Rule 1 in Jordan Petersons book called 12 rules for life is, Stand straight with your shoulders back. This simple rule started my upward loop and is still striving to improve to till this day.
na for real! act is if you are attractive / assume attraction is probably the best thing i’ve done. i’ve never been a confident person at all but mine has sky rocketed since and all of a sudden theres attention from women
Hey man, you’re one of the few self-improvement UA-camrs I found early on that I still watch to this day, keep going and I do hope you stick to your values yea fire video (pretty much as always)
1:40 Do not try to be mysterious, Acting like James bond will not make women like you and it'll get you more in your head, try to be real, positive assumptions have passion in your eyes and expressiveness, especially if you're not very socially advanced, it'll take time practice them one by one, the mysterious part will be after you're advanced you can have high standards and show people you're not already bought in and they self qualify.
Problem is that people who live to attract others will attract people that is not that good for you. The key is to live for a higher understanding than simply attract the other sex. HIgh heart love is a higher form of alchemy that requires alot more than mental training and a good body. And that will enhance your entire state of being in away that only can be explained as ectasty 24/7. Even when you are asleep. Jesus heart. Source love that will make you find lost love from other lifetimes even. People in our density are stuck inside external validation and "go inside" only to further than validation. The key to the higher forms of love is learning and understanding alchemy few have that patentints for. Overall i like your advice and your are correct seen to what people try to achieve, but will the love last? When you love soul age wont matter.
I went to a party last week and we played a game which consisted in naming the hottest people in the circle, who would you make out with,... . Everybody got chosen by at least one person except me and that made me rethink if I'm actually attractive. That's why I'm here. Good video, btw.
In time death and age takes all. Even your own percieved beauty. What is that beauty then? Seek first the maker of beauty and the meta-ethics of beauty. Goodness starts from within. Why must the world be full of vanity and Nietzscheanism? Those who make the temporary beauty of the fallen world their life's meaning, forget that our Lord will restore all things; including beauty, to a state where it is perfected physically in all things. So to the idolater of beauty, to those who obsess with our fallen reality, they shall one day lose what they think is so important, and be left with nothing for not having their heart in the eternal goodness of God. But those of us who know all things shall be resurrected unto everlasting life, it is we who shall not fear loss or flaws in the nature of ourselves and the world, for we know the glorious day of life that comes, where there shall be no more decay. Those who obsess with vanity of their own looks, and idolize it like it gives their lives meaning, shall be empty, they will lose all they desire with age, and then what? It is like swimming against the current of the river. We must accept this reality is fallen, and then we will see that the Lord is the center of all goodness; including beauty. And death; death is the center of ugliness - praise be that the Lord is the defeater of death. In the Orthodox Faith, we have a saying written the skulls of Saints: "As I am, so shall you be." We use this remembrance to reflect on the truth of God; that life and goodness, and the beautiful are nothing without His grace. To remind ourselves to keep away from vanity and idolatry of the fallen nature of this fallen world.
I don't care being attractive i will just advice everyone to not give a F about being beautiful and focus on what you want to be in your life after you are dead do you want to be known as just a attractive guy i don't i just want to be known as the best to ever do it U can do anything
@@joninator7858 I sacrifice everything I can't become more attractive and more successful at the same time because a man that chases two rabits catches none I will not even Marry till I have made it if I don't make it I will be happy to die alone
My biggest flaw are my essential tremors and over the years it's been progressively worse and just makes my anxiety, self-esteem just goes down and it's just a constant spiral. It really sucks, but I don't wanna take medication.
I got them too, probably milder than you but I crack jokes whenever people ask about. I.e. "I have a crippling meth addiction". You have to embrace that is a part of you but no more than that- wear it like armour. Stay strong king.
@RoboyMK1 when I went out to the pub with my buds who I haven't seen in a long while I got really anxious and couldn't even pick up a slice of pizza off the tray. It was really sucky. I can't really hold a full beer anymore unless I have several beers lol. I do try to embrace it. I'm planning on seeing a neurologist at some point in the near future.
