EXCLUSIVE PART TWO: "So Sorry, Mrs. Jackson" | Da'Naia Jackson on Marriage, Infidelity, & Healing

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  • @DearFutureWifey
    @DearFutureWifey  Рік тому +1384

    Wanna show DA'NAIA JACKSON love? Let's blow her mind!
    CashApp $DaNaiaJackson

    • @ravenabeamon6879
      @ravenabeamon6879 Рік тому +44

      This is awesome! Thank you for all you do.

    • @AnasaRobin
      @AnasaRobin Рік тому +28

      Gonna support❤

    • @BrownSugarNCurls
      @BrownSugarNCurls Рік тому +217

      @@ladylonda6803 If you don’t wish to give that’s cool. But you have no idea what her finances look like.

    • @TheScentConnoisseur
      @TheScentConnoisseur Рік тому +42

      @@BrownSugarNCurls exactly 💯

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 Рік тому +51

      she needs more money?

  • @DrEziaku
    @DrEziaku Рік тому +7052

    Moral of the story; don’t mock a pain you haven’t endured.

    • @iemevrywoman1358
      @iemevrywoman1358 Рік тому +60

      Love this!

    • @africanloveletter1988
      @africanloveletter1988 Рік тому +37

      Amen

    • @CourtneeG
      @CourtneeG Рік тому +223

      Is that what you received? I think the moral of the story is we make choices whether good or bad to our future depends on the types of choices we make. Every woman that has gone through this including myself, chose. Choose your growth over emotions

    • @FleurRebelle
      @FleurRebelle Рік тому +177

      Everyone take away from it what they need

    • @healingwithzuristarr
      @healingwithzuristarr Рік тому +6

      Factssss

  • @Luenysgo
    @Luenysgo Рік тому +3229

    Derrick really kept this woman from finding her husband! I hope that when she heals she gets to experience real love, because lord knows she deserves to know what love is.
    Edit:
    Damn y’all really blaming the victim? That’s what we doing now? Someone said “he didn’t keep her from anything, she kept herself from finding love because she threatened to leave and take the baby with her, so he had to ‘step up’ ”
    So to get this straight you are saying that: Him stopping her from leaving and getting her back with promises of everything she wanted from him, wasn’t him actively getting in her way?

    • @fitp74
      @fitp74 Рік тому +146

      That’s so sad. He was never meant for her. She deserved a better man.

    • @rachelm.3173
      @rachelm.3173 Рік тому +32

      THIS!

    • @missj5564
      @missj5564 Рік тому +129

      He used her for his brand and because he thought she was safe.

    • @mrssamuel01
      @mrssamuel01 Рік тому +38

      I hope so too. But no when we dont seek God in who we choose to join too. we get a counterfeit and miss what God had for us. To begin with. He was the counterfeit so was she to his life.

    • @QueenMLA28
      @QueenMLA28 Рік тому +100

      I'm not prophesying, but I definitely saw a twinkle in Laterras' eye for her.😊

  • @mizbsuga
    @mizbsuga Рік тому +1722

    A lot of people are saying she’s not healed yet. Of course she isn’t. Healing is not linear. It has stages. Peaks and valleys. Good days and bad days. It’s a journey. Starting is the best first step. I wish her the best💜

    • @GiveHerFlowers
      @GiveHerFlowers Рік тому +19

      Facts

    • @3DSuccess
      @3DSuccess Рік тому +50

      Beautifully stated. It is definitely progressive. She definitely speaks with a level of depth that shows she has definitely begun her healing journey!

    • @NetivaHeard
      @NetivaHeard Рік тому +48

      Thank you! Healing from sexual abuse alone takes years, let alone having a manipulatijg, gas lighting husband who sees your low self esteem/image/worth and feeds off of it

    • @elishacannon6613
      @elishacannon6613 Рік тому +49

      She's on course. She appears to be healed from the initial shock! It sounds like she doing the work to start unpacking the other trama that's keep her in the marriage

    • @tylynn256
      @tylynn256 Рік тому +7

      So true

  • @malakeshiasabbath172
    @malakeshiasabbath172 Рік тому +457

    I give this woman all her flowers 💐 for just being so raw and real. She is definitely not alone

  • @godsdaughter9771
    @godsdaughter9771 Рік тому +758

    He lost a real GEM behind the spirit of lust. I cant wait to see the blessings God is about to pore down on her. ❤

    • @sarastevenson9592
      @sarastevenson9592 Рік тому +6

      This!!!!

    • @sharlonlewis7279
      @sharlonlewis7279 Рік тому +8

      Amen!!!
      Her story was so familiar… and I honestly came out on the other side with God’s blessing pouring down on me… I pray the same for her!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @f.k.a1010
      @f.k.a1010 Рік тому +14

      not really. they weren't compatible and both of them have major issues they need to resolve before being in a relationship.

    • @ReadyorNot811
      @ReadyorNot811 Рік тому

      ​@@f.k.a1010 exactly

    • @theevolutionofandrea5153
      @theevolutionofandrea5153 Рік тому

      This is a true case study of a demonic Soul tie and Trauma bonding. This is why you should always seek God before you marry somebody because marrying the wrong person will delay your life and your destiny. Fast, pray, have discernment, seek Good Counsel, listen to the Holy Spirit. What does the word say about marriage? Connect with couples whose marriages have withstood the test of time and gain wisdom from them. Man, I am so glad that she did this interview. Many people judged her but more can relate to her. We have all been in relationships that we should have never been in, in the first place because God never approved it. Many women now because of this interview will see the red flags in their relationships and be set free sooner because of her testimony. May her ex-husband find Deliverance and may she be found by a man who is covered by God because she is definitely a wife and a good thing.❤

  • @CharisMaggieTV
    @CharisMaggieTV Рік тому +645

    I feel like Derrick not only tried to keep her a secret cuz he wanted to continue his relations but also cuz sis is charismatic and could have stolen his spotlight cuz I couldn’t get through any of his videos but I sat and listen to her speak not cuz of the details she’s giving but she has a positive energy. And sis funny!

    • @nadiamcn5796
      @nadiamcn5796 Рік тому +41

      I agree 💯. Da'naia you are are Prov 31 embodied. He had honor because of you but he is a fool also based on proverbs.

    • @powerfulwoman5619
      @powerfulwoman5619 Рік тому +5

      So true

    • @jocelyngipson197
      @jocelyngipson197 Рік тому +7

      🎯

    • @kennethrevels6385
      @kennethrevels6385 Рік тому +58

      Funny thing is, if he would of embraced it, he would have made more of a real impact instead of scamming people.

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 Рік тому +31

      Poise, intelligence, humor, wisdom, the Holy Spirit? Here for it all!

  • @mickey10jb80
    @mickey10jb80 Рік тому +1573

    People can criticize his technique all they want but his style of interviewing helped her to open up. She didnt want to sit there feeling like she was being judged or grilled. There is nothing wrong with laughter especially when its at nobody else's expense. For us Blacks laughter has always brought comfort. I think he did a great job

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  Рік тому +140

      Thank you

    • @VirtuosoSoul925
      @VirtuosoSoul925 Рік тому +94

      I thought the same thing. Her delivery was light and she used laughter to drive discourse. This interview was amazing. Thank you both for engaging in this discussion. I hope it was equally cathartic and added to her continued healing.

    • @kayjay3948
      @kayjay3948 Рік тому +68

      Yes, he made her feel comfortable and not like she was being judged.

    • @theadvocate3006
      @theadvocate3006 Рік тому +2

      Laugh to keep from crying 😢 or cutting someone's d**k off. I'm just saying.

    • @mitziki3320
      @mitziki3320 Рік тому +56

      Yessssss ma’am!
      He interviewed excellently…….
      And she did a great job and I’m glad she can laugh and joke and be sarcastic. She owned her truth and expressed her feelings!
      To God Be The Glory🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
      Thank Jesus for protecting her SOUL AND MIND…… Hallelujah

  • @fleekfitcaribbeanhip-hopda3197
    @fleekfitcaribbeanhip-hopda3197 Рік тому +190

    PLEASE UNDERSTAND THIS Ladies👉🏽 A Man wanting to MARRY you 💍 means Nothing…. A Man wanting to be a HUSBAND to you is what Matters!…. Stop 🛑 worrying about being “Chose” and start paying attention to WHY he’s choosing you, and make certain the why isn’t self-serving and superficial and benefiting mainly him!

  • @tinasad3
    @tinasad3 Рік тому +1861

    It’s so interesting how prominent JESUS and the Bible is in the black community yet when someone who’s struggling clings to it and vocalizes it, that same community calls her crazy. Highlights the hypocrisy.

    • @TiannaUncommon
      @TiannaUncommon Рік тому +14

      💯

    • @Nitra813
      @Nitra813 Рік тому +75

      It’s very interesting because the Bible speaks on this very thing.

