He created the argument so he didn't have to go on the trip. He watched u plan it and waited until it was confirmed and stood you and y'all kids up. Honey save the tears for something important, he isn't.
@maddamedearest1 her moms is real Real old school(&wrong)-its an old country way for women and I bet her mother was that way with the men in her life. A Door mat. Sad.
I really believe countless times he showed this woman who he was but she was intent on playing the I can change him game and it blew up in her face!!!!
Charmer, no, soft spoken, yes, don’t confuse the two, this guy is cheating and he is a cheater...He thinks he is a smooth talker because he articulates himself better than them...
As a general rule when someone says what they are not being, they are in fact at that very moment being that which supposedly they are not. THIS IS NO EXCEPTION - 9 times out of 10!
Don't be crying and begging no damn body to do right by you!!! You're giving away your power and letting that person decide what's good for you. Men appreciate what they have to work for.
PLEASE TELL HER AGAIN. My husband is FINE and when I met him he had a ego to match. As soon as I made it clear … YOU CAN LEAVE & NEVER COME BACK. I'll be just fine and kept it moving without him. HE FIGURED ME OUT REAL QUICK.. lbvs He might have won some but HE LOST ME WITH THAT B.S . It took hard work and a ring to get me to come back. We are happier than ever
Sweet heart lets make it clear beta males behave better. Alphas are so secure we happy when you walk off we got some side dish more than happy to fill void always have an abundance mindset.
@@reddunk3744 If you are an alpha, Why sneak, lie and cheat around in the 1st place. Why not just be single and do you confidently and tell women straight up, but you dont care? Yeah okay
@@alay3287 Your a beta i can tell. Woman walk all over you. That's exactly what i said have an abundance mindset and you will never go wrong try it. You the type to get mad when she don't call you back or keep to the plans you made.
He is sly and I can aee through him. He pretends to be a gentleman but he really a womanizer and a manipulator. He is a cheater! But would make you think you are crazy for thinking he's cheating.
Wanting to be with a man you have children with, or wanting to be with a man you’ve had a relationship for a long period of time doesn’t make someone desperate
@Mr. Cooney You mean 'don't be in relationships unless you're perfect' lol. Human beings have insecurities. It's about learning to deal with them. A woman can't be secure if a man is two timing her while blaming her ex for her attitude.
The strength of anything is determined by it’s ability to withstand the amount of stress that’s put upon it. A woman who comes into a relationship who is secure within her state of being, will not lose her sense of worth because of her partner’s infidelity. In fact, a secure woman would not remain in a relationship where her needs are not being met.
My question is why do women continue to set theirselves up by falling for men like this to begin with go to the library or to an art museum to meet an educated man with culture and leave all these wanna be ass players alone!!!!
IN THE WORDS OF MAYO ANGELOU, WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM. THIS MAN WILL NEVER DO RIGHT BY YOU LADY. MOVE ON. DONT WASTE YOUR LIFE CHASING HIM
He would have paid for at least half of that trip up front. Girl he don't want you. Stop being desperate! Her hair is pretty. He's a narcissist and he enjoys her tripping on his bad behaviors
So true Bryan! First incident I'm gone. Happened to me recently he lied and disappeared two weekend in a row. So I told him I meet someone else and you are history. Life is too short for the BS!!!!!
From a man's point, I agree, its a shame that the players, and the so called "aspiring rappers, actors, and writers" get chances after chances, but a decent man who have his sh*t together gets overlooked, and placed in the friend zone.
After going to his house 🏠 and he asked her to leave, and came back (stalker) to see another woman 👩 was there that should have been the end right then, but nooo she stuck and stayed so he's treating her the way she presented herself : Desperate for a man and will do and accept anything to keep him around..
lmaoo why are ppl always so damn self righteous in these comments. Yes it was dumb. Clearly. Have we all not did dumb things in a relationship or for someone, or make poor decisions when we knew the truth? I don't always think it's a matter of 'she had to be desperate' no... that's not necessarily true. A lot of women stay because they see potential,and maybe did love them. Some men do learn and try to make things right up after a cheat, *not validating it cause it's still not right*, but sometimes people are able to make it and not go back. It's different for everybody. But enough becomes a enough, if you continue to give different chances and he still hasn't been loyal? Yeah that's just who he is then. But sometimes people do truly make mistakes. I heard something from some celebrity that was like along the lines of ....was it a mistake or is he the mistake? The first time is a mistake, the second time is a pattern of character. the third time is on you because you continued to stay.
@@CreativelyKia because she could have done better. Yes its a mistake and we all mistake but it shows her character more than anything. It took her years to learn from her mistake. Thats human and alot of women make those same mistakes so she isnt crazy but she was acting desperate because if she had enough RESPECT for herself she would leave. Of course most or alot of women would still stick around, that doesnt make her decision any better. We are simply pointing out what she did. One day hopefully shell learn if she hasn't but until then people have a right to point out what she did wrong. Doesn't make her a bad person or us any better but simply were pointing out her error. Maybe another female going through the same thing can learn from her nad behaviors whether shes young or not.
