Q1 - You are right to have concerns, especially they had a past history. We as Hmong know that there are boundaries we cannot cross and from your explanations they are treading or very close to crossing that line.
Omg!! The last story is so funny!! I understand where you’re coming from. All the things girls do to impress men. Men should give us girls more credit!! It’s embarrassing but also a learning experience. We were young, dumb and naive.
Q1 Kav tsij mus raws kwv tij los khiav tawm nawb tus nus npaws kom ntxim raug tsuj heev tsis li ntawv ces koj yuav pom teeb meem ces koj ntshav yuav siab yuav qab zib ov. ces neej yuav puas tawg ntsoog os.
1st question, brother, there are boundaries you do not cross. Obviously, your wife needs to be reminded. Sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with her. Explain to her that you are aware of the history between her and her so-called brother. Best thing to do is to move your family out of that state and town back to your family. Otherwise you'll end up divorcing. Also remember everyone has a past and a history. What has happened is in the past do not hold it against. If she's innocent and not doing wrong do not be petty of it. Stop listening to other siders opinions and what you shou and shouldn't have done. Those people only wants to destroyed your joy, your happiness, creat drama. When your life falls apart they're not the one's who is gonna stand by your side and help you. Be smart and use your brains.
Poj niam qia dub ces tsis txhob yuav li txawm koj muaj nyiaj los yuav pab tsis tau yus tsev neeg thiab kwv tij neej tsa li ces koj muaj nyiaj los tsis zoo dab tsis li os
Q2. I'm glad your wife is cautious with he expenses, because it will come in handy in the future. However, we must have fun and enjoy life as we go. Below are my suggestions. Set a budget for each of you monthly. Like an allowance, so you won't overspend, and most importantly, your wife can be at ease with her expense management.
Q 1 yog koj tsis ntseeg koj tus poj niam tab sis yog tseem xav yuav nws ces kawg coj khiav mus caum kwv tij xwb los mas. Q 2. Yog tau ib poj niam los yog txiv qia dub li no lawm ces tsis tas yuav li os ua neeg nyob txawm qia dub txawm siab zoo pub tau yam puav rau luag lwm los yeej tsis ua rau yus pluag li os the more you give the more you will get son.
Hais rau tus txiv tsev muam npaws nus npaws ko hais tias kav tsij tsiv coj koj tus poj niam mus kom deb li deb tau tsam muaj ib hnub ces nkawv ua koj plawv nres.
Lol.. the last story had me laughing so hard my stomach hurts. Don't feel bad. I know grown women who stuff their boobs and it moved during dancing, lol.. I had to whisper to them to go to the bathroom, lol. It's all good. We all have done some pretty crazy things in life. Just remember to laugh at yourself and call it a day.
?1. Move away fast b4 she cheat on u. Qub dev qub siab qub neeg qub siab. Be careful check on her, u should install hidden cameras in the house n out at new house in case.
Q1: Do ur own investigation for the truth. Put hidden cameras in the house & listening devices in her car. Q2: I think she's just being frugal & trying to save for the future.
Q1: if that brother in law has no intention or dirty ideas, he knows that he ate that before and wouldn’t bother to come around you two anymore, esp since they have a history together. But cheater will cheat regardless of where you try to hide her. If you think you see a future with her, just call him over and have an honest talk with him and her and explain that you know their past story and that you all need to know your boundary. If he is a normal and decent person, he will know to be embarrassed and not come around you two anymore. This could help to prevent or save your marriage from them sleeping together again.
Question 1. Nws twb yog koj poj niam ces Koj ho tsis soj qab seb nkawd ho puas ua lub pag2 zais ntawd Koj naj. Yuav tau soj qab seb lawv ho ua dabtsi beside qhov ntawd naj
Q1: He’s the one that got away for her but you’re the one she chose to married to. Giving their closeness in relation, they could easily marry each other but she chose you instead. Just be happy with your wife. If you doubt her, take her to be closer to your family. Q2: your wife is too superglue. People don’t change their ways of being superglue. If you can’t stand her frugal ways, best to leave her when you both are still young.
Q1: I’m almost in your situation and feel uncomfortable when the three of us are around each other too. My husband used to date his first cousin. We move every few years for work so we don’t see her often. If you feel the way you do move back to be around your side of family. If she loves you she’ll go with u Q2: talk to your wife and see if you guys could compromise something you both agree on, like setting a budget together. I think us most women are good with talking it out
Q1. Go back to live close to your family to avoid contact with her ex. Confronted your wife and tell her you know about their past and you don't feel comfortable being close to them. You don't know why they broke up, maybe he still loves her but she doesn't.
Q1: not they will have or do something in the future. You don’t know. They do all the time already. Q2: Being a stingy person or a spending person is not healthy for relationships. Knowing what is need and want is important decisions.