    • @AkilahsWorld
      @AkilahsWorld Рік тому +5

      Yup

    • @parishers6351
      @parishers6351 Рік тому +101

      Did you see the black blogs that posted her at her worst and got dragged her for her looks by their followers ? Her mother was the spiritual leader behind her breaking free. Prayer works. So it’s safe to say God was at work.

    • @ajourneytoessence2166
      @ajourneytoessence2166 Рік тому +63

      Girl yesssss you have just said a mouthful! Remember however that even the Bible says “Not all those saying to me Lord Lord will enter into the kingdom “

  • @keshasjoyjourney
    @keshasjoyjourney Рік тому +858

    I'm in tears... her ex was giving the "tools of success" to women around the world. While tearing his wife down at the same time.

    • @christopherreed3019
      @christopherreed3019 Рік тому

      PSYCHOPATH...dude is THE DEVIL....

    • @hershey307
      @hershey307 Рік тому +12

      That part!

    • @QueenMLA28
      @QueenMLA28 Рік тому +16

      Yes, so sad. It's like he r'd her a 2nd time....emotionally.

    • @sc3770
      @sc3770 Рік тому +5

      YES, AND HE MISSUSED IT QUEEN. HE DIDNT EVEN GIVE A RAT'S TAIL ABOUT HIS KIDS NOR WHAT THEY WERE GOING THROUGH. SHE DELT WITH DEPRESSTION, HURT DECEPTTION JUST BLANTEN DISREGAURD TO NO ONE EXCEPT HIMSELF. WOW ONLY A POWER GREATER THAN SELF COULD RESTORE HER BACK TO SANITY. THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMIT AS WELL. GROWING THROUGH A MASSIVE MOMENT IN TIME IS SO COURAGIOUS ON HER PART. IM GIVING HER OR ANY WOMAN OR MAN A STANDING OVATION OF JUST OVER COMING ALL OF IT. JOB WELL DONE QUEENS AND KINGS

    • @icemanx5085
      @icemanx5085 Рік тому +11

      He was lying to yall. KS was telling you the truth about this kind of man and yall hated him.

  • @tyiingram9878
    @tyiingram9878 Рік тому +1778

    To every black women reading this: I love you, I see you, I honor you and cover you. I send healing energy to mead your broken hearts and peace of mind. I shower you with all my love light energy. This Brother loves you with everything in me ❤❤️❤️

  • @L4A1D1Y
    @L4A1D1Y Рік тому +112

    This woman WENT THROUGH IT! AND she is STILL HERE! 💯👏🏾

  • @kidoftheking1406
    @kidoftheking1406 Рік тому +905

    My apologies to this Queen. I am one of the women that judged her and mocked her even though my own backyard wasn't clean 😢 I too went through demoralizing things with my ex husband and I stayed. I am so happy she did this interview

    • @valentineverna1080
      @valentineverna1080 Рік тому +52

      I was too. God please forgive me

    • @CanIgetanAwoMen
      @CanIgetanAwoMen Рік тому +62

      That takes courage to say! ❤️

    • @byrongrimsley500
      @byrongrimsley500 Рік тому +5

      No need to apologize it's just the true version of you she's no Queen and neither are you you're just here for entertainment but now you found a kinship in her pain probably because it happened to you I swear you can't make this stuff up misery loves company

    • @JOANNASTEELE-bf9eb
      @JOANNASTEELE-bf9eb Рік тому +40

      @@byrongrimsley500 I pray you reap what you have just sowed. you giving it as a seem may you get a forest. We will talk after that.

    • @MorganRimming
      @MorganRimming Рік тому +36

      ​@@byrongrimsley500Bro wtf are you on?😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Babziboo
    @Babziboo Рік тому +733

    Let's be clear, Derrick preyed on this woman. He saw her shy and awkwardly demeanor and he pounced. He love bombed her. Then he devalued her and triangulated her with other women. He shelved her and then finally discarded her for good when he was exposed. He is a predator and an awful human being.

    • @oatmealbrownie09
      @oatmealbrownie09 Рік тому +6

      Yup

    • @karimahreign
      @karimahreign Рік тому +17

      And there’s the summation!!! Facts!!!

    • @LifeIsNotorious
      @LifeIsNotorious Рік тому +4

      Boom

    • @trishlawrence7412
      @trishlawrence7412 Рік тому +16

      exactly, so when the interviewer asked her if he was honest about wanting to be with other women would she have stayed.. I believe so.. because she was under Derrick's spell..

    • @dataodokpa5431
      @dataodokpa5431 Рік тому +30

      Okay, his snickering is slowly getting difficult to enjoy this. At first, it was cool cause she’s a humorous individual, but when it got to the serious parts…🙄

  • @lashane1009
    @lashane1009 Рік тому +1815

    Da’Naia’s story is more common than some may want to admit. I appreciate her acknowledgement of being a participant in this relationship. Self awareness and healing is important work to do prior to selecting a long term partner so that you attract a better relationship.

    • @MotherDaughterGaming5157
      @MotherDaughterGaming5157 Рік тому +12

      Exactly ❤

    • @MsPrissyShamire
      @MsPrissyShamire Рік тому +3

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @qlg8574
      @qlg8574 Рік тому +14

      Yes, so true!! I definitely have no problem identifying with Da-naia know we have had similar experiences.

    • @3DSuccess
      @3DSuccess Рік тому +13

      Yes, a lot more common than most admit

    • @crimsonskyy1
      @crimsonskyy1 Рік тому +28

      And equally less common bc most aren’t being criticized by 4m+ people. Glad she is speaking and healing

  • @AmeriLoca
    @AmeriLoca Рік тому +329

    This man lost a really good woman. She supported his dreams and was the groundwork for his empire. Not just in work but in the home. Da’naia is a special woman. Her beauty exudes from the inside out. She is someone I would definitely want in my circle of friends. She is hilarious and appears to be a genuinely nice person. God bless you and your children. Focus on you. This platform she has spoken on could be her new purpose in life to help and heal women that have been through like experiences. I feel she is very important and needed in our society. Thank you for being you.

    • @married2dsouth
      @married2dsouth Рік тому +7

      It's going to be Da'Naia Jackson, and we going to ge like, Derrick who? Oh yeah. That cheating ass man, she ended up healing and helping others from.

    • @smellmybush
      @smellmybush Рік тому +8

      And for that I hope she takes him to the cleaners

    • @kbeautician
      @kbeautician Рік тому +2

      He did what dust unicorn wizards do.

    • @vacationmeplease
      @vacationmeplease Рік тому +7

      Da'naia personality is so beautiful.

    • @KarlaBedminister
      @KarlaBedminister Рік тому +1

      @@smellmybush She has a similar story to daína, an artist and creative in England who recently began sharing her own story of serial cheating and forgiveness.

  • @maxwell_proper
    @maxwell_proper Рік тому +752

    This guy had the nerve…no the audacity…to talk down to men destroying a woman’s confidence, sanity, health and heart. Ladies and gentlemen, this individual she married , peddled garbage to the very women like the woman he married. The internal battle isn’t over so keep praying for her.

    • @deleshiadavis4326
      @deleshiadavis4326 Рік тому +45

      Nothing he said was untrue! Him being the type of man he talked about doesn’t negate that it’s true. Who better to counsel someone about cheating than someone who walks it. I don’t like him at all and he represents everything toxic and damaging! I’m just happy that she was able to speak her truth and is showing us how to heal by her healing. 👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽

    • @peopleas1healingtrauma
      @peopleas1healingtrauma Рік тому +11

      ​@@izealliaeldridge1901 he right about some men tho everything else he's wrong but facts he knows because he's a man so it's Coming from a man perspective I use to watch him I have my own mind to me he was to charming and to good to be true I felt it in my intuition

    • @jasminespalace6947
      @jasminespalace6947 Рік тому

      P

    • @ToriUptown
      @ToriUptown Рік тому +29

      @@deleshiadavis4326 no. lol a man doing the things he’s telling women to not let a man do to the. shouldn’t be telling women anything. he has a horrible character and sense of morality.

    • @thisandthat1767
      @thisandthat1767 Рік тому +15

      He is sick!

  • @shaliboyd3417
    @shaliboyd3417 Рік тому +988

    Him asking for a divorce is the best thing he could have done for you. I know it may not seem like it right now. But sometimes rejection is the best protection ❤ #teamdenaia God got you!!

    • @TheIslandBelle
      @TheIslandBelle Рік тому +63

      Yep, because she may have never gathered the strength to walk away from that situation.

    • @megamoneyk
      @megamoneyk Рік тому +10

      The love bombing stopped when I said I want a real commitment. He knew i would not tolefaye cheating. If he married me I would have gone crazy. He would not change. I thought it was just one woman. It was many many. It's hard to give up the fight when you put so much into it. However, God kept telling me I desrve better. He really had my mind. Manipulative as heck. I was so confused. I still pray tonot get ensnared again. They However, they never really leave.

    • @brooklyndecember
      @brooklyndecember Рік тому +3

      Based on this interview... she seems exhausting! He's a cad.