I think the same, not because of love but because of some other aspects like general success. But mine other half of the mind tells me one day I will get there so the only thing you must do is to push forward no matter what you did or where are you at
Washing your face and eating cleaner will not clear your skin up. Unless you’re a slob. For some, like me, it was getting off of birth control. It’s definitely different for women. If you don’t see results you need to get on accutane.
1:30 this is especially sad because instead of finding people he actually related to and who would accept him and cultivating healthy relationships based on mutual respect, he doubled down on the desperate need for validation from people who's only positive attributes were their looks, and who at this point rejected him outright. Talk about a fork in the road moment. Now his entire life, both private and personal is dedicated to validation seeking.
Rule 1 in Jordan Petersons book called 12 rules for life is, Stand straight with your shoulders back. This simple rule started my upward loop and is still striving to improve to till this day.
Thank you for sharing 🙏
I like the "act if you were attractive" thing!
na for real! act is if you are attractive / assume attraction is probably the best thing i’ve done. i’ve never been a confident person at all but mine has sky rocketed since and all of a sudden theres attention from women
act as your attractive self" I really liked this idea and yeah our belief does matter. 👏
I think being attractive does make a person easily develop good traits. The few people I know who look model tier, all have good social skills.
Halo effect, people also make conversations easier for attractive guys than for average or below average guys.
@@petter3995Btw, guys: how fucked our times are, that is needed to explain such obvious things...
As a woman, I really appreciate and approve of everything you just said.
Well, as a woman. I don’t like to be called a bitch. So for any guy who is reading this: calling woman bitches WILL make you less attractive🫶🏻😂
Hey man, you’re one of the few self-improvement UA-camrs I found early on that I still watch to this day, keep going and I do hope you stick to your values yea
fire video (pretty much as always)
Thank you brother, you keep going as well!
The intro and presentation was so smooth and well done!
1:40 Do not try to be mysterious,
Acting like James bond will not make women like you and it'll get you more in your head, try to be real, positive assumptions have passion in your eyes and expressiveness, especially if you're not very socially advanced, it'll take time practice them one by one, the mysterious part will be after you're advanced you can have high standards and show people you're not already bought in and they self qualify.
the timing is insane!! Thank you for such an incredible video and efforts!
i cant belive i got recommended this so early
This is your “My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy”
By Kanye West
Problem is that people who live to attract others will attract people that is not that good for you. The key is to live for a higher understanding than simply attract the other sex. HIgh heart love is a higher form of alchemy that requires alot more than mental training and a good body. And that will enhance your entire state of being in away that only can be explained as ectasty 24/7. Even when you are asleep. Jesus heart. Source love that will make you find lost love from other lifetimes even. People in our density are stuck inside external validation and "go inside" only to further than validation. The key to the higher forms of love is learning and understanding alchemy few have that patentints for.
Overall i like your advice and your are correct seen to what people try to achieve, but will the love last? When you love soul age wont matter.
I went to a party last week and we played a game which consisted in naming the hottest people in the circle, who would you make out with,... . Everybody got chosen by at least one person except me and that made me rethink if I'm actually attractive. That's why I'm here. Good video, btw.
Nice
I'm less attractive than I think
How i intrpret this is: Live by the stature you aspire to be, rather than sitting their and imagining it.
This was actually a pretty structured video! Great view points
In time death and age takes all. Even your own percieved beauty. What is that beauty then? Seek first the maker of beauty and the meta-ethics of beauty. Goodness starts from within.
Why must the world be full of vanity and Nietzscheanism? Those who make the temporary beauty of the fallen world their life's meaning, forget that our Lord will restore all things; including beauty, to a state where it is perfected physically in all things. So to the idolater of beauty, to those who obsess with our fallen reality, they shall one day lose what they think is so important, and be left with nothing for not having their heart in the eternal goodness of God. But those of us who know all things shall be resurrected unto everlasting life, it is we who shall not fear loss or flaws in the nature of ourselves and the world, for we know the glorious day of life that comes, where there shall be no more decay.
Those who obsess with vanity of their own looks, and idolize it like it gives their lives meaning, shall be empty, they will lose all they desire with age, and then what? It is like swimming against the current of the river. We must accept this reality is fallen, and then we will see that the Lord is the center of all goodness; including beauty. And death; death is the center of ugliness - praise be that the Lord is the defeater of death.
