The fact that the boyfriend was so kind to her after "the break up" until they got home, is proof to me that he just used her for her money. If he had acted broken up, she could have gone home earlier and cancel his return ticket! I therefor have the feeling that him and his friends set this up beforehand and they also tempted her to drink too much to give him a way of dumping her. You know deep in your heart you would not go for a certain person. It can have been a stupid drunk joke, but I do think they wanted her to do something with that guy and she refused or something like that. Her being heart broken may also make her forget to force him to give her money back.
OP should take him to small claims court for the money or she’ll never see it again. He moved, so he probably planned on ghosting her so he didn’t have to pay it back after the trip
As someone who actually was cheated on 3 days ago into a 5 year relationship where I stepped up to be parent in a pre started family to make it my own and the way I've been feeling, I'd eat that finger like a hot wing before I'd ever choose to go through that feeling fresh all over again. I'll be posting the story to your reddit page in a couple days after I process some things better
The boyfriend didn’t want to be with her anymore when he made her book the trip. He forced her to pay for it so that he could go hang out with his friends. Then he found any little thing that he could do to push her out of the group so that he could party the way he wanted to. She never stood a chance
Honestly this is a blessing in disguise. He's an absolute dick for making her pay for it all. I'd consider it the price I'd pay to NOT be with him anymore. She honestly needs to cut the ex out of her life. The "I want to stay in contact" is just him trying to keep her as a backup/keep tabs on her. After that, things will get so much better.
I think he used her for the trip to Mexico! That is why he demanded she pay for it all or lose his number …He was going to break up W/ her anyways so he had an excuse to do it after her blackout. Sounds like she needs to look at her relationship and see what else she has been required to pay for! Hope she finds a nice man!
Don't stay with someone who weaponizes taking their life like this. It's usually manipulative. Get them resources, but don't put your life on hold for them. Most people who are actually serious don't tell anyone and the ones left behind are wondering why. If someone threatens that they're likely bluffing or going to make sure they take you with them. Either way leave this to the MH professionals.
My sister threatened suicide because my mom put her foot down and got rid of my sister's aggressive Pitbull who had bit several people and attacked our other pets, almost killing one. My mom straight up told her "do it then. You won't because people who actually want to commit suicide won't tell anyone." My sister didn't attempt it or threaten it again after that. For context, I actually did attempt suicide as a teenager so my mom is super sensitive when it comes to suicide. When she knows someone is trying to be manipulative by threatening to unalive themselves, she gets pretty upset about it and doesn't play around.
On the ‘a whole group conspiring against you’ I’ve actually had that happen. I was 17, senior year of high school, and I got a stomach virus that nearly killed me. I missed a week of school. I came back to find out that my ‘friends’ had been talking mad shit about me. That I wasn’t even sick (none of them had checked on me or tried to message me), that I was lying about being poor because I just didn’t want to hang out with them or spend money which???? Who lies about being so poor you have to boil water on the stove to bathe in the middle of winter with 4 feet of snow on the ground, and that I was lying about all of my chronic illnesses and issues, that my dad wasn’t sick because of his heart disease (genetic not something he ignored or caused), and that I just constantly lied about everything.
Getting ahead of a narrative someone would spin is a fair point. When me and my ex husband got divorced, he bad mouthed me and told lies to everyone. We were in a mutual field, professionally and I suffered for it. Everyone was angry at me and made it very apparent. I won’t pretend to be 100% innocent but my ex was a real slime ball, druggie , manipulate and emotionally abusive person who loved to belittle me in front of people knowing I would try to be low key in public. I never understood how he could be so evil. I didn’t think he was capable of doing this.
Honestly guys, I feel like the boyfriend already wanted to break up with OP in the blackout drunk story. He was mean as hell at the beginning of the story telling her if she didn't book the room it's over and there was something else he said and she's sooooo in love with him she just did whatever to keep him there. But, once she paid for everything and the trip was in motion he had no use for her anymore💯💯 If she felt like everyone was being mean to her it's probably because they were🤨 because they probably knew that he was using her and they had no respect for her😑 So the black out drunk situation just gave him the easy out and he didn't want to talk about the break-up face to face because he didn't want to deal with the crying and attempts at a compromise OP would've thrown out and he had no intentions on changing his mind💯💯That's just my opinion 🤎🖤🤎🖤🤎💯✌🏼
14:02 why did my ex say something similar? There was trickle truth, but when it came to kissing someone else she deadass said “we were always allowed to kiss other people.” News to me!
