the way cam looks at taryn when she’s speaking about her health anxiety and the possibility of carrying a child, just the love in her eyes is beyond everything. you two are gonna last 200 years
Cammie, thank you big time for the podcast!!! It was an era!🥺❤️ I love it so much!! And didn't miss a single one! I'm looking forward to listening your new podcast.
Thanks for answering all these questions. So excited for your wedding and finding a creational way of walking down the aisle and the outfits you want to wear.
I loved every part of this video! You two made me laugh and smile, I didn’t want the video to end. Thank you for sharing your life update with us☺️ I know you two will make amazing moms when the time comes! Much love to you both! Keep on inspiring and being exactly who you are! 💖🏳️🌈
It’s okay on the whole baby talk. It’s good you’re being open and honest with how you feel and what you want. I get it and can relate. Thanks for sharing that taryn the way you talked about it helped me think about some things too. ❤️
So true have to agree the vibe between Cam and Taryn are inspiring, and both are hilarious, funny, witty, and amazing video. Thank you so much for sharing this Q and A and enjoyed all the answers and love still getting to know you both more every video.
I absolutely love Parenthood! I'm currently watching the series for the first time and I'm on season 5. It's so brilliant and is easily becoming one of my favorite shows ever.
Loved this. Just wanted to say I also have anxiety and struggled during the beginning of my pregnancy with it a lot but then it got better and ended up helping me feel more calm and positive. It depends the pregnancy hormones you get too which you can't predict but hypnobirthing helped me so much with having a more positive pregnancy and just dealing with life. I found switching to a small birthing clinic instead of a big hospital helped too. You'll be amazing mother's however your babies come to be.
The joint checking account is a REALLY good idea. Having a joint account for your bills and also having your separate accounts for miscellaneous items is very smart. I think that’s not only healthy for a relationship, but a great idea!
I’m obsessed with you two. Any time Taryn was on the Uneducated podcast I hoped you two would eventually start a podcast together, so I cannot wait to listen!!!
Love the content. Definitely recommend a first look. The logistics of taking pictures with family and friends works out so much better before the ceremony and you really are going to want that intimate time together where you see each other for the first time. By far my favorite moment from my wedding.
I appreciate the fact that taryn brought up having a baby can cause the baby to have anxiety issues. I come from teen parents. And I’m 29. Parents in their mid 40s. And I get such bad anxiety out of nowhere. Given my parents were abusive to each other growing up but not only that. I get anxiety over even a tiff. I hate it. I also took a child psychology class in college and the babies adapt to that feeling. It’s hard and rough. They are IN you. They feel everythingggg. It’s hard. And once I told me mom this, she cried I was depressed and had anxiety at 4-5 years old. I still am and I’m 29. What you go through in your pregnancy has so much to do with baby so I repeat how she understands how it will affect baby Incan see that. Love this for them.
I live in Sweden and the tradition here is to Walk down the aisle together. It is also less patriarchal. As in a the dad gives a way his “possession. “.
I love it how you have no roles and both just go with what you both want as to me that's an ideal relationship as I hate having to have a role in a relationship.
feels so silly that there are roles for anyone going into a relationship. everyone is different and better at/enjoys certain things. I feel like assuming relationship dynamics before letting them natural form is setting ppl up for failure and to be unhappy. no one should have to do something just bc it's assumed that will be their role.
@@CammieScott Exactly it is silly and yeah definitely different things work for different people. Yeah it doesn't sound like a relationship which allows you to be free to be who you are and yeah no one should, roles are pointless like just forcing stuff on people for I feel the sake of tradition.
Can you elaborate on the premarital counseling? I didn't know that this was a thing, at least I have never heard this term in my country. How is it supposed to help you and in what aspects of your relationship?
This is the first video in my life that I've ever gotten a warning that it may be inappropriate.... And I've stumbled upon some really scarring content. Whaaaat?! 🤔🤔🤔
If you are afraid of doctors and hospitals I would encourage you to look into the midwife route! So so amazing to have a relationship with your health provider unlike the relationship with doctors
Love you guys and excited for this catch up! Also question because I’ve never heard this term before...lesbian bed death? What is that exactly? I’m assuming like..absent sex or something, just never heard anybody say that before 😂 I LOVED the various running metaphors! Especially the sprint and stop 🤣 YES to that!!