@@CreativelyKia A lot of the dumb things can be prevented and a lot of us would have made some dumber choices had someone not said "hey stop doing that dumb stuff"
Thank you! That was a seriously stalkerish thing to do. If she was just suspicious & tryin to find out if he's a schmuck, she would have broken up w him then. Instead she stayed. Bc she just crazy & lookin to feed her crazy. & he knew she was crazy & stuck around, which means he was in it just for the pussy. It said the broke up but I bet they get back together quick.
I’m sad that her mom is encouraging her to look past his cheating ways hoping he will “grow out of it” 🙄🙄 he is grown as hell!! He is who he is and, that’s a cheater! When people show you who they are believe them!
I don’t think he was totally into the relationship. Many of times my husband and I went on outings with the kids while we were mad at each other. We went because are a family and to give the kids a nice time. He seems like he wanted out. Hope he is a a good co-parent.
“Men behave better when they know u can walk off!” Deep! Been there done that, not on purpose but because I really don’t care about anything so every guy I ended up dating was literally obsessed to the point I felt suffocated cause they thought I can always leave and get a better man..sometimes they’d be so vulnerable and straight up even tell me that..so this statement is definitely true..meanwhile I’ve always noticed my desperate gfs stressing over a guy and begging him to stay and not cheat smh
He’s 37 years old and can’t stop cheating on a 25 years old woman? 🤦🏾♀️ that says something about his pattern and character, most men wouldn’t cheat on a younger companion, and they would be the one concerned about her waking up and realizing she’s growing too old by staying with an old man. Again if you want a husband don’t settle for the Baby maman or long term girlfriend role. After a year of him cheating you should bounce and never have kids before the marriage if you care about having a two parents household for your kids. Judge Lynn always advises to not move in with a man before marriage, it’s old school but worked and works for women who follow that rule.
Finally.... I loved that judge Lynn set it straight and said the truth, "people say women are crazy but the men make us crazy" they cause so much pain we just lose and the worst part is that they don't care... Hearing that makes me want to play Sevyn Streeter's song B.A.N.S "One minute call us babe next minute call us crazy... This is the way you made me this is the way you repay me gave you all of me all of me now you saying I was never your lady I feel like you were just a waste of time for real"
Her mother is half the reason she lacks self love....when someone with that much influence (yo momma) fails to gift u with the equipment u need to walk away from someone who disrespects u or at the least stands with you as u move from such....woooo sad...sad and shame on this mother!
@@SpecialKRNB I totally agree with you! But you'll be surprised that a lot of moms/women think like this. It's sad. Will give their daughters terrible advice like this, just because the man she's with has money, or taking care of her and the house, or just because they don't know any better.
His narcissism cause her to be angry and her voice to sound like scratching chalkboards. Have you ever thought that is what he uses to trap women; then uses and abuses them mentally and psychologically. I have a uncle like that when he speaks females melt even the married and Christians ones. Then one day I meet one of his exes and she told me at 17 yrs old what he did to her. I felt so horrified; I never looked at him the same way. But you know what has happened to him is that the voice stays but the body fades - he married so, much times now an Old man he is on his own. Actions speaks louder than words, the man is a user.
I'm not sure why most of these comments are bashing him when they are both wrong. Him with the cheating, her with her anger. They definitely do not need to be together.
And that's why miss thang at 25 is being strung along . Mr smooth talking big shot rapper wanna beeee... hypnotizes her . She needs to leave his bearded S. He don't like her even .
@@AreneStheme You are so right once any woman or man observes the obvious that they are not valued by their partner it should be easier to walk away but we know that's not always the case.
If a man is talking about leaving, we've already left. We're gonna do our thing and if you're going to pretend it's not over you're just hurting yourslef more.
Quote of the day... "Men behave better when they know you can walk off" -Judge Lynn Toller Judge Lynn I can't wait to meet you one day and share how much you have shaped me as a woman!! I am the woman I am today hugely because of you. The wife I will be will be SOLELY because of you. I was watching and I was taking notes!! Love Todun!!!
And this is what almost always happen when you play house! You've had his kids, you all live together and he knows you're not going anywhere!!! Stop this madness, ladies! These men will never take you seriously when you give them everything before marriage.
She's a damn fool. He showed u who he was when y'all were only 4 months in. He continued to do the same shit for 4 yrs. It was his fault in the beginning but ur fault now. AND the fact that he PUT her out of his house 4 "Studio time" and she decided to go to a neighbor's house and WAIT 4-5 hours 4 him tells me she's obsessive. Sis , take ur ass ON! He doesn't want u and showed u from inception.