Teb rau tus nus npaws, yog koj xav paub qhov tseeb, caws secret camera rau hauv tsev and garage. Make excuse going out for a few days. Ua li ntawd ntaus zaus ces koj pom qhov tseeb mas. Link your wife phone to your phone too.
I’m assuming you guys are rich lol. It’s good to save to a certain point but there’s a difference between saving and being selfish. Some people love looking poor but have a big account. Me, I work hard so I can enjoy my life: house, cars, foods, clothes, going vacation, etc. The decision to stay with her is up to you. Personally it wouldn’t be my kind of life
Ahaaaaaa....thaub, thaum hluas es koj niag dablaug ntawm twb muab koj niag pojniam yaim txhij yaim txhua lawm los ma tiag thaum tham lus nws g kkkkkkkk koj li na, koj ruam dhau lawm os tej lub sijhawm koj g myob nkawm tseem sib yaim tom tej me hotel tag koj twb g paub na.
Q1: The fact that your wife and her "nus npaws" used to date is a top major red flag. I would stay away from him. Old flames never die and could reignite at any given moment. Don't view him as a bil, but as her ex and u will see things differently.
Q1: Ntuj aw I’m sure they secretly see each other already. They both make it so obvious. Never underestimate you never know. Q2: Not every woman is into materialistic stuff. As for your wife I she is just pure greedy and dumb. If you work, you deserve to get what you want.
Q1: 🚩big red flag. Always trust your instincts. Q2: Wow your wife is too stingy. I understand cheap scape or save. But this is a whole level of stingy. Good luck
Q. #1 Koj tus nus npaws ntaem ces eat died died lawm os mog ..koj niam qjuav xwb tau xwb? koj cov menyuam ntshe twb yog nws cov lawm thiab os (Npwb)..😅😅
Q2: it sounds like you and your wife have different values. In the long run, this won’t work. I would suggest going your separate ways before you have children.
Q1. I think you are just being insecure now and wanting to think there is still something going on. You didn't have an issue before and didn't notice anything before. Now that you know even if they do just breathe you'd think something is happening.
2nd question, brother, your wife is beyond stingy and being a penny pincher! You cannot live or build a life with such person. It's okay to want to save but remember you can't take it with you. Maybe you need to tell her that you want to keep finances separate and split all the bills 50/50. Tell here since you can not spend money on things that you need not to hate you once she died your gonna splurge it on another woman. LMFAO. If she keeps pushing you off to go find someone better than her than do so because there is a better on than her. You can not live life like her
Luag hais tias pom luag zoo siab nrog luag zoo siab pom luag tu siab nrog luag tu siab thiaj yog ib tug neeg siab zoo siab dav na has
Q1 - You are right to have concerns, especially they had a past history. We as Hmong know that there are boundaries we cannot cross and from your explanations they are treading or very close to crossing that line.
Q2: I’m a woman myself and she is pretty stingy. I wouldn’t wanna marry someone who is stingy.
Kavtsij mus raws kwvtij xwb mas yog koj tseem hlub nws nas
Omg!! The last story is so funny!! I understand where you’re coming from. All the things girls do to impress men. Men should give us girls more credit!! It’s embarrassing but also a learning experience. We were young, dumb and naive.
2, qhia qub rau lwm tu mas ua ib yam hai tab si yog qia dub rau tu kheej lawm es khwv ua dab tsi yuav tuag hnub no tag kis twb tsi paub nav
Question 2. Leave before time is wasted. It’s going to get worse.
Q1 Kav tsij mus raws kwv tij los khiav tawm nawb tus nus npaws kom ntxim raug tsuj heev tsis li ntawv ces koj yuav pom teeb meem ces koj ntshav yuav siab yuav qab zib ov. ces neej yuav puas tawg ntsoog os.
1st question, brother, there are boundaries you do not cross. Obviously, your wife needs to be reminded. Sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with her. Explain to her that you are aware of the history between her and her so-called brother. Best thing to do is to move your family out of that state and town back to your family. Otherwise you'll end up divorcing. Also remember everyone has a past and a history. What has happened is in the past do not hold it against. If she's innocent and not doing wrong do not be petty of it. Stop listening to other siders opinions and what you shou and shouldn't have done. Those people only wants to destroyed your joy, your happiness, creat drama. When your life falls apart they're not the one's who is gonna stand by your side and help you.
Be smart and use your brains.
Question2. Well !!! I know saving money is good but if we want something we should buy it because the point how we are working hard for .
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Khiav zoo dua other while too late.
