-year old sees you avoid because they are exhausting.
@@kismetcaffet9862don't hit kids, having to write an entire essay on why you should isn't making you look better
@kismetcaffet9862 you shouldnt hit people jfc i thought that was common sense
@@kismetcaffet9862You didn't even say "oh, sometimes your child is doing something dangerous so you need to use negative conditioning for their safety" which is already bullshit. No, you choose that your example will be cleaning toys. You would cause pain to your child for something as simple and not urgent as cleaning.
I beg you, keep yourself away from kids. And go to therapy.
Funny how children are also taught to keep their hands to themselves while adults apparently have no issue. All you're teaching them is that when I'm big enough I can hurt people too. Adults should keep the "keep your hands to yourself" thing very much in the front of your mind. You are a big, intimidating presence towering over a tiny child and then inflicting pain. Can you bot understand how terrifying that is? Specifically with something that's brain is still developing?
I'm literaly dying about _everything_ the crocheted red flag i- girl-
Never ever use any types of violence towards your family
This is a beautiful, elegant, articulate and brutal response. 😂
(Remind me to never piss her off, I haven't enough spare self esteem.)
Bros throwing red flags so big they’re red blankeys
A ton of people still use that same logic for why it’s ok to hit children
"It hurts me more than it hurts you" Which is exactly why they carried flyswatters inside their purses because they got welts on their hands from hitting their kids too hard.
Not really in developed countries. This is illegal in many places.
@@Shuang_Shuang …. You actually think spanking doesn’t happen in developed countries???
@@Shuang_Shuang Spanking definitely happens in developed countries. It's the most common form of punishment in the U.S. Almost everyone I know got spanked with their dad's belt or mom's slippers as a kid.
@@oll-_-llo I'm not including the US though 😬
I am loving your content
So glad your bringing light to these issues
Do muskrat love
Omg yes love this! ❤
Abusers who feel entitled to be abusers. How quaint.
😂😂❤❤
I mean he's even had his first and last name on it!? I bet he did not expect this response
For real!!
Poor Johnny 😂
I agree with everything else but don't body sham especially not something like that it doesn't help you make a point it just hurts your followers or people who stumbled on to this video with one AND it stigmatize it even more with a issue that is already heavily stigmatized
She didn't write this song and the comment definitely had sme
*sde
She's saying somebody who says this shit has small dick energy, which means they act like a little kid in a grown man's body grow up
Those days that doesn't have any meaning towards body shaming, rather character shaming. People that feel insecure and instead of solving their own feelings/problems, just make it everyone else's. Women generaly don't care about the size, but the behaviour of a man. Men between them judge and shame based on size.
@@Suntobabacomunista92You can have sde even if you're packing a frigging tree trunk. It's definitely about the attitude he has.
The red flag lol ❤😂
I can't believe it took me this comment for me to get it 😂
Thats a red flag you can see from space 😅😂😂🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
We are way past red flags, that's a squad of cop sirens. Hopefully there to arrest him for domestic abuse.
wer in glowing scalet teritory
Red blanket
is this the 1950’s because GODDAMN THATS A LOT OF RED FLAGS. he must be a communist!!! /j
I wonder if he'd oppose his boss paddling his a$$. I mean, if that's how he thinks people ought to behave. 🙄
Sadly, some men do internalize their own patriarchal bullshit, and do believe that they deserve to be abused by their superiors for the sake of maintaining the all important hierarchy. If you're being abused, you can contrive a belief that it's justified, and that the abuse you inflict is justified in turn. This line of thinking should not be perpetuated.
You can’t beat someone into respect, only fear! I have never heard a more blatant admission that this man (and I use that term generously) beats his wife, ridiculous!
Show his name so people know who to avoid. Sounds like he needs to be on a list somewhere 👀
jackdtroughton.... it wasn't covered every frame 😊
😬😬😳😳
@@jess.singswithleaves6 I just saw that it wasnt covered lol I mean she was kinda doing a favor by covering it most of the time....
My father always said the first time he hits her its his fault, the second time its hers, for not burying him thr first time he did it. If a guy didn't agree, I knew he wasn't for me!
That's a really good rule.
It takes domestic violence victims of any gender on average seven attempts to leave their abuser
It’s never someone’s fault. Of course, leave if you can, but sometimes it’s to hard or too late. For anyone out there, never doubt your instincts, leave at the first red flag and ALWAYS tell someone.