It never sounded like he wanted to move forward. And, what's up with all these women who like to scream, fight and destroy things? Just walk away with some level of dignity.
Judge Toler: Men behave better when they know you can walk off. Are you sure about that? Some men wouldn't give a f@$! and let you go. Some men can be deceiving. Would tell a sob story about they're sorry and they love you, then throw some D on you just to get you to stay. Then some time later they're back to doing their dirt. 😒 This is what makes us insecure. This is what builds the frustration & anger, and makes us act "crazy". Men stop misleading us and be 💯. So much drama can be avoided when we know what we're dealing with
She talking about the walking away that says she knows her worth and won't waste time with foolishness. You not getting a woman like that to stay by any other means than doing what you supposed to do.
Ok, we talking about guys like him... in the “studio”, receiving nude photos of women he communicates with... saying things like, “We were working things out,” “We were about to separate,” “We’re not there yet,” “If she would just... And someone said if guys would just... Here’s some really good advise for you.... if a guy ... acts and behaves like this guy .... in the beginning..... LEAVE HIM ALONE!!!!!
As women, please stop listening to what a man 👨 says and pay attention to his actions and stop ignoring red flags.. If that man 👨 is NOT encouraging you to be a better you, but making you doubt yourself, turning into a detective and got you out here acting anything other than respectful LEAVE THAT MF ALONE!!!
Our People bout done..all out here doin dumb, stupid things..why was she shadow boxing, to show him what she’d do to another woman..just get away from Him..simple
Lord have mercy - another woman has been beat down emotionally by a man .She's crying and he's smiling and being slick . I know it's not easy but as women we need to recognize the signs and take heed immediately ! He was showing who he was from the beginning .That just cant be ignored . Again I am not judging - I know how it is - this dude is a charmer and a gamer for sure . But we can't expect a man to act right when he never acted right in the first place
He wants a woman while he has another roommate and visitor he sleeps with and lies under oath for ..what woman is stalking a harassing another woman about a man she left 5 yrs back ..becky who he say he never happy with
Her mother not helping with her insecurities by telling her to stick around and wait for him to stop cheating. Like judge toler said, men should be an option. They lose that power to do whatever they want once they realize that you can go and find someone else
She hooked up with a playa! She went from side chick to main chick forgetting he KEEPS a roster of women just waiting to come off the bench and take HER place. She did the best thing in leaving because he WOULD have left her-that’s the playa lifestyle
I was working on my homework while listening to this episode in the background. By the tone of his voice and the way he explains these stories, I know he's a damn liar. He's triggering this girl.
I bought Dear Sonali and it’s already so good! I laughed out loud on the very first page. All of Judge Lynn’s books have helped me so much, and every time I reread one, I find that whatever progress I’ve made makes other parts of the books suddenly stand out, and I see my next steps. Seriously, try them!
Never make a man tell u more than once that he don't want u.. - Judge Toler
I learned my lesson. Listen the first time.
Factz
Yap he mad her craxy
He created the argument so he didn't have to go on the trip. He watched u plan it and waited until it was confirmed and stood you and y'all kids up. Honey save the tears for something important, he isn't.
👏say that again sis
Yes sis!! Very obvious
Debra Russell-Karim thank you 🙏🏾
Wow... You are good
He is the type of dude that drives a woman crazy. If he didn't want to be in a relationship he could have left as well. He is a narcissist.
Her mother's advice was AWFUL. Why would you advise your daughter to stay in a toxic relationship???? I am truly shocked!!!
@maddamdearest1 the mother is as desperate as the daughter.
@maddamedearest1 her moms is real Real old school(&wrong)-its an old country way for women and I bet her mother was that way with the men in her life. A Door mat. Sad.
Not Worthy
@L C wow, I'm happy you know better and chose to do better. Keep doing the damn thing girl😘
@B Kandy Generational idiocy 😝
In the words of Steve Harvey, "He don't take you no where, because he don't see the relationship going NO WHERE!!!"
Lol that's ma man steve Harvey
Absolutely 👌🏿
TELL THE TRUTH SHAME THE DEVIL.... 💯👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Say it louder baby
He’s a charmer and I don’t believe he is faithful.
I really believe countless times he showed this woman who he was but she was intent on playing the I can change him game and it blew up in her face!!!!
Yea dont be charming if all of your charm is just a glamor
Charmer, no, soft spoken, yes, don’t confuse the two, this guy is cheating and he is a cheater...He thinks he is a smooth talker because he articulates himself better than them...
Facts
@@ddnquestion1 truth!!!!!
Not being prejudice, but 9 time out of 10, aspiring rappers will not become good husband material.
So true!
That's not prejudice it's what we've observed too often.