    • @virtuouswoman03
      @virtuouswoman03 Рік тому +6

      So true I learned that rejection it’s a win and for the betterment sometimes

    • @zakila2cute
      @zakila2cute Рік тому +1

      Speak that truth!

  • @clioessang
    @clioessang Рік тому +1015

    On behalf of all the WOMEN that ridiculed you , all the men that looked at you crazy , and everyone who generally judged you , sneered at you and laughed at you while you were “going through “ , I beg your forgiveness . The lord will continually uphold you with His right hand of salvation as you walk through the different stages of healing that He”ll take you through . Keep walking sis .

    • @crespeakslife
      @crespeakslife Рік тому +6

      ❤❤❤

    • @jwil1899
      @jwil1899 Рік тому +4

      ❤❤❤

    • @lemoners7753
      @lemoners7753 Рік тому +2

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 Рік тому

      I understand people should not have judged her but it was ALL misdirected anger and projection from her when she was spewing curses online at strangers…. As a Christian, God has been telling her to LEAVE him prior to even getting Married… She keeps calling on God, but the DEMON WAS HER HUSBAND. BUT she has a LONG WAY TO BE FULLY HEALED. There’s A LOT OF DOWN LOW in the CLOSET Men in the Black Church ⛪️ and she’ll SOON be a victim of a Pastor (Passa) Man in the Suit as his beard or being USED for her Essence and Glory and the cycle continues because she is NOT HEALED. She is TOO MALE CENTERED & MALE IDENTIFIED for constant validation. She’s ALSO jealous of her own daughters in which she adultifies her own daughter referencing her skin tone preference of husband’s mistress; and KEEP DIRECTING Biblical Cursed and Hexes on strangers online, and keeps BLAMING her husband’s Mistresses instead of her own Husband (Derrick Jaxn) who was the DEMON in her story. 🤷🏾‍♀️ This woman is psychologically dangerous and still WANTS HER DERRICK JAXN and still CENTERING MALE VALIDATION over her own Self Love and Healing. Practice Self Love & Self Preservation OUTSIDE of Men… and MEN WILL RESPECT ✊🏿 YOU MORE…. She’s keeps blaming demons on her Daughters…. It’s a hot mess and it’s psychological too, but I’m no clinician so what do I know. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @ashleysmith8569
      @ashleysmith8569 Рік тому +22

      Bcuz I can admit I was one of them. Now I see she is me and I am her. I pray for her heart to heal and the love she deserves finds her

  • @ep41390
    @ep41390 Рік тому +162

    The fact that she’s the actual catch and probably always has been of the two of them lol. I pray she’s blessed triple times over for what she’s experienced. ❤

  • @laporshaa6682
    @laporshaa6682 Рік тому +1768

    Dear black women,
    If you take anything away from this (In the words of Cynthia G), remember to have standards, boundaries and expectations! That is all.

  • @lisakambouris8304
    @lisakambouris8304 Рік тому +516

    It took Derrick asking for and filing for a divorce to get her free of him. Sometimes God will remove us from situations that we're not strong enough to remove ourselves from. I wish her and her children all the healing, all the blessings and all the love.

    • @cherieshepherd3491
      @cherieshepherd3491 Рік тому +10

      He definitely did her a favor and lost he lost his favor

    • @msts3325
      @msts3325 Рік тому +19

      ​@samuisun66 , she wasn't a freak for him...she lost herself in trying to be a wife to him.

    • @brooklyndecember
      @brooklyndecember Рік тому +5

      Yall will twist religion to rationalize anything.

    • @deemunson2919
      @deemunson2919 Рік тому +1

      ​@Tasha Sallie yeah, by being a freak for him.

    • @MsMo08
      @MsMo08 Рік тому +2

      Indeed!! That way of escape is real

  • @xoxosisihere
    @xoxosisihere Рік тому +583

    Can we acknowledge how witty and fun she seems!!
    I love her personality, how she talks, how she analyses things, she seems spontaneous, warm and good company.
    I’m so glad she’s out of there

    • @adeola08
      @adeola08 Рік тому +14

      This!! She is so easy to listen to

    • @jerzeygirl1972
      @jerzeygirl1972 Рік тому +11

      I second that... yes! He didn't deserve her heart, and her spirit

    • @clove8220
      @clove8220 Рік тому +1

      @@adeola08 Truly 💜💜💜💜💜

    • @ChooseU4ever
      @ChooseU4ever Рік тому +7

      She really is.. I wasn't expecting that. I love her.

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 Рік тому +4

      She’s a smart woman! ❤

  • @my_set_apart_life
    @my_set_apart_life Рік тому +102

    I’m sure he never thought she’d come out and speak her truth. So happy for her! 🎉

  • @ChicStrands
    @ChicStrands Рік тому +763

    Can we all gather together to give this Woman the warmest hugs!🥹🥹🥹🥹 God got your back queen! Trust!!!!!!!!!!!!!💛

  • @yervue9426
    @yervue9426 Рік тому +627

    I apologize for ever thinking this woman was mad… she is so relatable and likable. I hope she continues to grow and glow.

    • @hotfriedgriyoandpeeklees1522
      @hotfriedgriyoandpeeklees1522 Рік тому +8

      I think she is mad

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows Рік тому +6

      I think she was off in that period

    • @lynniebunting9035
      @lynniebunting9035 Рік тому +25

      To be fair she was probably mad at some point but I mean do you blame her? Her husband is a piece of shit who used influence and power to make a mockery of their union and covenant. 😩he broke this poor lady spirit and unfortunately this is what happens when you idol worship (putting him first) as opposed to The most high 🤌🏾

    • @bellaapple2166
      @bellaapple2166 Рік тому +11

      ​@@hotfriedgriyoandpeeklees1522 Yes well a lot of trauma will cause someone to go mad.

    • @Boahemaa
      @Boahemaa Рік тому +5

      She's better now but she still has some healing to do.

  • @theotherlanise
    @theotherlanise Рік тому +818

    Her experience taught me to never judge what another woman is going through. I see her completely different than I did before and I'm sorry for my judgment. I could be her my daughters can be her any one of us could be her.

    • @r.p832
      @r.p832 Рік тому +41

      I wept so much😢 knowing I was one of them now who had made a mockery of her bonnet situation. Not knowing this woman was going through the storm, a storm I my self had been through.

    • @theotherlanise
      @theotherlanise Рік тому +35

      @@r.p832 I felt so bad. Knowing she was going thru all that and I'm sitting around laughing and making jokes. She might not have heard me but God did and karma has everybody's address. I been thru some things myself I know how embarrassed I was and everybody wasn't watching it still hurt. When u know better u do better.

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 Рік тому +26

      Same. I just prayed for forgiveness. We all should. I should have known better. Never again.

    • @BeautyNBrains86
      @BeautyNBrains86 Рік тому +14

      ​@@r.p832 At least we as humans can always learn & grow. That woman was truly holding on by a thread that day when she had on the bonnet. You just never know what ppl are going through. I remember when ppl were laughing at Chadwick's appearance & had no idea he had cancer. Jesus. 🙏🏾

    • @evettecastello4567
      @evettecastello4567 Рік тому +3

      Agreed

  • @Trish590
    @Trish590 Рік тому +335

    Her testimony left me speechless. This woman has so much strength, grace and intellect. If I went through half of what she went through I would have ended up on snapped. Praying for her continued growth, success and prosperity.

    • @MsEMccray
      @MsEMccray 8 місяців тому +1

      Sis, what keeps you from Snapped is when God shows you your children ❤

    • @spitfirestake54
      @spitfirestake54 7 місяців тому

      Me too, sis!

  • @carlabowers1648
    @carlabowers1648 Рік тому +2593

    She just inspired me to have a very uncomfortable but honest conversation! I’m so grateful for her transparency.

    • @anniec7449
      @anniec7449 Рік тому +6

      ❤❤❤

    • @sunnylamine
      @sunnylamine Рік тому +69

      ❣️❣️ I hope you realize all of the Power you demonstrated in this statement. #ultimateflex

    • @OceanisInfinite
      @OceanisInfinite Рік тому +58

      Amen!!! She just blessed & liberated a whole bunch of women in this season.

    • @newlife624
      @newlife624 Рік тому +15

      😢 my past... thank u for sharing

    • @carlabowers1648
      @carlabowers1648 Рік тому +28

      Yes 🙌 … it’s time to speak 🗣️ with confidence, and removing fear from my most important conversations. Thriving in clarity from this day forward

  • @colettejanine2023
    @colettejanine2023 Рік тому +611

    I love her personality so much and I'm sorry that I prejudged her. She's smart, funny, articulate, relatable and loves God. I sincerely pray that God gives her triple for her trouble and uses her for his glory.

  • @lemba-lee
    @lemba-lee Рік тому +1239

    I also want to say she needs to give us a few books, give us a podcast, give us a press tour SHE NEEDS TO TURN HER PAIN INTO HER GAIN.
    Girl get you a bag!