I would tell the friend that I have an emergency with the bank and I have to go home, tell them fiancé can stay and you can take care of it, and you can get home sort things out without fiancé knowing. Ensure screenshots are kept.
As an LO - I see people buy homes with gf/bf/ fiancé and always tell them to talk with a real estate attorney. No one ever does! If you don’t have a written contract about the home split - it’s left up in the air!
The Mexico trip one is a bit weird. I have a feeling the bride might have a thing for the ex. Maybe there is some cheating going on there and she is resentful that the girlfriend came. Also sounds like the boyfriend didn't want to pay for anything so used the girlfriend to get the free trip and now that they are broken up, I bet he will feel like he doesn't have to pay anything. I hope you kept receipts to get that money back.
I'd take screenshots of the texts and pics, send them to myself, keep a lid on it, get married, then use the texts and pics (crop out the screenshot date - or get ahold of her phone again after marriage and send myself new screenshots) and get a good divorce settlement based on her cheating. Just because bitterness and ego.
Make the moustache happen! As a person that grew in the best era of the 70’s and yes just like show! It would make me smile like you both do everyday.. I am consider myself recycled teenager ( 61) you both remind me of my son each of you … yes I smh .. blush n want give you a shake but mostly smile got me through really tough time of last 6 mnths .. 3 deaths n my own illness ( kidney disease )
yes, I think it's an AH move to get blackout drunk at someone else's event. I have a theory that OP was being used to go in this expensive trip. He threatened to break up if she didnt make the reservations immediately... I think the friends were in on the plan. Their filters were gone because why would they care about her opinions and feelings if they wouldn't have to see her again. Maybe she did say something ridiculous like that... but my theory is that the friends and BF were planning on finding a nail to put in the coffin of that relationship the whole time.
The question is, is it still a AH move if everyone is 10 shots in? Because OP mentions that everyone was super drunk as well when talking about they don’t know if anyone’s story is reliable. So if everyone is black out drunk is it still an AH move?
I want to see a mustache on that handsome mug of Sam's, also on the flip I want to see all of John's good looking face with no beard. Or maybe you guys could something like "Merry Mustaches" for this holiday season, and both have mustaches only! So stoked i found your channel. You guys are fucking awesome!!! XOXO
That woman is awful. I'm so glad OP dumped her. To use emotional blackmail and threaten to unalive yourself is fucking horrible. If you have to say that to get someone back, you should be single
There is a small possibility I could move past cheating but I could never forgive someone for eating a child's finger. It would be over either way. I would rather the child be safe.
Maybe this was the boyfriend’s way of getting out of paying her back. PLUS, it seemed like a toxic relationship anyway so she’s free now. Try to look at the bright side OP
Hmmm the second one, you guys missed where she said that most of the other people had also drunk as much as she had. So she was not the only one that drunk. It sounded to me like most of them were, so why call just her the asshole? I'm pretty sure that he didn't want her to start with and used her for the money for the trip. And I'm equally sure the whole group of his friends KNEW this. Which makes it much more likely that one or more of his friends created this little story to give him a reason to break up with her. As almost EVERYONE was wasted (not just her), it would be hard for her to refute.
Alcohol tolerance is dependent on DNA and liver enzymes. Just so you know, due to my heritage I can drink most men and women under the table. Last work party, after 6-7 drinks in 1.5 hrs I was still walking around like normal and my boss wasn't going anywhere in a car. I was worried they'd barf.