Dang
not being prejudice either, but you are correct👍🏾
As a general rule when someone says what they are not being, they are in fact at that very moment being that which supposedly they are not. THIS IS NO EXCEPTION - 9 times out of 10!
I got a feeling he's not this calm and nice at the house
Covert narcissist
I think he is....he's so nonchalant that she tries to get a rise out of him...
@@Mistylw33 agreed... iThink that's what it is. Tbh I'm guilty of it... Well... Was !!
I have a feeling the way you talk to your younger siblings is not the same way you talk to your parents.
Common, the guy is in front of a judge.
He probably is...She's very vocal, if he was faking, she would have called him out about it. Lol
Unfortunately, he's a cheating charmer with a lovely voice.
The End!
Oh he does have a nice voice. I wanted to sleep he was so soothing
@@jordanallen8420 Jo we 4
Rachel Callahan 😂😂😂 good one!
Toxic its not Worthy of her time
Hahaha reminds me of my ex sweetheart lol...#kaos
Don't be crying and begging no damn body to do right by you!!! You're giving away your power and letting that person decide what's good for you. Men appreciate what they have to work for.
Say tht Ms. Kimberly!!!
For some reason it takes some women years to know that.
Say it louder for the ones in the back
So true Kimberly.
PLEASE TELL HER AGAIN. My husband is FINE and when I met him he had a ego to match. As soon as I made it clear … YOU CAN LEAVE & NEVER COME BACK. I'll be just fine and kept it moving without him. HE FIGURED ME OUT REAL QUICK.. lbvs He might have won some but HE LOST ME WITH THAT B.S . It took hard work and a ring to get me to come back. We are happier than ever
@@ChocolateSunshine1 love it !!
Ladies 😪 Please stop trapping yourselves in these relationships. Stop making babies for these men
THEY WILL NOT LISTEN!
Say that!!
U gatta know ur worth!
I mean PLEASEEEEE.. I'M BEGGING..
Dana Buckmire, You mean these boys. Real men are not that way.
A word:
“Men behave better when they know you can walk off” 🔉👏🏽
Sweet heart lets make it clear beta males behave better. Alphas are so secure we happy when you walk off we got some side dish more than happy to fill void always have an abundance mindset.
@@reddunk3744 If you are an alpha, Why sneak, lie and cheat around in the 1st place. Why not just be single and do you confidently and tell women straight up, but you dont care? Yeah okay
@@alay3287 Your a beta i can tell. Woman walk all over you. That's exactly what i said have an abundance mindset and you will never go wrong try it. You the type to get mad when she don't call you back or keep to the plans you made.
@THUGGAHRELISH What you talking about?
@THUGGAHRELISH you tried
She 25, why she wasting her young energy on a guy almost 40🙄
Cuz she going to change him that's why lol
It's the"D" and the mouth😛... Trust me I've been there.🤷🏿♀️ We live and we learn.
@@kennethbarnes8630 🤣🤣🤣
LOL @ young energy
Candida Peier good dick🤷🏾♀️
He is sly and I can aee through him. He pretends to be a gentleman but he really a womanizer and a manipulator. He is a cheater! But would make you think you are crazy for thinking he's cheating.
Cake and eat it too type
FACTS.. he the worse kind
Your absolutely rite I've been there and done that. It took me four Damn yrs to see the 💡 and to know my worth 🙁🙁
That's classic gaslighting
Narcissist!!
You’re 25 Bae. Leave this man, you still have your whole life in front of you!
I can’t believe it’s not BUTTER cause he is smooooth but definitely a Lieabetic
asia harris 😂😂😂😂
asia harris 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’ve never heard that before... that’s pretty good
You right lol
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! CM
He clearly doesn’t want to be with her..this chick is desperate I’m embarrassed for her
🤔.... Aren't Alot Of Guys And GIRLS On This Show!?
Miss C. 😬
Miss C. They have kiiiiiidss
They are better off co parenting
Wanting to be with a man you have children with, or wanting to be with a man you’ve had a relationship for a long period of time doesn’t make someone desperate
The deepest of a womens insecurities often come from the men who have hurt them
@Mr. Cooney You mean 'don't be in relationships unless you're perfect' lol. Human beings have insecurities. It's about learning to deal with them. A woman can't be secure if a man is two timing her while blaming her ex for her attitude.
@@aamnahere6250 exactly. That's str8 up manipulation.
The strength of anything is determined by it’s ability to withstand the amount of stress that’s put upon it. A woman who comes into a relationship who is secure within her state of being, will not lose her sense of worth because of her partner’s infidelity. In fact, a secure woman would not remain in a relationship where her needs are not being met.
Is a liar my ex cheated on me 86 times but I was cool but I have moved on
My question is why do women continue to set theirselves up by falling for men like this to begin with go to the library or to an art museum to meet an educated man with culture and leave all these wanna be ass players alone!!!!
