Should My Partner Pay For Dates If He Earns Way More??? | TEA TALKS
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
- It’s common to hear of one party paying for things in a relationship. But if one party earns way less, do the financial responsibilities change? When, then, should we start talking about money in relationships…
In this episode we collaborated with MoneySense to explore the big question with our 3 guests. We discuss where the financial burden falls and if we resort to means of credit to keep up with the other person’s spending power.
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wew, the glossing over the other side where a lady who earns more and not wanting to pay more pretty explains the double standards men face.
No, she is explaining that she wouldn't even want a inferior man to begin with, since it is traditional that the women are inferior
@3:20 exactly the double standards. It felt fair to you to split equally because you were earning more as you graduated first. So your then partner who was earning less and yet has to split equally.
Yet subsequently when your then partner started earning more than you, all of a sudden it becomes unfair for you to pay an equal share.
Seems like you're the calculative one (in terms of paying) in the relationship.
@5:40 second example of a double standard. Males are expected to provide when earning 5-6x more. Yet when females are the one earning 5-6x more, the hemming and hawing starts.
Feminists are to blame for this mindset, when the war came to Ukarine, where were the feminists on the frontlines ? Where was the equality? Most likely fled to seek safety in another country. When all is good and well, all want equality and its perks,when shit happens you will know talk is cheap.
1:45 problem is there are people out there who exploit that, letting you pay first and ghosting you after, never having that second date where he/she pays next
What do they mean by ‘women can contribute in other ways besides financially like emotional support etc’? You mean a guy is incapable of doing so and more? Stop with all these nonsense ‘l’m a queen it should be your privilege to have me as a partner’ mindset.
A relationship is a partnership, take turns to foot the bill and stop being so calculative.
If someone needs to pay you for your time, you're, by definition, an escort. Men, if you have to pay for that woman to give you the time of day, just don't bother. She isn't worth your time and effort.
Yup, learn that after one girl refusing to pay. No difference from an escort by paying for their companionship
when i asked her, she said it's chinese custom. only then she started paying for some entertainment expenses. So i started asking her out less and then she complained.
When I were paying for most stuffs, she grumbled and complained that she's lost time and money from dating me.
It started 1st Jan 2024 and I am going to end it by 99th day and next year same time I can afford buying my own 2br condo. Pretty sure I wont be alone for long thereon.
It's an investment. It's not about paying all the time. It's about building something with someone and wanting to share what you have with them. The same way that as a woman, if I am really serious about a man, I need to be concerned with his needs and wants. I have mean who want sex after taking me out for coffee. What name do you have for those men?
@@gigilamoore2656 this is a first date thing. There's almost no way you would be concerned for your mans needs and wants for that point. Most men would be ok with paying for their partner but expecting on a first date is acting like an escort. Also, i would call those men trash.
So Nicole is finally attached! Happy for her, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel a little 💔...
No question, yes he should.
Men should not pay. Women wanted equality.. they need to pay for there own dinner 😊
14:42 it was going so well until she agreed that older generation has the same amount of exposure as the younger gen 🙃
2:04 so funny
sorry i just wanna know what chair is he using!? I interested to get one! 😄
This guy will be a wonderful husband. I hope he finds a lovely wife.
Very interesting insight on the current young generation 😳
not much of gender equality going on in the first part of the discussion eh? so when the girl earns more, she expects to go dutch
If a girl ask me out she should be the one paying..
Please. If you want to have conversations like this, have the decency to invite an equal mix of people from different genders. The guy is severely outnumbered here.
First date, guy paid for the meal I paid for coffee. 😆 in a relationship he will pay most of the time. After married he paid all the time.😂 hub is earning 5 figure so I do think he should be the one paying.
It is understandable if the men pays, since they generally earns more. But of course, the ladies should also be more accommodative in terms of physical intimacy since it is a mutually beneficial relationship.
Although some women do prefer more to be equal partners. Which is fine too!!!
Edit: For higher income women, then it becomes a bit weird since there is no such cultural tradition for Asians
If for dates also have to calculate, imagine later when married + kids
what about girl treat guy, then the guy say what you said?