I think the boyfriend used her for his way there and that's why no one wanted her there which is why he made it an ultimatum that she had to buy the stuff because that's the only reason he was with her otherwise he would have just got himself
Dude used OP for a trip to Mexico. i'm sure he still hasn't paid. and more than likely, she asked if his tie matched his socks and it got used against her since they were all hammered. i can't find a mustache emoji lol sooooo....🧔
STORY 2: Don’t care if anyone thinks it’s conspiracy or not…1) she could count her drinks & everyone else’s drinks, her tipping over, him picking her up by the waist, her emotional sense of the guy, his description (sans tie, which says a lot about how uninterested she was in this person, on top of literally feeling uninterested & bleh about his 40 yo vibe) so, I’m going to believe she could recall whether or not she said anything 2) everyone else was completely blitzed. No one had any connection to her, no interest, no loyalty & it sounds like everyone was a real, basic POS that they legitimately wrote her off, not giving a shit how this impacted her, a valid human being, when they could easily see how it was & heard her vehement stance on the entire situation. 3) She had/has, unfortunately, like so many of us, zero idea how horrible of a partner she has…4) how imbalanced her efforts are in comparison to his 5) she even states he’s DISMISSIVE and BLAMING over HIM NOT PACKING HIS OWN SUIT when he also what????? THREATENED TO BREAK UP WITH HER IF SHE DIDN’T BOOK THE ROOM! Meaning…not just called but PAID FOR the $1,000 room 6) months go by & he still doesn’t pay her back 7) SHE hears STRAIGHT from bride & groom that THEY’RE NOT WANTED AT THEIR WEDDING & yet 8) her “partner” simply dismisses what she was told to her face & says they’re lying? This guy sounds like a total POS…and then they 9) only hang out with the non wedding attending friends of her partner’s?? Why does no one in the wedding party want to be associated with this dude? Which leads me to believe that 10) that might have been why everyone was so dismissive of her, as a worthy, living, breathing, feeling human being going through this bs. I’m completely assuming, with some confidence, that they didn’t give a shit about her…because they a) know something she’s likely dismissing about him, herself & b) they’re wholly assuming she’s on her way out, anyway. I don’t think he wants to pay her back…I think she knows a lot of this because she left clues all over…like she’s putting the pieces together but not confronting them. It would’ve been a complete disaster of a marriage had the two of them actually tied the knot and…honestly…IME…that usually entails forms of abuse against the more subservient partner. To whom she represents. -I…have a lot of work to do on myself…I’m not judging…but I am leaving this far too invested comment, in order to give my brain a break from my shit. 💁🏽♀️ I wish way better for that girly.
For the cheating fiancée story, As someone whose love language is touch I could never be with someone who wasn’t snuggly and cuddly but that’s not a reason to cheat. How you show your love is HUGE deal in a relationship but if it isn’t working out you either see if they can provide the love the way you need it or you leave the relationship. You don’t get to cheat, if you want other people leave.
So, you boys need a sound board. When one of you is away or can't record, bust out the soundboard, have Sam and John react buttons, like generic and likr...one mystery button, recorded by the respective boi and its something silly or whatever.b
On the second story... doesnt sound like OP has ever been in a healthy relationship. There's just so much wrong and to unpack from the little she said about their "great" relationship.
Thinking about times I’ve gotten blackout drunk when I was younger, I was completely TA. And the night is ruined cuz now everyone has to take care of people. I remember being out drinking once and this girl behind me asks for a light, so I help her out and turn back around and take like one step and feel something hit the back of my legs and cuz I was drinking, I was ready to fight someone. So I turn around ready to fight, even more so cuz I was nice and loaned out my lighter, but when I turned around no one was there. Then I look down and see the girl and realized it was actually her head that hit me cuz she tripped and face planted.
The destination wedding one. Hold your tongue. Celebrate your friend's special time. In the mean time between now and your getting home contact an attorney. Make sure you have evidence and protect yourself before you confront. Her stories show expartners all in the wrong. You don't want to be on that receiving end.
Op2 both if them are the aholes. He acts like a man-toddler expecting her to baby him all the time. And her, they already told you they don't want you there, you are fighting with her boyfriend, whybin the world would she get wasted to that point of blacking out. How can she say she was among friends if they already told her they don't want them there? Both of them seem very toxic and immature.
The mexi o seemed unbalanced from the start like there wasnt anything I heard that made me wish I had a relationship like that, in fact total opposite. Icing on the cake for me is when she said the time between they spent after the breakup talk and going home was the best time they had together. Like girl, the smell is toxic, something ain't adding up. He was nice to you when he broke up with you but will drag you through dirt when he has you. I wouldn't call that someone I would want to dedicate my life to let alone be friends with.
Leaving a destination wedding is tough depending where the destination is. There may not be another flight out or it might be expensive to change travel plans.
🥸 I need to see this ❤ About the second story I agree about op being a little of an ah. It wasn’t her friends so she should be a little more careful with drinking. But I also think that they conspired against op. I’m wondering if the boyfriend was in it too. He owed op money and maybe didn’t want to pay it back.
Is getting black out drunk at a wedding a bit of a AH move? Sure. But then again, so were all the others. “He said, she said” situations are always very tricky as you have to rely on other people’s (often very biased) versions of events. I think, In the end it comes all down to how much the boyfriend trusts OP. Does he trust her enough that EVEN IF she said such a thing, that it was in fact just a weird rambling of a drunk person. So basically it comes down to 1. Does he trust her not to do such a thing. 2. Does he trust her to not really mean it IF she said it super drunk. Because if he does not trust her as a baseline, regardless of the situation. Then there really is no point of continuing the relationship. If this IS really a one-off on OPs side (either getting inappropriatly drunk, or saying weird shit) and he judges her so harshly for a single mistake, OP should be glad to be rid of him. People who judge others in terms of black and white, usually lack empathy and the capacity to take accountability for their own action if they ever had to.