Poj niam qia dub ces tsis txhob yuav li txawm koj muaj nyiaj los yuav pab tsis tau yus tsev neeg thiab kwv tij neej tsa li ces koj muaj nyiaj los tsis zoo dab tsis li os
Tau pojniam qiadub li koj ces tsis tsimnyog khwv li os
q1, yog thaum koj tsis nyob tsev ces koj tus dab laug yeej yuav pab koj hlub koj poj niam xwb xwb
Q2. I'm glad your wife is cautious with he expenses, because it will come in handy in the future. However, we must have fun and enjoy life as we go. Below are my suggestions.
Set a budget for each of you monthly. Like an allowance, so you won't overspend, and most importantly, your wife can be at ease with her expense management.
Luag mob plab
Q 1 yog koj tsis ntseeg koj tus poj niam tab sis yog tseem xav yuav nws ces kawg coj khiav mus caum kwv tij xwb los mas.
Q 2. Yog tau ib poj niam los yog txiv qia dub li no lawm ces tsis tas yuav li os ua neeg nyob txawm qia dub txawm siab zoo pub tau yam puav rau luag lwm los yeej tsis ua rau yus pluag li os the more you give the more you will get son.
?1 Tej zaum nkawv twb yog nkauj liab plaim nraug liab ploog nqaij ntuag ntshav nrog los lawm os
*Last secret* Oh my goodness! 😅😂😂
Q1: if they still have something, it better to fine a new one. u can’t run from the past unless u get rid of it.
Being too stingy isn't good either. Save some and spend some to balance out.
*Question 2* LOL @ your wife makeup 💄
Muam npaws nus npaws: trust your instincts, when you sensed or felt something is not right you may be absolutely right. Follow your instincts.
Hais rau tus txiv tsev muam npaws nus npaws ko hais tias kav tsij tsiv coj koj tus poj niam mus kom deb li deb tau tsam muaj ib hnub ces nkawv ua koj plawv nres.
Stay away far from that person.
Cas ib yim hmoob es yuav kom yus siv txoj phuam hauv hoob nab xwb nas lo txaus luag dhau lawm os yom 😅
Lol.. the last story had me laughing so hard my stomach hurts. Don't feel bad. I know grown women who stuff their boobs and it moved during dancing, lol.. I had to whisper to them to go to the bathroom, lol. It's all good. We all have done some pretty crazy things in life. Just remember to laugh at yourself and call it a day.
Q2 what a greedy wife.
?1. Move away fast b4 she cheat on u. Qub dev qub siab qub neeg qub siab.
Be careful check on her, u should install hidden cameras in the house n out at new house in case.
Q1: Thaub aw nus npaws thiab koj poj niam twb niaj hnub noj lawm aw. Koj paub tsawg.
Koj mas rhuav plhus dhau lawm os yom pab koj txaj muag kawg li thiab 😅
Q1: Do ur own investigation for the truth. Put hidden cameras in the house & listening devices in her car.
Q2: I think she's just being frugal & trying to save for the future.
Q2: tej zaum nws yuav qia dub ib sim but sometime 40 xyoo mam paub ua zoo nkauj that’s when she take out her money n lavish it out😂
Q1: Go back to live among your relatives.
Q2: Go look for brighter light somewhere else.
You are still young before it's too late.
Q!- I would be worried brother
Q1 & Q2- I would divorce her if she can't change or respect your decision
Q1: if that brother in law has no intention or dirty ideas, he knows that he ate that before and wouldn’t bother to come around you two anymore, esp since they have a history together.
But cheater will cheat regardless of where you try to hide her. If you think you see a future with her, just call him over and have an honest talk with him and her and explain that you know their past story and that you all need to know your boundary.
If he is a normal and decent person, he will know to be embarrassed and not come around you two anymore. This could help to prevent or save your marriage from them sleeping together again.
Tus poj niam ko hlub g tau kj tej txheeb ze li nawb qia dub tha mab Das xwb thiaj li qia dhau lawm g zoo thiab os me tub tab sis nyob ntawm kj xav xwb
Q#1. Run, run away from the cousin.
Q#2. Your wife safe the money for you to get niam mos ab.
Question 1
Run back to your family now!!
Will $5 but than someone give me $2 😅
Question 1. Nws twb yog koj poj niam ces Koj ho tsis soj qab seb nkawd ho puas ua lub pag2 zais ntawd Koj naj. Yuav tau soj qab seb lawv ho ua dabtsi beside qhov ntawd naj
Q1: He’s the one that got away for her but you’re the one she chose to married to. Giving their closeness in relation, they could easily marry each other but she chose you instead. Just be happy with your wife. If you doubt her, take her to be closer to your family.
Q2: your wife is too superglue. People don’t change their ways of being superglue. If you can’t stand her frugal ways, best to leave her when you both are still young.