Hi I have degrees in Education, Psychology & am almost finished my Masters in Sexology & thought this would be helpful for you… Lesbian Bed Death is a term used in queer spaces to refer to sex life changes as a result of deeper emotional intimacy but lowered autonomy/individuality (which impacts sexual desire). It can refer to anything from an absent sex life to a reduced sex life that doesn’t fully satisfy one or all partners. HOWEVER, it’s not scientifically validated. “Bed Death” happens in most relationships regardless of orientation when this increased emotional intimacy & decreased autonomy occurs (ie unless you’re deliberately balancing/counteracting it). It’s a more prominent issue in WLW spaces only because: 1. WLW relationships last longer on average (so you’re more likely to reach that point in the relationship than other orientations) AND 2. WLW relationships CAN result in a faster build of emotional intimacy due to the Sexual Double Bind problem (people AFAB are commonly socialised to prioritise emotional intimacy & people AMAB are commonly socialised to prioritise sexual intimacy). So in the Sexology space “Lesbian Bed Death” is considered a misnomer. That said - I’m glad we have words to talk about sex & obstacles we may face along the way in WLW spaces so we can connect, enhance & grow together 🥰🌈
it was a theory developed by a straight woman & a man in the early 80s and their evidence was one questionairre... definitely not something to waste time thinking abt 😅
Taryn, you mentioned doing anything to get your eggs out in order to have a biological child. Just curious, why is it important to you to have a child be biologically yours? Would it matter if Cammie just used her eggs? Thanks
hi! if i'm possible, i would love to have at least one of our kids be biologically mine! no main drivers other than it would be awesome if i could carry see my parents and siblings in my kid physically, but if it doesn't/can't happen, i'm okay with that too!
It makes me so sad that you (Taryn) express a desire to share genes with “at least one of your kids”. I wish that you'd understand that this way of reasoning would express to your child that you don’t share genes with, that they are somehow “lesser than”. And it says a lot that an obvious homophobe commented that it’s “probably because it would actually be hers and not someone else's.. duh?” - I mean, it was clearly a homophobe who wrote this comment, and the sad part is that this terrible comment is kind of cohesive with what you’re expressing - "that you'd love to share genes with at least one of our kids" and that "it would be awesome to see your parents and siblings in your kid physically”. I wish you’d ask yourself; WHY would that be awesome? Why do you value sharing genes (and physical resemblance) with your child/family members? It just saddens me that so many lesbians can't manage to unlearn this heteronormative bullshit that they’ve internalized about it being important to share genes with your family members, before deciding to have kids. As a lesbian mom who does not share genes with my child, I feel like it is our duty as gay parents to get rid of all of the internalized homophobic norms that say there is value in sharing genes with your kids. Because if we don’t, our kids will carry the feeling of being “lesser than” their whole lives, and that’s not fair to them. You say that "'you're okay with that too" if you'd end up not sharing genes with any of your future kids - but this still means that it would be a "second best option" to you. My child is the best thing that ever happened to me and I want her to always know that, and not for one second think that I’d rather have a child that I share genes with or that I'd value sharing genes with my kids. I’m not trying to shame you, I genuinely just wish that you'd expand your mind and start seeing outside of this heteronormative and homophobic society - a society that not that long ago didn’t even legally allow us gays to have kids. And therefore, internalizing their homophobic norms won’t favor you and your future kids in any way, it will only do you harm. I don't think that what you're expressing is your actual opinion, but rather something that you've learned and internalized from society - and it can be unlearned! Please do your future child a favor and unlearn this stuff before you become parents! I wish you the best! /a swedish psychologist@@TheTarynArnold
aww Taryn, I have major health anxiety too. I highly recommend yall get a Doula and a midwife when you have babies, it will really help that anxiety compared to an ob.
Hi Cammie, do you think you would be interested in making a video on abortion. I think it is extremely important especially for the younger generation to learn more about it. It breaks my heart to think about all those young girls that live in dangerous situations that now have to raise a child on their own.