You look great with a piercing John and Sam!!! It'll be bangin lol. Also your mom Sam, reminds me waaaayyyy too much of my bf's mom and she's from England . Kinda find it funny :P
Everybody was drinking and a lot of people had drinks that night so I don't blame the woman for her drinking. Who I do blame though is her boyfriend because he should know her character by now, especially if he's talking about being with her and marrying her. I wouldn't ruin my relationship over. He said she said but if that's what he chooses to do then I would just move on.
I think the friends already knew he was kind of wanting to get out of the relationship and anticipated that there would be some kind of b******* or drama. And that's why nobody really wanted them to come in the first place.
I used to get blackout A LOT... I've learned yo ALWAYS tell the truth, because you have no clue what you say... have to keep information straight..😂😂😂😂
oh man, I feel so bad for that poor lady, the other lady, was panicking thinking her gf was cheating on her and it didnt occur that op found out that she found evidence of her cheating. It never occurred to her to delete her old texts? if that relationship actually meant something to her she wouldnt of cheated.
Girl pov: where was *he*? I'm all for personal responsibility, no question there. But the details suggest he was checked out and not interested in enjoying this event with her. She was with *his* friends, possibly drinking extra to cover up social anxiety (not wise), and feeling beglected by her bf/fiance. I think *he's* the arsehole. He wanted a free ride to this wedding before breaking up. Complete arse.
No one goes into a party thinking your going to black out. You just having a good time taking shot with your friends and then boom you black out. It just happens highly you keep blaming her like she went in there thinking she was going to get black out and stupid. I never went in to a bar and thought I was going to black out it just happened.
The fact that the boyfriend was so kind to her after "the break up" until they got home, is proof to me that he just used her for her money. If he had acted broken up, she could have gone home earlier and cancel his return ticket! I therefor have the feeling that him and his friends set this up beforehand and they also tempted her to drink too much to give him a way of dumping her. You know deep in your heart you would not go for a certain person. It can have been a stupid drunk joke, but I do think they wanted her to do something with that guy and she refused or something like that. Her being heart broken may also make her forget to force him to give her money back.
OP should take him to small claims court for the money or she’ll never see it again. He moved, so he probably planned on ghosting her so he didn’t have to pay it back after the trip
As someone who actually was cheated on 3 days ago into a 5 year relationship where I stepped up to be parent in a pre started family to make it my own and the way I've been feeling, I'd eat that finger like a hot wing before I'd ever choose to go through that feeling fresh all over again. I'll be posting the story to your reddit page in a couple days after I process some things better
I'm sorry guy❤
Sorry to hear that
Betrayal trauma is a real thing. I’m sorry for your pain
So sorry to hear, I wish you all the best
I’m so sorry 😢. I’ve been there. It’s truly awful.
The boyfriend didn’t want to be with her anymore when he made her book the trip. He forced her to pay for it so that he could go hang out with his friends. Then he found any little thing that he could do to push her out of the group so that he could party the way he wanted to. She never stood a chance
Honestly this is a blessing in disguise. He's an absolute dick for making her pay for it all. I'd consider it the price I'd pay to NOT be with him anymore. She honestly needs to cut the ex out of her life. The "I want to stay in contact" is just him trying to keep her as a backup/keep tabs on her. After that, things will get so much better.
I think he used her for the trip to Mexico! That is why he demanded she pay for it all or lose his number …He was going to break up W/ her anyways so he had an excuse to do it after her blackout. Sounds like she needs to look at her relationship and see what else she has been required to pay for! Hope she finds a nice man!
Don't stay with someone who weaponizes taking their life like this. It's usually manipulative. Get them resources, but don't put your life on hold for them.
Most people who are actually serious don't tell anyone and the ones left behind are wondering why. If someone threatens that they're likely bluffing or going to make sure they take you with them. Either way leave this to the MH professionals.
Exactly, they think they can help them. Leave that to the experts. Don't be a savior
Good advice!
Keeping someone by threatening self harm is no different than threatening the to harm the others. Both are manipulation and wrong
Exactly! Being kept as an emotional hostage is the worst.