    • @Giftis2sing
      @Giftis2sing Рік тому +40

      Yesss!!! 👏🏾👏🏾 I was just thinking 💭 she needs to write ✍🏽 a book 📕…..matter fact several books 📚. This was a lot!!!

    • @heyalainanicole
      @heyalainanicole Рік тому +38

      YES. I can't wait for God to flip this for her gain. Excited for her platform

    • @beautiesws837
      @beautiesws837 Рік тому +6

      Please read the comment I just posted on here I just said the same thing

    • @elbonedelone4234
      @elbonedelone4234 Рік тому +24

      She definitely has the knowledge through experience (her pain and her running his business)! I would support just because of the glow up.

    • @apricot4u2eat
      @apricot4u2eat Рік тому +41

      I think she has a lot more healing to go through before she is ready to do that. This was definitely the first step. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @AngelTrinity
    @AngelTrinity Рік тому +46

    This woman is pretty, smart, funny and she's putting her business out here for us to learn and heal. We're not supposed to stand in judgement we need to hear and apply what she's saying. This was so powerful.❤

  • @ChronicleSpeaks
    @ChronicleSpeaks Рік тому +297

    The trauma this man has caused for Da’naia is tremendous. The fact that her daughters complexion caused issues for her giving the fact that her husband preferred darker women… Derrick is going to get his karma! He manipulated her for years. I feel so bad she’s gone through all of this.

    • @TheScentConnoisseur
      @TheScentConnoisseur Рік тому +22

      There are so many women who have and currently are going through this. De'Naia sharing her story is truly helping and ministering to people. I wish her many blessings. She will continue to be in my prayers 🙏🏽

    • @lemba-lee
      @lemba-lee Рік тому +12

      Let me tell you, when she said that part I was SHOOK! Man the damage that man caused to her and his ENTIRE FAMILY!

    • @prettylovelyhappy
      @prettylovelyhappy Рік тому +11

      This hit me! Because my ex used to always tell me how he didn’t like light-skinned women like… then why are you dealing with me?! Leave me alone.

    • @Heyitschy03
      @Heyitschy03 Рік тому

      @@prettylovelyhappy… sound like my ex.

  • @catmo59
    @catmo59 Рік тому +459

    Can you imagine how broken she was to appear on camera with him looking like a homeless woman? The fact that he didnt bother to ask her to get camera ready shows that he wanted the world to see her at her worst

    • @NajSinghs
      @NajSinghs Рік тому +26

      Wow. Whew. 💔💯 This right here...smh.

    • @beautyfydotcom
      @beautyfydotcom Рік тому +36

      Exactly!!! He didn’t care.

    • @lindaadams444
      @lindaadams444 Рік тому +12

      Good observation.

    • @isobelndoro
      @isobelndoro Рік тому +1

      Yes

    • @sincerelyme5923
      @sincerelyme5923 Рік тому +55

      Don’t forget, she said she was feeling ill, pregnant, grieving a family member’s death, and just gotten off the road. She shouldn’t have been on camera at that time.

  • @tboss-r9s
    @tboss-r9s Рік тому +613

    This woman is going to blow past Mr. Jaxon in her world-wide ministry to really and truly help women. Not the fake help her ex-hushand offered. Come through Ms. Jackson. 🎉

    • @klanders6144
      @klanders6144 Рік тому +22

      Indeed!!! He set the stage for her!!!!

    • @LaneJane23
      @LaneJane23 Рік тому +2

      Amen

    • @ezmima1175
      @ezmima1175 Рік тому +23

      God is about to cannonball her career and it will be built on His truth! Can’t get no better than that!

    • @ladyt4ever83
      @ladyt4ever83 Рік тому

      Amen

    • @melodyindigo550
      @melodyindigo550 Рік тому +1

      My God! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @thall3348
    @thall3348 Рік тому +43

    This woman has a LIFETIME movie❤

  • @JMikelle27
    @JMikelle27 Рік тому +1595

    She became stronger in her religion/ her walk with God, bc that man was breaking her. I have found a new respect for her. Her vulnerability speaks volumes. She's not holding nothing back. 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @All12rounds
      @All12rounds Рік тому +15

      Exactly! She’s a giant for this courage 💎

    • @snooty4180
      @snooty4180 Рік тому +26

      And most of all, she is being accountable for her role which imo makes her a bright light with helping to heal others living subconsciously.

    • @ladyc3095
      @ladyc3095 Рік тому +9

      She married a cheater and thought he was going to change. Both of’em need help

    • @ItsMissChas5
      @ItsMissChas5 Рік тому +3

      Her discernment grew exponentially too! ❤

    • @nadine8764
      @nadine8764 Рік тому +9

      She became stronger in her relationship with God, it's not religion, it's faith ❤

  • @SonjaUnapologetic
    @SonjaUnapologetic Рік тому +610

    Derrick wanted her to beg him not to leave after he sent the text asking for a divorce. When she responded with “Okay, if that’s what you want,” that angered him. Then he did a video insinuating that she was being manipulative. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I don’t think he really wanted a divorce. He wanted the upper hand to treat her like trash in hopes she would just take it, out of fear of him leaving.

    • @meganharwell1446
      @meganharwell1446 Рік тому +24

      I agree with you

    • @steib294
      @steib294 Рік тому

      Totally narc behaviour. The cut of off the source randomly and then they sit and ponder waiting for you to cry, begging, ending up lost in yourself, it's like they crave that energy from their victims to use as a supply to fuel their ego..and that's how they keep getting stronger and the victim weaker. Same with snakes you cut off the head so to speak, cut the tail it only turn around and bite you!
      Hopefully she gets full custody of their children and moves closer to her family to help raise the children..... Mr 304 to busy playing in the streets with the hoes.....Soo embarrassing for their kids! 😢
      I'm Soo happy I never accepted my baby daddy to engage me......I fell pregnant fast after meeting him and just knew in my heart to take my time know this man....anyways, 10 years later been raising my son by myself and he obviously moved to other side of the country to be with his new gf.......after the birth of their first son....he started acting up..and she would find Tinder app on his phone and he literally asked and begged me on his knees that he wanted to have sex with me..when he came to visit his son.....and I declined!!! What a douche bag!
      Only thinks about his cock....what about the years I spent alone raising our son .... homelessness...jobless..carless...... I wasn't going to give him a piece of my body!!
      And Ive always been codial with hif gf and the kids..we all video each other all the time...I've never acted out to her..not told her anything! She may think she won the prize but I know who exactly he is.
      She even told him one time that she wishes she was a lesbian 🤣🤣
      And during their engagement party.....gathering...the two families and community were fighting each other...huge argument..cussing each other out.......I'm just like.....ohh thank God....God rejection is his protection!!! 🙏
      The only male I'm really putting my energy in 100% is my son.
      Finally I'm in a better place then I was 8 years ago...and I did it all on my own....The degree..the car I always wanted..the house, new friends....and a man I've always wanted and prayed for in my teens and 20s .....30s...
      🙏😊

    • @reakelly410
      @reakelly410 Рік тому +85

      His identity is built on her weakness for him. The other women existed because she existed.

    • @mariedavis8622
      @mariedavis8622 Рік тому +55

      Derrick is despicable

    • @oatmealbrownie09
      @oatmealbrownie09 Рік тому +2

      Agreed

  • @purposedpeoplepraying
    @purposedpeoplepraying Рік тому +449

    Her testimony stands true with the saying, “If you don’t deal with your issues they will deal with you.”

  • @chocolatemint9225
    @chocolatemint9225 Рік тому +140

    I think a lot of the laughing is that she is realizing how ridiculous the situation was and how we justify the craziness to where it makes sense to us. I think we can all relate to thinking stupid thoughts in our younger years and hopefully we’ve outgrown some things

    • @jusjus7203
      @jusjus7203 Рік тому +3

      That part! Thank you Lord for turning lessons into blessings ❤

    • @mercyripunda7282
      @mercyripunda7282 Місяць тому

      She is just me

  • @sasthyme8857
    @sasthyme8857 Рік тому +762

    The abortions the miscarriages. The childhood abuse, the financial abuse the emotional abuse, the cheating, the lies, the spiritual attacks, the brain washing, the trauma, the calls to the mental health facility, the manipulation, the children traumatized, sleep deprivation, sleeping for days not eating for days, the drinking of alcohol for weeks on end. I was a bonnet weilding woman standing by my man when everyone called me crazy, some turned their backs on me, I turned my back on myself and was oblivious. There was a time I could have literally walked down the street naked talking to myself for the things I was going through.
    When I say this woman speaks for so many, it's incredibly sad while being incredibly powerful. I could relate with too much of her story and yet I was able to judge her. I thought I was doing better I thought I was healed, but I am not. This interview has solidified how much healing I need.
    How thankful am I, apart from the above words I can't describe how this interview is going to change my life. May the Almighty continue bless this woman, she is so many of us and has come forward to speak like I have never heard a woman speak so candidly about so much. There is no doubt in The power of The Creator when she speaks. A true Disciple. ⬆️⬆️⬆️

    • @TACo-281
      @TACo-281 Рік тому +21

      That's powerful!! I'm so glad she's getting this opportunity to free others through her story. God bless you.