IN THE WORDS OF MAYO ANGELOU, WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM. THIS MAN WILL NEVER DO RIGHT BY YOU LADY. MOVE ON. DONT WASTE YOUR LIFE CHASING HIM
He would have paid for at least half of that trip up front. Girl he don't want you. Stop being desperate! Her hair is pretty. He's a narcissist and he enjoys her tripping on his bad behaviors
Yessssss
He’s 100% a narcissist....he speaks softly as a way to charm
@@biancaharris6992 yup!!!! Lived it!!!! Dam snakes!!!!
blackkjuice her hair is pretty! 🤣🤣
blackkjuice you are so right , he do t want or love her... she need to wake up and move on.
i’m already done after the “firsh” incident
Jasmine Elise lol shut up u got me crying 😂😂
Jasmine Elise 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Jasmine Elise 🤣🤣🤣
Am dead af 😂😂”when we firsh met “ was it for me !
He is showing u who he is. Co parent and find ur peace sis!
So true Davicia Dee Harris
Idell Boykin there is no way I would continue to take this type of treatment. I know I’m worthy of more!
When you know your worth as a person, you won't allow someone to do you any kind of way..
This is the best advice.
I PROMISE you... if y’all women would just straight cut these dudes loose after the first or second offense....... leave these &:?;?,$:&:! alone....
Facts! You are absolutely right!
So true Bryan!
First incident I'm gone.
Happened to me recently he lied and disappeared two weekend in a row. So I told him I meet someone else and you are history.
Life is too short for the BS!!!!!
Truth. Why waste your precious time?
Some are so scared about being alone they stay. 😩
From a man's point, I agree, its a shame that the players, and the so called "aspiring rappers, actors, and writers" get chances after chances, but a decent man who have his sh*t together gets overlooked, and placed in the friend zone.
After going to his house 🏠 and he asked her to leave, and came back (stalker) to see another woman 👩 was there that should have been the end right then, but nooo she stuck and stayed so he's treating her the way she presented herself : Desperate for a man and will do and accept anything to keep him around..
He should have never seen her again except in passing
lmaoo why are ppl always so damn self righteous in these comments. Yes it was dumb. Clearly. Have we all not did dumb things in a relationship or for someone, or make poor decisions when we knew the truth? I don't always think it's a matter of 'she had to be desperate' no... that's not necessarily true. A lot of women stay because they see potential,and maybe did love them. Some men do learn and try to make things right up after a cheat, *not validating it cause it's still not right*, but sometimes people are able to make it and not go back. It's different for everybody. But enough becomes a enough, if you continue to give different chances and he still hasn't been loyal? Yeah that's just who he is then. But sometimes people do truly make mistakes. I heard something from some celebrity that was like along the lines of ....was it a mistake or is he the mistake? The first time is a mistake, the second time is a pattern of character. the third time is on you because you continued to stay.
@@CreativelyKia because she could have done better. Yes its a mistake and we all mistake but it shows her character more than anything. It took her years to learn from her mistake. Thats human and alot of women make those same mistakes so she isnt crazy but she was acting desperate because if she had enough RESPECT for herself she would leave. Of course most or alot of women would still stick around, that doesnt make her decision any better. We are simply pointing out what she did. One day hopefully shell learn if she hasn't but until then people have a right to point out what she did wrong. Doesn't make her a bad person or us any better but simply were pointing out her error. Maybe another female going through the same thing can learn from her nad behaviors whether shes young or not.
@@CreativelyKia A lot of the dumb things can be prevented and a lot of us would have made some dumber choices had someone not said "hey stop doing that dumb stuff"
Thank you! That was a seriously stalkerish thing to do. If she was just suspicious & tryin to find out if he's a schmuck, she would have broken up w him then. Instead she stayed. Bc she just crazy & lookin to feed her crazy. & he knew she was crazy & stuck around, which means he was in it just for the pussy.
It said the broke up but I bet they get back together quick.
I’m sad that her mom is encouraging her to look past his cheating ways hoping he will “grow out of it” 🙄🙄 he is grown as hell!! He is who he is and, that’s a cheater! When people show you who they are believe them!
Mom was pathetic!.....sorry mom.
Just another wasted judge time so you both got on the television show so now go act stupid somewhere else
I don’t think he was totally into the relationship. Many of times my husband and I went on outings with the kids while we were mad at each other. We went because are a family and to give the kids a nice time. He seems like he wanted out. Hope he is a a good co-parent.
He wanted that time to be with another woman while she was out of town.
As a man I have to say he full of shite he knows his actions drove her to becoming how she is with him and he isn't doing anything to fix it
Bit teaming with other hoe niggas to profit off of gossip lies pimping and conspiracy
First word was but lol
Rynos 2230 Thank you
He seems calm and collected in a passive aggressive tone,gurl run faster in the other direction.