Wouldn't you both have to get pregnant to have children? And one's child wouldn't be the others'.. sperm and egg needed.. will they know their fathers? Just curious
the way cam looks at taryn when she’s speaking about her health anxiety and the possibility of carrying a child, just the love in her eyes is beyond everything. you two are gonna last 200 years
🥹❤️
Out here ✨manifesting✨ HARD to have the love and life you two have built together 🥺🤍🤍🤍
this is so cute and you WILL!!
Ugh y’all are so cute! Thank you for being so open & honest 🥰
I love Taryn content!! Thank you for gracing us with this video and please keep it coming if that’s what y’all want to do ❤️
Cammie, thank you big time for the podcast!!! It was an era!🥺❤️
I love it so much!! And didn't miss a single one! I'm looking forward to listening your new podcast.
i love watching you guys together and i love hearing taryn's thoughts i cant wait for the podcast!
Thanks for answering all these questions.
So excited for your wedding and finding a creational way of walking down the aisle and the outfits you want to wear.
This was so sweet and interesting to watch! Thanks Cammie and Taryn… so excited for you. -Melissa
I loved every part of this video! You two made me laugh and smile, I didn’t want the video to end. Thank you for sharing your life update with us☺️ I know you two will make amazing moms when the time comes! Much love to you both! Keep on inspiring and being exactly who you are! 💖🏳️🌈
i can see why cammie brings in all the ladies. shes funny, witty, beautiful, insightful and smart
love you guys! thanks for spending sunday with us 💕
It’s okay on the whole baby talk. It’s good you’re being open and honest with how you feel and what you want. I get it and can relate. Thanks for sharing that taryn the way you talked about it helped me think about some things too. ❤️
So true have to agree the vibe between Cam and Taryn are inspiring, and both are hilarious, funny, witty, and amazing video. Thank you so much for sharing this Q and A and enjoyed all the answers and love still getting to know you both more every video.
The energy between you two is incredible. Looking forward to your new podcast together! 💛
AGREEE
So great to see Taryn “in person” after getting used to reading her thoughts on insta/email ☺️
some how she's even better in person if you can believe it
@@CammieScott i can believe it !!
It's nice to see a couple so honest and so much in love good luck in the future
so excited for your new podcast!!!
I absolutely love Parenthood! I'm currently watching the series for the first time and I'm on season 5. It's so brilliant and is easily becoming one of my favorite shows ever.
no spoilers! it is the best show ever
Great video Cammie!!! Missed seeing your amazing videos. Love you girl ❤❤❤❤
y’all are so cute! 🥰🥰
Loved this. Just wanted to say I also have anxiety and struggled during the beginning of my pregnancy with it a lot but then it got better and ended up helping me feel more calm and positive. It depends the pregnancy hormones you get too which you can't predict but hypnobirthing helped me so much with having a more positive pregnancy and just dealing with life. I found switching to a small birthing clinic instead of a big hospital helped too. You'll be amazing mother's however your babies come to be.
you guys give me so much hope i love you both thank you for sharing this with us
The joint checking account is a REALLY good idea. Having a joint account for your bills and also having your separate accounts for miscellaneous items is very smart. I think that’s not only healthy for a relationship, but a great idea!
I’m obsessed with you two. Any time Taryn was on the Uneducated podcast I hoped you two would eventually start a podcast together, so I cannot wait to listen!!!
I loved this video so much! 💛
Love the content. Definitely recommend a first look. The logistics of taking pictures with family and friends works out so much better before the ceremony and you really are going to want that intimate time together where you see each other for the first time. By far my favorite moment from my wedding.
I know it logistically makes way more sense but we really want that special moment during the ceremony. we will take alone time afterwards!
I appreciate the fact that taryn brought up having a baby can cause the baby to have anxiety issues. I come from teen parents. And I’m 29. Parents in their mid 40s. And I get such bad anxiety out of nowhere. Given my parents were abusive to each other growing up but not only that. I get anxiety over even a tiff. I hate it. I also took a child psychology class in college and the babies adapt to that feeling. It’s hard and rough. They are IN you. They feel everythingggg. It’s hard. And once I told me mom this, she cried I was depressed and had anxiety at 4-5 years old. I still am and I’m 29. What you go through in your pregnancy has so much to do with baby so I repeat how she understands how it will affect baby Incan see that. Love this for them.
the way taryn makes cammie laugh tho
non stop
A Sunday morning video with a cup of coffee, what a great morning!!