In the Orthodox Faith, we have a saying written the skulls of Saints: "As I am, so shall you be." We use this remembrance to reflect on the truth of God; that life and goodness, and the beautiful are nothing without His grace. To remind ourselves to keep away from vanity and idolatry of the fallen nature of this fallen world.
Amen
fire bro
Great video, thank you.
I don't care being attractive i will just advice everyone to not give a F about being beautiful and focus on what you want to be in your life after you are dead do you want to be known as just a attractive guy i don't i just want to be known as the best to ever do it
U can do anything
U can do what you want in life and still work on becoming more attractive. They are not mutually exclusive
@@joninator7858 I sacrifice everything I can't become more attractive and more successful at the same time because a man that chases two rabits catches none
I will not even Marry till I have made it if I don't make it I will be happy to die alone
@@Sutejchbhowal sounds like a skill issue.
What book would you recommend for further creating a stoicm mindset.
My biggest flaw are my essential tremors and over the years it's been progressively worse and just makes my anxiety, self-esteem just goes down and it's just a constant spiral. It really sucks, but I don't wanna take medication.
I got them too, probably milder than you but I crack jokes whenever people ask about. I.e. "I have a crippling meth addiction". You have to embrace that is a part of you but no more than that- wear it like armour. Stay strong king.
@RoboyMK1 when I went out to the pub with my buds who I haven't seen in a long while I got really anxious and couldn't even pick up a slice of pizza off the tray. It was really sucky. I can't really hold a full beer anymore unless I have several beers lol. I do try to embrace it. I'm planning on seeing a neurologist at some point in the near future.
Man I loved this video. It seems like you get better with each, faster and faster (not trying to be a kissass lol)
Look into blackpill and lookism
More attractive!!
if there is one you thing you could tell someone, to change their whole life, what would it be?
"You got this. There's hope, and don't ever let go of it" That's what I would say
whatever I do I'll always be unworthy of love
Professional victim over here
I think the same, not because of love but because of some other aspects like general success. But mine other half of the mind tells me one day I will get there so the only thing you must do is to push forward no matter what you did or where are you at
@LolLol-nq4hg yeah
everyone deserves to be loved
Hey man loved your content btw are you looking for video editor?
With lots of hard work and dedication, years from now, maybe I can rise up to a 4/10
"What an enigma. I get better looking every day. Can't wait for tomorrow"
-Del Boy
Dereck "Del Boy" Trotter, the original chad
@platinumbrickproductions8319 💯💯💯
Word for word bar for bar
Hoping this will improve my confidence
I recommend this video, the social skill video I mention at the end, and my "dangerously confident" video.
@kenny.bender alright, thank you
No confidence for your face
Please make a video on study motivation and discipline
Washing your face and eating cleaner will not clear your skin up. Unless you’re a slob. For some, like me, it was getting off of birth control. It’s definitely different for women. If you don’t see results you need to get on accutane.
This guy actually looks a bit like Wilbur soot there's just something about his hair, and face that says that.
0:41 that will never happend to US :/
I ain't got no more than 15 to spend on a haircut... 😔
I’m ugly and short, so unfortunately I’m not attractive
Good video
Hlo you are very good motivator
i got this recommended so early
1:30 this is especially sad because instead of finding people he actually related to and who would accept him and cultivating healthy relationships based on mutual respect, he doubled down on the desperate need for validation from people who's only positive attributes were their looks, and who at this point rejected him outright. Talk about a fork in the road moment. Now his entire life, both private and personal is dedicated to validation seeking.
You can literally see it in his eyes. The desperation. His mind has taken full control and his soul is crying for help.
@@thereportoftheweek787 LMAOOOO
@@kenny.bender happy grifting buddy!
It's over body boyos
Recent 4 days I was thinking it's been a time you uploaded and here it is !
Also as I was preparing for an exam , I had some progress today!❤
Epic video Dude! You've got a talent.
Gaslighting of the highest order
❤
Spoon
youre attractive
I’m not 😢
Nope
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First!!!
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This video is invalid to people with autism which 100% of your viewers (including me:))
L mindset
You can learn social skills dawg. Don’t have a quitter mindset
first lol
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