If anything, she aggresive as fuck...
Marc read between the lines Marc
Right! I hope she doesn't end up on Fatal Attraction🥶
NARCISSIST GONE WILD!
Can’t even feel bad for her when she ‘s one willingly accepting & adding to the hurt herself...😳😳🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
She’s obsessed with him , he gives her signs to let go but she’s not listening
Look where her example comes from. Mama just came on here and was like, "Look the other way." 👀 No, thank you.
She’s so young😩 Young lady try to get financially stable so you don’t have to depend on a man who does not want you. Sheesh!
Ladies you need to know when to leave
Yep!!! you need to know when to stay work through it and when it's time to exit stage left. I hope they are doing better as co-parents😑
He’s an excellent “talker”.
You mean bullshiter
@@smh2557 That too as well.
Trying to articulate a bunch of bullshit
Y’all quit acting like most “friends with benefits” relationships turn out good.....
💯
that was his relationship with his ex
A black woman that pays all the bills, or you came to live with her:
“No locked doors in my house!”
🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂
She said it!! Lmbo
Terri Williams sounds just like my momma 😳😂
"Men behave better when they know you can walk off" 💯💯💯
When love dies. Girl this guy doesn't love you anymore
Queen tabs She’s embarrassing
Queen tabs, he never did love her.
@gigi love Exactly soo sad
True she’s just obsessed, that’s not healthy
Insecurities and anger issues are always a recipe for disaster.
Insecurities and anger issues fueled by a " playa playa" is the whole recipe that equals disaster..
They cause mental instability, lashing out and apologising after ; that doesn’t help at all
Why don’t they ever say thank you when given tissues ? Ughh
No common sense or courtesy.
Some do .....and some dont i was wondering if it was because she is so wrappped up in his shit
Steuups. Big effing deal.
LMFAOOO RITE
OMG!!!! Get out my HEAD!!!! Lol I say this all the time to myself. Shoot! I even say thank you for them at the tv lol.
“Men behave better when they know u can walk off!” Deep! Been there done that, not on purpose but because I really don’t care about anything so every guy I ended up dating was literally obsessed to the point I felt suffocated cause they thought I can always leave and get a better man..sometimes they’d be so vulnerable and straight up even tell me that..so this statement is definitely true..meanwhile I’ve always noticed my desperate gfs stressing over a guy and begging him to stay and not cheat smh
Sounds like you were messing with guys that didn't have they shit together...
Sounds like she attracting beta males alpha wouldnt give a shit about your pissy ass learn the difference and stay happy with your betas
Even alpha fall head over heels...when the right one comes along, NOTHING can stop that
@@gabriellesmith-perry3465 only if we decide to roll the dice lol
@@reddunk3744 Take your Alpha a.. on somewhere lol 😆 that's not something you need to advertise. It's literally an essence, an attitude, an energy...
What kind of mother???...I cannot believe the advice her mother gave her. Maybe that's where she get her desperate behavior from
It's very common trust me
I'm sorry sugar I just started watching and I already can tell "he's just not that into you from the gate"!
I’ve dated a man like this.... TRUST ME..... when a person is CAVALIER W/ your feelings .... LEAVE..... RUN 🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️
I'm glad she decided to leave. When a man chooses to hurt you that's the end of it.
She a lie. They still together
Sure is.😂😂😂
Lol I'm late but she married him.
go further ya education miss, you are beautiful this man is weird and full of wind
You could smell it too? Lol
And ugly
Believe a person when they show you who they are the 1st time. - Maya Angelou
Straight "F"boy!!!! He is charming and all, but he is a manipulator to the first order
He doesn't want her because he said it several times. She not desperate, but she is willing to take any type of man. I feel bad for women like that.
He doesn’t love you : MOVE ON GIRL !
Like Beyonce song, To the left to the left and be done with him.
No man is worth your happiness and peace of mind.
Beyonce don't follow her own advice
Beyonce stayed tho.
He’s 37 years old and can’t stop cheating on a 25 years old woman? 🤦🏾♀️ that says something about his pattern and character, most men wouldn’t cheat on a younger companion, and they would be the one concerned about her waking up and realizing she’s growing too old by staying with an old man. Again if you want a husband don’t settle for the Baby maman or long term girlfriend role. After a year of him cheating you should bounce and never have kids before the marriage if you care about having a two parents household for your kids. Judge Lynn always advises to not move in with a man before marriage, it’s old school but worked and works for women who follow that rule.
Most men wouldn't cheat on a younger chick? What are you smokin?
Most relationships are older man/younger woman, & most men cheat.
Why not? Jay Z cheats on Beyonce who's years younger and nominated as one of the most beautiful women in the world.