☺ happy Sunday!
Y’all r so cute! U should make a storytime video of how u met 🤗
Yall are so cute together ❤
ugh i love y'all
Great video you two. You two make a very cute couple
i'm watching this video before watching the finale of killing eve...that's how much ily
Be prepared for awful finale :)))
@@TheKominiarz i know there's spoilers everywhere:(
can we just take a second to appreciate the background aesthetic ? cool, I'll go back to watching
one of my favorite little corners in our house ☺
Its gonna be vegan donuts 🍩🍩 & im living for the symbolism
I live in Sweden and the tradition here is to Walk down the aisle together. It is also less patriarchal. As in a the dad gives a way his “possession. “.
I love it how you have no roles and both just go with what you both want as to me that's an ideal relationship as I hate having to have a role in a relationship.
feels so silly that there are roles for anyone going into a relationship. everyone is different and better at/enjoys certain things. I feel like assuming relationship dynamics before letting them natural form is setting ppl up for failure and to be unhappy. no one should have to do something just bc it's assumed that will be their role.
@@CammieScott Exactly it is silly and yeah definitely different things work for different people. Yeah it doesn't sound like a relationship which allows you to be free to be who you are and yeah no one should, roles are pointless like just forcing stuff on people for I feel the sake of tradition.
I can agree Parenthood is the best 🥰
Definitely wasn’t expecting a sex toy sponsor!
Great video 🥰
Thanks ladies for sharing🤗💕✌️
9:24 "i dont know if theres anything else traditional that we're not doing."
"marrying a man?" 😂
did I lie tho...
@@CammieScott ^^
the "maybe make a left" part killed me LMAOOO
We love y'all very much
I hope Cammie’s chronic diarrhea clears up someday ♥️ praying for you!
oh my god I know you're trolling me but this is hilarious!
HAHAHAAHAHA
My fiance and I are standing at the altar already and watching our guests walk down the aisle instead!
they're soulmates definitely
Can you elaborate on the premarital counseling? I didn't know that this was a thing, at least I have never heard this term in my country. How is it supposed to help you and in what aspects of your relationship?
I would really love to hear your partner talk more about her health anxiety, it’s not spoken about enough x
Why is the videos falling off? This said to be 2 months old and the last one. Seeing Cammie is like looking at a beautiful picture.
Where is ally hills? I don’t see that
I hope I can find a love like yours someday ❤
This is the first video in my life that I've ever gotten a warning that it may be inappropriate.... And I've stumbled upon some really scarring content. Whaaaat?! 🤔🤔🤔
Thank you.
If you are afraid of doctors and hospitals I would encourage you to look into the midwife route! So so amazing to have a relationship with your health provider unlike the relationship with doctors
Love you guys and excited for this catch up! Also question because I’ve never heard this term before...lesbian bed death? What is that exactly? I’m assuming like..absent sex or something, just never heard anybody say that before 😂 I LOVED the various running metaphors! Especially the sprint and stop 🤣 YES to that!!
Yes, it means when sex stops in a long (lesbian) relationship
@@crystal.matter thanks! I just always called em dry spells
Hi I have degrees in Education, Psychology & am almost finished my Masters in Sexology & thought this would be helpful for you… Lesbian Bed Death is a term used in queer spaces to refer to sex life changes as a result of deeper emotional intimacy but lowered autonomy/individuality (which impacts sexual desire). It can refer to anything from an absent sex life to a reduced sex life that doesn’t fully satisfy one or all partners. HOWEVER, it’s not scientifically validated. “Bed Death” happens in most relationships regardless of orientation when this increased emotional intimacy & decreased autonomy occurs (ie unless you’re deliberately balancing/counteracting it). It’s a more prominent issue in WLW spaces only because: 1. WLW relationships last longer on average (so you’re more likely to reach that point in the relationship than other orientations) AND 2. WLW relationships CAN result in a faster build of emotional intimacy due to the Sexual Double Bind problem (people AFAB are commonly socialised to prioritise emotional intimacy & people AMAB are commonly socialised to prioritise sexual intimacy). So in the Sexology space “Lesbian Bed Death” is considered a misnomer.