My sister threatened suicide because my mom put her foot down and got rid of my sister's aggressive Pitbull who had bit several people and attacked our other pets, almost killing one. My mom straight up told her "do it then. You won't because people who actually want to commit suicide won't tell anyone."
My sister didn't attempt it or threaten it again after that.
For context, I actually did attempt suicide as a teenager so my mom is super sensitive when it comes to suicide. When she knows someone is trying to be manipulative by threatening to unalive themselves, she gets pretty upset about it and doesn't play around.
On the ‘a whole group conspiring against you’ I’ve actually had that happen.
I was 17, senior year of high school, and I got a stomach virus that nearly killed me. I missed a week of school. I came back to find out that my ‘friends’ had been talking mad shit about me. That I wasn’t even sick (none of them had checked on me or tried to message me), that I was lying about being poor because I just didn’t want to hang out with them or spend money which???? Who lies about being so poor you have to boil water on the stove to bathe in the middle of winter with 4 feet of snow on the ground, and that I was lying about all of my chronic illnesses and issues, that my dad wasn’t sick because of his heart disease (genetic not something he ignored or caused), and that I just constantly lied about everything.
Every adult in my life thinks I lie about my disability.
Getting ahead of a narrative someone would spin is a fair point. When me and my ex husband got divorced, he bad mouthed me and told lies to everyone. We were in a mutual field, professionally and I suffered for it. Everyone was angry at me and made it very apparent. I won’t pretend to be 100% innocent but my ex was a real slime ball, druggie , manipulate and emotionally abusive person who loved to belittle me in front of people knowing I would try to be low key in public. I never understood how he could be so evil. I didn’t think he was capable of doing this.
"I love you, mom"
"I- yes, Samuel"
BRUTAL
Honestly guys, I feel like the boyfriend already wanted to break up with OP in the blackout drunk story. He was mean as hell at the beginning of the story telling her if she didn't book the room it's over and there was something else he said and she's sooooo in love with him she just did whatever to keep him there. But, once she paid for everything and the trip was in motion he had no use for her anymore💯💯 If she felt like everyone was being mean to her it's probably because they were🤨 because they probably knew that he was using her and they had no respect for her😑 So the black out drunk situation just gave him the easy out and he didn't want to talk about the break-up face to face because he didn't want to deal with the crying and attempts at a compromise OP would've thrown out and he had no intentions on changing his mind💯💯That's just my opinion 🤎🖤🤎🖤🤎💯✌🏼
This
Your mom is adorable! Best response ever!😂
I think OPs boyfriend just didn’t wanna pay her the money he owes her, so he came up with an excuse to dump her
Sam’s finger rant had me cracking up. I love you guys lol 😂
As someone who's tried human finger, I'd eat a human finger.
14:02 why did my ex say something similar? There was trickle truth, but when it came to kissing someone else she deadass said “we were always allowed to kiss other people.”
News to me!
I was worried for a hot minute you guys weren't posting today! But here you are! Yaaaay!
I would tell the friend that I have an emergency with the bank and I have to go home, tell them fiancé can stay and you can take care of it, and you can get home sort things out without fiancé knowing. Ensure screenshots are kept.
Am I the only one who thinks maybe she was asking if the tie matches his socks?? That would make more sense 😭
That makes so much sense!! And easily a drunk person (bride or whoever) could for sure hear that wrong!
That's what I thought made sense as well.
Also who matches their tie to their doodle? I don't think anyone's rocking a paisley doodle.
@@redbunny22 “paisley doodle” 😭😭
Holy shit that is SO PLAUSIBLE! That’s probably what actually happened!
I'd rather be cheated on than eat the finger. The finger is gross and also you don't know if that finger has a disease
You don't know if the cheating people have diseases either.
She couldn't go back before the time, the airline charges a horrible fee for changing dates so close to using
It’s very impressive that you guys post everyday
Wow, John is a really good friend/person to do so much for his drunk friend.
As an LO - I see people buy homes with gf/bf/ fiancé and always tell them to talk with a real estate attorney. No one ever does! If you don’t have a written contract about the home split - it’s left up in the air!
Poor Sam's mom! She sounds so sweet and loving! ❤
snooping is a DEAL BREAKER!!!
The Mexico trip one is a bit weird. I have a feeling the bride might have a thing for the ex. Maybe there is some cheating going on there and she is resentful that the girlfriend came. Also sounds like the boyfriend didn't want to pay for anything so used the girlfriend to get the free trip and now that they are broken up, I bet he will feel like he doesn't have to pay anything. I hope you kept receipts to get that money back.