@@NyeTide I agree it's never someone's fault. My father watched his mother be abused as he grew up. He hated him, & was determined to not be him. He also never wanted me to be in that situation. Saying that statement while dating weeding out some lemons! Seeing how a guy reacted, etc told me about the guy. It also turned one guy violent, & I got out quick. I don't blame anyone, but not getting in a long term relationship with this kind of person is best. This tip may help others.
@@NyeTide is the fault of the abuser. Always.
By this person's logic they must also think that wives can hit their husbands
It sounds to me like they just want to make their marriage into fight club 😅
Fucking beautiful.
Excellent use of knitting
At first I thought this was about disciplining kids and I was still horrified but he’s talking about a grown woman ?!
Have you never heard the cultists say, "treat your wife like your oldest daughter"? Explains a lot once you do.
@@toshavilleGROSS!
some religious traditionalists do fully believe grown ass women should be spanked for things like disobedience and not getting everything done around the house or the kids' grades slipping. Not the fun kind.
@@toshaville If I'd treat my wife like my daughter I won't have kids though, right? ^^'
@@krankarvolund7771 No, that's what the cults mean.
They. Mean. That.
It's awful.
Ill say it once and again again again until its drilled so deeply into people heads that it becomes common knowledge
Corporal punishment is not effective.
Actually only people from that time period of the song could say so without scientific impunity (meaning they deffo still could have been argued with) because a lot of the research on it was done in the 70s.
You know how hard it is to find modern scientific study on corporal punishment as discipline in western nations? Really flocking hard. Because we learned that shit was bad DECADES (at least 5) ago.
Be smart, read a book, dont hit people. Shouldnt be that tough to get.
He is talking about spanking his wife, not his kids. I think that is even less effective in a world where women have the right to own property and file for divorce.
Sip dhit is one of the best names I've seen on youtube in awhile 😂
Lmfao “PhYsICaL DiScIpLiNe” is your husband your drill sergeant? 😂😂
drill Sargeants don't even hit soldiers. Either way, you should never have a home life comparable to boot camp. 😅
Who's gunna tell him most abusers aren't "doing it out of anger" as far as the abuser is aware of themselves. 😂
Physical discipline is just an excuse for abuse. You can tell because that sh!t doesn't even fly with animal training.
The red flag over the name is perfect
Some people really do be drinking the kool-aid
That OP comment made me wanna meet that guy and then inevitably go to jail for 'physically diciplining' him 😂 thats most gaslightint phrase for DV i ever heard.
To all the haters!.( im sticking to commenting on the song )
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
So why don’t the men get that “ discipline” why is it not also the woman’s right if the actions of both affect the family?
These are funny old songs. I like," Mr 5 by 5," he's 5 ft tall and he's 5 ft wide.
"Busy doing nothing."
"Che la luna"/"hey ma ma"
"The bigger the figure the better I like them"
"Nasty Dan"
"The cat came back"
So many great old funny songs😊
If its considered unacceptable to hit your pet, it shouldnt be ok to hit your family.
were people fuckin fences back then?
This response to that SDE is EPIC 😂
This is the same type of person muttering about how the world is going to hell :/
Well, someone here is definitely going to hell, my dear
I get mad at my wife and kids so we settle it with a game of either smash bros or mortal kombat. All the satisfaction of physical punishment with none of the consequences or fear. (I almost always lose anyway) lol
That’s rather wholesome actually! I wish you and your wife the best! :D!
I love this woman. We need to keep her this way forever 😂😂
Honestly, if a man have to feel that his wife needs physical discipline, he should just divorce her.
If a man feels his wife needs physical discipline, he shouldn't be around the female population at all.
Wtf...if I gotta physically fight you I don't need to be there. Ur supposed to guard my six not beat my ass
Send this person straight to jail. No passing go or collecting $200.
I dont like commenting but... Oof
Ah the red flags censoring the name are perfect but also, not earned. Uncover the name, we all just wanna talk.
THE RED FLAG JAJSJASJJA
This response is 👩🍳💋!
Can someone explain the song? I’m not good with metaphors it’s the autism lol
I'm clueless too, but nobody's explaining 😢
It's referring to his... parts 😅
The song is implying that what’s in his pants never matured and is very small
Why do I find her so attractive throughout this video? I think it's the facial expressions
If you have to write an entire paragraph justifying assaulting people then you need to be locked up
He probably doesn’t even have a wife or kids and this is why or part of the reason why. Just disgusting.