Finally.... I loved that judge Lynn set it straight and said the truth, "people say women are crazy but the men make us crazy" they cause so much pain we just lose and the worst part is that they don't care... Hearing that makes me want to play Sevyn Streeter's song B.A.N.S "One minute call us babe next minute call us crazy... This is the way you made me this is the way you repay me gave you all of me all of me now you saying I was never your lady I feel like you were just a waste of time for real"
Yeap, they have pinned that title on Halle berry for years
Nothing good ever comes from thug D. Nothing
She knew exactly what he was and stuck with him anyway.
Stop whining. You're an adult not a child.
So so true!!!
Thug D is venomous. RUN far and wide when you see it!!!! I hope she learns that!!!
At almost 31 I have little to nothing in common with a 25yr old...hes damn near 40...signs sis signs.
Ladies love yourself, no need to stick around a man who can't honor you, respect you, or care about your feelings!!
Her mother is half the reason she lacks self love....when someone with that much influence (yo momma) fails to gift u with the equipment u need to walk away from someone who disrespects u or at the least stands with you as u move from such....woooo sad...sad and shame on this mother!
That boy is a liar.
I'm glad she didn't listen to her mom, and decided to throw in the towel.
Yes, her mom sound SUPER MESSED UP in the pshye...
$100 bucks says she's back w him b4 the holidays.
@@SpecialKRNB I totally agree with you! But you'll be surprised that a lot of moms/women think like this. It's sad. Will give their daughters terrible advice like this, just because the man she's with has money, or taking care of her and the house, or just because they don't know any better.
@@nataliet.3023 I agree.. my ex's mom is the same way... and it is extremely sad and toxic
Barry White in the house? No wonder she won't leave.
Just because of his voice damn he doesn't wanna be with her.
@@SkidCudi
That hair piece by his forehead don't want to be with him
😅😂
If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
His voice is so soothing and her voice is like scratching chalkboards.
His narcissism cause her to be angry and her voice to sound like scratching chalkboards.
Have you ever thought that is what he uses to trap women; then uses and abuses them mentally and psychologically.
I have a uncle like that when he speaks females melt even the married and Christians ones. Then one day I meet one of his exes and she told me at 17 yrs old what he did to her. I felt so horrified; I never looked at him the same way. But you know what has happened to him is that the voice stays but the body fades - he married so, much times now an Old man he is on his own.
Actions speaks louder than words, the man is a user.
He is such a cool and calm operator. She must move on to keep her sanity.
They’re on the wrong show they should be on the couples court
"Ain't no locked doors in my house" sounds like something I would say.. no lie 🙊🙊🙊🤦🤦😂😂😂
I'm not sure why most of these comments are bashing him when they are both wrong. Him with the cheating, her with her anger. They definitely do not need to be together.
He think that he’s waayyy smoother than he is!!! “HE’S NOT EVEN ALL THAT HANDSOME”🤷🏽♀️ I can’t see it👀
Shadow boxing? Lol ok I'll be back next case
They're both silly.
Sidenote: this dude has such a soothing voice.
And that's why miss thang at 25 is being strung along .
Mr smooth talking big shot rapper wanna beeee... hypnotizes her .
She needs to leave his bearded S. He don't like her even .
GURLLLLLL, you are 25 don't EVER fight for man 👞♂️ and put yourself 🥇. This advise applies no matter what age you are.
I can't believe her mother would give her that advice....smh She needs to leave!!!!
Exactly. My mom would NEVER give me that type of advice.
He's just not that into her.
He's more into himself
He's a narcissist
No he is not.
She should be thankful
@@AreneStheme You are so right once any woman or man observes the obvious that they are not valued by their partner it should be easier to walk away but we know that's not always the case.
Last BF was a cheater
She was a side chick
Now dating a cheater
She like badboyZ at 30+ she should be ova that phase
Ishma Pinckney she only 25
@@djpswaggerdreamlikeaboss2366 25 is last year to get over bad boy phase ...maybe she's seen the light
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So what? Her previous experience alone should tell her to stay away.
I never understood why a woman will say he cheats, he lies, dont work...I don't trust him. But still wants to Marry him
Dude is straight trifling. I'm glad she left his butt.
When the trust is gone. Why are you still around.
Yo country self need to leave him 😲😲
😂😂😂😂😂
Silly girl
You'll see if she did if you watch the after the show at the end.
they were talking about separating so that's the greenlight to start giving out his number?
If a man is talking about leaving, we've already left. We're gonna do our thing and if you're going to pretend it's not over you're just hurting yourslef more.
She need to go he’s no good 😞😞
Quote of the day...
"Men behave better when they know you can walk off" -Judge Lynn Toller
Judge Lynn I can't wait to meet you one day and share how much you have shaped me as a woman!! I am the woman I am today hugely because of you. The wife I will be will be SOLELY because of you. I was watching and I was taking notes!! Love Todun!!!