    • @lf3554
      @lf3554 Рік тому +21

      God bless you! Women are soooooo resilient!

    • @gaboratanelwemaphane4503
      @gaboratanelwemaphane4503 Рік тому +8

      To see this story and think this just me to an extent Jesus I so glad

    • @itsme_333
      @itsme_333 Рік тому +13

      Those are very powerful words and I feel it all. I too am changed by this interview

    • @sasthyme8857
      @sasthyme8857 Рік тому +2

      @@itsme_333 ⬆️⬆️⬆️💖

  • @sundressjones4426
    @sundressjones4426 Рік тому +362

    He did her a favor by telling her he wanted a divorce because she would have never left him. I’m glad he released her so that she can move on and truly begin to heal. They were both really young and she has been through soooo much. I wish her all the best and love and light 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @Den3girl
      @Den3girl Рік тому +23

      That's really the interesting part; even after all he did, she was willing to stay. I don't think she realises even now, the level of healing she still needs. What she was willing to continue to endure is just absolutely crazy and the level of trauma that she still holds and channeled thru humour in this interview is just tragic.

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 Рік тому +5

      @@Den3girl True ppl are talking about how she has healed while I get the idea that if Derrick tells her I'm sorry I want you back" she will be back in a hot second & start this all over again.

    • @Eman14128
      @Eman14128 Рік тому +1

      ​@@Den3girlher being in a rotation before they were married and seeing videos of him having relations with other woman was really , it shows what one will accept when still operating in trauma.

  • @MissAki1
    @MissAki1 Рік тому +442

    Black women made this guy famous and rich. I hope they support her the way they've supported him. I've been following her on IG ever since she went viral. It's been a treat. May she be blessed and may God give her joy for all the pain she has endured. May her enemies scatter!

    • @mizz2ts86
      @mizz2ts86 Рік тому +8

      Same sis! I was always sad with her/for her and grew to love her on her platform. She has blessed my soul on numerous occasions. I’m soooo happy God showed up and showed out in her life. My heart is literally smiling for her ❤️🙌🏽😍🙏🏾

    • @JustbeingCB
      @JustbeingCB Рік тому +1

      What's her IG?

    • @elementbluevip4770
      @elementbluevip4770 Рік тому +10

      The thirsty women who are still supporting him will listen to this and still keep supporting him while blaming her for why he kept cheating on her. It's a shame.

    • @kahlia5365
      @kahlia5365 Рік тому +2

      @Element Blue VIP Yes it's sad. I stopped following him right before the cheating scandal, but after I unsubscribed from other male relationship gurus cause the trust was gone after finding out about him. He was so convincing I was looking at myself, wondering how I didn't see it

    • @elementbluevip4770
      @elementbluevip4770 Рік тому +4

      @@kahlia5365 after watching a few of his videos a few years before this scandal, I stopped because even though what he was saying sounded good, something in me just knew he was pandering. Something about him just didn't sit well with me. But remember, everyone has issues in their relationships, so NO ONE is a relationship expert. Just watch those videos for entertainment purposes only while working on becoming the best version of yourself. Work on making yourself and God proud of you.

  • @vlbrown5789
    @vlbrown5789 Рік тому +59

    She has personality and quick wit. I'm sorry she went through this, but telling such a tragic personal story through humor is a gift. I'm glad she's on the HEALING side of her story.

  • @IyeshaB
    @IyeshaB Рік тому +672

    She is poised, articulate, beautiful and funny! Loved this whole interview ❤

    • @tobiDS.
      @tobiDS. Рік тому +3

      I was just about to type something like this! The story is so sad but she got me laughing here

    • @barbiegirlmyaalexander3459
      @barbiegirlmyaalexander3459 Рік тому +2

      She really is ❤

    • @phoenixherbert
      @phoenixherbert Рік тому +7

      The further away from him she is the less crazier she appears.

    • @maggiespokenword5669
      @maggiespokenword5669 Рік тому

      So funny! Would have never thought this funny

  • @jovyscorner
    @jovyscorner Рік тому +1260

    We surely come together to say We're so Sorry Mrs Jackson, We're sorry Sis🙏

    • @ruthfrancois8972
      @ruthfrancois8972 Рік тому +44

      She definitely didn't deserve that. 100 women? With that beautiful sexy godly woman at home. Like, what was he on? smh 😕

    • @marydabaddestwilliams5962
      @marydabaddestwilliams5962 Рік тому +6

      💯💯💯💯💯💯🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰yes we are

    • @marydabaddestwilliams5962
      @marydabaddestwilliams5962 Рік тому

      ​@@ruthfrancois8972 he a 🤡 and karma will fix him soon enough

    • @sheberry8597
      @sheberry8597 Рік тому +60

      Yall sorry. I was praying for Sis because every woman could relate to her to a certain degree, although most seemed to just judge and make fun of her. Loving the full accountability from Da'Naia in the role she played in it all❤

    • @msvirtue
      @msvirtue Рік тому +17

      This comment for the win!

  • @snooty4180
    @snooty4180 Рік тому +332

    The best thing Derrick did was to ask for a divorce and stood on it. This helped Da’Naia. It was also a gift, because he KNEW he could start the cycle all over again. And nothing would change.

    • @jussjess2829
      @jussjess2829 Рік тому +30

      Facts !! Cause she would have never left

    • @belleame4671
      @belleame4671 Рік тому +2

      The best thing....

    • @onlyonekiney
      @onlyonekiney Рік тому +14

      God has a sense of humor, Mr. Derrick will have a lot of explaining to do in his life! He gets nowhere without it.

    • @goldenlifelove7251
      @goldenlifelove7251 Рік тому +7

      Yep! He gave her what she needed & that's to be far away from him.

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 Рік тому

      Unfortunately I would not be surprised me if she went back to him. Jeez.

  • @obaqueen6705
    @obaqueen6705 Рік тому +134

    I am going through my storm now, and in this moment her story is helping me on my journey to healing and recovering.

  • @blove8887
    @blove8887 Рік тому +352

    This woman deserves SO MANY apologies... that's why I didn't put my mouth on her... I pray your soul heals love... be encouraged love, God be with you 🙏🏾

    • @nyleac4389
      @nyleac4389 Рік тому +11

      I never opened my mouth about her but boy was I kiki’ing and liking posts. This is definitely a lesson to me on the reality of these situations and what someone in distress looks like despite the circus framing on social media. I hope ppl are as vocal with apologies to her and upliftment as they were in dragging her and tearing her down

    • @brahmabkitty03
      @brahmabkitty03 Рік тому +6

      I took up for her

    • @bettycarmella1127
      @bettycarmella1127 Рік тому +4

      I prayed for her💔 I love seeing how the Lord is restoring her🙌🏽

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 Рік тому +1

      When u been through something and you've not become miserable
      Often you just watch n wait..
      You know there's many sides n transitions..
      Most people that had alot to say enjoy misery or got a closet full of stuff..
      Sadly that will not change

    • @belindalindsey607
      @belindalindsey607 Рік тому +1

      I was concerned about the prayer she sent out.

  • @---mb6xq
    @---mb6xq Рік тому +299

    I think the ultimate betrayal was her ex husband having her on video to stand up for him and he didn’t even have the decency to cover her by waiting until she had time to process things and make her self presentable. He was so concerned with his reputation that he didn’t even consider how this was her first time being introduced to millions of people and added to her embarrassment. Absolutely DEMONIC

    • @malikasampson7673
      @malikasampson7673 Рік тому +27

      He only thought of himself.

    • @cbtube1677
      @cbtube1677 Рік тому +32

      He got kicks out of embrassing her.

    • @---mb6xq
      @---mb6xq Рік тому +27

      You know what, both of yall make valid points smdh. He was probably laughing and glad that people were tearing her down because it took the heat off of him smh

    • @redbone8844
      @redbone8844 Рік тому +15

      He was getting his Narcissistic supply

    • @WhichTheChickenOrTheEgg
      @WhichTheChickenOrTheEgg Рік тому +8

      🙏🏾 Def alot of demonic activity involved in their war

  • @Thatgyrl_Meek
    @Thatgyrl_Meek Рік тому +422

    She was very transparent. She is a beautiful person that was judged by so many (including me). I’m so glad she told her story. This woman is so strong . Much love, respect, and blessings to her.

  • @skywatchersdreams
    @skywatchersdreams Рік тому +62

    Thing I like about her is that she is humble and holds her self accountable for her parts in the problem.

  • @Licialynn
    @Licialynn Рік тому +270

    I cannot recall ever watching an interview this long all the way through. She is beautiful and brilliant.

    • @nyleac4389
      @nyleac4389 Рік тому +8

      Seriously! I was like 3 hours 😳🤔 at first but now here I am at the end of the interview lol

    • @porshehitchens6322
      @porshehitchens6322 Рік тому +5

      This! I watched part 1 and 2 from beginning to end!

