It's hard to do, but all through life we will add people and remove people from our circles. He owes her a frank conversation, first of all. Secondly it's normal to miss ceetain aspects of a person or a rekatiobship, because no relationship is 110% terrible. I've had to remove a friend before, and although I miss some aspects of her friendship, and I acknowledge the parts of her personality that are great, those aspects are outweighed by the ways we're no longer in alignment and the relationship was exhausting because of that. I know it's the best thing for me, my energy, my soul to not reconnect. Ultimately we've grown in such different ways and we're so out of alignment that reconnecting would be a mistake and I'd just end up having to break it off again. Good luck to him with navigating this! ❤
I had a "friend" who always conveniently forgot her money at home... I was her bank. If we didn't have plans, she'd stop at my work to ask for gas money and money for food. Lol I got rid of her so fast soon afterward.
It's hard to do, but all through life we will add people and remove people from our circles.
He owes her a frank conversation, first of all.
Secondly it's normal to miss ceetain aspects of a person or a rekatiobship, because no relationship is 110% terrible.
I've had to remove a friend before, and although I miss some aspects of her friendship, and I acknowledge the parts of her personality that are great, those aspects are outweighed by the ways we're no longer in alignment and the relationship was exhausting because of that.
I know it's the best thing for me, my energy, my soul to not reconnect.
Ultimately we've grown in such different ways and we're so out of alignment that reconnecting would be a mistake and I'd just end up having to break it off again. Good luck to him with navigating this! ❤
Stay away. You left the friendship for a GOOD reason. Yes you'll miss them, but protect your peace.
I have had to do this and I miss them but I tried for 11/2 years it’s still yough
I had a "friend" who always conveniently forgot her money at home... I was her bank. If we didn't have plans, she'd stop at my work to ask for gas money and money for food. Lol I got rid of her so fast soon afterward.