And this is what almost always happen when you play house! You've had his kids, you all live together and he knows you're not going anywhere!!! Stop this madness, ladies! These men will never take you seriously when you give them everything before marriage.
She's a damn fool. He showed u who he was when y'all were only 4 months in. He continued to do the same shit for 4 yrs. It was his fault in the beginning but ur fault now. AND the fact that he PUT her out of his house 4 "Studio time" and she decided to go to a neighbor's house and WAIT 4-5 hours 4 him tells me she's obsessive. Sis , take ur ass ON! He doesn't want u and showed u from inception.
Glad she followed judges advice! They have beautiful children
It never sounded like he wanted to move forward. And, what's up with all these women who like to scream, fight and destroy things? Just walk away with some level of dignity.
Judge Toler: Men behave better when they know you can walk off.
Are you sure about that? Some men wouldn't give a f@$! and let you go. Some men can be deceiving. Would tell a sob story about they're sorry and they love you, then throw some D on you just to get you to stay. Then some time later they're back to doing their dirt. 😒 This is what makes us insecure. This is what builds the frustration & anger, and makes us act "crazy".
Men stop misleading us and be 💯. So much drama can be avoided when we know what we're dealing with
Josie H if they know they can play you with a sob story then they know you’re not really walking off and they won’t have to behave.
She talking about the walking away that says she knows her worth and won't waste time with foolishness. You not getting a woman like that to stay by any other means than doing what you supposed to do.
Ok, we talking about guys like him... in the “studio”, receiving nude photos of women he communicates with... saying things like, “We were working things out,” “We were about to separate,” “We’re not there yet,” “If she would just...
And someone said if guys would just...
Here’s some really good advise for you.... if a guy ... acts and behaves like this guy .... in the beginning..... LEAVE HIM ALONE!!!!!
She said act "better" not perfect.
As women, please stop listening to what a man 👨 says and pay attention to his actions and stop ignoring red flags.. If that man 👨 is NOT encouraging you to be a better you, but making you doubt yourself, turning into a detective and got you out here acting anything other than respectful LEAVE THAT MF ALONE!!!
Our People bout done..all out here doin dumb, stupid things..why was she shadow boxing, to show him what she’d do to another woman..just get away from Him..simple
If I gotta do all that in a relationship, IT'S NOT WORTH IT FRFR
you had me at "TRUST" .. don't waste ANOTHER 4 yrs on this old man.. he to old for you ,
He actually hid her clothes omg what kinda petty girlie crap is that !
That meant he wanted her to dress better than she was if he purchased $300 of new clothes and hid the old ragedy jeans
@@zorahrashnikov4975 😂 actually he didn't want my shape to be seen none of my clothing is raggedy .
That is sooo boring!!!
He doesn’t care and she has no pride!
She is crying about a trip, shouldn't she be crying about her life? This girl needs to step. This man doesn't care at all.
How come no one ever says thank you to nick when he hands them the napkins?
Excellent episode... Excellent advice! ❤❤
Why are you with him if you don't trust him?
I hope I never end up like this over a man.
He has a smooth, charming voice but it’s kinda creepy/sneaky...I don’t trust him at all 🤔
Lord have mercy - another woman has been beat down emotionally by a man .She's crying and he's smiling and being slick . I know it's not easy but as women we need to recognize the signs and take heed immediately ! He was showing who he was from the beginning .That just cant be ignored . Again I am not judging - I know how it is - this dude is a charmer and a gamer for sure . But we can't expect a man to act right when he never acted right in the first place
He wants a woman while he has another roommate and visitor he sleeps with and lies under oath for ..what woman is stalking a harassing another woman about a man she left 5 yrs back ..becky who he say he never happy with
If your tears out way your smiles . Have the strength to LEAVE IT will not get better
Her mother not helping with her insecurities by telling her to stick around and wait for him to stop cheating. Like judge toler said, men should be an option. They lose that power to do whatever they want once they realize that you can go and find someone else
She hooked up with a playa! She went from side chick to main chick forgetting he KEEPS a roster of women just waiting to come off the bench and take HER place. She did the best thing in leaving because he WOULD have left her-that’s the playa lifestyle
Lord these men slick talking
He's not slick. Only preys on weak women
I dont trust him at all. Why is she wasting one more minute
I was working on my homework while listening to this episode in the background. By the tone of his voice and the way he explains these stories, I know he's a damn liar. He's triggering this girl.
The man is such a liar, a cheat and cannot be trusted. He is very manipulative,immature, deceitful n a playboy. Glad she left him.
Don't like him, he'll always be involvedwithother woman. Good for her she left him.
I bought Dear Sonali and it’s already so good! I laughed out loud on the very first page. All of Judge Lynn’s books have helped me so much, and every time I reread one, I find that whatever progress I’ve made makes other parts of the books suddenly stand out, and I see my next steps. Seriously, try them!