    • @aratang2948
      @aratang2948 Рік тому +7

      Same, went straight from 1 to 2. Amazing conversation.

    • @nadineorelus5315
      @nadineorelus5315 Рік тому +3

      Me too I watched part 1 and 2

    • @Amber-rk6em
      @Amber-rk6em Рік тому +2

      Same!!!

  • @monabrown101
    @monabrown101 Рік тому +380

    This Woman's comeback is gonna crush the head of the enemy and raise up women from all walks of life, all over the world, I tell u❤❤❤❤❤
    -Woman from London, UK

    • @confidentalways7526
      @confidentalways7526 Рік тому

      💯

    • @therealrenaissancewoman
      @therealrenaissancewoman Рік тому +5

      I stand with you in agreement!!!!

    • @aysmith761
      @aysmith761 Рік тому +2

      YES, YES, YES!

    • @me-o-she
      @me-o-she Рік тому +5

      She is putting in the work and will surpass him in every way.

    • @sasthyme8857
      @sasthyme8857 Рік тому +9

      Trust me💯.
      I'm sat in the remnants of my south london flat all packed up ready to move on to bigger and better things, finally, but it's taken a good while, almost 4 years of constant resilience and hardship. What shook me about her experience the most is that when she was going through her stuff publicly 2019 2020 I was going through something very similar. I don't understand what took me to call her out as an idiot for taking him back or a lost soul, without any grace. I realise it was the distain I had for myself, the ignorance and a lack of compassion I had all round because in that time I was using the same toxicity I had been taught to create false strength, a false strength to set me apart from any weak woman who couldn't break free. I was better than her I would never do that but alas I done it all and then some. We women really need to stick together and help one another. A global sisterhood is in need of reinforcement. I think she moved the bar for us all. I will like and share this video until my thumb is tired. You speak the truth in her experience touching us all 💯⬆️💖

  • @BeautifulOnes99
    @BeautifulOnes99 Рік тому +437

    She’s absolutely gorgeous inside & out. He’s going to regret losing her. God will not give him another empathic soul like hers again. Gem 💎

    • @missj5564
      @missj5564 Рік тому +20

      He will get what he deserves.

    • @process2purpose
      @process2purpose Рік тому +9

      Never ever

    • @benitarenee7008
      @benitarenee7008 Рік тому +17

      She is a beautiful❤You can tell she is a super sweet person.

    • @QueenMLA28
      @QueenMLA28 Рік тому +19

      That's what I said...and her ministry for true inner healing is going to have a following he only dreamed he had!

    • @destinixshakur
      @destinixshakur Рік тому +4

      He already does

  • @shaquellchandler3514
    @shaquellchandler3514 Рік тому +32

    I KNOW THIS IS ABOUT DA’NAIA BUT CAN I JUST SAY WHAT AN AMAZING MAN HE IS FOR COVERING THIS WOMAN ‼️ BECAUSE HE KNEW THE TROLLS WOULD TRY TO ATTACK HER! Congratulations future Wifey I believe this man is going to Cover you because of his heart ❤️

  • @kandicephillips6183
    @kandicephillips6183 Рік тому +173

    I know this is completely unrelated but I love her dry humor 😂 she is really funny!

    • @kimberlymay9497
      @kimberlymay9497 Рік тому +8

      And so cute/classy with it 😅😍

    • @meenameena-dd2zy
      @meenameena-dd2zy Рік тому +2

      I couldn't agree with you more. She is a natural comedian. SOME TIMES YOU HAVE TO LAUGH TO KEEP FROM CRYING.

    • @mif4111
      @mif4111 Рік тому

      Me too

    • @nadine8764
      @nadine8764 Рік тому

      She's soo graceful ❤️

  • @JelishaMachelle
    @JelishaMachelle Рік тому +456

    When she gets to the peak of her healing journey he will come back disgusted as a changed man…she will be wise enough to recognize the signs this time…but he will be reeeeally convincing. God cover this woman. Keep her from the snares and trap of the enemy💜

    • @leahhamilton8997
      @leahhamilton8997 Рік тому +2

      Amen

    • @rekhae1
      @rekhae1 Рік тому +2

      Amen

    • @CaptainMarvel1939
      @CaptainMarvel1939 Рік тому

      Yes, beware of the “Hoover”, technique narcissists use to rope someone right back in: more love bombing/professing change” seen the light”/NOW ready to give 100%-ALL LIES! If you go back, quick honeymoon phase, followed by instant toxicity-the cycle begins..again

    • @sharonsimasiku6159
      @sharonsimasiku6159 Рік тому

      Amen

    • @Yessi-with-a-Y
      @Yessi-with-a-Y Рік тому

      Amen

  • @TiffanyNicholeCatley
    @TiffanyNicholeCatley Рік тому +445

    It's sis taking personal accountability throughout this interview even though she was operating out of brokenness and being traumatized repeatedly for YEARS! My GOD! I pray for protection and continued deliverance. 🙏🏾

    • @Skwigal
      @Skwigal Рік тому +6

      That's TRUE healing! And I love that for her🎉

    • @SholzTV
      @SholzTV Рік тому +2

      right! Learning so much from her.

    • @gogoldiego
      @gogoldiego Рік тому

      Yeeesssssss

  • @carolinagirlinafloridaworl5844
    @carolinagirlinafloridaworl5844 Рік тому +69

    When she said, "They had her even though I carried her." Whew!!! That hurt on a deeper level😢 I'm so grateful for her healing journey. She has overcome so much. Keep moving forward, Queen. 💚

  • @YourEasyLifeAmbassador
    @YourEasyLifeAmbassador Рік тому +359

    When she described trying to imitate the women he cheated with, I felt every ounce of that! Jesus! I felt that pain!

    • @216flypearls
      @216flypearls Рік тому +30

      Listen…. So deep and real. It’s crazy what we as women can go through just to feel love and acceptance from some men.

    • @angelacunningham8153
      @angelacunningham8153 Рік тому +5

      Same. Sadly.

    • @gemillakiser4193
      @gemillakiser4193 Рік тому +5

      Yes! So glad I'm not the only one that felt that way.That part literally gave me chills.

    • @missnurseeri
      @missnurseeri Рік тому +7

      I cried, that was painful to hear.

    • @naomilaboo
      @naomilaboo Рік тому

      Same sis

  • @CortneeD18
    @CortneeD18 Рік тому +326

    After watching this, Derek picked her for a reason. She was the project of his entire career. He used everything he done to her to build that career. Everything Da’Naia said revealed all his insecurities. You know how people get with the ones who are at their lowest by taking advantage of them and use them to build themselves up for the people they wanted in the first place? That’s exactly what he did to her.

  • @DeeluxyLife
    @DeeluxyLife Рік тому +221

    Derrick I know you’re watching !!! Let this girl heal in peace 💗 I pray her platform exceeds yours and she gets to experience pure genuine love / happiness one day !! This is HER season !!

  • @kristiehenson3
    @kristiehenson3 Рік тому +22

    When he said that you have to redefine words when dealing with people like this - I felt that.

  • @tomcole3149
    @tomcole3149 Рік тому +374

    Her saying “let’s define that” is a learned trauma response to the narcissistic “word salad” strategy to win any argument or attempt to hold them accountable. Shoutout to her for growth and now calling a thing a thing. Looking forward to greater and greater things from her and the fruit that’s born from her testimony. To God be the glory. 😇👏🏽

    • @knelson0908
      @knelson0908 Рік тому +3

      Yup

    • @sashamarieMFT
      @sashamarieMFT Рік тому +19

      That's exactly what it is. It's a learned response to gain leverage in an argument with someone with his kind of personality. I cannot imagine what she had to go through to get to the point where all of his behaviors needed to be defined. What a toxic relationship...

    • @Kittyhammertoe100
      @Kittyhammertoe100 Рік тому +10

      Yes!!! I felt that narcissistic word salad!!!

    • @celestesosa01
      @celestesosa01 Рік тому +6

      Me too!! I felt that. #BeenThere

    • @Fuyonce_
      @Fuyonce_ Рік тому +7

      Right! It’s a way for them to place blame on you because “you didn’t ask” or “I’m only doing what you said I can do”

  • @sashamarieMFT
    @sashamarieMFT Рік тому +310

    I am exausted after hearing this story. I am also 44 years old and cannot imagine living the last half of my life dealing with a man like that. Thank God for wisdom and protection.

    • @Shamara418
      @Shamara418 Рік тому +21

      I felt the same way and it seems she is still exhausted as well. I pray that God will give a ResT for her soul because she is the True Lover of all of our souls.

    • @nicholaprofitt
      @nicholaprofitt Рік тому +32

      For a minute, I thought it was just me that felt drained...... imagine how sis felt 🤦

    • @tinamathews7139
      @tinamathews7139 Рік тому +4

      I totally agree

    • @tiawint
      @tiawint Рік тому +26

      I’m 43 and said the exact same think…I refuse to live the 2nd quarter dealing with any disrupter of my peace.