That said - I’m glad we have words to talk about sex & obstacles we may face along the way in WLW spaces so we can connect, enhance & grow together 🥰🌈
it was a theory developed by a straight woman & a man in the early 80s and their evidence was one questionairre... definitely not something to waste time thinking abt 😅
@@saskia6648 100% !!!
please look into the research on the use of aversive tools like choke chains and prong collars
could be a fun Uneducated episode
How is your life going
What is that background noise?! 🙈
i wish you 2 the very best and may your journey together be a life time
Can you film your wedding for us? And for you guys to have it too forever
Kevin Arnold!?!?!??!?!?!??!?!
Who would win if you two did a wrestling match. I’d want to see that.
Imagine Camden Mary Allyse Arnold - Scott 😂😂😂
the most excessive lol
Cuteeee MashaALLAH
Taryn, you mentioned doing anything to get your eggs out in order to have a biological child. Just curious, why is it important to you to have a child be biologically yours? Would it matter if Cammie just used her eggs? Thanks
hi! if i'm possible, i would love to have at least one of our kids be biologically mine! no main drivers other than it would be awesome if i could carry see my parents and siblings in my kid physically, but if it doesn't/can't happen, i'm okay with that too!
I NEED to see a mini taryn. if you saw a baby pic of her you would understand.
Probably because it would actually be hers and not someone else's.. duh?
It makes me so sad that you (Taryn) express a desire to share genes with “at least one of your kids”. I wish that you'd understand that this way of reasoning would express to your child that you don’t share genes with, that they are somehow “lesser than”. And it says a lot that an obvious homophobe commented that it’s “probably because it would actually be hers and not someone else's.. duh?” - I mean, it was clearly a homophobe who wrote this comment, and the sad part is that this terrible comment is kind of cohesive with what you’re expressing - "that you'd love to share genes with at least one of our kids" and that "it would be awesome to see your parents and siblings in your kid physically”. I wish you’d ask yourself; WHY would that be awesome? Why do you value sharing genes (and physical resemblance) with your child/family members? It just saddens me that so many lesbians can't manage to unlearn this heteronormative bullshit that they’ve internalized about it being important to share genes with your family members, before deciding to have kids. As a lesbian mom who does not share genes with my child, I feel like it is our duty as gay parents to get rid of all of the internalized homophobic norms that say there is value in sharing genes with your kids. Because if we don’t, our kids will carry the feeling of being “lesser than” their whole lives, and that’s not fair to them. You say that "'you're okay with that too" if you'd end up not sharing genes with any of your future kids - but this still means that it would be a "second best option" to you. My child is the best thing that ever happened to me and I want her to always know that, and not for one second think that I’d rather have a child that I share genes with or that I'd value sharing genes with my kids. I’m not trying to shame you, I genuinely just wish that you'd expand your mind and start seeing outside of this heteronormative and homophobic society - a society that not that long ago didn’t even legally allow us gays to have kids. And therefore, internalizing their homophobic norms won’t favor you and your future kids in any way, it will only do you harm. I don't think that what you're expressing is your actual opinion, but rather something that you've learned and internalized from society - and it can be unlearned! Please do your future child a favor and unlearn this stuff before you become parents! I wish you the best! /a swedish psychologist@@TheTarynArnold
Very nice 😍
aww Taryn, I have major health anxiety too. I highly recommend yall get a Doula and a midwife when you have babies, it will really help that anxiety compared to an ob.
Hi Cammie, do you think you would be interested in making a video on abortion. I think it is extremely important especially for the younger generation to learn more about it. It breaks my heart to think about all those young girls that live in dangerous situations that now have to raise a child on their own.
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Cammie drop the arm workout sheesh
Cute
Wouldn't you both have to get pregnant to have children? And one's child wouldn't be the others'.. sperm and egg needed.. will they know their fathers? Just curious
we haven't made all of these decisions just yet! but will share more about our current thoughts on them soon and share as our opinions evolve!