It was definitely over the top/too far but it seems she’s been pranking you for years. No one is denying that. If she can’t take one bad day, without doing all of this, then she shouldn’t have been pranking ANYONE for all these years. Like she went super left field.
And I still think the only over the top thing were the mariachis, because they are LOUD AS F and culturally are taken quite seriously. And the only thing I'd have paid for was the dress cleaning, it was an accident after all. The mariachis claiming damages for a snapped guitar chord was utter abuse!
The ex-boyfriends were intentionally mean and too far, but the rest seemed to match Rachel's prank energy. Rember someone who has a nasty sense of humor will fight diabolically dirty in the pursuit to make you pay forever because how dare you give them what they've been dealing out as "just a prank or joke". It never ends well.
I mean, the only thing I don’t agree with was the exes was invited. But Rachel surely has pranked OP many many more times big or small. It was clear OP didn’t like the karaoke scene from her 30th bd, and that also went on the internet. Sure it was over the top but it was one day and Rachel can’t take a big joke. And why would Rachel need therapy for a mariachi band, a clown and wine spilled on her dress?
ESH but mainly YTA. Firstly, a karaoke night instead of a small family gathering v.s. a flash mob, mariachi band, EXES, and clown; 100% you took it too far and you know it, OP is a total asshole for this. Secondly, I don’t know why OP is acting like they meant it all as a harmless prank, OP definitely threw that surprise out of malice and resentment. Like at least be honest about your intentions of getting back at her for your birthday, you claiming to everyone and in the Reddit post that “oh I just did out of good fun” “my innocent birthday surprise turned into a sibling war” like be so fr you know what you are doing, own it. Third, I’m surprised that OP isn’t surprised she needs therapy from this experience. OP and her sister are EXTREMELY PETTY, and even though OP doesn’t say it in the post you can tell she marvels when more people in her family choose her side or come to her family gathering than Rachel’s by the way she writes. Last, I don’t think OP sister (Rachel) is a saint. She’s an asshole too. She pranked OP for years and the karaoke prank wasn’t right either, but OP’s prank was 100x worse. Rachel is also extremely petty and self centered, wanting all the attention, the passive aggressive social media posts, etc. The fact that OP has 0 remorse is what concerns me. When OP’s best friend said they regretted helping plan the party, OP said “I was hurt” only about what OP feels, not anyone else. Maybe OP and Rachel are narcissists. Either they are both awful people.
Why prank others whrn u cant get pranked urself? But still i kind of agree it was rlly ”toxic” but rachel, she such a drama queen she can make bad jokes but she cant take them herself
Finally, a comment that perfectly summarises the issue. OP is definitely TA as well as her sister. But I do think that this has caused an everlasting rift in the family which will come back and bite the OP in her ass in the future. Let’s hope nothing of this sort happens though because the next person to go LC and move away would definitely be the OP
Inviting her exs seemed a bit over the top imo, but the rest i think, was deserved, and i dont blame op for overstepping that one boundary because im sure Rachael has ocerstepped much more
Overall, yeah, the sister was not cool for pranking OP for every birthday, but the EXES thing that's too far. That's not a prank anymore, that's just being malicious.
I'm just wondering on what Planet do so many family members get a say in what goes on...and on...and wretchedly onnnnnn in other family members lives. There's a profusion of these stories online recently. Including all of those that bear the same theme of putting family first etc, etc, etcetera. As for the massive 'family gatherings'. Don't people have anything better to do than hang out with family consistently and continuously? Another halfwitted theme. I wonder why on earth would ANYBODY, ANY FAMILY, have a massive group chat including everyone, cousins, aunts, uncles, distant whomevers. Is this factual? A thing? Whatever it is, whoever wrote this, and other stories/channels (including some supposedly Reddit stories) out there, need to find new ideas. Its the same crap, just written a different way.
YTA you set high standards and embarrassed her, she did not on your birthday. She embarrassed herself, if you did not like that you could have left or thrown a different celebration without her. If your birthday bothered you so damn much get therapy, there is so many ways you could have fixed the situation but instead you chose to be insane and ruin her birthday by (restating my opinion up top) embarrassing her, making her not trust you, setting HIGH standards for her party, LYING. And obviously making her not trust letting other people with helping with her party celebrations, I think you’re the real asshole.
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The irony being, what Rachel is doing is financial and emotional abuse, while OP was a one bad day prank
How is it abuse
It was a good thing that you did that prank maybe it caused a lot of drama but it exposed her for who she really is
It was definitely over the top/too far but it seems she’s been pranking you for years. No one is denying that. If she can’t take one bad day, without doing all of this, then she shouldn’t have been pranking ANYONE for all these years. Like she went super left field.
And I still think the only over the top thing were the mariachis, because they are LOUD AS F and culturally are taken quite seriously. And the only thing I'd have paid for was the dress cleaning, it was an accident after all. The mariachis claiming damages for a snapped guitar chord was utter abuse!
Pranking ummm you mean bullying.
So Rachel can play pranks but op can’t because they’re not the golden child Rachel………
Rachel got a dose of her own medicine and can’t stand it
If she broke a line how many lines did the sister cross
Don’t dish out jokes and pranks if you can’t take them.