    • @sashamarieMFT
      @sashamarieMFT Рік тому +15

      @@nicholaprofitt exactly... coming home to that. Battling that in her mind. Nah... but I do realize I have been one decision away from dating a man like that. That is why I said praise God for wisdom and let me throw in discernment!!

  • @Msladyrae92
    @Msladyrae92 Рік тому +499

    So likeable. She’s got a great personality and sense of humor. I love that she spoke so honestly and candidly. She is putting so much Into perspective. Many black mothers are their daughters first bullies for a multitude of reasons. She’s done the work and it shows. Any man would be so lucky to have her if she decides to marry in the future.

    • @Goldentoast77
      @Goldentoast77 Рік тому +6

      This is true. I do sense that she would still give him another chance. Sis ain’t done. If HE says he wanted her back, she’d go. She is intelligent, sense of humor and her journey can help others. I just don’t know if SHE is done with him yet. I hope that he actually does want to be divorced that’s probably the only way it will happen.

    • @amab1853
      @amab1853 Рік тому +5

      @@Goldentoast77 I think that this time she's really done done. She said she's enjoying her freedom. She seems to be finding peace after leaving him. Because she seems to have transformed and is on her healing journey. That man brought so much destruction in her life. I don't think she would go back. I hope the divorce paperwork goes well

    • @Goldentoast77
      @Goldentoast77 Рік тому +4

      @@amab1853 I hear you. You have to consider that the divorce was not her choice. After all she just disclosed to us, less than a year ago none of that was enough for her to be done. He walked away, she didn’t. She filed for divorce after he did, probably out of spite. She was and is completely prepared to go at it again. Just my observation. I am glad she’s sharing her story, however, this is to get back at him. She covered him for so long. If HE called her and said let’s try again, she’d be right there. IMO.

    • @loribrown3238
      @loribrown3238 Рік тому +5

      Thanks for sharing Denaia.

    • @Msladyrae92
      @Msladyrae92 Рік тому +4

      @@Goldentoast77 that’s not uncommon for abuse victims.

  • @twylajohnson2893
    @twylajohnson2893 10 місяців тому +11

    True woman of God, we love you! You are beautiful and none of those women compare to you. Stay strong black queen

  • @takingcarellc5737
    @takingcarellc5737 Рік тому +267

    It is her accountability and self awareness that shows she means business about her healing. She will come forth as pure gold. My prayers to her and her children that God continues to protect, provide and cover them.

  • @lemba-lee
    @lemba-lee Рік тому +755

    Thank you for providing this beautiful woman a safe and peaceful platform to speak her truth.
    We (myself included) were too quick to judge her without knowing her story. So proud of her and her bravery. May she continue to heal 🙏🏾

    • @latoniaproctor7475
      @latoniaproctor7475 Рік тому +18

      You took the words out my mouth! I'm rutting for her and God please forgive me for judging her.

    • @yvetteshokere7818
      @yvetteshokere7818 Рік тому +3

      I felt her pain, But God!!!!!!!

    • @TreasureChest0806
      @TreasureChest0806 Рік тому +5

      Many judged her bc of her own actions & behaviors. She is holding herself accountable now which is beautiful.

    • @brianb4501
      @brianb4501 Рік тому +3

      Hopefully, she will discontinue making these poor choices in her life.

    • @BrittIzLegit
      @BrittIzLegit Рік тому +1

      He really ain't nothing... neither are the women that knew he was married.

  • @irisgarcia4156
    @irisgarcia4156 Рік тому +201

    Her ex husband sounds like a textbook version of someone who has narcissistic personality disorder. This woman is very strong to have come through all of this and be able to share her testimony. God has someone special in the future for her if she chooses to pursue that. May God bless her immensely. 😊

  • @leslymutua7334
    @leslymutua7334 Рік тому +339

    I'm loving how her Mom waited for her to "get to that point"... It's so tempting to jump in and try to fix your child, but it takes so much strength to wait and trust God with them ❤️

    • @lf3554
      @lf3554 Рік тому +6

      Right the come to Jesus momentbi call it!

    • @TACo-281
      @TACo-281 Рік тому +23

      I'm so glad that she got to the point where she knew she needed to get out and save herself, children. Her family was right there waiting on her!! She's blessed!

  • @user-om8lu4nq4v
    @user-om8lu4nq4v Рік тому +437

    Ms Da'naia is the real star of the show not her husband. Sis is so relatable. She's hilarious. She's authentic. She's just so loveable. She didn't owe the world this but I am so glad she's speaking up because she's helping so many of us. She is an absolute gem! God's got her and she's going to be good 🙏

  • @shawanna4real
    @shawanna4real Рік тому +286

    I knew her body better than mine is a book title in itself. Glad that she is on the journey of freedom ❤🙏🏼

    • @chandahardy9909
      @chandahardy9909 Рік тому +1

      Yes it is

    • @sharonjo7630
      @sharonjo7630 Рік тому +2

      I wish she elaborated more on that.

    • @kimokat
      @kimokat Рік тому +8

      ​@Sharon Jo She did. She said she stalked the ladies online, tried to dress & look at them and watched sex videos of the women and her husband to try to imitate them so that he would choose her.

    • @sharonjo7630
      @sharonjo7630 Рік тому +2

      @K G I know she said that...but a statement like that sounds deeper than trying to imitate another woman's appearance and sexual moves.

    • @kimokat
      @kimokat Рік тому +4

      @@sharonjo7630 Is tryna be someone else not deep enough? Lol ... I don't understand

  • @sapphire3362
    @sapphire3362 Рік тому +27

    I didn’t realize how smart and funny she is! She is really a strong woman trying to keep her marriage and family together with whatever she has inside! When I saw her with the bonnet I thought she was just his puppet! I definitely wishing her healing and success ❤

  • @turningpageswithmel
    @turningpageswithmel Рік тому +164

    I cried when she said “I wanted him to choose me” , I know that feeling all too well. 😢

    • @marywilliams3520
      @marywilliams3520 Рік тому +5

      Melissamohan God chooses you!

    • @ariellotusflowervlog4727
      @ariellotusflowervlog4727 Рік тому +2

      Yesssss. I felt that deep

    • @aleciagrant1226
      @aleciagrant1226 Рік тому +1

      Yesss. That touched me deeply too. Now she gets to choose her and God will send her a man that chooses her and only her

    • @megamoneyk
      @megamoneyk Рік тому

      We all want to be chosen it's just not all of us will sacgice so much. Wanting be loved is not a crime. We are meant to be loved.

  • @mjnettles800
    @mjnettles800 Рік тому +368

    I feel like a book is on the horizon. This beautiful sister’s presence is POWERFUL🤎

    • @Cassie198
      @Cassie198 Рік тому +4

      Sooooooo POWERFUL ❤

    • @47shadows76
      @47shadows76 Рік тому

      She's a scam artist.
      She only famous because her man was a fraud and she knew it.
      You paid the con man Derrick and now you'll buy her books as well??
      Man, what a sucker

    • @kundaidenga5689
      @kundaidenga5689 Рік тому +8

      My thoughts exactly.. I thought a book and a whole movie..

    • @OceanisInfinite
      @OceanisInfinite Рік тому +6

      She absolutely has a whole book on the inside because this is not just a book but a movie.

    • @ThisBoomerBudgetz
      @ThisBoomerBudgetz Рік тому +4

      I so agree! This is a REAL Book, better and truer than his

  • @sanjai6291
    @sanjai6291 Рік тому +175

    The saddest part of all this is….a lot of us can relate.

  • @SuperBlessed365
    @SuperBlessed365 Рік тому +7

    Derrick opened doors to the devil through his infidelity, lies. Hence the reason why the devil had the legal right to distress his family. I can’t believe he still is “talking” and millions of people are listening. The devil is a liar! More grace/ peace Da’naia. Continue to heal! It takes time but God gives beauty for ashes. You are blessed!

    • @tamicacharles6354
      @tamicacharles6354 8 місяців тому +1

      Right ? Like how isn’t he cancelled? I first hand know how chronic stress can actually make you sick so I feel for her .

  • @Godchaserforever1973
    @Godchaserforever1973 Рік тому +209

    As a man it's hard for me to listen to what she said this man put her through. My heart breaks because I just don't understand how a person can be so cruel to someone who loves them so much. This woman has such a beautiful spirit, so intelligent and articulate, beautiful inside and out. When she fully heals the sky is the limit on what God will do through her. Women and men will be immensely blessed and delivered by what she has to say. And to God be all the glory.

  • @yonnithebeauty8022
    @yonnithebeauty8022 Рік тому +287

    She just gained a supporter 🤍 the transparency, the accountability, and her story. She's graceful, educated, religious, and articulate and this man tried to tear her downnnn. Im here for the journey! You're helping a lot of women Da'Naia

    • @PiscesH
      @PiscesH Рік тому +11

      Yes agreed I can’t understand why any woman after her would want him. Look at how he treated his wife just terrible. He tried to break her down bad😢.