The fact that he still cares about his mam opinions this way is kind of cool!
"just kidding it was sexting" john: AAAAAAWWWWWEEEE Dx I fucken died
I'd take screenshots of the texts and pics, send them to myself, keep a lid on it, get married, then use the texts and pics (crop out the screenshot date - or get ahold of her phone again after marriage and send myself new screenshots) and get a good divorce settlement based on her cheating. Just because bitterness and ego.
Make the moustache happen! As a person that grew in the best era of the 70’s and yes just like show! It would make me smile like you both do everyday.. I am consider myself recycled teenager ( 61) you both remind me of my son each of you … yes I smh .. blush n want give you a shake but mostly smile got me through really tough time of last 6 mnths .. 3 deaths n my own illness ( kidney disease )
I am really loving the commentary with this episode
yes, I think it's an AH move to get blackout drunk at someone else's event.
I have a theory that OP was being used to go in this expensive trip. He threatened to break up if she didnt make the reservations immediately... I think the friends were in on the plan. Their filters were gone because why would they care about her opinions and feelings if they wouldn't have to see her again. Maybe she did say something ridiculous like that... but my theory is that the friends and BF were planning on finding a nail to put in the coffin of that relationship the whole time.
The question is, is it still a AH move if everyone is 10 shots in? Because OP mentions that everyone was super drunk as well when talking about they don’t know if anyone’s story is reliable. So if everyone is black out drunk is it still an AH move?
I want to see a mustache on that handsome mug of Sam's, also on the flip I want to see all of John's good looking face with no beard. Or maybe you guys could something like "Merry Mustaches" for this holiday season, and both have mustaches only! So stoked i found your channel. You guys are fucking awesome!!! XOXO
Hahaha merry mustaches is hilarious
Captain crunch is awesome af. Also 👨
Probably she asked if the tie matched the cuffs
The last 10 mins of this is pure chaos and i love it
That woman is awful. I'm so glad OP dumped her. To use emotional blackmail and threaten to unalive yourself is fucking horrible. If you have to say that to get someone back, you should be single
17:29 I think all states have laws that cover involuntary psychiatric commitment in Arizona it’s Title 36 and California it’s 5150.
Second story - I would have cancelled his plane ticket and flew back by myself
Love your Mom!
Comparing Uber and Lyft scores is such a black mirror episode 😅
There is a small possibility I could move past cheating but I could never forgive someone for eating a child's finger. It would be over either way. I would rather the child be safe.
I feel like that first poster said “I love your tie. Does it match your socks?” They were all super drunk and in a super loud club.
Maybe this was the boyfriend’s way of getting out of paying her back. PLUS, it seemed like a toxic relationship anyway so she’s free now. Try to look at the bright side OP
Omg Sam I LOVE your mom!!
Sam's mom is a vibe. Love to you lady 👍❤❤😂😂😂
I guess slow roasted human finger over cheating for me 😂😂
I hate to say im only slightly ashamed about how quickly i said eat a human finger when i heard that question
I love the ending❤ it’s so cute😂😂😂
5 minutes in and I'm loving the animations in between 🙌🏾
I call bullshit on that blackout shit. Think about it. If you were so drunk you blacked out how could you remember how many shots you did
Hmmm the second one, you guys missed where she said that most of the other people had also drunk as much as she had. So she was not the only one that drunk. It sounded to me like most of them were, so why call just her the asshole?
I'm pretty sure that he didn't want her to start with and used her for the money for the trip. And I'm equally sure the whole group of his friends KNEW this. Which makes it much more likely that one or more of his friends created this little story to give him a reason to break up with her. As almost EVERYONE was wasted (not just her), it would be hard for her to refute.
Alcohol tolerance is dependent on DNA and liver enzymes. Just so you know, due to my heritage I can drink most men and women under the table. Last work party, after 6-7 drinks in 1.5 hrs I was still walking around like normal and my boss wasn't going anywhere in a car. I was worried they'd barf.
I think the boyfriend used her for his way there and that's why no one wanted her there which is why he made it an ultimatum that she had to buy the stuff because that's the only reason he was with her otherwise he would have just got himself
"I love you mom"
"Ah-Yes Samuel"
Awe nooo 😭
I think the boyfriend in the second story is seeing someone else in NY.