I'm thining having physical discipline in this song is a male touching his self and not too.....
Have people tried not talking like incels?
she became a commie
I'm not religious, but this is usually why people justify beating their wives.
Ephesians 5:22-33 ESV / 20 helpful votes
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, ...
Those people usually are unaware that the majority of New Testament scholars don’t believe Paul wrote Ephesians.
: )
Iconic way of responding to this bs
I have yet to experience the proper form 😮 at this point im convinced its like saying a strong man can fly.
🤣 the best possible response.
Thx for outing yourself Mr Abusive Narc 😂
The musical accompaniment is adorable! good for Johnny!
Watch out for splinters ❤❤❤😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
rip to johnny
I'm not English mother tongue... Can someone explain it to me, don't hold back, please?
That man believes husbands have the right to beat their wives
😂😂😂😂😂 perfect!
Cute song!
1974-1993
Man I wish I could drag my yoyo around but I think I lost it a while back as a kid. Got a bigger one recently though I've never really used it nor pulled tricks with it
Do... do you think the song is about a real yoyo?
@@toshaville yeah is it not?
@@dirzydoo2785 I'm pretty sure it's a euphemism for his weiner. 🙂
😂😂
Cry more
What
I was confused cause i was like "what is everyone mad about? Hes right. Spanking your kid isn't at all the same as beating them." 👁️👄👁️ Then i realized he meant physically punishing his adult partner.
So spanking your wife is wrong but not on your kids? Make it make sense
Some women are highly violent, some are abusive with their daughters.
Yeah. And she’s not denying that. But it’s not about that.
And men are infinitely more abusive and infinitely more likely to defend abuse.
Men had more rights back then... 😢
What?
Right to what? Beat their wives and kids?
Nope, they have the same rights, woman just have more equal rights now.
To put it simply, imagine you're a child, and every day your mother gives you a cookie, and gives your sister 0 cookies. One day she takes ur cookie, and splits it in half. Even though you're both equal, you feel like you've lost something.
I agree with him but your response is funny lol
Another one that belongs in a hole
Still love the old music, at least they stuck with their wives. Most cant even stay with one guy nowdays so the music reflects it. Find it funny that the songs about women are bad but the men it's okay. It's almost as if one gender can take a joke and the other can't
Just FYI, you are also giving "small Richard" energy here 😂
Back then guys had three whole different families that never met and he told two of them that he worked as a long haul trucker or was some traveling salesman.
Divorce in that day was basically a death sentence for the wife and husbands could lobotomize their wives if they found out about his mistresses.
"Most cant even stay with one guy nowdays"
Or maybe now that women can do things like open their own bank account, buy their own property, and work any job they want, men have to actually be worth keeping around to be kept around, and some men *really* struggle with that level of not-sucking. Though if you think men are better at "taking a joke," you've never made a joke that actually called out a man in public. Like little children, lots of men get violent when their widdle feelings get too ouchy, just like Jack Ass over here.
@@ariwoodshany4308 and that in no way shape or form is like the multiple baby daddy having mothers that bounce from guy to guy. At least they knew who their father was unlike most kids today being raised in divorces or by single parents aka grandparents raised them. Basically as a guy i can admit I'm trash funny how women cant though they are always strong and independent surving the best they can lmao. Accountability is something women didn't want when they wanted equality, still like to blame men.
What happens when the kid becomes so rotten because nothing is working. And you get in trouble for thier actions because your thier parent.
Easy answer: don't have kids. I sincerely hope you don't have any kids because I'd feel really sorry for them. Children are a product of their environment, so if you have a child with some problems, my first guess would be it's because of you.
It’s wasn’t about parenting, it was about this person thinking husbands are allowed to “physically discipline” their wives.
(If this isn’t what you were confused on, sorry Lol)
@@TamerlaneTunes it was thank you very much for the insite.
It is your fault as the parent for letting it get to that state PERIOD
@@HunterNoceda-sg2cgno it's not. The parents can teach all they want. But it is purely up to the kid to decide. You cannot control everything about someone, and if you try they're just going to end up traumatized and retaliate even more
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Haha "some old picket fence"