  • @soullikemine
    @soullikemine Рік тому +79

    I see comments saying she was laughing to much. Can you imagine how many tears she has cried since 19 dealing with that fool. Yes girl. The joy of the Lord is your strength. You free. No more tears. Laugh and laugh loud. Cause you survived. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @samanthakirk3793
    @samanthakirk3793 Рік тому +42

    I literally felt like I understood her whole person and went through the pain she did. I love her openness and she has such a beautiful soul. So sorry Da’naia he put you through this. I truly enjoyed hearing your side

  • @seking3734
    @seking3734 Рік тому +69

    Derrick Jackson will NEVER find another beautiful, highly-intelligent, articulate, invested woman like Da’Naia ever again….

  • @Cassie198
    @Cassie198 Рік тому +386

    SHE AINT CRAZY!! I knew that from the beginning!!!! She was extremely exhausted and was trying anything GOD to figured it out! I love her!!! This side is soooooo relieving 🙌🏾🥰

    • @tammydavis5180
      @tammydavis5180 Рік тому +4

      YEP!!!

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 Рік тому +24

      She never was. A bad man will take you there and beyond if you let him. May God deliver us from the snare of people with bad intentions. Empaths are a target for men like that.

    • @thecuteshuttletransportati7025
      @thecuteshuttletransportati7025 Рік тому +7

      Y’all knew what was going on the pain, manipulations, trauma and trans what all over that Bonnet video. Stop acting like y’all didn’t foresee this smh

    • @victoriaogunsanya9074
      @victoriaogunsanya9074 Рік тому +14

      Even if she was I don’t get why she was vilified. She had every right to be crazy at that point

    • @ForeverMattison
      @ForeverMattison Рік тому +8

      Same never once did I find the situation funny so happy for her growth

  • @LindsayAmelia
    @LindsayAmelia Рік тому +105

    His response to her forgiveness was a textbook Narc response. “I’m done with us and the marriage”. When you stop fighting and hurting they hate that. The game is over for them. To a Narc its No longer fun if you’re not hurting.

  • @solaceloveme
    @solaceloveme Рік тому +79

    I cried several times watching this because i went through something sooooo similar. I have felt how she felt, i have sat and cried, and i have even experienced the physical abuse aspect of it!!! I have been single for 4 years now. I am so content!! I am HAPPY! I laugh at him STILL coming for me, but QUEEN, i just wanna say it gets better! You're fabulous! You're doing exactly what it takes, don't give up!!!!

    • @starbright2683
      @starbright2683 Рік тому +2

      Reading your comment enlightened some things for me. Thank you.💚

    • @solaceloveme
      @solaceloveme Рік тому +1

      @@starbright2683 you're welcome🤍

    • @MsEMccray
      @MsEMccray 8 місяців тому +1

      Same sis, I'm sorry 😢😢😢

    • @solaceloveme
      @solaceloveme 8 місяців тому

      @MsEMccray Thank yooou! 💜💜

  • @la-pruenlightenment
    @la-pruenlightenment Рік тому +123

    She is me...I am her. Went through it all with my Born again, church preaching ex husband. Became a shell of myself. But God restored me. Thankful for her restoration and healing journey. ❤

  • @ShantrellYoung
    @ShantrellYoung Рік тому +100

    The gag is, I think SHE was the one meant to have an audience to inspire others. NOT her Husband. Derrick needs to turn in his badge so she can have it LOL

  • @SpiritandProofPodcast
    @SpiritandProofPodcast Рік тому +317

    Da’Naia is a great storyteller… I pictured the whole thing from Part 1.. Wow, ONLY by the grace of God did she not completely lose her MIND !! 🙏🏽🙌🏽

    • @jocelyngipson197
      @jocelyngipson197 Рік тому +10

      Yes, she is an amazing, very charismatic storyteller.....Through God's Grace she is healed and in her right mind 🙌🏾

  • @monabee5044
    @monabee5044 Рік тому +36

    Laterras, i can’t thank you enough for giving Da’Naia a safe space to share her story. You can tell she’s been waiting to tell her story in the right sitting. I pray her bad days are behind her and that her cup is always full. Her testimony is helping and healing someone right now. This woman is dropping some spiritual nuggets but some are gonna miss it. Soul ties are real and can be destructive. I have dealt with it.

  • @brenaicooper1747
    @brenaicooper1747 Рік тому +372

    I’m supporting this woman in every thing she does !

    • @OceanisInfinite
      @OceanisInfinite Рік тому +19

      Me too!!! We have to uplift this sister!!! She needs community & support in Jesus Name.

    • @rekanova3757
      @rekanova3757 Рік тому +3

      Right! Her healing will be ongoing.

    • @eighty8jets
      @eighty8jets Рік тому +1

      Facts!!!

    • @doneeshashanay230
      @doneeshashanay230 Рік тому

      Agreed!!

    • @mawnee3000
      @mawnee3000 Рік тому +5

      So am I! She fought for her life and WON!! I’m so happy for her healing!

  • @eattoliveveganstyle65
    @eattoliveveganstyle65 Рік тому +121

    OMG! How does this guy still have women following him and listening to anything he says. He’s dangerous. I’m so ashamed that I ever watched even 1 of his videos

    • @chemirewilson
      @chemirewilson Рік тому +1

      Very dangerous!

    • @AlisonCrockett
      @AlisonCrockett Рік тому +5

      They follow because some of the things he says are useful, because he did all the things that he says women shouldn’t stand for. I’ve learned that if people stay on one side too much, they’re trying to sell you something. If you feel too good too often, something ain’t right.

    • @MillionHiers
      @MillionHiers Рік тому +1

      Most the women in these comments followed him and will follow the next preacher or speaker that tells them what they wanna hear, smh

    • @echoesofwisdom_
      @echoesofwisdom_ Рік тому +4

      He actually says the right things, he is smart. He just doesn't take his own advice 😂 So if you do not know he is living a double life, you would follow him on face value.

    • @Niyasutton
      @Niyasutton Рік тому +4

      I legit just unfollowed him today! He’s sick asf

  • @Justamomof2girls
    @Justamomof2girls Рік тому +202

    She wasn’t crazy she was fed up , she lost herself I feel for her … I hope she continues to blossom beautifully ❤❤❤❤

    • @kerrymartin7557
      @kerrymartin7557 Рік тому +1

      I got where she was coming from on that Psalm 109 reference.

  • @wildolive3630
    @wildolive3630 Місяць тому +1

    Living with a toxic person is like living with a devil set on your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual destruction. It's amazing how you can blossom once that devil is removed from your life. Sadly some things we have to learn in a painful way. And that's how you get strength and wisdom. Da'Naia has definitely blossomed into a beautiful strong woman. Glad she knows the nearness of God is her good.

  • @Ethiodawg
    @Ethiodawg Рік тому +167

    It’s okay to be single. Build your confidence ladies through Christ ❤

  • @jadeadams1875
    @jadeadams1875 Рік тому +409

    I never saw her as crazy. I always saw her as hurt. I am so happy to just hear from her and to see she's healed. Just an amazing story and I hope it helped someone. ❤

    • @kerrymartin7557
      @kerrymartin7557 Рік тому +7

      She is WAY too good for him IMO. I think she is going to go on to bigger & better things.

    • @motlagomangmakoe4456
      @motlagomangmakoe4456 Рік тому +8

      Same but I feel like she's still in the pace of healing but she's gotten so much progress out of it

    • @freshdew4153
      @freshdew4153 Рік тому +13

      She’s ‘healing’ 🙏🏾…not healed. It can take years to find yourself again after being in such a relationship. She’ll have good days and bad.

    • @Dominique_ShoeAddict
      @Dominique_ShoeAddict Рік тому +5

      I definitely agree, She was mishandled by a man who felt he was entitled 🙏

    • @kirbykipling9515
      @kirbykipling9515 Рік тому

      Speaking truthfully, I did.

  • @kerene4528
    @kerene4528 Рік тому +553

    I’m so happy you gave this woman a voice to speak her truth. She’s showing a side that social media tried to drown. I hope she fully heals and GLOW up!

    • @thespot2035
      @thespot2035 Рік тому +7

      Drown?! No. All of God's internet knew that man is a caricature of a person,she was the delusional one and we now know she simply needed time for her eyes to open .If that's drowning then we thanks God for the sea !

    • @kobra4422
      @kobra4422 Рік тому +3

      People who were harassing this woman, causing her suicidal thoughts NEVER had in mind her well-being or well-being of other women. They are just haters who will justify themselves like the comment above me. Hate doesn't solve anything, she saved herself and didn't need all those "well meaning people" who had a comedy bc of her trauma.

    • @gogoldiego
      @gogoldiego Рік тому

      Amen💛😇🙏

  • @allthingshome6953
    @allthingshome6953 Рік тому +29

    It hurts me that this man took her down this road. I'm grateful that she has won. She has won herself. God bless her for sharing this.