Good luck on that date Sam! 🥸
Dude used OP for a trip to Mexico. i'm sure he still hasn't paid. and more than likely, she asked if his tie matched his socks and it got used against her since they were all hammered. i can't find a mustache emoji lol sooooo....🧔
Did he break up with her so he didn't have to pay her back?
STORY 2: Don’t care if anyone thinks it’s conspiracy or not…1) she could count her drinks & everyone else’s drinks, her tipping over, him picking her up by the waist, her emotional sense of the guy, his description (sans tie, which says a lot about how uninterested she was in this person, on top of literally feeling uninterested & bleh about his 40 yo vibe) so, I’m going to believe she could recall whether or not she said anything 2) everyone else was completely blitzed. No one had any connection to her, no interest, no loyalty & it sounds like everyone was a real, basic POS that they legitimately wrote her off, not giving a shit how this impacted her, a valid human being, when they could easily see how it was & heard her vehement stance on the entire situation. 3) She had/has, unfortunately, like so many of us, zero idea how horrible of a partner she has…4) how imbalanced her efforts are in comparison to his 5) she even states he’s DISMISSIVE and BLAMING over HIM NOT PACKING HIS OWN SUIT when he also what????? THREATENED TO BREAK UP WITH HER IF SHE DIDN’T BOOK THE ROOM! Meaning…not just called but PAID FOR the $1,000 room 6) months go by & he still doesn’t pay her back 7) SHE hears STRAIGHT from bride & groom that THEY’RE NOT WANTED AT THEIR WEDDING & yet 8) her “partner” simply dismisses what she was told to her face & says they’re lying? This guy sounds like a total POS…and then they 9) only hang out with the non wedding attending friends of her partner’s?? Why does no one in the wedding party want to be associated with this dude? Which leads me to believe that 10) that might have been why everyone was so dismissive of her, as a worthy, living, breathing, feeling human being going through this bs. I’m completely assuming, with some confidence, that they didn’t give a shit about her…because they a) know something she’s likely dismissing about him, herself & b) they’re wholly assuming she’s on her way out, anyway. I don’t think he wants to pay her back…I think she knows a lot of this because she left clues all over…like she’s putting the pieces together but not confronting them. It would’ve been a complete disaster of a marriage had the two of them actually tied the knot and…honestly…IME…that usually entails forms of abuse against the more subservient partner. To whom she represents. -I…have a lot of work to do on myself…I’m not judging…but I am leaving this far too invested comment, in order to give my brain a break from my shit. 💁🏽♀️ I wish way better for that girly.
Heard this on Spotify, but definitely funnier with the visuals from UA-cam.😊
I’m vegan and have been with my partner for 15 years.
I’ll take the eating the finger any day.
Canada the cops can put you on a 72 hour psych hold. You go to the hospital and the doctor decides what to do from there.
For the cheating fiancée story, As someone whose love language is touch I could never be with someone who wasn’t snuggly and cuddly but that’s not a reason to cheat. How you show your love is HUGE deal in a relationship but if it isn’t working out you either see if they can provide the love the way you need it or you leave the relationship. You don’t get to cheat, if you want other people leave.
So, you boys need a sound board. When one of you is away or can't record, bust out the soundboard, have Sam and John react buttons, like generic and likr...one mystery button, recorded by the respective boi and its something silly or whatever.b
Sound board!
Your stories make me so happy I'm with my angel of a wife omg ❤
🎉 Sam good luck on your date ❤
Nooo on the mustache lol
No, mustaches never look good unless you're Tom Selleck. You're not.
Have fun on your date Sam! ❤🥸
On the second story... doesnt sound like OP has ever been in a healthy relationship. There's just so much wrong and to unpack from the little she said about their "great" relationship.
23:15 moustache
I wanna see sam with a mustache lol 👨
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Thinking about times I’ve gotten blackout drunk when I was younger, I was completely TA. And the night is ruined cuz now everyone has to take care of people.
I remember being out drinking once and this girl behind me asks for a light, so I help her out and turn back around and take like one step and feel something hit the back of my legs and cuz I was drinking, I was ready to fight someone. So I turn around ready to fight, even more so cuz I was nice and loaned out my lighter, but when I turned around no one was there. Then I look down and see the girl and realized it was actually her head that hit me cuz she tripped and face planted.
Could the tie have been spotted? Could she be making a bad joke abt the grooms brother having an std rather than making a pass?
I would be DEAD after 6 shots of tequila. I cant even imagine 10 jeesh
He just was looking for an excuse to break up wirh you.