Learn to make a joke 😂 stupid
The ex-boyfriends were intentionally mean and too far, but the rest seemed to match Rachel's prank energy. Rember someone who has a nasty sense of humor will fight diabolically dirty in the pursuit to make you pay forever because how dare you give them what they've been dealing out as "just a prank or joke". It never ends well.
I mean, the only thing I don’t agree with was the exes was invited. But Rachel surely has pranked OP many many more times big or small. It was clear OP didn’t like the karaoke scene from her 30th bd, and that also went on the internet. Sure it was over the top but it was one day and Rachel can’t take a big joke. And why would Rachel need therapy for a mariachi band, a clown and wine spilled on her dress?
ESH but mainly YTA. Firstly, a karaoke night instead of a small family gathering v.s. a flash mob, mariachi band, EXES, and clown; 100% you took it too far and you know it, OP is a total asshole for this. Secondly, I don’t know why OP is acting like they meant it all as a harmless prank, OP definitely threw that surprise out of malice and resentment. Like at least be honest about your intentions of getting back at her for your birthday, you claiming to everyone and in the Reddit post that “oh I just did out of good fun” “my innocent birthday surprise turned into a sibling war” like be so fr you know what you are doing, own it. Third, I’m surprised that OP isn’t surprised she needs therapy from this experience. OP and her sister are EXTREMELY PETTY, and even though OP doesn’t say it in the post you can tell she marvels when more people in her family choose her side or come to her family gathering than Rachel’s by the way she writes. Last, I don’t think OP sister (Rachel) is a saint. She’s an asshole too. She pranked OP for years and the karaoke prank wasn’t right either, but OP’s prank was 100x worse. Rachel is also extremely petty and self centered, wanting all the attention, the passive aggressive social media posts, etc. The fact that OP has 0 remorse is what concerns me. When OP’s best friend said they regretted helping plan the party, OP said “I was hurt” only about what OP feels, not anyone else. Maybe OP and Rachel are narcissists. Either they are both awful people.
Why prank others whrn u cant get pranked urself? But still i kind of agree it was rlly ”toxic” but rachel, she such a drama queen she can make bad jokes but she cant take them herself
Finally, a comment that perfectly summarises the issue. OP is definitely TA as well as her sister. But I do think that this has caused an everlasting rift in the family which will come back and bite the OP in her ass in the future. Let’s hope nothing of this sort happens though because the next person to go LC and move away would definitely be the OP
Rachel fucked around and found out
I wish I could find the videos that she mentioned…
Jimmy your momma !!!!!!!!!!!
Inviting her exs seemed a bit over the top imo, but the rest i think, was deserved, and i dont blame op for overstepping that one boundary because im sure Rachael has ocerstepped much more
You posted this on my birthday. And my name is Jordan
Rachel is what 30 man I thought she was a bratty 16 year old!
Don’t dish out on pranks if you can’t handle them. It’s common sense.
Nta that's hilarious serves her right
Inviting her exes was so wrong and toxic
Overall, yeah, the sister was not cool for pranking OP for every birthday, but the EXES thing that's too far. That's not a prank anymore, that's just being malicious.
I thought it was hilarious
So it's ok to prank others but she can't be pranked.
Really hypocritical of her, i would distance myself from ppl like her
By the sounds of it Rachel had been ranking aka bullying others.
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It's called payback or karma? either way You're sister needs to grow up
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I'm just wondering on what Planet do so many family members get a say in what goes on...and on...and wretchedly onnnnnn in other family members lives. There's a profusion of these stories online recently. Including all of those that bear the same theme of putting family first etc, etc, etcetera. As for the massive 'family gatherings'. Don't people have anything better to do than hang out with family consistently and continuously?
Another halfwitted theme. I wonder why on earth would ANYBODY, ANY FAMILY, have a massive group chat including everyone, cousins, aunts, uncles, distant whomevers. Is this factual? A thing?
Whatever it is, whoever wrote this, and other stories/channels (including some supposedly Reddit stories) out there, need to find new ideas. Its the same crap, just written a different way.
Anyone in 1942
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Yes! So happy someone else from 42 is here!
any 1942, but I am from 1567, anyone from there ?!
I’m from 1427! Lol
YTA you deliberately embarrassed her when she didn’t mean to embarrass you. You went too fsr
YTA your kinda insane for planing that she pulled a little prank on you and you ruined her birthday
So? Rachel screws her over a lot more than that. I’d say it’s fair.
well she got revenge😂
Ops sister ruined hers I am an introvert and she is accepted
It was an eye for an eye
OP should’ve sued back for her birthday and therapy. And gone scorched earth.
YTA you set high standards and embarrassed her, she did not on your birthday. She embarrassed herself, if you did not like that you could have left or thrown a different celebration without her. If your birthday bothered you so damn much get therapy, there is so many ways you could have fixed the situation but instead you chose to be insane and ruin her birthday by (restating my opinion up top) embarrassing her, making her not trust you, setting HIGH standards for her party, LYING. And obviously making her not trust letting other people with helping with her party celebrations, I think you’re the real asshole.
I think your ignoring the fact that it wasn’t a one time thing, but it had been happing years after years.