Q1: I’m almost in your situation and feel uncomfortable when the three of us are around each other too. My husband used to date his first cousin. We move every few years for work so we don’t see her often. If you feel the way you do move back to be around your side of family. If she loves you she’ll go with u
Q2: talk to your wife and see if you guys could compromise something you both agree on, like setting a budget together. I think us most women are good with talking it out
Story 1 - Tus poj niam twg txaus siab hlo nrog koj ua neej lawm ces tsis tim koj nyob raws leej twg los nws yeej tsis lam ua siab phem rau neb lub neej. Txhob ua siab me rau koj tus poj niam tias tsam nws lam deev nws tus qub hluas nraug li yav thauv. Story 2 - Kuj tsis yog koj tus poj niam cuaj khaum heev rau koj, tab sis nws txawj txuag nyiaj siv li nws hais thiab xwb ntag. Tej zaum koj yog ib tug neeg siv nyiaj luaj thuam heev ces nws thiaj pheej cheem koj, tab sis koj ho tsis kam qhia li no rau sawv daws paub xwb.
You can’t really judge anyone from their past. I would let her know that you know about her past and that you trust her and just keep a tab on her
Q1. Go back to live close to your family to avoid contact with her ex. Confronted your wife and tell her you know about their past and you don't feel comfortable being close to them. You don't know why they broke up, maybe he still loves her but she doesn't.
?2.. take her 2 elder n her parents tell them yr problems.
u need time away from each other.
Q1: Trust your intuition. Move back to live close to your family.
Q2: she's way too stingy. Pog nplaum tiag!
Q1: not they will have or do something in the future. You don’t know. They do all the time already.
Q2: Being a stingy person or a spending person is not healthy for relationships. Knowing what is need and want is important decisions.
I want a stingy wife? Where can I find one?😂
Teb rau tus nus npaws, yog koj xav paub qhov tseeb, caws secret camera rau hauv tsev and garage. Make excuse going out for a few days. Ua li ntawd ntaus zaus ces koj pom qhov tseeb mas. Link your wife phone to your phone too.
I’m assuming you guys are rich lol. It’s good to save to a certain point but there’s a difference between saving and being selfish. Some people love looking poor but have a big account. Me, I work hard so I can enjoy my life: house, cars, foods, clothes, going vacation, etc. The decision to stay with her is up to you. Personally it wouldn’t be my kind of life
Q#2 Koj niag poj niam qia dub dhau laus thiab mas haj yam qia dub my mother in law ces qia dub kiag li koj niag poj niam ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws neeg qia dub ntshe nws tos hnub koj tuag nws mam yuav rau nws tus kheej xwb os lol sorry for say that nawb neeg qia dub li koj niag poj niam yog nrauj koj lawm thiab ces tsis muaj neeg yuav lawm nawb!
Q1- if I was you, I’ll take my wife and move as soon as possible before something happens.
Ahaaaaaa....thaub, thaum hluas es koj niag dablaug ntawm twb muab koj niag pojniam yaim txhij yaim txhua lawm los ma tiag thaum tham lus nws g kkkkkkkk koj li na, koj ruam dhau lawm os tej lub sijhawm koj g myob nkawm tseem sib yaim tom tej me hotel tag koj twb g paub na.
Q1: The fact that your wife and her "nus npaws" used to date is a top major red flag. I would stay away from him. Old flames never die and could reignite at any given moment. Don't view him as a bil, but as her ex and u will see things differently.
Q1: Ntuj aw I’m sure they secretly see each other already. They both make it so obvious. Never underestimate you never know.
Q2: Not every woman is into materialistic stuff. As for your wife I she is just pure greedy and dumb. If you work, you deserve to get what you want.
Q1: 🚩big red flag. Always trust your instincts.
Q2: Wow your wife is too stingy. I understand cheap scape or save. But this is a whole level of stingy. Good luck
Q. #1 Koj tus nus npaws ntaem ces eat died died lawm os mog ..koj niam qjuav xwb tau xwb? koj cov menyuam ntshe twb yog nws cov lawm thiab os (Npwb)..😅😅
Q2: it sounds like you and your wife have different values. In the long run, this won’t work. I would suggest going your separate ways before you have children.
Q2 Your wife is from hella stingy, greedy and witch. While you still young and no kids it's best to let her go if you want to live a enjoyable life.
Q1. I think you are just being insecure now and wanting to think there is still something going on. You didn't have an issue before and didn't notice anything before. Now that you know even if they do just breathe you'd think something is happening.
2nd question, brother, your wife is beyond stingy and being a penny pincher! You cannot live or build a life with such person. It's okay to want to save but remember you can't take it with you.
Maybe you need to tell her that you want to keep finances separate and split all the bills 50/50. Tell here since you can not spend money on things that you need not to hate you once she died your gonna splurge it on another woman. LMFAO. If she keeps pushing you off to go find someone better than her than do so because there is a better on than her. You can not live life like her