The destination wedding one. Hold your tongue. Celebrate your friend's special time. In the mean time between now and your getting home contact an attorney. Make sure you have evidence and protect yourself before you confront. Her stories show expartners all in the wrong. You don't want to be on that receiving end.
She probably asked if his tie matched his socks as they sometimes do. It makes way more sense than what she was accused of saying imo.
Op2 both if them are the aholes. He acts like a man-toddler expecting her to baby him all the time. And her, they already told you they don't want you there, you are fighting with her boyfriend, whybin the world would she get wasted to that point of blacking out. How can she say she was among friends if they already told her they don't want them there?
Both of them seem very toxic and immature.
The mexi o seemed unbalanced from the start like there wasnt anything I heard that made me wish I had a relationship like that, in fact total opposite. Icing on the cake for me is when she said the time between they spent after the breakup talk and going home was the best time they had together. Like girl, the smell is toxic, something ain't adding up. He was nice to you when he broke up with you but will drag you through dirt when he has you. I wouldn't call that someone I would want to dedicate my life to let alone be friends with.
Leaving a destination wedding is tough depending where the destination is. There may not be another flight out or it might be expensive to change travel plans.
🥸 I need to see this ❤
About the second story I agree about op being a little of an ah. It wasn’t her friends so she should be a little more careful with drinking. But I also think that they conspired against op. I’m wondering if the boyfriend was in it too. He owed op money and maybe didn’t want to pay it back.
🥸 hell yes
Is getting black out drunk at a wedding a bit of a AH move? Sure. But then again, so were all the others.
“He said, she said” situations are always very tricky as you have to rely on other people’s (often very biased) versions of events. I think, In the end it comes all down to how much the boyfriend trusts OP. Does he trust her enough that EVEN IF she said such a thing, that it was in fact just a weird rambling of a drunk person. So basically it comes down to 1. Does he trust her not to do such a thing. 2. Does he trust her to not really mean it IF she said it super drunk.
Because if he does not trust her as a baseline, regardless of the situation. Then there really is no point of continuing the relationship.
If this IS really a one-off on OPs side (either getting inappropriatly drunk, or saying weird shit) and he judges her so harshly for a single mistake, OP should be glad to be rid of him.
People who judge others in terms of black and white, usually lack empathy and the capacity to take accountability for their own action if they ever had to.
You look great with a piercing John and Sam!!! It'll be bangin lol. Also your mom Sam, reminds me waaaayyyy too much of my bf's mom and she's from England . Kinda find it funny :P
No mo~lestach 👨🏼!
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😂😂😂😂 love you guys so much
Saaammmmm 🥸 🥸 do it!! 😅 thank goodness you two are not wearing orange anymore!!
Love this channel tho!! ❤❤
Everybody was drinking and a lot of people had drinks that night so I don't blame the woman for her drinking. Who I do blame though is her boyfriend because he should know her character by now, especially if he's talking about being with her and marrying her. I wouldn't ruin my relationship over. He said she said but if that's what he chooses to do then I would just move on.
The wedding can be a distraction for a little bit, so maybe it's a good idea to just go. Also, you think of how to exit the relationship.
I think the friends already knew he was kind of wanting to get out of the relationship and anticipated that there would be some kind of b******* or drama. And that's why nobody really wanted them to come in the first place.
Oh lemmywings 😂😂😂
I used to get blackout A LOT... I've learned yo ALWAYS tell the truth, because you have no clue what you say... have to keep information straight..😂😂😂😂
oh man, I feel so bad for that poor lady, the other lady, was panicking thinking her gf was cheating on her and it didnt occur that op found out that she found evidence of her cheating. It never occurred to her to delete her old texts? if that relationship actually meant something to her she wouldnt of cheated.
I really thought we were about to see a belly ring!😂
Girl pov: where was *he*? I'm all for personal responsibility, no question there. But the details suggest he was checked out and not interested in enjoying this event with her. She was with *his* friends, possibly drinking extra to cover up social anxiety (not wise), and feeling beglected by her bf/fiance.
I think *he's* the arsehole. He wanted a free ride to this wedding before breaking up. Complete arse.
No one goes into a party thinking your going to black out. You just having a good time taking shot with your friends and then boom you black out. It just happens highly you keep blaming her like she went in there thinking she was going to get black out and stupid. I never went in to a bar and thought I was going to black out it just happened.
Mustash totally 😂xx
Sam needs a mustache 😂😂😂
I would choose cheat on me. The finger can F off lol 😂 and I will be so gone
Spaming for the stash